My Wife's Friend Cornered Her At Dinner To Confess His Undying Love For Her r/Relationships

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Markee

Markee

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@couchpotato1185
@couchpotato1185 2 жыл бұрын
I found it kinda revolting that people suggested in the second story that the baby could be "a loving group project". And that they are "teenagers that can take care of the child" when one just lost a father and two probably a father figure. Having another child is more than just the physical care work. It's about being able to not only financially afford to care for another child but also emotionally. Going through loss and having a new born isn't easy peasy as those comments make it seen.
@Madikay27
@Madikay27 2 жыл бұрын
I was also thrown off by the S2 comment talking about how they love filthy beauty. OP seemed to like it so alls we’ll that ends well, but def seemed like a weird way to comfort someone going through an actual real life messed up situation
@tonyblake7569
@tonyblake7569 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Like they're basically suggesting parentification saying the teenagers can help raise the kid. And if she listened to them and the kids hated it then she'd probably resent them for it since in her mind they should want to so they can grow closer.
@joycec8
@joycec8 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm not a fan of that comment since kids don't want to raise other kids.
@faceofvision
@faceofvision 2 жыл бұрын
@@tonyblake7569 ikr, all of reddit is full of posts by people who were parentified, but here people act like it's the best thing ever??
@CanonSkyrissian
@CanonSkyrissian 2 жыл бұрын
like yeah sure the teens can help but it's not their responsibility. it should be more like "can you keep an eye on the baby while I take a quick shower", not full-time care taking.
@halfbearhalfneedle
@halfbearhalfneedle 2 жыл бұрын
That second Story has me sobbing, the op did such a great job at conveying her feelings and the reality of life
@HoneyBakedHamlet
@HoneyBakedHamlet 2 жыл бұрын
Same. As someone who's had to watch a loved one slowly pass away.. it hurts so much to know what that 'anger' at the dying person feels like. It's not really anger AT the person. It's... I can't describe it.
@pansprayers
@pansprayers 2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyBakedHamlet it's the feeling of loss, amplified. Loving and trusting someone who you'd trust with your life requires a lot of vulnerability. When they die, it feels like abandonment and betrayal.
@wrenpeach6707
@wrenpeach6707 2 жыл бұрын
I put this on to listen to while cleaning the bathroom and instead I'm full on ugly crying
@thomasjoseph5876
@thomasjoseph5876 2 жыл бұрын
No she didn't. She is unbalanced and unhinged and should NEVER be allowed near children.
@thomasjoseph5876
@thomasjoseph5876 2 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyBakedHamlet It's anger at not having any control over the situation and neither you nor your dying partner can do anything to change the outcome. It's just something you have to learn to accept. It's the stages of grieving that most people go thru. I am willing to bet you didn't act anything like this unhinged crazed OP in the story though. I have never seen anyone act like her. She needs professional help otherwise those kids are gonna be a mess, especially Steve's bio-daughter, Sara.
@PinkkElephantt
@PinkkElephantt 2 жыл бұрын
I think it's horrifyingly selfish of people to proposition married crushes - even if it is 'undying love'. What could it ever achieve besides unhappiness for everyone involved?
@pippo17173
@pippo17173 2 жыл бұрын
Its basically them trying to pull a movie esc ending which shows how not well raise they are.
@emilybarclay8831
@emilybarclay8831 2 жыл бұрын
Too much rom com logic in their little brains
@thomasjoseph5876
@thomasjoseph5876 2 жыл бұрын
People feel that gotta shoot their shot but most times, they do it because they realize they are way too late to the game and expect the outcome to be the same (denied) if they had asked them years earlier when everyone was single. If by some miracle they aren't rejected but embraced, then it is a huge bonus. Basically, they thought years ago they would be rejected so if they are rejected now, they feel weirdly vindicated. I have seen where a guy I knew pulled a stunt as I described and it worked and she left her husband and kids for him but he suddenly came to the conclusion this is not what he wanted and ended up moving away across the country in the dead of the night behind her back. She was wrecked and her husband and kids wanted nothing to do with her lol. Although, if anyone pulled a stunt like this with my wife, I would knock his ass out and make it so he would never try anything like it again with anyone else.
