Natal Venus Opposite Neptune- The love projector

What happens when Venus opposes Neptune in the birth chart.
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[@GypsyInThirteen]

I honestly think Neptune's power and lessons are so grand that we gotta bow down to good old Poseidon and swim ever so bravely and gently towards the truth

[@JewelMayberry]

+JESS H. That was very well put.

[@Tekemaster]

this is so true. after a few failed relationships where i looked at them with rose coloured glasses afterwards im finally looking at them without emotion , looking at them with out the stories and realizing they were just plainly incompatible. they were perfectly what i needed at the time but not the princess bride love stories i mourned losing. thank you, beautiful work.

[@Gamingwithdes23]

This is 100 percent what it is. And at times I hate it

[@Scorpiomoon808]

Deep trust issues in result of having the inability to see reality. Spot on! Had an anxiety attack with my boyfriend over a reality check I had about him. Once I realized he wasn’t deceiving me and actually I was deceiving myself by expecting him to play this role I fascinated and created in my head. 🤭🥴

[@Colombella]

No expectacións ! Good advise .People are what they show us ..I love to learn from astrology . ✌️

[@NickyG810]

"The princely crown that covers up the jail tat that says 'I like to deceive women'"!!! YES! That is SO true 🙈🙈😂😂😂 .....Lessons learned.

[@Totes_Masc]

I really love how specific your videos are. I really haven’t found anyone that goes into such detail. It’s this detail that helps unlock so many relationships. Thank you.

[@Julie-ix5pu]

I loved this video! I like how you talked about your own experience too. It's taken me a long time to even see my own projections.

[@Cheri04]

Really love your explanation. I’m very grateful for this. How you explain and act out “dialogs” helps (role play) is very engaging My friend has this aspect. We got in touch and I realized how idealistic he was and recognize he had been projecting. Saw his chart... The things he wants in a person is someone who was perfect while he is human. Someone that does not even exist. he also doesn’t believe love exist anymore because he felt the deception.

[@skippitypap]

Great video, Jewel. Thanks for making me laugh. Unfortunately, I almost always miss the forehead prison tat or else I'll find it adorable and incredibly endearing at first! 😂😂

[@achalpandit4038]

You just answered my biggest confusion from my past life. My life revolved around this thing and now I have a reason to think about. Thanks.

[@mikeortiz28]

Perfect! I like the example you used of the movie theater! Please do Pluto trine Venus.

[@Ad_Astra_321]

Thank you Jewel, hope you're better soon!

[@christinaceniceros5159]

I absolutely love your videos!! I was wondering if you could do Venus Trine to Pluto?

[@MalaWaldron]

Wow Jewel, what an awesome analogy about people with this aspect seeing things in life as if we've super-imposed our own movies over the movie screen, but our movies end before the actual movie on the screen and we're left with the stark reality we never saw. I've never heard it put quite this way, thank you -- you're brilliant!

[@PeachyKins]

oh wow! I encountered a guy with this aspect. On the date, (I even stated afterwards!) that I felt like I was being cast for a role in the movie of his life! Like who does he think he is Tom cruise? (Well, his Mars is conjunct neptune, so go figure. I thought i was just making a joke..until I studied his chart and watched this. Oh, but it didn't stop there! He went on and on about ex girlfriends and their shortcomings (aka, conveying his list of requirements, he then made it clear that I passed....lucky me 😱 ) THEN (it gets better) he went on to tell me how little I should expect from him in return! He has saturn squaring his moon, that video explained A LOT! Wow. Wow. and yeah, pluto is all over the place in our synastry personal planets. I am absolutely repulsed but still can't get him out of my head! At least I'm no longer blind to the situation, thank you Jewel! 😊

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Hilarious 😂

[@714tdub]

Just the truth bomb I needed! Thank you.

