MY INFERTILITY JOURNEY (PCOS) | RESULTING in TRIPLETS and 4 KIDS UNDER 2

Cara shares her infertility journey.
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Many wouldn't think this at first, but we actually suffered from infertility for entire year. Cara always dreamed about being a mom, and when she didn't get pregnant after a year she broke down thinking we weren't meant to have children. This is our infertility journey and what we ended doing for treatments in order to have kids. Cara was diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome). Many believe you have to do IVF to have triplets. Cara explains what the problem was and what ultimately blessed us with the beautiful family we have today.
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[@tammygreatz4032]

I was 16 when I was diagnosed with PCOS , I was devastated. Now I’m a mum of 6 . Bless you all ❤️

[@originalblessed]

Awesome!!

[@jahnaedeezy5446]

Tammy Greatz amen 💗

[@natashaw401]

Wow fudge congrats 6 kids sorry u also have pcos

[@lauracw_24]

100th like ❣️❣️❣️

[@seemabzafar1957]

Tell me what i do am also have pcos and no baby . Am so depressed

[@cynthiatroutman2968]

I was in a dark place when dealing with infertility. We tried for years and I never thought we’d be able to afford IVF so I cried every day. My depression kicked in harder than ever and I had severe anxiety. I am so grateful our insurance ended up covering part of IVF and it worked on our first try. We now have 10 month old twins and I’ve never been happier. If you’re reading this and in that dark place, please don’t give up. It will happen for you! ❤️

[@TheChatwins]

🙏🏼❤️❤️

[@1029elizabetho]

Thank you for this ❤️ from someone who is really struggling at the moment this gave me so much hope

[@samanthajanagarza7476]

I recommend ivf in Mexico at ingenes monterry it’s way more affordable and a beautiful place to be helped at

[@graceliya7519]

Amen...Amen.. God is working for me too

[@mutesiretisha6112]

Amen ooo🙏🙏🙏

[@Ngobigdeal]

My husband and I tried to get pregnant for 13 years and it never happened for us. BUT We have four adopted children! Ages 3,4,5 and 10. I know Heavenly Father blessed me with the children that were meant for me.

[@sophielauren7199]

River Raine Congratulations. I’m so glad you were able to grow your precious family! 😁

[@nobody-og5tl]

WOW 13 YEARS? and congratulations

[@marijamataic4614]

God bless u, so beautiful 😍

[@originalblessed]

Amazing!!

[@natashaw401]

Adoption is just as great giving kids a family and home

[@aliyahvidal9684]

This isn't something I personally went through but my mother and father were newly married and my mother was 7 months pregnant. She lost the baby 2 months later. A month later my mother was diagnosed with a rare form of infertility (I never knew exactly what it was) my mother started treatments and shortly after my father was diagnosed with cancer and had to undergo chemotherapy which would make it so he couldnt have anymore kids. My mother lost hope but she kept trying and I'm forever grateful for that. During my father's chemo my mother found out she was pregnant with me...plus my brothers😁 it was her second ultrasound they discovered that I was accompanied by my twin brothers as well. My mother carried us for 2 months and then I lost one of my brothers. Shortly after my other brother passed as well. When all hope was almost lost I was born. I weighed 1 pound 3 ounces and was in the ICU for 2 months. Now I'm 13 years old and healthy! You guys are such an inspiration! Love you!❤

[@sophielauren7199]

Aliyah Vidal your story was inspirational as well. I’m so glad she was able to carry you long enough to live. It sounds like you are quite a fighter yourself! Never lose that drive! 😁

[@TheChatwins]

Aliyah Vidal Wow! So so so happy your mama has you! You are SPECIAL! ♥️

[@aliyahvidal9684]

@@TheChatwins omg, you guys responded! Thank you and I promised myself that I would always have the drive and determination of my mother❤

[@aliyahvidal9684]

@@sophielauren7199 Thank you sm❤ I'm so truly thankful for my mother, and I let her know everyday.

[@aliyahvidal9684]

@@saruhhhh omg, thank you sm!❤

[@christinaakman7791]

This truly gives me hope my little sister has PCOS and if anyone deserves to have a baby it's her she's not only my sister but she's my best friend

[@jennyralte2061]

I'm struggling with PCOS too

[@NicoleMarieDelmo]

My husband and I were struggling with infertility for almost 4 years. We were both on Clomid and then I took Letrazole and went through 4 failed IUI’s and felt like giving up. We took a 4 month break before discussing IVF and I ended up getting pregnant naturally. Im 9 weeks and still feel like I’m living in a dream 🖤

[@TheChatwins]

Nicole Marie Wow that’s amazing!

[@maysilva431]

Waooo..This is your time...right time for your baby

[@sophielauren7199]

Congratulations!! I’m so glad your dreams are coming true! After all you’ve been through, I’m so glad God has blessed you with your pregnancy! I’m praying for you, and wish you all the best!! 😁

[@emilyhayden272]

So happy for you!! Congratulations!

