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[@sambam9129]

They think people with empathy and feelings are weak.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

LMAO...It's actually them that are weak

[@marsha04053]

My ex already learn me real quick. I stood up to him and he was in shock. 🤣🤣

[@sambam9129]

@@BAKER22-l4u we are actually really strong for showing our vulnerabilities

[@lizendres8144]

We are.not weak. We evolve.

[@sambam9129]

@@lizendres8144 we are extremely strong. Unfortunately abuse has evolved too. Now they don’t leave any bruises, it’s on the inside

[@michelleephriamdalyce4178]

I break every demonic chain against the narcissist! I never want to go thru this again😭

[@callumhaigh8233]

They’re never done with anyone not even the old supply

[@lizendres8144]

They are. Oh, they are but only when you say they are.

[@callumhaigh8233]

@@lizendres8144 I understand you but that doesn’t stop them. To the narcissist, they see us as property. Even when we say enough is enough, it’s not enough for them. They have to keep us around at all costs

[@kwamenyantakyi8398]

Keep us around for what?

[@callumhaigh8233]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 for back up supply

[@Moonstruck212]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 he cannot ever keep me around ever again. Period. Ended that nightmare.

[@ryans6699]

Going on a vacation with a narc is total hell. Planning on having a good time? Forget about it😂

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

💯🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯

[@andy-uv1vj]

they’re never done and just because they go quiet doesn’t it mean they’re done they’re always observing and waiting it’s terrifying

[@blessedandchoosen9992]

Trust god

[@M0-nique]

I didn't know i was with a narcissist till after. I cut him off by blocking him before changing my number. He's now stalking, calling and harassing the man who has my old #. I found out recently this was happening and called my old#. It's a man and he thinks this man is my lover. He says he's been calling since he got my old#. It's so creepy I have a gross feeling inside. Any advice for me??

[@theforensicbadass]

It is terrifying. Some of us are lucky to be alive. Pychopaths are so different from the garden variety narc. And I'm not minimizing anyone's experience w the standard narc in any way. My heart is w you for your suffering. But not all narcs are psychopaths. And ALL psychopaths are narcs. They are killers. They are cognitive. And our survival is nothing different from a big screen horror film w sequels. They want to kill us. Literally. It's covert Machiavellian on steroids escaping a psychopath narc. Chris Watts wuld be a perfect example of what we survivors of a.psychopath deal w but we lived amd they didn't get prosecuted. Even the ones who did go to jail de axes later come for their survivors to ruin or kill them.

[@theforensicbadass]

@@M0-nique yes. Get a completely new phone number. Change all ur emails. Close ur social media. Get far away from people like that. Your life is your priority. Not wondering if someone w extremely disturbing behavior is safe or not.

[@M0-nique]

@@theforensicbadass I did move and I found out he's in jail. Thanks for the advise. Idk if he's a psychopath but he's definitely a Narc. I thought I was such a good judge of character. I think all the love bombing really sucked me in. But to be fair I didn't know what a Narc was until I looked more into it. He checked everything off the list lol. So glad there's a community where there is support.

[@queenanna1077]

The narc is never done with you, ESPECIALLY if they didn't DESTROY You!

[@sambam9129]

@Queen Anna Really? I think he would be too scared to talk to me now. I know what he is.

[@queenanna1077]

@@sambam9129 NEVER UNDERESTIMATE A DEMON! 👹

[@sambam9129]

@@queenanna1077 thank you! I be like Clint Eastwood” you feeling lucky punk?Lol

[@themarro6695]

@@queenanna1077 Hello Queen 👸🏽 Anna, So true! You are right! Never underestimate a demon. Do take care 💝

[@queenanna1077]

@@themarro6695 HELLO, QUEENIE! Likewise.👑 🤗💙🙌🏿😗

[@taylorheidi39]

You said something. You said they will do whatever they can to push your buttons to get a reaction from you. That's exactly right. And they play on your insecurities to do it so they can act like you're the crazy one and then they can play the part of the victim. I can't tell you how glad I am to be out of that mess. It was pure hell and torture for me. Thank you for this.

[@angelwings2721]

Life with a Narc is the most bizarre illusion. Greatest producers of confusion.

[@taylorheidi39]

@@angelwings2721 yes!

