How To Use Strength To Get Your Ex Back

[@TriggaTrevv]

This is the most powerful video ive ever watched thank you for all youve done for me Coach Lee. God bless 💯💪🏾

[@shurdellparris7240]

Yes me as well before bed because its very hard to not reach out to her....

[@DerMelodist]

No Contact gives you the strength you need. You don’t start with it, but you certainly end with it.

[@ForeverAutumn77]

3 days in no contact and I feel a sense of freedom!!! At this point I don't have a desire to talk to him or see him!

[@pamelad757]

Phoenix360 how long did you date?

[@shaut9120]

@@ForeverAutumn77 how is everything now

[@dannamunozca]

Are you sure? Because I miss him so much

[@jsigversion1]

9 days in, and some days are definitely easier than others. I'm AP and she's DA. Today was a hard one.

[@lian6300]

He is my angel. I wake up and watch his videos and and at night watch his videos until a fall sleep. Thank you so much.

[@SentinelOfTruths]

Agreed :)

[@bhonggamelicor8860]

Same here☺

[@rtzbis6136]

Yabsolutely!! He made me take things differently. The anguish and over thinking are fading now and I’m feeling better. Thanks Coach.

[@jab2winfinance]

Lol. Can’t go as far as calling him an angel yet. But I’m in the same boat waking up and falling asleep. He definitely hits the nail on the head for me. Fingers crossed it works!🤞

[@s-ayam4371]

I do the same! Thank you coach

[@EDiva98]

I watched these videos every night for comfort because we all know the nights are the hardest. And I watch them when I get down on myself. This is all new to me- I’m trusting the process. Thank you for the videos.

[@Rats1738]

Same! This is now a daily thing, even though I dont think I want my ex back just listening to coach Lee helps my mind

[@MajDuty]

Good luck

[@benjcalderon2583]

Update?

[@brandonohara4122]

The morning is rough

[@kikhazz]

@@brandonohara4122 it's a constant everyday all day struggle. Even while sleeping. Emotionally draining to say the least

[@michaelsturdevant9196]

One of his best videos. Yes, it applies to all aspects of life when things aren't going your way. Showing strength shows her that you can take her or leave her. That doesn't mean you don't love her. It means you aren't desperate; you're solid. I followed this dude's advice and I got her back after three months. We're ten months now in chapter 2 and as strong as ever. Yes, it's better than before.

[@Don-pk2uy]

Update bro?

[@owensimpson1110]

Congrats man I’m trying to follow the same advice and showing my strength emotionally

[@sooofunny37]

Congrats

[@KrizXGirl]

If you don't mind me asking, why did you break up? Keeping my hopes and trying to see some patterns with success stories :).

[@lukeskywalker313]

Its about losing the battle TO WIN THE WAR

[@sogolafshar2996]

Coach Lee- I’ve been having the hardest days of my life. The only way I got through it is by watching your videos. Thank you for your amazing work!

[@margotmaven1052]

Ditto

[@Thigrandil]

Any update? Ive been though these hardest days of my life too, feels amazing when its over, doesnt it? Nothing will ever again defeat me.

[@lilliankillian7366]

He is so encouraging.and gives us hope. Ty coach for helping us with the hurt. It's so hard

[@ryanchaney94]

@@Thigrandilupdate for you?? Since people don’t update lol

[@Thigrandil]

@@ryanchaney94 she still messages me daily, we see each other once/twice a week and talk for hours. but 9 months later, we're still not together again. its weird.

[@fellamay4558]

This man is absolutely precious. The only coach who goes deep into the psychology of ppl.

[@dellaknocke4669]

My guy is coming over tomorrow with steaks and bake potatoes. We've known each other 6 yrs. We're in our 70's and I have never met a man like him. Such a gentleman and caring. It's been a week since we've seen each or even communicated. I let him have the break.

