WHEN THE NARCISSIST REALIZES YOU WON

[@J.A.1188]

Christmas is nice and quiet without narcissists 🙂 Thank you Andrew for all your efforts to wake us up and keep us awake 🙏👋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏⛰️🎄✨

[@Lenora-bc6qj]

The peace of the Christ when they r not there

[@MyLoganTreks]

I'm subscribed and unfortunately I fell for the Hoover maneuver over the holidays. Another reminder The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result.

[@J.A.1188]

@@MyLoganTreks don't be so hard on yourself. you already recognize the toxicity and you will heal completely. It took me 2 years to understand the madness. Everyone has their own pace - but it doesn't happen overnight.

[@kennycousens-w5v]

Keep up the good work these videos that you've done can help a lot of people I'm sorry the things that you've had to go through but if you didn't go through them you wouldn't be telling us the things that we need to be aware of God bless you and have a happy holiday thanks again my man peace out

[@GabrielMark-h2b]

Once you are free, you are free. I emerged from hell and kept on walking. I continue to heal. The deception and cruelty of narcissists are evil. They know what they are doing and are highly manipulative. It is covert behaviour, and we mean nothing to them. Nothing at all. They implode when they see that we know what their 'game was'. Their puny, miserable life will never change. Yours will. You, we and I have love and abundance. Narcissists have nothing but cruelty, lies and destruction. If you suspect and see patterns yet still don't believe it's happening, trust your gut and get out immediately. Never look back. They lose, and you win.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@ashirahhilson1261]

lol @ 🗣️Not so fast toxic ⚠️ narcissist! 🏃‍♂️‍➡️🦹‍♂️ 👮‍♂️

[@michellepurcell8703]

💯 true ❤

[@CreativeWarrior-]

Yes sir!!

[@JLP139]

Great comment .. so true!

[@CryptoProphet]

I am SO GLAD to have a quiet Christmas alone. My son is safe, I saved him from the influence of that demon. We have our future ahead of us - narc free

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@pcblues]

Power to you. I have to wait until they are 18 before the narc loses control, or earlier if they see through the BS. Peace and love to you :)

[@Amber-b3g]

👏👏👏😎

[@SLoring]

You’re lucky

[@franksimmons9242]

@CryptoProphet I read this yesterday and thought to myself, no alcohol no anger, no need. So whatever y'all gave the natives yesterday for them to be so quiet give them some more!

[@sleepytimeshecomes]

it actually took me meeting up with my narc abuser to be fully healed. It was like watching a movie I've already seen in action, very familiar, predictable. As she tried to play her cards again, I simply watched and was invincible to her tactics and deceit. It enraged her to realize she had no more control or effect. It was like watching a Superman movie when Superman gets hit by bullets. I simply walked away from it like she was nothing, cause she became nothing to me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌⛰️✨💜

[@kathleencondit1660]

A big gift to give yourself is to say, the narc abuser, instead of my narc abuser. My siblings became the siblings. The brother...the sister. That lifted more burdens off of me. We no longer claim them as our own. Words are power. Yes, it is like Superman.

[@CryptoProphet]

🔥that’s amazing!

[@TanyaDavis954]

Indifferent

[@gigiarmany]

BRAVO🎉🎉💥🔥

[@Audiophile979]

After 14 years I'm separated from an abusive narcissistic alcoholic. I only had their family, as I don't have my own. Now I'm completely alone. Had to move out of state. No family, no friends. I don't want to go back to her but I don't want to keep living anymore. I'm doing the best I can praying to God every day.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜⛰️✨

[@valrium1971]

You can make it, brother. I am in the same boat with the no friends or family. We will make it, be strong. Think of how much mentally resilient you will be after you have healed. Just avoid distractions and go through all the grief and pain the right way, but be gentle and love yourself. I accepted what I can be accountable for, but you can't do that for the other person, grow and become better for yourself. You don't need another person for that to happen.

[@lizedion1393]

Get the Bible and start reading it from Matthew and learn about JESUS. You will find He is the only ONE you need in life, and you will be more than HAPPY.

[@kathleencondit1660]

It is a minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day kind of challenge. I had to put up so many messages to myself to read each day. We work through it, and it is hard. But we do it. I think for me was that I didn't want to let them win. Almost three years later, I know for sure that I won the battle. Don't ever give up, as Andrew says.

[@KharisReimagines]

We love you.

[@wendywilson3752]

Zero contact is the only way. It takes time with many tears, especially when you review all the special times they destroyed. He made flying monkeys of my beloved family. l am fortunate to have a strong faith but even so it has taken 3 years but l have won. Keep your eyes on the goal of healing and you will get there. Love yourself and if you have a faith trust God He wants you whole and happy. Thank you Andrew for all your help and support over the past 3 years x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@williampicton7072]

Merry Christmas everyone ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏🎄✨

[@chazbickel4518]

😊

[@jeynjohnston8085]

Thanks 🎄

[@meabeck]

⛄🌌🕯️

[@adorable_anarchy2]

Merry Christmas, my friend!

