Met HIM at 15 years and Married at 21 years for MONEY?.. My Story.../Loudly woman

[@NeloOkeke]

Precious video - kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGHdgIKcaddorM0 subscribe to her channel - www.youtube.com/@PreciousKay

[@chinenyeokonkwo701]

Lots of love to you precious.

[@sylviakelechi7698]

Similar to my story first to get married at 21 among six sisters and I was the last born among nine siblings. I honestly thank God everyday for leading me into making such decision, God saw my naive mind and just choose to pity me with a good marriage. I now have my three children, my PhD and established career path

[@musicschoolfactoryceo]

Woooooow

[@ekedokenneth3897]

They won't come to your page and comment after seing you got you PHD.. Nobody wants late marriage, She is very intelligent to tell them different strokes for different folks... Congratulations KC

[@sylviakelechi7698]

@@ekedokenneth3897 Thanks

[@ellanomba1587]

Good for you. And I am sure that career path you chose was backed and supported by your hubby. Awesome guy😃 There’s nothing wrong in early marriage. At 21. My own is when it’s his turn to make sacrifices for you to fly, he should support you. Instead of plucking your wings. Two heads that are “one” is better because they support and cheer each other.

[@sylviakelechi7698]

@@ellanomba1587 This is social media so I wouldn’t want to mention something’s but yes he has made several sacrifices and I am flying already

[@usonwaagbo6331]

Honestly, I have a lot of things to say but like Nelo said, everyone has a different model in life. I’ll drop this here, my fellow young girl please do not give up a present career part because of a man. Even if a trusted family member tells you that he might be that one in a life time person. Why didn’t he consider that you might his one in a life time person too? If any human being tells you to choose between your career in life and him today, please drop him. They’re a lot of fishes in the sea trust me. Finally, nobody should get married at least too early in this economy, what will you and your children eat? The only reason to get married early in this present time is 1: Pregnant out of wedlock and 2: Your husband is financially capable to lead the home for sometime. I seriously have a lot to say but it worked out for her and I don’t want to sound bitter. I’m actually glad it did. I want to believe he has grown over the years and he wouldn’t drop that kind of command for her again. So I’ll leave this for my fellow young girls, pursue your career and let no man stop you, if he leaves because of the advice he got from people, he is definitely not the one. Trust me, if she chose her career, it’s one of two things, 1: he realizes he can’t do without her and 2: he leaves and she’ll probably be with a better man today. I’m not dragging her, I’m just pained she had to sacrifice a whole lot and the fact that she said she’ll take the same route again. If you’re a young girl and considering dropping a career for a man and you’re seeing this comment, better pick up your bag and go to that office or shop. I’m not a feminist but I hate when women are given the order to choose. Why can’t the man choose? Would he have chosen her then if he was given between a multimillion job opportunity that comes with being single?

[@nimichronicle]

This response!! Felt like i wrote it 🤣🤣. I share same opinion as you n

[@taii_chii6782]

Yeh I agree. It’s not advisable for women to make such huge sacrifices regarding their career so they can be in a relationship/marriage. Coupled with the fact that the guy is much older than her it is a bit of a red flag

[@Mercy-o2k]

I was conflicted yesterday because of something like this, women are usually the ones making big sacrifices, but at the same time you’re with a great man that would give you everything, but there’s still this satisfaction that comes with personal achievements. I just feel being married is going to somehow hinder you, even though there isn’t physical hurdles but you will need to start being a wife to your husband, Unless the husband is going to be the one pushing you to do everything you want. And deciding on no kids🥺

[@usonwaagbo6331]