[@yasmine.michaeli]

Thank you for the advice 🙏 I have Venus in the 12 house and Venus opposition Neptune

[@swoosylee2644]

This is so spot on :D Thanks Jewel

[@peterklein4349]

very enlightening, and you're right: for such person it takes a lot of poking to awaken. I have venus in opp with neptune, but in trine with saturn, and even when I know in a very short time what to think of someone,, it takes so much time to really realise it for myself, to understand it. Therefor I need and like your videos so much! And btw: thank you for your personal open heartedness. I appreciate that and sympathize with you

[@IloveCamels335]

Have the Neptune Venus opposition as well. And both being squared by Saturn so it’s a t square basically. Took me a long time to slowly figure this one out 😜

[@MuriloMailan]

That's so true, made a huge sense, I thought my square between Venus and Mars was the worst problem but this Neptunian influences really hurts you, makes you be obliged to look to your inner shit and do something about it. Cheers from Brazil, loved your video! Thanks.

[@inspiredbygracecoaching888]

I have this aspect and it is literally like I pick the same type and then date the potential version of them. Yeah I had to learn to see red flags and actually stop progressing. Good stuff here. Gratitude

[@dianawann6597]

So awesome...this subject best ever...as it is in the fog....that binds people...thank you Jewel

[@Ilzizadora]

This is so painfully true and at same time little bit funny. Best and worst advise for myself- just don't fall in Love!

[@MmmKayHuuNay]

This aspect is like the film Kill Bill to me. At the end of the film when she finally confronts Bill, she explains she doesn't know why he would try to assassinate her. He simply says "I'm an assassin, baby you thought wrong. I think they had this aspect and he was venus. I love the film! Then she kills Bill, lol. I have Venus conjunct Neptune, and it's in Capricorn so I'm quite grounded, and moon square pluto soooo my romantic life is non-existent, I love period romance films though. Pride and Prejudice is the best.

[@orchardjpg]

when i was very young this is what would wrap me up and i would fall fast and hard. the older i've become the more I self-reflecr and allow my saturn conjunct my moon take time to scope it out and pick it apart. the more you strike a balance. With any opposition you need to strike that balance. for me personally this neptune-venus aspect gives me great trust in my loved ones, but my saturn and pluto remind me that they are still human and can mess up just like i can! but the neptune gives me compassion to listen and understand, yet not allow myself to be deceived or to deceive. you have to find your balance and continue to keep it balanced! (my libra mercury)

[@MissSpiritual.Soldier]

So true, slap round the face this video and your neptune opposite the sun video, as I have both 🙈 difficult aspects these are.

[@Theastrologer67777]

Very interesting case: Jodi Arias had this aspect as well as Neptune opposition moon.

[@matheya]

I am in this club . :) It's kinda cute , I love to be in love in the first stages when there's magic ( which I create in my mind) and then reality hits you really hard. I can be very delusional but I believe I have strong Mercury aspects Saturn so common sense comes to me later... but I love the Magic :)

[@nilanjanag34343]

Hi jewel! Great video and amazing story to explain this aspect. Loved it. Can you do venus inconjunct Neptune?

[@astrologamarinamoura]

Beautiful video. I have the venus- neptune square and totally relate with the fary tale dreams of love. The difference in my case is that I always knew I wans't goingo to find it in real life so I kept my love life to the minimum and read romance books instead! LOL I do think the square works very differently from the trine/conjunction though, we tende to SEE the real person and love the person as they are... but that is not always good for us. We tend to think we need to save people... terrible idea in a love relationship.

[@britniliberto7579]

I love you! You are amazing!

[@jacks4705]

Thank you for this video! Venus in 12th and opposite Neptune

[@lesleysimpson5793]

I have this opposition, with Venus in the 8th in Taurus and Neptune in the 2nd in Scorpio. Kind of like the "rose coloured glasses" syndrome. Thankfully, I have just taken those glasses off and am seeing clearly again!! (lol)

[@SomnathSahwo]

Thanks! After watching this I not feeling good anymore. I'm single Male. I never had any romantic relationships in my life even I'm in mid 30s. So no Heart Break till now. I have Venus and Moon (in Gemini 2nd) both opposition (inside 3 deg orb) with Neptune (in Sag) in natal chart. My Uranus(in Sag) also conjunct with my DC in my natal chart.

