I can relate with your story. My fiance had earlier pursued me for years but I never gave him a chance because I felt he was too nice and I thought I wasn't physically attracted to him. I later realized that the reason I didn't like his "too nice" personality was because I had a warped perception of love and didn't love myself or know how I deserved to be loved, and therefore liked to fall for the "bad guys"🤦♀️. Fast forward to 2018, I fell in love with myself, my fiance pursued me again and finally my eyes began to open to appreciate the way he treated me and physical attraction followed as well. I strongly believe/agree that if we discover our values and give ourselves the opportunity to discover them in another person, physical attraction will most likely follow. P.S: My fiance is actually handsome and 8 inches taller than I am so sometimes, the case doesn't always involve a person who doesn't even fit our physical ideas of "spec", just wrong thinking. Thank God for His word and the power it has to renew our minds 🙌.
@adaobidigbo24724 жыл бұрын
Lovely!
@lilianoshibe39264 жыл бұрын
Nice
@cindyopeyemi4 жыл бұрын
My lovely people😍😍😍😍 Same thing happened to me. Thank God I was yielded to the Holy Spirit. However, I did not say 'Yes' until I had accepted all of who my husband was/is, even though God told me He was my husband. Best decision of my life. I had 10 things on my list, he din't meet one of it and after marriage, I discovered over 30 beautiful things added to my list. God wrapped all in one man for me. Thank God I did not miss out in this life nitori 'spec'😂😂😂 We were 9 years this past July. All glory to the Most High God🙌🙌🙌
@aderonkeomoba83254 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful...God bless you ma'am!
@chidinmaonuoha61353 жыл бұрын
This is my testimony! 10 years after and I'm still happy with God's choice for me.
@akinpelurofiat2 жыл бұрын
One year late again but I can relate absolutely with this. The man I married wasn't my initial spec but marrying him was the best decision I made today. It will be our first year anniversary on Monday 🥰🥰🤭🤭🤭❤️
@ayopetv4 жыл бұрын
Word word word 💯💯 This was so much fun to watch and the gems, hmmm opor por por😁😁
@eunicedaniels2774 жыл бұрын
How can you not like this two?????? I love this my fave couple of all time
@joulesakello55784 жыл бұрын
You dont know what you have done to me and how much you have helped me . I was going to breakup with avery awesome guy only because he shorter than iam but Pastor PG spoke to my soul and spirit. Thank you , God increase you both my love to baby Soso 😍
@marinaiyeme-eteng43444 жыл бұрын
This conversation really resonates with me. First time I met hubby, I wasn't physically attracted to him at all. I just wanted a friend, but i was attracted to his mind and how he stimulated me mentally. I woke up one day and realized that he had become the most handsome man alive. The mental attraction had now grown to include physical attraction. I agree with your husband, there must be a form of attraction.
@boluwatifeigbasan2314 жыл бұрын
My story exactly
@lindasspace68944 жыл бұрын
My desire was exactly like yours but when I met my hubby he was not my spec but I liked his person too.He wasnt that tall but he is 1000yards husband material so I stayed.we are 31/2 years in it n counting
@opeyemiabibat4 жыл бұрын
Solution mama your KZbin has actually motivated me to start mine,will be posting my first video tomorrow
@kalunkechi67564 жыл бұрын
Love the honesty PG . A lot of men aren’t honest about their insecurities
@NanaEkua5934 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with my friend. I am a very tall lady. He on the other hand is short. Very short. Guess what???only my friends could see his height. His personality is so beautiful. He is an anointed Pastor. I dont mind marrying a shorter man.
@euniceamafosuaaaddae94254 жыл бұрын
It's your choice dear😍. I'm glad you followed your heart😙
@thegiftedeseosa4 жыл бұрын
Mama and PG.God bless you both Amen. I am married to a visually impaired man that i love really love. what settled it for me is that the things that are seen are temporal the unseen are eternal(person)
@momomamabaebae4 жыл бұрын
So beautiful. God bless you both.