@@Mercy-o2k In as much as I get you, this isn’t where I was going to. You have to make sacrifices in marriage, there is no 2 ways about that but making major sacrifices about your career because your man told you to is what I’m against. If she decided to drop the career even before he brought it up, I wouldn’t mind. She decided to do that, my problem is she wasn’t even given the benefit of doubt. He just assumed that she wouldn’t handle it and ordered her to drop it. I’ve gone to watch her videos with Nelo and her channel and she keeps making reference to this occasion, to me she’s pained. She’s yet to heal, this man didn’t allow her to decide, she’s speaking about this every time now to heal from it. She has made examples where she said, I’ll drop it cause my husband might not be cool with this, I’ll call the pastor etc. This man seems like someone that has never entrusted her to make good decisions on her own. He opens his wings and makes her believe he got it but he doesn’t. If she can see this comment, she should please sit down and rethink everything about her marriage, she needs to talk to her husband about a lot of characters that she has personally brought to the internet. Finally, it’s not a flex to drop a career for a man. Left for me, I want to get married early Oo, I’m done with uni and if I secure a good job today and find the man for me, why will I not go ahead with it? I don’t have issues with sacrificing in marriage, I have issues with being ordered to do so.

[@Mercy-o2k]

@@usonwaagbo6331 now I get, you know he’s like 10years older than she is, and the common issue in this type of relationship is the older partner feeling the young partner will make wrong choices.

[@PreciousKay]

I was just smiling all through thank you so much for having me

[@ChisomUtazi]

Went through the whole comment and nobody is talking about how this is actually grooming ?? A grown man saying a 15 year old he met was going to be his wife. I mean that’s how most Nigerian men move look for a teenager, hang around and once she click 20 or 19 the propose to them. I wish her well in the marriage

[@ShalouCuisine]

I’m so happy I married young too (married at 18). It’s a blessing if you find the right person and I will do it again and again.

[@jennysoutlet]

If you say how good your marriage is then it will be that you are showing off. Every marriage isn’t bad. Having issues in marriage is a normal thing but having toxic marriage is what is bad.

[@AdaezesSpace]

Yay, she is my birthday mate😍 She actually won a pageant, wow. She looks really good.

[@PreciousKay]

Thanks so much birthday mate 😂

[@jessio4312]

Why interview someone who has never lived a single life before and then have her comment on how a 40 yr old is lonely . Lol. She never even lived on her own before. That will always be a wonder to her😊

[@joyyadelusi]

I got married at 20 and I have 3 beautiful kids. Marriage is beautiful if we are willing to put in the work

[@nazomumoh93]

Sounds so much like my story! I see why I like her, met my husband at 15, got married at 21, last born of three kids and the first to get married, he is from another tribe too! 😊 so far, I have no regrets yet! Getting married early isn’t such a bad thing, if you are sure what you want out of life, and your spouse is great

[@adaezeokafor4331]

Marrying early is a wonderful thing. It is not a bad thing, especially if you marry a good man. Thanks

[@caesarx8139]

I pray that the Lord will continue to bless you and your Home🙏❤️ You will have no regrets as long as you continue to put your family first, and stay far away from jealous "Friends/Family". My grandparents had no formal education, yet they were able to keep a marriage for over 60 years. Do you know why? Because they had Wisdom. This is what is missing in today's generation. Keep praying for Wisdom. All the best..

[@ekedokenneth3897]

Don't mind these people that get validation from social media... These ladies sounds as if marrying late is sitting well with them. Nazom your home is blessed!! I am a man in my mid-thirties and i wish i got married earlier....

[@ellanomba1587]

@@ekedokenneth3897 why didn’t you marry early?? If I may ask?

[@glowrealshaven777]

Inspiring I married at 29, my choice though because of these misconceptions about early marriages I wanted to be married at 30... But am grateful, happy...not all marriages are bad true!!!!.