[@luluwonderland1571]

Congratulations lovely!!♥️

[@samanthab19]

After suffering pcos it took me and my other half ten years to conceive our little miracle with no medical intervention everything perfect comes to those who wait ❤ x

[@BossLadeeTee-LilJeremyJ]

Amen 🙏

[@crystalsmith-johnson901]

My 7 year old daughter Kaelyn and I love watching your family. She’s my miracle baby. I wasn’t supposed to have children and I got pregnant with her by surprise 💗 on her 3rd birthday I found out I had brain cancer, had a 13 hour surgery to remove it and 6 months later I found out it returned and was triple the size of the first one. Went in for my second surgery which was 17 hours and came out of that paralyzed from my waist down. I’m so thankful for my miracle baby because I definitely can’t have anymore children now. Thank you for sharing your infertility journey with us 💗

[@jenniferdavis7524]

Crystal Smith-Johnson sounds like you are very strong! Your daughter has a great role model ❤️

[@TheChatwins]

Such a strong Mama! Your daughter is lucky to have you ♥️♥️♥️

[@crystalsmith-johnson901]

Thank you so much for the kind words! 💜

[@AshBella686]

Wow. You are a very strong woman. Your daughter is so blessed to have such a strong and courageous woman to look up too. Sending you prayers and hugs your way. God bless you.

[@meganloveslife8570]

Your a very strong woman! Im sorry for what you had to go through:(

[@mefford67]

*Born with a heart defect and couldn’t carry a pregnancy past the first trimester. Married for OVER 11 years when I unexpectedly became pregnant! By this time I had had 3 heart procedures and was honestly at peace about not becoming a mother... So, of course I had the easiest pregnancy and delivery. I was also blessed with the best baby ever!* 😘

[@karlarenteria2034]

I also suffer from PCOS! It’s always a constant struggle, but I know God will bless me with a baby at the right time ❤️

[@jennyralte2061]

Same here it's been five years I'm struggling to concieve

[@emilytemples4801]

Try clomid I’ve seen a lot of good reviews for ppl with pcos I get mine tomorrow talk to your gyno for information

[@BonnVoyageTravels]

@@emilytemples4801 how has clomid gone for you? X

[@kari6570]

Clomid cycle one didn't work. I ve read that letrazole works better for pcos. Dr. Rx me clomid. Hopefully I can get him to rx letrazole

[@Bananas-hx3xp]

Just in the case the comments get shut off...I just want to say that the quality of your videos is insane. They're such a good mixture of baby swoon, family time, chatting/opening up and goofing around. Not to mention Darik's piano playing and Gemma's eating segments. The effort you must put into them does not go unnoticed 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻💓💓💓💓

[@hannahlnicklay3396]

Elisa Collings yes I agree 1000000000000%

[@godzdaughterh1180]

My Thoughts😍 exactly Sister.... Hugs &Love to you and your family from Wisconsin USA 🤗😍🙇‍♀️😘

[@brittanybean6139]

Agreed!

[@musicmimi289]

Love watching your channel! Y’all are such a blessing to everyone...seeing how much you love each other...and how you parent your precious children with which God has gifted you! HE always has a plan for our good...in HIS good and perfect timing!!🥰❣️

[@tita3483]

The Chatwins are seriously my favorite family channel. I don't get why they don't have more subs. ❤

[@heatherd.9390]

They've grown incredibly fast actually. They had close to 100K subs within the first 15 videos, or something like that. Now they are at 472K in just 5 months!!! There are a few channels I've been watching for a year or two who have just reached 100K recently. You are SO right though, they are a wonderful channel and will be at the 1M mark before we know it! :)

[@rileymonika854]

Me too

[@shannanb9683]

God sure did choose the right parents for triplets..

[@ofeliaforever7246]

Yes, but also twins run in they're family

[@cmp91731]

Ofelia forever but also ovulation pills can cause you to have 1-3 babies

[@Sophie367_]

All babies cute but Gemma is absolutely adorably smart❤️

[@susansollee1839]

@@cmp91731 p pop

[@cassandraja7753]

@@ofeliaforever7246 Yeah but they got triplets bc fertility medicine.

[@carisaewell8552]

I am a mom of 9 kids that were all conceived with the help of progesterone shots and clomid or letrozole. Infertility is a hard journey. I remember feeling like it was going to take forever to get pregnant. It took me 2 years to get pregnant with my first child on clomid. My next pregnancy was a set of twins, surprisingly my only set. My kids span 19 years. I was pregnant with my last one when my oldest got married. Yeah, I live in Utah. They are my greatest work and my greatest joy!!!!!! Thanks for sharing your journey with us!

[@MissStrawberryUk]

We've been trying for 7 years. After years of crying and saving money for ivf i'm 31 weeks pregnant! I always wanted to be a mum ❤️

[@TheChatwins]

MissStrawberryUk YAY! So happy for you! ♥️

[@lokeshwariramachandran4492]

So happy for you both

[@bxbrexo]

gosh i want to have a daughter like gemma one day, she is the sweetest, cutest and most animated little girl i’ve ever seen !! love your family and the positivity you guys spread 💓

[@lillylove261]

I think it's pretty rude to ask a couple why they haven't had a baby yet and when will they. Because you never know if there is infertility problems. Some friends of mine struggled with infertility for years, something I didn't know, not that it was any of my business, but the husband talked to me about it a few years ago. It was a very sad story. Luckily, they had their miracle baby this past October.

