TURP Post-Surgical Update

[@ShesInLosAngeles]

Dear Dennis, I couldn’t click fast enough when I got the notification that you had posted a video. I was riveted just listening to you describe your procedures. My husband had prostate surgery in early 2020 and the poor dear also brought home his catheter. He managed quite well on his own, not wanting me to fuss over him. His catheter was removed 10 days after surgery. He continued to wear protection. I am sad to tell you, though, that he passed away two months ago from pancreatic cancer at the age of 75. The past 8 months have been horrific. He was home under hospice care when he passed. My daughter and I cared for him with the assistance of home health care aids. As you can imagine, I feel especially empathetic towards you and am so glad you have such a positive attitude. Keep us informed as to how you are doing. I need a success story. Healing vibes coming at you! Jane

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks for the encouragement Jane. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Two months ago isn't much time to work through all the stages of grief. I think you're brave to share your story. Time will eventually heal your wounds too. I hope you continue to make good progress. We both need to be patient and let nature take its course. Thanks again. -Dennis

[@AuntieVeraCharles50]

I am SO very sorry you had to go through all of that. And so pleased it is behind you now. As Bette Davis said, "Getting Old Ain't No Place For Sissies". My best to you, dear Dennis. Scott

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Scott. Yeah, getting old doesn't get any easier, but modern medicine is making life better. I'm still recovering, but the worst is over. I'm thankful for that. -Dennis

[@madamem7856]

Dennis, you've been through a lot in the past few weeks. I'm glad to see you back home and recuperating. Take it easy and take your time with your recovery!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Mea. It certainly has been a journey, one I never suspected when I first went to the urologist for what I thought was simply a UTI. Wow. Was I ever wrong. -Dennis

[@gkk2001]

Thank you for these comments and critique of the TURP. I am about to have it done, also 71 yr of age but no complications with bladder stones that I am aware of now. But your comments are obviously honest and put it all in a perspective I have not heard before.

[@nickpanhead7209]

Just curious if you had your turp procedure, I came across your comment on Dennis page

[@shawnmorris5693]

oh my Dennis! I am glad your doctor is helpful and experienced. Wishing you a full recovery.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Shawn. Yeah, I got lucky with the doctor. He is someone I randomly chose from the Yellow Pages. He's really good. Recovery will take a while, but I'm doing well. -Dennis

[@onesixfive]

its very difficult to know how to even respond to this. i will summarize my thoughts by saying you are a tough bastard (pardon my french, it seems appropriate). what you have been through (not even counting the complications!) is a very difficult ordeal. just trying to catch a bit of sleep in a hospital bed is always terrible. i thought 'dehydration' the minute you described being dizzy, i have felt similarly for the same reason before in innocuous circumstances and i dont travel without a 1L nalgene of water. the times you think 'i dont need water', you do, and youll pay the price. im delighted to see you back in action my friend and on the mend. your attitude as you tell these stories speaks of your resolve and it is inspiring! be well dennis!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Eric. I look forward to the time when I can look back on this with maybe a little humor. The pile of spiders was certainly a memorable moment. I do feel encouraged by the fact that only a week after two surgeries I was able to sit in front of a camera and talk about it. Is it "modern medicine" or "miracle medicine"? Maybe a little of both. -Dennis

[@Perspectologist]

Thank you for the update. I am glad to hear that things have gone mostly well. I really appreciate you sharing this with us. It helps me to think about my future. I like to be self reliant and I think I will want to continue to enjoy the freedom of living independently from others. There are benefits and challenges. I value and appreciate your stories. I wish you a continued recovery.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks for the positive feedback. I don't mind asking for help, like a friend to drive me to and from the hospital, but I really prefer to take care of myself as much as I can. --Dennis

[@pd4682]

