Why Music is the Best Therapy (teaching my mom how to compose)

A one of a kind composition lesson... My mom and I laughed and cried our way through this… It was a special project in memory of my grandmother... ❤️️
00:00 Intro
00:45 Getting my mom on board
01:17 Gathering memories and influences
02:26 First attempt at the piano
03:13 Second attempt
03:37 Pentatonic vs Trot
04:48 Loose structures
05:44 Production
06:55 Learn & practice
07:36 Final piece
09:00 Q&A with Mom
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[@NahreSol]

I hope you enjoyed this video with my mom. To anyone out there that is going through the loss of a loved one, my heart goes out to you. P.S. I have struggled to find a suitable title and thumbnail for this video for many reasons. If you have seen this video floating around and are confused by this, I hope you understand.

[@francesschaefer]

LOVE this~

[@stevegalloway816]

Thank you for sharing this with us Nahre. I was very touched and moved by this. Your mom is so cool!

[@sylviagiafferri381]

It's really great you did this. I loved to do this with my father. He past away 2 month ago. He wanted to learn piano but his mum didn't want to. So he never learned. And as I wanted to learned piano as a child. He repeat the same. So I 've learned alone and with friends later. He was always sad He couldn't play. I never understand why he didn't by a piano and learned.

[@markjohnson7572]

Why am I crying? Watching three generations of women connected by the love for each other and music is so beautiful to see, that my tear ducts are filled to overflowing.

[@NahreSol]

🥲🙏🏻 thank you ….

[@frankfarklesberry]

I can't believe it! I said almost the same thing!

[@cyruslynpayne8294]

Bro FR

[@justremathings]

I'm still holding back tears lmao. This was so wholesome and it feels right. The composition has so much emption sown into it I love it 💕!

[@BruceRaup]

I had the same reaction.

[@modeswitching]

“Cute little bird sounds, delicate and adorable” Crow: CAAaAW ☺️

[@NahreSol]

😅🙏🏻

[@Stick-a-fork-in-Gmorks-tort]

'Pink love' is warm and fun. What an amazing idea. She should express herself musically as much as she desires. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you…

[@derekxiaoEvanescentBliss]

This is so sad and wholesome. Sorry to hear about your grandma.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you…! ☺️🙏🏻

[@nelsonwalkermusic]

I feel so honored to get this glimpse into such an intimate project. This is a beautiful tribute to your grandmother, thank you for sharing

[@NahreSol]

Thank you!!

[@onemanfran]

This video made me cry...my dad has dementia and sometimes music is the only thing that makes him laugh or engage. It's a wonderful thing you've done here Nahre. Maybe I should try making some music with my dad...

[@NahreSol]

Thank you… 🥲🙏🏻

[@unkatom]

My mom had dementia as well-caring for a parent suffering memory issues is sometimes VERY hard! My heart goes out to you, and please remember to seek help if you need it! No one should face such burdens alone. ❤️

[@DeeEllEff]

As someone who was raised by his already-elderly maternal grandmother who eventually died (at 101) from Alzheimer’s Disease, I think that if you possibly can do something like that with him, you probably should do that. Time, especially that spent with loved ones, is such a limited and invaluable resource in our lives, y’know?!

[@thelongislandguy]

What a beautiful idea. Watching her play brought me to tears.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you 🙏🏻🥲

[@xelacremant7396]

When your mother said "this is the first time I wrote music", I cried. It's so beautiful to me, the idea of commemorating a loss with something as meaningful as a first time. And for a mother to experience a first time is another layer of poetry. This is a beautiful gift you gave her. A precious, loveable present. You must be a very kind and caring person :) Sorry for your loss.

[@nathysilvio]

I think what you did for your mother is adorable and so meaningful.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you…!!

[@nathysilvio]

@@NahreSol By the way, I loved you Tango video, I'm from Argentina! Cheers!

[@operaticxingenue]

I LOST it when your mom came on camera and dedicated the song to her mom. I’m literally sobbing

[@zh.6795]

"Don't put in anything weird." XD What a lovely experience thanks for sharing.

[@NahreSol]

Haha I know 😅 Thank you!!

[@susanvaughan4210]

Nahre Sol, you are one of those special teachers. I am a retired opera singer and a voice teacher. But this reminded me of some classes I took with a very special art teacher. I was in my late 40s, and hadn't touched a crayon or paintbrush since I was belittled by an art teacher when I was 12. We all have within us, an artist, a singer, a dancer, and a composer. Thank you for helping us all to remember that expression, is our humanity.

