My wife is not happy with me

My wife is not happy with me

[@sheraldinewhitley3]

This is funny. You both are cracking me up.I know both of you are serious about what you are saying, but you're making it hilarious at the same time. I'm sure next time it will be on point😊

[@charmainehampton5356]

I understand him totally, you can not expect him to enjoy what you enjoy! The positive is he went with you and 3 children as a family. God blessed you with that!

[@aprilsunshine7565]

I agree

[@messi10-bo7ze]

I agree too

[@SoulBuddy2222]

I agree too.

[@Italiza587]

@@charmainehampton5356 I can see your point!

[@Tilly-y8y]

Oh but you want Ruth to enjoy what he enjoys, whether she likes it or not? She is always with him in his country, it takes years to see her family and just 2 weeks of being with them he doesn't like it or enjoy it? You can see she is really hurt, Smh!

[@Trippledna]

Ruth you look so sad, breaks my heart 💜

[@maryshelton1216]

She just wants to stay longer with her family, dude

[@lindaallder3662]

Next time Ruth, I'd go solo or with the kids and see your friends and family. Your thoughts are valid Ruth. Dereks words are insensitive...saying sorry but saying he was annoyed and bored is not cool

[@julietlewis9987]

Guys, the next time go when it is not so busy in Ghana. Derek, you need to be more understanding. Ruth NEEDED to meet with her relatives that she hasn't seen for a L..O..N..G time.

[@maxinedunkley2498]

I can understand Derek's point

[@aprilsunshine7565]

Same here

[@SoulBuddy2222]

Me too

[@mariarobinson2639]

Derek you are so wrong when Ruth said," I went to Ghana without going to Ghana" you said THATS REDICULOUS. You married a woman with a culture you don't understand. SHE MISSES HER CULTURE. SO, DEAL WITH IT. She needs to go back and spend time with family and friends. POINT BLANK.

[@ellenupshaw8025]

Just be grateful that you went and came back . Don't expect Derek to enjoy your land like you. It is not his culture . Derek did well.

[@brownjewel3818]

Next time, leave Derrick home with the children ❤😊

[@mercydixon1958]

❤❤❤❤yes I really love your sweet sincere comment ❤. I really agree with your sincere comment.

[@reeson1968]

“Kiss the hand”😂 Ruth you’re too funny.

[@Trippledna]

00 truth is coming out, can’t hide it always, but Ruth I really enjoyed that, regardless that’s your home. That’s the motherland, i didn’t want to say anything but I saw it a bit in Darrick and I’m so sorry Ruth, it was so awesome to see the family and all that you guys did there, breaks my heart to see Derrick action on this, whoa Derrick, no Derrick you shouldn’t ever go back, your true actions said it loud and clear,whoa😔 no don’t go Derrick!

[@ariseshine08]

I agree she shouldn't go with him, that shouldn't be a big deal

[@Nsama_natasha]

Thank you guys for keeping it real ❤

[@nishalopez6952]

I agree with Ruth on this.

[@dyanaboatwright4156]

Derek was being very insensitive, he sees his family more often, he should’ve understood how Ruth was feeling, she didn’t want to hear that you were bored & annoyed, if you go back to Ghana don’t go during a holiday, especially Christmas

[@DeborahJoseph-d8h]

Well your back now ❤

[@aprilsunshine7565]

I kinda had a feeling that Derek would say this

[@KimberlyBrunson-s4c]

I agree. Derick needs to give her ...her 3 weeks to spend more time with her family. She's missing them and it's not fair to her. His family is here so he can see them anytime, it's different. Her family is all the way in another country Guna which is so far away .

[@kaber7]

I understand Derek's point about not going back at Christmas and planning better the next time as far as the season you guys go and the best place and area to stay in but I am with Ruth 100% wanting to stay for 3 or 4 weeks and having someone watch the kids at certain times so you guys can go out and do things... I totally understand the bittersweet feeling coming home too soon Ruth...I'm so sorry but don't worry, Derek might not want to stay for 3 or 4 weeks but if the trip is well planned I believe he will stay the 3 weeks without any hesitation... you will be going back before you know it Ruth so please cheer up... It's heartbreaking to see you so sad like this...😘♥️

[@maryshelton1216]

Please Ruth you and the kids go to Ghana so you can stay longer and enjoy yourself like you wish to.