[@vendulaknejflova1272]

You know. I don't even want my ex back, I just love watching your videos because they're so inspirational!

[@RealCoachLee]

Vendy, thank you so much.

[@LiLgPnoy15]

I watched this video many times, but after months of hard work and being patient, everything is clicking. Everything is coming together. I am stronger as each day goes on and I understand my past. Shout out to everyone going through a difficult breakup.

[@daphneywilliams5225]

Thank u Coach Lee, God bless,

[@abdulmuminfoysol2898]

Thanks Coach lee... Your tips really helped. My Long distance ex contracted me after 20 days of NC . Now she changed her approches & she is the one who asked me "can we talk".... I am so happy 😍 guys please be strong NC definitely works

[@ATXMEX78]

This gives me so much hope to hear congrats!!! My long distance just left me this past Sunday on the 2nd the day before her birthday.. we were in a relationship for a year-and-a-half and we had seen each other two times one time our daughters actually met mine is 9 and hers is 10 and my daughter was really looking forward to having a new sister, anyways it seemed that her career was what she chose over moving to Texas with us which I can respect.. my 2nd oficial day of No Contact was yesterday but she checked on me today because I happened to sprain my knee yesterday at work. But I'm only responding very cool and calm just like the coach Lee's videos I have been binge watching, she's a super sweet woman who I have amazing chemistry with and not a difficult bone in her body whatsoever.. It would be a shame to lose this unicorn of a woman!!! Any man would be blessed to have her just as I have. She cried when telling me the bad news but she basically explained that her love had dwindled which killed me because I thought we were still looking forward for the move in Summer.. I should have encouraged her when she wanted to visit me on New year's but I talked her out of it because I didn't want her to get in a plane accident or be stranded in the midwest because she lives in Indiana I was only looking for her well-being but maybe she didn't see it that way and she started having doubts.. Can you please in detail tell me how she approached you? And did you guys set up to fly to each other? Thank you so much for the hope Sorry if this was winded

[@abdulmuminfoysol2898]

@@ATXMEX78 I can feel u bro. Don’t rush she will be back it takes time though

[@ATXMEX78]

@@abdulmuminfoysol2898 Thanks bro I wish you the best I pray mine comes around for us But if she doesn't I will atleast be stronger and better for myself and my daughter!

[@calebdruckenmiller3148]

Abdul Mumin Foysol So happy for you! I love hearing success stories. I’m a little over a month of no contact myself. Any advice for my situation? I’m 28 and 13 years younger than her- I know the age difference was part of it. We dated for 5 months with no relationship title and it turned into a long distance situation the final couple months since I became an independent contractor and now travel for different jobs. I’m making great money which is awesome but seems I lost her in the process. I really hope we can start over again eventually though. She really was special to me and I’m gonna keep doing whatever is necessary to be prepared for when we do.

[@Sarai0901]

This gives me hope, i have a long distance too, he broke up with me 4 days ago, and i am doing the no contact, but i dont know if it works on long distance, but your comment gives me hope, thanks!

[@fbi8436]

Moving on and not caring anymore is the biggest strength and revenge....

[@donnarakitzis2719]

FBI • 9 Years Ago wish it was that easy

[@fbi8436]

Donna Rakitzis it’s hard but after, you’re gonna become someone much stronger

[@empyric949]

Are aliens real?

[@fbi8436]

Logypoo could be

[@maxhedge9535]

Yes that is the best revenge, we was together for 6 years and it's been 2 1/2 years since we been apart still miss her very much , my life has been better in every aspect. I never reached out to her and to this day I still do care and miss her but in a distance and not bother her, in the end you dont get over it you just learn how to live with it

[@AdeleMoravcov]

I panicked and did those mistake... it was my first serious relationship and therefor first serious break up. However I completely get what you are saying in this video. With it being a bit over a month now and me being in NC, I realised it actually was a good thing, it was a kick in my butt and I started working on myself more than ever before. I know that if we are meant to be than we will get back to each other and will be better for each other, if not, then at least I will be better for someone else and mostly for myself. Its still hard to know I wont have them in my life, but Im starting to realise that no matter how this ends, it was a good thing because I needed to lose someone I loved to realise what I was doing wrong and to realise my worth.

