My Teen Romantic Comedy SNAFU - How Society Breaks Us Down

[@IntuitionVE]

Subtitles are available! Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction 1:33 Social Hierarchies 4:43 Social Competition 7:25 Impressions 11:25 Defense Mechanisms 13:24 Defense Mechanisms - Altruism 16:38 Defense Mechanisms - Rationalization 18:13 Defense Mechanisms - Avoidance 21:57 Identity 27:50 Vulnerability 30:30 Intimacy

[@ivankaramazov9484]

Subtitles are fore Masochists who CANT appreciate the work that the DUBBING community has put in for them...

[@kaustubh97]

it is dubbed in english, you could have use scenes in english

[@keconto6536]

@@kaustubh97 subtitles supremacy! :>.

[@inos9]

From what anime is that pic u have on your channel? Not ur profil pic. The pic with the girl and boy😊

[@Ebalon_Harque]

A 40 minutes video essay about why we need Hiratsuka Sensei in our life.

[@weird3604]

I agree, she's precious❤❤❤

[@himanshu-2510]

​@@weird3604 i also agree (+1)

[@animeyahallo3887]

Hachiman is true to his word. he really "hated" nice girls. Yukino, a not nice girl would openly criticize and sometimes harshly disagree with Hachiman's damaging actions without pulling any punches. She was mostly genuine to hachiman from the start the exact thing he wished in ep8 season 2 if i am correct. While Yui failed to openly be genuine to Hachiman particularly regarding to the latter's unhealthy social actions, afraid to lose him if she ever overstep. If Hachiman is incorrigible, he would 100% choose Yui but he is not a incorrigible person. Very far from it. Hachiman chose the one who would correct him when he is wrong, who would not be afraid to speak her mind, someone who deeply cares for Hachiman that she'd rather risk her relationship with him if that is what it takes for him to change to a better person. Yui is definitely the best girl of the anime and the general public/average person, but Yukino is the best girl for Hachiman. The OVA will drop in few months guys!!

[@tariqplays5826]

Damn

[@jrbudoybudoy]

Legit. If Hachiman was shallow, season 1 would end with Hachiman being with Yui. Good thing that didn't happen

[@xdboygamerzxdboygamerz7467]

ive been looking for the exact release date of the Ova, where did you know about this?

[@efemji]

@@xdboygamerzxdboygamerz7467 kzbin.info/www/bejne/boK9qqaPiq-YbNk i believe this is the trailer, but i saw some other versions that contain the novel extra chapter spoilers

[@kungszigfrids1482]

I find Jukino to be the best girl generally too.

[@minegamerpro1308]

this might possibly be the best oregairu video essay I've watched (and I watch a lot of it), if you can upload more videos with this quality I bet you can make it big

[@IntuitionVE]

thank you, i'll do my best :-)

[@csblucas]

@@IntuitionVE we’re eating bro , half way thru s2 and just finished watching this , amazing video bro💯

[@ryohei9027]

@@IntuitionVE Did you experience the same things or are you a psychology student ? Oregairu always hit different for me since i'm basically hachiman. I didn't get the romantic arc tho. So yeah i can only congratulate you for this video, this sums it up perfectly. When you've reached the bottom pit of loneliness you obtain the ability to see through anyone. It's really cool to being able to understand people easily, but idk if it's worth it. Being alone is the worst suffering, even if it bulds up your mental fortitude having to go through an existential crisis and the need to disappear is hard. To anyone reading this : if you have people in your surroundings that tends to be like hachiman please interact with them, even just saying hello is a big thing for loners. We're probably the most genuine people out there too, so you'll probably build a strong relationship with us, weither it's romantic or a simple friendship. But don't wait for them to be so deep into those negative feelings because we're not all the same when we start questioning why we're alive, our worth in the world, going through every bad moments/regrets in our life and trying to find positive out of it to move on. People can go through a lot like me, people can give up and choose death right away ... I'm not asking you to save everyone, i'm just saying that "wasting" 30 seconds of your life saying hello can save a life. ♥ ps : English is not my first language, so you can reformulate the parts you don't get, it's not hard to understand anyway. The hardest part is putting yourself in the other guy shoes.