@ladyv5655
@ladyv5655 2 жыл бұрын
Based on his wife's response, sounds like the dude has priors. Seems like his "undying love" line is just the tactic of a sleazy player.
@burtonl7239
@burtonl7239 2 жыл бұрын
A chance to bang. Why do people play the lottery when each round only makes most people poorer?
@owl7072
@owl7072 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: I'm with Op on the "I'm sick of the romanticizing" thing. Everyone is like "Oh but when he's gone you'll have a part of him with you." _No._ What Op will have is grief, the responsibility of caring for a bunch of grieving kids/teenagers who just lost their father/father figure, and a newborn baby that screams and literally doesn't understand or care about anything other than "I'm hungry" and "my diaper is full" (no hate to babies but that shit's stressful even without everything else). There's _nothing_ good about this situation. "There's teenagers who can help care for the baby" There's grieving teenagers that you're trying to essentially push caring for a baby they didn't ask for onto their shoulders along with the grief they already have. It's not even Op's story I'm annoyed about. I'm annoyed on behalf of _everyone_ who essentially got talked into keeping the baby of a dead partner because then "at least you'll always have a part of them" then act surprised when they're _miserable_ and crushed with grief made worse by stress and lack of sleep.
@kitkakitteh
@kitkakitteh 2 жыл бұрын
i would have been grateful to have had a piece of him. But we were married decades, and that ship had sailed. I miss him so much.
@ebagentj
@ebagentj 2 жыл бұрын
Story two was an amazing and emotional gut punch. OP really drove home how angry and frustrated and sad and confused she was. I don't know if she put the redditors who were romanticizing her situation in their place, but she damn well tried and succeeded in reminding me that although some of these stories are likely fake, a lot of them aren't and there's real people with much more complicated emotions than fiction behind them. I really do hope she and her family are doing well now.
@QuayHollywood
@QuayHollywood 2 жыл бұрын
Reading this story had me crying, laughing, mad, heartbroken and so many more emotions all at once. It was well written and even put some thoughts in to words for how I could feel. I hope her baby came with ease and a blessing, I hope all her children grow up healthy and full of love and that Steve rest happily watching over them. And I hope you have an awesome day. (Got in to my feelings but it's true)
@Lady.B0420
@Lady.B0420 2 жыл бұрын
I am shocked she hadn't had birth control for 5+ years and didn't know she was pregnant until she was 15 weeks along.
@Cynararose
@Cynararose 2 жыл бұрын
@@Lady.B0420 why is that shocking. At the time they took it out she was going something very emotional and stressful, and had no thought of ever being with a man again. Her child had a tumor and looked like she had a very messy divorce as well. The pregnancy she didn’t see because she was going through once again a very emotional and stressful time. Some people when they are going through something so stressful they lose there period or she completely lost track of her period, or even she may have something like pcos and her periods are irregular.
@DgShadowChocolate
@DgShadowChocolate 2 жыл бұрын
“He has to have her.” Love is never about ‘having’ anyone. People are not objects to have and collect, regardless of their feelings/relationships.
@groofromtheup5719
@groofromtheup5719 2 жыл бұрын
they are when you a narcissist.
@teekaybe4016
@teekaybe4016 2 жыл бұрын
Yea what that man felt was not love built on knowing the ops wife’s personality. His so called “love” was all based on lust and obsession. What a weirdo!!
@manxiefeathermoon9888
@manxiefeathermoon9888 2 жыл бұрын
Story one: so the friend is married and wants another woman? I hope the OP and his wife tells the friend's wife. She needs to know about the fact he is willing to cheat
@robertx8020
@robertx8020 2 жыл бұрын
they did tell her
@wafflestoast4546
@wafflestoast4546 2 жыл бұрын
Op scored with the wife in story 1. He flipping got a 10000/10.
@joycec8
@joycec8 2 жыл бұрын
I need story 2 OP to write a book, or make a podcast. She sounds delightful (seriously)
@franl155
@franl155 2 жыл бұрын
#1 - He said that he "must have her" - like she's merely some inanimate object to be possessed? If his wife knew that he'd done this before, couldn't she have warned people that it could happen again?
