My Wife Thought I Used My SA As An Excuse To Cheat. A*usr Convicted Guilty, My Wife Want Me Back

My wife thought I used my sexual assault as an excuse to cheat. Abuser convicted guilty, my wife wants me back(throwra_i778 in r/relationship_advice)
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[@mujtabarehman5255]

2.5 years for rape is a joke. She also should have been punished for purjery when she accused him of raping her.

[@vivianmajewski6341]

The minimum sentence is 3 years so I’m inclined to believe this story may be fake

[@Freakyman403]

@@vivianmajewski6341 they are sentencing a female, women have SA children and have been given probation, never underestimate the courts to be extremely lenient on women.

[@jordanwardle11]

​@@vivianmajewski6341depends on location

[@jamestown8398]

If the genders were reversed then the attacker would have gotten 10 years.

[@juanestebanmauro5280]

typical american judicial system. we've seen in the news plenty of stories of female teachers getting it on with male underaged students, and walking out the courtroom effectively free, while men who prove their innocence in court still end up going through jail and paying fines, plus suffering some type of consecuence beyond judicial punishment, while the accuser doesn't even get a slap on the wrist for it. for comparison, in my country, in the Lucio Dupuy case, the mother and her lesbian partner were sentenced to 35-50 years in prison for abusing, 'roping', and killing Lucio. they were also, very deservedly, beat up for it in the prison they are serving their sentence at, by the inmates.

[@juanhaines7295]

I will never understand why so many people don't take men being r@ped by women seriously. It can happen to anyone regardless of age or gender. So please stop treating it as such.

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Because feminist double standards. If the roles were reversed everyone would be sorry for her .

[@juanhaines7295]

What makes it all the worst is she only got 2.5 years. If it was a guy who was found guilty he would most likely get life.

[@andynorck2389]

Maybe because it’s more difficult for it to happen and more uncommon. Not that that means it shouldn’t be taken seriously. But what really sucks to me is that they don’t even get the same sentence, that innately means it isn’t as grave of a crime as the other way around.

[@barryallen3555]

​@@andynorck2389it's hard because getting an erection and maintaining it usually me the male is enjoying something it often sounds like the guys are lying

[@takanuva_9355]

It falls in the same thinking pattern as DV. Men are biological stronger and "therefore more able to defend themselfes->he didn't defend himself, because he liked it" In some cases women argue that an erection is consent That subject is very complex and yet easy

[@alexandriadowning2526]

OP is exactly right. Had the abuser not recorded the SA, he'd be the one in prison right now. Absolutely disgusting.

[@theoneandonly9775]

And the time would be way longer

[@notting2640]

Women get 2.5 years for a crime that men would get 25 years for. Make it make fucking SENSE.

[@heilinstarling9436]

It's not related to gender in any way. Sure, it's harder to prove in court that man has been the victim due to the sexist stereotypes that, sadly, still exist in modern society. But prison sentence time isn't gender specific at all. It depends on whether that was a first crime committed, if it was a one time or not, if the criminal is showing remorse, was there any physical damage caused to the victim, like bruises or maybe even broken bones, is there any obstacles in the criminal's life that would lower their punishment, like if they have elderly relatives or kids dependant on their support and so on. That's why some people are getting 2,5 and some 25 years for the same type of crime. The details of the crime are different. It's not about the gender.

[@mujtabarehman5255]

@@heilinstarling9436 That misses the point. Theres research that clearly shows that women lighter sentences for the same crime as men, and this is is you control you circumstances around the crime and criminal history. So a men might very well have gotten a harsher sentence, but you are right in the sense that the likely crime did not involve assault which makes a difference.

