Narcissists (getting free from past or present pain) - Tapping with Brad Yates

[@anitatortita]

"I'm acknowledging i'm worthy of love, love that they weren't capable of giving me, BUT OTHERS CAN,"... just hit me like a ton of bricks. Wow thank you for that truth!

[@archuonly]

Thank you very much Brad, i bursted into tears in the middle of tapping process, so many old events popped up in my mind, didn’t know that i have been carrying so much pain from my narcissism family, its just so hurt.

[@celissewillis9399]

5:36 "just because someone else is sick, doesn't mean that I can't recover"... THIS!!!

[@christinebennett9394]

This is so needed! I was not prepared for what came up during this session. Being raised by a Narcissist really messes with your identity.

[@QUINTUSMAXIMUS]

I can totally relate. My mother is a major narcissist.

[@erikhengstrum5878]

@@QUINTUSMAXIMUS For me it was my father.

[@BiancaBojan]

@@QUINTUSMAXIMUS for me it s both, yay!

[@instasupermamka]

you need to create your own identity

[@mirafilipovic5162]

@@QUINTUSMAXIMUS For me it was my in-law.

[@nicolemarie7684]

I whispered through this (because they're in the next room) And cried midway. You have no idea how much I needed this right now. God bless you ❤

[@itsPOWOW]

Hello Brad. What a gift this is. I'm an Empath, a Highly Sensitive Person, who has PTSD! I formed a loving relationship with someone with NPD - I had not met such a person before. Your videos on other subjects have helped me on the long road to recovery from that damaging relationship. I still love the man who is a prisoner of his own disease, so I'm glad you included a wish for their healing because it's a terrible condition for all concerned. May we invoke healing for all of us who have been used, misled, confused, abused and traumatised and may we ask divine source to flood them with light and opportunity at every turn to change. It's not easy for them because, in their reality, their prison, they are not wrong. Love and light must win. kxx

[@christineplaton3048]

They say they cannot love. I believe it is very true. However they also say we never loved the narcissist. They say we loved what they saw In or acted towards us. But they ever were true enough for us to love them, it is all a facade. They never wanted us to know them. It was just a game of theirs, and they play horrible games. We are not game players and don't deserve this. We knew how to love and we tried to be in a normal relationship. It was never normal. I refuse to invest time in another abusive relationship.

[@marwaelsayed9451]

May all of us who suffered and injured to heal and recovered for those who injured us

[@cajsalundgren2138]

Hey Brad! I absolutly adore your videos. This is so unbelivible thankful! You say all the right words. My X is still in my life. When he says; Im here for you…. I know he is, but just for control and manipulation-… Now, when you said; Im here for ya” … it felt so honest.. and it felt totalt different in my body… that is the way it should be said. Thank you soooo much for tou voice, your heart to help others and for your tapping. Be blessed 🤲🏽

[@zelihasahin7748]

That really breaks my heart. Yes, we can fall in love with them and they hurt us terribly. On some level they know that they hurt us. Still wishing well and forgiving them for us to move on.

[@isabelrose9248]

No, they never think they are wrong.

[@GardenofResistance]

"Sometimes when we've been knocked down, it feels safer to stay down." I am weeping into my pillow so no one can hear me. That hit me hard. Just ow. Thank you for sharing your work.

[@Emma-km4mz]

I was full of tears doing this again today!

[@MsEssmess]

I darent dream anymore.... so working on little ones!

[@normathompson8011]

You are brilliant! You are such an amazing combination of calm and soothing along with powerful and on target!!!!! (I’m also impressed with no advertising, and self-promotion to subscribe and like. We are all happily promoting you wherever and whenever we can!!!!!) What a very special gift you have in changing people’s life!!

[@nicholebeamer9071]

I was shocked by this session. I started bawling immediately. I don’t think I’ve ever really allowed myself to fully understand how much narcissism has impacted me. This is going to be added to my daily tapping routine (along with your self-love practice which is awesome). Thank you so much for sharing.