@thegiftedeseosa4 жыл бұрын
@@momomamabaebae Amen.
@Gloradiant4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 💕💕💕
@officialmko_4 жыл бұрын
Mama and pastor GB, I admire the friendship that exists between you two. I admire the fact that pastor G could share a one time vulnerable part of him, not all African men will do this, it's not a sign of weakness that you shared this but a sign of strength that you admitted it, and grew past it. May your relationship continually be a testimony to many.
@idarapeter4 жыл бұрын
It wasn't an insecurity issue in my case, I wasn't just attracted to him, my ex fiance was everything, God fearing, tongue talking, demon chasing lol I mean he loved me to bits! He is a good man. So I thought maybe time would happen, we dated for 3years and i can say now, because I'm in a good place that it was a struggle for me, at a time I found myself attracted to his friend, which was dangerous for us both, because it informed how I treated him. I wasn't happy, I found myself comparing him and wishing he was this and that..I only found great PEACE after I called off the engagement ..someone would ask if this person is all you mentioned what is the problem? I still ask myself up till now. But I'm rest assured knowing that, every good and perfect gift comes from God..I don't have the answers yet but I got my peace back!
@valeriecate92354 жыл бұрын
I really really understand this
@gracechristos4 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Not every good man is for you.
@africanprincessrams4 жыл бұрын
I am older than my fiance by 3 years but then i would have never thought i could date someone younger than me because of the insecurity that i am fat, stronger so i needed my type of guy to be the same as me or a bit bigger than me. One day we will get married because we are building future together we have kids together
@JesusMyIshi3 жыл бұрын
Her husband was so vulnerable. This is so beautiful 😭😭😭
@Dupesvlog4 жыл бұрын
In a nutshell, wahala for who focuses only on superficial things. God bless the Gbemiga-Adejumos
@ellamedupin4 жыл бұрын
I think physical attraction is important. I just don't think it should be set in stone like you said
@jewelsandpearlsladies4 жыл бұрын
Solutions Mama!!!! Well, my story is funny because my husband's spec was slim slim. I have never been slim! He kept teasing me till we got married. Then, he began to give thanks for the extra flesh! In his own words 'thank God, I didn't marry a slim person'. God knows what is good for us, spec or not. Let's be led by the HolySpirit.
@omogenaija14 жыл бұрын
The honesty from PG, not surprised considering he was raised by awesome parents.
@janesygray47764 жыл бұрын
I have a similar story; I always wanted a tall guy so I could tiptoe to kiss him. Actually dated a tall muscular guy and tiptoed for 3years and at the end I knew there was more to a relationship than tiptoeing. When I started dating my fiance I was sure of what I really wanted, my head was no longer in the clouds and he ticks all the boxes. We are getting married in May.... PS I don't tiptoe, who tiptoe epp?
@IamtheRoyalDiadem4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 Congrats gurl..God above All.Tip toe no de help oo
@JowahMartha4 жыл бұрын
Tip toed for 3yrs😂😂😂
@thespot20354 жыл бұрын
Hahaha ! I love your story,I want to be your friend, it's awesome to know that discernment is real,thank you for sharing
@janesygray47764 жыл бұрын
@@thespot2035 thanks
@anneajayi52324 жыл бұрын
Wow I love your story girllll...thank God you stopped tiptoeing oooo😂😂😂
@princessdamiii65854 жыл бұрын
Notification geng 💃💃... PG is here without further ado let's jump right into it
@kizitoemmanuel67034 жыл бұрын
I wonder what Damilola and Emmanuella Mike Bamiloye would say to this topic. I love you guys
@ajombadisidikatadedamola84144 жыл бұрын
What’s this one nah😂😒
@iyanuademola50694 жыл бұрын
Lol
@olufunmiblessing4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Ogooluwakinntan4 жыл бұрын
As in enhhh.....u just said my mind
@graceatane34724 жыл бұрын
God bless you PG and Tolulope. This is so so needed, God really had to work on me in this area because it is something I have carried in my heart for a long time ( I don’t like short guys at all🤣) but thank God who showed me that a dude can be 6ft in the physical but a dwarf in the spirit and that just struck me and helped me understand that I should not drown myself in the physical.