[@8490JJ]

Thank you for this video! You give such a good explanation of this aspect. I have my venus opposite neptune , saturn, and moon! And venus conjuct jupiter. I can definitely relate to everything you said. Do you do personal readings?

[@Anonymous-cw1ng]

It’s very enlightening!

[@louisatoland2383]

Your a wise one 😉😍❤️ thank u

[@liviaa6943]

I have my Venus in my twelve house in Taurus I always liked to believe in fairytales.. over years getting hurt in relationships so many times i learn how to be happy alone and make me a priority... ty for this ❤

[@GemStar717]

I think I've got it bad.... I have Venus opposite Neptune in my chart & I also have Pisces as my Ascendant square Venus. Since Neptune is the planet ruler of Pisces & my chart ruler too, I have two hard aspects involving Venus & Neptune. Grrrr it's a hard pill to swallow, when you have to admit to yourself that the deception created within all your relationships is more than likely your own.

[@cammyr12Productions]

LMFAO I love the analogy about the movie ticket ugh so true about me

[@tamikabell6575]

Wow thank you 🙌🏾💜

[@rihabazar7120]

You're excellent

[@ellie-tk4jy]

Oh God this is me. I see it now at 42. It says a lot that I only ever watch your videos for synasty and composite charts with whomever my latest crush is. Now I'm thinking I need to do some soul searching and natal chart investigation. I'm actually a love addict btw. It's a real thing.

[@valerie886]

THIS CAME FOR MEEEEE

[@idontknow-lc8bz]

4th house neptune and 10th house venus. i thought my career/love was gonna save me from my childhood trauma and dysfunctional family. turns out i actually have to sort through all that stuff to even have a chance

[@ChrisMythologieAstrale]

This is so painfully true.

[@nadine9281]

Hi Jewel. Would you say the quincunx is similar? I have it in very close degree and this video was very relatable. OMG 16:29 How did you read my thoughts??

[@kimberlywillowsagetree6321]

beautiful! thanks again

[@kimberlywillowsagetree6321]

maybe my 12h Chiron in Pisces is in part & my 8h Neptune in Scorpio is intense...

[@sziami09]

Does it help if besides this opposition there is also a Saturn square to Venus?

[@andreac647]

My father has this aspect and I have to be thankful that he didn't know astrology because otherwise might have not been born. 😀 So yeah, there is always light in the dark.

[@Mandy3141]

My mother has this. I think this works in a disfunctional manner in her birth chart. She's never satisfied with others, and it's been problematic for me, being her daughter (narcissistic issues). I have the conjunction!

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Right? I have experienced them the same way. Rose colored glasses but at the same time never satisfied with what you bring because it's not what they had in mind in the 1st place. I left him

[@akada726]

why did snatch my edges like that? :’D

[@weipingkok9223]

So true~ I have venus opp neptune & venus opp uranus. If venus opp neptune means to project ideal love then what does venus opp uranus means?

[@itsgoodtobegood]

Have you found the answer to this question? :) I'd be very curious to know as it is quite confusing when it is an opposition to both planets at the same time

[@TheSkyhazFallen]

I have sun conjunct Venus and mars and moon opposite Venus and mars. Can someone please explain what this means because there seems to be a joke in there.

[@molikameas7542]

I have this in my solar return chart .

[@pedrofelipepamplona1944]

Does the Moon in opposition aspect to Neptune operates in a similar fashion to the Venus-Neptune opposition ? I know someone with the Moon-Neptune opposition and let me tell you, a lot of the things you described in this video actually applies to him

[@JewelMayberry]

Yes, very similar.