[@vanessasouthern1792]

Thanks my KZbin Dad. I needed this today. More than you'd ever know. It's a difficult annuversay. Every word you said is so fitting. And healing. 🙏

[@BiancaBojan]

haha during the video I asked myself why couldn t Brad be my dad ? :))

[@ginaamoroso1882]

Me too!!

[@mdmmalou]

Born to be the scapegoat. Escaped many times, but not without being severe injured. Great that you added narsissism as a theme! Thank you so much for posting.🙏💥

[@aprilsanchez8040]

me too

[@Hautenani]

Wow! All the healing I’ve done and when I did this everything came up from the surface such as… 1. They’ll always win. 2. I’ll never get justice. 3. They get to live a good life off of the things I’ve done for them and I’m going to always be trying to heal and crawl myself out of this hole. 4. It’s so unfair!!! 5. Life isn’t fair!!! 6. Everyone is always going to side with them. 7. Everyone is always going to believe them. 8. I’m going to be punished for the rest of my life for trying to genuinely love this person. 9. It’s foolish to think I can ever heal. By the end of the tapping my thoughts were… 1. I’ve come such a long way! 2. This person’s hate and bad treatment allowed me to level up like never before. 3. It’s not my fault. 4. God sees all and is a just God. 5. It’s my responsibility to heal myself which means I am fully capable of doing so. 6. I’m excited to see the person I become once fully healed. 7. I can arrive early to custody drop offs and do this in the car before I interact with the narcissist! 8. The more I heal the closer I get to God and allow this person to get closer to God. 9. I am powerful! 10. I can do this. 11. Thank God for my huge heart. 12. I won’t let this make me less kind or loving. 13. I am protected. 14. I am supported. 15. My success is guaranteed if I keep healing 16. I love the person I am. 17. God please help this person heal 🙏🏽 Thank you Brad for all you do! I’ve been watching your videos and they will be a consistent part of my morning and evening routine. God bless you!!! ❤

[@isabelrose9248]

Thank you for this comment. I have a true narcisstic mother and I have some of the same issues and beliefs such as 'Noone is going to believe me, everyone's going to side with them, not fair! Disempowering, angry making and crazymaking. So healing to hear someone else have the same feelings. Working on not giving her power and still trying to b there for her. Thank you to Brad, also! For this and other videos that have helped me.

[@MiokaYurika]

Since I found your channel, I've been tapping every day. Your videos are so powerful. This is one of my absolute favorites. I've been crying through the whole video. Thank you so much. Love from Germany.

[@TheFirefly71]

Oh my GOD!!!!! Nothing was working. I have been stuck in freeze response and the pain had been UNBEARABLE I cannot function even on a basic level daily; I struggle to even take care of my basic needs and things that one does as second nature. This is the worst part not just losing materialistic stuff but Myself and my health. I did this tapping and almost instantaneous I breathed out such a loooong breath and my heart actually FELT some healing.. like some pain was melted just like a hug except I didn’t need someone to hug me to feel the love. it was so soothing I needed this sooo much. Even thou it was like a drop in an ocean. It was amazing. I just started this but I’m going to carry on so glad I found you. Thank you thank you thank you. God bless you.

[@mariegracebrabandt8028]

Every male in my life including my dad was a narsist. I am away from all of them and some have even passed on. I didn't even really know what narcissism was until 2 years ago. I used to think it was all me. Even though I know now that I wasn't fully loving myself and wasn't feeling whole. I unknowingly attracted these kinds of people. Learned behavior from my dad as well. This is a very important topic and I hope there is more variety of them. I know it will help so many. Thank you so much. With love and gratitude ❤ 💕 🙏

[@nevill81]

This is so much true what you are writing dear Marie it is exactly my story as well. I also was attracting these lunatics my whole life - always male. Lets heal together!

[@mariegracebrabandt8028]

@@nevill81 thank you for sharing! Agreed! Let's heal together ❤ Started my own youtube channel to heal and tell my stories from a deeper level and from adult eyes. You can find me at "Reinventing ME Marie Grace" Have a beautiful day! 💛🌻🍂🍁🧡🥰

[@nevill81]

❤️❤️❤️

[@LolaClo]

Hope you are doing well!