[@shubhamghoshal2939]

​@@csblucas why did you watch this before finishing the series and spoil yourself 💀

[@csblucas]

@@shubhamghoshal2939 I’ve seen most of it on tiktok and elsewhere anyway

[@PixelGamer05HD]

There are a lot of "Explain Oregairu" videos out there, but your unique mix of explanation and scientific research together with a clear structure makes this the best one I've had the privilege of seeing. Thanks so much.

[@IntuitionVE]

thank you so much! i'm glad you enjoyed it

[@robertchapman7451]

​@@IntuitionVE u did great but there is a big factor left out in all these guys never have a safety net people " should help girls" and the right to fill this ways in on more then one point in his life and how he is allowed to live

[@shojinakayama6997]

How the season 1 opening plays right after "I love you, Hikigaya" always gives me the goosebumps. Great video.

[@benjaminfranklin2836]

"is your feelings that simple to be described in just a single word?" - Hiratsukai sensei, S3 Ep 10 That word stuck on my head the most when watching this anime, i always has a feeling in my head that for some reason cant be described, i was told that there is no such thing and if you dont know the feeling how can you fix it. But this quote is like telling me that having this feeling is normal for a human being and we shouldn't rush for an answer.

[@woomynation]

This is so criminally underrated, it's such an in depth analysis I wish I could share with everyone who has seen this anime. I truly wish for you continue with these and know how much this means to us. Thank you if you see this

[@nunothedude]

Ill watch this later, but man what u described about the main charater is eerely similair and relatable on how i see the world and how i have 0 friends, its crazy

[@hel2727]

also, the anime didn't really include all that, but his fake confession to ebina actually had a heavier impact on his reputation. the next episode begins when things have withered down a little, but people still remember and talk about what he did.

[@logixindie]

This series is a beast to unwrap. Keep up the amazing work!

[@IntuitionVE]

thank you so much!

[@aforautism4247]

Although I am 6months late to the party, I just must say it. What a truly amazing essay on a truly amazing anime. I rarely can pull through watching video essays in their entirety, but this one had me glued to my screen all the way through. Once again, really good job. That is a subscribe for me.

[@uniedits5459]

One of the best oregairu video analysis ever made, congratulations mate

[@blastburnz]

This guy wakes up, produces the best Oregairu video I've ever listened to. And then dips lol. Incredible work, what an inspiration.

[@name_adi]

Ok that end gave me goosebumps. I always had problems in being able to cry over things my mind wanted to cry over rather than my heart but this video actually made me shed a tear. I always wanted to know what did she meant by being "drunk"... But i never got that answer. After I watched this and finally got it I felt so relieved for some reason cause it was very confusing. There are also several other answers i got and it... just feels so god damn good to finally know them. While i have already watched oregairu 3 times I had never got these answers so i thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@dany27P]

i know what you mean. i had that same issue with toradora but after watching videos about it like this one, i understood everything so well and it was a really good feeling

[@kungszigfrids1482]

The reason I so love this show is because humans want to see each other do well. So seeing someone like Hačiman I see someone who needed help like I did and watching the show I feel happy to see he got what I never did.

[@slothiophia4654]

This is Peak Oregairu Essay Period. But i can say this one is so hard to dethroned, man thanks for your works of art

[@anonymous_first_sin]

This show really resonates with me because I can completely get hachimon . I have most of the feelings he had throughout the show and even now I have a lot of those . The nice girls and youth quotes he says are especially true and I do generally believe before he found love everything he said is 100 percent true . I also believe in the words of kiyotaka on his quote of about the great lie known as equality. It's a lie people say to make up for what they lack . Because it's much easier to tell everyone it's not me it's because of one reason or another . Humans are born equal that is true however the second after that stops . Be it our natural talents are hard work or society or even how we dress . However when someone is failing they cry and say everyone should be equal but as kiyotaka says that impossible and it's why equality is the biggest lie.

[@bigmoodgaming8539]

This anime does something to me every time i watch it. I change as a person every time even after 10+ rewatches. thank you for going so in-depth about the sgow i love so much!

[@deckardshaw6696]

This anime made me cry so much, it gave me a lot of sadness and happiness at the same time. Thanks for the video

[@aftertone3146]

An impressively well researched and well studied essay on social dynamics.