[@whiten4635]

​@heilinstarling9436 that can't be right while yes they also check for bruise amongst other things I'm pretty sure SA/r*** is charged with at the very least 5-10 years no parole. And the lady who did he sa did try to fight the allegation and discard evidence which is a crime and should have added to their sentence as well as trying to use an abortion to lie and twist the story on OP to make him the bad guy which is tampering of evidence and false witnessing which should added to her sentence as well. And even if she was remorseful I pleaded guilty that was after all her claims were refuted against and proven to be wrong so she he act of remorse wasn't truly demonstrated till the end. Whilst I do say that law is some what fair when it comes to gender in some area. In this situation alongside many others the male would have been judged much harshly and I'm pretty confident would have walked out of the courtroom with more than a 2.5 year sentence

[@heilinstarling9436]

@@mujtabarehman5255 Well, I wholeheartedly believe that such research would be heavily flawed since no real crime could ever be the same, especially when it comes to sexual assaults. But it's also true that the court system is also flawed, especially if there is jury involved. Once again, sexism is sadly very real, and it damages both men and women. There is no legal basis for giving women lighter punishment than men though, so I hope that some day such differences in justice will be eliminated.

[@dollface2907]

​@@heilinstarling9436in some places in the world a couple can commit a crime and the wife can get away with it if children are involved because "the children need there mother" and what's worse is there are stories of women abusing the kids and getting custody just cause there their mother, also it's really fucked that man rapes women= 5-10 years but women rapes man = 2.5 years and probably out sooner on good behaviour it's sick

[@chadroberts5099]

It is very common for women to have an orgasm during SA. It makes complete sense that a man would as well. Now, if a husband blamed his wife for lying about being SA to hide an affair, it would be understandable for her to leave. So, for OP it is 100% okay to end this relationship. She could have done a simple Google search and trust him, but she chose to blame the victim!

[@wazer85]

If the "victim" had an erection while the woman rode then its cheating. SIMPLE

[@spankeyfish]

Lors of people don't realise that orgasms are a reflex. It's been theorised that it's possible to give a brain dead person an orgasm but nobody wants to test that.

[@redcell9636]

My mother taught me about this at a young age, that men and boys can be SA'd via penetration of a woman unwantingly (you know because youtube has to censor words that inconvenience a proper conversation ever since Epstein didn't merk himself) and she said this exact thing. Unfortunately my mother experienced instances of SA herself, so she took it upon herself to 1) never let her trauma reach her and my sister, and 2) teach us in various ways as we got older to understand SA and inappropriate behavior. It sickens me women don't do this more, when I found out that men are often blamed for more as the victim than women that's when I knew we never even began scratching the surface of "equality".

[@joshuawells7415]

​@@redcell9636Unfortunately that inequality makes it's way even into the legal definitions of sexual crimes like rape. Like your mom mentioned, men can be raped through penetration but that's the only way it legally counts as rape; being forced into someone else is molestation at best.

[@redcell9636]

@@joshuawells7415 It's sad, and thanks for dealing with my typos. I got fat thumbs. There is a lot of healing people need to do, the "free love" crap of the 70s and 80s did a lot of damage because a a dangerous minority took it upon themselves to begin justifying diddling of minors as an "orientation" If you don't know who NAMBLA are, then you don't truly no the origins of the entirety of why we have so much degeneracy now that effects kids. It's a nationwide grooming cult, and if you call it out they blame you.

[@Walhor]

Only 2.5 years, lmao I bet she will be out in less than a year. What a joke

[@naebalvas]

Indeed, a man would have gotten around 8-10 years at least.

[@vivianmajewski6341]

The minimum sentence is 3 years so it may be fake

[@WilliamBrowning]

Where are you getting 3 years minimum? Every state in the US will be different. You have said this 5 times in the above comments. Source?

[@justaboringvegetarian449]

2.5 years is a slap in the face to all victims of rape and SA. Fucking disgraceful. If one of my friends/family was assaulted, I'd be waiting outside the jail on the day their abuser was released. They wouldn't leave the parking lot alive. OP's wife should be ashamed of herself.

