Girl you are absolutely rocking this new hairstyle!! Hope you’re having a great day love these videos!!!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
thankkkk you so much!!!
@jordyn.rose22 ай бұрын
i just wanna say thank you for opening up about such a vulnerable topic of body image issues, not a lot of creators talk about it while it’s present, and i’m sure you’ve made a lot of people comfortable about not being alone:) so thank you! also yes, we are your friends girl! i always feel like we’re on FaceTime especially when you do lil updates in the beginning of every video:) i like getting to hear a lil more about you before getting into the stories!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that ❤️ and yayyy hehe I’m glad you feel the same way about the FT 🫶🏼
@maggie13252 ай бұрын
I've been addicted to listening to your videos this past week. I love the beginning of just talking and honestly it's really nice! Great work! Love your videos!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
Yayyyy!! I’m so happy ur hereeeee ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@mikaaeelaaa2 ай бұрын
the way you explained your body image issues and your mentality towards obsessive tendencies with working out, eating, body checking, etc. is exactly what i’ve been struggling with for majority of my life. i’m 23 and definitely more than half my life has been ruled by this mentality so i’ve been trying to be very kind to myself! also, your personality is so genuine that you can feel it through the screen and this is the first time im watching! feels like a friend already!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
I feel like sooo many people esp women can relate!! It’s so tiring but it’s a journey that I’m trying to work on everyday!! & thank you so so much that’s such a compliment I appreciate it❤️
@tigerstrike72 ай бұрын
This is the first video ive been reccomended by you and I really appreciate you sharing your personal experience with gym+exercise+eating obsession. Ive really been struggling with feeling guilty about stopping going to the gym again last week because I was getting so obsessive with it. I definitely get you, and your not alone in that. We need to do whats best for us mentally.
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
So happy you found me!! And I am totally there with you 🥲 it gets so stressful bc there’s no in between but it’s a journey & im rlly glad that you made that choice to take a break for yourself!!! don’t feel guilty. You deserve rest and to have a clear mind. ❤️
@CosmicallyKitty2 ай бұрын
Oh my god, I just found this channel, and it's already become one of my favourites! I love the sleepover vibes!!!!!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
Welcome to STS!!!!!!! Happy to have u hehe ❤️
@acelowk2 ай бұрын
going to a strip club while in a relationship is so crazy! I would leave that man so fast, honestly that is so heartbreaking
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
no I agree !!!
@hailzrea99412 ай бұрын
i love your hair it’s so cute!!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
aw thank you!!!
@vic.crow.dreamer2 ай бұрын
me and max are definitely your friends!! great video!! 🐓
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
ily guys!!
@HachiChuku2 ай бұрын
I totally relate w the obsession thing!! I hate the food noise 😒
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
It’s sooo bad I literally hateeee it
@jasxntxdd2 ай бұрын
the working out stuff is so real,, i feel like for whatever reason i just cant be normal about it and idk why
@jasxntxdd2 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say I've ever had a solid ed but I def have disordered eating so my "rules" are so weird and hard to explain and tbh I don't even get it myself. I'm trying to prep my mind to go to the gym and idk how to tell my bf to not even acknowledge that we're working out bc focusing on it too much makes me get real weird about it 💀
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
no same like PLSSSSSS don't talk about it
@evikas18062 ай бұрын
I think the discord chat would be super fun!! You can hire someone who can set up and organize a discord for you
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
oh rlly?! I didn't know that!!
@lizd68862 ай бұрын
Really praying your health gets better
@brendabillion2 ай бұрын
Prayers up for Jamie!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
aw thank you!!!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
mwah xoxoxoxox
@samuelcohen28332 ай бұрын
A great way to get the day rolling, with ‘friends’, also thank you for the lunch idea😂❤
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
hahhaha are you going to make one!? let me know how it goes
@SniKenna2 ай бұрын
girl, we're totally friends! I love our hangouts. 🥰 (for the record, I do not look like a seahorse.)
