The 'being stricter with someone because you love them' part was interesting. I think that both giving unconditional love and being a bit strict to a person you love can coexist, no? You can say, 'it is better if you do this, doing that is not acceptable' etc. but at the same time when it is your time to give unconditional love, you can say 'I love you so much, you are at the center of my world' etc.