“MY INTUITION TOLD ME TO BREAK UP WITH HER” EP. 90

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Ep. 90) “MY INTUITION TOLD ME TO BREAK UP WITH HER” (EP. 90)
We see just as you all do that it has been a lot of breakups going on. Breakups between friends close to us and even some very notable celebrities as well. This raised the question, “when is the right time to break up with someone and when is the right time to work through it?” Something important that Omar said in this episode for everyone even those just seeking relationship, “is where I’m at right now, where I’m going to be forever?”
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Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance

[@bonjouritsabi]

Jalen is a good facilitator of discussion and the right questions

[@clueless204]

And there was a lot between those lines to read. He's very good at respectfully, containing certain things.

[@DHenny]

This is by far my favorite male podcast it’s so refreshing they are fair , smart and have great topics

[@Missjessicabenn]

Totally agree, favorite male podcast 🔥

[@Christimony222]

Jalen is a leader. I loved when he said “that’s not the God we serve”. Heavyyyyy on that knowing !! It’s so important for a man to have God as his North Star and not be led by ego or anything else.

[@jacorian_duffield]

“Nah that’s not the God we serve irrevocable no never ” 😂😂I love it 🙏🏾

[@shantellesteele]

“Single people’s problems are relationships people tea”… this is so true! My Husband and I do this all the time 😂

[@AngelaElikya]

😂😂😂

[@tonettemoales9519]

Jeannie admitted to having anger issues. That was most likely his deal breaker.

[@AngelaElikya]

How would you know?

[@silverliningtings]

Listening to your intuition is so important!! Especially in intimate relationships!

[@MercadezMichelle]

The only intro I never skip 😂

[@realhaleynicole]

Miguel and Nazanin got me😭😭😭😭

[@starttheconvopod]

This is great conversation. I love that these dudes talk straight up and not in generalities. Solid. Plus they’re in serious, long-term relationships and talking about their own experiences not anyone else’s.

[@anniesanders3139]

It is so refreshing to see young men with this mindset and views from different aspects 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤

[@sparkwill5337]

Jalon you betta PREACH!!!! The separation perspective is 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@anyakturner]

when y’all dance to the song in the beginning it’s so cute i can’t

[@marybutidk]

Great episode yall! ❤

[@findingarmon]

AMAZING Vid, Incredible conversation. Well done once fellas.

[@andreaboyd2156]

Love these guys and these conversations

[@ceo.antoinique]

I love this podcast!

[@ContehPerformance]

Really great podcast, really could relate to this !!!

[@silverliningtings]

New to this podcast. Was looking for a male dominant podcast and this showed up on my timeline randomly. These are classy and clean men with substance! Love it!

[@AlieshiaTV]

Me to honestly

[@adyamarshae]

I really love hearing y’all’s perspective on being separated. You don’t hear this often.

[@JourneyOD]

Whew! This right here! Ya'll are awesome.

[@marybutidk]

15:30 love that because yes!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you better break it down because people definitely misuse that!!

[@elisedanh9570]

43:20 this part about if you and your partner have an argument and she decides she's going to go tell her friends versus you going to tell your family is sticky though because what happens is sometimes you go tell your family once you've discussed some type of conflict or obstacle it puts it on your partner like The Scarlet letter and they never forget whatever conflict that was and if you have more fights and confide in your family again they will always hold that against your partner and that causes a rift between your family and your partner so it's kind of a touch-and-go situation really it's not an absolute good option always. sometimes I have found it's good to confide in your partner's closest friend or best friend because it's somebody meaningful and a value but not quite a family member that could hold it against you... again everybody's situation is case-by-case but working to maintain your relationship takes a committed and genuine person that is always commended.

[@clueless204]

29:00 Duke spoke for what i would say 90% of what really goes on. Let's be honest. Alot of people ghost, text and refuse face to face confrontation because they've been messing up.

[@tierrasardine562]

❤ love the maturity in you guys

[@elisedanh9570]

6:51 cultural differences are not just race or ethnicity specific where you grew up in the neighborhood the City versus The burbs the dynamic of single parent household versus two-parent household etc is its own culture so all those combined with the interracial dating piece there are so many things that could go left if not discussed... this is a great conversation...

[@audiotv4667]