[@joec2446]

Nahre, this video is so special. I recently lost a parent and due to covid quarantine rules we had had to say goodbye over video, it was strange but intimate at the same time, because we can see and hear everyone very personal farewell very clearly. Composing a melody as a farewell reminds me of that, the process must have been very healing. Thank you so much for sharing. Its a sweet song.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you so much!!! And my condolences to you and your family…

[@christophergetchell6490]

What a beautiful, heartwarming story!!! So sorry for yours and your family's loss, what a wonderful way to celebrate a remembrance.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@jimdruckenmiller4612]

In one simple creative effort, through her song, Nahre's mom managed to tie 3 generations of her family together. Thank You, Nahre for sharing your family's love and remembrance of your Grandma. Your thoughtfulness in helping your mom during this sad and hard time is truly amazing. p.s. I thought the accompaniment behind mom's great melody was pretty good too, whoever wrote that might just have a chance at being a real musician. :-)

[@prmft94123]

Oh Nahre! This was so touching and beautiful. My sincerest condolences to you and your mother for your loss. Your mother's composition has helped us all!

[@NahreSol]

Thank you so much…!!! 🥲🙏🏻

[@sofiacaldas6280]

Actually bedtime from your dog is a compliment. ..so cozy. Your music that is not sleeping is rest in heaven for a while... Very beautiful this music

[@fimp-asn]

I'm a Chinese here and just started watching several of your previous videos about piano practicing. However, this is by far the best video by a pianist I've seen on KZbin. The moment your mom starts playing her first composition brought me to tears. Best wishes to you and your loved ones and may music bring happiness and fond memories to every human.

[@jcai922]

apparently this Korean (or all) doesn't like your comment..

[@andershvasthomsen2626]

I am studying Music Therapy at Aalborg University in Denmark, and this process is known to our practice as music therapeutic songwriting, and you did an amazing job guiding your mother through the process!

[@kurusujann6660]

This video has so much depth with its way of telling the story not only from the creative side but also more importantly, the emotional side of writing music. I learned a lot. My deepest condolences and thank you Nahre for using this experience as a means of conveying your message.

[@DianeLee999]

This was a beautiful gift for everyone involved. 💜

[@NahreSol]

Thank you!!!

[@Thomas_B_Killen]

Man, this hit Way harder than I thought. I just lost my mum a little over a month ago, I cant even begin to Approach a composition for her. Your mother is a strong woman. Edit: Pink Love had me crying through the whole piece. Absolutely beautiful. ❤

[@CheddarKungPao]

My grandmother's funeral was yesterday and I just happened to find this today. This made me feel better. Thank you Nahre and Nahre's mom.

[@8unnylover]

It seems we both lost our grandmothers around the same time, how strange. I'm glad I found my way here, and I'm sorry for your loss

[@russellszabadosaka5-pindin849]

Thank you, Nahre. I lost my dad on May 26, six months ago and I’m still grieving. As an “only child”, it’s been hard to process the loss of my parents & grandparents and although I’m happily married, I feel alone in the world. I’m a sync licensing producer and the music I’ve completed since returning to work has all been based on ideas from before my dad’s illness and passing. I think it’s time to write something new. Thx for the inspiration. ❤️

[@SamBrady3]

My grandma just passed away last week. Her husband (my grandpa) was a Broadway composer, and I studied music in school. Thank you so much for this video Nahre, it was such an unexpected and beautiful experience to get to watch. Much love ❤️

[@UUUUmmU]

So warm and inspiring. Thank you for sharing this!

[@NahreSol]

Thank you!

[@flonzaley6092]

Not only a moving family document, but an excellent example of 'outreach' - introducing a non-musician to improvisation and composition in a non-intimidating fashion. Music is our best friend in life!

[@somniavitasunt]

Your mum must be so grateful to have a loving daughter like you, so tactfully clever and a musical mastermind besides. Well done NS and thank you for sharing this.

[@neonchamber]

Can’t argue with her technique… she nailed that. Definitely could feel the trot influence… another beautiful video thank you Nahre

[@steveopenshaw1219]

I can’t think of a better way to remember a loved one. Music really is a universal language of humanity that speaks directly from soul to soul. I’m so sorry for your loss, but I love your creation. ❤️

[@nostaticatall]

Nahre, you are an absolute gem. I'm a somewhat jaded 56 year old guy and I needed to pause the video a few times to wipe the tears from my eyes... And I mean that in the nicest possible way. Thank you.

[@bh5606]

Nahre is a sweet, likable person as this video demonstrates.

[@MikeEchague]

There are no words to describe how amazing this project is. You are such a beautiful person, and a brilliant artist. Virtual hugs to you and your mom.

