Need to cry? James Blunt - The Girl That Never Was (Official Video) Reaction

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@waynenaylor4005 3 ай бұрын

My son slipped away as I read him his first story.. and this song kicked me square in the heart . This man's pain resonates with everyone that has lost a child.

@CaveManParadigm 3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry brother💙

@brigidsingleton1596 3 ай бұрын

I have never (knowingly) experienced a miscarriage but my first baby (a daughter) was born in early February 1988... Then I fell pregnant with twins who were born on 16th January 1992. They were born _4 weeks early_ but apparently that's not unusual with multiple pregnancies... They were born on a _Thursday_ and we have a rhyme which includes, "Thursday's Child has far to go" ...and _Philip Julian Leigh_ was born at 11:29am, his sister, _Marianne Zara Cyrena_ was born at 11:35am... Philip _died aged 6 hours_ 💙💔 Marianne _died aged 12 hours_ 🧡💔 And my second set of twins: _Tegan Katra Zarabeth_ 🧡 was born at 13:36 (1:36pm) & _Julian Sebastian Keiron_ 💙 was born at 13:57, (1:57pm) _4 weeks early_ on a _Thursday_ on 30th Sept. 1993... I shall be 71 this coming August '24, my second set of twins will be 31 yrs old this Sept.'24...and Philip & Marianne _would've_ / _should've_ been 32ys old this 16th January 2024, R.I.P.💙💔🧡💔 None of my pregnancies were via IVF - they were all "spontaneous" (natural conceptions) ...and with natural conceptions, sometimes, deaths follow, and they did for me. I learned through my losses that worst things couldn't affect me so, when my surviving twins were 14 months old, and my husband left me for my friend and neighbour, my children got me through it, because his deceit couldn't be worse than the losses of my babies, and whilst he divorced me to marry her, and I remarried, only to have my second husband leave me for a different friend of mine, who married him but divorced him a few years later, I remained single since he left in1999/ 2001(my divorce finalised) and so life goes on...me, minus what I thought would be a life partner... (the "other halves" gone their own ways...the first still married - he dare not leave her!) ...c'est la vie ?! 🤔🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧🖖

@CaveManParadigm 3 ай бұрын

Wow. That's a tough story. I'm sorry. That's almost too much ❤️ I hope you're doing OK now❤️

@brigidsingleton1596 3 ай бұрын

@@CaveManParadigm Thank-you, yes. Well, I have T2 diabetes now, which is affecting my vision (oedema in my right retina), congestive heart failure, and await the time I must start kidney dialysis* due to CKD (but hopefully _not_yet_ *) but as long as am 'in the land of the living', theres no need to complain, is there?! Touch wood - ⛰️ - I have _not_ caught Covid19, and so many poor souls did, and died, so, I cannot complain. I've had my five COVID vaccinations, and 'flu jabs, and take my twenty-one tablets, capsules and caplets every day, (including Warfarin to thin my blood to ward off strokes) so - apparently - all is (relatively) well, for now, at least. Thank-you. I hope you're well, too. Have a great day, and life. 🤞🙂🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧😊🖖

@MommaBird52 3 ай бұрын

So very sorry for your loss ❤

@lovestardustuk 4 ай бұрын

We lost our third child in 2013 when she was stillborn at term. It was just devastating and over 10 years on she her absence is still keenly felt . Packing up her nursery was an incredibly painful experience so the video hits hard. For a long time we just kept the door shut as we couldn't deal with seeing all of her things. Beautiful reaction, thank you ❤

@EmilyGrace20 4 ай бұрын

The first time I heard this beautiful song, it left me curled up on the couch, sobbing uncontrollably for an hour. It gets easier, and a little more healing, with every subsequent listen. We struggled with secondary infertility and early miscarriages for nearly 10 years before we finally conceived a daughter, who passed away during delivery. I only got to hold her after she’d gone. My family had to graciously come put away her nursery because I couldn’t bear to look at her things. She would have been 9 years old this year. I had a rainbow daughter 2 years later, whom I cherish and love to death, but it’s so hard sometimes not to look at her and imagine her sister.

@melindamohoski3083 4 ай бұрын

My children are 49 and 50. Everyday you worry about them. I won't tell you about grandchildren and great grandchildren. That's what being a parent is about. Love !!!

@RickcandKai 4 ай бұрын

My son is 27, always worry as well, but also feel a sense of pride. You thought that there is nothing more rewarding, until you have grandchildren, then it hits you. This person you love had a mini him, it changes everything.