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
HAHAHA im dead that is so funny
@acelowk2 ай бұрын
i love that you input your personal experiences in these types of videos!!🫶🏼
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
good im glad!!!! bc I rlly only can weigh in on any of these stories by relating them back to my own experiences lol I feel like that's the only way I know how
@chelsiehayden93902 ай бұрын
I don’t know if you got a hair cut but I’m loving the hair!!! 💖
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
I diddd!!! And dyed it lol
@kylahill49212 ай бұрын
Your hair looks so good. It's funny because I just recently got that same haircut. And my natural hair is that color but just dyed my hair a raspberry purple shade. I love how much we can interact with eachother. I also feel like I'm talking to a friend. This first story is so difficult. Thank you for understand the mom. I went through something similar my ex best friend came out as nonbiary. Which i was of course very happy for them, but she decided to give up everything about their old life and they decided one of those things was me.
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
omgggg love that!!!!
@janetpischke65782 ай бұрын
This is like a FaceTime with a friend while I get ready
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
My favorite thing everrr❤️
@kimberlyc1912 ай бұрын
I miss the rain sometimes and unrelated but I lead obsessed with pasta salad 🥗. Never had it until months ago it is the best thing the recipe was from tik tik
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
omg yummm I also love pasta salad
@miasike21202 ай бұрын
I appreciate you sharing about your body image issues, because I personally worry about being healthy and staying in shape but know I will end up being unhealthy about it
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
its such a hard journey but one day at a time!!
@kat-cg6dy2 ай бұрын
13:17 honestly your reaction to this story was going to be my teller if i should continue the video and continue exploring your channel lol. this is kinda silly but it made me feel good as a queer person that you recognize struggles and triggers, assuming you’re cishet, sorry if you’re not. idrk where im going with this but i appreciate you
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
hi!!! thank you for commenting this I really appreciate it. im def not perfect by any means but im always learning and if you ever feel like I need to be educated on a relative topic I would so appreciate it if you would!!
@daniellehayner48052 ай бұрын
Good morning giirllyyy
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
hi!!!!
@ninamartyn93222 ай бұрын
I feel like the one with the guy who was asking about his coworker is not that simple, didn’t he say she was like leading a team he was on? That would technically put her in a position of power over him. Maybe I heard that part wrong, but I feel bad for him he’s basically being harassed and she won’t take no for an answer. I think if roles were reversed and it was a woman writing reception to the post would be different.
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
ok TRUEEEE didn't think about that part. u are not wrong! that's prolly why he is thinking about quitting
@ninamartyn93222 ай бұрын
@@jamie.nelson98 I love ur vidéos btw! I Watch them Everytime they drop while I crochet and have coffee!
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
yayyyy
@hailzrea99412 ай бұрын
u should maybe screen shot stories incase they get deleted , i don’t know if that’s something you would want to do.
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
I have thought about doing that instead of crossposting like usual!!
@bunnikruis2 ай бұрын
around 44 mins when you ask if you read the paragraph wrong- you were. she told OP that she only stayed with her husband because of the kids and that he was an alcoholic at some point. OP was saying he needed a few days to process all of that. i don't think he wants anything with the girl.
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
I still feel like he is thinking about MAYBE pursuing her but idk for sure obvi!!
@valentinakren88164 күн бұрын
Her choice to be gay/trans why are Gen Z all like this is it taught in school? Her mother didn’t choose to have kids with these issues
@jamie.nelson984 күн бұрын
this comment is ridiculous its not a choice to be gay / trans.
@jasxntxdd2 ай бұрын
Im agender and my dad has my deadname tattoo'd, hearing my deadname makes me actually nauseous despite having switched my name over a decade ago so i get it. Hoooowever, its disrespectful for him to keep asking after her first "no". Its really clear that this guy is still in the paranoia stage, you get a lot of shit for being trans and in the beginning it can feel like everyone is out to get you (and a lot of the time thats true tbh) and this guy just clearly hasnt hit the point of real self acceptance. Not to say that every trans person should hit a point where their deadname has no affect on them, but understanding when he needs to emotionally distance himself from something or when to move on. It also reads that he doesnt quite believe his mothers accepts him (paranoia stage) and this is how hes decided she can prove it to him. Tattoo removal is much more painful than getting a tattoo, and his mother is going out of her way to cover it up, shes doing what she can within the boundaries she has for her body. Its also weird that his family would bring that up anyway bc its probably safe to assume they know he'd be upset about it? Weird. It sucks, i really get it, but its something you just have to let go of, its out of his hands and honing in on it is just going to make it worse for the both of them.
