My Wife Pushed for an Open Marriage & Got Pregnant-Shocked When I Divorced Her!

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Qley

Qley

Ай бұрын

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@Loucfr
@Loucfr Ай бұрын
Your first mistake was not divorcing her when she wanted an open marriage.
@christianflair1185
@christianflair1185 Ай бұрын
Writing on the wall
@darklordbruce6593
@darklordbruce6593 27 күн бұрын
Facts 👏🏽.
@Devin-O
@Devin-O 20 күн бұрын
What happens when you marry young.
@Demonetization_Symbol
@Demonetization_Symbol 17 күн бұрын
They clearly communicated their boundaries. How is that grounds for divorce?
@NothingnessforZ
@NothingnessforZ 11 күн бұрын
​@@Demonetization_Symbolit didn't worked out the way the husband expected. That was on him.
@legxcii4778
@legxcii4778 26 күн бұрын
"We're pregnant" "Whos we?"
@kos2919
@kos2919 Ай бұрын
2 years Already asking for open marriage OP should've run the moment she said that.
@bigdoggo2848
@bigdoggo2848 Ай бұрын
, to ssze,qas,saas 😔🦺
@kingme1394
@kingme1394 16 күн бұрын
Facts
@galahad695
@galahad695 Ай бұрын
she went out for 5 month once a week without breaking the third rule, comes back pregnant, and didn't isntaly realise it wasn't her husband's XD WTF
@SenatiaA
@SenatiaA Ай бұрын
She is a special one. 😂
@Papabear4564
@Papabear4564 Ай бұрын
Opening a marriage is idiocy in the extreme, if you wanna sleep with someone else, do it BEFORE you get married
@Grouchbox
@Grouchbox Ай бұрын
Exactly!
@Dreamstrafe
@Dreamstrafe 14 күн бұрын
Also before the relationship lol
@blackbirdfilms1966
@blackbirdfilms1966 13 күн бұрын
@@Dreamstrafe Beat me to it XD
@samiamtheman7379
@samiamtheman7379 2 күн бұрын
More specifically, before you get into a relationship in general.
@lordanubis1475
@lordanubis1475 Ай бұрын
Wow she broke every rule damn man
@MegaMarvelMashup
@MegaMarvelMashup 22 күн бұрын
She was the one that made the rules also 😂😂😂😂
@samiamtheman7379
@samiamtheman7379 2 күн бұрын
Many such cases hen it comes to open relationships.
@nghtmrshtkp2713
@nghtmrshtkp2713 11 күн бұрын
"The judge ordered us to do 6 weeks of marriage counseling" how about the judge does his fucking job instead of trying to fix other people's relationships.
@Dreamstrafe
@Dreamstrafe 14 күн бұрын
It's wild that she was still trying to get back together with him while pregnant with another man's child...
@user-pf9yt7oy4d
@user-pf9yt7oy4d Ай бұрын
S1: the wife pushing sex with OP is unacceptable, but him calling her a “fat chick,” was messed up 😂. Nevertheless, the marriage was over by her actions. She clearly caught emotional feelings for the other guy, & now that she realized that that guy was/is an a-hole she sudden she wants to work on her marriage & wants him.
@randomrayquaza2044
@randomrayquaza2044 Ай бұрын
better one would be cheating chick she broke the rules of an open marrage IMO thats cheating physical or otherwise
@Loucfr
@Loucfr Ай бұрын
Pushing sex on someone is worse than getting called a bad name? 😂 oh right I forgot it was a woman pushing sex so it’s not as bad as
@Grimeaper
@Grimeaper Ай бұрын
was she fat though if so then it was factual not messed up.
@KizenOne
@KizenOne Ай бұрын
Don’t forget the reason she kept pushing intimacy was a manipulation tactic so she can say she got pregnant from the ‘husband’ rather than the ‘fling guy’
@randomrayquaza2044
@randomrayquaza2044 Ай бұрын
@@Grimeaper pretty sure he called her fat because of her pregnancy wich I do agree was a bit too far
@ero0senin100
@ero0senin100 11 күн бұрын
Her: "We're pregnant" Him: "Now your a single mom"
@beaverfan14
@beaverfan14 9 күн бұрын
"You let him hit it raw, didn't have second thoughts. Now you a single mom!"
@lawsonallen7741
@lawsonallen7741 Ай бұрын
Opening is Cheating. This is why opening is a bad thing. Saying yes made you a doormate & made you just as bad as her. Your just as bad as her.
@jamegumb7298
@jamegumb7298 Ай бұрын
She had someone in mind. She would cheat either left or right. The problem is not her finding dates, but him finding dates.
@RagnarokAvatar
@RagnarokAvatar Ай бұрын
S1: I don't sorry for OP's wife, she broke the rules.
@tgoodfella
@tgoodfella 12 күн бұрын
This dude was a simp the moment she asked for it and he agreed to it
@noahnewcomer5180
@noahnewcomer5180 6 күн бұрын
The moment she suggested an “open marriage” it was already over. It was the beginning of the end 😂
@goatkiller666
@goatkiller666 Ай бұрын
If the lack of ONE person, who isn’t the birthday girl or whatever, would “ruin” your wedding… it must not have been that good of a wedding.