[@martharuiz1305]

Cormia Marie. I agree with you, people around me is the same way, I have strangled with infertility issues for 12 years and people always ask why you don’t have babies yet? You can’t have babies? That is so rude and make me feel like I’m no good enough.

[@alyssahightower8043]

Cara is so brave and inspirational. Talking about your postpartum body, which is a tough subject for some moms, opening up about her adoption and now her infertility experience is just amazing! Love your Chanel can’t wait for you to hit 1 million one day!🥰🤩

[@TheChatwins]

Alyssa Hightower Thank you ♥️

[@glzrockify]

How amazing, I have PCOS and had 4 children under 2 as well. My son was 14 months old when the triplets were born. To make it even more amazing is that I was already pregnant when I had 2 embryos inserted. Took me 2 1/2 years of an agonizing journey and I ended up getting pregnant naturally anyway.

[@kimarnette9318]

Hi from Colorado. Great story time. I also was diagnosed with PCOS. After 14 years of marriage, we finally got pregnant. Unfortunately, our Elizabeth was born too early and did not survive. I knew that God wanted me to try again. My Alicia is now 20 years old. We were blessed with a son also. Cade is almost 18 now. God is good.

[@TheChatwins]

kim arnette WOW! So happy you got your miracle baby. How special is she ♥️

[@emmaswan2506]

I must tell you, I have just had surgery and been in bed recovering. Your videos truly ease my pain, make me smile, and get through this tough part right now. May God always smile upon you and your family. Not all superheroes wear capes.

[@sophielauren7199]

Emma Swan I’ll be praying for you for a quick recovery! Keep on watching the Chatwins! They will keep you positive. 😁

[@hiddengem27]

I suffer from PCOS! Trying to get pregnant was a nightmare. I'm so lucky to have a healthy boy now who is almost 7! Love hearing your stories!

[@princessqueen4605]

How did you get pregnant?

[@anitajames960]

@@princessqueen4605 easy

[@theveefit]

Y’all are the most chill, beautiful, down to earth family on YT. God blessed you and us. 💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@anaa.n23]

Struggling with infertility is my biggest fear :/ cara is such a strong human being ❤️😭 my biggest inspiration

[@elizabethsturtridge5585]

7:18 is when the infertility journey part starts! ☺️

[@atdepaulis]

Thanks!

[@breebrown9233]

Thank you!

[@aishaadan88]

Thank you.

[@ladygrey8707]

Who are the five pieces of trash that clicked dislike on this video??? Lol

[@TheChatwins]

You made it go down to 4 😅🙌

[@georgiamiller3793]

They were just upside down liking it 🌸😂

[@watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691]

Lol pieces of trash

[@geminirisingearthmama288]

catherine 11 exactly.. why would anyone click dislike on this video. Must just be trolls

[@susanabderhalden9212]

Another ass thumbed down. Miserable people.

[@TragedyTaylor96]

I LOVE listening to you two talk about your babies and how you guys just light up! you’re amazing for going through what you did! I felt horrible because I had a friend who has been trying for a year or two and I got pregnant on birth control.. I also go pregnant 6 months after my brother and his fiancé had a miscarriage. it was so hard on me and I didn’t know how I got so lucky but I’m sooooo blessed every single day for my little miracle and I always say when god is willing he will! he stirred his hand in my little life pot and blessed me w/ the most amazing daughter. thank you guys for being so open about your lives! I know it isn’t easy and you two are amazing parents! seeing how happy your little miracles are just shows how amazing you’re doing no matter how rough it can be!!! I love you guys and the amazing Chatfam you’ve built! 💙💓💓💓💓💙

[@TheChatwins]

Taylor Kruse ♥️♥️♥️

[@KelseyBarnardMusic]

Such a beautiful family! Y’all’s editing/video quality is also seriously impressive.

[@bestfriends4everxox]

Kelsey Barnard Music I agree the editing is amazing ❤️😊

[@kyraannfranklin8772]

I suffer from PCOS and endometriosis. It took us 7 years to conceive again. Due to my husband being in the army, we were not eligible for fertility treatments because he was never home for a solid year to fully try. I continued to pray and pray and Easter 2017 I prayed so hard for a baby and God blessed us with one. God is greater than doctors and knows the perfect time for everything. Your family is so sweet and amazing and my miracle baby girl loves watching Gemma and the triplets!

[@TheChatwins]

Kyra Ann Franklin Oh I love that! So happy for you ♥️

[@patcarter4505]

The Chatwins because

[@stephanieosterkamp2126]

Thank you for sharing more details of your infertility journey. I too suffer from PCOS. Diagnosed 30 years ago when I was 16. 1st child took 2 years. 2nd took 6 years on and off of treatments. The journey is hard. PCOS is hard. Prayers to all of you who are going through either PCOS or infertility! 🙏🏼 Have a great week Chatfam!

[@Moregloryy]

Ugh! I love you guys ♥️ Thank you for sharing this! I have such a similar story, I too, was diagnosed with pcos after a year of trying and it was so heart wrenching month after month seeing those negative pregnancy tests. I would just cry and pray- repeat. Everyone kept asking when we would have babies, and I agree, it’s like a dagger to the heart. I remained hopeful and just kept the mindset of... if it’s in God’s plan for my life, then it will happen in his timing, not mine. Now, after 17 straight months of trying, we are pregnant! I would say for anyone in a similar situation, never give up on the desire of your heart, it’s there for a reason.