[@mariegracebrabandt8028]

@@LolaClo I am doing so much better. Thank you 😊

[@shirleyharpham1488]

This man is amazing , to spend his time freely giving out this information to help us heal ..... I m sending so so much gratitude to you .... your an earth angel 😇 xxxxx

[@cbs0224]

Wow, Thank you for this tapping Brad!!! The energy was so heavy and it lifted right off. It was tough to feel safe to let it go as I grew up under a narcissistic parent and still keep a very far distance today. Thank you so so much!!!!

[@reshelvittori8147]

In case this is helpful to someone, this works for damage from a narcissistic parent, even if you blocked out your childhood and don’t know and can’t remember exactly what you’re tapping for. Brad, you’re an amazing person and a genius. Thank you 🙏

[@Cuiositycola]

Brad, you are a godsend!!! Your videos are helping me so much in a time where I really needed! I'm so grateful to my friend who introduced me to eft, and for the universe who brought me to your channel!!! Sending much love and gratitude 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🌈🌈🌈

[@brentlee5921]

Hey Brad, I can’t thank you enough for your help. Appreciate you and wish you a fantastic 2023!

[@tapwithbrad]

Thank you :)

[@ktmggg]

Thank you Brad! I just got the discard from my now ex-narcissist. I was angry but after tapping I now feel like he's a clown to be pitied. His loss!

[@indidavison3382]

This was/is my mum who I’ve had to keep at a distance for my own safety and well-being for the last decade as I suffer PTSD from her😢 and the words you used were spot on a million thank yous for making this ❤

[@ayeshaworsham]

Exactly what I needed. A few hours ago, I asked for a sign, and your new video popped up in my email, addressing the very thing that had triggered me badly, throwing me in a bad cycle today. Thank you so much!! I appreciate the work you do and the tools you share with me/us. Have a fun Monday!

[@canoslo6126]

This message is to anybody dealing with narcissists, especially those whose parents were narcissists. You are not alone, and you are not crazy! I was raised by two clinically diagnosed narcissists tending towards the sociopathic end of the spectrum. I can understand what you are going through because I’ve lived it, too. I just want to make it clear that although the NPD disorder does cause a host of unpleasant behaviors, these people are still *choosing* their actions. In fact, narcissists excel at making choices, they simply make the choices that suit them not anyone else. That’s why boundaries are so crucial to getting you the space you need to heal. You’re not only have to be willing to say no, you have to be willing to enforce the consequences of breaching that boundary. The narcissist will play victim, and it’s your job not to fall into that trap but to hold to your NO and protect yourself. By and large, these are adults. You have no responsibility to live their lives for them and absolutely no responsibility for keeping them happy. You deserve love, honor, and respect. You don’t have to go on being hurt or kowtowing to the demands of someone who can never be pleased. You are worth so much more than that. It took me a long time to break completely free and go no contact, but oh, the amazing healing since that time! May you have the insight you need to see truth, the wisdom to know the next right action to take, the courage you need to take that action, and the strength to stick to your boundaries. May you be safe. May you be well. May you live in peace. You are SO not alone!! 🤗

[@aneliadraganova3504]

❤❤❤

[@dawne2443]

This is my second tapping session with you in 48 hours and I, who have been aware of tapping for 10 years but avoided it for some reason, can actually finally feel a very positive and immediate shift. I believe I needed the right teacher and guide to come along. Thank you, Brad. You are helping me to finally change and/or release old pain, after 60 years of accumulation. Blessed be, beautiful soul. 💚🌹🙏🌹💚

[@MISSVERONICA3]

I really needed this tapping and it has really helped. It has created a shift in me and I know I am stronger and can break away from this narcissistic family member. Thank you so much❤❤❤

[@rosebud93]

Yeah! I've been dealing with these types of people since 2000.

[@lajellybeans]

As I was tapping, I remembered the abusive shit that my narcissist dad does to me and I started laughing so hard. I never had that reaction before when tapping. I just started realizing how dumb he actually is 😂

[@aanchalchadda3675]

Proud of you!!