[@LTL_59]

Ruth you need to go to Ghana and leave the girls w/Derek because they are in school. I hate to say it that you could take Ocean although it's not good to separate the kids. Then Ruth why don't you go by yourself?

[@yesi4444]

Yes! Bring your sister over to help you with the kids and go to Ghana.

[@DebbieBullard]

You shouldn't be having this argument in front of every.One

[@angelaigwegbeeloy460]

You people are wonderful and real. Ruth I personally love your maturity and humility, I mean people say all manner of bad things to you yet I have not see you throw it back at them. Derick you're also good husband and father.

[@katheyherrington5233]

You both need to just stop! You went on your trip with three children not well disciplined, and what did you expect? If you wanted some alone time you should have hired a nanny and carried her with you on the trip. I am sure Derek did get tired of walking and riding around in the heat, so on your next trip, hire a nanny, and have an itinerary.

[@lorrainedecosta5079]

Good point.

[@carosweet8468]

@@katheyherrington5233 Her parents were also with them. Excursion and social activities with friends should have been arranged. There’s so much cultural activities Dereck would have enjoyed while Ruth met with her friends. The school visits were nice, especially for the family to have an idea what her life was like. But staying in the neighborhood and not plan city tours ahead wasn’t motivated for Dereck. He knows nothing as far as the country’s history, past and present. Next time it’s all in the planning.

[@patsysewell1687]

@@cravingforknowledge no it’s not, Derrick really does get on her nerves.

[@cravingforknowledge]

@@patsysewell1687 They probably get on each other nerves.🤷🏾‍♀️ some followers says Ruth gets on their nerves and some says Derek get on their nerves.

[@cravingforknowledge]

@@QLadydee Yes! If that’s what you prefer to call it I don’t stroke egos nor sugar coat anything, truth hurts doesn’t it. Just wondering why you so upset over someone else business that doesn’t know you exist.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kaymiller2441]

4 hours in the car and an hour or so at the location. That must have been frustrating.

[@miki5732]

You both have a point. A lot of times we as women put our children and husbands first. Don’t be angry with each other . Make a new plan for your next trip. Don’t go during the holidays ❤❤

[@mugwealicia9666]

I enjoyed watching you in Ghana,Africa is for sure a beautiful continent🎉Derrick next time allow positive vibes to enjoy your stay in Ghana Next time bring Derrick to Kenya for the safari,coast &the rest of Africa like Zanzibar, Nigeria South Africa etc

[@dorothylewers2193]

I see a little bit of culture difference.... but you guys will work it out. Mistakes were made on both sides. Next time it will be worked out a bit better for all. Love you guys much.

[@hyacinthmurray9478]

Obviously you didn't enjoy the vacation so it might be better she go by herself and enjoy the time she wants to stay

[@ericdinks7082]

The problem is that criticizing him is essentially criticizing her so I will hold my peace.

[@gimbomonica]

Ruth is right to be upset, visiting her home country after many years, she needed enough time to do all she had planned to do really.

[@ElizabethArthur-yf7ss]

You guys are enjoying Ghana God bless your husband and your family you are a wonderful wife

[@janinebrito6782]

Ruth it seems like you’re not happy😞It’s not all about him🙏🏽

[@April2.3]

I am so happy you and your children had such a beautiful amazing memorable experience together! They will always remember it, and appreciate the moments shared with family, God bless you all! You and your children will do it again!!!

[@maryshelton1216]

His attitude is nice, nasty!

[@Italiza587]

I have to agree with you!

[@cravingforknowledge]

He is being truthful, I don’t understand why does the truth hurt people.🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@houseofmeadow]

😂😂😂Derek, we gonna go again and its gonna be 2weeks😂😂😂 dead

[@yesi4444]

I agree with you, ruth!

[@nicolehowell6873]

Ruth, you are not being fair

[@GwenSmith-q9b]

Hey, you guys love you guys Ruth I don't like to see you look so sad. May God bless your family.🙏🏾

[@April2.3]

Ruth, The Continent of Africa is so beautiful, being home must have been most wonderful, no place like it in all the earth! You were Home, and your children experienced a portion of their roots which will be with them forever, and No One can take that away from them! You and your children do it again and again and again, God bless you!

