The poor dad has so much guilt but he seems super loving
@Toddusonfee2 жыл бұрын
He’s a very good man. Despite his history, it doesn’t make him a bad person. He’s continuing to help others who’ve been in a similar situation. He runs AA meetings, and he even manages a clean and sober home. And I’m very proud of him. He’s currently in a very tough position though, he’s trying to fight to maintain parental rights for my little sister. And her mom is trying to take that away from him. And I ask those who see’s this comment, please pray for my father. He needs the support and doesn’t deserve losing his daughter.
@toddfee92512 жыл бұрын
@@Toddusonfee thank you Son. Dad loves you and is so proud of you
@Slug_Boots2 жыл бұрын
@@Toddusonfee I’ll be praying for your father and sister
@fableeclipse81982 жыл бұрын
@@Toddusonfee how’s it going???
@Toddusonfee Жыл бұрын
@@fableeclipse8198 no updates yet sadly
@friday1162 жыл бұрын
I love that Cut brings more about sobriety to the surface. Super important topic that needs to be more acknowledged
@yusraa.2 жыл бұрын
same. sobriety from weed too. it’s important.
@nyxx78132 ай бұрын
@@yusraa. if you have problems sure. But the drug war is insanely toxic. being incarcerated over the age of 18 for JUST weed is stupid as fuck.
@mantaraylove2 жыл бұрын
Todd senior seems like such a wholesome man, and just look at his expressions. I'm really happy he's doing better, I can tell he regrets what he's done and he loves his son a lot. You go Todd
@toddfee92512 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bunny. One day at a time, I'm doing just that!
@stephh12282 жыл бұрын
The dad was so sweet, I just wanted to give him a hug
@toddfee92512 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie. I am the Dad in the video. Hug accepted!
@CassandraL6662 жыл бұрын
When he said “Thank you.” to his son my heart SHOOK. I could hear how much that meant to him to hear. Like he finally realized he’s mending what he’d broken…. Ugh. This was a good one. Thank you to the parents and children for being so open! 💗
@toddfee92512 жыл бұрын
Cassandra I'm the father in the video. It was one of the hardest yet most rewarding thing I've done in sobriety. And the fact I got to do it with my son made it all the better. Glad you liked it
@cold_lenny42072 жыл бұрын
I lost my mom a month ago to alcohol. She never got sober but we tried and I tried so long. I have so many regrets. Please don’t have any regrets if you’re struggling with an alcoholic parent, I’m so glad ur parents got sober
@LoveFitsAll2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry
@TwilightHeart22 жыл бұрын
Sending love
@rileydrew31592 жыл бұрын
I lost my father Aug 2019 due to alcohol. Sending you peace. It’s so hard.
@DYoung-vt8pq2 жыл бұрын
(((Hugs))) ❤️
@klaralee16502 жыл бұрын
I wish I could give you the biggest hug. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss
@DaireMagic2 жыл бұрын
I love that the father & son's tattoos have a similar style; they complement one another. I'd like to think that's not a coincidence & speaks of the closeness we see here.
@toddfee92516 ай бұрын
@Dairemagic no coincidence at all. We have the same artist
@kung-fukennyfamily2 жыл бұрын
They all look healthy and happy, glad they're sober now, This is good wholesome fun.
@bela-sofia342 жыл бұрын
@@Aiwxss PoTahTo !🔥
@XJokermanX2 жыл бұрын
@@Aiwxss random
@LoveFitsAll2 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS FANTASTIC. I'M A RECOVERED MOM OF a 4 yr old and this gives me courage
@rominasanchez25892 жыл бұрын
Fighting!
@kaleidosode2 жыл бұрын
you got this girl!! 💕
@ForTheWitches2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, any failures along your journey are just a part of your process ❤
@Pondwater4662 жыл бұрын
ur unhinged
@itssosarahh2 жыл бұрын
keep going!!! you got this!!!
@luisaflicker97532 жыл бұрын
So much respect to all these parents for getting and staying sober! As a child of an alcoholic parent that hasn’t been able to get sober yet, I do hope that I will get to have a conversation like that with him in my lifetime.
@rosielinsey78492 жыл бұрын
Me too, I hope it will come, lots of love ❤️
@DA-js7xz2 жыл бұрын
It sucks because many of us realize it will never happen 😔
@initiallykrsed68102 жыл бұрын
Yeah I felt happy for these people, but a little bit hurt myself because this milestone is far from being reached at the moment with my parent
@Alexxxpdx2 жыл бұрын
“How hard it is to do nothing, to sit in your own shit” Dude if that doesn’t speak volumes.