[@aidabagytzhan]

Good afternoon, Mr. Yates! Thank you for being here for the world and people who are on a healing journey. I have never thought that I might deal with a narcissist, but I’ve recently realized that I was raised by them. 24 years I thought that I’m never enough to be loved and that my emotions and feelings are too much.. Now I know what was hurting me and that has nothing to do with me at all. Like you said: ‘Even if they’re sick, it does not mean I can’t recover’. I’m now healing my heart, body, mind and soul with your practices. Thank you for being here for me even if my parents couldn’t do that. I’m not that kind of person who holds on to pain or resentment, I’d rather accept, forgive, let go and heal. And I can love: with real, deep and unconditional love. Thank you for reminding me that! Much love and appreciation ❤❤❤

[@s.e.6616]

Thank you, Brad. My mom had narcissistic tendencies and my sister is a full blown narcissist who has turned all my siblings afainst me and told me I was no longer part of the family. That was 6 years ago. I thought I had accepted it but lately have been thinking about it again and there you were!

[@Colors_in_the_attick]

Namasté ❤ Thank you. So many tears came up during this session. 😢 Feel so much lighter now. 🙏 May you be safe. 🌞🪷

[@ScottBowman1]

BRAD theres something about this one and the emotional manipulation one that seriously reduce me to tears EVERY TIME. It is the single most beneficial medicine I have found for overcoming the loss (well, maybe not loss, but "ending") of a relationship with a true narcissist. Thank you for all that you do, you are an ANGEL and a true legend, your name will ring on for AGES THROUGHOUT TIME you are seriously the next Buddha.

[@sarahwalton2297]

Thank you so much Brad! Naming their illness helps to deflect them trying to put it on me when I try to lovingly speak up for myself ❤ I felt true healing in this having just been exposed to narcissistic behaviour again after being so mindful to choose people in my life that are able to be loving and present and are really feeling their feelings and working through their trauma I made a misjudgment yesterday and ended up stuck in a catch up I didn’t want to be in but I’m moving through what came up for me and forgiving myself ❤

[@claudiafegari5116]

Thank you Brad, your life really makes this planet a better world. Getting out from a 10 years relationship with a narcissist. Working on self-healing now. Thank you for this video it did bring stuff to the surface that needs to be healed and it will be healed.

[@mountainluvr2312]

I cut off contact with a narcissistic mother 3 years ago after 50 years of daily poisoning. I can only control me. The damage, which feels like it is in every cell of my body, requires daily work to recover (or uncover and discover? my lost self).Thank you Brad for this timely video and video was spot on!! ❤️ You are a gem! 🔶

[@eydra1452]

Same after 27 years ! We can heal !

[@mirafilipovic5162]

In most cases the cut off is the only option that can help you to heal and prevent further emotional wounds!

[@katemchardy542]

Thankyou Brad. I have listened to this before re my mother ... but another narcissistis relationship from the past reared its head just yesterday (in a dream) and I realised that the parasitic energy it left behind in my psyche has stayed there all this time! Sucking at me for 17 years! I have done this tapping several times over the last couple of days and I can feel it moving on. It'll take some more and probably some maintenance but what a relief! Thankyou a hundred times over!

[@meganvinson3599]

Thank you! Been appreciating all of your videos and this one is esp appreciated. Was with an abusive narcissist for 14 years. He was physically, emotionally, and financially abusive. We share a son so I'm still in contact with him. He stole everything from me that I loved in my life and I'm working hard on recovery. Thank you, again.

[@lajellybeans]

Wow! That was AMAZING! I totally manifested this! Just last night I was hoping that you would do a video for dealing with narcissists. This is the first EFT sesh that I actually cried. My dad is a malignant narcissist and he is really tough to deal with. My mom is also a covert narcissist. This helped a lot! Thank you!!!

[@susannal27]

Same! I’ve never cried before & I’ve done a lot of EFT. So POWERFUL! 🔥

[@haileykate6420]

Thank you! Just went through bad stuff with a major narcissist! Thank you Brad!