[@TheChatwins]

Vanessa Persenaire ♥️

[@momofg3409]

Thanks for sharing your story. We went through the situation where we would get pregnant, but then miscarry. I had 2 miscarriages and I became very angry and depressed. I didnt want to be around any pregnant people. I couldnt figure out why we were being punished. Why others were getting pregnant so easily or "accidental". Broke my heart. We then had our oldest, who turned 15 yesterday!! Then we had 2 more miscarriages. I thought we were done, I couldnt go through another miscarriage. Then here came our now 12 year old. Then our 11 year old! All 3 boys! ❤ Thanks for sharing your lives with us! 😊❤❣

[@TheChatwins]

MOM of G3 That’s amazing! Love when trials end in happiness ♥️

[@sophielauren7199]

MOM of G3 I’m so happy you were able to grow your precious family! Look how rewarded you are now. Your story is also an inspiration for other people. 😁

[@momofg3409]

@@sophielauren7199 THANK YOU! ❤

[@delaneypdkearns]

Your story is EXTREMELY similar to my mom’s personal journey! She had 2 miscarriages before me, then took an ovulation pill and had me!😊

[@simple_naildesigns]

Delaney awe so sweet!

[@XxLovelyLaurenxX]

My fiancé and I have been trying to conceive naturally. Just last year I was diagnosed with PCOS, and let me say it has been a struggle. Just like you I really just want to be a mom, but the doctors have said I’ll have to take a pill or do IVF. Reading these comments brings me some peace that I’m not alone in this fertility journey and so has this video. Keep up the great work with the content.

[@janedavidson8348]

Love following you Chatwins. I have pcos but with medication instantly fell pregnant with my first child and went on to have another 2. I’m now blessed with 3 beautiful teenagers.

[@sammiedwyer8664]

These babies are the luckiest , with a beautiful, strong mom and a strong, supportive dad

[@MichelleBurr]

I have been PRAYING for her to share this journey! I’m going through it with my husband right now. I literally cry every single night and ask God why... Thank you Cara!!

[@jenniferdavis7524]

Michelle Burr I’ll send a prayer 🙏 your way!

[@MichelleBurr]

Jennifer David Thank you so much! I just did my first round of Letrozole, fingers crossed!

[@jenniferdavis7524]

Michelle Burr ❤️😘❤️

[@raellandlife770]

Praying for your miracle

[@leejane9688]

Fingers crossed 🤞 👶 ♥️

[@camcyr9108]

gemma is so smart!! knowing left and right at such a young age!!

[@addisonhenney4423]

Too cute ♥️😂

[@kristinhenson8995]

It took me 6 years and the very moment I accepted that I was infertile, I got pregnant...My daughter is the air I breathe and has a beautiful heart...She's such an answered prayer...All of your children are absolutely precious and I love watching your family grow!

[@crystalchristensen7997]

I know the struggle and pain of infertility I’ve been trying for 15 years. I’ve just done my first round of IVF finally saved enough to do it and hopefully one of my two embryos takes! I’ve wanted a baby for so long. A second round isn’t possible as it’s so expensive so I’m praying to god everyday that this works! Thank you so much for sharing your story!❤️

[@tinytoma25]

Thank you guy's so much for making this video!!! Hubby and I suffered with infertility for over 6 years. We know exactly what it's like to go through it. It's horrible. Each month when I would get my menstrual cycle I would bawl my eyes out because I wasn't pregnant 😭 It was so horrible. Both hubby and I got tested to see what could be the issue and sadly hubby has low morphology and low motility. Doctors said we had little chance to getting pregnant naturally. We ended up doing a number of IUI's with no luck and then we did 2 IVF rounds with the first one sadly ending in a miscarriage. Fortunately though with the 2nd IVF round, it took well and I'm glad to announce that we were finally blessed with our baby who was born this past November and he is just our world!!!! We are so over the moon with him. We love him so very much!!!! 😍💖🤗🙏👶🏻

[@user-bk3ws1kh1s]

When he ate Gemma's lollipop that fell on the ground 😅😂❤ LOVE YOU ALL! The babies are growing up and getting even cuter each day! God bless ❤

[@abby-vq1xv]

Thank you for opening up to us guys I know this must of been so hard the ChatFam loves you guys!!! 😘❤️

[@brandicorbin1747]

I had issues getting pregnant. I felt so defeated at times. I finally got pregnant years down the road with my son. Best thing in the world. Then later on i couldnt get pregnant again. Which broke my heart and my son always wanted a brother or sister. To find out i had endometriosis and i had to have a hysterectomy at the age of 25. But im very greatful i had my son, he's my world. I know how you felt cara and im soo happy for you

[@sandiemom8888]

This video had me in such tears. I had the opposite problem. I was getting pregnant with the blink of an eye and it made me feel so bad for my friends who could not. I remember trying to hide my pregnancies as not to hurt my friends. Everytime I got pregnant I prayed so hard for my friends to get pregnant too. I wanted to share my joy but it was more important for me to respect what my friends were going through. I'm so happy God blessed you with so many children. You guys are a great tag team. And I cant get enough of your sweet Gemma. The way she runs and eats. She is such a sweetheart, and your triplets, such beautiful children...Much love!