@hanna-gracepoole93272 жыл бұрын
When they asked the parents what they regret you can immediately see the kids have validation after so long. this video was beautiful!
@mauddelaunay83992 жыл бұрын
No sex for 4 years to focus on Himself! You are a masterpiece all respect you deserved!
@umusty6192 жыл бұрын
"I gave you recovery-" "You also gave me addiction." The way I choked
@DA-js7xz2 жыл бұрын
It was uncalled for too. I grew up around addict parents and never went down that road.
@kookykiddo2 жыл бұрын
That was hilarious. I’m glad they can laugh about it because I am sure it is true, it’s true for me!
@busybeatravels2 жыл бұрын
The vulnerability and forgivingness. Glad these families had this opportunity with one another. Thank you for sharing
@jiannadalman86602 жыл бұрын
truly one of the hardest things is having an addict for a parent and following in their footsteps. the feeling i get from being so young and wanting better and fighting for it is immense. and knowing my mom is still struggling. that shit is ass. so anyone who hasn’t gotten this moment to see their parents sober, you got this, you have all the resources you need to feel loved and appreciated and to be successful!! do not let their failures be yours
@jiannadalman86602 жыл бұрын
sometimes i resent my own mother for her actions and then i seen myself do the same things and it was a hard kick in the ass. so idk. i feel like addiction is something we never realize the damage until it’s already done. i am proud of all these parents no matter the time it took. because the love and time and-effort they showed in the in will matter. hearing my mom say she doesn’t know if she can do it or if it’s even worth it bc of how long she’s already done it is a reason i won’t let myself get there.
@naynay-fi7iv2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing this one. And a massive shout out to those who took part and opened up to the world. I seriously learned a lot from this episode.
@strawbs68262 жыл бұрын
This was probably extremely therapeutic to these people to openly talk and may have opened up doors to being more comfortable in the long run ❤
@hannahh97052 жыл бұрын
The lady saying “ I actually have to be there” puts so much into perspective and I understand beyond what words can express I understand
@rileydrew31592 жыл бұрын
Alcoholism got my father before sobriety did and he passed about 3 1/2 years ago. I wish I could have a conversation like this with him, to be real, honest and see answers. These are questions I always thought about but never asked.
@equivalentexchangeisalie572626 күн бұрын
Sorry for your loss 🙏
@mica00012 жыл бұрын
i wish i got to have this conversation with my dad, he couldn't win his battle against addiction. rip dad, it's been 8 years and i miss you everyday. congratulations and appreciation to all parents who work hard to be sober for themselves and their families!❤
@shannons16462 жыл бұрын
my mom has been sober for almost 10 years now and I love to see the openness between other adult kids and their sober parents. I am now 2 weeks living sober myself and i couldnt of done it without that role model, so to all the now sober parents who feel guilt- dont. its never too late to make an impact
@alexikleiin2 жыл бұрын
I relate to the kids and their feelings that they tend to be more short tempered with their parent that was an alcoholic. My dad still struggles with it, but even in the good moments I don’t give him the grace I give others.
@Someone-dq4zt2 жыл бұрын
As someone with a dad that overdosed at the beginning of this year, I’m so happy to see these people being able to have this conversation but also sad for the the fact that I can’t. I love how this showed that drug addicts aren’t bad people, they’re just nice people who felt like they were given a bit too much for themselves to handle and made a mistake and that you can change. Love you lots dad ♥️ ❤️
@spencer71512 жыл бұрын
This was so wholesome to watch. I also have experience with alcoholism in my family and to see these parents with their children really warms my heart.
@thatshowitallstarted2 жыл бұрын
My comment is not meant in a rude way, just to clarify! You can say 'to see these parents with their children really warms my heart' in English. I have some friends that drink in excess too and I worry sometimes. One or two glasses isn't really seen as a problem since they're not getting drunk. It might not be a full blown addiction, but I still feel like it's unhealthy bevahiour to drink alcohol almost every day...
@DA-js7xz2 жыл бұрын
@@thatshowitallstarted if it's every day then it's an addiction.