[@hwdareu5848]

Wow ... Seems like we are on same boat. I cried and pleaded before and on the day she broke up with me... Went straight no contact and broke it after 7 days and befriended her(most pathetic things to do). Stayed in contact with her, hangout twice and after 1 and half months I convinced her if we can workout and she told me she's not interested and that she don't love me anymore...no contact for 2 months now.

[@AdeleMoravcov]

@@hwdareu5848 I luckily went no contact out of nowhere after I tried the friend thing but then my ex posted smth on IG and I was done. But then we met up and it felt like break up no2, we ended at good terms tho even tho the conversation was tough. So Im in 3rd week of NC round 2 and we will see. But tbh Im not sure I can be with my ex anymore, they sleep w someone new already and that just makes me sick

[@hwdareu5848]

@@AdeleMoravcov yeah... that's why I'm never going to contact her again.

[@HappyGirl707]

That's good coach Lee. Boxer Ali said "Sometimes you have to take a step back to move forward."

[@joemanifesto8742]

Best video on this ever! I went from feeling sad and hopeless to feeling like I was hearing the theme to Rocky. We got this!

[@honeygirlification]

You truly feel like a best friend. You’re very comforting and I thank you for helping me through all this brokenness and pain.

[@kevintator2303]

Coach Lee, i cannot thank you enough for all of your advice you put here on KZbin for people going through these emotions. Last night, my ex contacted me after I did the no contact rule saying she misses me and wants to work on our flaws and apologized for some of her faulty behavior that she did not notice during the relationship. I had faith that things would workout thanks to the fact of me following your advice and resisting on contacting her. So far, the time spent away from eachother made me realize that I also needed space and to prioritize my health and focus on me. During no contact made me realize a lot of things I needed to work on not just for my relationship, but for myself. Thanks again coach lee!!

[@gennerobootz6490]

That’s awesome I pray I will be able what you did

[@Buckwheat-48]

This man is literally saving my life. One video at a time. 1 week since the breakup and NC. I took the news with dignity and started NC immediately even though I’m shattered to pieces. I didn’t know I could survive and then I coach Lee showed up in my feed. Been binging nonstop and reading comments to keep my sanity.

[@rxsx123]

@matthewjob9462 any update?

[@funemployed468]

No matter the outcome, it helps to watch ur content when the mind starts to drift off. ☺️

[@petervanderlind]

It doesn't even matter if the ex is coming back, at least I'm not running after the ex like a mad man

[@crystalfox604]

This pain is so painful & feels like your grieving a death......

[@RealCoachLee]

In a way, you are. For now.

[@MajDuty]

I've often said death is easier because with death there is no going back. You are forced to let go. Losing someone you became vulnerable to and loved dearly, is a pain worse than death. I've lost my dad and my best friend and I've grieved harder and longer losing the two loves in my life. I guess I should be happy I had two (not at the same time)

[@paolapizzuti]

I do feel the same.. I can't breath.. I feel numbness and lost... Someone help me please!

[@MajDuty]

@@paolapizzuti Likely only time will help. As hard as it will be you have to leave her alone

[@paolapizzuti]

@@MajDuty thanks... I will do my best.. Thanks for reach me out.. Let me feel less alone. 🙏

[@sanayachinsang909]

Coach Lee is the most handsome and sexiest man alive on the planet He's the greatest coach ever !!!!!respect coach Lee

[@Simple_Days]

He is indeed...I really like his protective aura

[@lisat5666]

I believe he is all for us and sincere.