@squirrel670
@squirrel670 2 жыл бұрын
He probably told her it never would happen it was just that person
@WobblesandBean
@WobblesandBean 2 жыл бұрын
Wife seems the beaten down, desperate type who will always be a doormat and refuses to get divorced.
@Callimo
@Callimo 2 жыл бұрын
@@WobblesandBean Yeah, even the way she responded (or not responded) when Op's wife said she would tell the other women in their group seemed like she was resigned to whatever. Poor lady needs a therapist after being in such a shitty marriage.
@mananexus
@mananexus 2 жыл бұрын
That's a serious red flag, also how long until will it be until he says if he can't have her no one can. I'd make sure you get an order of protection against him.
@squirrel670
@squirrel670 2 жыл бұрын
@@WobblesandBean she doesn't refuse to get a divorce, this is a roxic relationship that has destroyed her self esteem and he's a damn liar and manipulator. No normal person would confess to their supposed friend after getting married to make them throw away their relationship. This poor girl is married to someone like that. Her mind is messed up.
@amphoteric
@amphoteric 2 жыл бұрын
that "you have TEENAGERS to help you with the baby" comment was so fucking stupid like teenagers aren't the parents!!!!! making your teenagers help with the parenting is the quickest way to get them to hate you and their siblings lmao jeez.
@ladyv5655
@ladyv5655 2 жыл бұрын
Funny how these prolife people want to save babies so badly that they are willing to sacrifice everybody else's life, time, money, etc., but not their own. I wish OP the best. She's got a hard road before her, but I hope she doesn't dump her baby on to the other kids.
@karendaniel620
@karendaniel620 2 жыл бұрын
We need to normalize exposing toxic behavior.
@WobblesandBean
@WobblesandBean 2 жыл бұрын
^ THIS.
@lilfairykiki122
@lilfairykiki122 2 жыл бұрын
“You have teenagers that can help you raise the baby” ummmm absolutely not, that’s awful advice.
@Endonia-ym3sl
@Endonia-ym3sl 2 жыл бұрын
What is it about people getting married makes someone think "Ah, yes. They've proclaimed their love before friends and family and are legally binded by law and faith. It's the perfect time to shoot my shot" Seriously, I just can't figure out that mindset. 🙄
@Lahk1
@Lahk1 2 жыл бұрын
The shitty thing is that it works. I lost my wife of 8 months to her coworker for this kind of bullshit. Fuck both of them.
@lindah3803
@lindah3803 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the stories. Story 2 was hard. Hit close to home for me. I believe OP will be ok in the long run. She's allowing herself to feel all of it, not dismissing it, not concentrating on"being strong", not taking on all the blame and not withdrawing into her own"self". Gonna go hug my babies(son and cat) now.
@wolfwhistlewoowoo6297
@wolfwhistlewoowoo6297 2 жыл бұрын
Markee shines with posts like these - no one else gives the real emotions behind Reddit posts like he does, perfect reading.
@alana.dyer.author
@alana.dyer.author 2 жыл бұрын
The pregnant op having a pissed off rant is my favorite person now. So glad she had her freaking kick ass rant she needed
@dmaxcustom
@dmaxcustom 2 жыл бұрын
That second story... I nice reminder that the world is not fair, owes you nothing and misery is the default state of being alive. Is up to everyone to wake up and do their best to be better in any way we can. Bitter pill to swallow really.
@hannahmiller4663
@hannahmiller4663 2 жыл бұрын
I agree the world owes me nothing, but it's default state isn't misery. It doesn't have a default state at all.
@dmaxcustom
@dmaxcustom 2 жыл бұрын
@@hannahmiller4663 If you wake up in the morning and do absolutely nothing you will suffer hunger, over enough time you starve, starvation is one of the most miserable states a person can be in. If you do nothing at all about anything, you are miserable. Every living being in the planet strives and struggles for survival, to met its needs whatever these are, because otherwise they become miserable and die. You actively try to avoid this every single day.
@hannahmiller4663
@hannahmiller4663 2 жыл бұрын
@@dmaxcustom so me being still is a default state?
@Nonexister1
@Nonexister1 2 жыл бұрын
The cancer story also reminds me of a show called Violent Evergaarden. Violet was writing letters for her daughter because she was dying. The episode made my cry and still makes me cry. Thinking on this woman's pain reminded me of this. I wish her the best in life.