@thatshowitallstarted2 жыл бұрын
@@DA-js7xz I don't know about addiction, but disorder drinking for sure. But especially for older people here it's seen as normal to have a glass of wine or smth every evening. They just don't see it as problematic. I mean, these people are not getting drunk, but there are health risks that come with daily drinking, even if it's one glass. But I live in a country with a drinking culture so I just have a different view I think
@DA-js7xz2 жыл бұрын
@@thatshowitallstarted if someone is drinking every day, it is an addiction. This is especially due to the fact that if the alcohol was removed, their body would physically experience withdrawal symptoms. Coffee/caffiene addiction is rampant in our society. Addiction behavior runs along a spectrum depending on how much is being taken/how far away from a sober state one is.
@Buntrina2 жыл бұрын
So glad to see such healthy healing relationships post addiction
@savirasalsabila8312 жыл бұрын
the dad is sooo supportive
@beaulocon996 Жыл бұрын
I think it was super powerful seeing a mother and daughter who both experienced addiction speak to each other about it. I would have loved to hear more about what it was like for the mother to witness her child struggle with addiction, because both perspectives are so important. The ramifications of parents with addictions is pretty significant, but my heart equally goes out to parents who have children who struggle with it. Such a dismal cycle. I hope and wish that those who have the disposition in their heart to do better, can also feel the strength and courage to do so.
@fortnitebattlepass12998 Жыл бұрын
i’m like 90% sure that girls high on the show
@Therealinkedmommy2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad (also great because they are sober now) but as a child who grew up in the 80's & 90's, both my parents did drugs around me and both were alcoholics. I didn't know about my mom... I seemed only to see my step-dad as the 'drunk or high' one, but that was because my mom took care of me and defend me when he got out of control. Kids should never have to think "can I trust my parent" or "am I safe"!!! Thank you to those who have gotten sober! I have also dealt with addiction myself once I got into my teens and super early 20's. There are genetic correlations to addiction, but also kids tend to follow in their parents footsteps even if they hate them growing up.
@GrizzlyHillman2 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah, sober representation! 13 years on New Year's for me.
@JamieBeeReseller2 жыл бұрын
I’m 5 months sober from alcohol I understand these people 😊❤
@rominasanchez25892 жыл бұрын
Keep fighting :)) You can do it!
@marlasasha13092 жыл бұрын
congrats;)
@chloefaith33992 жыл бұрын
congratulations ❤
@GIam0r0us2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations, stay strong. Waking up in the morning not having that feeling of needing it to start your day is beautiful ❤️ sending my love and prayers
@shoelacedonkey2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! 5 months is impressive! :D
@bruhbun2 жыл бұрын
These videos help me stay clean and sober.
@TheSuperNats2 жыл бұрын
You got this, trust me it’s worth it.
@bruhbun2 жыл бұрын
@@TheSuperNats Thanks i appreciate it 🙏
@sophiaeloisea2 жыл бұрын
These people are all so lucky to have parents who chose sobriety for themselves and those they loved.
@parvati68232 жыл бұрын
That father and son seem so sweet, I feel like they had a lot of conflict in the past I’m hopeful that they are working on things
@valeriepavlistikova9132 Жыл бұрын
5:45 ❤❤🥺 and all of him 😄♥️
@siakobba69412 жыл бұрын
The next cut video should be ME and my NEIGHBOR Truth or drink 😂it will be fun
@chasesavvy9182 жыл бұрын
I hold this episode very close to my heart as i face trying to "make" my mom sober for ~20 years (i'm 28). Huge kudos to these parents for willing to open up on camera. You all give me hope for a brighter future. Aloha!
@lywldrs23482 жыл бұрын
I’m sending you lots of love
@chasesavvy9182 жыл бұрын
@@lywldrs2348 Mahalo nui! Same to you! 💙
@bklynkat232 жыл бұрын
I've been enjoying the Sober versions of this game. I would love for Fear Pong to come back tho
@DA-js7xz2 жыл бұрын
Sammmee
@nataliiii2 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad to alcohol in 2008. He tried to get better, but in the end he just couldn’t. As an adult, my biggest wish has been to have conversations like these with him. Thank you for this video and the vulnerability. ❤
@Ryoko-Hakubi2 жыл бұрын
I'm sober now 4 years and it only came about when I cut my mom off. She'll never find sobriety though I hope for it everyday. The fear of knowing someday I'll get a call saying she's drank herself to death made my addiction almost unbearable. When you love an addict you grieve for them while they're still alive.