[@Devedrus]

Evolutionary biologist here, wanted to add a note: The science presented in this video is definitely the basis of Hachiman's philosophy and presented as true by the author, so it makes sense to discuss in the context of this video. HOWEVER, explaining modern human behavior in terms of evolutionary drivers ranges from incomplete to outright pseudoscience depending on who you ask. Most notably for the context of this video, the depiction of hierarchies as discussed here as "natural" is very debatable, and often used to justify not changing them. For instance many human societies have no de facto leader, and instead call on different members to lead in different situations depending on who knows the most. When we look to non-human animals, dominance structures aren't all that common. It requires a pretty complex brain to keep track of who is over whom, recognize a leader and understand their intentions, etc. All of that is to say that the science presented here does a good job at describing how the society Hachiman is in is cutting structured, but does a poor job of describing why that structure exists. Within the fiction of the show those drivers are at play and so this is worth discussing, but viewers should think of it more like a philosophy or life motto than scientific fact.

[@Devedrus]

Disclaimer, I work on things not closely related to humans so this isn't direct expert opinion, but this is what I've gathered from colleagues who are experts.

[@AHeroWith1000Names]

Thank you for your insight!

[@jjm004]

Severely underrated video. Excellent research and analysis.

[@zAcroniX]

This is a personal favourite of mine, easily the deepest and most enjoyable anime I've ever seen. This video was very constructive and you explained Hachiman very well, showing how someone, no matter how stubborn can change, enjoyed this a lot! Subbed too! :)

[@fin231]

i was so confused on the scene why hachiman cried, now i finally got it.

[@animatics5142]

This video really shows what is the meaning behind oregairu its not just a simple romance anime but also it can teach you some real life lessons .

[@eksbocks9438]

A lot of times, social cliques form because of shared quirks in personality. Which is why Hayato's group is different from Hachiman's group. The problem is Hachiman is an introvert. Which makes creating relationships difficult for him. Not to mention being more prone to stress. Hence why he couldn't succeed in his younger years. But he can talk to Yukino without any issues. They're both just tailored for a different world, or time period. Hence why Shizuka-sensei had to step in. And put them in a more controlled social environment. Get them away from the monotony of everyday life. As well as people in the crowd. Who could be a negative influence on them. And just like that. The main cast is able to actually build something in their life. Without having to "fake" anything.

[@phendy2]

Thank you for doing such a good analysis on this amazing series 👏❤️

[@IntuitionVE]

thank you, i'm glad you enjoyed it! ❤️

[@Naruto-mn1dy]

Thanks for this video, I knew Oregairu was way more deep than what I could get hold of, I'm sure you've done tons of research for this and spent a lot of time on it and I really really appreciate it.

[@wafIeee]

i was trying to forget this anime in order to rewatch it for the masterpiece it is but considering how well made this video is i couldnt resist not completing it

[@masterspork3735]

I got hooked on this video. This was amazing, and I just felt awe at the end that I just had to sit in. I love the topic of socially outcasted, anxious or awkward people. I just cannot fathom that anyone does not want friends, genuine bonds, except for antisocial people of course. There's something just holds them back. This video is just more reason to keep trying. That hill that I can't seem to cross, will only be easier after I look what's over it. It just sucks that I can't physically see it, and maybe it's not as steep as expected, or that I'm scared of how much there is in order to get to it.

[@tuankietnguyenthanh7091]

this is one of the most dedicated video I've ever seen about Oregairu, extreme well done bro :3

[@ZakeandZach]

Respect, my man. You put more effort into this video then big budget KZbinrs. I hope you get big. I agree, this is one of the best Oregairu videos out there.

[@sirjoel6415]

It's thanks to people like you who are coherent and competent in literacy that I've been able to further deepen my appreciation and enjoyment of this series. At first, I couldn't fully understand every aspect and psychology of the show , especially when Haruno messed things up with co-dependency, but thanks to many other video essays and breakdowns including yours, I'm able to gain this indescribable experience and get extremely emotional over this masterpiece. The confession simply hits different after understanding everything they've been through. I must say, your essay was one of the most vivid, clear-cut and well produced ones so far. Everything from the transitions, explanations and pacing building up to the final confession was amazing. I envy your gift of emotional intelligence and empathy, and your dedication and delivery skills to be able to provide people with a new perspective. Keep up the good work!