[@hauldencottenfield869]

So fun fact. Look up the statistics of women who have an orgasm when being SA’d. When I tell you it’s more than half it’s an understatement. Why OP’s wife thought him orgasming would make it so he did consent is beyond me

[@binaryboopsva]

Fr. It's literally some bad porno or drama logic.

[@diffsnicker]

I was about to say the same thing. But something tells me someone like her would somehow justify it and still demonize her husband

[@WilliamBrowning]

She made it clear she doesn't care about him or what actually happened.

[@phastinemoon]

Probably because the signs of women’s orgasms are more subtle, so likely, a lot of people DON’T know that it’s common. Compared to male orgasms, which we tend to define by ejaculation. I’m not saying that this makes it okay that she responded this way - just why I understand the disconnect between people understanding how common it is.

[@kellharris2491]

@@phastinemoon It was actually believed for a long time that women couldn't get pregnant from rape. That if they got pregnant that meant they must have enjoyed it and therefore it wasn't rape. It was in the law books and everything in europe in. the middle ages. If it was that bad for women just imagine how hard to prove rape was for men back in the day.

[@Rorschachqp]

So many of the “responsers” are missing the point. If the SAing girl planned the whole thing, how can anyone assume the abortion of the baby was even his or from his semen???

[@Devin-O]

I hate people who say men cannot be SA they just laugh it off but the moment the gender role is reversed everyone is on their side.

[@lemonz0880]

i agree w the first part, but not alot of ppl are on the womans side if reversed, the "accusing" and gaslighting still exist in both situations

[@Fentanylenjoyer...]

As a man yes i laugh it off. Imagine the humiliation 😂

[@stefantanket8735]

​@@Fentanylenjoyer..."as a man" are you sure about that, buddy?

[@Fentanylenjoyer...]

@@stefantanket8735 "as a man" yes I am Buddy. Man as a figurative speaking, I'm still a minor. But imagine putting yourself in an absolutely disgraceful position where's your drunkass can't even stop a puny little girl from coercing, overpowering and using you. Never putting myself in such a position ever.

[@williamb.8762]

@@Fentanylenjoyer... Maybe he got drugged. That's the only thing I can think of where he wouldn't know what was going on and couldn't overpower her.

[@jackchop1576]

I had a friend that went through something similar but the only appointment of couple's counseling that his ex wife pushed ended that when he said he was starting to daydream about beating and killing her for leaving him hanging. He begged the therapist to convince her to move on or else he'll end up in prison for murder.

[@sentinel_nightcrawler]

What happened after that?

[@drifter139]

lets be honest here. if the roles had been reversed, everyone would have believed the woman and the man would have been sent to prison for no less than 10 yrs, if not more. upon release, he would have been legally required to register as a sex offender and that would have followed him for life. the legal system is heavily biased against men in every way. we can even see that his wife immediately flipped her pov of him from "you were a victim" to "you must have liked it since you finished". half of his friends were even against him. these reasons are why male SA victims don't go to the cops or speak up about it since everyone immediately tells them they weren't assaulted and must have wanted it

[@WilliamBrowning]

Where are all you dudes getting this? When women are SAd literally half of all men will come up ways to blame her, deny it happened, etc... It's worse for men, YES but stop using men's as$aults to justify your $hitty opinion of women. I was SAd. I know what I'm talking about. It's worse for men IT'S STILL TRUE THAT NO ONE BELIEVES WOMEN or MEN.

[@nevermusic]

Wow the wife is a real piece. She accused him without doing any research on victims of sexual assault and their natural responses to rape. Refused to believe he was assaulted, and left him. When you’re in a relationship, thats your person. You believe them and support them. She let her own insecurity dictate reality. Shes got a lot of growing up.

[@flukay72]

I'd tell my ex to leave and never contact me again, after a betrayal like that.

[@yagnikbose8973]

I can't believe the extreme misandry and blatant double standards. Absolutely disgusting!

