Trust me when I say that when your parents find out you’re pregnant, they will be singing a far different tune. I would send them a text saying that since you chose not to support me, then you’re no longer welcome in my life and keep that same energy when we start our family. Your children will not know their grandparents because they made their choice.
@mimiwhite19633 ай бұрын
This is gold lol . I would cut contact totally.
@cadavis53143 ай бұрын
These are AI stories. There’s at least 3-5 variations on this one floating thru here.
@MahsaKaerra3 ай бұрын
Send them a few pictures randomly a year or so after the baby is born and / or in the company of their other grandparents (that is, if they're okay with the idea). Tell them how "out of date" they are, and if they want to get on the same timeline as everyone else they can begin by learning about 'cause and effect'. that the division in the family began with Sarah's choice to sleep with OP's then boyfriend.. and coming to terms with their own choice to back her up after it was revealed.
@denisekarpuszka89483 ай бұрын
I wouldn't even say anything. I would send them a text after saying I'm sorry you won't be in your grandchild's life bc of your choices. So sad
@afroteddybear3 ай бұрын
As opposed to the fake stories on Reddit we already get? We listen more for the absurdity than the truth anyway.
@aidanthornton1733 ай бұрын
I prefer it when the story ends with OP going Scorched Earth and cutting all ties.
@tommybell48503 ай бұрын
Same here.
@heffa38213 ай бұрын
yep
@colettefelix60893 ай бұрын
Me too,I guess we'll have to wait until they try to force themselves back into OP's life.
@funtimegenshin6973Ай бұрын
Same cause it's what most people would do
@marysmith-ps7uj3 ай бұрын
Instead of adding that you wouldn't be comfortable with your sister being at your wedding, state up front that the heifer isn't invited. Tell them it's not up for discussion. When they give you the ultimatum, say okay and show them the door!😊
@BetaRayBill-yx9eb3 ай бұрын
Oh, we know who the golden child is in this family
@redditfamilydrama26113 ай бұрын
We know who the golden child is in this family
@BetaRayBill-yx9eb2 ай бұрын
What a nice way to be told that you’re actually a side character and someone else’s story
@DCD7623 ай бұрын
I would simply say: " Well since you clearly showed who you two prioritise, then you will never meet your grandchildren when I have them because I will not allow you to make them go through the same you did me, because I'm 100% that you would prioritise my sister children over mine and I will not allow them to suffer due to your favouritism " Then when the kids were born I would send them a photo saying: " Here, so you can meet the children that you will never be a part of their lives " But I'm a petty AH 😂😂😂😂
@Tubb25812 ай бұрын
I can't wait for part 2 when they have kids and they start crying "Grandparents rights"
@Kinsfire3 ай бұрын
"We have a daughter and a thing that just got married." - the parents. And when they have kids? The folks will show up. "No, Mom, I am NOT making my sister the godmother. And you aren't the grandparents, because you couldn't care about me until there was a new generation to try to fuck up the way you did with my sister."
@mimiwhite19633 ай бұрын
Sarah is the golden child.
@gorenchick3 ай бұрын
Screw them. They made their,choice. Keep sister of yours away from,your husband. She put the moves on,your man,once, she 'll more than likely do it again. Go NC with,your parents and sister and enjoy your life with,your husband.
@UnderworldTalesss2 ай бұрын
I feel your frustration. Once trust is broken like that, it’s hard to see them any other way. Protecting your relationship has to come first. 😤
@annnichols30913 ай бұрын
Oh, you won't come if my sister isn't there? Fine -- two fewer dinners to buy.
@SusanBaileyAmazingEstate3 ай бұрын
In this story, it would’ve been better if she used her wedding for revenge on Sara. Invite her, but make sure everyone knows she slept with your boyfriend. Maybe even mention it as you graciously forgive her in a speech. That would be a good revenge story.
@annnichols30913 ай бұрын
OP, ask your parents, "Mom, what would YOU do if Dad had been sleeping with YOUR sister? Dad, what if mom had been sleeping with YOUR brother?"