You know what really baffles me about people? Is that you’ll always see black men speaking about a situation that involves a non-black woman, completely disregarding her as the “problem” and jumping straight to the surface level shxt such as “cultural differences” being a reason, and so forth? While all that could be a reason, stop disregarding the fact that non-black women can indeed be toxic as well. People love to forget that this lady admitted that she didn’t know she had anger issues until she got with Jeezy, which caused her to look at herself in terms of the things she needed to fix. I have no problem with Jeannie; I actually like her and loved them together, but what I don’t like is that every time there’s a non-black woman involved, y’all don’t make it about the shxt y’all make it when there’s a black woman involved. If these were two black people, black men would jump to the nearest exit to make sure that black woman was being blamed for why the relationship ended. She’ll be all types of “strong black woman” this and “masculine” that. Nowhere did I see one black person say anything negative about Jeannie other than “cultural” reasons. What about a woman who doesn’t know how to be submissive? What about someone who doesn’t allow their man to truly lead the family, or did y’all skip that to? Y’all see everything else when it’s a black woman involved, but somehow when it’s a non-black woman, y’all pull out all these other reasons except the obvious. If y’all were paying attention to what Jeezy said in his post, he spoke about the fact that she doesn’t allow him to lead, but everybody wants to play oblivious to that. Everyone wants to pull the sympathy card and roll out the carpet for her to be feminine. It’s truly sad and disappointing to see black men openly run to protect women who are not of their own but will throw their own women in the fire the first chance they get. I didn’t see anyone make positive videos about the Kayla Nicole situation. Every black dude ran to the internet to bash this lady for being vulnerable and made sure to call her all the same ole stereotypes y’all love to call black women, but somehow Jeannie gets a pass, and everyone is so “shocked” and “hoped” for the best, and she’s a “solid” woman, etc etc, but didn’t bring up one issue that was brought to the forefront. The black community will always continue to be a disappointment. The self-hatred runs so deep.

[@lgndrybredot4755]

Facts

[@AlieshiaTV]

Can I get some spark notes ?

[@tonileolion9702]

Whoooaaaa chileeeeee spitting straight facts !

[@raidmuhammad9844]

Really needed this episode fellas, currently in a season and this episode answered a lot of questions I had going through my mind. ✊🏾✊🏾

[@lilmommy31583]

I’m subscribed…. Great podcast

[@JSTheBestt1]

Cracking up at she from somewhere over there 😂 Glad to see y’all back poding amidst all y’all collective blessings

[@ife9871]

"Aye you gaining weight, can we fix this?" IS CRAZY I just screamed

[@danigalleri]

15 minutes in & I shouted bout 3 times 🙌🏾 Jalon better speak

[@Delonta1221]

Good episode, ep 100 is getting closer

[@cristianrivadeneyra323]

this is a good topic

[@mrsphylpie7629]

A storm means that one day the sun will shine off you’re working on your relationship while in the storm. However if the couple cannot agree on the changes that need to be made at this point both are wasting their time.

[@lornawanjiku7751]

Loved this episode!!❤...love hearing men who are not just excited about having a partner ,but also excited to be a partner share their perspectives ❤soooo beautiful!!!❤

[@LivingMinny]

Yall made a point there by saying there should be people in the best interest of the relations rather than people better for the individual person in the relations.💣

[@jeremycamille1739]

good pod

[@Alexa-ri3re]

The wayyyy the title and pinned image of this episode had me TERRIFIED that Omar broke up with his wife... lawddddddd. I've never clicked so fast out of fear!

[@VonnTayler]

I’m bro honest God tapped me on the shoulder a good amount of times and told me to break up with my now ex girlfriend but I was really hardheaded and ended up heart broken two years and six months later.

[@thecuteshuttletransportati7025]

Omar Spot on… at 40 plus you don’t everything and sure do make makes however you should be done with the B/S

[@DHenny]

“ take it out” …did not take it out 😂😂😂

[@Cbanksfitness]

I honestly think people will attend who don't fully support marriage or even respect boundaries. I think the respecting boundaries of marriage shouldn't be cross, its when the disrespect of the union happens. People are broken and I believe its something they have to work on. Not blaming either side or faulting the broken persons. Some broken people are not willing to change their behaviors.

[@mrsphylpie7629]

Adultery is a sin just as much as fornicating.

[@marybutidk]

21:50 I had to break up over the phone long distance too and it was trash. At the time, I wish I would’ve been there, but now, I’m glad we did it over the phone lol i might would’ve folded on my boundaries

[@beu2543]

I think you should absolutely have a connection to the relationship if your friends are married.

[@charlyem2140]

Good video fellas. Yall should make a video on long distance relationships!

[@myrahyppolite7712]

“For better, or for worse for richer for poorer for sickness, and in health”… yes that’s breaking your vows

[@marybutidk]

3:30 yessss!! I totally agree with Omar!! Because Jeezy has other kids. So the topic of “if we get pregnant, what will that look like” should’ve come up at some point. Like… we grown lol we gotta ask all the things we can to get clarity, especially at these big ages (30+ lol)

[@jessicacerda702]

These men out here really feeling themselves now

[@Toyamarsh.]

I missed my weekly doses of positive men omg I feel like internet balance was off I was seeing two much negative stuff…the list and more

[@demi.ewerss]

🥃🥃🥃

[@Christimony222]

2 years is light lol Michelle said there was TEN years that she was unhappy with Barack lol and most long term marriages would say that. You will spend 50+ years together. 10 years don’t have to be the greatest. For the greater good. For your grandkids to grow up in a household with both grandparents inside.