[@nishamaria3302]

I get so excited when the intro to gemma's eating time comes on

[@jenniferdavis7524]

Nish Z me too! I know when the Gemma sign comes we are destined for some serious laughs!😂

[@emilyjoan2844]

I hope they make merch with the Gemma intro on it!

[@sophielauren7199]

I know right! Who ever would have thought, that as a grown adult, we’d look forward to watching this special toddler chow down every video?! Lol LOVE me some Gemma 😁

[@GlynisMarthinussen.]

Cara and Darik please find out who that one person is who clicks unlike immediately after you posting. Within a second that rude person is clicking unlike.... can’t you block that person as negativity is not needed in your lives. Gosh first watch the video before unliking it... Between my sister has Polycystic Ovaries as well

[@sophiee9492]

Glynis Marthinussen yes they have no idea how nice the Chatwins are

[@GlynisMarthinussen.]

Sophie Pylman You’ll find that it’s the same amount of instant dislikes.... I’m pretty sure it’s someone haters of their past.... who is stalking and hating

[@countdowntovan8663]

People like the video without watching, what's the difference with unlikes? I highly dount the chatwins are phased by either.

[@GlynisMarthinussen.]

CountdownToVan The difference is you know it’s going to be good because their videos are always light hearted, fun and real. Also judging by the caption of the video who will dislike someone else going through fertility problems? That’s a bit harsh and intense. I say block the people

[@terrywilliams8172]

Whoever is disliking them, it’s their loss. We win every time they post. I love the CHATFAM.

[@piscea0229]

I completely relate to having past “infertility problems”. My partner and I tried for 2 1/2 years and I also was diagnosed with PCOS after 1 year of trying. I took Metformin which helped me get pregnant with my first (my son). I am in my mid thirties now & I was blessed with 3 beautiful children, unfortunately one of them ended up being stillborn. God has a plan & I was like you and wanted children more than anything. I feel truly lucky to say that I have a boy & a girl who are my world! Love you guys 💜

[@desireedoubleyou]

Metformin? How did a medication for diabetes help you get pregnant? Just curious!

[@piscea0229]

Desiree Doubleyou metformin is a medication that makes the body more sensitive to insulin. Metformin was originally developed to treat type 2 diabetes, however it is now commonly prescribed for women that have PCOS. It can help lower elevated blood glucose levels, insulin levels, and androgen levels. This in turn can help to make a women ovulate by regulating all of this.

[@desireedoubleyou]

@@piscea0229 VERY interesting! Thanks so much for explaining!! ❤

[@piscea0229]

Desiree Doubleyou your welcome!!

[@stephanielauderlukas1508]

Omg! This is me right now 😭 infertility when you’re DYING to be a mom is the most emotionally hardest thing I’ve gone through.

[@PCMcheerEmily]

Thank you for sharing your story! I have seen another KZbin struggle with infertility and she is pregnant and about to have a baby. So glad that KZbin is a place where these things can be shared to bring awareness too!

[@marinae1495]

Yes, I agree!❤

[@lettychristine]

16:14 the way Darik looks at cara 🥰😍. He’s like I LOVE THISSS WOMAN

[@dianeburdey3887]

You're so real, and so down to earth! So full of beauty and truth and honesty. ❤ All the reasons why we follow your family! ❤

[@kallistachavez]

diane burdey 💗💗

[@gabygaby7863]

Agree👍🏼😊

[@luluwonderland1571]

Wrens smile is everything!!😊 Thank you for sharing your infertility journey. I went through the same with my hubby. 4 very long years in and out of hospital for scans and medication to help ovulate etc. Multiple surgeries which included an ectopic pregnancy. I was devastated but we finally have our beautiful 2 year old boy Grayson! He’s our special boy and truly thankful to have him. Adore you ChatFam! Have a magical day! X

[@funnelbuns44]

That's a beautiful name.💙

[@TheChatwins]

Love that! So happy for you ♥️

[@luluwonderland1571]

lisa santorelli Thank you so much! His full name is Grayson winter wolfe♥️

[@luluwonderland1571]

The Chatwins 🥰😘

[@hollylittleton7157]

So happy you shared this! We tried for 7 years before we lost our 10th in a still birth. But, but, but, we had move states and found a Dr that not only helped us he diagnosed me not only with PCOS but an incompetent cervix. I didn't have to take and fertility drugs but when we got pregnant with our daughter I needed a cerclage which is a stitch to hold the cervix closed. She was impatient and born 7 and 1/2 weeks early ,but is now almost 17 and getting ready for her Sr year of high school. WOW! time flies! We have a son too also with a cerclage, he will be 15 in July. God is Great! Just rest in him and know you are held He has the answers. Much love to all !

[@theunknown2746]

Love you all what a wonderful family...I waited 17 years for my wonderful daughter,miracles do happen doctors are not always right. My daughter is almost 15 and she truely is a gift,she is the most kind, thoughtful and loving person you would ever hope to meet. Love from UK.

[@b-1226]

You guys are literally family goals

[@elizabethw5750]

Wait Gemma is under 2??? She’s so smart!! My son is 2 in April and he’s nowhere near her level in terms of language.