@treasure72784 жыл бұрын
This is deep!
@navyblue9154 жыл бұрын
@@treasure7278 So deep!
@navyblue9154 жыл бұрын
"A man can be 6ft in the physical, but a dwarf in the spirit." Yoooooooo THIS!!!!!
@LullabyDreamland244 жыл бұрын
That's very true like my story I feel like everyone I dated was based on my thinking and fleshly mind. But meeting my husband i learnt that our youth thinking is very dangerous and am grateful i meet my husband because he is everything I never thought of but has fulfil my heart and I feel so much loved
@IamtheRoyalDiadem4 жыл бұрын
In life you will meet more attractive people than your spouse that’s more reason you need to fall in love with ONE’s person more than just physical attributes👏👏👏
@dr.sunshineee4 жыл бұрын
this video has me thinking; why is my spec my spec? hmm
@HappinessBoms14 жыл бұрын
This question is deep o
@SerenaEyituoyo4 жыл бұрын
Awwww, that tiptoe thing is mine too oo and God actually gave more than just tipteo😃like very tall, chocolate & well built🤗 God gave me more than my expectaions..Thank you my fave couple I love love you guys...
@diasporaladyTV3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree! I always say, if we all decide to marry the picture in our heads, trust me we’d all be probably married to the wrong persons or not even married at all. I am quite tall and have always wanted a taller guy just so he can complement me. Trust me, all the relationships I have had my entire life even marriage, I have always been taller🙈🤣
@folakemiawosoga3 жыл бұрын
Awwww. I'm happy for you, supporting you too
@asaahprecious074 жыл бұрын
When I say Wisdom you say PG Thank you Tolulope for bringing PG to bless us with this beautiful perspective i felt like he was talking to me My spec has always been about feeling a void in my insecurities,but today i learnt and p.s your channel has helped me learn to build a relationship with God I’m still on the journey 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@dusumansaray83604 жыл бұрын
Oh wow I love you both so much and I just told my husband about you guys because he is home as I got the notification for the video,to be honest my husband was not my spec,and he told me I was not his too,but we fall in love with our personalities and have our attraction and trust me our marriage is blissful,it's not all about SPEC because our spec can show us pepper are times,thank you guys for sharing with us..I love your marriage
@janeal65104 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in this video. One thing that struck me is the fact that our idea of our spec is usually born out of fantasies, vain/shallow ideas and insecurities which is why it should never be grounds for choosing a partner. Thank you mama solutions and PG.
@aderonkeomoba83254 жыл бұрын
Yes sis, u right!
@Gloradiant4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@HannahSimire4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this shed such a bright light on my thoughts...especially looking for qualities that we think will fill our inadequacies/insecurities, wow! So deep! Help us lord
@deborahakintunde73514 жыл бұрын
Your husband is so correct.. in fact, this entire video is the truth, I always thought of an ideal partner as a taller slim guy mainly because I’m not really tall myself and my body type is plus sized but growth has taught me that it’s all in my head and that if I have a problem with size as it concerns my future partner, I better work on myself instead of building vague expectations. Thank you both for confirming that.
@lolakeji69904 жыл бұрын
Hmm this may just be the reason why some ladies are single. Walking around with a typo!! God will help us all.. Mama solutions 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@kehindeikugbonmire16672 жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with everything you guys said, attraction does not have to be all physical but i believe there has to be physical attraction too.. PHYSICAL attraction specifically is also important.. there are a whole lot of factors that work together to make a beautiful relationship.. physical attraction is not the most important but it has to be present.. you have to be happy to look at your spouse and enjoy their beauty, you have to like what you see
@omothefavoured3 жыл бұрын
I feel true love doesn't really have a spec(face) when you see,something connects and it's instant and of course you LL sense the peace .