You had a tough time guy. Second day out for me after turp. Totally different experience. Zero pain i never even felt the need for any type of medication. I was scared of a catheter as they are no fun but then again no pain just minor discomfort. Irrigation was not fun but easier than i expected. Took the catheter out after one night in the hospital. I was stressed over nothing no pain again whatsoever. Slight pink urine no clots. I am hoping for no complication but turp was so much easier than i expected. Self catherazation does not sound fun. At least in my case i was totally over stressed so far so good. Dont be afraid of this proceedure.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

In my case, I went to my regular doctor when I was experiencing a little pain. He examined me and said there was nothing wrong. I trusted him. After a long period of minor pain, I went to a urologist. And thus began this ordeal. I probably let the problem - an overfilled bladder - go so long, I likely destroyed the muscles controlling it. The bladder can't push out urine. So I need to use a catheter to drain it. I don't know if my bladder will ever recover, but I'm reconciled to cathing for the remainder of my life if that's what it takes. Thanks for the comment. -Dennis

[@MrJudo2go]

I certainly hope you are right 😮

[@nancymandle5215]

Sooooo good to see you doing so well, Dennis! The relief you must be feeling lights up your facial expressions and your overall demeanor. Thank you for sharing your experience. Here’s to many good times ahead filled with your delicious recipes, your product reviews and maybe some diy or kitchen chats!!!!!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Nancy. I can't believe how good I feel only a week after my surgery. I almost rode my bike to the doctor's office this morning. Next time, for sure. -Dennis

[@Crew143]

I had the turf surgery about a month ago. Had my prostate tested and came back as having cancer. If I hadn't had the surgery I would have never known about the cancer. Great video!

[@clair8776]

So happy for you Dennis. Thanks for putting out this vlog update for us. You are looking and sounding so much better than you were in the prostate issues vlog. I love a success story!!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Clair. I'm feeling really good, even though it has been only a week since my surgery. I have more recovery to work through, but I am so much better already. I'm thinking of doing a video about self-cathing, since I've become somewhat proficient at it. -Dennis

[@mrkrasker9609]

I am glad you are OK Dennis, I know how you feel about not getting any rest. I was in intensive care for 4 days after a stroke. Let me tell you that having the stroke was nothing compared to the 4 nights I spent in intensive hell. I got no sleep, either a machine was beeping or nurses where in and out of the room. People screaming in other rooms and lights on 24/7. It got so bad I started hallucinating, I told the doctor about it and he told me" oh that is a common issue in intensive care" it's called ICU syndrome.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

I've never been in an ICU. It sounds dreadful. Maybe that's why for some people they induce a coma. I do enjoy general anesthesia. I'm sorry to learn about your stroke, but I'm happy you're much better now. --Dennis

[@nj4308]

Hi Dennis. Hope your well and feeling better. We thank you for sharing with us!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks for the positive comment. I worked through a rough patch, and I might need another procedure to remove scar tissue, but I am doing well. I'll know more on Wednesday when I meet with the doctor again. -Dennis

[@Ray-ku1sj]

Thank you for posting this video about your experiences with the stones and the TURP procedure. I am scheduled for a TURP in Sept. and must admit I'm a bit stressed. Your video has set my mind at ease, a few days post op you appear to be doing remarkably well, considering all you've been through. I am glad that you are making a good recovery, and I certainly wish you all the best in the future.. You did a good job on this video, and I hope that my TURP procedure will go as well as yours did. All the best, Ray.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Ray. I feel very good now and it has been only one week since the surgery was done. I still have a way to go, of course, before I can feel fully recovered. For now, I'm self-cathing, which is much better than having that permanent catheter in me - no hoses, no bags, just freedom. Like you, I was nervous about the TURP, but I spoke with some men who had it and they highly recommended it. They are fully recovered now. Best of success to you. -Dennis

[@Ray-ku1sj]

@@MyKitchenVlog Thanks for your reply, Dennis. Appreciate it. Ray

[@pd4682]

With luck it will go even better than Dennis s experience.