@JenniferJohnson-l3r3 ай бұрын
@9:50 I would have started recording what this cheater is saying and forward it to the sister showing this AH is calling her a mistake and how he is trying to save their relationship.
@cei19483 ай бұрын
Take a shot every time she says Alex, or I don’t need my family 🍺
@StorytimeHaven39793 ай бұрын
rust me when I say that when your parents find out you’re pregnant, they will be singing a far different tune. I would send them a text saying that since you chose not to support me, then you’re no longer welcome in my life and keep that same energy when we start our family. Your children will not know their grandparents because they made their choice.
@joeysonofjohn3 ай бұрын
Bot
@credsox053 ай бұрын
Trust me, I would have outed them to everyone in the family telling them that they chose a cheater over the daughter that was cheated on and wanted to have my bff, who was there for me from the start to be excluded from my wedding. Saying had a blast and the pictures of the best day of my life being surrounded by my friends and real family..lol oh I'm petty..lol
@annnichols30913 ай бұрын
OP could also tell her parents, "OK -- I'll just announce that my parents refused to come because I refused to invite my sister, who slept with my previous boyfriend while we were still together. Think about what that will do to the old family image."
@Audiogeek-kf2ez3 ай бұрын
It is time to tell these people to leave , and not return. They are trying to brainwash you. when are these parents ever going to get into their brain. How horrible their daughter is.
@tommylundholm91463 ай бұрын
Someones biggest day try to mend a broken bond is very strange
@greatgamingendavour3 ай бұрын
Her father is a basic hippocript calling ex a sob yet the other cheating offender the main one likely no bad name but volunteering to be forgiven just shows how pathetic his character is along side his wife . 🙄😤🤨😮💨
@frankd54263 ай бұрын
opening 6 secs do not invite parents or sister take up parents offer. will make your day far more pleasant you may want to also think about the situation for your future also i would not allow this kind of toxicity anywhere near my spouse or any future kides
@sirblack16193 ай бұрын
I get so tired of the same ole saying "Family comes first no matter what!" I call BS on that because I have seen first hand how dirty "family" members can be. Blood may be thicker than water but family does not always share biology.
@geaanderson85253 ай бұрын
You should have told them that your sister is dead to you. And you will be no contact if they keep insisting it.
@bethanderson74673 ай бұрын
Have the sister come, have the new hubby make a toast about his love for you. Then he turns to the sister and tells her to keep her undies on as unlike Ryan he has no interest in the family Ho, then turn to the parents and tell them to leave with the golden tramp.
@MahsaKaerra3 ай бұрын
Things the parents said: "Sarah is your sister, you have to forgive her. We're faaaamily~!" Things the parents *didn't* say: ""OP is your sister, at least try not to have sex with her boyfriend for half a year!"
@KKOPPONG3 ай бұрын
As an adult who’s newly married. Who needs family😂😂😂
@blazerjack1173 ай бұрын
My toxic trait is i always hope that the offending side will see the light and try to make amends. I'm far too naive for this world
@NessaEllenesse3 ай бұрын
Stories like this are why you dont have sx before marriage. If he can't wait for you he doesn't deserve you.
@Ahalaia3 ай бұрын
OP should of told her parents 'if you keep bringing up Sarah when we talk I'll start hanging up and eventually not answer your calls' The parents are just pouring salt on a wound like OP is trying to heal. If Sarah is struggling, it's her own fault, what did she think would happen when her 'dear sister' found out about the affair?
@gamerkat14923 ай бұрын
a MISTAKE is buying the wrong kind od bread or milk sleeping with someone's sister FOR 6 MONTHS IS A CHOICE
@anthonyherring532920 күн бұрын
Why is it that in these stories the parents never see anything wrong with one child sleeping with the other's partner?
@επιθετικόακτινιδιο3 ай бұрын
Op should have never sent the invitations to begin with. This is not how you deal with AHS. They could have accepted the fact that their children would never reconcile and move on with the situation. But nope. They chose their golden child and shunned OP. By not coming to her wedding, they made a clear statement: we cut ties. The end. You can't go back from this one. And yet OP would have expected them with open arms even after this unforgivable act. And sounds like she ll do it when they reach out. She sets herself up for failure
@willlippert247018 күн бұрын
You keep push me to forgive sarah, you're just pushing me away....