[@TheChatwins]

Elizabeth W no when we had the triplets it was 4 kids under 2. She turned 2 in November. ♥️

[@anonamoose2229]

My daughter Liliana turned two in October and still doesn't talk like Gems yet. She has just been referred for speech therapy so I'm hopeful this extra support will make a huge difference. x

[@elizabethw5750]

The Chatwins ahh ok! That makes me feel better haha!

[@elizabethw5750]

Anonamoose my son started speech therapy in November (he was 19 months). It has helped tremendously in my opinion. He still isn’t speaking the way Gemma is, but all of the sudden, seemingly out of nowhere, he is reciting the alphabet, numbers 1-5, and he loves “reading” books. We also play a lot of educational music while he’s playing and he learns a lot from that too.

[@hayleymarse2853]

Elizabeth W that’s exactly how my brother was

[@ariannapiatt3207]

18:00 Darik: “We love you, Bonnie. I love your French toast, but my abs don’t.” 😂😂😂💛💕

[@AshBella686]

This made me laugh too! He is so hilarious!

[@MariaaLz96]

Ashley Bellamy right 😂 he is so like serious and saying de funniest things

[@mhagar444]

I have PCOS and I’m struggling. Thank you for sharing your story, it takes a lot of bravery. I can see the pain in your eyes while you told your story. I remember balling when I got my diagnosis, just like you I believe I was put on this earth to be a mom. I’m so happy that your dream came true! Your family gives me hope!! ❤️

[@cassierockefeller4051]

All of your children are such blessings. I struggled for 2 years to get pregnant and it was the most depressing time in my life. My father-in law died unexpectedly in a car accident and the day of his funeral we found out we we pregnant. Everything happens for a reason and now I have the most amazing daughter 😍. Thank you so much for sharing your story 😊.

[@TheChatwins]

Cassie Rockefeller ♥️♥️♥️

[@romalp12]

Btw i do notice that you guys put soo much effort into thinking and editing ur intro and its just so commendable considering you have other more important responsibilities. Really appreciate it!

[@jordanneb295]

Great vlog Chatfam! Thank you so much for sharing your infertility journey. I've really enjoyed getting to know more about Cara. I too was diagnosed with pcos. We now have 2 IVF babies and even 1 surprise baby and feel so blessed. ♡♡♡

[@sophielauren7199]

Jordanne B I’m so glad you’ve been blessed with your family! Your story is also an inspiration for others. Enjoy your precious family! 😁

[@MonsterrLaura27]

We’re a year and a half in to our marriage and I just got diagnosed with PCOS. We had a miscarriage in our first 6 months of marriage, it was devastating. I had 2 of my cousins and his brothers girl all had due dates within two months of me, and I was the 1 in 4. Now I’m on a new diet and taking supplements for the PCOS, and I’ve been looking into other treatments, but I’m trying really hard to be positive about it! Also, we live in Layton Utah :) thanks for this video!

[@MonsterrLaura27]

I have the insulin resistance kind of PCOS, which makes weight loss a problem, i think that’s how I got pregnant the first time. I was about 20 lbs lighter. I hated the pregnancy questions too :/

[@TheChatwins]

Sending baby dust your way!!!! ✨

[@sophielauren7199]

monsterrlaura I will be praying for you! Try to stay positive! Sending you love and hugs! 😁

[@shaelarae2101]

my mom had 5 miscarriages before she had a full hysterectomy. it was really hard for her so she went to see a psychic who said she would have 2 kids. of course, my mom was confused bc she literally COULDNT have kids😂 a little while later she got a call from a family friend asking if my parents were interested in adopting a little boy in 9 months and my mom said yes!! and 6 months later she got another call asking if she would like to adopt that little boys cousin as well!! my mom was blessed with 2 babies (my brother & me) within 1 year!!! so cool to hear your adoption and infertility story, because everyone’s in different and unique. so glad both of our families got what they prayed for!!

[@lyndalikeslace567]

It took me 4 years on IVF to fall pregnant with my son, & another 2 years on IVF to have my daughter. It was such a roller coaster ride of emotions, but there was no way I was giving up. My kids are now 19 & 15. I don’t regret having had to work so hard to have them in my life. I understand what you went through & I’m glad you blessed with all these healthy babies.

[@arielalena]

cara thank you for sharing your story !! 🙌🏼😍i'm so happy for you two that you have such a beautiful family now!!

[@cathymcmullen2265]

Can I just say what a beautiful family you are. I seriously enjoy all your videos. The babies are beyond cute and your little Gemma is absolutely adorable and such a character... good parenting right there.

[@Morenita95]

Listening to your guys struggle, gives me so much hope. I pray to be able to afford to go to a fertility specialist soon. Thank you for sharing your guys story!

[@TheChatwins]

Kathya T Ours had a special deal for people with out insurance or if your insurance didn’t cover it that made it so much more affordable. I’d call around and check if any of them offer something life that! ♥️

[@kitteekittee4010]

Godbless you

[@Morenita95]

Thank you for taking the time to respond back to me , God bless your beautiful family!!! Cant wait to see all 4 of your beautiful babies grow! And I will look into the different options!