[@Rugbymom]

Thank you for this message… looking back, this time last year I began my exit plan… this holiday season has been much different, but I’d rather be alone, healing, and at peace than stuck in the drama-filled place I was… Have a great day!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@deniselanham2463]

Rug mom: I hear you. I was very unhappy last Christmas. I am with good people this Christmas and it is so much better!!! It definitely gets better as time passes. Happy holidays!! Happy healing!

[@lilybuccigross6688]

I am in the middle of my departure. Our home is in AK, of which he has changed locks and added security. ( My name on deed) All the tactics, secrets, triangulation takes its toll. Still navigating through the process of my “butterfly” stage. Know I will be free eventually.

[@kimhumiston2686]

Narcissists are pure evil. I left a job almost 3 years ago, leaving a narcissistic boss. I just got a Christmas card, which went directly into the trash. Still get text messages wishing me a happy Mother's Day. It's crazy! They know I want absolutely nothing to do with them, and the hoovering keeps right on happening. They lost and I won. I won my self-respect and peace of mind. The best decision I ever made was going no contact. Thank you Andrew for helping me to get through the fog. ❤️

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Sweet Victory! Love it!👍💪🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

Amen ! Many years Narc free. Andrew is a regular part of my calibration. Great guidance and encouragement. A good friend to us all. Christmas is now a Peaceful Happy time with people deserving of Love. Hope you are all Narc Free 2025 !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜⛰️✨

[@ERnarcfree]

I want to give all of you who recently have been discarded a message of hope. I know from my personal experience that this is a really difficult time. Nothing anyone says or does can take your pain away. But I know that with time and with hard work ( watching videos, journaling how you are feeling) all of you can and will feel better. It’s been 2 plus years since the discard after a long marriage and I am feeling finally free. You will get there also!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏

[@s.h.8245]

Thank you for sharing. A LOT OF PEOPLE went thru hell 2019-2023. I was attacked by narcs and by the Grace of God found help. Great awakening. Thank you for sharing

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@Rachelle-f5j]

36 years with him 16 - 52, it's over since 5 October this year, he kicked me out of our house we own together. Didn't go back, he was cheating, and im over it.

[@Amber-b3g]

👏👏👏🙏💜🌸 Lots of love to you ✨🌺

[@franksimmons9242]

Power to you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@ERnarcfree]

@@Rachelle-f5j Can I make a suggestion??? Go back into the house !! Don’t leave. Make him leave !!! Trust me when I tell you later for the divorce- you are better staying there. He has no right to kick you out. My husband tried to make me leave and him to stay. My attorney said Do not leave your home. Make sure you get a good attorney and get back in your home. Let the jerk go out and rent.

[@ERnarcfree]

@@Rachelle-f5j I was married 25 years and now separated for 2. I canceled all the cards that he was on with me. Try to change your bank account. Find one or two people you trust and do whatever you do without him knowing.

[@marieeakin8534]

It burns them to the core...but, who cares!!! Wishing all a Merry Christmas & know we are doing this together...🎄❤ I appreciate Andrew & this beautiful community...we're blessed! 👍👍👍 Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌⛰️✨🎄

[@chazbickel4518]

Merry Christmas Marie!!! It's a blessing to have things we are grateful for.... It's even better when others share the things that you are grateful for with you. Like we all do here in this community. Sending you a big hug from the PNW. 😊❤❤❤❤❤

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Jumpin' ahead, Marie- Happy New Year!😉☕☕🌛🎊🎇

[@Sevenfold7777]

I'm still putting out fires that the narcissist started and the flying monkey's are coming out the woodwork 🤣🤣🤣

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️🙏

[@goesi1]

Do not put out the fire they created. They love to see you losing control. Instead make it yours, control it and let it destroy them.

[@kathleencondit1660]

That was a big challenge for me. I finally stopped putting out their fires, and do not feed the flying monkeys any information. I found that one thing that kept me putting out the fires was that I was too responsible in general. We owe them not a single effort. We only owe ourselves little steps to get on with our own lives.

[@goesi1]

@@kathleencondit1660 : Exactly.

[@meabeck]

​@@kathleencondit1660👍✨

[@sharonchristian8508]

I am still the Scapegoat after these many years. Too bad. They are this year all gone. I am at such a place of Peace. God is good and merciful and I am traveling on. Merry Christmas.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌🎄✨⛰️

[@pinkposey8134]

Thank you!