[@thanglongnguyenvu3815]

I find it ironically funny that people can totally ignore the definition of rape because they think only someone with a rod can rape someone.

[@joshuawells7415]

Unfortunately the layman's definition and the legal definition often differ here with the legal definition being defined specifically through penetration of a victim (fairly recently including with objects in some places).

[@coolbeans194]

Only 2.5 years??? Rape, making a sex tape without consent. Defamation. Yet only 2.5 years in jail for that monster?

[@Aserox]

Keep in mind, the court would likely treat it not as the full blown charge, something like "being made to penetrate" is a far lesser crime than full blown rope charges despite being the same thing.

[@coolbeans194]

@@Aserox That's BS!!! What kind of double standard is that???

[@JewelWildmoon]

I barely know the specifics about sex and even I know you don't necessarily have to be into it to finish. It's disgusting that some people think being physically stronger than a woman means that they can't still SA you. *_Especially_* when you're too buzzed to move much.

[@okamiexe1501]

HOLD UP only 2.5 years for rape?! Thats fucked up! The average sentence is 15 years. Some states even go as far as the death penalty is severe cases, but 2.5 years?!

[@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer]

OP is extremely lucky the girl had a abortion She could've kept it and sued for child support while neglecting the baby

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

i remember having a talk with my mom i asked her how a man can prove his innocent if he gets SA she said she dosent men to be able to get assaulted byt women because men are stronger another thing she said was that when he finished that meant he wanted it this got me so mad at her and she in the end said ''its just my opinion'' which got me even more angry i cant believe our feelings ont matter most of the times she has two sons god dammit after that i cant look at her the same as before the fact that i might get SA by women and the only thing they will say is that i enjoyed it or made orgams will make me look like i wanted to this i even told her just because someone likes the feeling and the look dosent mean they want it

[@kellharris2491]

I'm sorry she said that.

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

@@kellharris2491 its okay you dont need to sorry for something you didnt do thanks for the attention tho

[@denizkenger52]

You shouldda asked if her opinion is consistent on both sides so “ok I see, so if a girl cums during an act she defines as R, would you say it’s not R because she did cum which would mean she enjoyed it right?” And make her understand it’s the exact same logic with that of the male example she made the point for. Just calmly test her point, don’t make it obvious you’re attacking her point, act like you’re trying to understand her logic so she doesn’t get heated or defensive but actually feels like it’s a fine conversation and nothing to keep her from sharing her opinion. So when she runs into one of your trap scenarios where her two answers don’t add up, in a “trying to understand her logic” kind if tone/way, ask her “but doesn’t this go against the point you made earlier regarding……”.

[@dk7680]

I got laughed at when I told people a women raped me. I also played the victim, I put myself in a situation where I could be raped.

[@JackZoe-bf3zq]

I remember reading a story abt a woman who orgasmed when she was raped. She felt "dirty" for "enjoying it". When she went to therapy it was explained that it normal and and pretty common. Orgasms are not indicative of consensual and "fun" sex. Rather they are just a biological response we can't control.

[@Aserox]

Male genitals? Anyone being assaulted can orgasm. It has nothing to do with being male. It's a common issue that further messes up a lot of people that get assaulted.

[@lastraven8575]

Sadly both the law and society are far from accepting of a male in this situation there are even some places in the world where woment CAN'T be prosecuted for rape and at best it only counts as sexual assault sometimes they cant even be convicted for that. The idea that orgasm means consent is a terrible thing as we are basically machines a car can still be turned on and drove even if its being stolen. The crime is not defined by the actions of the victim only the criminal

[@NorthTrainmeister]

OP did the right thing by leaving his wife. She victimized him just as his assailant had. Hopefully, the soon-to-be ex wife will be generous to a fault in the upcoming divorce and, she will let him be so that he may live his best life. And soon-to-be ex wife should also consider remaining single for the rest of her life. She does not have what it takes to be a decent human being, never mind a proper wife.