@jonaskarlsson5453
@jonaskarlsson5453 Ай бұрын
open realtionship ok ther is the door divorce papers are comming as soon as possible have fun. onely real reply to that bs
@Zaheer_Zafar_Zawhereeveryouare
@Zaheer_Zafar_Zawhereeveryouare 20 күн бұрын
"I'm pregnant, and it's not my husbands. You're the dad." "Skill issue"
@jegElskerHundenMin
@jegElskerHundenMin Ай бұрын
Op a simp that finally grew a backbone
@sarahandrews4580
@sarahandrews4580 29 күн бұрын
Want to keep having fun when youre young? Don't get married then!
@goatkiller666
@goatkiller666 Ай бұрын
This “open marriage” is less toxic than some. I don’t see signs of opening to hide that you’d already cheated. But the ethical non-monogamy / polyamory I’ve seen and been part of that really worked, the other partners were part of the family. You’d have a wife and a girlfriend. They’d share you time like divorced parents coparented. And sometimes that means they’d both be at the same event. They called each other metamores, and each of them would be honestly happy that the person they loved (you) was also happily in love with someone else. They call this feeling compersion. Sometimes your partners would get together to plan your birthday or kids graduation or whatever. Mostly, metamores were friends. And if you introduced a new person, and the existing partners didn’t vibe with them… that carried some weight. If you have a primary partner and then some one night stands, or FWB (who even has the time?), or are swingers (which is no better or worse, but has its own set of rules, and I am not qualified to speak for those folks… there are many well versed swingers, far more eloquent than me. What you’re describing here is more like “Cheating, but not TECHNICALLY” If you want to do polyamory right, get on Facebook and find the Closed Poly groups. There are large communities of us, with frequent non-sexual meetups every month. Get on the dating apps, say up front that you’re new to Poly and don’t even know what questions to ask. Someone will match you and invite you to a meetup. Also, be aware that both the Polyamory community exists, and the Polynesian community exists. It’s usually clear from context which one you’re talking about, but Polynesians have existed as an ethnic group and culture MUCH longer than Polyamory has existed as a lifestyle. If you are in a situation where context clues aren’t clear enough Polynesians claim “poly” and polyamorous are “polyam”.
@arjundhaliwal8853
@arjundhaliwal8853 2 күн бұрын
Polyamory can never last without problems sometime in the future
@MaliaMydnight
@MaliaMydnight Ай бұрын
As a Native American, ngl, this is nothing new, but time does nothing for the horror of it. I was told I was "exotic" for being Native (mf, my people were here first, tf you mean 'exotic'?), and had many offer to be my "John Smith". MMIW exists for a reason. And to think these guys can see a woman with dark hair, eyes and skin and make that revolting correlation is absolutely disgusting and haunting.
@SvensktTroll
@SvensktTroll Ай бұрын
Same thing happens when blonde people travel to places where people aren't blonde.
@user-nj7yz7zb2e
@user-nj7yz7zb2e Ай бұрын
What tribe are you from? I love learning about history.
@MaliaMydnight
@MaliaMydnight Ай бұрын
@@user-nj7yz7zb2e Blackfoot and Cheyenne, thanks for asking! 😁🫶🏼
@MaliaMydnight
@MaliaMydnight Ай бұрын
@@SvensktTroll Well. Yeah. That's not the point, at all.
@MaliaMydnight
@MaliaMydnight Ай бұрын
@@user-nj7yz7zb2e Blackfoot and Cheyenne. Thanks for asking! 😁🫶🏼
@kimmogensen5390
@kimmogensen5390 29 күн бұрын
the ones with the adopted kids , YOU ARE IN WAY OVER YOUR HEADS,,,,
@tatsuyas.drakensang4826
@tatsuyas.drakensang4826 29 күн бұрын
Open marriage is always one sided. Always the woman who proposes the idea, BC it's convenient for them. Men have no scruples and will even Braga about banging married women, so for her, the situation will thrive and be good. But yeah, Op should have dissolved marriage as soon as she started with the open relationship nonsense
@anounimousyesispeltitwrong759
@anounimousyesispeltitwrong759 Ай бұрын
Its almost like....... open marraiges or relationships...dont work
@PlayingUnfairly
@PlayingUnfairly 5 күн бұрын
Any real man wouldn’t even consider, condone or accept this behaviour, he should’ve simply divorced her the moment she even brought this idea up.
@Riri_734
@Riri_734 Ай бұрын
Thought this was an update. Story was from years ago.