[@jeanbelgrave6698]

Hi you two stop the argueing i did not go on that trip but i enjoy it like i was there i love the diffrent places in the video that i saw i enjoy it to the max it was fun🙏🙏👍👍

[@cravingforknowledge]

Calm down this is for content lady.

[@edithlemvo1456]

I don’t think Derek is even hearing Ruth…..

[@alethanivens1073]

Make Ruth happy. Listen to what she wants asap. Happy wife, happy life.

[@carosweet8468]

Actually being in the country for two weeks and made allowances for the travel time. Isn’t that bad. But planning wasn’t done for excursions in order for Derek to have things to do while you visited with family. The kids had to return to school. I watch other bloggers show their countries and it’s for a couple of days, but we see so much. You were lucky your parents were with you to help with the children. Be happy and appreciate, some people don’t get the opportunity to visit, because they can’t afford or aren’t legally able.

[@pearlacheampong5996]

There’s a lot to be done in Ghana actually, you can use KZbin to explore places to be even within Accra that are not necessarily restaurants Just be more open minded about the next visit ❤❤

[@SharonLawrence-w3y]

Ruth and Derek I like when yu were treating the kids yu were giving back and yu were teaching summer

[@wandamercer2483]

Ruth next time you and the kids go, and let grumpy Derrick stay home.

[@chevarasmith1199]

Derek needs to appreciate Ruth more and watch his sarcasm

[@traynjaybaereneebaes943]

Did he just say how white n how black she is? You married this Ruth...

[@COOKIEDOUGHTHEGREAT]

Bruh it’s important to mention , avoiding conversations about race in a interracial marriage isn’t good

[@janelletate7772]

Yea that was so random and weird

[@BeadyPough]

You take so much pride in your husband and kids he is being an ass hold.😂😂😂😂😂 but I love you all.

[@Trippledna]

Please make it right Derrick, I care about you guys a lot❤

[@georgedougba7324]

You just can’t go home for two weeks . It makes no sense . Ruth is right on this one . At least a month .

[@ellenupshaw8025]

Glad that you had a great great trip 👍.

[@Marina-vc3pj]

Please pray and ask God to help you both work through this.

[@janelletate7772]

Pretty much do nothing is what u just said goofy 🤡

[@Redford1-g2t]

Derek wants things on his terms. Two weeks is ok, I guess, but most people spend a month with family when they go back home. The people in the comments have hit the nail on the head - Derek doesn't need to come to Ghana with you if his attitude is so negative about it.

[@rosalindgibbs3705]

Mr Derrick when i watched the videos you seen very impress sorry that the heat and things are different in her growing up town compair to the states. I believe your are sincere Ruth we understand where you're coming from 😊.

[@cravingforknowledge]

You can tell he was just trying to please Ruth. He didn’t like her mom cooking neither.

[@brendantambi9078]

Well,it seems you only needed to plan very well in terms of the exciting places to view even moving out of Ghana but still in Africa. This vacations are cool if you set out events on the different days and tiur places and stick to the plans. Welcome back Ruth and Derrick. Bonus points for moving as a family

[@noxolomatshaka2257]

Ruth... You such a sweet soul... I love your personality dear sis❤❤❤

[@donnamartinez6007]

He is really back peddling isn't he?

[@lib.everydaythingsandtutor9802]

Derek stop talking over your wife, allow her to express how she feel and I can't understand why you can't have a polite conversation with ur wife,.

[@Sweets7]

I'm kinda confused I thought her parents lived in NY also,how do they be there watching the kids sometimes..IJS🤗🤗

[@cuisinerene7156]

If you can't take it in Ghana, don't try Nigeria. 😂. You might not survive

[@nicolehowell6873]

I enjoyed what I watched in Ghana. Thanks for taking me to Ghana with you all.

[@veletapatterson8117]

Derrick is too selfish he just want you to be at his family house very selfish

[@lenorajohnson5440]

Derek you really are being unreasonable. Ruth I feel you.

[@itsdcandy]

Uganda will welcome you definitely 🎉

[@alene6579]

Ruth you can't be upset about how your husband felt about the trip. I understand where he's coming from. Of course you were excited because that is where you are from and you speak the language. You have to be a bit more understanding.