[@Moonstruck212]

Torture not to be able to share special moments and intimacy..nope NOTHING like in the Lovebomb

[@LG-zy9dp]

Freedom from the narc is priceless 🥂 pure joy 🤸🏽‍♀️

[@themarro6695]

Being with the Narc was so DRAINING and tiring. I always had to be careful of what I said as he would turn it into an argument.

[@queenanna1077]

💯💯💯

[@queenanna1077]

Stay sweet, beautiful QUEEN! 👑🌹👑🌹😗

[@deew7014]

Same ah freedom from them is truly a blessing

[@themarro6695]

@@queenanna1077 Thank you dearest Queen 👸🏽 Anna. Remain beautiful and blessed ❤️

[@themarro6695]

@@deew7014 Totally 💯! You are no longer worried they are going to get angry for no reason. Beware there are still more Narcs out there Debbie. Be safe 🤗

[@barnetthejosh]

Don’t let your loyalty, keep you in situations your common sense should have got you out of.

[@stuarttacey]

I noticed during holidays and birthdays she would create havoc with arguments out of nothing.

[@angelwings2721]

Yea. It seems it's a mission of theirs to ruin every holiday and special occasion.

[@katybrooke0724]

I noticed that also... and even got to where it was something every weekend. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Rachel-wh1qv]

yup 100% always managed to ruin my time with my family on holidays and special occasions with zero regard.

[@angelwings2721]

@@Rachel-wh1qv Yes. Every birthday. Every Christmas. Every Easter. Halloween. It didn't matter what the occasion was. If it was something to celebrate or meant anything special to me. Even my sobriety date celebration. My kids birthdays too. Our anniversary. Valentines Day. I either got beat up on these occasions, sometimes extreme violence. Or he would disappear and be a no show. Or he would show up but be mean and miserable with no gifts or card or anything for me or the kids. Or he would steal the gifts and sell for drugs. 3 years of that crap. I dont know why I stayed and put up with that hell and torment so long. I'm grateful for my 2 children I got from that relationship. It literally was hell on earth though.

[@angelwings2721]

@@katybrooke0724 Yes. And every pay day of theirs. Conveniently enough for him. He picked a fight and took off every payday .

[@andreaakachocolatedimples5457]

I’ve known him for 20 years. I believe wholeheartedly he has NPD. I just realized over the last few years that I was in a Narcissistic cycle. I experienced the Love bomb, devalue and discard for years but wasn’t aware. I was made to feel like I was the problem. My trauma bond is almost completely broken 🙏🏿👏🏾

[@lizendres8144]

Empaths know. I am sure beautiful soul, you have always known. Just could not put your finger on it.

[@andreaakachocolatedimples5457]

@@lizendres8144 you are right. I just couldn’t put my finger on it!

[@annd1411]

Great! Keep working on breaking that bond! Seek us out for support! You deserve respect and happiness. God wants that for us!

[@liandrairons]

wonderful I wish u full recovery and pray that you get all of your blessings that was being held back beautiful queen xxx

[@andreaakachocolatedimples5457]

@@liandrairons thank you 🙏🏾

[@marsha04053]

I found me an honest and the most loving man that is the real one. 🥰🥰🥰

[@hazeleyes2381]

Happy for you! Cannot wait to be blessed with same.

[@marsha04053]

@@hazeleyes2381 I thought I found a good one. Come to find out hes the jealous type and controlling. That was a red flag there. So im on no contact with him and I got transferred to another store to get away from him💔

[@hazeleyes2381]

@@marsha04053 I'm so sorry to hear. But I'm glad now we are equipped to see the red flags and get out early.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

It took me 8 years of marriage, but I finally saw the narcissist for who she was and will NEVER go back!! She's PURE EVIL!!

[@marchalandy3545]

Exactly same here

[@LookUpRedemption]

Enjoy the peace! No more driving home super slow bc of the drama waiting on the other side of the door, soul draining!

[@hazeleyes2381]

It took me 24 years to under stand that I was married to an evil entity.

[@donnareed6559]

@@hazeleyes2381 13 for me...,

[@MrsB7491]

The sad part is.... they always comeback.. They're just like pesky insects!!

[@pamelabassmarsh5262]

Buzz BUZZZZ!!!

[@judybw706]

Marc’s make money? Nah, they spend all the money theirs and yours.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

ALL Kinds - You haven't even touched the iceberg

[@christym1688]

Some are wealthy and use money to control and manipulate, especially the very weak and materialistic minded Bs.

