5 Tips to Look Instantly More Put Together | From an Etiquette Coach | Myka Meier

[@selyemperzsa1]

1) Hair, Skin, Outfit- choose any two to look organized 2) 3 in 3 minutes: have 3 things with you that you can put on in 3 minutes to look polished 3) Have good Posture 4) Poise- the way that you act, feel (energy) (Organized, Graceful, Planned, Slow Down!) 5) Physical Polish

[@dickietalmage7918]

Yesterday I went to the nail salon and the lady that does my nails complimented on what I had on! All I did was tuck my white blouse in my dark blue jeans and put on a belt and wore my new sandels! I haven't tucked my blouse in in a long time and wore a belt! Thank you so much 💓and rolled my hair!😊

[@KharisAriadne]

I hope you continue to post more videos like these! I can’t afford to go to New York or take the classes, but I’ve bought your book and am doing my best with self-studies! Stay safe and thank you so much!

[@mykameieretiquette]

oh thank you!!! this is exactly why I wanted to start this channel... I know it's not easy for everyone to come visit me... so I'm so happy to hear. Thank you for your support in buying my book. Big hugs!!! xx, MM

[@lunadarkbloom1531]

Same here! ♥️🌹

[@AA-ul9qh]

1: Audrey Hepburn, 2: Outfit & hair, 3: Pearl Earrings, Neck scarf, Blazer. 4. Poise: a lady is always planned & calm, never in a rush, 5: Lip gloss or eye shadow.

[@dominiquejones6758]

Blazers instantly make any outfit look put together!!

[@mykameieretiquette]

so true!!

[@ireniex3]

Notes; Pick 2 of 3 (hair, make-up, outfit) Keep 3 things nearby to look put together (i.e. blazer, lip gloss) Develop a signature look; it boosts confidence Maintain posture at all times Don't look at your phone when entering a room Have poise (organized + graceful + planned) Add polish (i.e. lip gloss, shined shoes, jewelry)

[@selyemperzsa1]

Dear Myka, Thank you for the Poised tip and special thanks for "Polished".

[@nancycunningham5065]

love the part about poise! I tend to run late, I’ll take a deep breath before entering the event moving forward 💗

[@mykameieretiquette]

I totally get it!! It's an easy one to fix thankfully. Just pause, readjust, and deep breath before you walk in and it makes a huge difference!

[@eanderson1704]

❤ the power of micro adjustments!

[@cola109]

Could you do a video on appearance and specifically the best undergarments to wear with certain clothing eg. underwear/garments to wear under silk

[@furrytales5797]

Thank you so much! I really needed this! It's so easy to implement! What I'd like to know is: - the etiquette about meeting people and getting introduced. -how to present yourself elegantly -how to radiate the energy you have (love that!) -how not to feel starstruck around famous people. And I would love to see a day in the life! Love this channel already!!

[@mykameieretiquette]

Great suggestions! I meet so many famous people at The Plaza Hotel, I have some good ones for these questions above!! thank you for the ideas!!

[@millieomamo8214]

@@mykameieretiquette thanks

[@walk2miles]

LOVE the art of etiquette. Thanks for such great tips!

[@mykameieretiquette]

You are so welcome! xoxox

[@fitnessworksnc]

Oh my gosh! I immediately thought of Grace Kelly before you mentioned she was your idol. I fell in love with her style in Rear Window!

[@carolyndennis6669]

Love your energy while sharing...You are an example.

[@JRagaz]

I admire the way you speak and pronoune. It's educational, a joy and just nourishing. But also your posture and poise. Even if you try to play "zero poise" (sequenze 08.47) it still remains well above the average! Chapeau! Kind regards from Switzland!

[@debbyburchfield7028]

You always look so polished (and young enough to be my daughter).

[@mykameieretiquette]

You are the best!! Always so supportive. I love when I see your name pop up. THANK YOU!!

[@mecoymd1708]

“Add a little bit of polish. And instantly looked polished” That’s a charm. Thank you. Will your book be available in my country, Philippines? Would love to have one. Thanks. I’d like to see a vlog on bag etiquette. One of my biggest pet peeves is seeing someone intentionally placing her handbag on the table while being photographed for people to see the brand of her bag 😩

[@oliviaknight1123]

A fantastic video, great energy and brilliant advice. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge, I really appreciate your efforts 😘💋❤

[@tspark123]

What a GREAT video! Hepburn. Brows, Chanel no5 and my fine jewelry would be my 3/3. Please post more of these lifestyle vids =)

[@mykameieretiquette]

Yes! I love both the Hepburns. And such a great 3/3 🥰 I’m so glad you’re interested in more lifestyle videos! More to come this year! 💕

[@katesage3221]

Perfume is a touch of sophistication ❤

[@1NM2TFA3]

Love that 3 in 3 idea. Perfect to keep in mind for the office!