[@sidewayssatoru9055]

2.5? bro the bias is insane

[@sergiogarpla2902]

The fact that such a bad argument as the one of the abortion would actualy get him jailed is scary.

[@neogexus2516]

The person who said "to me, people would normally have more pause before saying stuff that they actually don't know to be facts or not when it is in regard to sensitive topics" got me to laugh when I heard that. Sadly, we live in a world where a great many people don't hesitate a single second before talking as though they are experts about things, they know little to nothing about regardless of how sensitive the topic might be.

[@fyoutube9410]

2.5 years for grape...

[@madhatter8508]

Oh hell no, you can't forgive your wife for that

[@newturtle3]

Guys can get SA'd. People (mostly women) have to understand its not hard to get guys going just like women. But just because the stick is sticky and the curtains are damp =/= consent.

[@Lommysalami]

This man almost became mark Grayson

[@trevormc0125]

He's out of line, but he's right

[@jgrAnimations23]

Wdym almost?? He DID

[@AleV69692]

Who's mark grayson?

[@James-vd4bh]

​@@AleV69692He's the main character of the animated series Inv..(Title Card)

[@cjtheman2985]

​@@AleV69692 Invincible and GIANT SPOILER!! Invincible is raped by a female viltrumite named Anissa and she gets pregnant and has his son

[@paulmitchell179]

TWO AND A HALF YEARS!?!?! MEN GET HARSHER SENTENCES THAN THAT!!!!🤯😡🤬🤬🤬

[@drjonesey5]

Same as he's saying he's a man and he knows how it would go is exactly why he needed to go to police immediately. Toxic masculinity is not a thing, but if it was, the idea of not speaking out as men because you're afraid of shame and the idea that we should say nothing and suffer in silence IS what it would actually be, not what feminist claim toxic masculinity is.

[@Abandoned2377]

Its not assault its rape.

[@JimBeamFiend53]

To those commentors who said men cant be victims: Fix yourselves!

[@tedyryt1369]

I heard so many story where men leave their wives when she gets SA …so what’s new here…. This is a rare occurrence in the larger pool of SA cases (not that it’s not important) ……

[@radicaldreamer927]

If you're referring to women raping men as being rare relative to the reverse, no, no it most certainly is not. According to the CDC's National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey of 2012, 1,473,000 women had been raped within the previous 12 months. Within the same time frame, 1,715,000 men had been "made to penetrate," as the CDC calls it in order to make it _seem_ as though women are raped more. Just don't call it rape when it happens to men (unless it was by another guy shoving his dick up the male victim's ass, which is much less common than forcing men into a penetrative role)! Neat trick, eh? Anyway, vast majority of both victim categories, yes including the men, reported opposite sex offenders.

[@xxsqf]

2.5years if a man did that they would just remove the decimal

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

Ok but that's really crazy that they didn't really explain how they got the information.

[@tek512]

That ex-wife is a pretty garbage human being.

[@lordrambo7898]

Sad that she only got 2.5 years. The guy would’ve gotten life

[@lamiahunter]

Remember women get 5x less punishment for felonies

[@islandsunset]

2.5 years... Isn't that less?

[@Fentanylenjoyer...]

Mmno

[@islandsunset]

@@Fentanylenjoyer... in my country, the punishment for rape starts at 10 years and can increase to life imprisonment if drugs or other intoxicants are used to circumvent consent. 2.5 years seems like a slap on the wrist.

[@Fentanylenjoyer...]

@@islandsunset yeah, as per Shariah law your castrated and killed for commiting rape, you know: cut the problem at its roots to prevent it from happening again But I mean isn't that kind of humiliating? As a man (where your ideally supposed to be strong and protecting others) getting taken advantage of, being coerced into it because of your own drunkenness, that would be horrible And yes 2.5 years is a slap on the wrist-thats no justice. People who rpe little children get like 5-15years but someone who wanted to make a little more money from some stock market or whatever illegally gets 50+. Weird

[@islandsunset]

@@Fentanylenjoyer... it is humiliating for all the victims. Humiliation doesn't see gender.