@wanjala89924 жыл бұрын
Kenya 🇰🇪 gang! You have spoken straight to my heart, as a single lady, my spec has been a guy taller than I am and I don’t know why I have that spec, I need to look inwards
@africanprincessrams4 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine this topic is like it is directed to me specifically. Before i dated my boyfriend i always said i wanted a giant gy, tall and muscular because i am a medium to plus size woman i always wanted someone who is much more than i am to complement my insecurities. I wear size 8 or 9 on shoes so i always wanted someone who maybe wears 10 or even 12 a real giant guy but God works in a mysterious way. God gave me a short tiny guy who is even younger in age than i am and this guy loves me so much that now the age, the shoe size , the height and muscles do not matter a thing. I am able to submit to him because of how much respect and love he gives me. This topic i am taking it personal. You really inspired me.
@somtosacademy.4 жыл бұрын
Well said, they are actually many tall dark and handsome crazy men everywhere, the best is to allow the spirit to lead you
@akporpatience8474 жыл бұрын
Thank you PG and Solutions, This has been my struggle in my Relationship, the guy I’m currently dating is not my spec at all, but there’s something about him that I can’t let go. Our motives for wanting what we want should always be checked, No wonder God judges our intent/motive Welldone 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Solutions this video means a whole lot to me
@abisolastephen-olorunsusi4 жыл бұрын
Dealing with and fixing Insecurity can never be overemphasized. Thank you Solutions Mama and PG.
@HappinessBoms14 жыл бұрын
When you fall in Love with One's (true) person it goes beyond the physical attraction👌👌
@JEO3019834 жыл бұрын
Soap that will make his face bleach🤣🤣🤣 Fantastic Discussion Guys. There should at least be *A Form of attraction* 👌🏼
@adwoagyabaah94284 жыл бұрын
Timely conversation especially for our ”picture perfect ” generation. Come to think of it, most of these ”binding concepts” of specs resonates with these set-out boxes society has painted in our minds over time of what ”looks good”. The public display of the ”perfect couple” in media shows us a tall handsome man, so we are all running around looking for ”tall handsome men”😂. Rightfully said, IT IS TIME TO ASSESS OUR SPECS! Btw, like below if you are with someone who ”did not (past tense) fit your specs” or you know of a couple who didn't fit each other’s specs ( let's do this survey once and for all 😂)
@Omadelly4 жыл бұрын
The Holy Spirit is so timely. My friend had this conversation with me yesterday regarding who she wants to settle with and we both agreed to pray and trust the leading of the Holy spirit, now this Thank You Jesus Love you guyss ❤❤❤
@zeleomoike69704 жыл бұрын
I love how Tolulope is passionately talking about this.😍😍
@bridget.b24864 жыл бұрын
To be honest, as a young lady coming up i really needed this. Thank you Solution
@Deliberate_growth4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for emphasizing that ATTRACTION is important or it will be easy to get tired
@Zephyrsplace3 жыл бұрын
I love this imagine getting the mental attraction in someone 12 years older. The wahala is how to build the physical attraction with the age 🤦♀️
@ogeirenediary66934 жыл бұрын
Sometimes to be honest i think people should go for their spec, it might not be 100% but atleast u should see 60/70% of wat you will want for ur spec. Its also true that ur desires/spec can change while u are in that relationship/marriage. Like in my own case for instance, i have liked/attracted to light skin guys but my dear i have never dated a light skin guy in my entire life. My hubby is dark skinned and he has some other things that gets me attracted to a guy which are not physical and we are both happy with each other.