[@Rayobanje]

This video says it all… while growing up I had lots of admiration for people who got married at an early age and also told myself I was going to get married at a early age (20/21) My self and my hubby courted for 10 yrs +…He was so kind and understanding during courtship and it was glaring he is the one for me but for some reasons I was just scared of marriage… long story short now that we are married I wished I had done this earlier

[@Stephanieiyaye]

I was 22 when I got married 6yrs ago and yeah it was an absolute win!!! I'm also the last and first to get married in my house. Love to see things like this because social media do the most 😅

[@Dailycatholicprayers]

You’re such a smart woman! Personally, early marriage is a no for me and wouldn’t recommend for my daughter, reason being, I feel she should be more self aware and explore her options. I would attend the weddings of my friends who married early and sit wondering and applauding their bravery. Just how were they able to make such a big decision at such a young age It worked out for most of them though, today they’ve achieved all I wanted to achieve before marriage and have the advantage of their kids being older than mine even up to 10 years older. I’m glad it worked out for you. I pray for all women who desire marriage, especially the senior singles. May they get connected to their person and get it right For those awaiting kids and are getting older, may their desires be fulfilled May we all be happy

[@ShalouCuisine]

There’s no perfect marriage, it’s all about how you sort out your issues/disagreements and making God the center of your marriage. Where there’s true love, there’s solutions.

[@omoleyeesan-ojuri8807]

It appears as a very genuine interview.

[@adaonyeocha]

Marriage is a beautiful I married at 25, had my four kids before 32, there are advantages and disadvantages to this things, but in all whichever side one falls we only pray and be hopeful that it works to our advantage.

[@mykemasai42]

This lady is full of wisdom and credit goes to your mum she advised you on the right way shalom

[@beatricesenesie]

I disagree with him asking you to choose him (marriage) instead of your goals. To me it’s manipulation and selfishness. By the grace of God it has worked for you but not everyone is that lucky. The right person should encourage you, support you, and make sure you achieve your heart desires. Even if it doesn’t work out, they should be there to pick you back up. It is selfish that he didn’t give you that choice! A lot of women sacrifice a lot for this marriage thing. Men do not compromise. They’ll miss out on that dream woman to chase money & career, you’re your own person & didn’t come to this world with him. I am strongly against young marriage because I believe you should be your own woman, not saying you have to be rich & successful. Things I found out about myself at 27 (trauma/triggers) if I had married at 21, I would have caused problems! You should know yourself before embarking on a life long commitment like that. But it’s your life and you know what’s best for you. Btw great video though😅

[@ruth1203]

Talking about single friends isolating the married ones, it's so true, even though some claims its the married ones that isolate them, friendship that will work will definitely work regardless.

[@tebalelomarobane8496]

Mine isolated not even a month after the wedding,I was always made feel my wedding was unnecessary, it wasn't nice,and I married a foreigner,ahh it became hurting.but I know the same ppl I would have supported them regardless of where their partners were from,and I know i would be really happy for them.

[@ruth1203]

@@tebalelomarobane8496 it's fine, just don't allow it bother you, I had a childhood friend too who did same thing to me after my wedding but in her defence she said I was the one who neglected her which was untrue. I tried to Savage the friendship but it didn't work and I let go, she is married too now. last last everybody is alright., Friendship is not by force o jare.

[@anonnona6433]

I think in this life if you get the right person for you, ie someone who encourages you, supports your growth etc etc, it doesn't matter whether you marry at 21 or 51. As long as you are a consenting adult, marry when the person and time is right for you! My two cents 😂

[@stefywilliamz4503]

How to run ur home and finances is a very nice topic for us who married young and have no one to give such advice

[@Viktor_kcee]

Loudly Woman is a must watch for everyone. It also has something for men to learn. Nice one Nelo 👍

[@lifeofdorcas]

I like her honesty and it seems she is married to a very understanding husband, God bless her for her honesty… a lot of young ladies will learn from this

[@victorychinazaveee_naz1718]

From 20 years is not early marriage in my opinion, Early marriage for me is within teenage

[@macdonaldjames5036]

Thanks for this video because am going through alot now, I met my husband at age 17 when I finished my Senior waec through a friend though he wasn't in Nigeria, we were on back and forth, then at age 20 he did papers for me to join him here, I must say he is a very good man and we have been together for 5 years but then sometimes realty hits and I would want to go back to being single, thanks for thse video .