[@crystals6352]

Yes sir. I said no and utilitized grey rock. It worked. They are in competition with everyone on the planet.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@c.jakubowski6549]

Merry Christmas Andrew. He moved out 5 days ago. He tried to extinguish my bright and shining light for 38 years. Almost worked last Thanksgiving but that little light was still glowing. I was taught in my first year of Quaker School at 5 years old, ‘This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine’. I will look at myself a year from now and reflect. And the next year, and from then on. Thank you 🕯️

[@jokerlovesyou1861]

@@c.jakubowski6549 omg!!!!! Congratulations.....I remember day five.....shaking and throwing up.... how are you doing today.....merry Christmas.....I left mine a year ago today or yesterday...it was Christmas....im so proud of you!!!!

[@kathleencondit1660]

Enjoy your freedom. Have fun getting to know who you really are. It gets better and better.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌⛰️✨🙏💜

[@dawntreader815]

What a splendid comment.

[@ericb8413]

Major damage is an understatement. If I didn’t live through it I wouldn’t believe it. There is healing and peace on the other side. Stay strong everyone. We’re a lot stronger than we know. ❤️‍🩹

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@chazbickel4518]

💯💜

[@seameology]

You can say that again!

[@KathaleenHeinzl]

Merry Christmas, Andrew and everyone 🎅🎄🎁 It's great to be free. Prayers for those in the process and beyond! ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏⛰️🎄✨

[@millabacklund6413]

❤😢🫶🙏

[@lindamarie4663]

All of this seriously needs to be taught in schools

[@JanetMitchell-y8i]

Amen!!

[@mvbigmagic4048]

There were definitely "micro-discards." As I grew older, each stage of maturity, my mother found a way to keep her control over me. It's diabolical actually. Like a toddler that doesn't want to let go of a toy. I'm not a toy. I'm a person. Narcissists do not see people that way. Understanding that one concept (which is foreign to me) is the key to stopping their abuse. NO CONTACT IS SURVIVAL. I hope everyone has a peaceful holiday away from the chaos that all narcissists bring to the table.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️

[@barrys7515]

Andrew is the most authentic and trusted person that i know on the internet! He is well respected by me and his wisdom is priceless! Merry Christmas and Thank You Andrew! The hardest thing to manage is never ever getting closure but the next best thing is the understanding of narcissistic behaviour and why people do or did what they did. That is why people like Andrew is a God send!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌⛰️✨🎄

[@dawntreader815]

Agreed!!

[@KCfan1587-r2u]

I have a NARC mother in law. for 45 years I bent over backwards for her. She never accepted me....always put me down...propping up her daughters and everyone else in front of me. They all got pat after pats on the back for every little thing..... I never received a compliment from her EVER. I thought it was my fault. Well....now through this channel I had the courage to remove her and her entire family out of my life. Now I hear from the hubs....she misses me. And wants me back. She tried to text me....I had already blocked her....also the phone as well.Nope she can't call me.... . I suppose she misses all the "goodie bags" from me......boxes of coffee pods.....magazines she likes.....special treats I baked her.... I made all her special desserts she liked from scratch...and never a thank you. was uttered. It was all just "coming " to her" . She took it all for granted because to her.... I am a sap and an easy target. Gee......are her daughters showering her with those items???? Baking for her and bringing her all kinds of treats....I think she has finally found out since March of this year.....that I WAS the best thing she had in her life. Her other daughter in law doesn't do squat for her. I suppose she misses my texts and cheery phone calls.....it completely stopped. Forever. She sent a holiday card with some money in it for me and I mailed it back. I don't want it. I am not giving her any hope. She is seething over the fact I moved on and found happiness with old friends and I don't need to be abused any longer. I told my hubs to let her know I am happy and for her to stop trying to entice me back. My brother in law told me she is very depressed right now and sits at home in the dark. I am sorry for that. I warned all of them that this is forever. I need peace and tranquility and my friends....and they give me total happiness. They support me and comfort me and care about me. They don't ask for a crumb from me....just being together. To any of you out there who feel like I do.......PLEASE do what Andrew says.....cut them off. Remove them...I am mostly alone here and there and it feels GREAT. my health is improving and now I don't have to worry about being made to feel like dirt ever again. Support this channel and stay strong. It feels horrible at first.....but you will get through it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this..😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@williamjarvis3473]

Sitting at home with my cats and a fish, all rescues. Yep i still have narcissistic folk in my life,(limited), but not today! Thank you Andrew for the great information!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏😌⛰️✨💜

[@madcaps1-t4l]

Every video is a gift Andrew. Thank you. I’m celebrating Christmas alone after more than 3 decades with a nex. I had offers to join others but chose to spend Christmas alone and drama free. Best most fulfilling Christmas in 40 years. God bless you and the family on this channel.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌⛰️✨

[@urbanangst7630]