@didiash4 жыл бұрын
Same here😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I have never dated light or brown. I have been around like dark dark Sudanese type😅😅😅😅lawd help meee jisous
@zipnjoki80183 жыл бұрын
Your husband is so wise. You're blessed. Love from kenya 🇰🇪
@rahabwambui83983 жыл бұрын
From Kenya too and loving her content
@NYC_butterfly4 жыл бұрын
Omg Tolu, I just got to 3:40 and PG is speaking fire! It just made me realize that’s my reason for wanting a tall person! I’ve always felt like I was too big. I’m about 5’7/8 and chubby. Thank youuuu for this post! Let me finish watching 🤣🙈
@tabithaonubeji78284 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this topic, God bless you. I must say I have a bit of challenge/struggle with this "attraction" thing. However, the 'beyond the physical looks, first be attracted to his person' struck me. Thanks so much🤗
@graceabiodun53084 жыл бұрын
I was also like the tall,dark and handsome person.buh at the age of 18 when I met my fiance I never noticed him or pay attention to him because he was very huge,so I was like this is not for me buh his character was everything I wanted,so I went for counseling in church,talked to my mum about it and the key points in every advise I got from everybody was that physic change and that am not going to be slim forever,even after I was told all that I was still fighting with my spirit,so anytime I go visit him and am going back home,I will tell him to wait for me to go forward first and follow me behind so that people won't see us together 😁😂,fast forward to 2years later we are now engaged having our intro this year and am the mama now and he as been working on his body looking so cute with his height and we so much compliment each other physically and am so in love with him physically and in every aspect.
@spotlightmediatv4 жыл бұрын
Wow at age 18🙄 That's fast💪
@thespot20354 жыл бұрын
This conversation is a literal eye-opener and life-saver because the same type of thinking informs other relationships like friendships too! If we base judgement on the first impression,we always get disappointed because typically what we see doesn't always match the inner heart.
@talktodammy38074 жыл бұрын
There has to be a way to love this video twice.. thank you PG and solution for sharing. You guys are the realest❤️❤️❤️
@lydiamagbadelo29154 жыл бұрын
Attraction actually grows with time. when you fall in love with a person's person, they will always be something to be attracted to .
@oyinkansolaadefehinti50484 жыл бұрын
Hi Tolu, I was not attracted to my husband at first because of his acne, cos at the time i was dealing with mine but i fell in love with his personality and i looked way pass it.
@kreativesteph4 жыл бұрын
I once got attracted to someone's spirituality when he was obviously not my spec and I think it affected my connection with him physically
@Maryalabi752 жыл бұрын
“Hmm there must be a form of attraction” Good point 👍
@FayoSanwo4 жыл бұрын
Attraction is important, but their character (person) is importanter🙌🙌 Thanks for this video
@kassiespages47274 жыл бұрын
Wow! Pg is such a secure man! "Better come with your 5inches" . the wisdom you people have ehhhh. Thank you so much for sharing. God bless you guys.
@patriciaadekoya95124 жыл бұрын
Omoooo, I'm just 3 minutes 39 seconds into this video and I'm already getting some deep things. PG is blessed with the wisdom of God🙌🏾 I love you both💜💜
@Highly_Favoured994 жыл бұрын
Wooow,I didn't anticipate in vain🙏. Although I'm not married I initially had an impression of having a happy ever after with a much taller guy who is mascular with a broad chest. After getting into a relationship with one,I realised that in as much as how my opinions matter,he was always working out just to keep me happy but in the end,his body took my place in his life. I realised after watching one of your videos where you said we shouldn't rush God with the time we want to marry. I learnt from there and today that,my perfect attraction is what God has in mind for me. Thanks for being a blessing mama Tolu❤️
@hembafanachiligh29284 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 Guilty me. The thought of tiptoeing to kiss fascinates me. 🙈🤣🤣
@billionairejumzietopbabe33044 жыл бұрын
Honestly 🤣🤣🤦🤦
@daphnieozioma4 жыл бұрын
Ya neck wee pain you.