[@JRagaz]

Love your tips and most: The way you talk 😍! Just perfect 👌! It'hits 🎯 !

[@mariahsafra]

Love the fact you are here in youtube finally!

[@mykameieretiquette]

I'm late to the party lol, I know!!! haha :) Now that i'm here it will be so fun!!

[@mariahsafra]

@@mykameieretiquette Yes! I just bought finally your books, and I can't wait to watch all your KZbin videooos!! So exciting.

[@ninab5696]

Hi Myka Love all your videos . Great self improvement. Would love to see more please .

[@kathleenkalt3852]

It's important to me to always have good nails, so I get a gel polish manicure every two weeks. That way, one thing is always done. And because I live in Florida, I also get a monthly pedicure. What I ALWAYS add is sunglasses. I have what I call three degrees of sunglasses, fairly simple Pradas with my prescription for everyday, Gucci aviators when I want to look "cool" and when I really need a boost, outrageous Dolce and Gabbanas. My third item used to be earrings, but with masks getting in the way, I'm more likely to put on a watch, even though I'm retired and almost never need to look at it!

[@karenmiller5745]

You are such a delight! Thank you for your videos!

[@alexiacito]

Love this video and your content and guidance. As a very expressive and enthusiastic person, I tend to be extremely animated in communication and also share openly about many areas of life. Would love to hear your guidance on speaking with our true nature expressed in a posied and appropriate manner. Like dos and donts 🥰❤️

[@gypsybelle4757]

Thank you for these tips. I’ll be refining my 3 in 3!

[@sunflower260285]

Thank you Myka you are so beautiful and down to earth. Thank you for all your help. Love from South Africa

[@cola109]

I'm so glad you started a YT channel!

[@lt9051]

Myka, where have you been all of my life! I bought your book yesterday in Barnes & Noble and I am soooooooo glad that I did. I am really enjoying it! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and tips.

[@mykameieretiquette]

Awww thank you so much!! Thank you for watching and I’m glad you’re finding my book helpful ❤️🥰

[@mwhite4976]

Very helpful video! I love your approachable style.

[@PaolaSanchez-hc5my]

Oh my gosh, I love you. Thank you for sharing these tips with us! 💗

[@sharenellis7190]

Oh my, thank you so much for these hints. It's funny to reflect I have followed the principles without knowing what they have portrayed for years. My A-ha moment is 3 items with you. As I routinely carry more than that I'll be trimming what I cart around, thank you for that. I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos @Myka Meier

[@kandidetro2882]

Love this.

[@dianagarza7412]

The things that I always have with me and I know it makes me feel polish are a nice watch, a beautiful head band and making sure my feet are nice and polish.☺️

[@cristaholstege7473]

Such great tips! Love the organization tip, because if I take the time and organize myself for the next day...the day always runs better. Poise is definitely a knowing that "I have my ducks in a row" :)

[@mariannaperryman3928]

Lovely advice! Thank you! The two ladies I thought of were Audrey Hepburn and Princess Kate. :) I’m excited about your new channel!

[@mykameieretiquette]

Yessss! Those are both amazing choices. xx, MM

[@Iworkwithnitwits]

Kate is a duchess.

[@jazzr_0]

Aha moment! Poise.. i am the one always running around frantic! Great video.

[@ellehobbs6331]

This channel coming now is an answered prayer! Content I would like - which items are worth spending more money on for maximum polish and which items can be more affordable. Also - how to look polished and put together as a busy mother when heels and a blazer are not an option.

[@mykameieretiquette]

I've got you!! Will be doing more like this soon xx

[@LeahCheréMason]

I just found your channel and holy cow, I’m in love!! This is exactly what I’ve always wanted to learn!!! 😍💗

[@daynagray3141]

That was a really good video. I will work on my poise.

[@mykameieretiquette]

Thank you I’m so glad you liked it! ❤️

[@saramiller775]

I love the advice! I would love to learn more about a good basic wardrobe.

[@mykameieretiquette]

Wonderful yes!! I will add this to my list of videos to make! Thank you for watching, I’m so glad you’re finding it helpful! 💕

[@Simpleelegance]

Please let me know where you bought your beautiful earrings your wearing. Love the interlocking look

[@caraolivia5017]

Can we please have more videos on elocution lessons and speaking elegantly. Thank you xo

[@debbiemize2269]

I have always said if I have on earrings, mascara, and a bra I am ready for my day!😂

[@lunadarkbloom1531]

My “Three in Three” are a multi stick (I’m partial to NudesStix Nudies Matte Cream Bronzer in ‘Beach Babe.’), eyebrow pencil (BrowGal), and mascara (Stila Huge Extreme Lash). At times, I’ll switch out my brow pencil for a travel spray perfume. I love Kilian Paris’ Angels Share.♥️

[@juliaarchibald5859]

So great! Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge! I love that these are steps that are less like rules and more like celebrating confidence in a calm and graceful way. I would love to hear if there are tips to putting together outfits. I have been moving away from fast fashion and more into classic, beautiful pieces but feel like I am missing accessories and items to really finish off the wardrobe/looks. Would love to hear what you have to say!