As the fog clears, my mind remembers events as they happened with my ex narc. But along with the understanding comes a wave of sadness. The reason he was able to manipulate me so easily is that I had been groomed as a child decades ago. Trained like a whipped dog to always be in that state of reception of dark forces flowing from my caregivers directly into my mind. And that darkness still sits there, waiting for the next hateful asshole to try and feed on me. But this time, I will feel more ready to set boundaries, thanks to this channel! ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️✨🙏

[@michellepurcell8703]

Brilliant inspiring video Andrew. I have been apart from my narcissistic ex for almost 3 years now . I am finally getting over it and putting my life back together. Christmas Eve was tough though. I finished work at 2pm, walked my dog, but didn’t want to go home to be alone , so myself and my dog went for a long drive. I had a little cry, but realised that I was far better to be in a house alone, than with a toxic hate filled, fake person . Reality and education sets us free. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌💜🙏🐶⛰️✨

[@TreasureDeal]

My winning is maintaining no contact no matter who tries to come around to hoover me for information to take back to my narcissistic daughter. I'm making a new life, new friends, one day step at a time. Having to start over at 73, with nothing but the clothes on my back, has been interesting. Along the way, I've found help acquiring household items to restart. I'm hoping to get my own place in the future. I've made holidays on my own and shared them this year with friends. Life is returning to me, and I'm grateful and feel extremely blessed. Soldier on survivors!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@sherrymurphy855]

"You win when you reclaim your life"... right on, Andrew.🌹... and begin to reunite with yourself. 💞

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@MandyGerrans-s9u]

Thank you Andrew ❤ I have done quite a bit of ruminating during the past few months but keep reminding myself that there is no way I want to live 'that life' with him again!! I'm free, smiling and laughing so much more and not exhausted mentally or physically through being with him!!" I wish us all a happier new year ahead ❤😊 x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

[@carmenwheatley1516]

You are blessed beyond measure. Two Christmas ago, I was passively dumped. I didn’t even get to join my family for our traditional Christmas dinner. However, today I am so much stronger because I will never go back to the way I used to be. I get text msgs from all sorts of phone numbers, don’t know who they are from but I have a hunch. Stay safe Andrew and thanks for sharing your story.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️🎄✨

[@meabeck]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you, Andrew. ⛄🌌 Have a blessed Holiday.🕯️📘🌲

[@GeeEll3]

My first narc free Christmas in a decade 😮🎉😂😪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️

[@johnbruce3224]

Wonderful......peace is amazing

[@henamanlh]

On my first Christmas afterwards my favorite Christmas song was Silent Night! Still is 3 yrs later.😂 Enjoy!

[@nox7282]

Same here 🎉 Congratulations

[@dawntreader815]

same here!!!

[@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

🙏❤️🙌Merry Christmas 🎁 everyone.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏⛰️🎄✨💜

[@terridillon3053]

You will win! Gods got this and you. “God will not be mocked and neither will HIS CHILDREN” AMEN!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@rAwDuGGy]

spent my christmas with my girfriends family and had the best christmas ive ever had and ever since i exposed the narcissist they are treating my siblings better instantly

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@marshat.ordureau3121]

Today is my husband"s Birthday🎄🙏🌟🇫🇷🎂He is 61 yrs!! YES,,, He is my Best friend!! I began knowing him ,, when he was 25 yrs,,, Since then we have Growned together ,,, We have been through together the treatment of my Narc/ sister ,, she threw at us,, 2022,,, ! WE are stronger & dusted our boots off ! AND have moved on!! 😊😊Something this Narc/sister thought she could BREAK US!! We celebrated Christmas without a Thought of what took place in June 2022,,, We are all like trees,,, growing NEW BRANCHES!!! AND she is jealous I am Married to a French man,, 36 yrs!!!❤❤Andrew,,, Thank you for opening OUR EYES,,, and to Live our best life!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌

[@rmzang]

It's been 12 years since I first practiced radical acceptance without even knowing that there was such thing much less a thing called "narcissism". Only in recent years I've been blessed to educate myself and understand what this all was. In the beginning of this healing journey, I only learned of my ex-partners being narcissistic abusers. What I unraveled and finally understood was that this all had started the day I was born, born into a den of wolves. I always knew my family was jealous, beyond toxic, but I never knew there was a name to this system. We all need daily reminders to keep pushing forward 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@katemoffitt1641]

My eye tore on my birthday from the stress of the liar. Am still seeing double 3 years later. BUT I blasted him for the last time today on Christmas Day… thru my daughter… who has known him since she was 2 years old. He responded to her texts. I’ve been blocked for 3 years. She told him she hopes he reaps everything he’s done to her beautiful mother over the years. Lol He responded with two text messages. I told her not to reply to him. I’m good… still suffering but good… and I wanted to make sure he knows he did not get away with his lies… his deceit… his betrayal. I’m gonna fly now… like a butterfly. I won✔️ Thank you! ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌

[@roslyncerro1263]

So grateful solo is fine. Calls from real pals and edible treats from a neighbor. And KZbin thoughts from so many of you here. Big thanks.❣️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌⛰️🙏✨

[@chazbickel4518]

😊❤

[@marieeakin8534]

Merry Christmas Roslyn blessings 🙏❤🎄 🌈🎀😘

[@roslyncerro1263]

Thank you Marie.❣️

[@johnbruce3224]

Bless you Andrew...removed that toxic ,evil blood sucking troll from my life..good luck ..poor sap who is with her now

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@angelamoore6378]

The whole month of December triggers me. December 2019. I had nowhere to go, alone and abandoned, broken ankle, basically in a dazed stupor. Tried to take my life but I guess it wasn't my time. 5 years no contact now. I am healed spiritually, physically, emotionally. But those dark, dark times are something I will never forget and although all of us here are either in the process of healing or have healed I feel like it's something that you never completely get over because it's such a traumatic experience.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@Doona-z4b]

This is the third year I've spent Christmas day with my dog only. My choice as after years of narcissistic abuse from family members & ex narcissistic toxic friends. I won't allow anyone into my safe space & have boundaries with everyone now. It's a very long healing road but it is so worth keeping these's creatures out so you can heal & protect yourself against deadly vemon. Blessings 🌞 🙌 hope everyone who is dealing with any narcissistic relationship 🙏 gets the wisdom & strength to remove them and give yourself time to heal 🎉❤ 🙏 🌈

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌🙏🐶⛰️✨

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Getting a full tank of this education is a foot across the winning line. You'll never be taken by surprise again. You know what to expect. I have memories of videos where a runner, cyclist, etc. raises their hands in a premature victory. You may not want to celebrate right away, a hand span away may be a Narc still trying to poison your champagne. For the educated Empath, it's a different kind of "win." - keep moving forward. I accept, I'll be forever vigilant. The Narc won't forget, neither will I.

[@marieeakin8534]

Me neither 💪💥💥💥 ⛄☕☕❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@kathleencondit1660]

So true, about staying forever vigilant. It is a different kind of win.

[@chazbickel4518]

Never forget! That's how we defend our peace....😊✌

[@EBB9667]

This is my first Hanukkah without the narcissist ex bf. I've been really struggling yesterday and today. Thank you for the video because lately, I feel VERY alone. I had to leave my synagogue because I want nothing to do with him or the flying monkeys.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

[@nox7282]

Congratulations on getting away from the narc! 🎉 Stay strong - you got this!

[@KCfan1587-r2u]

stay strong. Please stay strong. Otherwise you will never find happiness. God is watching us and will provide good things to happen in your life. The right people will come around and you will think to yourself why you didn't do this sooner. Keep coming back to this channel and I promise one day things will get better. You have to believe.

[@cindymcdonnell2119]

The best gift 🎁 for me today is this video ! 💪❤️ THANK YOU Andrew and to everyone who shares! Remember No Contact works ! Moving forward ! 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌⛰️✨

[@TwilaB0721]

Keeping my cup full is not an Option. Thank you, Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜💜🙏😌

[@Gemini-Empress]

Thankyou for your guidance during these dark times, I thought I was dealing with one narc , till I started healing an realised I'm surrounded by them , ... I pushed them back into the darkness while I walk forward into the light ✨️ thankyou🙏🥰

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏🙏⛰️✨

[@SharonJohnston-l1o]

Spot on as always Andrew! I came out of my narcissistic fog six years ago after 59 years of abuse. The work is hard but so worth it!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..💜🙏😌⛰️✨

[@sharleneprosk4512]

Sharon Johnson. Congratulations on your escape , i was 58 years in a Narcissistic years of abuse . 3 years free this Dec.21 . Freedom is wonderful !!

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

Today is my second Christmas without narcissists around. Wins abound..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌⛰️✨

[@JoyTracie-vm1qs]

If you are reading this and you just started the process I want to tell you….YOU CAN MAKE IT! I loved the X husband for 38 years. 32 years married. He crumpled me up and his kids up like a sheet of paper and threw us on the side of the road just like Andrew always explains it. This is our 3rd Christmas without that thing and we MADE IT! We love each other. We will never abandon each other. We are on the 🏔️. If I can do it! You can do it. I promise. It is a lot of work…and will always be a part of my story. But you can heal. Holidays are hard. But this has been my happiest holiday in 40 years. I am NARC FREE FOREVER! Don’t give up. You got this! Thank you Andrew. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌⛰️✨

[@danielchallenger979]

My first narcissist free Christmas since 2019. Every Christmas since then, I was always wishing I could feel safe in my relationship. This is the first Christmas where I now feel safe from her. This is best Christmas present I ever had.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@nleativa]