[@davidwatson4060]

we can feel the hard work behind This video essay. Probably the best out there. keep up the good job!

[@AIRXKING]

I didn't even worry about the time your video ended, I was amazed with every breakdown!

[@divinitas]

Incredibly well made and on point. This is hands down the best anime video essay I've ever seen.

[@angelo1858]

Thank you for taking the time to analyze this series that I loved and could never quite understand since I watched it a few years ago. I watched it about 3 times but always had a question as to why the trio behaved the way they do and also certain phrases they said that I could never quite understand (like the concept of being drunk). Keep making great videos and thanks a lot.

[@anytimehegzit2771]

I've seen a lot video essays about oregairu, but you video is the deepest and the most explained. Only god knows how many efforts it takes to do this essay! Don't stop making videos and you became the big influencer in anime youtube. Thank you very much for this essay, i will also see another your videos!

[@jakariashafin1695]

This is one of the most well made video essays I've ever seen yet.😊 this probably took a lot of hardwork and love for the series to make. congratulations you earned a subscriber.

[@Adobii]

this really helped me understand the show more, often times I would find conversations confusing.

[@aslination]

This was like sooo gooooddd man... Like seriously brilliant 💯💯💯

[@pinkboum]

Five months late, I see this masterpiece, what a great work of understanding this anime It made me learn even more about the background work put on SNAFU

[@DragonHalo3D]

An interesting part about Oregairu to me is Hachiman's white haired nerdy friend. He's definitely had similar experiences with ostracism and bullying as both Hachiman and Yukino had, yet he seems to have responded to them in an entirely different way. Why is that? Furthermore, if Hachiman wasn't lucky enough to have Hiratsuka, I wonder what would have happened to both him and Yukino.

[@J-Soul1503]

He believes in kindness 😊 Dont forget how kind totsuka was in whole series 😂

[@robertchapman7451]

You great sir have sold me on this show.! Show me more o wise masters!❤

[@user-oc6qj2jn3h]

I’ve watched a few videos and such on Hachiman, but yours is the best. The psychology references were particularly interesting, especially for someone like myself, who sympathizes with Hachiman. Thank you.

[@HaiNguyen-uk3tf]

I'm highly rated your effort to make this video although there was not many people had seen

[@danielvalencia9218]

This is the best video I’ve seen on this show. Thank you for the great content!

[@IntuitionVE]

thank you!! ❤️

[@lokehoubo9428]

This video is always on the top of next video, and on my recommended. And I'm not mad about it 😄

[@icescremegood6869]

Haven't seen such an amazing analysis in a long time... Good work!

[@toxinuwu]

Here before this guy become big fr tho he earns it he helps explain so much

[@triosciankliquit9982]

Wow I just learned about your channel. Psychology through anime?! It's a dream come true for me! Please keep posting videos, you're amazing! OREGAIRU is my top 3 anime of all time.

[@jokrm3ranm805]

Most possibly. The most underatted utuber I have ever seen. Is there any way I can help? The vid looked interesting and I clicked on it but I didn't think it was this good. I hope u keep doin these anayalsis vids, on characters or maybe even whole series. And I get it tht ur upload schedule takes time bur I would love it if u could upload more often. Just sayin, take ur time. Anyway. Loved ya vid m8. And...subscribed*

[@IntuitionVE]

aww thank you so much, your comment really made my day!! no worries, i just hope you keep watching my videos despite how long they typically tend to make. definitely expect more videos in the coming months however! once again, thank you so much for your support and i really appreciate it :-)

[@jokrm3ranm805]

@@IntuitionVE ur wlcm m8. it did look long at first thus why i can imagine ppl not veiwing the vid as u would have hoped. but the facts mentioned, as well screenshots of different article by renounced phycologists does support ur theory as a whole. the quality of the video production is amazing and i rlly do want to see more of ur vids. and thx for making such vids. it might take a while but keep at it, collaberate as well, tht helps ig. anyway, dont giv up, keep doing wht u r and im sure ppl will see wht details i saw. wish u luck m8

[@juntaro_7590]

This made a lot of sense and it felt very cohesive. Good job loved the analysis.