[@yuvalw123]

Happy to see you are looking good, wish you a full recovery soon!!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thank you! I really appreciate it. -Dennis

[@ivonvoid]

Facing TURP surgery soon and was unsure of a few things. Still having tests but once they are done I'm looking for that relieve after years of dealing with self catharizing, pain, straining, getting up at night, UTIs and blood. Your story helps and gives me hope

[@nickpanhead7209]

Hi seen your comment on the turp procedure did you have it done yet

[@ksflyer7661]

I had TURP done 6 weeks ago, used the new aquablation procedure (insurance may only cover if you have a very large prostate). I'm doing great. First couple of weeks after surgery were no fun, but I did heal / progress as planned. Just get a real good surgeon. Plan on taking at least 2 weeks off if you have a desk job and 4-5 weeks if you have a physical job.

[@user-tn1hk6zm2freedom]

I had it done. Peed blood for 2 and a 1/2 weeks. It has been 3 weeks and now and then a little blood but pee normal now. Oh it feel great.

[@nvan78]

Had this procedure about 4 weeks ago now. Left the hospital without a catheter and have zero complications to date. My PSA was 14.5 even with Flomax and Avodart pre-surgery and also have low grade Gleason 6 prostate cancer (3+3). Be interesting to see what the next PSA test reveals. Thanks for the video.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

That's really good news. Congratulations on such a successful procedure. You are probably feeling very relieved. Thanks for letting me know your outcome. -Dennis

[@tsabo8227]

Thanks for taking your time to share your experience.... You took it all in stride. A lot better than i probably would have. God bless you

[@lingshao6158]

Hi Dennis, sorry to hear your touch experience and glad it is over. I had the same problems as yours. 2cm bladder stone and TURP procedure. But my experience was totally different from yours. My doctor did both procedures within 2 hours and then I was wake. On my third day, I only had a tiny bit bleeding when I peed. On my third week, no bleeding at all. My doctor said I recovered fast than average patient. I wanted to share my experience so other people who plan to have TURP procedure have different perspectives.

[@Guy_on_Youtube]

So glad to see you're doing better. I really admire your self-determination in handling so much of this recovery (and associated procedures) yourself. Hope you get back to 100% soon! Didn't know you tailored your own shirts, seems like a very useful skill. I've always been pretty skinny (now almost in my mid-20s), would be nice to have some clothing that actually fit well for a change :)

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks for the encouraging comment. Yeah, shirts that fit right. I like a baggy fit, but it seems all the shirts in the stores here are for slim athletes. --Dennis

[@offthewalla4717]

Glad to hear you are doing well! Looking forward to more videos in the future.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks. It feels good to be on the mend. --Dennis

[@offthewalla4717]

@@MyKitchenVlog just be glad that your catheter wasn't too big of an issue for you. Last time I had to have one placed after abdominal surgery, the doctor accidentally sewed it in place. It was a nightmare to say the least and resulted in a second surgery and another 2 days in the hospital to remove it.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Oh, that sounds awful! Yes, I'm thankful I didn't need to go through that. I'm self-cathing now, waiting for the swelling to go down. It's a lot easier than I thought it would be. -Dennis

[@jerrysamuels1113]

I wish you well in your recovery. And thank you for this video because it helps me to better understand and sort out what direction I might choose to take with my BPH. It also takes a lot of courage to make a video like this. Because as men we seldom discuss such issues. But I'm confused about self-catheterization after TURP. Because isn't the purpose of the TURP surgery to return our bodies to healthy urination? And, if so, then why are some people talking about a long period of self-catheterization after TURP? Finally, I agree with you and highly recommend United Healthcare Insurance to anyone who can get it. The benefits they provide their members are really first-class.

[@DS-xl1ro]

Glad you're doing better. You must have had several stressful weeks not knowing what to expect. I will be reminded of this video if you wear nitrile gloves in your upcoming cooking videos!