[@pedrofelipepamplona1944]

Thank you, Jewel ❤️

[@IloveCamels335]

Yes I can confirm that too. With the square I’ve observed it. When I had transit Neptune square my Venus I fell in love with this guy, very rose colored glasses type of story. As soon as Neptune moved away I was cured lol. Now one of my best friends has the square between Neptune and his moon and it’s exactly the same thing. We all can see it but he can’t he is like under a spell almost. Well another 1 1/2 years for him then he will understand and realize it too. So my observation is that it’s the same thing

[@danam358]

Wow this is so true. Venus in Gemini opposition Neptune 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@IloveCamels335]

Me too 😇😇

[@summerrain3251]

I’m curious to how Gemini Venus plays into this aspect. Is it all just words and no pay out?

[@louisatoland2383]

Your brullient x

[@Fxirie_harper08]

When someone with Venus Opposite Neptune has a T square with Saturn, I wonder if Saturn moderates the romantic delusional qualities from the get-go, or if it’s makes the eventual disappointment in the ideal feel even worse.

[@user-rb1rd7ub9r]

i was with someone and one day i was like i wanna marry them but when they did something i didn’t like i was like …. ew after looking back i realize i didn’t really like them

[@drewn8673]

Lmao i have this and venus square mars. god I dont wanna get with a guy anymore cause I just always end up disappointed lol

[@saifaliali8742]

It’s so hurtful aspect 😢

[@Gamingwithdes23]

I find I’m very creative and I’ve had dreams of being a musician and actually making it a career. I have Venus conjunct Mercury and sun in the 10th house and I have Venus opposite Neptune in Capricorn does that mean I shouldn’t purse music

[@jonmartindeiii962]

no, if you love it you SHOULD pursue it. and i dun think ur dream career has anything to do with being delulu. Again if you actually love it you should go pursue it.

[@Gamingwithdes23]

@@jonmartindeiii962 thanks because I got a reading once and the person mention that. I also have my south in Taurus does that mean I shouldn’t pursue music.

[@jonmartindeiii962]

@@Gamingwithdes23 Like i said ur dream career have nothing to do with ur astrological sign whether you should pursue or not. It doesn't control your life but gives you advice on how to improve on yourself and things you should avoid doing IN LIFE. Also, astrology is accurate but not 100%, and even so, it shouldn't stop you from pursuing your dream career. Like me, my dream career is to become a spy, private investigator, and business woman all at once, and to others it may seem impossible but i dun fkin care. Astrology gives me advice, and makes me learn more abt myself (though not 100% accurate). It lets me know how i should/ can manage to achieve my dreams. For ex: they say im ambitious but lazy. Then I would stop being lazy and work hard to pursue my dreams.....just an example.

[@Gamingwithdes23]

@@jonmartindeiii962 got you thanks again. I highly appreciate it. Keep releasing great content

[@Henryalexvasquez]

Go for it if you wish you can’t fail in music either you make a smash hit or it’s shrugged off , whatever you feel is right for you though I have the same problem. Fun choices. :-)

[@CorinneWoods]

I have Venus and natal opposite Neptune :(

[@dianawann6597]

I wonder what is when he says negative but acts with love and goodness....

[@veryintelligentsmartperson]

Yes he does the same.

[@pedroballinger2540]

I would use taking a drug that make you see things that doesn't exists and then is wears off.

[@ComedyKermit48]

I have trust issues and insecurities ugh

[@janineroux2398]

I have this aspect....SOO funny...not!

[@pedroballinger2540]

Its funny that I'm not selling the fantasy the other person is selling the fantasy and really can't produce anything of what they are selling is that really me deceiving myself or is it the representative that's lying. Essentially in the theater you can get a refund for seeing a movie you didn't like I use to be a theater manager they will give you a refund for sitting in a concession stand you choose to stand in while missing your movie 😂.

[@askittenlove13]

🥴🥴🥴🥴 oof