[@Fentanylenjoyer...]

@@islandsunset it doesn't but as a guy, i see it quite well lol

[@lordanubis1475]

OP wish you all the best, but damn worst wife ever

[@FolkSHADE]

Drunk = SA inherently. So I don't know why this is even a conversation. Her, not under the influence, him drunk= SA. There wouldn't be a need for evidence if the genders were flipped.

[@stutikhanna987]

I don't think she initially believe the girl but yes no pressing the charges and then that abortion and im 100% sure people around her filling her ears make her question the OP character. Even if it was opposite gender understandable that lot of men can't accept the assaulter child. It totally depends on the couple trust. Also the thing is it doesn't happen often so we always try to assume worst. In my opinion its totally on OP now i will totally 100% support op decision.

[@JuggernautTheOgryn]

One of my ex’s r#ped me, which is how I lost my virginity actually… so I can only imagine that’s the reason why I have zero libido now and refuse to date or have s3x. I just want to hug OP and tell him that he has people that love him and we’ll get through it together

[@theneonlights1788]

48

[@MxHavmir]

Note: Ejaculation =/= Orgasm

[@natie3652]

I don’t want to be mean but the fact that he got drunk carelessly is bad from his side,I just think she was ignorant and got in to her feelings after knowing the woman got pregnant and also the fact he didn’t report the woman to the police didn’t help she at least need to get a second chance,I know dam well if my wife/girlfriend was in a party with friends/colleagues or whatever I would not in any situation want her to be drunk cause she will put herself in danger it doesn’t matter if he’s a man it doesn’t mean u can get drunk freely,I don’t blame him for what happened but it could have been avoided if he was more responsible,I think he didn’t need to divorce her he was just mad she didn’t completely believe him even though he didn’t reported the woman someone please explain to me where was she in the wrong to the point u have to divorce her maybe I’m being ignorant

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

if you tell your partner what to do all the time they might not want to be with you im not really a person who want to see drunk people and i never plan on drinking but you cant force people to do what you want no one goes to a party thinking they will end up getting R'ped and it dosent happen only on parties

[@natie3652]

⁠@@georgegorvaniagerge7077 I didn’t say they can’t drink or force someone not to but sorry u have to be more responsible in situations like this because it’s known that some people are horrible so if u get a drink u have to watch it so no one puts something in it also u have to be alerted to how much u drink so u won’t get drunk and u put yourself in danger no matter where,drunk people get in to fights car accidents s/a’d/R’ped no good comes out of it and it’s on u to be more responsible and not put yourself and sometimes others in danger

[@AA-ed6ek]

Okay screw off. You hypocrites don't cross that line when the genders are reversed.

[@kellharris2491]

what you are doing is called victim blaming. It's not helpful or constructive. It just leaves the person with more guilt. For all we know she could have slipped something in his drink. Especially if she would go so far as to record it. It almost sounds premeditated.

[@Shallet69]

Shut up man 🤦🏻

[@AliothAncalagon]

I can understand if he cannot trust that his wife has his back anymore after her reaction, but personally I would try to work it out. It seems to me that her mistakes were simply the result of her being stupid. Anyone can misjudge something due to being stupid regarding a certain topic, even though it of course sucked how quickly she jumped to a conclusion. If she would be able to make me feel that she learned a valuable lesson from it, which seems possible to me, I think I could be able to trust her again. But this is a very subjective position. And I can't blame him for going through with the divorce. After all I can't possible imagine how he felt.

[@alexwatkinson1667]

They did couple's counselling in which OP felt his wife wasn't seeking to grow from the situation or change her mindset, which is why he proceeds with the divorce.