[@musclechic2001]

"Lather, rinse, repeat as necessary" Targeting some residual stuff. Thank you for being a huge part of my healing. 🕉 ❤

[@seidenschnabelfederflugel5441]

I had a narcissistic stepmother and was abandoned by my mom and my dad. No one would comfort me or hug me ever. So one day i gathered all my courage and asked my stepmother why she would never hug me and she answered that no one wants to hug a cyclone fence. That was so traumatic for me because i was terrified to ask her in the first place because she was horrible and abusive and than i was once again left alone. Thanks for the tapping. I'm looking forward to heal from the claws of my past. ♥️

[@MarkAri961]

Brad…. Over the past 10 years you have been a God send. Thank you …. Like a hand guiding back to light .Happy New Year 🙏

[@Kathleensophiacitrine888]

Thank you for this important healing video Brad. This was very helpful. I have so much appreciation for all of your work and all of your generous sharing with us. It is a true divine blessing. I've been learning through my ongoing cycling of pain, back 'injuries', quest for healing and homeostasis, and releasing layer by by layer over the years that TMS (John Sarno, MD) is a factor, and for me, has been since I was young. I know that all is energy and emotional states trigger physical states as they are one, but really coming into focus for me now is suppression which feels trickier, specifically, *suppressed* rage and anger (including at the self as well, especially for HSPs and former scapegoats) from abuse and eventual self-betrayals, which is what leads to the chronic tension and anxiety states (as does CPTSD in general, but focus is on suppressed rage/anger here). This in turn creates oxygen deprivation to the muscles, nerves, ligaments, tendons creating the pain and dysfunction throughout the postural muscles; and essentially chronic fight/flight/freeze responses and corrosive adrenalized states. All of this to say, I would be so grateful if you could do a video on *releasing suppressed anger and rage* for those of us who can't fully access it unless somehow specifically triggered (which is likely in many cases a projection of the root of the abuse), and even then, it feels so terrible having the anger and is not getting the roots. There are so many layers to healing CPTSD and narcissistic abuse syndrome, but I do think the suppression factor is really big, especially for those of us with TMS or whatever you want to call the chronic cycling pain that adversely impacts vitality and life force and distracts missions. This suppressed rage and anger also adversely impacts the liver and creates too much heat, creating nighttime awakenings and impacting quality sleep. I think much of this suppressed anger and rage gets improperly directed at the self in many instances and I have experienced this as well. Perhaps much of the chronic cycling 'depression' I've experienced is truly suppressed and misdirected anger and rage internalized, as well as its impact to the adrenals from over adrenalized chronic states.

[@ravenewby7538]

❤❤❤wow, thank you Brad. A lifetime of always choosing narcissistic abuse men led me to physical emotional and mental abuse. I'm new to tapping and this concept but after needing treatment and finding it hard to overcome agoraphobia, and a lack of self esteem and searing for help for lack of wanting to see a psychiatrist and be given a label I have found your work Brad and I can only say thank you to being an answer to many tearful prayers. God bless, keep and prosper you. Thank you

[@daniellestaley9432]

So appreciative this came up in my feed. I found another one of yours this morning - I believe the title was ‘healing trauma from the body - I was having anxiety attack when I first awoke and my usual parader and meditation was not settling me down and I did you video and it literally changed the course of my entire day. Purposely typed in ‘tapping to heal from the trauma bond’ and was so grateful this turned up. I’m 9 months out of the relationship and today was the first day that I REALLY got the depth of the manipulation and the abuse and it just filled me with so much loathing and anger and hatred… it’s been such a energy drain, this going in and out of healing and longing and wondering and recovering… I had tears streaming down my face as I did this and instantly felt better. Thank you so for this video: I feel like I’ll sleep well tonight.

[@elisaferzacca1775]

That was great, as all your videos are. I am a few months in to tapping and it has been the missing link for me in terms of why therapy, positive thinking, etc. hasn't worked as well as it should. With tapping, and especially the deeper issues that you cover Brad, I am finally able to process the remnants and effects of my awful childhood up and out. So many of the "spiritual" groups and movements, and even some of my therapists, did not allow the negative/truth. There is a fear/panic about expressing "negativity" in many new age and spiritual circles. There is a superstitious belief that if you think something negative, you draw it to you. The problem is that so much of our thoughts and beliefs exist on a subconscious level. You can say all the positive things you want on the outside but if you are harboring the opposite on a subconscious level, it won't work. Tapping allows us to be where we are-to feel what we do-to think what we think on both a conscious and subconscious level for the purposes of moving past the limiting and painful. At 65 with 50 years of being on a healing path, Tapping has put it all together for me...Brad, you are a part of that! I love that you address so many deep issues with an air of lightness and humor without minimizing the issue. Thank you!