[@ShalouCuisine]

I agree that you cannot really plan your path. Everyone wants the perfect path but it’s not always the way we want it. Life is not predictable.

[@oliverjoel5901]

From 20-38 years if you get married to your real life partner you will enjoy marriage but if you get married to wrong person even if you are 50years you will still be in serious problem that all

[@fmarobase5343]

Congrats sis. You bring honor to your man. Choosing a woman like her is ONE OF the best gifts you could ever give to your children. Saying this as a man.

[@sophiaesoimeme7156]

Really enjoyed listening to her! She’s so wise and balanced!

[@TeewaiVlogs]

Absolutely,there is advantage and disadvantage to everything so it's best to do what works for each person ❤️ interesting and educating content

[@IyanuloluwaTimothy]

Thank yoooouuuu!!! So, you saw it too that she was just outstanding... Precious, thank you for dressing better this time!

[@Janelle.]

10years of being married, waoh. Exactly, people enjoy hearing about broken and troubled homes. Because it didn't work out for some people doesn't mean it won't work out for others. There's nothing wrong in getting married early, especially when she married the right person. I really enjoyed this video❤️ Thanks to aunty Nelo for dropping this awesome piece and thanks @preciouskay for answering ❣️ Already subscribed to her channel after the loudly woman series

[@PreciousKay]

Thank you so much

[@anistella7787]

​@@PreciousKay ❤

[@JudySpace-mw8di]

This speech is amazing 🤩 I am really grateful you guys shared this with us. ❤❤

[@idarageorge2881]

Okay so I’m one of those that want to get married early, that’s what I want for myself. I totally enjoyed this episode tho 21 is still so young like 😂😂 wow! I can’t wait to watch the episode of an older person sharing their own experience.

[@marrriiee]

off topic but i just watched your daughters’ shorts and omgggg wholesome ❤❤ ahhhhh i’ve been smilinggggggg

[@ukamakaazode]

Please create loudly woman playlist

[@noxolomatshaka2257]

I love this point that not all, marriages are bad. Social media can really destroy marriages or make people to fear getting married. You really as person know what you want in marriage and be sure of this person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. There is a movie that I watched recently on KZbin... The Perfect Marriage... That was an eye opener and how that woman used her own experience to help other marriages. Thank you so much for this awesome engagement and you both stay blessed

[@uchechi5004]

Marrying early is great, but be sure to marry the right person. How you want to figure out who the right person will be is up to you.

[@essywilson]

Lovely video... You were asking if ladies in this century get married at a young age? Yes they still do

[@lightsworld956]

Thumbs up Thumbs up Thumbs up Well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We keep praying for married couples

[@EverythingNaContentShorts]

Great video Interesting views in comments section I subscribed to precious

[@anonnona6433]

Life is soo mysterious and we always wonder about the path that we never took. There are no guarantees. The most important thing is to be in tune with yourself and God(if that's your belief system) Whatever decision you make, own it with your full chest and whatever comes with it. There is always an opportunity cost for every choice and you can never know where "The Road not Taken" would have led you. You can only speculate.

[@anistella7787]

Marriage is a GOOD thing Honestly,alot of people are so afraid to get married bcoz of what they've seen and heard,but it's Very Possible to have a Good marriage may God bless our homes 🙏💕🙏💕

[@nazomumoh93]

Hi sis, yay! I like this guest, she was amazing in that feeling the urge to cheat video

[@NeloOkeke]

i agree.. love her

[@PreciousKay]

Thank you so much

[@KashRoxcorner]

I wouldn’t say I married early, would have been married off by 19 but I ran away 😂… now got married at 27 Anyways I love precious honesty ❤

[@PreciousKay]

😅

[@ShalouCuisine]

Having kids early is such a blessing. I had my first child at 16. I had kids in my 20’s and in my 30’s. I can confirm that having kids early is the best (I you have a choice). The body pain and reaction during pregnancy is sooooo different 😫😫😫😫😫😫