@hembafanachiligh29284 жыл бұрын
@Daphnie, I'll just manage it like that😆. Just that I don't have to manage, same height with my man.
@irawooluwadare24744 жыл бұрын
How can I 'triple like' this video??!💕💕♥️
@mercyperez74274 жыл бұрын
Knowing your channel is not A mistake at all. Am really blessed More Grace
@ujereabigail26284 жыл бұрын
Am telling you,
@marvellouscouple4 жыл бұрын
Honestly
@ikeoluwatobi214 жыл бұрын
The blushings got me smiling all through at the same time thanks for sharing this wisdom with us mama😘
@comfortudofia14573 жыл бұрын
The spec thing is always in the head , feelings and choices are valid however It’s always more about the person tbh + the way this life is set up ehn , “The person “ most times never really meets all our standards or spec based on our child hood fantasy .
@ifelolorunamanda3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@olufuntoesther90164 жыл бұрын
He his a man of wisdom indeed. God bless u two
@SallyKVlogs4 жыл бұрын
My take home: Attraction ain't based on physicality. However, attraction is key Thanks sir and ma
@waitingroomwithabbasbabygi40534 жыл бұрын
PG is wise His words are full of wisdom.
@seun-ajayichristiana64573 жыл бұрын
If you are a true child of God,you easily fall in love with the personality and not the physical features. My husband said one of his course mates at uni was very curvy and beautiful and guys were jamming heads over her. A year after she got married,hubby saw her and all the curves had disappeared. My husband wasn't also my original spec but I was already born again and all I wanted was God's perfect will. Almost ten years now and am falling in love with him each day.
@TheBellasurHosts4 жыл бұрын
Wow... I just love both of you mehn🤗🤗... When you fall in love with 'the person' nothing else will really matter with the outward appearance. My husband who is the love of my life was not 'the specs'... but 18years later, I'm glad I ditched the specs thing fast!
@bisolaayodele79634 жыл бұрын
It's a different energy when you and PG does video together... Thanks for shading light
@fadojubeatrice33784 жыл бұрын
🏃🏃🏃.. Me everytime I see PG face on the thumbnail.. I no say "wisdom ma kpoo ke"... 💜💜💜 Edited: Mama Solution I love you too oh 💜💜*winks
@toyosiadedigba48804 жыл бұрын
PG! Man of wisdom, please don't leave us o. The first few minutes was so enlightening. Well done, guys. ❤
@MyKukusTv4 жыл бұрын
Tolulope's face when PG said my wife is beautiful and my spec.
@adeyemopraise53144 жыл бұрын
Who also missed the Bloopers? God bless you both
@joyugbome3 жыл бұрын
For me there has to be some form of physical attraction. Not necessarily tall dark and handsome. The man I'm dating now and hoping to marry was also not my spec. He wasnt tall enough. Lol. But! I dont know if this is weird but I'm physically attracted to his muscles. I mean, how can you have sex with someone that dont cause you to salivate when they walk past you? My opinion.
@evwja83963 жыл бұрын
Eww, is the person food🙄
@joyugbome3 жыл бұрын
@@evwja8396 hahahaha yes please
@momomamabaebae4 жыл бұрын
Chai. I love you guys. PG is loaded. No woman will see PG and not look twice o. Tolulope Solutions, you are blessed and graced. Love you both
@ProvidenceFred4 жыл бұрын
Seriously I love this video. I learnt alot that is not about fantasy and what we want. It's about falling in love with someone who will bring out God's purpose and visions.
@kassiespages47274 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship earlier this year. We started over the phone and I believe I was attracted to him mentally and not that I was expecting too much physically but wen we finally met and in the months that ensued, I realized I felt nothing for him. He did nothing wrong but I really don't know why I lost feelings. I couldn't even say I love you 2months after we started dating. It sounded so weird. I prayed earnestly about wat to do bcus he was crazy about me seemingly. I kept feeling the urge to end things and I did politely. He stopped talking to me after that.