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks. I occasionally wear those gloves when I don't want the food to get under my fingernails. Yes, these past few weeks haven't been easy, but I feel like I'm on the positive side now. I look forward to getting fully back to normal. -Dennis

[@shervan1213]

i hope you will feel better now Dennis, thanks for sharing this video, i feel your sentiments i was taking care of my dad, and he also experience extreme pain from his bladder.

[@50hellkat2]

All the best at your appointment on the 28th Dennis. 😊

[@MyKitchenVlog]

The appointment was moved up a day to the 27th; so I'll know even sooner if I need a second procedure to remove scar tissue, which I expect to happen. I'm thinking of doing another Kitchen Vlog to talk about the latest. Thanks for the well wishes. -Dennis

[@user-tn1hk6zm2freedom]

I had 2 bladder stones removed years ago. 1 was the size of a golf ball and the other was half the size of a golf ball. Took them 3 hours to get it done. I had no problems with blood clots.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

That's good news. I'm glad the surgery went so well for you. Happy holidays. -Dennis

[@user-tn1hk6zm2freedom]

Happy Holidays to you also. @@MyKitchenVlog

[@edgarlitzinger2822]

I also started out needing surgery due to large bladder stones...I was passing blood, but only after a CT scan, the sharp edged stones were found and thought to be cutting inside my bladder, thus the bleeding when I voided... the stones were removed via laser and I was sent home the next day.. All was well and a TURP was in the planning stages... approximately 5 weeks had passed whenever I started passing blood again whenever I voided.. Following another CT, the thought was that some sharp remnants of the stones were still in the bladder and causing the bleeding... Well, whenever the urologist went in and started looking around, what they thought were remnants of bladder stones were actually tiny blood clots.. What was discovered were two tumors that were cancerous...They were removed and I stayed in the hospital with a cath for five days... Whenever the cath was removed however, I had absolutely no problem voiding.. The TURP is still on hold for now and I undergo a cystoscopy every 3 months to try to catch any new cancer before it can penetrate the muscle walls of the bladder.. I'm coming up on one year now without any new cancer being found... Luckily, I didnt have to undergo any chemotherapy or radiation therapy. I'm 73 and in pretty good health and fortunately, I have good insurance.. The cost of surgery is out of this world.. I hope and pray you continue positively with your journey.. Wishing you all the best!!!

[@dhflannagan1]

Thanks for your video Dennis. It was filled with some great and helpful tips. I’m not too confident in 5he Doctor I have . So I am dragging my feet a bit. Glad to hear your ordeal turned out well.

[@kchris5326]

Why not just request a different doctor? I have done it twice.

[@50hellkat2]

So sorry you had to go through all that Dennis. Prayers for a speedy recovery. Hopefully you will be voiding on hour own eventually. Drink lots of room temp water if you can.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Yeah, it has been an ordeal, but I'm thankful I came out of it as well as I did. I don't mind the self-cath thing much. It's so much better than the permanent catheter. I saw the doctor this morning. He's pleased. He wants to see me again after a month. Meanwhile, keep recovering. I feel good about that. Thanks for the comment. -Dennis

[@robertoluis9238]

BLESSINGS...GREAT ENDURANCE--------------------

[@cheeryble]

Very nicely delivered talk

[@debrazotti6237]

Hi Dennis. Just watched this video. Hope you are well. Happy belated birthday.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Debra. I'm better, but there is still a ways to go, possibly another surgery. I feel good about it though. -Dennis

[@andrews6600]

so glad to hear that you are doing great. I had mine on July 8, I don’t regret of doing it. I feel great . From time to time I have incontinence. How to stop it? Is that means prostate enlarged is behind us for ever? I saw you drinking coffee. For what I went through during my prostrate enlargement I am afraid of coming near a cup of coffee. Again nice testimony. Bless!