[@amberw6025]

I love the different perspectives, but if you decide to have children in your early years, do you still go out to party and have your hot girl summer and just enjoy being young. As young mothers that are married what is the social life is like

[@elizaleke8373]

I knew it that you will definitely bring her back 😆. I didn't marry early but I can relate with the kind of hubby she married to kinda very traditional to the core (mine too is 9yrs gap and very big on respect) . Sometimes I ask why did I marry this guy sef and many times I will say thank God I married this guy when I tap from his wisdom in life. I thank God for your life but I don't think I will or allow my daughters marry early and I won't do that much age gap again. Motherhood is done and dusted so go capture the world 🌎 🥂sisterly

[@chidimmaoladipupo]

She’s super stunning! 😍😍😍

[@PreciousKay]

Thank you so much

[@ilovejesusilovejesus4461]

I love your friend she is intelligent and beautiful...I married at the age of 25 years...with five kids now...family first..my greetings to your family lelo

[@PreciousKay]

Thank you so much

[@NenyeTheBrand]

Wow all this point some actually made me question getting married early! This was so educating 👌👌

[@okeoghenedesigns]

She looks familiar. Like someone that attends salvation ministries

[@faridatsuleiman8857]

Very Interesting and Educative Vlog. Pls we need more of this content. Keep up the good work.

[@asaireneikejah]

Marrying early is okay if you marry the right person ❤❤

[@musicschoolfactoryceo]

Marrying late is not ok if you marry the wrong person

[@asaireneikejah]

@@musicschoolfactoryceo noted

[@auntyneme]

Abeg I disagree! You can find that person again and even find better! If 1st Corinthians go, 2nd Corinthians is still available. Glad it worked for you anyways . Lovely video. I alwaysss enjoy Loudly woman❤

[@bbhairyfros1996]

This is very insightful Everybody path is quite different Anywhere you find yourself be happy and walk in line with your pace. Marrying early is very nice, especially when you find the right person for you. There's always an advantage and disadvantage. No man is an island, hmmn I got alot of value here. Ma nelo we need more of this educative content. Thanks for imparting lives 🙌

[@sylvaekpendu1636]

Hmm Personally I want to get married early. And I’m at that age already. But then….at the same time, I want to achieve certain things for myself before getting married. I also want to have my children at an early age. But things happen… Prioritize sometimes shuffle due to certain reasons…

[@IfunayaE]

I’m 21, I got married last September, This is such an inspiring video ❤. I pray the future holds a lot for me.🥲😊🙏🏼

[@PreciousKay]

Amen & congratulations 🎉

[@PreciousKay]

@@sophiao5855 😂😂😂 you sound so miserable & frustrated with the life you live 😂😂😂 May God heal your bitter heart & give you peace ✌🏻

[@crystalnne9589]

Truth is that asking her to choose between marriage and her career is not great! She was young, yes, she could have found better.

[@gwatanagrace849]

I met him at 15 broke up at 21 and still single.

[@peacelonge9651]

Hello Nelo and the community 🤗, what do you think of marriage counseling before marriage please. I am getting married but I am kind of not interested. ADVICE PLEASE 🙏

[@abbyvictoria2389]

This is a nice video…Like I would always say; Different strokes for different folks. Life happens on its own terms. Everything that happens can happen to everybody and anybody. If Marriage happens, be grateful… if it doesn’t, be hopeful… most importantly, pray to God to marry right, be happy and love yourself regardless. Married or single, depression is real! Bad things aren’t a respecter of status, age, or whatever. God’s grace above all! 🙏

[@ifyodogwuumeh9321]

Nice 👍 video …. So engaging and enlightening…. Early marriage is ok 👌 if it didn’t turn out a huge mistake… I got married @ 23 going on 24 … and I was already doing well in my career … because I graduated @ 19

[@GennasHome]

I got married at 18 and I wasn’t sure too but it’s worth it tho ❤

[@ILikecats100]

Lovely discussion

[@olukimkan3837]

I stumbled on this and you guys are doing a good job. Many young people out there are so shallow. This is real, many marriages collapse because of basic things you mentioned. Some women want Godly men believing they can easily manipulate them.. Godly women are not easily fooled like Godly men. Godly men and women ??? Thanks for the good work. Your guest / friend should be a counsellor / relationship expert. She would be one of the best in a few years. Maybe her calling. Best wishes.