[@sophielauren7199]

Kathya T I will be praying for you! Stay positive and keep praying! 😁

[@korinnefraser5304]

I feel you with infertility, it took me 7 years to get 2 babies and omg each month it’s a massive kick in the guts. Omg and my husband got so many of those phone calls too. My first baby was natural pregnancy and my 2nd was a fertility baby and that took every thing out of me. Although I think Avery was sent to me from my niece as she was diagnosed with brain cancer and they would never meet and we did the transfer on her birthday and she was so excited when I told her I was pregnant and it happened on her birthday. I also have PCOS, in fertility is no joke, thank you for speaking about it more people need to know about infertility x

[@veronicar914]

That was really nice of you to incorporate the winner 🙌🏻💕 My dr told me I was going to have trouble conceiving as well but now I have one & you just have to have faith and believe in God & it’s timing. When you least expect it is when your prayers are heard.

[@flyyyerrrr]

Thank you so much for this video. It’s opened my eyes to being sensitive to infertility. I am currently 8months pregnant, going through a hard time with accepting my pregnancy because the father of my child doesn’t want to be with me. I’ve always wanted to be a mother myself, but never did I imagine having a broken family, which kills me.. 💔 Chatwins, you’ve helped me realize that I should be thankful for this baby. And I will be the best version of myself and mother I can to the little guy. ❤️

[@haleyjarrett4591]

I think God was trying to prepare both of your hearts in the waiting of that one year. And just when you thought you weren’t going to have any babies, He blessed you with 4!! How awesome. Y’all are so sweet and such good parents! Love you guys.

[@anoushkamenon3040]

The moment when Gemma kissed Royal and he smiled!!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@gabrielacingel729]

anoushka menon how old is Gemma ?

[@anoushkamenon3040]

@@gabrielacingel729 she turned two in November!

[@gabrielacingel729]

anoushka menon oh !! 😍🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼

[@bridgettdiaz3550]

Blessing to you and your family! Please pray my family is as blessed as yours. AT age 40 After TR surgery, clomid 3 cycles, HSG (blocked tubes), HSG Recanalization, chemical pregnancy, clomid AGAIN (currently cd8) now I’m 41 and on my TWW 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 so hard it’s this month we get that ultimate blessing. July hubby 45 bday, baby would be due my 42 bday month. That’s my ultimate goal! We’re so ready for them healthy strong babies🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@oliviao9779]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am 18 and was diagnosed with PCOS about a year ago. Its always amazing to see ladies with PCOS with a bunch of beautiful babies. Sooo happy for you guys😊❤️

[@demetriacarter3620]

As a kid I was obsessed with babies too! I used to tell everyone I was going to adopt 25 kids because "every child deserves a good home".....Mind you I was like 4 years old. We are one in the same Cara, much love from AZ ❤️💕❤️💕🌵

[@icmimim111]

Thank you for sharing your story. My fear since I was a girl had always been not being able to get pregnant. I have been married for a year and have not been able to get pregnant. Every time we get asked when the babies are coming I feel so bad bc I feel guilty. I was feeling so discouraged until I watch this. Thank you I really needed to watch this. Love your family ❤️

[@happiest.northwest]

Hi guys!!! ❤️ I love your story. I have a good friend who is going through PCOS and infertility. It's been 4 years and nothing yet. It is hard to watch her struggle to be a mom. Thank you for telling your story!!

[@carolehanrahan]

There is something so wonderful about a big muscular man just turning to mush over his little ones. It is so obvious the love that both of you have for all of your children. I am so glad that found a solution to your infertility. You were meant to have a big family.

[@matthewmock7458]

Years ago my best friend had issues getting pregnant. She lost two babies before God blessed her with twins. Then my husband and I got pregnant. We waited until my friend made it to her first trimester before telling her. I was so afraid to tell her because I knew I would feel guilty if something happened. Praise the Lord, we both have healthy kids. They are all now 13 and so close. I’m so happy for your family. And truly can relate to your story because of my friend’s situation. We never know what others are dealing with, but God has a wonderful plan. Love being part of the Chatfam! 😁 Jen Mock

[@sandrapolson2624]

Thank you so much for sharing your story! You have such a beautiful family! I have PCOS too. Unfortunately, treatments gave no result. I did a couple ivf rounds with my eggs - still nothing. At the time I had the 3rd round I was 37. I decided not to waste more time and turn to donor eggs option. The hardest part I think was finding a clinic. I decided to go abroad as the procedure is very long and complicated here in UK. I spent hours on different pages with lists of reproductive clinics. I contacted 3 or 4 Ukrainian clinics. Eventually, I chose the one with higher rates. Also, I liked the communication. I hate it when clinics respond like they are robots or smth. My first meeting was a couple of weeks ago. All needed medical tests are done! My Dr gave me a treatment plan. So now I'm following the instructions and get ready for the transfer! I'm so nervous and excited at the same time! There will be 5 embryo transfers. The clinic returns money in case of failure... But I hope at least one will work! Wish me luck!

[@angelaowens5655]

My husband and I have been trying for 2 years and had 2 failed IUIs last year. We just did our IVF transfer last week and watching this makes me hopeful for the future. Y’all are absolute goals! I can’t wait to have 4 babies 😂

[@nunupon1359]

Update

[@alyssachen6556]

I love how you’re so vulnerable with us!!❤️

[@_ariiluv]

I was diagnosed officially today and i can’t help but to feel so broken... Watching this gave me so much hope ❤️

[@starlasexton6194]

Me and my husband have been suffering from infertility for over 8 years now. Thanks for sharing your story. Your family is beautiful & you're very blessed!

