My Sister Sabotaged My Wedding, And Now, With Her Struggles To Conceive,....- Reddit Stories

[@RandomTrinidadian]

If i wss OP, i would tell Pam that she not being able to have kids, is karma. As for the parents, tell them they are not fit to be grand parents either.

[@RedditFamilyTales]

Thanks for the comment! :D Karma really came back around in this story! Do you think OP handled it perfectly, or would you have done something different?

[@JenniferJohnson-l3r]

I would tell Pam the exact same thing but in a different way.

[@MrAflac_1]

Im still trying to figure out how you can even share a baby…

[@Hybrid301]

Probably like having shared custody after a break up?

[@MrAflac_1]

@ that doesnt make sense for the current situation.. plus that would be called sharing responsibility with the baby, not sharing the baby like its an object. It’s the parents’ job to take care of the baby, outsiders have no right to interfere no matter who they are to them, unless they ask them to babysit, which would be a different story. If it really does go out of hand where the parents are doing something very wrong to the child, then laws should be involved in this matter, but this is not the case in this story.

[@thesheerwoodcrow5465]

@@MrAflac_1the issue is your thinking with a sound mind and logic. The Sister and parents are not.

[@kellenivanuck1447]

You cut it in half

[@knightmare39]

It's a trick question, you don't. Based on the sister's behavior, I guarantee if this situation ever happened and after enough time had passed, she would immediately attempt to get full custody of the baby.

[@JahDéPage]

They think a child is a timeshare 😂

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[@AbrahamKingston]

You should...

[@ViolaHGlaze]

Not the Axxhole

[@darylreeder3400]

Honey tell me you're the scapegoat without telling me you're the scapegoat.

[@heidilynnm6522]

I doubt the OP's sister could pass a psychological examination that is needed to adopt... and by living with the parents she will most likely not pass a home inspection either!

[@Crimsonstarfox84]

That donut cake pissed me off lol should've made the sides wavey and not so straight 😂😅😂

[@Carls_Other_Eye]

SERIOUSLY

[@thesheerwoodcrow5465]

If keep your parents and sister away from your baby. None of them are stable atm

[@RedditFamilyTales]

Thank you for t5he advice for OP!

[@crawdaddy1234]

I think sister sees children as trophies.

[@TheDetective-s8u]

Not the jerk, your parents are enablers of your sister. I’m not a parent by any means, but the way OP sister is acting it wouldn’t seem fit for a kid. I hope that OP sister ex-husband finds someone that won’t manipulate him!

[@ReallyMaxx]

"Share" a baby?? Like help create it? Or... I'm lost.

[@vavol1N]

Sharing a baby, as in Pam mothering OP's child. Both OP and Pam would be double mothers to one child: OP's child. Pam is unable to conceive due to infertility issues, so the parents want OP to share the baby because Pam doesn't want to adopt or have a surrogate. Think of it as custody. The baby would be passed between OP and Pam for a certain period. That's what the parents want since they favor Pam.

[@JenniferJohnson-l3r]

NTA- there is a reason why PAM isn't able to get pregnant or conceive, bc some women aren't meant to breed.

[@notaspeck6104]

Lots of women face fertility issues and it’s really painful and hard. You saying they deserve it or something? Gross. It brings a lot of emotional pain and existential crises. Think before you speak.

[@geraldleduckandfriends]

Cocaine is a hell of drug.

[@lylahamer8831]

Imagine being like “since I can’t have kids we’ll just have shared custody of YOUR baby, but now it’s mine”

[@theresadeiler1188]

They have no rights to YOUR CHILD

[@Molheppi]

this video was really engaging and sparked a lot of thoughts! it's crazy how family dynamics can be so complicated. while i understand that your sister's struggles with conceiving are incredibly tough, it feels a bit unfair that her past actions should overshadow your special day. like, shouldn't both parties try to support each other through tough times? it just makes me wonder how we can balance our own happiness with the struggles of those we love.

[@KoalaTales]

wow, what a captivating video! you did a great job sharing such a complex story. but honestly, i can't help but feel that the sister's actions, while upsetting, may have stemmed from her own struggles and jealousy. it's tough because it seems like they both have their own battles to fight. what do you all think?