[@cindyh3069]

So very glad you are doing better, I wanted to send you a get well card, so I thought I could just send you a card thru Pay-Pal it might had come throw with my husband name :) Thank you for letting us know your doing ok.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thank you Cindy. Yes, I'm doing much better and for so soon after two surgeries I am feeling really good. I did receive the PayPal Get Well card. Thank you for that too. -Dennis

[@nonnah9716]

Glad you are recovering and doing well. I enjoy reading your blogs and getting updates that way. Lately I haven’t been able to connect. Is your server down?

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Nonna. I just checked. The server might have been down when you tried, but it appears to be working fine now. Thanks for asking. -Dennis

[@nonnah9716]

Thanks for checking. I had to disconnect from my VPN in order to connect. Glad you are on your way to a full recovery.

[@jcboom6894]

A urologist I know recommends beer for his beer drinkers because he says we only rent beer. Hope now you are fully recovered. Had not checked this vhannel in a long time, sorry.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

I like that. "We only rent beer." Thanks for that. -Dennis

[@fender.munoz7]

it's different for everybody I have a cousin had it done over a year ago no complication no problems

[@MyKitchenVlog]

That's true. I know someone who had a TURP and he also didn't have any complications. Thanks for the comment. -Dennis

[@samroscov5013]

Hope you are doing well. Great advise... turp and diet. BTW, chocolate is now considered a health food, so enjoy!!

[@ShesInLosAngeles]

Thinking of you. 🙂

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks Jane. I'm still working through this. I was supposed to see the doctor yesterday, but he cancelled all his appointments and surgeries because he tested positive for Covid that morning. Eventually all this will be behind me. -Dennis

[@wchao862]

Thank you. What do you think of Rezum -- another way to treat BPH?

[@Den-nu6pv]

Do you have to permanently catherterdize your self.

[@jskaggs8188]

I had my turp two months ago. I still can’t pee. Total failure. I’m self catheterizing.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Me too. I met with the doctor on Wednesday and we agreed I will probably need to self cath for the remainder of my life. --Dennis

[@shervan1213]

my dad has enlarge prostate problem.. we will be performing TURP Procedure. i am not even sure if we're doing the right thing. my dad is 70 yrs. old and he is on catheter until now.

[@MrJudo2go]

Thanks for the video but all that inserting of catheters sound absolutely HORRIBLE. I have the TURP procedure up coming and I will go through it because I don't want to deal with the problems of BPH.

[@nandadulalsaha0927]

My prostate gland weat 24 gms and PSA 1.2 ng . but urine not passing from bladder to stricture clearly so TURP operation or OIU operation which is necessary for me.

[@MyKitchenVlog]

I hope all goes well for you. Mine was easy. One night in the hospital. However, I still can't pass urine. The surgeon says scar tissue is not unusual and that requires another surgery. I see the doctor on Tuesday to discuss that. Meanwhile, I'm using disposable catheters, which are okay but a nuisance. Thankfully my insurance pays for them. -Dennis

[@davidkendig5868]

Buddy your are so fortunate

[@pmwijeratne1896]

I'm 72 years old with clean health records ; never hispitalised before for any illness. I developed nocturia about two years back .had to urinate at least 5-6 times during night. My sleep was terribly disturbed. Urimax capsules had lot of side effects on me. Hence I had TURP on 16 December 2022.. it is unfortunate that that I still have the problem of urinating at least 5 times a night. Now after 4 months of operation ,I usually urinate 12-14 times a day. In addition I always get the urge to urinate .I find TURP to be a destructive surgery that would turn your entire life upside down. I have dry orgasm that will never give you the same sexual pleasure. My frank opinion is this surgery has to be done away with. It is pathetic that medical science has never so far been able to find a better alternative for TURP .

[@MyKitchenVlog]

Thanks for the comment. Unfortunately, any surgery is a risk. We toss the dice, hoping for something better. I know two men who are doing very well after TURP surgery. I wish I could say the same. I can't empty my bladder without a catheter and sometimes it won't go all the way in. It destroys my sleep if I can't cath before going to bed. I'm still experimenting with new ideas, but the days of an easy pee when I need it are gone. -Dennis