[@MaRiAm936]

Yes he is

[@melissaboss5399]

He’s soothing. Refreshing. And easy on the eyes 😍

[@w.a.9655]

Totally agree & very professional 💥 like the sun-bleached hair too.

[@hillarykittim8186]

He is literally making the world a better place. May God sincerely bless this man.

[@wishwash6647]

Coach lee I'm going through a really rough time and your videos helps me so much thank you for everything

[@benjcalderon2583]

Update?

[@DerMelodist]

Lee, I am so grateful that my breakup happened. I’ve grown stronger and I’ve become an even fuller person through all of this. Thank you for helping me get through this. No contact will give you the strength, even though you don’t start with it.

[@Azizajewelry]

This is probably the best video on the internet right now 👆

[@dentcrow3139]

I've been struggling with a recent breakup, binging on your videos. I bought the breakup kit. Within a day I was on track with your guidance. I am currently 5 days in. It is very painful, and I think that this video has just changed my life. I think this inspirational speech has given me the strength to move on if I have to, in time. But, I definitely still want her back, because I know I took her for granted, and I know I can do better. I also know we were happy, before we had our falling out. Thank you so much for the hope and love for what's ahead that you've given me, Coach Lee.

[@MajDuty]

Is the kit worth it? Seems like binging all these videos will give us the help we need. I do want to support the guy but is the kit worth it?

[@Ye80s]

Coach lee speaks without a script, what an expert!

[@alertbox]

He is undoubtedly the leading expert but it might be he has a teleprompter app displaying the script. I only say this because I've just got such app [Andorid app, Telephrompter] to help me with recording future videos. Either way, Coach Lee is a genius who helps soooooo many of us.

[@RiFeX2703]

I noticed a lot of people write posts like "If he/she left me she doesn't deserve me" like Coach Lee said humans are not perfect. They lose their focus, make bad decisions, misinterpret their feelings and so on. Good things are not easy and for good things you need to make an effort. Everyone wants a job that pays 20k a month but nobody wants to study and go to college. Everybody wants to drive a brand new car but nobody wants to work for it. Same thing with relationships. Sometimes people need to grow and be stronger than before. Learn the skill of forgiving guys it really helps in life ;). Also a lot of the times you aren't a second choice or as people say "Their relationship failed and now the are crawling to me" it may be true but you don't know for sure. Drop that ego my friends and you will be surprised at how many things you misunderstood. Have a good one!

[@jasonforster7852]

This is such great advice coach, it gives me great strength to know that no matter what happens i can always come out on top of this looking like a winner. I got dumped by my ex since may 14th and ive been struggling the first few weeks but the more time i have slowly regaining my confidence and strength back, im know that time eventuality will catch up with everyone. So theres no need to be bitter but wish them happiness along the way and you'll always become a stronger person for it. Hope everyone on here can find peace on their hearts at somepoint because we all need to grow and become stronger for ourselves, we have to live on and take whatever comes you're way.

[@theseattlegreen1871]

Coach Lee was born to do this. Thanks man

[@spicyjedi4584]

I’ve noticed it is extra hard to operate from a position of strength knowing he started seeing someone else but the good news is it is possible. Regardless of what’s going on with him I can still strength train my mind and body and in time my position also naturally strengthens. Sometimes when my mind starts going to a weak place my inner drill Sargent orders me to knock it off...and it actually helps!

[@antonymorvan1289]

I listen to your videos daily over and over again to help encourage me that I am not in an impossible situation. The past 6 weeks have been incredibly hard in no contact and your videos are the only thing that have provided help to me. Bless you man.

[@FatFingerMusik]

Thanks dude. You posted this on the day of my break up and it spoke to me. Be Strong.

[@timphillips9954]

This is brilliant advice. it's only over when you are beaten. It's only over when it's over. Sell yourself from strength. Remember, have some self respect. Let them know how special you are and how much you can give to your ex. Love yourself or how can anybody else love you?