[@delikateproject]

that's the sweetest thing, all of it is pure love

[@koshersalaami]

My condolences. She did great. It was smart of you to reduce the number of choices so she could select a path more easily.

[@pygmalion5361]

5:19 bird starts cawing, both look in its direction this was absolutely adorable

[@paulbee2447]

The color pink in a person's aura indicates unconditional love. I enjoyed the music.

[@zacadou]

Nahre you deserve a million subs.

[@arjunsubrahmanian7535]

I was weeping Nahre, especially when your mom called your grandma "mom" and introduces the piece she was about to play. Love the warm relationship you both share and the memories you have have. Wonderful video, may your grandma rest in peace :')

[@salliemorrill2671]

Nahre please accept my belated condolences. My heart goes out to you and your mother. That was a beautiful idea that really turned out good. Please give your mom a hug. God bless.

[@derrickmickle5491]

My condolences to you and your mother for your loss. Your mother captures so much of your grandmother's vibrancy and joy in her perky composition. Knowing the background behind its composition moved me to tears hearing it. It is music as a pure expression of love and memory. Powerful stuff. Thank you for so generously sharing this deeply personal and intimate experience with us.

[@jeffreykparker]

Sorry for the loss of your grandmother. You video works are enthralling and lead me to deep insight, always wrapping your explorations in humility ("the first effort was a flop"), dedication, generosity and love. So fun hearing the two of you communicate in Hangugeo. Thank you for this and every work that you publish.

[@PopBallads]

Thank you, Nahre Sol, my Mum passed away 3 weeks ago, so I know what you're going through! Wonderful video and wonderful music, I wish your Mum a Grammy! 👍😉 Love from Hannes, Germany ❤

[@gabrielruiz3221]

Nahre, all your videos have vivid impacts on me, but once in a while you make truly extraordinary ones. This isn't one of them, this is beyond.

[@antoniaezac4653]

This is one of the best and most emotionally fulfilling pieces I have watched in months. Thank you for showing what music can do to help process grief and create beautiful human bonds! And more generally thank you for your humane, thoughtful and talented art as a pianist and composer. You take it from your mom, and she takes it from you-bravo!!

[@MichaelAChang]

This is how you live life without regrets.

[@ruscular]

I been thinking of my mom lately, and we had this thing where on Sunday we get together and can only chat with each other in puns about our week. So I been jotting down lyrics in puns. Then I see this and feel more motivated to keep going on this. I love your mom, she is special, and funny.

[@kenrichard5]

Nahre, I have been watching KZbin videos of all kinds for years. None made me smile and tear up like this one. So relatable. Best I've experienced. What a gift your grandmother, mom, and you have given the world. Thank you so much. It's clear there was a lot or work put in this one. It is simply wonderful. Please tell mom thank you for sharing her journey with us.

[@shadows89]

Wow Nahre, thank you for sharing this beautiful video. Aside from your incredible talent - you’re such a patient teacher!!

[@roberto8650]

Nahre, you're one of my favorite people. My father died recently. I wish I could compose him a little waltz. He loved those.

[@sinchlair]

I cried a lot when she started to play. Thank you so much for upload this content Nahre, you’re just amazing

[@awogbob]

I feel like I know so much about your grandmother just from that piece. Pink Love, what a way to remember someone

[@unkatom]

Aww MAN, what a nice way to ease your mom’s burdens! Songs are always a nice way to “cope” when our feelings overwhelm us… you are a good-hearted daughter to turn deep grief into positive creativity via music! I can see your grandma oversaw a large successful family. That’s no small feat in Korea. For an old man like me… watching you two work on this… it reminded me to use my own creative leanings to help others. Thank you! ❤️

[@davidmonzo7071]

I’m not crying, you are ! 😊

[@NahreSol]

🥲🙏🏻

[@josephdelacruz6830]

It's so awesome to see you and your mom bond by making music. I have the Mother's Day video you made with her on a favorite playlist of mine on regular rotation. I guess I'll be adding this one, too! Both videos are such sweet gestures for your mom. They're so very moving.

[@NahreSol]

Thank you so much!!!

[@lizs004]

Just watching your mother's message to her mother, and then performing her first song with such glee, made me cry. Condolences to your family.

[@faterix7737]

My dad passed away a two days before this video. i am very thankful for this. i showed it to my mom to help her go through and we talked about the good old times with him. thank you very much, positivity in such times is such an important thing, even when it hurts and it is hard to process, dealing with it in a productive way ( i ended up having a "fashion week" with my mom with me trying all clothes of my dad, but ok lol, it did the job). take all the time you need, but don't forget the good things in live you guys!!!