[@shirleyjulal8869]

I totally agree with you ,people don't weight both sides ,they just speak unkind stuff towards the husband.

[@alene6579]

@shirleyjulal8869 So true

[@lorrainedecosta5079]

Agree 100%

[@SoulBuddy2222]

I agree

[@janicethompson7525]

To much bickering, without a solution. This was emotionally draining to me. We need more positive energy.

[@sandrawilliams6874]

Derek should be more understanding about how Ruth feels. She misses her family and Ghana home. She was so happy to be there. She hasn’t been to Ghana in years, so to stay one more week would not have hurt him. He could have given her that without the complaints. I’ve always liked Derek, but I’ve never seen this selfish side of him before. He is being playful and disrespectful even while discussing the matter with her. You can see that she is hurt.

[@noxolomatshaka2257]

❤❤❤Love you guys... Please Ruth forgive him😂😂😂

[@Shym3re]

coucou famille adorée Rhuth c est pas grave l éssentiel c est qu il est parti avec toi dans ton pays d origine meme si ça n a pas durer le sejour la prochaine fois ça sera plus longts soyez heureux que Dieu vous bénisses

[@mableburch7969]

The moments of life heart's❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@alene6579]

Please appreciate each other and talk things out.

[@nia.gregory]

You two seem to love each other very much.

[@norahkosgei6385]

She definately has to be be with her family for a couple of days, that's the sense of the visit...then a holiday destination, hotel later❤

[@pamelacole1147]

Hey and Derrick, Ruth you look so cute, love you guys 💗😍

[@alexjabot4628]

BE SELFLESS. LISTEN to EACH OTHER. DON'T INTERRUPT EACH OTHER. BE KIND. COMPROMISE. LOGIC. REASON...❤❤❤

[@debrahenderson6769]

Ruth we can send you to Ghana by your self for a month Derrick is lie he pick the last trip u went no and you hate it Derrick injoy he not a fair person

[@cravingforknowledge]

Send money now please. HURRY!

[@angmel3838]

A lot of frustration and discomfort emerged from this stay. Dereck was bored, this was evident throughout. You should have prioritized your autonomy and perhaps taken a babysitter. Dereck does not seem to admit that for him Ghana is yes, but at the very least.

[@SoulBuddy2222]

You are too hard on Darrick. It's your family and not his. The place is very familiar to you not him. There is nothing wrong in going there alone or let him leave earlier than you. There is a German interracial couple, who do just that, and they are happy with that. The woman is from Kenya, and the husband says it's awkward for him because he doesn’t even speak the local language.

[@DorothyDavis-c9g]

I understand well! It is Ruth culture. I could tell Derek was sweating and uncomfortable. He doesn't know anything about Nigeria, and I don't either. Summer acted like her Daddy, too. Is new to them a lot of walking and extremely hot 🔥 🥵 But I thought he did well.

[@CloressaTina]

Going to Africa on such a long flight, it should be there for about a month if you can afford it.

[@dkayrotach]

I can understand Derek's point of view. Two weeks is plenty to visit.

[@iamselam7081]

No, it's not. Maybe for you bc your family is one aunt 2 cousins. Done 😂 Heyyyy this is Africa and with that big families okay

[@RS-ln3ns]

2 WEEKS IS NOTHING. IT GOES BY SO FAST. RUTH STAYS IN AMERICA, ALL YEAR AROUND, EVERY YEAR SO IF, SHE DECIDES TO VISIT GHANA OCCASIONALLY, THEN SHE SHOULD STAY THERE, A LOT LONGER THAN 2 WEEKS, SO THAT SHE CAN SPEND TIME WITH HER FAMILY. AFTER ALL, IT IS HER COUNTRY, WHERE SHE GREW UP IN.

[@Cynthia-w2d]

Derek you are acting like a child that's her family. She should be able. See her family you stay home. Derek if yóur board. You take care of the kids. Your self you sound like a child Derek love you guys

[@ericaaubie860]

DEREK WHAT DO YOU MEAN WE DON'T NEED TO SPEND TIME WITH THEM! ARE YOU CRAZY!!! THAT IS HER PARENTS OF COURSE SHE NEEDS TO SPEND TIME WITH TIME.

[@janicethompson7525]

The next planned trip should be fair to both sides. Ruth, if you were to go a week in advance, and Derrick should come a week later. You would have your 3 weeks. Just learn to communicate better in private.