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Tim Phillips, you CANNOT love anyone unless you love yourself is 100% correct. I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you for all situations. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

[@josephm6242]

I'm going to operate from a place of strength! Letting situations make me stronger and seeing them as opportunities to grow!

[@lke4907]

.. nobody ever said "I sure am glad I panicked." 🤣😅 Coach the humor you throw in to your videos is the best. Love your personality.

[@joannab1692]

😂 I laughed at that too!

[@jantahosp]

At What time line....pls

[@31Alden]

Moment vs Future. Coach Lee: This is the most significant, no holds barred video you’ve done. As painful as the past 5 months have been since my ex and I called it quits, I am both old enough and wise enough to grasp the “moment vs future” concept. I also know the person I was involved with: Proud, stubborn, recalcitrant and patient in most instances. I also know the deep, sensitive and tender side [of him]. I’ve given him what he asked for (space). I don’t chase, beg, cry ... etc. No sunshine-thumping woman, I. Full-on position of power realist. Residual pain notwithstanding. Thank you, Coach Lee.

[@lindapatterson9104]

I cried while listening to this It was so powerful Thank you Linda

[@rayf5360]

This video was a powerful message in itself, very well voiced and very motivational.

[@Lulu-fh2rk]

coach lee, I can't thank you enough! your videos not only help me to overcome my anxiety, but also teach me to be more confident, strong, and patient in all aspects of relationships. I'm so grateful

[@tachynurse1339]

For everyone out there that is aching in pain from your break up, please listen to coach Lee. Every time I felt like I was weak I would listen, I would fall asleep to coach Lee. I wasn't sleeping at night, nor eating because of the pain. And it took everything I had to trust coach Lee. But let me tell you, it worked. And the serotonin release you get when you finally hear from your ex, is unimaginable. It took only 6 days for him to come around. We're still not 100%, but we are talking and he is reaching out to me! Please stay strong and trust the process!! You will be so glad you did. It's so worth the struggle. No pain, no gain! I'm rooting for you!!

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

It’s easier for couples to reconcile when the MAN leaves. It’s almost impossible the other way around.

[@waitwhat6882]

“Living well is the best revenge” ~George Herbert, a 16th century poet.

[@JorDel_1111]

4 centuries ahead ! That’s insanely Awesome 👏

[@JorDel_1111]

Wait what?! Ur comment really supports ur name 😁😅

[@uwotm8613]

You're great man. I don't even want my ex back now but I still watch your videos because I learn and reinforce things every time I watch them.

[@tavmansn1122]

I click on these videos so quickly when I see em pop up

[@monicawylie3985]

My ex-husband (not the man that currently broke up with me) does karate. His sensei told him to fight not with fear, nor with anger, but only with bravery. Be brave my friends! We can do this.

[@Esteban_Narvaez_MD]

I've been watching your videos since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me and I can tell that there is no better coach I've found than you, I tried other technics at the beginning that clearly didn't work but when I started applying the no contact rule I started to have better results, waiting for her to reach me out, no calling or texting her, and she has been doing it with intervals of 2-3 days, and when I talk to her, I don't cry or beg, I think as you say, I look more strength and mature in this way, it makes sense when you don't chase, they look back and miss you, she is not back yet but applying your advises most likely she will. Watching your videos makes me feel strong and hopeful in this nightmare. Thank you.

[@frecklesjones4643]

You always bring me back just when I feel I’m slipping… it’s a one day at a time process I truly appreciate you Coach Lee..

[@diaryofseresha]

I cant thank Coach Lee enough for making these videos, i'm feeling so down , missing my ex who left me when i asked him question bout committment. Coach lee's videos help me relax n look at life with positive prospect. Also give me hope he be back n this time with proper committment

[@oxymoron458]

When the anxiety starts to fade away it becomes an interesting experience almost blissful

[@laceycastillo6598]

The reason why I keep on watching and listening to you not because I want to get my ex back but I love the way you lecture like us who's been dumped to wake up in the reality of failed relationship to overcome the pain. Thank you Coach Lee!