@paulagoeringer9466
@paulagoeringer9466 2 жыл бұрын
Story 1, wife should record what he's doing so she has proof for everyone before he lies to everyone.
@rhbrown5167
@rhbrown5167 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2 is so tragic. I hope that family can eventually make peace with their situation and live the best lives they can.
@KE-hr4sb
@KE-hr4sb 2 жыл бұрын
S1: Hold up: This guy is MARRIED, and raving to *your wife* (not his) about how he "has to have her, can't sleep, true love knows no bounds OR RULES (like say, both of them being married, and not to each other?), can't be constrained and should be free"? He sounds borderline psycho stalker, and I'd a) tell his wife (she deserves to know what kind of man she married and make her own choices about her marriage and where to go from here), b) cut him off entirely NO going back and c) get a cease and desist/restraining order.
@ambarmar8601
@ambarmar8601 2 жыл бұрын
Story two is so heart wrenching and op is making it somewhat bearable and ok. She needs to write a book. You would read!
@brandi5126
@brandi5126 2 жыл бұрын
Last story is freaking brutal. Wth. I feel for Op, what a giant bag of poop. Can't even imagine how crappy that must be to go through.
@WobblesandBean
@WobblesandBean 2 жыл бұрын
I could never keep that baby. I'd rather give it up for adoption. I'm angry that the comments were all like "oh what a blessing, now the baby will be forced to live in the shadow of a dead man and feel pressured to keep his memory alive, while her siblings will resent her for being parentified cuz OP is a single mom and children should be forced to raise other children! Isn't that _romantic?"_
@kristinewatson3702
@kristinewatson3702 2 жыл бұрын
OP and Steve! God that is heartbreaking and beautiful at the same time.
@RainyDays2790
@RainyDays2790 2 жыл бұрын
ugh that last story has me bawling like a baby, i hope op and the kids are fine and happier, and found some peace
@kimkrajci7895
@kimkrajci7895 2 жыл бұрын
@Markee, this was your best reading ever. Your ability to give us the voice of these writers is brilliant. BRAVO!
@tiffinyanderson4403
@tiffinyanderson4403 2 жыл бұрын
Out of the hundreds of these type of videos I have watched I have never cried until the second story. I’ve been through hell myself and hearing the OP’s honest feelings and the pendulum of emotions just got to me. Life isn’t fair. Time isn’t on our side and I only hope this woman and her family find some peace. And even that last sentence seems so inadequate!
@olliolli4882
@olliolli4882 2 жыл бұрын
I like the OP of the Steve story. I agree with the commenter about writing a book, I would love to read it. The lesbian camp comment was awesome
@EllieC130
@EllieC130 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, I feel awful for story 2 OP, but damn if she didn't completely hit me on how I feel about fucking life. I feel like I should be trying to be better now.
@aaroneisenman6873
@aaroneisenman6873 2 жыл бұрын
I swear I just want to hug and kiss my wife once she gets home from work... definitely will be doing that along with a heartfelt "I love you"!
@EllieC130
@EllieC130 2 жыл бұрын
@@aaroneisenman6873 did you?
@aaroneisenman6873
@aaroneisenman6873 2 жыл бұрын
@@EllieC130 Yeah I did.....
@EllieC130
@EllieC130 2 жыл бұрын
@@aaroneisenman6873 good
@maryellen9503
@maryellen9503 2 жыл бұрын
The second story is devastating but I love the OP. She is nice but also so ANGRY and I feel like she's a mood.
@kalhilton9703
@kalhilton9703 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for everything that you’ve been through, and are still going through, hopefully everyone here can give you some strength to lean on and a shoulder to cry on. Good luck with your future life.
@theblackantonio
@theblackantonio 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2 is the most tragic yet beautiful thing I've watched on this channel.
@photoflo78
@photoflo78 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had the courage to write out my true feelings. I admire her strength and courage.
