MY HUSBAND SAYS HE WANTS A GIRLFRIEND ft Rahma Ali | EP 2

Kally and Hodo are back with s2 of answering the internets craziest dilemmas. This week we are joined by our lovely guest Rahma Ali where we try to get our heads round what went wrong when a husband confesses that he'd like to have an additional partner - save your thoughts for the comments section 😂
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[@aycharmz6630]

She said stated what she wanted and tbh she needs to leave. He’s selfish and he won’t change. How would she feel if he starts to have kids. He can’t leave the friend alone so he’ll continue to hurt his wife. She needs to bounce. We need to stop compromising with men who don’t care about our feelings

[@itsyass]

This can actually not run! Get out of there. Having multiple wives should’ve been a discussion before marriage. Why is it always up to type woman to have sabr and take the man’s crap?? Get divorced and move on sis. Alhamdulilah she found this out now, rather than years down the line when they have kids or what not

[@hallimamohamed6908]

Basically he is being blunt, he needs his girlfriend (who is already his girlfriend) to be public, he has been talking to her and the other woman maybe doesn’t want to his wife and is happy being his girlfriend. Maybe he married his wife to make his girlfriend jealous. Anyway the wife needs not to be wishy-washy she needs to go back her home and give him an ultimatum, she has had only been married for a very short time and has no kids yet- run if she wants peace. However if she wants to enter this commitment he is offering as the lady becoming his wife then stop complaining and attend the wedding 😂 I understand he is a man abut a man will only act upon what he is allowed to do. Being Miskin only prepares you to being a bystander to all his nonsense. And Kaltoon he definitely not Somali I agree as a Somali man you’d hear it in the streets and fight will include all your family demanding a divorce no wishy washy about it.

[@baebae5189]

well religiously if she says that she will not be ok with him having another wife before their marriage man cannot get a second wife, he literally cheated on his wife and being so selfish may got protect us from guys like this

[@hifzahanif]

There is no grey area ... If they belong to a desi/brown/asian family there is a posibility that bestfriend is frowned upon so the man first married to this anon n now convincing her to allow him a second wife, the best friend. Once the first woman is agreed the family wont make any fuss over it... Because regardless of her permission the man will continue with his romance an intimacy with his best friend. As Hodo and rahma said he is already cheating and the man also told that he.ll have as his girl friend and had already planned it before marrying her

[@shazniw]

1 . if she can't cope with a co wife...leave immediately...as there are no kids involved. His girlfriend seems to be ok with a co wife...so he should just marry her and if he wants more than one...then let him do it with the GF. They both have a choice. Though what he did is crappy.

[@sophiesumleen7872]

yeah

[@distorbia20]

Girls stop ignoring red flags. The wife should also take accountability for her part in this situation. She knew about that girl before and I am sure he was moving mad before marriage but she decided to ignore that get married and now he will go ahead sin behind her. If the wife doesn’t want a second wife then they both need to part ways. This is sad

[@bexixx]

I would tell him he can have her I would literally leave then not take him back ever again

[@hellothere4485]

Run from him, it'll only get worse.

[@oversharerspodcast]

WE AGREEEE 😭😭😭😭

[@oversharerspodcast]

WE AGREEE 😭😭😭😭

[@nuhazabreen8862]

Get out before he gives her a baby and then goes ahead and marries the other women , not even asking her opinion then because he know he has trapped her more 😑

[@Xohibaa]

I luvvv this sm!! Cant wait for more 🤍

[@siyu7052]

Loving this content rnnnnn ❤️❤️❤️

[@distorbia20]

Also sisters why do you leave your homes at the sign of an issue. You are not fixing anything just giving him space to do his messy business while you are looking like a fool at your parents home. He can go if he needs to. Chill at home sort it or make the decision to leave before children come into the equation. While they are trying figure out she is going to fall pregnant and make her decisions worse

[@hodhanhassan220]

Three hijabis MashaAllah may Allah bless u all

[@zahraabdullahi1601]

Sis, he cheated on you and has been lying from day one. No way to trust a word he says.

[@lynlifestyle2372]

Can’t wait for more of these 🥰❤️❤️

[@Rahmasvisualdiary]

Loved this sm 😂😂😂😂

[@oversharerspodcast]

Same!!! Thank you Rahma 💕

[@noumidia1d]

A man is allowed to have four wives IF the wife or wives are okay with it. If he still marries this woman without his first wives consent it is HARAM.

[@shafskitchen4490]

It’s not haram if the first wife does not consent. It’s better to keep things halal then commit zina.

[@Mvcccc137]

Guys I love your channel so much wallahi❤️❤️❤️

[@oversharerspodcast]

Omg thank you lovely 💕💕💕💕

[@pamelajohnson9810]

You three are beautiful ladies

[@aishahussain40]

I think he's spoken to the other women too about this and she nust have been okay or something as he married this girl first, as she was the ine not to tolerate this. For her sake just leave. This is just the beginning and later in life if she had a baby with him and the other girl who would he prioritise.

[@gretahoranlli3039]

Hi girls, really love your videos, great ides and funny to watch, i have only one critic please try to don't talk all at once, don't misunderstand me, it's just a little difficult for people like me that are not English-speaking. Thank you if you read this. Lot of hugs and love

[@oversharerspodcast]

No worries girl, sometimes we get a lil passionate 😅

[@gretahoranlli3039]

@@oversharerspodcast thnx 😅 lot of hugs

[@idontknowwhattosay4863]

❤️❤️❤️

[@bowenharry1255]

❤️

[@kaye436]

Please keep it to 2 of you! Could barely hear word between you 😮‍💨

[@aisha6410]

Am I the only one that chooses not to assume he was cheating, like it didn’t even come to my head 😂 a few years back I probably would think of it, but the point I am in my life right now, it didn’t even cross my mind.

[@faizaali5016]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@rahmaabdi9496]

Please my name is Rahma 😭😭

[@rehlaamran9957]

Hello rahma how are you doing it's me Rahal

[@yagamilight351]

saxib lacag ma heysa? You want another wife show me your bank account.

[@shiratnamatovu6619]

Just let him marry the second wife than committing zinah

[@lanaw7304]

He has haram affair with another woman that is haram in islam and is cheating , so he should marry her to not commit zina??? so what about those women who are married and have affair ?? shall we bring them another husband