@doyinsolazulaiheart11454 жыл бұрын
Hmmm
@DiamondAbbie3 жыл бұрын
You didn't see his pictures while you guys dated in absentia? Like you had no idea what he looked like?
@kassiespages47273 жыл бұрын
Well I did see pictures and he wasn't my spec tbh, but I wanted to look beyond his physique.
@Paula_ado4 жыл бұрын
It is the no dey whine me for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Mehn I love you guys 😂😂📌
@BukolaRY_TV4 жыл бұрын
Just here to listen to PG. His full of wisdom. IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE that have your 100% SPEC, you go wait forever ooooo. The most important is, does he FEAR GOD, His/her relationship with God and family, what DRIVES HIM/HER (Your purpose in life), is he/her educated and what is his/her 2-5 years goals. EXTRA: HOW DO YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH?
@romolaladipo62584 жыл бұрын
Why do i just feel ds video is for me? Truly the inner mind matters, looks fade away. Well done my people 🙌 More Grace. 🙏
@rena_eo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this So many big girls struggle to find someone who will complement their physique
@jumokebabatope4 жыл бұрын
You see why I love my favourite people🔥🔥... Amazing video, pastor gbemiga thanks for coming ☺🙌... thank you Solutions for sharing this video. Amazing!!
@priscillaokunlola42874 жыл бұрын
The height table has been chattered completely..🥴🥴😂
@boluwatifeimoleoluwa4994 жыл бұрын
Wow wow wow this is so accurate you are really a Solution to the world ma and a blessing🙏🏼😍 PG is wisdom in person both of you are just great 🥰 i feel so blessed tonight like you blessed my heart with this topic and I learnt alot. thank you so much ma mommy solution and Daddy PG More grace to your elbow 🙏🏼
@ViodenOletviona4 жыл бұрын
When Papa comes you know it will be very very very interesting and fun. God bless you both more knowledge.
@amameke92904 жыл бұрын
Like everytime I see you both....I always smile because you both are a perfect example of marriage made in heaven....more years of marital bliss..love you both ..🥰😅
@ngozidibia72784 жыл бұрын
Well said. Attraction is important but, character & values in a person should also be considered when choosing a partner.
@adeyinkasanni44884 жыл бұрын
What I love about this God's ordained couple is their ",Openness".... can't love you less darling..🙏❤
@justinaadjubi-darko96804 жыл бұрын
God bless you couples. I had same issue, i was looking for a tall, fair and big eyes men because i am dark and short i thought that will match well. But as Solutions said we should not walk in the flesh and we should work on our insecurities. I am married and not to my spec but i am happy too.
@realesthomegirl34103 жыл бұрын
I had a spec too before getting married, I am married to a wonderful man, who isn't my initial spec but he loves me and he is a good man....that's what matters, physical attraction is still key tho.
@tracyodudu49994 жыл бұрын
Hello, am so happy I watched this video because am tall I never give short people a chance,but my present relationship am a little taller than him but I love him for him thanks so much for giving us personal experience,love you both❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@daberechifrancis47984 жыл бұрын
That was the issue I had before getting married too. I'm a little taller, I really fought with that. But the love didn't allow me let go. I was looking for an opportunity, even when we have misunderstanding, mehn I saw myself loving this guy more. I was even surprised at myself. But I'm happily married now.
@oluwatosinayomide15094 жыл бұрын
Ohhh my.....thank you solutions mama and PG for this video,really the person I am in a relationship with it not my spec in terms of been handsome,you know all the handsome handsome geng thing........but what I see in him is beyond his looks,what he carries his more than the looks and that brought so much attraction and love for me...so I agree when you said it takes just beyond physical attraction,physical attraction should just be a bonus,the tip of the iceberg
@Dupesvlog4 жыл бұрын
The last part 🔥🔥. Choose ye this day. It's a matter of choice.