[@steveslagle8564]

Coach Lee, I have a 23hr drive ahead of me after we broke up and will be listening to you the whole time. Thank you for all your helpful videos

[@jaynefernandez483]

Hi Coach, I operated from a position of strength, and all worked out for me. I will continue to watch and support . You’ve given and continue to give me tools that help me. I can’t thank you enough. You’re the Best to do this. King Coach😘

[@oneputtsteven]

The lessons in this video apply to much more than breakups. The stories of people facing incredible adversity and then overcoming the adversity and go on to many successes in life. A very powerful video.

[@Banana-lk7tf]

One of your best videos, Coach Lee. It's not easy being strong but I know that it's going to bring him back. What we had was magical and I know that neither of us will ever find anything better. I'm not going to lose hope.

[@peterwhite4429]

Banana 9 how long were you together? And how long has it been since the breakup?

[@byunsdale]

hey, any update?

[@maxhedge9535]

We was together for 6 years and it's been 2 years since the break up , my life has been better in every aspect but still miss her very much I have not reach out , in the end you dont get over it you just learn how to deal with it

[@Enkies]

ramador sss wow that last bit in your comment really hit me

[@rolfivarskar7096]

You can certainly reach out now.

[@hwdareu5848]

2 years apart...bro please open up your heart and explore the possibility.. maybe God has someone greater and better for you out there. It's being 2 months of no contact for me now. We were together for 4 years

[@maxhedge9535]

@@rolfivarskar7096 she's been with the same guy this whole time

[@maxhedge9535]

@@hwdareu5848 ive been smashing other girls they don't compare to her

[@gabordudas5404]

I love you Coach. Literally, I LOVE YOU. Thank you for all you make to help US ALL go through our darkest days. THANK YOU! I will NEVER forget it for you. Million hugs, COACH.

[@africanfufu]

They can’t miss you if you there......😄

[@HungrySnorlaxxx]

I appreciate how empathetic and compassionate you are!! More people should be like you!

[@feebsfilms]

Best and strongest video on No Contact and I’ve watched many many hours on this topic since my ex suddenly ended things with me. You’re amazing coach Lee. I hope you start taking calls again!

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Feebsfilms, Coach Lee is taking calls. myexbackcoach.com/coach-lee

[@lesliejohns987]

This is THE BEST VIDEO EVER !!!! I WATCH IT WHEN I PANIC AND HAVE EXTREME ANXIETY... But I have to say!! I HAVE TO WORK ON MYSELF... That’s the KEY! And Time and Patience!! Absolutely THE MOST SUPERB VIDEO EVER!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@stefanmolejo4578]

Kool haircut... Keep helping people with this excellent content!

[@fire12731]

I think coach Lee is helpful even if you don’t have relationship issues / break ups . His content and delivery are spot on . So glad I found him . Wish I found him a long time ago but this was my time

[@LineKing51]

Coach Lee, I’ve watched & listened to MANY of these video’s....as a former college athlete, although it can relate whether an athlete or not, THIS IS BY FAR, the best most inspirational coaching video I have ever seen! I am heartbroken & shook up with my gf breaking up with me but, it IS the best thing that happened to me. I am hopeful that as the catalyst for my transformation, my ex is the recipient of the new, best me because it’s always what she needed & wanted. Your videos are powerful & right on target. I would love to be a client & I am going to look into how I can get your personal help. My gf is the love of my life but, I will use the breakup to get her back! THANK YOU!

[@ausium8433]

Thank you to the bottom of my soul that you share your knowledge free on yt. Not filled with greed, just the desire to help others, you have the greatest respect of mine good sir.

[@NepseN95]

I was so heartbroken but u have given me hope again she has not yet talk to me but i have hopes thank u

[@zuzu7250]

Coach Lee, you have the kindest, most reasonable way of telling us ladies to “leave the man alone!”... every young lady I have ever known needs to hear you speak...