[@nikki72464]

Ruth should have been able to stay at least 3mths, and Derek come back home. My husband is Lebanese, and 2 weeks would be a joke. She needs time with her family, and culture. Let Ruth go back Derek, and let her be with her family a couple of mths. Plus Derek she's a woman, have some compassion, you can be on your own, and let her take the children.

[@kalotadowling9]

Derek you need to be more considerate of your wife going home to Ghana a marriage is for better or worse it's not always the best but we do things for one another when it is needed she doesn't see her family and you are around your family all year long how would you feel if Rose didn't want to be around your family or rush you when visiting your family and I understand about the kids it is hard to vacation with them so you definitely have to plan ahead and have people on deck to babysit for you guys to have alone time to navigate in Ghana Derek needs to compromise

[@BeadyPough]

Baby just go next time along and enjoy yourself because he really did not enjoy himself I watched the video he was uncomfortable at your mom and dads home.

[@CloressaTina]

This just sounds soo petty. You'll should have it together after 3 children.

[@cravingforknowledge]

Content

[@user-bl2zq4mb1t]

Instead of arguing in front of us do it with a therapist or counselor or pastor. Or forgive each other and drop the subject

[@cravingforknowledge]

😂it’s not that serious do you people not understand this is content they are fine🤦🏽‍♀️😭

[@user-bl2zq4mb1t]

@@cravingforknowledge even if it wasn’t serious, it’s bad manners to do this in front of other people. For all they know they’re bringing back memories PTSD if you will, of right before a viewers parents split up.

[@cravingforknowledge]

@@user-bl2zq4mb1t In my other comment I did ask the question why would you and Derek make a content like this for Social Media but it’s evident these content creators only thinking about 💰💵 but viewers have to take responsibility for what they continue to watch, these creators put everything on Social Media for money.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@janicethompson7525]

I totally agree. Something's should be said in private. It is emotionally draining to watch a lot of bickering. I've been married for over 30 years. Content should never replace respect for the family arrangement.

[@cynthiagaines4030]

Please take care of each other ❤

[@manithamoodley9926]

I understand how u felt but next time when u going out to another country esp with minor chn please do your homework Draw up an itinerary of all the possible places you would like to visit... Check out the B and Bs properly taking into acc the chn needs etc But your family in Ghana could have done much more to make your stay more memorable When we have our relatives /friends from abroad visiting us we arrange a few activities where we can all be together and also a nice big get together where everyone can mingle and enjoy themselves It's pointless staying longer in a country with transport being an issue,chn getting impatient etc And with technology there's no reason whatsoever to not plan in advance

[@lukesky4690]

What's the name of the Airbnb and location in Ghana 🇬🇭

[@theempress7766]

Derek so cute !! Wowwwww ummm ummm lucky girl

[@sanyulentcontainergardenin7788]

Any of you watched videos when Dereck's mom was still alive? I can't believe now when it comes to her parents. There you go gal

[@donnamartinez6007]

Yada, Yada, Yada

[@AndreasHeadley]

Derick you should accept where Ruth came from everywhere is not going to be the same. You guys were traveling with kids it will be better when they are grown up.and especially it Was christmas. Ruth Its a blessings you went to Ghana and I have seen other places that are nice to be. Its just a smart start no complaining

[@TammyNaidoo-i1x]

You are a very rude man Derrick.. 😢so rude to uour wife ..learn to embrace uour wife's country and culture..you look mean all the time..😮

[@wandamercer2483]

He really does.

[@TeresaDavis-jg7ho]

Be thankful for what you have. Stop the nonsense. Y'all need to spend some time praying together. Dont bring this to youtube. Be grateful. Stop trying to get someone on your side. You are together. JESUS 🙏🙏🙏

[@janelletate7772]

U go pray about it lol as if thats gonna help 😂🤡

[@eileenjones7016]

😢hubby makeup ❤

[@patriciaanderson9809]

Ruth you really are very controlling and he always gives in to what you want bossy

[@marinalvamaria6353]

Vc e linda ❤❤❤❤❤

[@levinekalikuela4916]

😂😂😂 You are confuse....What us up......

[@BSimmons-u6x]

Hi Derrick and Ruth ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️