@Cole_Owens2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been sober for like 5 years. It’s hard being in college with everyone drinking and doing drugs, but I am a better person now
@theoneandonlykow Жыл бұрын
As the child of an addict and an addict themself, I cried so much in this video
@angelgalindo5740 Жыл бұрын
As an alcy goin through my rocky journey in recovery, this showed up at a perfect time and really hit home ✊🏽🥲
@synaesthesiarts79892 жыл бұрын
Respect to all of them. It takes courage and humanity to have such conversations, let alone releasing some of them online. Well done.
@39abc932 жыл бұрын
they can be incredibly proud of themselves. very well done. i'm so impressed.
@vonjones62992 жыл бұрын
You guys should do one with absent parents at the beginning and now they are back in their child's life as they are older.
@Marksman3434 Жыл бұрын
Todd Sr. makes me want to give him a hug. 😢
@toddfee9251 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. We could all use one from time to time
@janieaguila9194 Жыл бұрын
I love this! I’m so proud of you and glad you got not only your son back in your life, but a life worth living! We do Recover 😊 Way to Go Tod
@toddfee9251 Жыл бұрын
Janie thank you so much! Glad you likes the video I was so glad I did it, and to have my Son part of it made it even better
@CandyCaneGirls242 жыл бұрын
Lost my dad to alcohol addiction in April 2021. This video os very healing and congratulations on the sobriety ❤
@savannahlopez82512 жыл бұрын
I'm super glad my father got sober before I was born (not before my siblings, but before me). I wouldn't be able to picture my life with him drinking. I've heard the stories, and it makes me not want to drink or do any type of drugs, because I have to be here for my son. I'm glad these parents are sober now 🙏
@christinescorner1112 жыл бұрын
loved this episode. so glad you guys incorporated the sober aspect with this game
@caleb03882 жыл бұрын
Wishing them all the best in their future and no relapses
@emilynicole49185 ай бұрын
My parents are still alcoholics. They refuse to get sober. This gives me hope.
@lawlelizabethxo2 жыл бұрын
So wish I could do this with my dad, unfortunately his addiction took him away from me 💔 props to all of these parents for making the hard but right decision to be there for their kids
@JJBillie Жыл бұрын
I wish me and my dad could do something like this, but he hasn't been sober since he was twelve years old. It makes me so happy seeing this knowing some people can get better.
@lc3607 ай бұрын
I wish my mother would stop drinking. She keeps a bottle in her bedroom. She turns into someone i dont like. She forgets things. Its like she's not here. Im 28 but it hurts. She calls me controlling when i say im worried about her. The people in this video are my heroes
@juliannaacosta310 Жыл бұрын
y’all need a dad and DAUGHTER doing this.
@Tiririti2 жыл бұрын
I love sober truth or drink, so deep!
@kellydahlman-oeth30162 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful honesty.
@shadayviawallace48432 жыл бұрын
Cut should do a truth or drink with parents who were "teen parents" and their adult childern
@dylangordon4064 Жыл бұрын
Genuinely took me 6 minutes to realise they were playing without the drink 😂😂😂😂
@hunterkaimi Жыл бұрын
as a child of two alcohols (one sober for 22 years), alanon has saved my life. if a loved one of yours struggles with addiction, i strongly suggest going to meetings.
@diannegotlibowski44722 жыл бұрын
Im a recovering addict. 9 years now. I still feel guilty towards certain things or ppl specially my kids. I did what i was taught i turned into my mother. Today im not her. Today i continue to break many cycles. Yes i do it for my kids and for my sisters kids. My sisters. I got them all back. Except one that demon took her. Ill never get my mother back. Even though shes alive. Shes so toxic. For years i hated my mother. Today i love her. Even if she still uses. I no longer hate her. I walked in her shoes ten times worse then her. Difference is i learned and changed. She doesnt have that power. She yells at me all the time. For not letting her in. Telling her when i need help or something. I do distance myself. I have boundaries today. And thats ok. I wish one day she would get help. My reality she never will. I accept that. I
@zookeethehunter77902 жыл бұрын
The background music really didnt fit the vibe if this video
@alyssaroxanne90842 жыл бұрын
I felt like it was louder in this one too. It was distracting.
@biancanolin99862 жыл бұрын
More sobriety videos please!!