@arthaiser
@arthaiser Ай бұрын
op was not very bright at the start, this story should have ended the moment the third video a bout open marriage reached his phone, and i think im being generous by allowing the first and second one to be honest. not only that, but he ended allowing the open marriage, at least his "rules" did end up saving him, but they took 2 years of his life to do their thing, when breaking up at the start would have been quicker and less painful (because im sure that knowing that your wife is out there getting fucked by other men is not exactly something pleasant, specially when you have given the ok to it happening yourself )
@titanrahlgaming
@titanrahlgaming 8 күн бұрын
SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS😂
@pahhw1533
@pahhw1533 Ай бұрын
an open marriage with 30 days of no touching after being with someone else is the dumpest thing i have heard on those storys, you would never be intimid with the partner after a certain point specialy if both of them got a fling/ap/ friend with benefits or whatever getting a divorce from the start would have been the better option
@DORITOSTHEGREATANDPOWERFUL
@DORITOSTHEGREATANDPOWERFUL Ай бұрын
Some of these details are not exactly necessary but amusing all the same.
@sheilamarieeligoyo6759
@sheilamarieeligoyo6759 Ай бұрын
Nah unbelievable
@jpk544
@jpk544 10 күн бұрын
Selfish until they need help.
@jdavis7613
@jdavis7613 11 күн бұрын
Story 2: i hope you let the new girlfriend know what ex is upto.
@pahhw1533
@pahhw1533 Ай бұрын
story 2, my ex has threatend to get me fired or to say i commited horriable assault but i never thought he would have threatend to expose his exes nudes WTF
@Svicei
@Svicei Ай бұрын
Thank god they didn't say first lol
@Svicei
@Svicei Ай бұрын
Balls
@nitareed4088
@nitareed4088 Ай бұрын
Barf.
@Zerox5861
@Zerox5861 Ай бұрын
this the worst relationship ive ever seen. that 30day rule is stupid and untenable
@EsLokina
@EsLokina Ай бұрын
Yes, 30day rule would destroy most relationship
@BMP-2M
@BMP-2M Ай бұрын
Calling her fat is just wrong dude. But i don’t feel remorse for her because she broke the rules
@sirblack1619
@sirblack1619 Ай бұрын
She had that coming.
@BMP-2M
@BMP-2M Ай бұрын
@@sirblack1619 like i said i don’t feel remorse but calling her fat is wrong
@GeorgeGiann
@GeorgeGiann 14 күн бұрын
Story 1: I will not blame her.
@mnomadvfx
@mnomadvfx Ай бұрын
Staying overnight or not seems to be a very trivial difference if your wife is already having sex with another man. At that point it's just splitting hairs and the marriage is already over.
@fns5992
@fns5992 Ай бұрын
think the idea was that okay go have your fun but always come home and be with your marriage partner....
@miyawells8331
@miyawells8331 Ай бұрын
Early
@albertgongora6944
@albertgongora6944 Ай бұрын
Honestly I don't feel bad for the ex-wife or the poster because they both made this choice together to open up the marriage there was no force situation like the poster was dating and his story he literally went along with his wife's idea to open the marriage and he has no excuses there I'm sorry I don't care of anybody he's going to side with this dude is the truth he's just as bad as his ex-wire because the very moment everything's going right for all of a sudden he wants to close it down because it isn't going right for him yeah I'm sorry you can have it that way when you chose to go along with the city like I get it if you feel that you don't like the open marriage part but your partner does you knew what was that idea and you never should have thought about doing anything it's going to magically change her marriage over
@fns5992
@fns5992 Ай бұрын
i don't recall him asking to close it at least not till he realised their marriage was basically dead due to partially due to him and very much so due to her completely neglecting their marriage to the point of being nothing more than roommates and op had given all he had to give
@arjundhaliwal8853
@arjundhaliwal8853 2 күн бұрын
He never even asked to close it and said he was just glad his wife was having fun u sound like one of those men are always in the wrong kind of people lmao. Read the story before commenting
@Syrin23
@Syrin23 Ай бұрын
Old story
@rmidifferent8906
@rmidifferent8906 Ай бұрын
I have heard stupid i have heard stupid stories about open marriage, but one month of no contact after? That sounds as if he wanted to be extra sure the marriage will fail.
@Mongooolmaagtal
@Mongooolmaagtal Ай бұрын
That's actually smart, I hope people will start using it in the future for their cases
@arjundhaliwal8853
@arjundhaliwal8853 2 күн бұрын
As soon as u bring up open marriage that is making sure the marriage will fail lmao
@conormac6293
@conormac6293 26 күн бұрын
Honestly the first story is kind of on the guy, dude agreed to the open marriage and then claims that she "forced" him into it, sounds like he was on board with the idea too until he realized he couldnt get tail as easy as the girl. As far as Im aware there was no attempt on his behalf to close the marriage when he realize he wasnt happy in it. The wife was clearly unempathetic towards him but he brought it on himself.
@muff10000
@muff10000 Ай бұрын
Open relationships doesn't work most times. there are clear data on that and the few that it did work witness it doesn't for everyone that does it. An other thing is a person that truly loves someone can't see others that way not even at low times and manipulative individuals trying on them. Those that wants have attachment and bonding issues with not being able to love people fully. When someone comes with anything of that nature set your business in order to end everything and just use them for the time being and begin to look for a real partner and then leave them without fighting.
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