[@tlc2768]

you are soooo on point , I just wished I had found your prior to all my begging ,

[@tlc2768]

Luka Randy I’m Good with coach lee

[@MajDuty]

Yeah me too

[@davidv.3135]

I begged too. Then I found Coach Lee. But I don't think I will get my ex back and I am so sad. I'm 54 and it's tuff to find someone at my age.

[@frenchkiss8789]

David Valdez You can find love at any age ❤️ How has it been going so far with your ex?

[@davidv.3135]

@@frenchkiss8789 She's still gone. I'm doing way better now. Still think of her but I have to leave her alone. See, she's a widow and felt guilty about being with me and having feelings for me. She said she doesn't know what to do. I fell in love with her and she with me but she can't move forward. Kinda sad.

[@Spiritof48]

Be strong 💪🏻 even if you feel weak , realize that you can get strong .

[@mariyamfathima881]

Hats off Coach ! Ur psychology worked on my mind a lot..!Thanks a lot Lee.. U r d only reason why i followed No contact rule so strictly though it was damn hard for me.. today after 36 days of no contact he texted me ..i dont know his intention but i dont want him back now..though i have love for him. He doesnt feel d same as i feel for him. Im very hapy bcuz of u that he texted me back by himself wich i never expected from him at all..i thought he wouldnt text me for lifetime as he donot want me in his life.. U. Are Awesome Coach !

[@wangjianxian5046]

Hi, how is it going? Did you go back together?

[@mariyamfathima881]

@@wangjianxian5046 yes we r together now.ALHAMDULILLAH

[@wangjianxian5046]

@@mariyamfathima881 on my gad, glad for you. How long does it take before you back together since break up.

[@Don-pk2uy]

@@mariyamfathima881 update

[@mariyamfathima881]

@@wangjianxian5046 see my new reply

[@NoContactrule-m2n]

I don’t know how many people sees the power in your words but Man you are A god gifted human beings to all the people who are watching this videos. I promise you that you saving 1000 of lives every day with all these these powerful words. Thank you so much Coach Lee

[@samanthajackson758]

So right. I feel I'm in a position of strength he dumped me. I've gone silent he did message me saying he misses me I messaged back a few messages to each other then hes gone silent again. Nice messages about what we been doing. I'm not bothered what he does now I will only wait so long. If he doesnt get in touch I'm moving on. I will give it time. I just want to focus on myself now Thank you this video has given me strength and a new found wisdom

[@_M_D_M_]

Thanks Coach. I have always been a strong man but this break up messed me up. It is because I genuinely tried to keep the relationship going. This is my 3rd breakup and this one hurts the most I am done talking, reasoning, pleading and all that. I did that due to man's honor to keep going, salvage a relation, be the pivot and blah blah.... Now it's only study, work, workout ...... Learnt so much about females and relations.... hope to have something enriching in future. I will be strong.

[@mathewkeipert6021]

That was so powerfull. I love Coach Lees videos. This on in particular hit home at a time I thought I would cave in and try and contact my ex who I'm missing terribly. I want my girl but I also want her to know I'm strong and resilient. Not always on the inside but on the outside.

[@robcobi]

Your positivity is really helping me, regardless to whether my breakup sticks or not. Thank you for these videos :-)

[@prix4638]

THANK YOU COACH, I WILL NEVER GET MY EX BACK BUT YOUR VIDEOS HELP ME HEAL MY WOUNDS MADE BY MY OWN MISTAKES

[@numbersletters1442]

I have literally done every mistake! I'm 1 month into a forced no contact after I went around the block. It was the worst New Years I have ever had. I've now watched every one of these videos and while I feel better, I don't see it working out for me.

[@rubayaya9947]

This video is everything ♥️ It gives me so much strength and I listen to it every morning! Thank you Coach Lee! You're my coach for life!