@lindagozdzik88592 жыл бұрын
Rewards of being sober and moving through the pain, thank you for sharing ❤😊
@ITI-xi5zx2 жыл бұрын
as a child of abuse, I still forgive my parents. that does not mean they are worth forgiving by most standards, becuase they arent-- what they did to us was truly unforgivable
@DA-js7xz2 жыл бұрын
We can forgive in the sense of acceptance of the situation, but we can't forget - therefore we will never truly accept abusers into our lives.
@augustvergara68782 жыл бұрын
Dam that hit hard when she said I was out of your life for 5 years , been in that similar situation and they made me tearing because I should have fought harder but I am glad I am sober for 3 years now and will continue and relapse is something I don't even things about
@GameFreak4Ever2 жыл бұрын
As child of a former alcoholic/drug addict I forgave my mother but unfortunately never built a relationship.
@monicamacneille33722 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this series. Please keep it coming. Maybe do different substances. This is so important.
@lixzzy2 жыл бұрын
this made my heart so full , props to each one of these people fr y’all are badass . thank you!!!
@dippedndope74112 жыл бұрын
This is dope every person with an addict parent should see this.
@jaleenap36102 жыл бұрын
what a great video. my father struggles with alcoholism, and i'm also in recovery, so this video really touched me.
@Slimshadybbyy2 жыл бұрын
I love this video. It’s beautiful & important & instills hope
@Loregasmo2 жыл бұрын
“If you’re smelling something it might be my pu-...native body wash” I fuckin’ hate these commercials lol
@ariacorkum41022 жыл бұрын
My dads 5 1/2 years sober now that I’m 23 and have a 14 year old sister it’s crazy to see how we have grown up with different lives. Me seeing addition and she seeing stability
@persimions.n76372 жыл бұрын
2:20 factual brother ✊🏽 Much love
@prettys0uleat3r2 жыл бұрын
i enjoy these a lot
@alyssaroxanne90842 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting out such quality videos so consistently, Cut. I really appreciate all the different view points you bring in.
@DYoung-vt8pq2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your sobriety! Blessed Be ❤️
@pipesnsnowglobes8921 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has only ever had sober sex it makes me sad that all of that discomfort is someone's experience.
@nicholaslennon Жыл бұрын
As an addict you deprive people of yourself. My Dad was a rampant workaholic. I just remember wanting to play with my dad as a kid but he wasn't home.
@meghansalm93042 жыл бұрын
Not the Native drunk driving ad being the one before this video 🫢
@theworldsperson57052 жыл бұрын
My dads been sober for 8+ years? He got into a really bad bike accident and struggles with a lot more than a relaps so this helps me understand from others how he could be feeling or thinking
@benlerman64982 жыл бұрын
They should do truth or drink: road test examiners and examinees
@kokasjudit Жыл бұрын
My father never had the strength to get sober... he kept on blaming every one else for his shortcomings until his last day! He died alone at home from heart failure due to alcoholism... I am working on forgiving him for my sake, but that little girl inside me mourns she never got to have the true father-daughter relationship...
@niles81022 жыл бұрын
I wish I could've talked to my mom and dad like this more.
@jessybrown30082 жыл бұрын
We luv & support Todd sr 🥹
@toddfee92512 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessy Brown!
@sanara_on_tour2 жыл бұрын
Sober since 1999 and proud as hell 🥳
@ninakousha1741 Жыл бұрын
Incredible! Congrats! 🎉
@reganmclellan71882 жыл бұрын
the mom and daughter who are both sober is the irl version of 'mom' lol
@aqua-mina2 жыл бұрын
Not easy, wishing them the best ❤
@georginanolte16062 жыл бұрын
Workaholics and child would be interesting too
@AhNobody2 жыл бұрын
More of this please and I don't mean just this video context I would like more slice of life stuff
@sarahdemartin11832 жыл бұрын
Wish my mum could get sober
@jaimeejude212 жыл бұрын
The two ladies look like sisters
@josejalapeno8276 Жыл бұрын
not me watching this while taking shots.....
@JohnHausser2 жыл бұрын
Alcoholism is the worst addiction! Terrible disease! Cheers from San Diego California
@Shmem_ Жыл бұрын
Damn I wish I could have had this talk with my dad
@toddfee9251 Жыл бұрын
Emalee I'm Todd Sr., the Dad in this video. Unless he's no longer in your life, it's never too late. I pray you're able to have this talk with your father.