@thomasjoseph5876
@thomasjoseph5876 2 жыл бұрын
Strength and courage??? She is a lunatic and shouldn't be anywhere near children after Steve dies. This is a woman that didn't really love Steve, just married him for convenience and it shows in her ramblings. For the kid's sake, I really hope she gets the necessary professional mental health assistance that she needs. She's not mad Steve is dying because she loves him, she is mad he is dying and leaving her alone to deal with all the kids, 2 of which are biologically his. She is a narcissist.
@kittylovesfilms
@kittylovesfilms 2 жыл бұрын
That 2nd Story Hit Hard...... Painfully & Beautafully Said. *reaches for OP's hand* There Are No Words To Express The Greif & Love You Feel. Thank You For Sharing Op. Thank You! I Wishing You ALL My Love & Inner-Peace. 🧡💜🧡
@shadowkissed2370
@shadowkissed2370 2 жыл бұрын
Story two had me sobbing throughout it. I cannot imagine what op and her children are going through.
@minimochi2206
@minimochi2206 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2 **just sitting here sobbing in my car** but wow I've never hurt for someone so much as well as wanted to be their bestfriend at the same time. She f**king rocks. She's beyond amazing & strong! I'm 33 so semi close in age but I couldn't even IMAGINE having to even going through even 2% of what she is. I don't pray, I don't believe in it, but I'm definitely keeping her and her little family in my thoughts I hope she's doing okay.
@mercedes3585
@mercedes3585 2 жыл бұрын
That first story- Secrets have power! For the one who did the bad thing. The absolute %100 wrong thing would be to sweep this under the rug.
@slickpuppy3666
@slickpuppy3666 2 жыл бұрын
It took me a while to actually realise he says "next post" and not "unexposed". Love this channel!
@mercedes3585
@mercedes3585 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God that second one! I was crying through most of it.
@sablemoreno5095
@sablemoreno5095 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if for story 2, Steve had time to write letters, when she was talking about not wanting to tell him, I could only think of the Violet Evergarden episode where the mom is writing notes for her daughter that she had paid to have sent to her for each birthday after she died. I really hope he had time to make something like that for the little girl.
@fredferd965
@fredferd965 2 жыл бұрын
Time is the best gift you can give someone and the worst thing to have taken away.
@digitalharmony26
@digitalharmony26 2 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck I relate to the “sick of being called strong when I’m barely holding on” thing. I live with chronic pain. Both mum and I are disabled. Mum is dealing with a whole host of severe medical issues (none that will kill her…yet, but life changing serious shit), I care for her while barely surviving myself. I’m sore, tired, utterly exhausted with nothing left in the tank, and so damn sore. The house has gone to shit. My social life and mental health have gone to shit. We’re both lashing out at each other every day due to the frustration of our situation and knowing we’re both barely coping. Which is heartbreaking because I love her more than anything and I hate seeing her like that. My friends check in and ask how I’m coping and how mum is and I lie through my teeth and I get the reassuring loving messages that I can do this and I’m so strong and all that bullshit. I know that’s what you’re meant to say. I know they’re being caring but I wanna scream most of the time and this story, although wildly different from my own set of circumstances, resonates so deep within me. Apparently I also word vomit 😅 guess I had all that built up and this was a good outlet. This’ll more than likely get lost in a sea of comments but sorry to anyone who read this 😅
@TheBlankInk
@TheBlankInk 2 жыл бұрын
Last op is indeed a badass queen. I wish i had her emotional strength.I am 21 years old tho and that shit gotta be cultivated over the years but....this woman gets it May her husband rest in peace and i wish OP and their kids the best.
@LadyJoolree
@LadyJoolree 2 жыл бұрын
Market you read that last story so well. I do hope OP is doing as well as can be expected.
@eph2vv89only1way
@eph2vv89only1way 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: What an emotional story! I’m crying and I didn’t live it or have pregnancy hormones in play. My heart goes out to op and the rest of the family As far as being mad goes, that is normal and healthy. Personally, when my brother died in the middle of COVID, I was angry at cancer and cigarettes for killing him and at COVID for denying me the chance to see him during the last year of his life. Anger is normal
@kateemma22
@kateemma22 2 жыл бұрын
I just want to give OP2 the biggest hug in the world.
@cecilbob5612
@cecilbob5612 2 жыл бұрын
There is no way I could have coped with all of that. She deserves every woman of the year award out there (woman,wife,mother,etc) as well as the cover of time magazine.