While journaling, I reflected on christmas 2022 and just realized that is when the narcissist passively discarded me. 2023 was horrible for me, and Xmas became a vulnerable time. Today, I'm a lot stronger than last year and 2022. My healing journey continues. Thank you, Andrew. Your experience, strength, and wisdom have been so helpful. Happy Holiday

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@donnaciervo290]

Andrew, I came across your channel over a year ago after being discarded out of the blue to then learn a few months later there was a new supply, I couldbt believe the cruelty and how it just seemed like I never existed, then after I came across your channel, I then really figured it all out. You have been a blessing and comfort to me ever since. Thank you so much for creating this channel. ❤️❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜⛰️🙏✨😌

[@joneiNYC]

My time today is spent in reflection and gratitude. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@chazbickel4518]

❤

[@annawallace3264]

you aren’t being ‘rough’ Andrew you are being 100% ‘truthful’ of what you went through and what we have or are still going through with Narcissists. Thanks Andrew for your videos that contain the truth to help our community get out and away from the Narcs and how to heal from them. It has been 5 mos today, Christmas Day that my NarcHusband of 54 yrs of marriage passed away. It is a silent night and peaceful.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌⛰️✨

[@tashie20]

The best Christmas ever without the Narc for the first time in 21 yrs🙌🙌 The way he tried to worm his way in for the holidays is UNBELIEVABLE 😮 These people are no joke. I guess he’s somewhere thinking about revenge but God gatt me🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜⛰️✨🎄

[@tashie20]

@ Thanks for your videos because I would’ve fallen for the lies🙌🙌

[@williampicton7072]

I got a Hoover this last Thanksgiving. After 15 years no contact! 😂😂 I said NO!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@corinnebridgman644]

On Christmas Eve last year I was abused by my narcissist over the phone, this year he is now my ex and it's so peaceful and quiet and refreshing not being abused for no reason on Christmas. Merry Christmas all!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜⛰️✨🎄

[@paulbrouyere1735]

Happy end of the year, Andrew. Five years ago, a man had two cardiac arrests in front of the restaurant I had with my ex wife. She was pissed; I was glad we saved this man’s life. Of course we divorced. Had a very merry Christmas with the dog that is now my and before her dog. Sometimes I tease him a little bit with his chicken legs and wings to make him realize I really love him…

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜🐶😊

[@flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel]

It was like death by 1000 fists. Not sure my heart can or will love again. He didn't win.....I have peace and that is more important than anything in this life❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@KCfan1587-r2u]

After you heal.....you will find happiness again. Not every person out there is a Narc. Someone will love and cherish you and thank God for you. It is in God's time and once you open your heart again.....believe me...... the right one will find you.

[@hope5443]

Passed my holiday hoover with flying colors! Wouldnt answer the door and refused all messages and blocked the flying monkey narc proxy! I think they got the message!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏⛰️✨

[@kathleencondit1660]

That is hard, but you did it all. Enjoy your evening.

[@hope5443]

@kathleencondit1660 thanks. I've had a month of being stonewalled to prepare myself.

[@deborahfairbanks4012]

My narcissist didn't cheat on me, but he would flirt with other women. He would always say, "I'm just having fun with them" He wanted me to feel like I was "less" than who ever he wanted to flirt with. His #1 motis operandi was triangulation.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@Eli_J_]

So many truths in this video, I suspected she’d been smearing me to her best friend for at least a year based on her friend’s sudden energy change towards me. So I said NO to her invitation to attend a major league baseball game with her best friend and husband. Within 4 months I was discarded for the new supply. So happy to be free from her!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@michellemcintosh8761]

When the narcist realised that I had caught on to them the amount of scrambling and Hoovering that took place was unbelievable. 😂😂 Because we as empaths have to go through this and the narcist is relentless. The devaluation stage now makes me laugh,empaths have always smashed through even after the first time in the narcist web. ..❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@monicahocking1507]

I left my husband for 3 years and one of our children died, we have 6. I foolishly went back believing something would have changed after a died child but it was worse. I'm now 70 and planning to leave again. Sometimes wondering if its too late at my age. I had breast cancer when i was 60 went through all treatments and survived, i truly believe my healing was from God.❤. I often wonder what bad thing i did to deserve this. He is a covert narcissist and looks and appears to be perfect. I even questioned myself, am I the narcissist ext, all the usual things. I feel if i don't go it will kill me. I'm gray rocking and waiting, hoping and praying 🙏 to have the courage to do it again. Anyone that's a praying person who reads this please pray for me. Merry Christmas to everyone and God bless ❤ xo

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@michaeloneill5877]

You stay, there's PAIN You walk away, there's PAIN At least, when you walk away for good, there's PAIN, but there's also LIGHT and LOVE at the end of the tunnel, NEVER, EVER look back, keep moving forward to Peace, Love, Happiness

