Narcissist and YOU: Tour the Nightmare (with Monique Rigney)

Join me for a tour of the surreal world of the narcissist and your place in it.
Monique De Carlo Show at flirtfm 101.3 fm - a Public and Social Policy graduate of University of Galway. Public and Social Policy graduate of University of Galway, flirtfm.ie
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[@uk7769]

Three years into my learning path, i have improved my ability to detect narcissistic behaviors. The more i learn the better i can navigate around these damaged dangerous psyches.

[@edwardmooneyhan1928]

Crazy how that works. It's so obvious once you have the knowledge.

[@colleenproctor8212]

Close to the end, this gem from Sam - "You lose ... your trust in your ability to judge people properly." This is so true. I wonder if this contributes to my (and many others') interest in true crime content - especially con artists, love swindlers, etc. I thought it was the satisfaction of justice, but maybe my brain is trying to course correct my former Pollyannish thinking? Yes, Virginia, there *are* predators out there. Sam, your insight on this would be so interesting. Thanks so much for your very generous content over the years! Truly enlightening and life-saving. ❤

[@uk7769]

Amazing life altering paradigm shifting knowledge. Knowledge is power.

[@debraparker6404]

So insightful. I’m two years out and still seeing the damage done.

[@alinajeziorska5959]

Prof Sam, thank you so much, you saved my life. Merry Christmas for you and Lidja.💙💙

[@utbr963]

Hi Sam! I appreciate you so much!

[@ambermorris9623]

Thank you for talking about the abuse. My self esteem and self worth has taken a huge hit. It's horrible. I have the zombie feeling! It's so hard not to take it personally.

[@uk7769]

amazing conversation thank you!

[@ambermorris9623]

I love your videos! You are such a lifesaver for me as I'm going through this now. I'm going to watch everything I can. My narcissist chooses to use social media to hurt me and cause me pain. That's his main way he causes me pain. I've never experienced this before.

[@kennethmelville6804]

Sam I sympathise with you. A lot of us are trying to see the information from your angle. I believe that I am understanding your explanations, but with some difficulty. Others are simply having much difficulty. Please don't give up, we will all get to the bottom of it.Hope that makes sense. You are a gem.

[@uk7769]

i had to look it up... obsequious: adjective, marked by or exhibiting a fawning attentiveness

[@julieprice488]

Hahah welcome to my world. Untill recently, I have never listened to a Prof. Vaknin video that I haven’t had to look up at least one word.

[@uk7769]

@julieprice488 lol yep the professor is hardcore knowledge. i went to public school in the USA so, had to teach myself everything lol. This old dog is still learning. [cue Pink Floyd's song Hey Teacher... leave us kids alone...]

[@ChristineBellario-go3qq]

Been reading or listening to you since you started. 100 percent what I experienced in a recently ended relationship exactly 💯 what you state here happened. The hall of mirrors is actually healing along with some of my own work. The narcissist is perfect and evil. No one would understand unless they lived it. You work is superb and exact IMHO

[@odeyinkamotunrayo4789]

Very true thanks for this video

[@uk7769]

1:28:15 This! incredible. so true.

[@sophiepapoutsaki6480]

After his wife left him, why he went in a "relationship" where the new supply "beats" him and misbehave all the time like his mother. And also she is not pretty or rich or young BUT she is an actress (not famous). He looks unhuppy but he can't stand being alone, he stays with his mother still and the other person sometimes. Allthough he is around 58 as she is too. And his real mother tries to manipulate him to get rid of her too. What's going on next?

[@LaPetitePlaneteDeRoxi]

Prof. Vaknin, what does it mean to not have a true self? I can't seem to grasp this concept...

[@samvaknin]

Search the channel for False Self and watch the From Child to Narcissist playlist.

[@LaPetitePlaneteDeRoxi]

@@samvaknin thank you !

[@sophiepapoutsaki6480]

for the narcissist also his child is not worthy?

[@samvaknin]

Watch today's video.

[@sophiepapoutsaki6480]

Prof.@@samvaknin i have already done it. I have lived everything you describe. Every detail. But what about his child. He comes and go in his childs life, creating huge sentimental problems. . Depends on his mood or situations he wants to deal with. What's the catch here. Thanks in advance!