@jasxntxdd2 ай бұрын
So he's the asshole,, and his family too for egging it on. He's got a right to be upset about it absolutely, but as soon as he was entering harrassment territory he was in the wrong
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
this Is great insight to have as someone who has gone through a similar situation!! I think you gave amazing advice and it would be great if OP could hear your take honestly. I agree with like every take / point you made 100%!
@longlostgf2 ай бұрын
the trans guy and his mom’s tattoo is such a tricky one - i want to say no AH here, while also siding with OP over his mom. some of these comments calling him the AH are really fucked up, unempathetic, and even vicious. i don’t think the mom is the AH for not removing the tattoo, but i do think if anyone is at fault it’s her for how she responded to OP being hurt by it. there are 2 ways OP is hurt here: first, because objectively it would hurt knowing it’s there, and second because of the mom’s reluctance or inability to fully empathize with him. when you come out and transition, there are different levels of support, and i think his mom is supportive and trying but not sensitive or empathetic in a way that OP trusts. the gap between those things is a larger dynamic that OP’s responding to, and it’s happening to show up in her response to him asking her to remove it, if i had to guess. the mom saying “it reminds her of all that history” or whatever is a good example. because what OP’s saying is, remembering that history is hurtful to him, but she’s expressing in response that she has all these good memories attached to that and that hurts him. if she had said “i would remove it if i could, i’m so sorry, but i physically cannot, and i’ll minimize it however i can,” and then accepted that even with that he wouldn’t feel good about that, then that would have been the best response. i think OP might learn to have to accept the pain of knowing that tattoo is still there, but not acknowledging how it hurts OP in a way that doesn’t dismiss his feelings or experience, that’s the problem. don’t know if i’m explaining this well, but hope it’s at least kinda coherent 🤷🏻♀️
@longlostgf2 ай бұрын
also think it’s real silly to be talking about “bodily autonomy” when he did NOT go and make her get a tattoo of his deadname! i think part of The Problem is that parents in general have their identities so tied up in their children’s identities, and while on the one hand i find it kinda cute to love your kids so much to get body art for them, on the other you are risking this exact kind of problem that may in some way hurt someone you love. there’s probably a lot more i could say about that but yeah
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
totally get that!!! and that's why I was having a hard time truly making my decision. I feel like it is so tricky because it's something so new that the mom doesn't know how to navigate and I feel like she is truly doing her best. She may not be super educated about the topic fully and I truly think the more you educate yourself about topics like this the more empathetic you are and you can navigate the situations better. I think that both sides could be more empathetic with each other and understand that they are both going through something new and challenging to navigate!
@shayg23732 ай бұрын
Love love love the new hair!! Also the trans story, I think sometimes they forget, as their mother, if my Brian transitioned to Brianna. I still grew, birthed, raised & loved Brian. That is still a piece of our lives that they can't expect us to just forget. Their our babies. And the mother doesn't seem to be being hateful about it.
@jamie.nelson982 ай бұрын
heheh thank you!! and yes, totally see your point in that. I think it is just a matter of open communication and empathy on both ends. They both need to realize that they are both being affected by the situation in different wats!
@shayg23732 ай бұрын
@@jamie.nelson98 I agree 100%!♡
@lailasymone48992 ай бұрын
Your videos have literally become a part of my morning routine. I listen to them while getting ready for the day. 😂🩷 I recently discovered that you can create chat channels on Reddit, so maybe that’s one option to connect ? Also maybe when you reach 10K you can do a livestream reading stories? that would be awesome too!