[@toheartosee]

wow very true summary. My mom didn't make money for the last 16 years. She loves to spend all my dad's money. After their divorce, she replied on me to give her all the money to spend. After I started to set boundary in the last two years, she will guilt trip me and say nasty words about me that I abandon her which is absolutely not true. Because I pay her entire mortgage she doesn't have money to pay, and still give her other money to support her.

[@AV-fx8kv]

Everytime the narc would say all they want is "peace" which I realize really means I want u to stay quiet or forgive and forget whatever I do wrong to u or lie about. Just like me and all the exes they say nobody gave them peace and everyone gives them peace until we open our mouths to defend ourselves by calling them out.

[@tellnolies8530]

He’s been quiet 🤫 now!! But I know him , we’ve been doing this for years, he’s watching👀 and waiting to go in for the kill!!

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

Oh they're coming back alright...like the 17-year Cicadas.

[@teresacotton7923]

Lol, just like an insect that lives in the dirt.

[@TheMar0115]

🤣

[@mybelle6665]

Not if you break all contact.

[@slestage5725]

Yes😂🤦🏻‍♀️

[@pennydavis476]

The narcissist will never be done with anyone who rejected them. Best advice you’ll ever get is to block them. Dave was absolutely right in the very beginning of his videos. It worked for me. I was Mrs.B for a year and now I’m Mrs.A to the T. The narcissist has tried to contact my family to no end and they want nothing to do with him. They see in me the damage he did. Please move forwards and recover from the injury. Everyone, have a safe 4 th of July and be blessed if you moved on.

[@williamheinsinger7390]

Almost 3 years of Piece and Quiet, I'm Narc REPELLENT 😁💪

[@deew7014]

Narcs are not fixable period .

[@deborahwhelan278]

I remember that in 2015 ,we were going to spend Christmas together had all these plans. Then supposedly he was deathly ill with the flu and told me I should stay away until he felt better. The day after Christmas I went to go check on him and he was nowhere to be found. When he finally did answer his phone he said he was away helping a friend with a car but he would never tell me who the friend was . I stated to him that he sure got over the flu very quickly after just 24 hours earlier telling me how deathly ill he was . He got very upset at me accused me of not believing him . He was also making many comments like ( what you don't trust me) and the entire time we were arguing I kept asking him who was this friend he was supposedly off spending time with helping them with their car he would never tell me, I knew in my gut it was another woman.

[@laurenribaudo5940]

1AQ1QAQQQQ

[@katieguillaume4298]

Mine told me one night he was deathly ill. He told me NOT to cone over well...j had intuition and showed up at 6 am. Door was unlocked and without preparing myself. I opened his bedroom door and in his bed embraced with another woman naked both were. I almost threw up. I had a panic attack. He never acknowledged the incedent...then later told me k was lying I didnt sed anything. Lol

[@deborahwhelan278]

@@katieguillaume4298 Oh sorry you went to that abuse when I actually caught my ex narc with another woman on a date, he denied everything that night told me I was imagining things

[@AV-fx8kv]

@@katieguillaume4298 omg girl lol that's so awful I would have a severe panic attack and puke too. I would still have ptsd flashbacks . I got to the point where I got scared to continue opening that door afraid of what's behind it. Scared of finding out more

[@AV-fx8kv]

@@deborahwhelan278 yes I've also went through things and the narc was like oh that never happened. It's more alarming how they laugh or are either so calm when they said it never happened or "no that's not right, idk what you're talking about"

[@cazking5903]

They can't relax, they are like a rat on a wheel. My ex narc was constantly busy. I couldn't relax either, due to the eggshells.

[@EButta71]

Thank you for these videos Dave. I'm 8 weeks NC...rejected a hoover 2 weeks ago. I'm struggling but I'm also realizing that I'm stronger than I ever realized.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

You are courageous!

[@EButta71]

@@Narcologyunscripted thank you💫

[@avannagirltv9898]

Good job..🙏🏾

[@lendrury2771]

You mentioned that they're never at peace and it brought a reflection to me that I always thought was strange. She would never sit on the couch with me in the living room and just relax . Every time I suggested watching a movie or a TV show and simply just chilling out she would always jump up a couple minutes into the movie and begin to do things in the kitchen or in the living room. She could never sit still

[@Christinek777]

Absolutely! Thanks, Dave. I'm so happy I'm done with that crap. Been no contact for a long time now. These videos help keep me strong. These empty people are everywhere.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Great to hear!