@rinpaisys
@rinpaisys 8 күн бұрын
There’s a reason anger is included as one of the steps of the grieving process. It’s an extremely normal part of grief.
@kausha7135
@kausha7135 2 жыл бұрын
So thankful she kept the baby. She was upset that her choice was taken, but I'm sure the baby will be grateful that her own choice wasn't taken.
@xionhartfiels541
@xionhartfiels541 2 жыл бұрын
My God!!!!!! wtf did i just watch. With OP All the way , and just dealing with this bullshit, and still showing unfiltered LOVE. This sounds like a LOVE/HATE story i solute to you, you wonderful brave Woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
@tmaxim2651
@tmaxim2651 2 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to listen while drifting to sleep. Thanks Markee! Goodnight- NSW
@Markee
@Markee 2 жыл бұрын
Have a good sleep Tasha!
@Hexie094
@Hexie094 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Story 2 op was real as heck when she went off on that rant after her reality hit
@Logitah
@Logitah 2 жыл бұрын
Crying a little here.. I love the OP of story 2 and I wish the best for them! 😩😭
@JanBear
@JanBear 2 жыл бұрын
This is honest to God the most beautiful and authentic thing I’ve ever read on Reddit. It makes all the time I’ve wasted on the site worthwhile
@azteriskmusic
@azteriskmusic 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2 high key broke me at "she'll have a sister"
@virtualatheist
@virtualatheist 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: Heartbreaking, but I'm certain that OP is gonna kick ass no matter what happens.
@hothotheat3000
@hothotheat3000 2 жыл бұрын
Dude is watching too many romcoms if he thinks that shit is acceptable.
@groofromtheup5719
@groofromtheup5719 2 жыл бұрын
nah. he just wanted a hot side piece.
@msredux
@msredux 2 жыл бұрын
Damnit that story made me cry, hope the best for op and her family
@pitviper2
@pitviper2 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: that was a real heartbreaking story to listen to, and I have no doubt that it's real, it sounds like someone really venting their feelings and I feel so bad for her
@KJ-sp9jq
@KJ-sp9jq 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2 was very depressing. I both feel bad for OP and admire her strength.
@hyzenthlayrose2176
@hyzenthlayrose2176 2 жыл бұрын
Man, I wish we could get more updates about the last story. I was way too invested in that one.
@demonheart13
@demonheart13 2 жыл бұрын
First story commenters, "I don't know how people allow weirdos in their lives" "Some people live for the drama" "Definitely tell his wife" Honestly, doing the right thing is just as likely to bring drama as keeping secrets. Some people, especially attractive people, through no fault of their own, are drama magnets. Unless everyone is actively witnessing and enabling a weird actions, please don't blame their friends for not being detectives and hanging out with them. A lot of weirdos are smart enough to hide behind good people so that others will look over their smaller mistakes and it won't be until they make a big mistake that the collective realizes the signs were always there. That's why hindsight is 20/20, especially without the fog and rose colored glasses.
@taurus3alexis
@taurus3alexis 2 жыл бұрын
Thank god for the second op for not sugarcoating life like a lot of Redditors
@askreddit3021
@askreddit3021 2 жыл бұрын
People like this always forget the little detail about the other person not loving them back.
@Munthegun
@Munthegun Жыл бұрын
God damn sometimes I forget how amazing Markee is at reading stories man. 13:00 to 15:00 god damn Markee 🤌
@telinhajp
@telinhajp 2 жыл бұрын
Good night, Markee! Hope you had a fantastic Tuesday! ❤️
@Markee
@Markee 2 жыл бұрын
It was a lovely Tuesday :) Hope you have a good night Telinha
@amandarose4469
@amandarose4469 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not crying, you’re crying.