@randall2061 24 күн бұрын

You have a good heart dude. I'm a father of a 11 year old daughter and I worry sick about her everyday. I wish you and your family a long and healthy life ❤

@CaveManParadigm 24 күн бұрын

Thank you brother. Same to you fam. God bless you

@shellos8 2 ай бұрын

I just want to say this is the best, most thoughtful, sweetest reaction I've seen. You're a good man.

@CaveManParadigm 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Michelle, you're so nice ❤️

@jamescunningham1973 2 ай бұрын

James Blunt knows how to put words together for sure

@thomasmacdiarmid8251 4 ай бұрын

The girl was shown only in fuzzy images to show that she never became that person. The part where he says "we shouldn't have picked a name" says to me that the girl died before birth, when naming would be expected.

@jedislap8726 4 ай бұрын

Yeah. It's about his wife having a miscarriage of their daughter. Since then they have 2 sons but they will never forget the one that never was.

@SpeckszDaBoss 4 ай бұрын

Your reactions are always so beautiful and so real!! I also cried to this song how could you not. It’s so emotional. Keep up you raw reactions cause I’m here for it!! You’re what a real man is!! 😢❤❤❤

@AaronBallistic 4 ай бұрын

I never had anxiety until i had kids. We have to let them go and grow up, no holding them back. They are people, people with their own lives. We can only guide them gently. They are not us, they are them, and we love them. x

@tricia1234gm 4 ай бұрын

His wife Miscarried a little girl. So sad! The little blonde girl in the video is as he imagined her to be as she grew up. They do have 2 boys now but they will never forget the Daughter they lost.

@sarahfoster6765 4 ай бұрын

I had 7 attempts at IVF resulting in 3 pregnancies which all ended in miscarriages, so this hit hard. 💔

@aarontait7600 4 ай бұрын

Goodbye my lover is probably James Blunts best song. You should react to it.

@shanelambert6985 4 ай бұрын

beautiful reaction ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤James said he doesn't like putting his real life in music and he said she had he spouse had a miscarriage 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

@CaveManParadigm 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. After editing it became obvious to me it was a miscarriage. So sad. Being a parent can feel like a risk for sure. Pray always ❤️🙏

@sandraback7809 4 ай бұрын

James and his wife went on to have 2 sons.

@CaveManParadigm 3 ай бұрын

That's so awesome. Thank you

@migslayerdb 4 ай бұрын

Love that shirt !

@travisrussell9166 4 ай бұрын

miscarriage but they have 2 sons now

@glastonbury4304 4 ай бұрын

We kicked our kids out to play from an early age and by 11 they were walking the 2 miles to school...

@nyneeveanya8861 3 ай бұрын

I think the couple in the song were doing ivf and finally got pregnant found out it was a girl. They prepared in joy but then there was a miscarriage and they lost her. All the dreams they had for her are still there but will never come true. Wife is blaming herself and he’s saying no one’s fault, we tried, and we still love the girl who never was.

@chesskid20 2 ай бұрын

My best friend miscarried back in 2012 and named it after me. My namesake would've been 12 years old this year, October 1st.

@CaveManParadigm 2 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear that. ❤️

@chesskid20 2 ай бұрын

@@CaveManParadigm I miss them every day. ❤

@hazelmonday5414 14 күн бұрын

They lost the baby befor she was born.

@CaveManParadigm 14 күн бұрын

Thank you 😔

@danielquiroz3487 2 ай бұрын

My wife miscarried our 3rd child 6 years ago. She would have been our second daughter. This song ripped my heart out.

@CaveManParadigm 2 ай бұрын

Danny, so sorry bro.. are you guys done now? I would have more if we were younger. I have 3.. my heart goes out to you ❤️

@danielquiroz3487 2 ай бұрын

@@CaveManParadigm yeah we are done. I'm 43 and I can't see having another one at this age. Not to mention that the wife is a completely different person now. She doesn't have any interest in having more kids.

@MommaBird52 3 ай бұрын

Off topic, did you get your shirt from #TatumStore?

@CaveManParadigm 3 ай бұрын

Yes, nice fitting shirt . I recommend 👌

@Rocky19577 4 ай бұрын

Oh come on man, its obvious, she had a miscariage. 😢😢😢🙄🙄

@LyndaBarry-o3b 4 ай бұрын

Hey my mu heart broke lookin at ur face ? I'm sry dat ur upset an stuff .....I'm a mam in Ireland on my own ....22 an 25 ....2 boys ...I pat myself on my shoulder an say I did OK