Neil Strauss | Trauma Of A Narcissistic Mother | How To Heal

[@safenawinfield2807]

humanity's goal of not hurting each other other feels good to me!! Love that Neil is writing about the positives to low self esteem because there are some!!

[@Keljleonard]

This video checked so many boxes for me, thank you. I was raised in a home with a narcissistic mother and I have 3 brothers who were groomed to put me down. I was the one who went out on my own and went through a tunnel of healing and came out of it being the healer. Fast forward, came home to help out with my ailing mother only to be rocked once again by the abuse patterns within the family unit. Being able to identify it is one thing, learning how to navigate it and stay healthy is another. I am working on myself once again, rabbit holing self-help while creating a program for emotional trauma wounds. This conversation helped me by understanding the male perspective of having a narcissist mom, and by bringing EMDR to my attention once again. I enjoyed learning that the gene has to be triggered in person for the behavior to develop rather than who we are is determined by our genetics with no recourse. ❤ I love this channel

[@JoeyFriend-nb8dp]

Neil's point of catching ourselves when agitated has helped me tremendously. The awareness of agitation combined with Dr. Joe's mental rehearsal process helps me clear the energetic charge.

[@starseeddeluxe]

Slow down when people are trying to get on the freeway, instead of trying to accelerate and "beat them" to your awful job. You can see the people who are NPC drivers, and not aware of their unconscious programs; they won't allow you to merge onto the roadway because they either speed up to block you, or they refuse to change their speed to help you merge safely.

[@mlklotusmann6749]

Thanks Danica, for being brave in sharing unique, and valuable content.

[@DanicaPatrick]

Thanks for watching!

[@BSsssssy]

@@DanicaPatrickso happy you are doing this !!! Just discovered your channel. This is awesome like you are, Danica❤ Keep on keeping on! Understanding Needed more now than ever. Keep awaking others. 😊

[@Kim_Anderzzon]

Thank you for doing what you're doing! Your podcast is really improving my life by ansvering my questions & awakening new ones & putting words to my thoughts. You're in my bucket-list of people I HAVE to meet!

[@We-Do-NOT-Consent-303]

The purpose of life is to grow........ You are welcome!

[@lesworks]

Being the 4th/last kid, I felt that my mom couldn't wait for me not to be attached and that I raised myself in many ways so abandonment issues.

[@DaneRuss1]

Great content and back and forth dialogue!!

[@timothycame3770]

When you brought up dad working so much, dad wasn't a bad dad, he was doing what a dad did. I could always count on him being there for the holidays

[@marcr3170]

that's great getting neil strauss on, but what about the master himself mystery?

[@parisconstantinou8299]

great podcasts Danica!!!!!keep on doing the great work Lady!!!ps vroum vroum!!vroum!!!!!

[@josephwest3669]

So interesting you keep finding just what I need. Thank you, beautiful perfect as always

[@imbolc8024]

Oh dear, the title 'is like my life' and many others (sadly). Now listening. Thank you so much for your amazing content Danica, hugs from Belgium. Gosh Danica, what you told about your father = mine same, he never realised how my mom really was-became with her children, he was always gone and wanted peace and silence at home. Till he stopped working, he had to 'choose' and live in misery with his wife or defending her... he couldn't do anything else than last option i guess, i am in no contact now, it makes me 'also' ill, above all chronic illnesses i live with, and know now where they come from, thaks to good people who give genuine info on the web, no doctor, no one ever 'looked into it' or looked where all this sickness could come from. Blessings to everyone in similar situations♥ / same... becoming a little expert in narc... did u ever watch dr Ramani Danica, she explains so much

[@richardlenz2655]

When I was 3 years old, I was studying a toy I have been given by my mother. When I studied it, I realized, that I could never invented it, as I was not intelligent enough for it. Therefore there must be more intelligent people than me on this planet. I WANDED TO KNOW THEM. Therefore, I became engineer and research manager and learned to know these people 🤭

[@sassysandie2865]

Well, you must be quite intelligent to become an engineer.

[@richardlenz2655]

@@sassysandie2865 No, I was just always lucky. Meeting the right people at the right time 😋

[@sassysandie2865]

@@richardlenz2655 well getting an engineering degree requires brains and hard work.

[@richardlenz2655]

@@sassysandie2865 to be honest, I do not like to talk about myself. I was born extremely lazy. My trick was I had a twin sister who did all the house work and also they never wanted to separate us in school, because at that time the meaning was, if somebody is twin, they cannot be so different in intelligence. But of course later I also liked to work as well and studying every day, even writing books and learning Chinese.