@WGottefried
@WGottefried 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god the "word vomit" part of the second story made me so sad, poor op
@vampire9545
@vampire9545 2 жыл бұрын
Story 1: elbow drop
@safespacebear
@safespacebear 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: gosh. Whatever one decides good people have to support bc that's an impossible position. We lost my sister in law who was only 19 and the family was emotionally crushed. Months later wife got pregnant (a surprise) and it really reframed everything for the family. My son didn't replace his aunt but he gave us all a reason to look forward again vs always looking behind us at what we lost
@jamesondeschain2654
@jamesondeschain2654 2 жыл бұрын
In my social circles we refer to people like #1 as "missing stairs" since older group members know to avoid the danger but new people fall into the gap and get hurt. This is because people tend not to want to rock the boat with things like this. It allows the creepy person to easily prey on any new social members since they have no idea what's going on even though most elder members are aware of the creeper's history. Our social circles have a firm policy on place making sure that we very specifically educate any new people about any "missing stairs" to avoid.
@d.c.930
@d.c.930 2 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh! When he said “she’ll have a sister” just broke me 😢
@BubblyTeatime
@BubblyTeatime 2 жыл бұрын
For story 2, I feel like while leaving videos behind will be a sweet thing, I think Sarah could be the biggest bond between the new child and their father. Sarah experienced their father's kindness in that as long as he was alive he would've fought tooth and nail for their happiness and they should both be proud to be his daughters.
@concrete-d5v
@concrete-d5v 2 жыл бұрын
Well I started this video while waiting in the car for an appointment not expecting to cry, but here I am with tears in my eyes and snot coming out my nose.....damn you allergies!!
@hagnat
@hagnat 2 жыл бұрын
that word vomit was brutal AF #respect
@elliotwarren1090
@elliotwarren1090 2 жыл бұрын
The OP in the second story is so openly honest and I love that for them, however it’s clear they need therapy… of sorts. To help get all of those feelings out in a healthy way
@dmikewilcox
@dmikewilcox 2 жыл бұрын
Story 1: Feelings of intense love are chemical driven, to a large extent. Nothing wrong with that. True lasting love is an action, not just a feeling. You commit to your lover. There will be times your emotions for them are glowing, but it does not change your commitment to treating them in a loving way. Emotions eb and flow. Commitment that is mutual can be sustained.
@mysterylovescompany2657
@mysterylovescompany2657 2 жыл бұрын
If a man said he "had to have" me, I'd half expect him to abduct me & carry me off to listen to some impromptu organ recitals in his lair amidst the canals beneath the Paris opera house.
@potter3000
@potter3000 Жыл бұрын
That second story got me 💔😢
@bridgetdebourgh5698
@bridgetdebourgh5698 2 жыл бұрын
Good Night Markee sweet dreams 😴 Have a great day/night everyone 🤗
@manxiefeathermoon9888
@manxiefeathermoon9888 2 жыл бұрын
Story two: why would you be mad at someone dying fro cancer?
@Human-kb6xc
@Human-kb6xc 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think she’s mad at him. She’s mad at the situation. She’s allowed to be mad.
@MrsWheezer
@MrsWheezer 2 жыл бұрын
Grief comes in many, many, many forms. Anger is part of it. I was utterly furious when my bff died of cancer. Mad her body wouldn’t respond to treatment. Mad her daughters wouldn’t grow up with their amazing mom. Mad at God for letting this happen. I’m at peace now (8 years later), but there are still times I feel a little anger about the void she left.
@cameronkelley3812
@cameronkelley3812 2 жыл бұрын
Cause dying sucks someone you love dying sucks much more emotions will run high and spillout in an uncontrolled manner.
@emanx222
@emanx222 2 жыл бұрын
Its about reading between the lines. She's very much aware her anger is irrational, doesn't stop it from happening. We, just like she, knows she's mad at the situation, not her dying partner
@CraigandJane1
@CraigandJane1 2 жыл бұрын
That was brutal.