[@kylemaslyn]

As much as I hate it, I’m glad he gets all of these ads.

[@wontgetfooledagain8178]

This particular video may be his best-and that’s saying A LOT, because it’s a multi-faceted topic. I feel A LOT BETTER THANKS 🙏!!! 💪💪🚀😎

[@lesliejohns987]

Wow wow!!!!!!!! This IS THE ICING ON THE CAKE!!! YOU SAID EVERYTHING IS THIS VIDEO WITH THE UTMOST PERFORMANCE OF YOUR INTELLIGENCE!!! YOU COACH LEE ARE THE PRIZE ... THIS VIDEO GIVES ME SOOOO MUCH HOPE!!! The analogy of using sports says it all .. JUST WHEN YOU THINK ITS A LOSS CAUSE ... That’s our mind playing tricks on us!... IT TRULY ISN’T!!! THERE IS HOPE FOR ANYONE!!! God Bless you All!!!❤️🙏🏻

[@Gd33zy84]

This and all of your videos are gold.... my daily mental pills

[@carmenstefano7875]

Such amazing, smart advice. I would suggest to anyone listening to his videos to re-listen several times to let it sink in. It is taking me a long time to find my strength, but it is so worth it.

[@jameslittler8080]

coach lee. thank you for everything. you are a hero amongst heroes. thank you for everything.

[@daisymazie21]

I won't give up. I needed to see this today.

[@antithesispistopheles937]

Coach lee is the man! What would the world be like if we all had fathers like coach lee?

[@cherfania]

Omg I would be so lost without you !! Every time I feel week to text him back . I rush and look you up . Ty for doing this for the week

[@enderhtd9422]

I'm pretty sure that this is the best video that you have made, it helps a lot

[@ckniputo2491]

It’s been three months now and m getting a lot better and stronger

[@veronicak6023]

Listening to you is so amazingly soothing. The way coach Lee connects one thing to the next makes so much sense. Thank you for the videos. I listen to them as meditation

[@bernesemuir8022]

I agree i think hes a god sent ❤

[@kennethjohnson9446]

You are 😍 lovely

[@gebronthomasson6960]

It does blow my mind to hear people say that about the ex they are wanting back.,that “they are a terrible person, evil, narcissistic,etc. but I want them back.. I know my DA ex and myself an Anxious were both at fault for not knowing the others issues until after the fact.

[@siasia483]

Oh my God, I needed this so much. I haven't been that relieved and relaxed in a long time. Thank you for your work! You give me hope and that's more than I could ask for now. Amazing content!

[@Paranfc]

Spent 6 weeks watching all of your vids.. this is the best

[@TheEmivader]

I've been binge-watching your content and this is by far your most powerful video

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Emivader, highly recommended Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you. It's excellent! myexbackcoach.com/ebk

[@mizeloise5610]

I am the dumper and I am watching your videos to internalize and rationalize my decision. I use them so I can see objectively and so I can learn. I write down on my notebook. So many golden teachings here

[@jugojugo6591]

Watching these videos everyday as a therapy and to learn. Appreciate everything man thanks for these videos

[@DennisNowland]

Never mind getting your ex back you've just got to carry on and not let what that person did to you get you down. Silent perseverance and to hell with them. Bloody hurts at the beginning when you feel that you can get no joy from anything but by being with them. But just take your time and things do get better. Think to yourself their loss.

[@johnmccarty8941]

I want my Lady and I to be together again. We fit together like a man and woman should. But the chaos of cultures, distance and age, ripped us apart. I will be a brave, strong person, I don't want to live any other way.

[@feebsfilms]

Thanks!

[@feebsfilms]

Your content is pure gold and has gotten me through the last 2 weeks of the emotional rollercoaster successfully keeping me no contact since he broke it off. I’m going to get your breakup kit even if I decide I don’t want my ex back.