[@dianaperez4557]

Only did this once but plan on doing it daily.... the narcissist interrupted the session by entering the room as I was doing this.... but glad I was able to complete it in peace. Thank you :)

[@PH_1964]

Thank you so much Brad. This appeared minutes after I prayed to overcome PTSD from my Narcissistic Psychopathic ex. It's affected me daily for 5 torturous years. You are amazing; so calming and I believe you have a gift 🤗💖

[@isabelinidad]

This one hits hard today. Once again, you're the savior on my healing journey, which hasn't been easy, but i feel better more and more. I hope you're very well.

[@resurrectionvictor8816]

I had been hoping you'd touch on this since I discovered you. Thank you soooooo much. If ever you do a program on this like your other stuff - MBB, TAGR, FRTF, etc l. I'd be the first one to get em and also purchase more copies for some people close to me. Thank you again Brad . Thank you thank you

[@aanchalchadda3675]

I have cried so so much from this today, and I thank you for helping guide me to free myself from narcissism. Thank you for everything

[@annavie5820]

Oh be blessed... my parents, former friends and current colleagues of mine are narcissists... I look forward to heal and thrive. I am on sick leave and really needed this !! Blessings blessings blessings to you

[@brettdelarosa7083]

I'm also healing with self love as practice not overnight you know. Made my painful life lessons and now I'm priority one as I'm healing and evolving too.

[@aanchalchadda3675]

You have no idea how much this is helping me. Thank you for supporting me

[@tigerkeats6379]

Oh thank you so much for this - my Narcissistic bully big sister has been impacting my life in such an unhealthy, harmful way, it’s been hard to rise above it. We are currently involved in a grubby legal dispute because of her behaviour/ illness /obsessive avarice and I need all the help and resources I can get to make it to the other side on one piece. Will be doing this daily. Narcissism is the worst!!

[@Kswift47]

Thank you for the tapping on narcissism video. My personal history is extremely long with narcs, and I am thrilled that I found your channel this evening when I was asking the universe for a message. I was heard and extremely grateful.

[@claudiacivico-ingram6859]

I cannot express my thanks for these videos, time and time again you come to the rescue. A thousand times, thank you.

[@tina7458]

Wow! Brad, just what I needed today! The past week has been a whirlwind for me as I've been dealing with some narcissist fallout. I was so angry this weekend and was having trouble coping. Getting this in my email today, I smiled and thanked God for sending me what I needed. I was calmer after a (finally) good night's sleep but I knew that my overthinking mind would still want answers or at least an apology for starters. I know, don't expect closure from people who are incapable of empathizing. Anyway, thanks Brad. You are a blessing!

[@mariarerych]

Thank you so much Brad. You are a gift to this world. 💖

[@legendsword7]

This is my first experience with tapping after my therapist recommended it. (Specifically your channel, Brad!) I was surprised how the motion reinforced the sense of healing. I felt both release from the trauma of the narc's treatment of me and deep compassion for their pain which they can't handle at the same time.

[@natachamusser]

As I am doing this, the phrase: "you like it or not, you have to do it", came to my mind. The kind that has negative and threatening tone. It would create fear, and a whole array of other emotions that seem unsurmountable to overcome.

[@Georgia275]

Dealing with very hurtful behaviour by my brother. Keeps me awake at night, wondering what he'll do next. This video helps a lot. Thanks, Brad.

[@uzmayousuf8684]

Thank you so much for this video. All my life, i was surrounded by narcissists and manipulators who made me feel small and told me I'm not good enough! After 13 years, i still suffer from the pain.