[@SociaVanlue]

this video was really engaging and sparked a lot of interesting thoughts! it’s heartbreaking to see family conflict, especially at such a significant time like a wedding. however, i can't help but think that the sister's struggles don't excuse her actions, even if she’s going through a tough time. it seems like there should be accountability regardless of personal circumstances. what do you all think?

[@rRevenge-Stories]

this video was really interesting and well put together! i can't help but think that while it's terrible what happened with the wedding, it's also kind of hard to feel too much sympathy for the sister given her past actions. should family loyalty really come before everything else? sometimes, we need to hold each other accountable, even in tough situations.

[@justinefeportuguez6639]

As i go through video after video of these reddit post, issues are getting more outrageous 😂. Interesting though.

[@StorySpins-t2e]

this video was really engaging and brought some interesting perspectives to light. i can't help but feel that while the sister's actions were definitely hurtful, the timing of this whole situation makes it seem a bit manipulative. like, are we supposed to feel sorry for her just because she’s facing difficulties now? it's a tough spot, but sometimes actions have consequences, don't they?

[@Storylinesphere1208]

this video was super engaging and I really appreciate the way you shared such a personal story. it’s a tough situation, but I can't help but think that families sometimes put too much pressure on each other during big events like weddings. do you think it’s fair to hold onto grudges when there are bigger issues at play, like the struggles to conceive? just a thought!

[@gloriasabree2147]

Make a phone call and record it! Get a RO ( restraining order)! Stand your ground! And make yourself a happy life! Good luck 🍀!

[@Sagasofbetrayal]

really enjoyed this video, the storytelling is top-notch! but honestly, i can't help but feel that the sister's actions, while shocking, could stem from deeper issues she’s dealing with. it makes me wonder if sometimes family dynamics get overlooked; like, should we really hold her accountable considering her struggles? it's a tricky situation for sure.

[@LuongHoaiThuong-sp6yc]

i really enjoyed this video, it was engaging and well put together! that being said, i can't help but think the sister's actions, while disappointing, might have stemmed from deeper issues. it's hard to judge her fully without understanding her perspective, but i feel like she could’ve handled things differently, especially now that she’s facing her own struggles. what do you guys think?

[@StorySpins-t2e]

great video! i really appreciated the honesty and emotional depth you brought to this story. but honestly, it’s hard to feel too much sympathy for the sister. i get she’s going through a tough time, but it kinda feels like karma for what she did. what do you all think?

[@danielh6015]

it will all change when she gives birth. All of a sudden the parents will becoming loving people who want to fix the misunderstanding

[@Molheppi]

this video was so well put together, really engaging! I can't help but feel a bit conflicted though. on one hand, sabotaging a wedding is pretty harsh, but isn't it a bit unfair to hold it against her now that she's dealing with her own struggles? people make mistakes, and I wonder if maybe understanding and support could go a long way instead of lingering resentment. what do you all think?

[@BamboooStories]

i really enjoyed this video, it's such a unique storytelling approach! but honestly, i can't help but think that focusing so much on the sister's struggles might overshadow the main issue. i mean, shouldn't the bride's feelings and experience take priority here? it just feels a bit unfair to mix these two heavy topics together. what do you all think?

[@CuentosdeDramaOculto]

great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! but i honestly can’t help but think that the sister’s actions, while understandable, were kinda selfish. like, throwing a wrench in someone's wedding is a huge deal, and even with her struggles, it doesn’t really justify that behavior. what do you all think?

[@KDawg92801]

I’m pretty sure Pam was cheating on the ex husband.

[@lucyblossom0812]

Great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! But honestly, it feels a bit unfair to place all the blame on the sister when there are so many layers to family dynamics. I wonder if the stress of trying to conceive is influencing her actions more than we realize. Just a thought!

[@rRevenge-Stories]

what an intriguing video, really appreciate the storytelling! but honestly, while i feel for both sisters, isn't it a bit harsh to judge someone for their struggles to conceive? i mean, family dynamics can be so complex, and sometimes we should consider what they’re going through before jumping to conclusions. just a thought!

[@Storylinesphere1208]

this is such an engaging video, you really showcased the complexities of family dynamics well! however, i can’t help but wonder if the sister’s actions were a reflection of deeper issues rather than just jealousy over the wedding. it seems like she might have her own struggles that aren’t being addressed, and that could spark an interesting discussion about empathy and forgiveness in families. what do you all think?