[@mzkiller2868]

The ending of this anime and this video really hit hard and made my heart beat echo inside due to the emptiness caused by watching the vid and the anime.

[@toontastiix]

Stellar video, great seeing a video essay like this use actual psychological studies and research. Massive props.

[@DvineMotivation]

your voice is so soothing man underrated

[@aykay8525]

All I can say is amazing, your video provided me many new knowledge regarding how human emotions work and explain many things about the anime that I could never understand. Appreciate the efforts you put into the video.

[@TheOtakuRoom]

From a fellow creator on the platform. GREAT WORK MAN. Essays have never really been my jam, but this is by far one of the best I have ever heard, keep up the awesome content!

[@EmpereurListe]

Hello Generally, I can't even stand 4-5 minutes on a youtube video (I don't have a good concentration) before quitting or choosing another one but this time I stayed for the entirety. During all the video you got my attention. Not only you're explaining and talking very well but you also use and show your sources along with examples. I love Oregairu ,and your analysis makes me want to rewatch it entirely and focusing on the points you talked about. I can notice all the work and hours used for this and it's Awesome. Keep up the good work !

[@karinvasu3005]

THIS IS AMAZING THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO

[@Hoopladoopa]

Very well written video essay. I particularly liked the psychoanalysis and use of actual research studies to do a case study on why Hachiman acts the way that he does. Such an interesting anime with a unique main character. What really strikes me is how this show focuses on topics of social hierarchy, dynamics, relationships, etc. and how a cynical loner sees and navigates such things, all while being on a quest to be genuine with himself and other people he truly cares about. I think these are relatable topics to lots of people at some point in their life, which is why I completely loved the first season. However as the show continued, by the 3rd season I didn’t enjoy the show that much personally. My main gripe was how the writing and dialogue seemed to get more subtle and cryptic. To the point that I wasn’t too sure of character motivations at times and felt confused. Also, at this point I had simply gotten older and I wanted to yell, “JUST COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER”. But I know this is a nuanced story of teenagers who are still trying to figure out life, so I get it. Anyways, I really appreciate this video essay. You clearly understand these characters and this story very well, and it made me understand the show way better than when I had watched it by myself initially. I think I had just got lost in the drama and cryptic writing of this anime haha, but your video is excellent and makes me appreciate the anime much more as a whole. Thanks for coming to my TED talk lol

[@Eterrath]

Are you ever gonna come back, man? I'd happily listen to you explaining how potato chips affect us

[@carcamp5451]

Amazing content ❤

[@Hungy]

Amazing analysis videos as always, keep it up! Can't wait to see more in the future 💜

[@IntuitionVE]

hehe thank you for the support hungy ❤

[@francepilie9640]

I really liked this show when I watched it around a year ago, and with this video you made me understand why, shortest 40 minutes of my life

[@yonavlad3723]

this shit made me tear up. great vid

[@angry_h1ka]

One of the most insightfull and inspiring video essays I`ve seen for a long time. I myself had a similar for a Hachiman path long time ago so it was very valuable for me to see everything i understood from my own life experience in clear and systemised approach. This is also one my most favorite anime`s so far and seeing such a deep analytics of it, backed-up with the scientific reasoning and approach makes me feel happy and wanting to move forward in life. Though many years of life experiencing and deep reflection on my past had passed, i still found some stuff to learn as a person. Thank`s for your work - it made my day much better!

[@vern2324]

Goddam what a great breakdown of the series. Such a well done video essay!

[@mohammadusmanbashir9497]

Greatest Anime Explanation Video. Ever! Period

[@urahara654]

insane vid man loved it and all the connections to journals

[@poufaki]

Yesss you are back!

[@IntuitionVE]

haha thank you for coming back!

[@ricchan66]

This is a damn good video essay about Oregairu, bravo! 👏

[@just_flying_dandelions]

I feel like god decided to pick my highschool life from Oregairu's story

[@Arookunn]

Great work The scientific research combined with your way of explaining it was really nice

[@HoangNguyen-mf6up]

This is an extremely good video essay, excellent and meticulous work overall, actually rekindles my love for the series.