[@andreastofa7464]

Thank you from 2023 🙏🏻🥰💗

[@anakaia9021]

Hi dear Brad, this is for our french crazy president today ! Thank you & Love from here

[@triciamoran4996]

I have had a few narcissistic people in my Life & finding & doing this EFT Tapping sequence has made me realize just How much Trauma I still have & Need to heal from. This tapping sequence definitely got me started on the Right track. I Love Everything that you do Brad & as an EFT Tapping Practitioner myself, you're definitely my Go To Guy for All things Tapping & more. 🥰

[@erockfreedom1727]

Thank you so much for this, Brad. I have been wounded by severe narcissistic abuse in childhood, and in present time reality, from the very people who were supposed to (and told me that) they loved me. Thank you for this healing experience. I know it is a process and 8 am ready for it. I am educating myself everyday on what this is, so I can heal myself, let them go, and not continue to react or try to communicate sincerely with them. I walk away and I walk away faster. I don't respond, and feel less guilt for they. This was not personal. These are profoundly sick people, and maybe someday I'll be able to forgive them, with time, self love and distance. I am focusing on my Self more and more, getting to know who i am. ❤💛💜🙏

[@bohochica]

thank you, exactly what i needed

[@janineatkinson9042]

THANK YOU!! I was hoping one day there'd be a tapping video for narcissism, this helps so much!!! Tap with Brad for the win, yet again!

[@mishkameow]

I will probably have to LRR on this one for the rest of my life and I'm happy to have this tool in my toolbox now! I'm so appreciative of how timely your videos often are for me personally and how skillfully you respond to what people seem to be expressing collectively.

[@machellecron5786]

With tears of relief in my eyes I am sending you many thank you’s!!! 💫

[@LALALA-k9o]

Another great tapping session the nailed it right on the head. I checked out some other folks on KZbin that do tapping videos. Their energy was so scattered and stressed out that it took away all therapeutic potential. I was more stressed out than I was helped. It’s important for the one leading the tapping session to have it together. You are coming from a regulated and grounded space, which is also part of why these tapping sessions that you do are so helpful. Not everyone should be allowed to post videos leading tapping sessions like this. I would recommend to others to take this into account. I felt so ungrounded when I watched a woman tapping on another channel. She was filled with anxiety, tapping really hard and fast, and she was completely ungrounded. She was filled with stress and it was contagious. I felt worse than when I had started. I always feel better than when I first started after one of your videos, Brad. Thank you for that.

[@tapwithbrad]

Thank you. I'm sorry you had a bad response to another video. Different strokes for different folks. My way of tapping won't be right for everyone - that's why I remind folks to take responsibility for their own well-being. Just like there are some musicians out there that I can't listen to, but they are someone else's favorite artist. Although I do agree that when entering into any field - especially a therapeutic one - folks need to be as thoughtful as possible. I'm sure that person had the best of intentions when posting that video - and it might be exactly right for someone else. I'm glad to know that my videos are helpful for you. 😊

[@oliviagates4499]

My goodness, I've never cried and yawned so much doing eft before ! Thank you Brad, you're such a blessing ♥️

[@beachcoffee9]

Thank you, Brad you have been my friend these past weeks. But this video actually removed the ache from my breast cyst. Thank you. Will do your course, I am sure it will assist in speeding up my healing. You have the words I feel inside. Thank you.

[@mirafilipovic5162]

Narcissists are not able to heal; they are even not able to realize and accept that they have a disorder! But the damaged ones by them certainly would be able to heal over time. Thank you for this great tapping session!!!

[@Freedom-2BME]

Powerful & emotional letting go.. it hit me too though how I feel so empathetic to their illness that I stayed hoping my staying would help heal them 😢 …it’s been a big cost to my own health

[@rajishdesigner]

You are my Guru... Gu-darkness, Ru- Light.. You lead me from Darkness to Light.. I bow down to you after each video ends .🙏 Om santi..

[@shubhangikamble7019]

I cried alot while doing this tapping thank you Brad yates❤

[@reikijo3timesacharm276]

Thank you so much. Very needed. I have patterns around allowing narcissists into my life and will continue this tapping through each of them. I will continue to learn my lessons and grow. Much love Brad 💖

[@KRDCM]

I just returned from a visit with my 92-yr-old narcissistic dad. This video helped keep me from going down the post-visit depression rabbit hole. Thanks for all you do, Brad.💕I’m so grateful for you.