[@TheChatwins]

Starla Sexton ♥️♥️♥️

[@christy4]

That is amazing 😭 this gives me hope because I've been scared that I may have the same condition. But I'm leaving it all to God He is in control 🙌🏾

[@lorraineravaux7930]

Thank you so much for this video! It gave a new round of hope. My husband and I are going through infertility issues even though we have had 2 kids (8 yo boy and 5 yo girl) and I got pregnant right away for both. We have been trying to get pregnant now for 2 years and 3 months (yeah I am counting months) and it is heart shattering every time we fail. I feel like doctors are not very concerned because we already have kids, but it seems so unfair to us. I am seeing a new doctor and I really hope that he will be able to help us. And people’s worst comment « but you are lucky to have 2 beautiful healthy kids at home already» yeah I know I a lucky but I still want another baby!!! I love you family, keep doing what you’re doing. You are all awesome!! Spread the love ❤️ Chatfam all the way from PARIS, France.

[@royalmandonacarolinemukend5697]

Gemma is soo intelligent 😍😍😍. You're blessed! I already see the triplets having an awesome role model. 4 amazing intelligent beautiful baby's

[@cortneycynefin8009]

My husband and I have been TTC for a year. We actually have an appointment with a fertility clinic tomorrow morning. When I see the few people who know, they look right at my belly when they ask how I am. HEART BREAKING. THANK YOU for sharing your journey.

[@meresincere5682]

Thank you for sharing your story! Cara is so sweet. My problem was my thyroid. Once I was on the right dosage after seeing an endocrinologist and 3 miscarriages later and 3 yrs later we had our miracle baby. Now I'm pregnant with baby 2:) I hope people learn to be sensitive to those struggling. U never know their journey

[@kierrahall1945]

Cara is a role model for me she is such a strong beautiful woman I had no idea she had infertility problems because she is tremendously strong and I pray that I never have to go through that God blessed this family with four beautiful children who just bring so much joy to everyone and I wish every family was like this one because this is what a true family is so strong and caring and I hope I am as good of a mom in the future just like Cara and I hope this family never stops KZbin because this family brings so much joy and helps so many people it helps me a lot because my family is not like this my family is a mess and when I watch your videos I laugh I feel true happiness as long as I'm watching these videos this family makes me feel so accepted and loved even though my own family don't you guys are the best

[@TheChatwins]

Kierra Hall ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@nasazimi3857]

I’ve been thorough this and believe me that was such a nightmare, 3 years and every day was worse than yesterday but after all those terrible days I was blessed with my amazing baby boys, I’m a mum now but I can never ever forget what I’ve been through and how hard was it to become a mum, I’ve just found your channel and this video honestly touched my heart, You have such a cute family God bless you all❤️

[@meganloveslife8570]

The babies are just mini look alikes of Gemma! I love watching ALL of your videos:)!! I suffer from infertility too with PCOS and had to take Clomid to conceive without resulting in miscarriage.

[@sophielauren7199]

Megan Loves Life it sounds like your journey had a positive ending too! So glad you were able to grow your family!! 😁

[@meganloveslife8570]

@@sophielauren7199 thank you so much I only wish the best for you!

[@tracey5893]

I understand your journey absolutely and had Pcos. I've had ivf with our 1st baby girl, clomid with our 2nd (4 years later) and then stunned to have a natural conception in 13 months after our 2nd precious girl. Of course, as you say, and show, all these precious babies are so treasured and are such gifts. They are now adults, the most amazing daughter's a mum could ever be blessed with. I spent way more time and mon ey on them than maybe parents who would get pregnant at a look? I invested so much extra love and gratitude and thankfulness because of my infertility. My heart goes out to all of you who are struggling to get pregnant. Baby dust please work for you

[@TheChatwins]

Tracey sometimes ♥️♥️♥️

[@Michelle-fz4px]

This is so beautiful.. my sister got married and struggled with infertility for 6 years in her marriage and boyyyy did she try the most things.. eventually when God blessed her, it was the most beautiful thing ever.. Our miracle baby's name is "Rejoice" and she's so pretty. God is awesome

[@missyest3797]

Thank you for sharing your experience with us❤️ Since I have memory I have always wanted to be a mom, but a few years ago I was diagnosed with endometriosis and not being able to have children is something that worries me. This video somehow calmed me down and gave me hope. I'm 19 years old, and I hope that when I think that I'm ready to have kids, I can have them. I love you guys, a big hug from Mexico 💖

[@TaylorsStorybook]

I love you guys so much!! Gemma is so cute and adorable. Never stop posting and creating videos.

[@lesleypaisano8722]

I think it’s so dope that you guys are so in tune with your babies that you can in-depth describe their personalities 💗💙💗

[@laineynewlands70]

I’m not surprised your comments have carried on cos you are such a lovely family with the most beautiful children ever. I love how you are so honest about everything. I don’t believe anyone who watches you would ever have been able to even “guess” what you have been through. You truly are an amazing, awesome family xxx

[@whoohoo7]

Gemma is so advanced because you guys have spent time with her and have taught her well...Kudos to you guys!!!