[@epicdodobird649]

Best analysis i have seen in a while. Hope you make more

[@sh_dragon]

I'll be honest, I wasn't expecting this much of an exceptional video considering how little views and subscribers you have. It somehow made me appreciate one of my favourite anime even more. I used to relate a lot to Hachiman. I need to do some self reflection, now that I understand Hachiman's psyche that much more. I'll definitely be checking out your previous videos, and eagerly waiting any future anime you tackle, if you decide to continue making videos.

[@virgoproxy]

hachiman is such a well developed character, I wish there were more anime like this

[@DanielDaAbadSukarno]

Damn this is well written essay video!

[@idkwutnam3]

Damn, this Is the most detailed explanation of this anime... Anyway, you just gained new subscriber because of this.....

[@hj.007]

Please make more videos about other series and anything. Subbed

[@hiriyuki_sama]

I can see passion put into this video is overwhelming i appreciate the dedication put into this

[@Bossgameslink]

With how well made this video essay is I was surprised when I subbed and saw you weren't at 100k+, you're great at this, keep it up I'm sure you'll blow up in no time goat 🐐

[@yangz5502]

Absolutely Amazing Video and analysis I just finished the anime. Helped me better understand the anime’s core message.

[@whisperic6718]

I know I'm late, but what a great analysis and video essay! I hope you get big, especially with your editing.

[@sapandaq1373]

I love oregairu, Its my favourite romance anime. This video was so good and made me understand everything in this anime even better than when i watched it a few months ago. Thank you for all the work that u put into making that video, it was amazing. And to anyone reading that commnent - hade a great day.

[@HeWhoLaugths]

All this needs is to be exposed to a wider audience

[@BeardedGuyWillTry]

love the breakdowns, you should make more videos like this!

[@Rave._.Shadow]

Yk this literally just changed my mind on how I thought yui was the one he should be with you put it that way it makes sense actually really great video

[@ghanaria7996]

Dude! Really good video! Keep making more of this style!

[@chrish8111]

Ooo oregairu vid, cant wait. prolly will earn my sub. spittin facts immediately. lets go

[@slowcartridge]

such a good analysis awesome video :)

[@mjbrownii]

Ok this is gonna sound bad but of all of the 1000s of anime I’ve watched this one night actually be the 2 closest thing to perfect that I’ve ever seen. (Not counting action anime or movies) the storyline is second only to toradora. And the characters are sometimes just as good as them. The main character was a perfect illustration of how I saw myself in highschool when I first watched the first season. Then when I watched season 2 and 3 it’s like it matured along with me and I realized in highschool I wasn’t a lone wolf … I was just alone, even when I didn’t want to be I had problems with interacting with people. Then I grew up made some strong friendships and everything turned around. But it’s still not sunshine and rainbows, do I have friends because we’re close or so I won’t be alone… are we really friends? I usually ignore these thoughts but they least creep back in. This is forever one of my favorite and most relatable anime.

[@mjbrownii]

Dang someone’s gonna confiscate my “black” card for typing all that out😂 . Oh well🤷🏾‍♂️

[@chowderfaniii4079]

great video, idk how you dont have more subscribers dude

[@j-rockdeking9876]

I'm gonna get a bit personal and say, this feels like a call out for me specifically. I've always related to hachiman on a very deep level due to similar experiences. What really struck a deep chord with me was the altruism, the ideal self, and the avoidance these were all things I did that have had a significant impact on my life and that I'm still to this day trying to work my way through. Having this video so clearly address all of these things and their effect on some ones life and outlook on said life just hit different. The way hachiman overcame these was very inspiring because it gave me hope that I could also change for the better and live a more satisfying life. so to end this comment I'd like to thank you for making this video, because it allowed me to see this story without some of the biases i have from being so similar to the main character and really re-evaluate everything.

[@adityanegi6828]

F**king wholesome video

[@zero435]

best oregairu video i've ever seen.

[@forsenfanboy]

Thank you so much for breaking down this show. My understanding was halfway there and never as clear as yours. So to sum up, the show explores the (cruel) social hierarchy, reluctance to show your true self/defense mechanisms, and the necessity for identity in a relationship? Can anyone correct me if im missing something?