[@GregorPQ]

You have a very smart mom. And a lovely tune, helping remembering the good time you had with your granny.

[@braydenk.8348]

Hahaha the end. “Please don’t put anything weird in.” Definitely a mom.

[@felixmarques]

The fact that the music is so bouncy and happy comes, to me, from a place of fearlessness and relaxation. It's music that might be easy to dismiss for those tho can only aspire to feeling the shameless and open joy the song transmits. And I feel that's the place it was written and performed from. It's very honest.

[@bootsieragansings]

This video is so lovely and filled with love! You helped in your momma's soul growth. Well done to you, light worker! 💫💫🌹💫💫

[@chicoaria]

I love how respectful you are with your mother's thoughts and feelings. I'm sorry for your loss but I'm sure your grandmother is proud of you both! This is the kind of content this world need the most now! Thank you!

[@peterburandt4586]

And grandma's spirit will float on these notes of "Pink Love" for eternity of spacetime.

[@709vxqsr]

I love the fact that the final song uses typical trot melody (usually assosiated with upbeat feeling) but also has some reflective quality to it. Somehow reminds me of Tombeau de Couperin... Thanks for sharing this incredible experience.

[@pamelahood]

What an amazing tribute to your Grandma! And how sweet to have this time - this creative time - this healing time - with your mom. Thanks for letting us into a very special, sacred space. 🙏

[@harpsprince7576]

My condolences to you and your family 🙏🏽

[@NahreSol]

Thank you…

[@charaiveti-charaiveti]

such a beautiful movie... grandmother, mother and now you, three generations reunited in music, transcending life and death... i'm deeply moved. thank you, nahre, for sharing this.

[@tmonkeypunch]

I felt my heart grow bigger after watching this. It was beautiful seeing your mother compose such an upbeat song for her own mother.

[@EllisThings]

This whole thing is just so lovely!

[@vivienk.9368]

Felt so warm 💐 Love this a lot! ❤

[@skhoosy]

Just beautiful, I know she'll be watching with a smile on her face and a spring in her step. My deepest condolences to you and your whole family ❤️

[@anikumkum]

This is such a genuine and pure documentation of translating expression into musical ideas

[@Motortriker]

👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️ lovely thing to do with your mum for grandma.

[@thomasmcgill6918]

Love this, heart warming and inspiring!

[@BradTeena]

I love this!❤

[@tonyping3678]

This is so heartwarming ❤️

[@derangedpoetess]

This is so precious and beautiful and I hope you hang onto this memory forever.

[@paranoidhumanoid]

This is pure love! ❤️️RIP to 할머니 and to caring moms and families everywhere.

[@mikecha]

This is beautiful Nahre- Thanks for sharing this story with us.

[@mateoagudelocanaveral9780]

This was so beautiful Nahre; I'm typing with tears wow

[@davidneale-lorello2954]

Omigosh, Nahre, that's so beautiful and wonderful! I'm all choked up now...

[@jinzhanghsu4253]

this is such a nice project... especially the notes that you and your mom has used, very warm and touching!

[@arthurhaag9434]

Omg that was so wholesome

[@PugCuber]

this is so wholesome and I love it

[@soundtreks]

What a lovely tribute. Thank you for sharing Nahre!

[@Daphoid]

Absolutely wonderful in every way. Congrats and thanks for sharing the journey!

[@go1988]

This is such a beautiful and wonderful idea. Thank you for sharing this process with us, this is just wonderful. Thank you to your mom to agree to do this and to be filmed, we can often feel very vulnerable while creating something and exressing ourselves, it is so curageous of her to share it. Thank you!

[@LukeTheringMusic]

Beautiful. ❤️️

[@colinsmith5879]

I'm crying, this was so beautiful and sweet 😭

[@Mirovanje12]

How completely delightful!!

[@raizoumisty4575]

This video touched my soul. Thank you, Nahre.

[@mdhebert]

That was really lovely on many levels. Thanks. :)

[@radoslavhorak3221]

beautiful, just beautiful; with tears in my eyes: thank you Nahre, thank you mom

[@brettsuzo]

Love this idea (and how nicely the song came out) and how you went back to the drawing board after the first attempt!

[@maira672]

This is soooo sweet! 💕💕💕

[@GutsyOfficial]

This is so wholesome and touching 😣😔.. my sincere condolences 🙏 ❤

[@JDCareyMusic]

Mom’s a rockstar!! Great song, well done!!

[@thisisnotascreename]

This is amazing. Thank you