[@mykameieretiquette]

YES to confidence. That’s what really makes an outfit shine 🌟 and love this for a future video idea! Thank you for watching!

[@ednab2119]

A capsule wardrobe will be great for a start.

[@trakalosabby]

Thank you for the tips💕🌸

[@marinasaini]

Great content, thank you for the tips, they are extremely useful, I will be practicing them everyday from now on. :)

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

Wish you would come to Philly to give classes! My neighborhood is slob central. People seem to take pride in how slovenly they look. Very depressing! A store keeper told me, “You look like a model!” Hardly. I just happen to own a mirror.

[@chiarac980]

Lovely ,your channel is so interesting.

[@sweetlifestyle6910]

It's usefull advice😍tnx for that

[@kara6320]

I just discovered your channel and I love the intro tune it puts me in a good mood. These videos are so helpful as well!! People who look put together seem so attractive it kind of conveys that they have their life together even though it may not be true

[@maggie5493]

Sooo helpful tips! Thank you so much!

[@mykameieretiquette]

💕 Thank you for watching!! I’m so glad you’re finding them helpful 😘

[@ChristinaEarlymorn]

Very great video Myka! - I really enjoyed your slightly popped blouse collar ❤ my trademark are blouses (especially satin blouses) I like to combine them with ties, scarf and large necklaces. That's my thing. Even on a day off I wear a blouse lol. I am just not into that slobby jogging pant style. Also which I find super important to add is HAVE CONFIDENCE A 100% AND DONT LISTEN TO NAYSAYERS! I am a heavy metal musician. And I have been turned down alot, just I dont dress like the average heavy metal fan dresses (boots, ripped jeans, t shirt and leather jacket) I had to leave a band for such issues and I wasnt supported by promoters and labels because I didn't fit THEIR narrative. BE AWARE THAT YOU GET TO PAY A PRICE FOR YOUR AUTHENTICITY! Rock on you beautiful souls 🤘🏻

[@debbiesivertson817]

Excellent ❤❤❤!!!

[@SheriAnne0711]

Your red lipstick looks so natural on you. When I try to wear red lipstick I look like a clown. Lol. Can you please share the brand and name of the lipstick you are wearing in this video? Ty! New subscriber!😊💄💄

[@icysweetness]

I like these lessons.

[@DidiStyle]

What lipstick are you wearing? That color is so pretty!

[@tishgoldberg3469]

Great video. Please keep on making these brilliant videos

[@mykameieretiquette]

Thank you!!!! promise :)) xx

[@irareyes6173]

So happy that you finally made a youtube channel!!! So excited for you!

[@mykameieretiquette]

Thank you so much!! I have been meaning to do it for ages!!

[@vienicestyles]

For me it was Dorothy Dandridge. ❤😊

[@susanbullock7258]

Thank you!

[@idk1234897]

Such a helpful video! Would love to see more like this :)

[@mykameieretiquette]

I’m so glad you’re enjoying it! I have more coming your way and I’m so excited to shared them!

[@meghanconaty3840]

Excellent video, Myka! Your tips are spot-on! :)

[@mykameieretiquette]

awwww thank you!!!!

[@tmitch7646]

Great video, Myka! Love the 3 in 3 rule.

[@mykameieretiquette]

thank you!! it's so easy once you know it to follow!

[@yasminearb3765]

OMG I'm so happy that you made a youtube channel thank you

[@mykameieretiquette]

awww thank you!!!! much more on the way! xx, MM

[@mariahgrumet5686]

Amazing tips as always! Can't wait to use these. Thank you Myka! :)

[@mykameieretiquette]

You are so welcome beauty!!!! Thank you for tuning in!

[@JRagaz]

My role model ... Myka Meier ... 😍 ... of course ... 😉

[@chantalsauvignon]

Hi Myka, can you do a video or offer suggestions on how to properly get out of an SUV? I've seen your tips on exiting a car, but would like to know how to do it properly when exiting an SUV.

[@Anthro777]

Would love to hear a similar one for men :)

[@angelinalozada189]

Thank You.

[@lauramason4775]

I just discovered your book, website, and this channel. I love it. I think it is something very much needed. My question is in regards to your hair. What do you use to pull it back? A plain elastic, something with a decoration? Thank you!