[@thecarpenter2599]

When my girlfriend was yelling at me about ridiculous things, I could see that she just had no peace in her. But I asked her is there anything that you could do to help you find peace. She responded... Peace? No peace. It reminded me of the movie Independence Day when the President asked the alien if there was a chance for peace and the alien said Peace? No peace. It was true. She had no desire for peace, and she proceeded with the torment.

[@TheBeautifullife04]

Damn

[@slestage5725]

Yep, now that I am healed, I honestly don’t know why I took him back so many times or why anyone else does either.

[@CoffeecupCV]

Wow everything you say is so right on. The manipulation, being called a disease, the sudden accusatory and defense mode when nothing has happened...i have actually been left on the hwy to walk 2 hours home because of such an incident.... now, a month with no contact and i dread that moment if it happens. I know there is a new supply. I can feel it. But she wont last, just as i didnt and his first wife didn't either. Such a sad mess. Mine lies about not being on social media but simply changes names. It was all hidden from me until after wedding day.

[@Moonstruck212]

At least you have that border buffer but I want you to be free & Safe!

[@CoffeecupCV]

@@Moonstruck212 i did get that shit marriage. And am still in it. Border closure is giving me a reprieve right now.

[@jelenaninic3787]

Blessed the Lord who is in the heaven! Thank You Jesus for your great sacrifice! Thank for your blod! Thank You Holly spirit for washing and cleansing us!!! Thank You GOD

[@loriwhalen2321]

Great video Dave! This is so true. Even on lovely vacations with my ex narc, he would destroy the happiness we could have had. I would suddenly become triangulated, or he would start singing a song out loud about beautiful women or wanting to be with a past girlfriend. He knew exactly how to push my buttons. I'm so laid back, but more than once I warned him while on vacation that he would need to sleep on the beach and go hungry if he picked another fight with me. It was toxic. Since I was the only one who worked and paid for everything, you would think he would be thankful, but nope. I'm glad to be away from him. Loneliness is better than what I used to deal with.

[@robertapfau2355]

So right about the egg shells!

[@queenanna1077]

HAPPY SATURDAY EVERYONE! 💜

[@charlotteframboise9971]

So true! I tried everything to become the cure, the healing agent, the love that could make him human…but they just aren’t able to be human…it’s not in them…it’s just not there to discover or free.

[@salonsavy6476]

Awesome Dave !,, so on point!,. The narc would walk away from me in shopping malls and I could never find him !,, the angrier I got , the more he smirked!,,, how diabolical!

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thank You!

[@micheleb9104]

Mine would do the same thing we would be walking in a crowd and then suddenly he would disappear I would turn to look for him like where the F did he go and there he was the wack job standing off the side looking at me with a smirk on his face getting his rocks off . Sick bastard he truly was . They are Diabolical for sure !

[@jaedavis6835]

I had the same type of experience every time we went shopping together: the disappearing act!

[@LookUpRedemption]

Had same deal, he strolled up about a half hour later. I told him im never gonna go shop with him again. He said..good! Depressing head games, draining misery. NC & life is way better. And now I love shopping again! Fresh life! God is good!

[@twostepsister]

The narc used to walk 10 paces ahead and disappear too, my theory is he had spotted a side piece and was avoiding being seen with me!

[@jackieg9703]

You make a very important point about understanding the difference between someone with narcissistic traits and a person with actual narcissistic personality disorder. It is important to be able to distinguish between the two. Before my relationship with a person with NPD, I was familiar with narcissism and narcissistic traits, but had no real knowledge or understanding of narcissistic personality disorder or the narcissistic abuse cycle. I often wonder if I would have escaped the situation had I been aware beforehand, which is why it's so important for people to fully understand this typically covert disorder and spellbinding, insidious abuse cycle. You are doing important work. Thank you:)

[@katybrooke0724]

🙌 facts.