[@tolafadare4033]

I love how honest this conversation is, God bless you 🙏

[@estelalicea591]

I really enjoy this new series on your channel. Please don’t stop doing them.

[@agoiobunso]

10years wow she look great

[@PreciousKay]

Thanks so much

[@kehindeolayinkaolaposi8426]

It takes 2 to tango. We often overburden the African woman with the responsibility of making a marriage work. Both parties need to put in the required work to make marriage work.

[@soniadaniel6295]

Thank God for a mother who knows how to guide her daughter.

[@chichikekeocha5264]

This is so true. Thank God for excellent mothers with pure hearts as it makes a whole lot of difference in the lives of children.

[@livingportalstv]

I’ve not seen the person yet but I’ll definitely marry for money na mumu dey find love

[@PreciousKay]

😂

[@eluanmark4204]

Ah😂😂😂

[@Patiencegodswill-1479]

Keep soaring Nelo,be a loudly woman!👠🧝✍️🎤

[@kunledaniel4066]

Nelo, Precious.....another amazing session.

[@adegbolaoluwawamiri3027]

Nice content

[@gokemeoboden5233]

I love her views on marriage.

[@PreciousKay]

Thanks 🙏

[@chisomudezue]

I love her already ❤️❤️😍

[@PreciousKay]

Thank you so much

[@Eberethelma]

I really love the sincerity in this video.

[@fatime030]

Love love this woman

[@missstanford]

First here 🔥🔥🔥

[@Winnerulor]

Precious is my church member @salvationministries I’ve seen her a couple of times and worked with her too Very sweet lady😘

[@PreciousKay]

😂

[@clemancegomesmendes6391]

The two Of you look adorable 🥰

[@PreciousKay]

Thank you so much

[@bolubabz9468]

Loved this so much. Welldone Nelo!

[@martinsenobong9241]

For someone who watched the first video, I understand her better now

[@brightestlighttv7157]

Great one

[@lightbearer1255]

Very educative video

[@Joneleojo]

Interesting 🤔

[@MomentsWithIbukun]

Enjoyed ❤

[@Comfort_Moses]

I honestly loved and learned a lotttttttttt!!!! God bless your marriages and keep you all ❤

[@madeidanimo8963]

I really did enjoy it.. yesssss she is wise👌💯

[@pattinahukah3146]

You are doing a great job with this new channel of yours, KUDOS Nelo👍🌹.

[@lovejenae170]

Well done my dear, I really enjoyed watching is like it will not end 💕 love and your guest is so smart, this is mummy champions I have problem with my KZbin it will soon be done thanks

[@cherylhaughton4171]

Wise words this is a beautiful video nelo

[@olabanjianuoluwapo7334]

Beautiful conversation.

[@egharevbamargaret9863]

Thank you Nelo I actually needed this video 🙏🙏🙏

[@strothermercy4878]

Beautiful and wise video my Nel💙

[@jennysoutlet]

I enjoyed this video so much. I like your guest.

[@linamabitor522]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ nice conversation ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rachaelogunleye4603]

I love her but it's wrong to say older single women cry at night. Marriage isn't compulsory, in fact the Bible says it is better to be unmarried. Marriage isn't a destination everyone must get to. Also, choosing a man over your career can be very disastrous even if he's a good man, people pretend while courting and they change after marriage so you can never tell how the marriage will turn out. Thank God it works well for her.