[@rpnum1]

Dude, you need to learn how to take a compliment, seriously.

[@paulbouvier1997]

Is that Danica's home? Really nice

[@Matthew.Sadecky]

I was hoping he was gonna talk about the game. It was judged by himself as a past version of himself that he's now trying to be better than. The truth is, there is no "better than." A whole person accepts all of themselves. The game was fun. There was nothing wrong with using women's manipulating gaming tactics to teach them why men don't let them control them anymore. The game was always just a mirror.

[@annikabirgittanordlander6887]

"Are We Acting Out Our Trauma As A Nation? WE ALL NEED THERAPY". 🌎 thank you for talking about this, that is to me, the first step to healing trauma. What will happen as a result of healing trauma? As we ask, we get answered 😘

[@kavericornett6748]

That’s what I’m coming to…feel into what’s right

[@MrBrady95]

Danica shows wisdom when she replies to his comment about "evil people" in the world. If we are living in a simulation, one reason why it's so ingeniously designed, is exactly the reason why you can't simply "get rid of" evil people without becoming an evil person yourself. You can't judge and condemn evil people in other words. In my opinion, this is an essential riddle of life on earth. The idea of awareness begins to answer this riddle. Automatically, Danica shows awareness when she responds to his comment. I'm such a fan of this podcast lately! 😀 Thanks for another good interview and thank you for being wise.

[@richarddebono7092]

On this topic, Danica & yourself display the antithesis of wisdom. There is a vast difference between a riddle & a topic you know nothing about. Evil is defined by the initiation of harm or loss upon the innocent. Particularly with malicious intent &/or for personal gain. Those who occupy positions in police, military, church, govt, banking are objectivly evil. Now that we have the internet there are no excuses for participation in evil.

[@patrickplummer1027]

God Bless Danica, the queen of the badasses 👑 👧

[@lorigonzalez1200]

Ha ha 🤣 I agree I love Danicas mind .

[@robertoncioiu7557]

finally meating meaning half way💜

[@kavericornett6748]

You have to feel it to heal it…see that’s true from my own experience

[@brandibenecke406]

Danica (or team) have you had any deeper discussions on the possibility of healing narcissism? Please advise who Danica has had the deepest discussions about narcissism. Dr. Sam Vaknin's insistence that there is no hope for healing a clinical narcissist inspires me to find some!

[@teddy3761]

So when you coming by?😊

[@teddy3761]

You meant hope or narcs.sist I'm sure you meant narcissists!!!😂😂😂❤

[@frankiesmart1113]

LV Danica. Stealey eyes, symmetrical features, that jawline . Brilliant mind. Race car driver . Varroooom! Full package 😘

[@davide8641]

thank you!!

[@loriandrade5759]

Absolutely❤

[@alllifematters]

You cant change the culture but you certainly dont have to support it... sometimes I think therapists just train us to submit to toxicity

[@ronculberson8571]

So much for our wedding. Danica Patrick new it was a joke for you.

[@SisterSunnyFreeSpirit]

So, does inherent evil exist?

[@AmandaMG6]

Working in criminal law, I'd agree. Pure evil is rare but it does exist

[@johnhansen4794]

I am definitely an extrovert, but most of the people I meet are such Aholes- I hide, alone in a very thick shell.

[@stellarshadeofblue]

How to heal? Well, it started when I didn't have to share the same roof anymore.

[@terryfrancis10]

I think Elizabeth Gilbert figured it out - she shaved her head and hangs out with herself all day - her favorite days - and makes that enough. I'm tired of fighting and trying to control what I can't. I make myself safe and that's my job. peace

[@ilus.ederra]

Neil Strauss is teaching Prince William the game

[@Yanina-x6q]

Can a narcissist change???

[@itachi_blvckitachi_blvck-jq6pf]

Bro, you wrote that book like a decade ago. Time to move one

[@wayno5851]

🥱

[@betamasego]

🔦☀

[@AXharoth]

omg i thought it was andrew tate haha looking at thumbnail xD

[@sequeira1104]

That would be SO interesting. Danicka and Tate do it!! Danica!

[@stevenpallo8783]

When is he going to talk about mothers ???

[@rickitynick4463]

On stage with JD Vance, huh? So you're terrible judgment on the racetrack extends to politics, gotcha.

[@wanderingstar4516]

Says you! 😂 What a joke. Who are you to decide what side is the ‘right’ side. It is your wrong opinion and a stupid one at that. 😮

[@iadcrjca]

Turn off your TV and open your eyes. You’ll be amazed at the transformation.