[@belindabow1345]

You are truly an incredible human Brad. I agree with another subscribers post, it seems as though your posts pop up at just the right time. Thank you 🙏

[@fionam3735]

This has me sobbing. The damage they do runs so deep. Parents in the past and soon to be ex husband in the here and now. They have ganged up and between them have destroyed my character and took whatever they could, there even after my kids. The kids and I have been homeless and I still feel helpless against there relentless hatred towards me. The law does not recognise this and there charm fools many officials. Most people want to be on the winning side and in real life that tends to be the bullies. So help me god 🙏

[@dilysbrown5988]

Brad as a sufferer of narcissistic behavior from a partner this really helped. I thank you and God Bless. Dilys Brown

[@webdoar]

Thank you very much God bless you

[@lovekaiya_lovekaiya]

thank you brad - going to practice every day for a whole month

[@denali1122]

Thanks Brad. It's been an eye-opening and painful journey, but I can see the light peeking in now. 🙏

[@Zeitics]

Still living with a narc mother… thank you

[@annadrawsnow]

Thank you Brad! Your tapping is helping me to release all these toxic emotions and come to myself! 🧡

[@regcook6209]

Yet again Brad, you got me crying and yawning! Thank you so much ❤

[@nicolatomlin8370]

Thank you brad. This came at right time 4 years ago I was discarded by a former spouse who discarded me. I also believe a female friend is one too. I need use this regularly. Can you do more

[@carolinavergara5710]

Thank you Brad for having this channel many of your tappings have helped me so much in my heeling journey and this one in specific is helping a lot to release all the childhood trauma from my mom's behaviour that has caused me so much pain. Thank you! many blessings to you.

[@Golipillas]

Thank you very much for your videos Brad I discovered EFT Tapping thanks to you and it's been nothing short of a life saver, thank you!!!

[@suescape]

Just did this tapping now and wow! was it ever right on!! Felt so helpful today every word resonated!! Indeed for me there's a lot of shame knowing that I even had sensed the situation I got into was not healthy and though I've tried to laugh it off - I need much more than that.

[@charlottev5478]

Thank you for the video on this important topic of narcissism. I am so grateful for this powerful tool. I grew up with two narcissist and mental illness. Bless you Brad, for your generosity and commitment to support others on their healing journey.

[@girlontheeast]

Thank you, Brad, for doing all this for us. I have been dealing with narcistic people throughout my life and mostly of them were and are part of my closest family. I was always trying to help, because i know that attacks are just calls for help, but you can't help the person who doesn't want to change. This video is helping me to forgive to parts of myself who still think its my fault... So i want to thank you for your beautiful healing energy.

[@Emma-km4mz]

Oh my gosh I cried so much through that. I was in a relationship with a Narcissist for 12 years and we had children together. I am still trying to find myself again

[@heartnaturewithdawn3256]

I am so grateful for your tapping videos. I shared two this afternoon with my daughter struggling with resisting doing math and feeling lazy. Then I got triggered by being silenced by someone I deeply love--and found this video. I truly needed it and am so grateful. Thank you for all you do and offer, you make a difference every day.

[@Harmony33-3]

Thank you for your healing through these video's. Really felt a wonderful shift: Learning to and / or remembering to view the narcissistic people in my life as being sick and unhealed and therefore not to take things so personally when they act out in that way is really helpful as also is keeping healthy boundaries going forth as an act of loving and taking care of myself. I also loved the part to ask that they too can be healed.I actually feel peaceful, sad, but peaceful and that's ok. Going to look up one of your other video's to help me release that too. What an amazing God send, may you continue to be blessed.🙏💗

[@amaya8003]

wow when you said i am/was worthy of love but their sickness prevented me from being given that... that was a breakthrough

[@ashm989]

I didn’t realize how much I needed this. I didn’t feel relief after one go. I will need to visit this video often.

[@amyleblanc8931]

Me too!