Why You Shouldn't Promise To Love Your Spouse FOREVER

#marriage #love #meaningful
We’re back with the popular duo David Yarus, founder of JSwipe, and Rabbi Manis Friedman, KZbin’s most popular Rabbi, and this time, they’re talking about why relationships derail.
Did our grandparents understand something about marriage that we don't? How did we get from marrying people to things? Why has dating become an experiment?
Find all the wisdom in this entertaining and enlightening episode!
This episode is part of Conversations on Jewish Ideas - a cutting-edge series that brings Judaism to daily life.
0:00 intro
0:44 Are Orthadox Jewish dating practices outdated?
3:25 Have Orthadox Jewish dating practices evolved enough?
5:03 Are the Rabbis turning a 'blind eye'?
7:10 Why should you get married?
14:34 What is holiness?
17:08 How to introduce holiness in relationships?
20:35 Should you date if you are not ready for marriage?
21:43 When should you get married?
25:28 Should maturity determine readiness for marriage?
33:30 Marrying 'someone' VS 'something'
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[@edheffernan635]

My girlfriend and I live together for a year and the morning after we got married, we both looked at each other as we left the hotel and we said we feel different! 22 years later I still remember that feeling, a happy, secure, completeness, Holy! maybe

[@ethan7305]

Hashem bless you with powerful wisdom that you share with us Rabbi

[@moonbasket]

Very interesting dialogue. I love the concept of being in awe of marriage. My partner and I have been engaged for a few years but unable to get married because of family living out of the country and COVID and other health issues. But we are both so excited to be married. This video has inspired me to work harder to get our wedding planned.

[@MottyRuttner]

My most favorite video. If only we were born in the olden days we would marry eachother not the things about eachother but the chassidim have the lowest divorce rate because they marry young and they marry eachother.

[@sergiomolinesaez]

What takes a long time is not deciding to get married but finding the right person. We all want to get married but we don’t know who, when you find her then you’re married even if you don’t want. Getting married is not a decision, it is a fact that two people belong to each other, so they were already married before they met.

[@meatballjerrow]

What a timely message

[@villagegirl79]

Thankyou 📡

[@WordandVoid]

Problems here: Ya'acov was in love with Rachel even past her death.

[@rosairisjimenez9672]

Excellent

[@insaanietihad-MSB]

Interesting awaiting to hear the Rabbi

[@rubyslippers-cn1wj]

Stronger together

[@eldalazaj7240]

But life is not always so simple. It happens that you begin dating with the idea of marriage and you are destroyed as a person from a bad relationship. It may take 10 years to gt back in track and all are married. What advice give you at the old singles over 40 or 50? Do the same principles work for marriage? Is it marriage the same for them?

[@alg11297]

3rd date is the charm

[@rochekeenmanalaysay5454]

keepstrong 👉❤👈

[@milkamilosevic9626]

Yes,indeed rabbi,indeed!🙂

[@NatoshaMarzucco]

💎🌹Love Rabbi:) Shalom:)💙🕊