@violysantos7062 ай бұрын
Very nice story, my place Philippines is like that alsofor example afterthe first storiethe sleppen things with my bfsarah will punished by beating my parents and me. Mata lang ang walang latay.
@phoenixbloodbirth6663 ай бұрын
Oooo I would’ve gone beyond scorched earth… if I were op, I would’ve hired a pi. And acted like nothing was wrong… have the pi gather all the info I needed and more… I would wait, and wait. Then I would wait for the right moment to implement my revenge… I would wait for Sara’s birthday and expose the hell out of her and Ryan. And if the pearl clutching family and flying monkeys are gonna say ‘Family does for family…’. I would’ve replied with… ‘O ok, family does for family, huh? Where was this energy when I needed it?! But when your golden child does their dirt, no one cares and tried to swipe it under the rug!’ Op I would’ve doubled down and go no contact with everybody that knew…
@hypnotherapy693 ай бұрын
So op is not family but Sarah is? (since they don´t give a fuck about suporting op)
@junglebunny70613 ай бұрын
Everytime I hear "Sar-" from my parents they would hear a "click" because I hung up the phone. Op making things harder than need be.
@mikeydoodle143Ай бұрын
Its so sad that your parents did not support your wedding and abandoned you.
@nbenefiel3 ай бұрын
I love my sisters but if either of them screwed my husband, that would be it. I’m sure they would feel the same way.
@deborahbutcher39333 ай бұрын
If my sister slept with my boyfriend, the police would still be looking for the pair of them. But then, my sister would know this and treat my BF like a leper unless I was around.
@develyntwocentshenderson57392 ай бұрын
'she said softly'. oh puke.
@megz5272 ай бұрын
Thank God I'm an only child
@SkinnySticksАй бұрын
They reach when you and Alex have their grandchild or grandchildren.
@willlippert247018 күн бұрын
Family is everything.... did they have that talk with sarah?
@sgtjarhead993 ай бұрын
Story dragged and ending needed more scorched earth.
@KristenCrosariol2 ай бұрын
Her sister crossed a line that no sibling should ever cross! The parents trying to guilt trip her into inviting her sister is beyond ridiculous. I’m really glad OP told them that they didn’t have to come to her wedding. If the parents do not realize what they are doing, they are going to lose her forever, and it would serve them right.
@GundaMonkey3 ай бұрын
Weird that you chose to marry someone that slept with your sister tho. 🤷
@Mehp23 ай бұрын
Too long
@carolday33813 ай бұрын
A video this long does not warrant that many commercial breaks, stop being greedy plugging those in every 2 minutes.
@Fyra-d1u3 ай бұрын
I am sorry about that but KZbin buts them automatically. I don’t manually but them.
@aaronhodson88092 ай бұрын
alright, I'm sick of these AI stories. Not just read by an AI, but written by one. They always use the same sort of verbiage and the same sort of formula. 'Having none of it' 'Felt a mix of,' 'that's not a mistake, that's a choice.'
@DaeganJohn-de5bj2 ай бұрын
Hmmmm I feel like miss girl misunderstood her parents a bit the first time it's not that they didn't what yo support but they just wanted to make sure that she would be willing reconciled eventually however they did it Inn the wrong way and at the wrong time OTHER THAN THAT I AMTOTALLY ON HER SIDE HER PARENTS WERE BEING UNREASONABLE AND OUT OF LINE ALSO HER SISTER NEVER EVEN GAVE HER A PROPER APOLOGY LIKE CHILD HOW CAN U FORGUGE SOMEONE WHO HSSNT EVEN APOLOGIZED LIKE NO THATS NIT CORRECT
@develyntwocentshenderson57392 ай бұрын
Oh let it go OP.
@Ahalaia3 ай бұрын
Sounds like Sarah is the 'golden child' the parents don't give a rats ass about OPs feelings. They should of given her time to heal instead of constantly harassing her to 'forgive her sister'.