[@jackieg9703]

@@dubliner1303 no, not at all. They are still toxic people and need to be avoided at all costs. It's just those interactions are not going to have the same impact as being in a relationship with someone with NPD and being put through the cycle of narcissistic abuse. That's just my opinion, anyway:)

[@rosebeard2866]

They play on empath's because they have good hearts💖

[@MsDorrielynn]

You're absolutely right. 25 years of chaos and entanglement. I've been free for 4 years🤗🥳 and working on my co-dependancy....Im much more happy and peaceful!!! Now I know "PEACE IS PRICELESS" Thank You For Your videos, they really help me. I have to co-parent with him

[@lizendres8144]

I have a protective order. He has left me alone and honored it.

[@sambam9129]

@Liz Endres Don’t you have to go to court to get one of those? Wouldn’t they just lie?

[@lendrury2771]

@@sambam9129 i too have a 3 year restraining order against the female narcissist I spent 4 years with . Yes I had a couple court appearances and yes her whole statement was all lies but my attorney and I had proof to disprove her lies and the court granted my restraining order. So far it hasn't been broken and she hasn't tried to contact me and that was just about a year ago

[@sambam9129]

@@lendrury2771 that’s great, well done! I may make some enquires just in case. Tricky when it’s all psychological.

[@lizendres8144]

I used to be be a Police officer and 11 yr. Vet. I got smart. Last few years with the thing, I recorded everything. The cheating, lies and all I could get on him. Judge granted my Order based on evidence and he never showed up for court.

[@lendrury2771]

@@lizendres8144 same here liz . The final hearing she was nowhere to be found Even authorities couldn't locate her

[@breakthrough1019]

Dave the mountain of eggshells .. good riddance .. GOD LOVES ME FROM PULLING ME OUT OF THAT MONSTER .. self love

[@lightyagamii777]

They have fake ACCOUNTS with fake NAMES and PICTURES

[@elainaeatsglitter]

Keep em coming, Dave!! Needed this today 🙏🏻👑

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Will do!!

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Dave! It is initially shocking that the narc can claim to be totally committed in love and suddenly be so vicious and cruel. Then, we see that they are the child of the Most Low Satan.

[@KM-qk9yw]

Needed to hear this today!!!! 😩 The trauma bond is still there! I need it to go!

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Yes you do

[@HellasGD88]

100%! he was never happy always causing mayhem , suffered him and his narc mother for 25 yrs ! he left 7 yrs ago my home is so peaceful as are my kids, he remarried after he abandoned us.

[@GaryPotocki82]

They are done when you take a stand for yourself and speak it out of existence

[@Jl-ou4jt]

I admire Dave for turning his trauma into a wonderful gift.

[@ladydee156]

Yes I lost everything

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Sorry to hear that:(

[@SandriaGuest]

You’re going to be surprised how quickly you get back on your feet. It will happen.

[@queenanna1077]

You didn't lose your life, that is what the narc wanted. Now you can tell your story and help others. ☺

[@PutTheGlassesOn...]

I can relate, and there's nothing anyone can say/do to remove the pain or the memories. But life is so much better without being attached to an evil turd, and along with the wisdom we have to share , we'll have the ability to love on a deeper level than before. I hope you heal completely and find true love peace joy in your new world. God bless

[@gailyhanna510]

I'm definitely looking for the signs of narcissism in anyone I encounter from now on. This has been one of the hardest lessons of my life, and I'm damn sure not repeating it, again. If we pay attention to red flags and acknowledge them right away, we can avoid many of these types of situations❤

[@marydegrate3823]

They're nuts!

[@TheMar0115]

“You didn't see what you just saw. “ 🤣 My ex-narc had 100% NPD.

[@dawnosmond3240]

So much truth in what you speak. Thank you for you

[@irenerizza9580]

Thank you Dave ... its been no contact for 9 months. I am happy on my own and finding myself again 🙏🙏🙏

[@Rachel-wh1qv]

thank you so much for including talk about God and the devil!! so true!! blessings to you@HG!!

[@Rachel-wh1qv]

oops! lol

[@Rachel-wh1qv]

thank you @narc ology! ive been watching multiple videos... please forgive me!! :O

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Any time!

[@rsbrinkman9168]

Two types of people in the world , those that seek the truth , and those that choose not to know it . The fool says there is no God. Or I am God, or I have a God of my own understanding . Does not matter which all them serve the fool that despises instruction , and has only contempt for wisdom . They are only out to destroy . In Satan's desire to be like God , He became the opposite . So to does the narcissist . Had a narcissist say to me one day , I am a bad person , yes yes you are I agreed . I know the truth , not one of us have anything good in our flesh , not one . If not for the Love of Jesus , and the Holy spirit we are all wretched . This wasn't what the narcissist wanted to hear .