[@drifter139]

that does not excuse her response to the situation. just because a man has an erection does not mean he wants to have sex regardless of the situation. the fact his wife switched from "you were a victim" to "you finished so you must have wanted it" shows double standards because if a woman orgasms during an assault, it doesn't mean she wanted it to happen. if you can't understand a basic biological function, then you are ignorant

[@WilliamBrowning]

She said she would still blame him. She doesn't care what she did to him.

[@Sg190th]

At least she's making the divorce simple. If she takes accountability for her stupidity, then she's alright.

[@ncd2164]

If u know she’s stupid (to put it lightly) why would u stay with her after that?

[@anushkadas480]

See im not saying you are the wrong one here but at the same time I also feels same as your wife feels not because you are a man and you cant get SA it just because if you are SA then why don't you report at first place? You should report to police about all of this

[@theredstar6493]

Report it to the police and do what? She'd just have to say no he was the one who graped me and boom he'd be done considering it's a recent event and she could prove his body fluids on her to make her argument strong He should rather be thankful that she got an abortion or he'd be the one hooked on for child support (it has happened before where boys as small as 15 years old were forced to pay so this guy won't be any exception either) Moreover depending upon the jurisdiction of different countries he may or may not even be able to involve police For example law in India and UK clearly says only men can commit grapes so no police would register a complaint in the first place! This is the kind of life men live in their "privileged" world where after suffering from a crime they have to sit at the mercy of their perpetrators or they'd be screwed at a larger stage

[@anushkadas480]

@@theredstar6493 see I get your point but ( for example) at the same what if men is really cheating on her and make a story about whole situation ? She just have to trust him see I'm not men can't be SA but you need to understand both sides like why her wife thinks that but why he did I'm not saying that man in video is wrong of course he is not but in my opinion the wife is also not wrong here

[@Fentanylenjoyer...]

​@@theredstar6493report it to the police and await justice??? Wtf kind of question is that? A girl gets rpd, or someone gets Murdered or SA and you here saying "report to police and do what'? 2- if she was to claim that, she would first need to defend the allegation, file a separate case and Proove her case. Sorry but the video of him being dragged across the floor and taken advantage of by her....won't go in her favour.

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

men most of the time are not supported in this cases even if he goes to the police he has no prove he got Asaulted infact if he do it she might make him look like the bad guy men cant give a prove when gatting R*ped unless they have a video of it women can prove when giving a birth and then blood test but guys cant unless they have a video in that case she made a video so she played herself when men fall in such situlation we feel weak we feel like our life is over we didnt do anything wrong yet we were made to suffer you cant trust anyone the tought of explaning this to someone and them making fun of you telling you are a liar or the case with reporting to the police with no prove will be like allowing them to get you in prison for something you didnt do

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

@@anushkadas480 about the wife side you are the one who dont get it he got SA she could have waited a little bit when the game started he had prove instead of her to act like a smart adult she should have helped her husband and if it were proven wrong then she would have been a allowed to hate him instead she believe that men cant get raped and if he finished he liked it you see what i mean she didnt believe in him because she dosent know anything about the body of men yea sure he finished but did he wanted it? NO!

[@wazer85]

😂 I wish a woman would SA me. OP is a cheater

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

but he got prove of the truth so he isnt

[@leevan2095]

Today I learned, saying I have proof is proof.

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

@@leevan2095 umm he showed to video and she got exposed

[@leevan2095]

@@georgegorvaniagerge7077 showed what to video?

[@georgegorvaniagerge7077]

@@leevan2095 he said that they found the video of him being SA'ed by that women i still dont get what you mean by saying''today i learned saying i have proof is a proof'' tho

[@lastraven8575]

Sadly both the law and society are far from accepting of a male in this situation there are even some places in the world where woment CAN'T be prosecuted for rape and at best it only counts as sexual assault. sometimes they cant even be convicted for that. The idea that orgasm means consent is a terrible thing as we are basically machines a car can still be turned on and drove even if its being stolen. The crime is not defined by the actions of the victim only the criminal