@hakudoushinumbernine
@hakudoushinumbernine 2 жыл бұрын
I love how op is angry saying shes tired of people saying shes strong when shes barely keeping her head above water... The thing is, that statement is ironic. Shes doing exactly what people in desperate and hopeless situations do when the need to survive... keep their head above water. It takes a strong person to do that in that kind of situation. Especially with three kids and one on the way. Shes stronger than she realizes. We all are. Shame it takes situations like this to figure that out... I think thats the real reason i listen to these stories. Its not just because i like watching drama unfold in OTHER PEOPLE'S lives but because its cathartic seeing people live through situations they didn't think they could live through. Freeing themselves from abuse and finding safety, fathers becoming parents because of unforseen circumstances, and stepping up to the plate when the mother bows out. People surviving people with undiagnosed disorders and such. Making the hard but right choice. That story about the dad with the wife and two kids, the one being autistic nonverbal pushing the sister down the steps and the mom not doing anything about it and telling the father that he shouldn't either. That is a hard decision to leave one child because of their untreated condition to protect the other without the condition. How does ANY loving parent make that decision? And he had to make it because the alternative was potentially worse off. Are these ideal situations? No, of course not, and the stories dont always have happy or satisfying endings. But This is a constant reminder that life is happening, and people are living it the best they know how. And its also a sober reminder that you can do everything right and things can still go wrong and for someone with anxiety (at least for me) that is strangely motivating. Everyone is strong, it just takes different forms.
@maurinarobinson3627
@maurinarobinson3627 2 жыл бұрын
The second story she should write a book and it should turn into a movie
@jazz2450
@jazz2450 2 жыл бұрын
This was the best one i’ve ever heard i laughed i cried, i died no pun intended
@niyablake
@niyablake 2 жыл бұрын
Story 1 tell they wife. OR you could drive him to the hills and show him a hole in the ground, then make him walk back.
@DrgnLdyLizzie2001
@DrgnLdyLizzie2001 2 жыл бұрын
She said she wasn't strong. I think she is. She got up, did what needed to be done, then did it all again the next day. Yes, it hurt, and she was right to be pissed at fate/God or what have you, but she KEPT GOING!! That right there makes her Wonder Woman to me.
@amemooress6291
@amemooress6291 2 жыл бұрын
Actually cried at story 2.
@reallyisay
@reallyisay 2 жыл бұрын
Girl Vent all you want... we can take it ..Big Hugs
@FallenRosestorm
@FallenRosestorm 2 жыл бұрын
those two stories have such differing emotions to them wow
@nimisilverbird1239
@nimisilverbird1239 2 жыл бұрын
Nta. It is your body and your choice. I believe that. However with the overturn of roe vs wade. Whether or not op keeps the child is probably no longer her choice. Texas made it against the law and created a law that says if you go and get one you will be arrested and jailed. Not all states are like this. But many are. Thanks America. We have gone back in time.
@kingimura2430
@kingimura2430 2 жыл бұрын
Story 1: EXPOSE HIM, check him and wreck him. I almost lost my job because one of my coworkers decided to openly flirt with my then-fiance, so this kinda resonated with me a little
@user-lr7dk7mt2w
@user-lr7dk7mt2w 2 жыл бұрын
They are going to tell the other friends so he's going to be exposed
@hekatsees9449
@hekatsees9449 2 жыл бұрын
Last Story: OP’s life sounds all filled up. OP’s perspective is unique among mere mortals. She may have her own gravitational pull; so much power, the excess has to go somewhere :). Her life is an adventure, an odyssey even, filled with emotional and intellectual extremes. Her child: In the calculated world of logic, an abortion would’ve been the ‘expedient’ and necessary solution for most humans.. But in the Steve & OP story, the child is necessary. This brand new on planet earth little girl-person will continue the ‘story of Steve’ (and OP)… Just, wow! Life is gonna suck… And it’s going to be amazing and wonderful and filled with purpose for OP and the human lives in her immediate orbit, i.e. her family…
@mystea840
@mystea840 2 жыл бұрын
I’m halfway through the rant in Story 2 and I call say is ‘right on sister!! This shit SUCKS’
@theroyalbugness
@theroyalbugness 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I needed this. What a good addition to my morning 💜
@anno_mundi
@anno_mundi 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry 😭😭😭
@catherinecox573
@catherinecox573 2 жыл бұрын
I was very strong and didn't cry during story 2... Until Steve said "She'll have a sister", what the ffffffffff 😭 Too damn sad.
@cesnottheconvention
@cesnottheconvention 2 жыл бұрын
I did not come here to cry, god damn it.
@mbyerly9680
@mbyerly9680 2 жыл бұрын
Isn't there an update on the 1st story? The creep was creeping on other women in the group, and hell was rained down on him in the end.
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