[@samlemmie7045]

I finally have closure. And it is knowing that I need to discern better and say no and not be a people pleaser to all. Also I need to not open up to "strangers". All the best - Samie Lemmike

[@andig2218]

I’ve been rewatching videos lately pending court. I don’t think of him other than trash, and how embarrassing…. I have nothing for him, don’t love him, don’t hate him, I have nothing for him, but could use some court prep.

[@kerryannmoor5908]

Rebecca Zung offers free help. She s on KZbin and she s a divorce attorney.

[@andig2218]

@@kerryannmoor5908 I’ve been following her thank you, I’ll check some more. I just don’t want to get goofed up with word salad.

[@Rachel-wh1qv]

stay strong and have faith!!

[@nells1971]

"Mountain of eggshells". That is a very good description.

[@rachaelcourtney1980]

Pure hell. An absolute nightmare

[@livingfree7153]

20 YEARS WITH MINE!!!!! 😡

[@theresa9365]

Perfect ? Never had that moment . Always just around the corner always

[@dimethaltryptamine1]

I've hust had 3 years of hell with one of them. I picked her within a month as a "Cold black-heartd ice freak"! Whicj i said to hr & she went to great lenghts to get me to think i was wrong but i was right. Everythingnyou siad is true in the most toxic relationship i've ever been in & thank god i'm out of it now & do not want her back because I know what she is she hates me for it. However it is all a blessing as i've finally lost all wanting her around me. Even my psychologisy says i'll never have serenity while she's in my life & he's so right as the longer she's been out of my life the more i'm getting back to 'me' where i was before she recruited meto drain what she could out of me. Thanks so much for the upload :D

[@sufor98]

I left April 2017 and have gone ghost, no contact, whatever (don´t answer anything!) even thou he tries. I know he´s with a new woman, can´t feel anything but sorry for her. But Wednesday morning this week I walked out of a store and got into my car and there he was! Standing right beside my car and obviously wanted to talk to me. Guess who´s pressed the pedal to the floor? Two black stripes on the parking and said to myself; Not today Satan!!! :D

[@vibehigh5280]

Whoa!!! 💪 they can't seem to move on. 😅

[@sufor98]

@@vibehigh5280 No, in some sick way they don´t understand "moving on".

[@leilaghodrat]

Omg!!! Dave your so funny. I always laugh at your way of explanation about this evil creatures😂.. lots of love. You found your path. Thank you for everything that your doing to help us.🙏❤️

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thank You

[@dennish3962]

Dave, six months ago, finally after 15 years, we were doing the BEST we had ever done. Got married, and BAM nothing to complain about so she gave me something to ruminate on. Divorce, after two months! Now THAT is a demon.

[@bless746]

They smile, but its all fake. I never understood what was going on, but I knew something was so wrong. It's like he was living in a world by himself. Needed so much attention..he even try to ruin my relationship with my kids..these ppl are wicked, at all levels from hell. Get out and stay out.

[@sandradee6957]

They arent happy on FB. Dont worry. My ex husband always tried to tell me what I saw...

[@christinaholtzclaw2738]

Happy holiday weekend Dave! Hugs. 💕

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Thanks so much Christina, enjoy your 4th of July sweet lady!

[@shawnbarnes6097]

The struggle is real for me everyday.

[@marileelockwood5408]

Dave thankyou so much, I just watched and I really needed this today. Praying God’s blessings for you too Dave. ❤️🔥

[@maryxm1]

I'm Mrs. B. I lived through it for 27 years. ..A nightmare. I'm no contact now for 5 years but he has turned my children, siblings and a few "friends " against me. Pure evil.

[@bmiljak]

Ex narc used to talk about a girl he was interested in long time ago with jealousy and bitter cause she rejected him. I saw him browsing through her FB profile.

[@lizelliott2169]

Yes I was accused of being a CIA op! Frickin A! 🤣😆

[@micheleb9104]

That’s their paranoia good for them they should never have peace of mind for what they inflict on people !!

