MY HUSBAND LIED ABOUT HIS PAST | EP 27

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[@aosman7155]

Run if he ain't gonna change before you have kids with him

[@SS-od1en]

It seems to me that Allah SWT is showing her now (before living with him) what he's all about. I think that is huge. She's lucky that this is coming out now. It's not too late to make the decision to annul the Nikkah. In shaa Allah Khair

[@emydagaan2044]

I would advise her to 1. make sure not to have kids with him. 2. sit with him and tell him if he doesn't tell her everything she is going to leave him 3. Then put him on a probation period and during this period he should do whatever it will take to earn her trust

[@hibaqsunny9335]

I was similar situation the guy even told others the girl he slept with after I blocked him everywhere he also used to do clubbing and the way he used to act innocent around me is mind blowing. When you meet someone find out who they’re asap ask ur friends to find out for u as well it works

[@distorbia20]

I would say the past is the past if the person has repented, changed and is now practising. However this man is not changed at all. He is lying and still talking to other women. Sister cut your ties because kids come into the equation and you will deal with a man who does haram. He is probably still doing these things but hiding it or waiting to tie her down

[@rax0x]

Omg this story made me so mad. This man is a con artist!

[@zahra3849]

No frrr if this sister is watching, wallahi pls leave him he sounds absolutely horrible and deceitful

[@mohamudali4179]

😮 what a betrayal! You guys r the best keep going👏

[@oversharerspodcast]

Thank you 😊

[@ayanabdiwalisss]

so happy I am one of hodo and kally familyyy soo in love with these scenarios x

[@oversharerspodcast]

💗💗💗

[@zahraabdullahi1601]

Same. I love this channel. The best vibes!!

[@PositiveWomenTV]

Positive women and mindset.

[@aminatemakirun6215]

And I love the videos ❤️🥰

[@aminatemakirun6215]

I have a question, do y’all get emails from people that want advice, or is it just an internet thing.

[@oversharerspodcast]

Sometimes but mostly Reddit 😊

[@evelynlindon2838]

Can anyone clarify what the announcement you’ve mentioned is? Is this done prior to the nikah ceremony?

[@tahirajeanpierre]

To be honest we shouldn’t expose our past sins since it’s a major sin in islam, but this generation have a big thing about wanting to know the persons past it’s a bit of sticky one

[@oversharerspodcast]

Agree with this and however relevant, he shouldn’t have lied and he shouldn’t be continuing those sins within the confines of a marriage

[@bintihussein24]

@@oversharerspodcast I don’t think he lied he just didn’t tell her he has the right not to tell her. His past is in the past he asked Allah swt for forgiveness and he changed his life so why talk about something Allah forgave him for. The girl is really weird why is she trying to judge him by his past. If he did that to her it would be wrong.

[@Zainab-io6jn]

@@bintihussein24he lied, they mentioned it

[@idontknowwhattosay4863]

Yeah he shud have been honest we all have sins but your partner would appreciate u alot more if u said hey u know what in the past i made alot of mistakes im not that person anymore etc i want u to hear it from me etc

[@user-fg6uu2fu9x]

She's 21. She made no mistake. She didn't know and would not know at that age. As a society we need to do better. We keep telling our girls to marry and do it in the halal way. But then we have disgusting men who sleep around and once they are done they use the halal route to get a virgin woman. These men need accountability

[@yasminm1537]

In Islam you have right not to tell your spouse your past because it is between you and Allah.Allah, by His Mercy, has protected he and covered his sins, and he should keep to that cover and never reveal it, neither to his family nor to anyone else. In the Quran, Allah mentioned the people He loves most, and among them are those who repent.

[@unkiy8528]

Yes but it's also better for the marriage to be honest and lay trust as the foundation of the relationship. At the end of the day he lied to her and also he's still texting other girls on snapchat as a married man! So he's still lying.

[@nm5369]

Yes I completely agree with this, however he’s still talking to his ex and has girls on Snapchat and he gets defensive about them it’s haram to be talking to the opposite gender unless absolutely necessary

[@bintihussein24]

I agree with you because if he did tell her everything she would be hurt. So to avoid the pain just leave it alone. If something isn’t happening at the moment than leave it be.

[@chorrogaye1070]

I feel like I’m going through something similarly but we ain’t married (yet)

[@alhanoufm5968]

Well don't! Don't get married!

[@hibaqsunny9335]

Run

[@OrangeMilkBlossom]

Make istikhara and LEAVE. - remember istikhara isn't about getting a sign, it's about asking Allaah to grant you the best in whatever decision you make, granted some people do get signs. -

[@oversharerspodcast]

May Allah make it easy for you whatever the result 💗

[@distorbia20]

Alhamdulilah you ain’t married just cut your ties now for the sake of Allah because you are invested and with kids

[@kadra2016]

Why is Halima aden calling herself kaltun ? justs jk great topics girls :)

[@LeslieAli01]

Wow wallahi some men are trash 🗑. Honesty is the best policy. Creating a relationship based on a lie is the worst. Biggest red flag 🚩. Sit him down with the families, come to a resolution. Because this will get worse. Either he tries to make it work or goes your separate ways. Also don’t have children with him because that’s how they will try to trap you. If he’s getting defensive, then he’s not ready to leave his single life.

[@zahraabdullahi1601]

I think it's possible to stay married if their communication improves. She needs to be calmer when he tells her things that happened before they met. And he needs to start telling the whole truth.

[@mbxo__5936]

She should run quick. Also, with the alcoholism, I wonder if the marriage is valid while he’s been drinking since that takes you out of Islam for 40 days. If it’s this bad at the beginning it’s only going to get worse. Divorce now is better for her future! He wouldn’t make a good father to her kids anyway

[@ssksm8919]

If he repented , he repented . We don’t know anything. We r not in a position to make a judgement if he is or isn’t a good person

[@lanaw7304]

​@@ssksm8919he is still talking to women!!!

[@swalihahmirza5677]

Don’t be this innocent to get into arrange marriage in this era, lesson learned.

[@SenaitSM]

SOUNDS LIKE MY EX