[@MythicMoments2222]

this video was really engaging and your storytelling was spot on. i do think, though, that the way the sister's actions are portrayed is a bit harsh. i mean, everyone has their struggles and maybe her behavior was a cry for help more than anything else? just a thought!

[@SplittKaupu]

this video was super engaging and really highlighted the complexities of family dynamics. however, i can't help but think that the sister's actions, while complex, seem a bit selfish considering her own struggles. it's almost like she's projecting her feelings about her situation onto someone else's big day. what do you all think?

[@RRelationshipTales]

Really enjoyed the storytelling in this video, it’s super engaging! But I can't help but think that the sister’s actions, while hurtful, might be a reflection of her own insecurities. Is it possible that her struggles to conceive are causing her to lash out in jealousy? It’s a tough situation, but I feel like we should be a bit more understanding of her feelings too. What do you all think?

[@CustomReads]

What a captivating and emotional story! I appreciate how you shared such a personal experience. But honestly, I can't help but wonder if the sister's actions were more about her own jealousy than just sibling rivalry. It's tough to say, but it feels like there might be deeper issues at play, especially considering her struggles. What do you all think?

[@SpunByStories-q6u]

Hey, great video! I really enjoyed the storytelling and the emotions you captured. However, I can’t help but feel like the sister's actions were a bit selfish. It's tough to ignore the impact on the wedding while she’s going through her own struggles. Do you think she might be projecting her insecurities onto her sister’s happiness? It’s a complicated situation for sure.

[@Shea333-n3k]

NTA- Pam seems psychologically and emotionally unsuited for motherhood. You were not wrong to say so.

[@StoryScroll689]

Hey, great video! I really appreciate the storytelling and insights you shared. But honestly, I think it’s super tough to justify sabotaging a wedding, no matter the personal struggles involved. Like, shouldn't family support each other, especially during such a significant time? Just makes me wonder about the boundaries in these relationships. What do you all think?

[@McghaneyAmoruso]

this video was really engaging and very well-presented! however, i can’t help but wonder if the sister's past behavior is really justifiable given her current struggles. it seems like a lot of people take a “why should i care?” approach, but isn't it possible that her actions were more about personal issues than anything else?

[@StoryRequests]

really loved the storytelling in this video, it’s so engaging and thought-provoking. but honestly, i think the sister's actions might be understandable given her struggles. that doesn't make it right, but when people face tough times, they can act out in unexpected ways. some might say she should’ve supported her sister instead, but emotions run high in situations like this, you know? what do you all think?

[@PandaNarratives]

what a captivating story, I really enjoyed the way you presented everything. but honestly, I can't help but feel that the sister’s actions were incredibly selfish, especially considering the timing. I get that she might be struggling, but that doesn’t excuse sabotaging such an important event for someone else. what do you all think?

[@purfellfonfha]

this video was really engaging and brought out so many emotions. it's interesting to see how family dynamics can shift so dramatically. but honestly, while i sympathize with her struggles to conceive, it feels a bit unfair to use that as a justification for how she treated her sister's big day. family should support each other, right? what do you all think?

[@DreamyBlox0812]

what an intriguing video, I really appreciate the insight you provided! however, I can't help but feel that maybe the sister's actions, while undoubtedly hurtful, could be more about her own insecurities and struggles rather than just pure sabotage. it’s hard to blame someone when they’re dealing with their own pain, but at the same time, it makes me wonder if some personal accountability is necessary too. what do you all think?

[@lauren92355]

This seriously sounds like a storyline from The Young & The Restless!!!

[@TalesUnfolded48]

this video was really captivating, and the storytelling was on point! i have to say, though, that i find it hard to sympathize with the sister. i mean, sabotaging a wedding? that’s pretty extreme, and it makes me wonder if there’s more to the story. can someone really expect forgiveness after doing something like that, even if she’s facing her own struggles? just a thought!

[@DreamyBlox0812]

this video was really intriguing, and i appreciate how you presented such a sensitive topic. but honestly, i feel like it’s a bit over the top to hold a grudge against your sister just because of her struggles. everyone has their battles, and it seems unfair to blame her for what happened during your wedding.