[@stevenpallo8783]

Try asking g an actual man that question. Done listening wtf

[@jamescoyle4899]

Hi Danica! I do not normally make political comments on shows like this. In fact, I hate politics. So when you went on stage and promoted Trump, you are promoting fear and separation, and I cannot hold back without saying something. We are right now on a split of timelines of choosing fear and separation over love and unity. There are no wrong choices but I am going to choose love and unity with the female candidate. My intuition tells me that we are moving further and further away from the toxic masculinity that causes wars, fear, and separation and feeds the matrix. I am not saying that Harris represents fully the Divine feminine, but it’s a move in the right direction. Listen to what Bashar mentioned a short while ago, that if the female gets elected, there will be disclosure if the male candidate is elected means that will be World War III. Thank you for allowing me to Xpress my opinion.

[@ipmhypno]

Hi. I remember hearing something like that too some time ago. Can you please let me know where did Bashar say so. I would like to check it out myself. Thank you.

[@jamescoyle4899]

@@ipmhypno yes 10 days ago IslikeThat podcast. He said the female candidate will lead to open contact the male candidate lead to the destruction of the United States and world war three

[@jamescoyle4899]

@@ipmhypno try also Bashar talking about the 2024 election Trump, Harris and Biden

[@chilloften]

You are nuts.

[@jamescoyle4899]

@@chilloften everybody has a right to their own opinion, without being criticized . And that’s the real problem we have right now people are being criticized, unruly for having their own opinions and more and more separation is happening to our social complex. And this is exactly what the Soviet union wanted to see us, fighting with one another, and destroying ourselves from within. I heard this in schools a child, but I never thought that I would see it in my lifetime.

[@TyquanArtis10]

The female nascar racer that never won no cup or championship maybe she didn't practice when she used to race. 🤔🤔

[@dh12.]

A mother will sacrifice her family for her happiness, whereas a father will sacrifice his happiness for his family.

[@rilysmom7267]

Not true. It’s equal

[@dh12.]

@@rilysmom7267 80% of divorces are initiated by women

[@dh12.]

@@rilysmom7267 almost 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

[@kavericornett6748]

I don’t feel genes have anything to do with our behavior…that is epigenetic-related

[@Grateful4lfe]

Though I appreciate your content on your channel I will not watch again . Your support of DJT for President has convinced me you don’t deserve my viewership .

[@ej2863]

Clearly you missed the message in the beginning

[@DanielSilva-qt9jz]

I unsubscribed to you , Danica. You know Trump is promoting fear. You took the $$$, because of ur weird following now. That's on ur soul at now, u know Trump's a horrible human. (Politics aside) Smh. I feel sorry for you. *For those of you that don't know, Danica held a rally with JD yesterday. 😢

[@jenniferfarmer113]

If you love socialism and censorship so much... please move to China. This is the United States of America and we enjoy being free!!! Quit drinking the koolaid sweetheart!

[@chilloften]

Woooohoooo 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 Trump/Vance vote!!

[@chrissemenko628]

They're all puppets. The whole lot of them. Every...Last...Politician

[@Flyfreenow]

What a load of ego judgement you’re dumping here. Feel better now?

[@jenniferfarmer113]

@@Flyfreenow go f&ck yourself Karen, mad your candidate didn't win? If you have nothing nice to say, shut the f$ck up!

[@terryfrancis10]

One of the first groups like Hoffman was run by Werner Earhart called EST where he wouldn't let people go to the bathroom and yelled at them to throw them off of their regular game. Many say it was helpful and changed their lives. kzbin.info/www/bejne/l4PMmqWag7ucotU

[@HBombShitShow]

Ok, I didn’t visibly watch this video, so I’m not sure about body language and facial expressions, and it would be torture to listen to again , but wow. Was Danica increasingly irritated by him? Her tolerance level for the charades this douche played the entire time, was diminishing quickly. Less than an hour episode! The only thing he quickly and confidently did not falter on was the types of kink there are. So obviously is low self esteem is due to his lack of authenticity, steeped in shame. This is a classic example of having an external narrative so loose and flimsy, and having an internal narrative that’s very rigid for what he likes (pun intended). When he wasn’t even willing to defend men, she had to dip! This dudes approach throughout entire interview was super cringe. Way to pull through; and I wonder if she was being snarky at the end there intentionally or what was going on with the wrap up. I listened to the entire thing as an endurance exercise; it felt like mansplaining with zero relevant substance.