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️✨

[@rhealitytv.9999]

😊❤😊 never be sincere with the IN-sincere . Thank you! Its a new day!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@peacelovedove7080]

That’s strong 💪!! Thank you!!!!🙏

[@ERnarcfree]

One more message of hope - please as bad as may feel , please do not give up !! This world needs you in it so please remember that tomorrow is a new day. Sleep will restore you and a the new day will give you strength. God bless everyone and please stay strong 💪🏻.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌🙏⛰️✨

[@lourdesecheverria6209]

Christmas WITHOUT drama, manipulation, triangulation, rage fits, toxic flying monkeys, and emotional abuse. What a GLORIOUS CHRISTMAS! Hope everyone got everything on their list! Blessings to all! 🎄🤶❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌🎄⛰️✨

[@ManifestationsOfTheLight]

The narcissist around me have no bounds. After a lifetime of being told I’m an alcoholic and that I can not drink, and being forced to order wine for family members for their Christmas for elderly parents who don’t know how to order it themselves, I was gifted a bottle of wine. If I was so bad, why are they changing their mind? I didn’t drink it, I want nothing to do with them or their insanity. There is no basis in reality for all their abuse. Merry Christmas. I am having the best one yet, peacefully alone. 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏⛰️✨🎄

[@kathleencondit1660]

I saw that again and again with some in law family members. It was a power trip to always insist on wine at all gatherings, purposefully, in front of the one who had stopped drinking. I decided that the last two percent of person's troubles with alcohol was the controlling family members. I was forced to tell them that I would not return to their house if it ever happened again. That was years and years ago. The problem ended, and the person was freed from the family abuse. Best wishes on no longer being forced to do, or accept their power trips. It is sick behavior on their parts. It rattled me so much, that I don't touch alcohol. It was a bad experience for anyone to see. Sympathy, or better yet, empathy here.

[@energyjohnson4198]

You definitely attract what you need to grow. It’s so weird of all the people in the world. All I did was turn my head and found someone right around the corner for me to give the best advice. It is such a small world.. thank you for being you and all that you do

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@adorable_anarchy2]

3 years out. Winning 🎉❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌⛰️✨

[@minnieleec]

Thank you Andrew, merry Christmas to you. You are so supportive to us all.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌⛰️✨

[@jokerlovesyou1861]

Hey buddy....I found you a year ago....the day I was DONE....haven't missed an episode yet....thank you so much Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😊⛰️✨🙏

[@imansaade8805]

I love how you keep reminding us that things will never change with these people, Andrew! For those of you who are going through the "withdrawal," please know you will heal. I guarantee it. It just feels like hell momentarily, but it will change for the better. One day you will find yourself singing along with a song, or singing in the shower. You will eventually find that it's now 5 pm and I haven't thought of that person for 10 hours, and then eventually it goes down to practically nothing, but NOT if you keep FEEDING that Narc. For those that have already gone through this, they know that the most valuable gift a victim of these demons could receive at this time of year is the absence of their toxic presence. Happy Holidays!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜⛰️

[@LottiesLore]

You are such a blessing Andrew. I've been no contact for 24 years from my toxic family and now they suddenly are trying to get back in my life. I need to be reminded to stay strong.❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@terriblue68]

❤❤❤ Merry Christmas Andrew 😊 I won 🏆 and it's not about winning for me, but yes I won. He will never EVER contact me again. Tail between his legs because I'm not an idiot. I got him at his own game. Big time. Thank you for being here for all of us.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😊💜🙏⛰️✨

[@alexandern.dittrich5742]

Right now I loose everything to a narcissist. She has total control over everything around me. I loose friends on a daily base. Just right now her friends, who are the admins in our norwegian Vanlife group, throw me out because of HER words and (re)actions. But it`s my group too. I live in a camper van thru the whole year, but not in the coldest months of the winter. That was my home, my community. Nobody asks how I feel, or what she did to me. I feel like I am not a human anymore. I am 50 years old, and I hate this kindergarden :(

[@jokerlovesyou1861]

@alexandern.dittrich5742 same....not one person....its ok tho.....this community is a sage place

[@mvbigmagic4048]

I hope in 2025 you are surrounded with better people. People who care about you and listen to facts of a situation before passing judgment. It sounds like you were not with true friends. As you leave the narcissist, something will fill the space. It is like water. You can't dig a hole in water. The space has to be filled. Keep healing, and that space will become filled with like-minded healthy people. High vibrational people will fill that space.