[@Biggirlbundles]

Great podcast love watching these black men express their opinions on relationships and friendships

[@AngelaElikya]

People are makig jokes about Jeannie Mai and Jeezy divorce because what Jeannie Mai said about black men in her past in her TV show The Real (which wasn't that long ago) she said and I quote " Love Black guys. But for me - dark meat on the side, white meat keeps me lean and mean. That's what I like " peope are saying that's her karma for divorcing her white ex husband and degrading black men

[@marybutidk]

4:41 🤣 somewhere over there is CRRRAAZZYYY!!! Duke should’ve googled it real fast or sum

[@NiceAndNeatThePodcast]

😂😂😂

[@LaKae444]

Vietnam was the answer 😂

[@AlieshiaTV]

She’s from somewhere over there 😂😂

[@LifestyleWithLove]

Where is the episode about cheating? Because I also have a question about how a cheating man friends look at him and if that makes them question his character. Or do they hold their friends accountable when they cheat? Or do men not tell their friends when they cheat because they know it’s wrong? Curious how a man who cheats and is disloyal to the person he lays down with can be loyal to anyone else……..just asking, not like I’ve been cheated on before 🙃😂😂😂

[@beu2543]

WHAT HAPPENED TO THE HALF TIME SHOW???

[@TheGClass]

Does 10 years of turmoil count as ‘enough time in’?

[@CourtneeLee]

Y’all gotta remember Jeanie Mai is from the Bay Area. Black and Asians together is normal and the cultures are mixed into the collective culture.

[@sparkwill5337]

Exactly!!! Signed an Oakland Girl

[@downbad2874]

@@sparkwill5337the lies y'all tell yourselves 😂

[@downbad2874]

The last part is a lie asian culture and bulk culture arent the same and are hard to mix

[@CourtneeLee]

Lol, you’ve never been to the bay and we can tell

[@sparkwill5337]

@@downbad2874you from the bay??

[@tsmooVe2831]

No blessing blockers 💰💰💰

[@THEIRSISWATCHING]

I think it’s because her family moving in was cramping his style. They had their baby while they were still in their honeymoon era and that can be hard when your partner can’t respect certain boundaries but also can’t understand each others perspective and find a medium, I think they are both two ppl who don’t like to compromise and their previous partners were more often sacrificing or bending the knee.

[@emilyssacruz6608]

That’s like praying on downfall

[@joshuaallen917]

I’m 26 and I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years. We’re very happy and thinking about taking it to the next level and getting married. My question is what does it look like “keeping God in the center of your relationship?” Like what does that consist of on the daily basis. I grew up in a church but since an adult it’s been years since going but I still have a relationship w/God. Just asking what does that look like practically?

[@dajag50]

It could be doing Bible study together. Praying together in the morning or before you guys go to sleep. There are other ways, but I think those are the most practical and applicable.

[@tenaybates8141]

The fruits of the holy Spirit. Love, Peace, joy, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, goodness, and self control. Galatians 5:22-23 1Corinthiams explain what love Really is. Walk in that. Last, Ephesians 5:22-23 Wives submit to your husband's as to the lord. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

[@downbad2874]

7:39 do by his logic nonpbe should be mad about the divorce rate

[@downbad2874]

So wait god said it’s ok to leave a marriage if a man cheats on you yet men on earth trying to get women to accept cheating 😂

[@ChanelleChampagne3616]

Jennie was racist from the jump tho I wasn’t surprised by the divorce I was more surprised that jeezy over looked her Racist comments

[@LifestyleWithLove]

I’m going through a break up after a 6 year relationship and my best friend is going through one and a few other people I know. What’s in the air?

[@JoseRodriguezFrio]

Options

[@deionjohnson8683]

Yeaa I’ve realized as an African American man, if you date out your going to be criticized and people will even celebrate your failures as it pertain to your relationship solely because your not with a black women …….

[@downbad2874]

This is the same struggle black women have but we in the community rather not acknowledge this is no matter the gender do we can tackle it as a whole but remember there's a lot of pewho don't give a fk who you date

[@deionjohnson8683]

@@downbad2874 ehh it’s far worse as men, constant self hate comments, or some type of shade being thrown and women complain far more than men when they each date out……

[@cristianrivadeneyra323]

#noblessingblockers

[@cristianrivadeneyra323]

nobody knows where the noes goes when the door close

[@mimimi9326]

18:55 is so true

[@cristianrivadeneyra323]

#cuffingseason

[@anyakturner]

same though

[@melissalopata1141]

No, people and their 40s are not any more mature then any other age. 😂

[@stylezbyb5257]

The things is... even if the cause of divorce was based upon culture differences and how they pertain to the child. Does divorce change those differences and the fact that they have to be faced? Because I mean the child is here already. 😬 I feel like the differences may be faith based which is now a whole other story, but then again this is all speculation😶‍🌫

[@Meraniya793]

Is him and Candace married

[@AngieFisher-th4hc]

But why can't you say " I just don't like you " meaning I am no longer interested in you, because sometimes an individuals taste changes and you are no longer drawn to that person on any level which is the..."I just don't like you anymore". Sometimes it is what it is and people need to hear the hard truth so they can adjust accordingly.

[@downbad2874]

18:32 I thought feelings aren’t facts thit

[@missamerica2694]

The fact that this man does not know where his wife is from is super alarming; also he should have already had the conversation with his spouse if he already has plans to take his biracial children to Nigeria!

[@rtrsoccerstar1]

He was talking about jeezys wife lmaoo

[@downbad2874]

Men will file if them papers in order

[@cristianrivadeneyra323]