[@leahj2956]

Mine accused me of 'stalking' the concubine he had lined up right before we got married. I found out he had her lined up after the wedding of course...I also found out the best man knew all along and never told me. He would never spill the beans on who he was with, where he was...I had to become a PI basically to figure it all out. All he gave me was gaslighting and word salads. He moved in with her and her kids 1200 miles away, and I had to find out where he was living to send him divorce papers. He didn't think I'd ever find him to send him divorce papers. He later broke a divorce decree too and moved again, and I found him that time as well to send the papers to threaten another lawsuit. Sucks to be him - he can run, but he can't hide. 🤣🤣🤣

[@lizelliott2169]

@@leahj2956 Omg such frickin snakes!

[@Melissa-HoneyBee]

Is it safe to say, "A Narcissists is drowning in the water of their own soul!"

[@rachaelcourtney1980]

Omg yesss and being told prove it. Prove what you just saw me do. God is good

[@crystalclarity4318]

Woweee! So insightful! Yes they are ‘crazy making’!!

[@cottonflannigan3671]

Lookin' Great, Dave! God Bless You!

[@kymistryw]

He is spot on EVERYTHING he's saying, everything. Never play with a narc, they will destroy your life, yes you'll get your life back together but baby it will take a long time ⌛trust me. I love this channel because he knows what he's talking about.

[@rv1684]

God bless you Dave xx

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Godbless You too RV

[@bridgetharris6867]

Thank you always on point

[@firstlastname84]

Yep. The types of attention they'll take can be repulsive. Any type of attention. They'll go low for it if it gives attention and then blame you for feeling dead inside.

[@tneville1962]

Its the attention...what an epiphany 💜 yes

[@theresa9365]

They say I should be happy with what they give yet when I'm happy that take it away.

[@myadior787]

Let them come!!! I'm going to use the Blood of Jesus Christ to purge them from Satanic influence.

[@annsam2111]

Thanks for the reminder Dave, God bless you 🙏

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Same to you!

[@slimaz1]

This is so true

[@annettedevries7559]

We never made it, a weekend without a fight. Not a little fight. S huge big fight.

[@cw4350]

This narc sends me flowers to my job with just his number after a month after I left him, after he embarrassed me and a month goes by and I send me flowers!!!??? Bc I changed my number a month ago. I hate him but I truly am still healing bc I loved him. And he had me questioning my faith on why did I deserve to even meet him why?! What did I do to deserve this. I loved him so much and he said such nice things but when it was bad it was bad but when it was good it was great. But god knows why and I can’t think of why anymore

[@angelahazel9249]

Same thing with me.

[@vibehigh5280]

The grieving period is really not easy, stay strong.

[@cw4350]

@@vibehigh5280 thank u 🙏 I’m trying so hard but every morning it’s like I’m starting over if that makes sense

[@vibehigh5280]

@@cw4350 it does make sense. Grieving a narc rel dynamics is like no other. A lot for things we need to grieve. We grieve the fake persona, the person we thought it was, loss time, money, people, opportunities..etc.. This might help, surround yourself with healthy people who believe and love you. Talk to people you know who experienced the same. Exercise, do the things that are life giving to you, through that you will have a sense again of who you truly are. Lastly, spend more time meditating the word of God. If does bring life. He will restore what was been stolen from you. Peace, love and joy be with you. God Bless.

[@LuckyHearts777]

Thnks for such great wisdom.

[@Narcologyunscripted]

My pleasure!

[@michelesummers2437]

Truth.

[@cathy_clarinet]

Hi Dave! Just uncanny insight, not just into Narcs, but of the whole dynamic with the victim. 👏

[@Narcologyunscripted]

you as well Cathy!

[@petraselah7152]

You are amazing. Thank you

[@Narcologyunscripted]

You are!

[@mandatereporter7928]

Why does the narcissist try to kill you and have anyone witness an evil spirit manifest out of one of them

[@shannonzittlow8462]

So true exactly 🏝

[@celtics342059]

Great segment. Been 2 years free from my narc but these reminders are very helpful and continue to keep me centered in reality...especially when all the flying monkeys are telling me how "happy" she is on social media

[@sandrarupnick3919]

All so true. Leaves you trauma bonded.

[@teshablair2901]

You crack me up, Dave! 😂❤

[@victoriac.attorneyatlaw]

I like the new background👍

[@melissabradford6609]

I totally agree Dave

[@bless746]

This is so true...we went to a fair..omg dave..he treated me an the kids so bad...he left the park and go sit in the car...I never understood why...until I learn..about this...ty some..there is so much more to learn