[@mykameieretiquette]

Thank you for watching and reading 😘😘 I love this for a future video idea 😍

[@bontlekekana6283]

Subscribed from South Africa. Great work

[@kristinaandoni1889]

Love your lipstick! Do you mind me asking which one is it??😊

[@tesscrawford8708]

Thank you! I have really enjoyed this video and I'm looking forward to more....I need all the help I can get. Lol :) (Best explanation of Poise too!)

[@agl4654]

How beautiful a person can be?! -Thank you! 😊

[@mykameieretiquette]

You are a gem!!!!!

[@lauramason4775]

Grace Kelly also my inspiration!

[@mykameieretiquette]

She’s incredible ❤️

[@susanbuckley4153]

Excellent video 💐

[@kiwizimbo5145]

I absolutely loooooove you!

[@mykameieretiquette]

Gggaaahhhhhh!!! Thank youuuu xooxoxox, MM

[@Pavneet-wc7ro]

You are my inspiration🤗🤗

[@mykameieretiquette]

xoxoxoxoox

[@katiebell-moore6850]

These are great suggestions! Can you share what your lipstick color is? I've always used Red Carpet by Charlotte Tilbury, but it's kind of dry.

[@mykameieretiquette]

I have SO many reds but in this video I'm wearingnumber 714 Matte by Urban Decay. My other favorite is Ruby Woo by Mac! xo

[@karenmiller5745]

My role model is Kate Middleton!

[@sofiaarif6413]

Samee!!

[@rosebasl]

Yes!!! She is a great role model!

[@chlariepeace3093]

I met Kate and William in scarbouogh in November she lovey they both down to earth she was not over dressed just bit of lip gloss on

[@desertrose4597]

Me too!!

[@LilyB-vz8lq]

I’m sorry but I need to say this. Kate is not what and who she appears to be. There is deep deception going on with that family. I’m afraid the day will come when this is widely known and there will be profound regrets felt by anyone who sees Kate as a role model. Idol worship... the Bible warns us about this.

[@alexcole3604]

So excited for your videos! Would you mind sharing your purse 3-in-3? as an auditor I don’t have a fixed office so I need items I can throw in my bag every day!

[@mykameieretiquette]

Yes!! Lipstick, a cream blush with highlighter (I love NARS) and either mascara OR sunglasses if I'm outside :)

[@TyvekGirl]

Hi Myka! Thank you for sharing this tips. Are super useful. I'd like to see in your videos how to respond to a hate comments in a cordial way. Thanks again!

[@smseahorses6100]

Do what all Southern girls were taught since birth and hair bows ~ say “ Bless your heart.”

[@beverlytaylor4264]

Love this!!! Thank you!! ❤️

[@mykameieretiquette]

You are so welcome! Thank YOU for tuning in :) xx, MM

[@truthful2293]

Can you please do more polished videos. Also, how can we politely react to those mean people and still be classy? Thank you. Loved your book

[@princesslynaborealis]

Nice video.

[@mohamedmorshed6233]

amazing video . i`m so glad that you did youtube channel finaly, i`ve been following you on instagram it`s amazing. you creat an awsome content keep creating

[@mykameieretiquette]

You are so so sweet- thank you!!!! Any topics you specifically want to learn, please let me know!

[@sibgb6602]

Myka I am surprised you did not mention to put on fragance ....for me it is essential.

[@mykameieretiquette]

ohhh love it!

[@claudiabrezzi340]

Thank you so so so much for this! :)

[@debratimmons2119]

Definitely Grace Kelly. I agree. But currently, Gal Gadot comes to mind. Beautiful, lovely personality, graceful, well dressed, intelligent ... the whole package.

[@mariahsafra]

How do we should eat special food? With the hands when is needed and do not make a mess? Ballet/opera etiquette; dress code for cultural events; getting seated (depends on the event); how to stay classy when you are ill, haha.

[@mykameieretiquette]

good ones!!!!!!

[@sakurairie3476]

video on how to sit and stand and walk in heels. which heels are best for office ?

[@pinayinuk]

Very nice

[@Brandi-0731]

Will you do a video n remaining classy in emotional situations?

[@maryclebeau]

Love your channel🙏🥰🌻

[@mykameieretiquette]

🥰💕 Thank you very much for watching!

[@rosiew8-fenn]

Please may I ask the make and shade of your lipstick? Thank you x

[@abigailalvarado5616]

Can one of the 3 in 3 be a signature perfume?

[@sherryedwards695]

Very powerful lesson. I wish I heard all of this 10 years ago. Great tips and great video.

[@mykameieretiquette]

It’s never to late to start! I’m so glad you enjoyed it 🥰