[@Chazbro]

I am alone too... God be w u!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@mindofnobility7554]

Absolutely!!!! WE truly needed another truthful and real message. You are looking GOOD, Brother! Continue to SHINE, SHINE, SHINE! Thank you so very, very much!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@feeb812]

Freedom is amazing , love it without them narcissists around.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌⛰️

[@awakenedjaki]

Merry Christmas Andrew🎄❤️Thanks for all you do every single day, that helps so many people across the world. Best wishes for a peaceful day ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜⛰️✨🎄

[@kathleencondit1660]

I've realized that I had to grey rock through my whole childhood with many people. No one taught me the term, but it was survival for a kid with red hair. Children should not have to grey rock. Now, I keep several grey rocks on my book shelf to remind me that I don't need people in my life when grey rocking is required. I will not see them or give them my energy.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏⛰️✨

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

👍👍👍👍👍💪🙌

[@janicemurphy4373]

Everything you say Andrew I agree and I see and I am free, I had to grow and I know I am not the same person that I used to be I have come a long way and I am so grateful thanks to Almighty God and people like you!!!!!!!! I have grown!!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️✨

[@Amber-b3g]

For me family is an F word. It took me a very long time to let them go completely no contact. I’m so glad I did !! I am celebrating my life now and developing the self worth that was intended for me by my divine creator 🙏💜🌸 Merry Christmas Andrew and Happy New Year from Queensland Australia 🌏🇦🇺✨🌲🌺

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌💜🙏⛰️✨🎄

[@tinaureta9891]

Yesssssss!!!! All that!!! Even down to the walking in front of me… disappearing on me….. making so many excuses!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@ChadJones-k7v]

Thank you Andrew, your encouragement is priceless and like medicine to the soul. You and others are leading a revolution away from toxic narcissism 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏😌💜⛰️✨

[@pandamakeuppics7772]

My daughter just talked to her paternal grandfather, and he said "Ohhhh it's been sooo long since I've heard your voice. I can't even remember the last time we talked..." Why can't he not guilt trip her? Oh yeah, cus he's the reason his children ended up addicts and dead. He doesn't know his granddaughter nor does he care to. He's simply not responsible for the demise of the family. 😢❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@frankflegg8968]

It is just like you know her. 2 years "clean" and my life is now fantastic. Thank you for all the help. You are a good bloke.

[@edycrowley2878]

It's sad the lengths that these evil souls will go to. I brought a lot of food over, with the help of some friends, to help my grandkids' household 2 years ago. Today I am being denied interaction with my grandkids because I am part Jewish...as well as the same on Thanksgiving day. It's sad to see and hear such people going to church and playing Xmas music, and then denying Nana interaction on holidays.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@rowanalexander3051]

Blocked the Holiday hoover! 👍💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏⛰️✨

[@kathleencondit1660]

Be very proud of your self.

[@kennycousens-w5v]

I just wanted to say thank you for all the videos that I've listened that you put out about this subject I'm 58 years old and I didn't realize for so many years that I was going through this I just I just really wasn't aware or maybe I was in denial at this point in my life I'm seeking counseling and some therapy but I couldn't have done it without you in the videos that I've seen what you're doing is a great thing and I think you so much

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏⛰️

[@EasyRussianLessons]

I've consumed dozens of your videos. Honestly, the most helpful content out there. Very uplifting. Thank you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜⛰️✨🙏

[@JacK-qn4zh]

I stayed silent for many years but, after one thing done upon me tonight...I said all. It was something to make me nothing like this woman wants but...calling her out... made her flee from me and shut all down. I'm not hiding nor am I afraid anymore...There is something she hates about me and ...I must have power over whatever it is... I rule ! Just don't know what or why but....she failed so! Just knowing...I have something...is a win win!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@DarrenAdams-z7z]

Thank you Andrew, for once again providing insight, hope, and clarity to us all. You are appreciated. Merry Christmas.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@maiakai5459]

Hi Andrew! Been away from the narc husband for 2 yrs now while waiting for the finality of the divorce. I finally picked it up last Monday and sent it to him right away. Together with the Quit claim Deed I signed. It is uncontested and awarded the house to him. I enclosed his car key & our wedding ring that he used only a month after the wedding. I tracked the parcel and it was delivered to him on Christmas Eve. It wasn't intentional but it just happened. He must have gotten the best Christmas gift this year. Survivors,we got this. Keep growing for ourselves. We deserve peace and be real happy without them!❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️

[@mabvutomwale4676]

I thank God am out her life once I knew her games she is really get mad 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Thank you Jesus

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@toddstewart3179]

Awesome truth in today’s message!! Wishing all a wonderful holiday season and a new year filled with growth and love. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😊🙏💜⛰️✨

[@kenwilson3]

Thank you, Andrew. Thanks to you I understood what was happening to me.i broke out of the relationship not knowing what a narcissist was just new it was so bad so for me. Then I watched one of your videos and you described how my life was and it finaly made sense. God bless you and your family. Take care

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏😊⛰️💜✨

[@nadjamedjedovic5313]

I like when you remind us to slow down our lives. I still have that reflex to go-go-go even years later

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