[@TaleThreads-w7u]

great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! tho, i can't help but wonder if the sister's actions were truly driven by jealousy or just a desperate attempt to make herself the center of attention, considering her struggles. it seems like there's always more to the story than we see. what do you all think?

[@StorySubreddit-y9e]

this video was really well put together, and i appreciate the storytelling! but honestly, i can’t help but think that the sister's actions are just way too selfish. like, is sabotaging someone else's big day really justified just because she’s dealing with her own issues? i mean, shouldn’t we support each other instead?

[@BellemyHerauf]

this video was really well-made and captured a unique story. however, i can’t help but feel that the sister’s actions, while maybe driven by her own struggles, were really selfish. it’s tough to justify sabotaging such an important day for someone else, even if she's going through a lot. what do you all think?

[@GoldsNarrations]

Good

[@BryantCompton-jh9hh]

Ok that's just messed up

[@game.master69]

Get a restriing order , really get one

[@StorySubreddit-y9e]

really enjoyed the storytelling in this video, it was both engaging and thought-provoking. but honestly, i can't help but feel like the sister's actions, while misguided, might stem from her own deep insecurities. should family dynamics really dictate someone's big day, especially when there's a bigger, more complicated issue at play? it's a tough call.

[@heatheraucoin5832]

Op should Not wish bad things to others while pregnant. Also I bet OP parents and sis probably said that OP is carrying her baby & refuse to give it to her.

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

Doesn't work like that

[@DailyRedditStories1208]

great video! i really appreciate the way you shared your story, it was very engaging. but honestly, i can't help but feel that the sister's actions, while definitely wrong, might have stemmed from deeper insecurities. it just makes me wonder if there's more to her struggles than what’s shown. what do you all think?

[@StoryRequests]

this was such an intriguing video, really loved your storytelling! however, i can’t help but feel that while it’s awful what happened at the wedding, some might argue that the sister's struggles to conceive shouldn't overshadow the unfairness of her actions. it kind of makes you wonder if family dynamics should always prioritize feelings over accountability, right?

[@PandaNarratives]

this video was really thought-provoking and tactfully presented, kudos to you for sharing your story. but honestly, i can't help but wonder if the sister's actions were rooted in jealousy more than anything else. while it's tough to navigate family issues, shouldn't we be more supportive rather than getting caught up in drama? just a thought!

[@SheilaWestman-l6u]

Dont apologize for shit!

[@CPDystopia]

I think the percentage of reddit stories that are actually true are less than 5%. Who, behaves like this? I can't even conceive this level of fuckery. I would disown my sister. and lay down a boundary line for the parents, ask me again to share my kid and you can consider yourselves not grandparents.

[@lucyblossom0812]

This video was really engaging and your storytelling skills are on point! I can't help but feel a bit conflicted though; while it's tough that your sister caused trouble at such an important moment, I wonder if her struggles with conception change the way we should view her actions. Should we forgive her more easily now that we know what she's dealing with? Just a thought!

[@scrappingranny]

BS

[@AlexanderLucio-e7i]

Wat

[@heatheraucoin5832]

Op should Not wish bad things to others while pregnant.

[@MaccullochPearlman]

great video! i really enjoyed the storytelling. but honestly, it seems a bit unfair to hold a grudge over a wedding mishap, especially considering her struggles now. shouldn't family be more compassionate in tough times? just my two cents!

[@justareglurredditor]

fisrt

[@GoldrupGolly]

Wow, this video was super engaging and really pulled me in! I couldn't help but feel for the narrator, but honestly, it seems kinda unfair to hold a grudge over the wedding sabotage when your sister is going through such a tough time with conceiving. I get the hurt, but shouldn't family come first, especially in difficult moments? What do you all think?

[@RedditFamilyTales]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I totally see where you're coming from-family should definitely come first, especially during tough times. But I can also understand how hard it must be to move past something as hurtful as wedding sabotage. Maybe both sides need to sit down, talk it out, and find a way to heal.

[@kchanuwu6775]

Fist

[@RedditFamilyTales]

Welcome my channel

[@RedditFamilyRoses]

I’m still trying to wrap my head around how anyone could possibly share a baby… It just doesn’t make sense to me. How does that even work? You can’t just split a little one down the middle or trade them off like some kind of possession. It’s a whole person we’re talking about, with needs, emotions, and a future!