Netflix's THE BIG DAY Is Full Of Annoying Rich Kids & Pseudo-Femenists!

[@harpriyakaur3304]

Mehangi shadiya karna koi achievement nahi hai! - Shan Prashar (2021)

[@Abhicoco]

Ha ha aba ah... we have a doctoral scholar here

[@ruturajshiralkar5566]

Ambani: 🤨🤨🤨 kya bola be!?

[@Aj-fd4ne]

True

[@saadkah]

Indeed

[@grigotts]

Indian society be like: Am I a joke to you ? Job chod doon ?

[@apurwa3989]

I want to be rich.. But itna bhi nhi ki bche chutiye Ho jae 😂

[@deepchoudhary2191]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Himansshh]

Gazab😂😂

[@anjaliawasthi9214]

😂😂

[@Womendeservebetter1]

NRI log bahut chutiye hote hai Abhi tak bole chudiya bole kangna me hi atka hai unka Celebration

[@HarryCasanovadevilhunter]

@@Womendeservebetter1 same bro, abhi tak 90's bollywood vaali image bana rakhi h India ki

[@captainvane104]

Here are honorary mentions which he forgot - 1) Indian Matchmaking 2) Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives

[@pffa9675]

He's already done 2

[@dheeraj._.016]

@@pffa9675 the first one too

[@kaeyana8541]

Thus concluded that shantanu will never be able to forget about four more shots

[@rangerswing]

It has been burnt into his brain. He will remember it till the day he dies. Poor Shantanu is cursed

[@TheBindassGuy]

seriously, he won't be able to get rid of that shit 😂😂😂

[@nidhikamat5269]

His brain cells died bro, trauma is forever 😂

[@pvriderup13]

In my opinion, whose roots are rich are seems to be more humble and sober but those who suddenly got lots of money has developed some sort of mental unstability in mind due to which they started doing Bakchodi.

[@minaldhurve8988]

So true.

[@aayushiamin718]

seriously man pretentious to another level

[@shraddhapatnaik2585]

Soo true!!

[@Desijersey]

Someone who works hard to get wealthy will never do this kind of bakchodi

[@dr.s.choudhury8089]

Yes that's the difference between these shallow new moneys and the actual classy people.

[@ShanPrasher]

I would really have loved to watch this show had they shown 'everyday couples working hard & saving up to pay for their own wedding'.

[@mayurgianchandani1184]

Sir Netflix does this to generate controversy and some sort of traction to their shows. Sab reletable Hoga toh Netflix India ke KZbin channel par Tanmay Bhat kis baat par joke marenge

[@Notsodamsel]

Same. These kind of shows put an unnecessary pressure on parents and couples. And not to forget, it produces an exorbitant amount of "woke feminists" who obviously have no clue what is feminism about.

[@mayurgianchandani1184]

@@Notsodamsel Woke feminists is trigger for 4 more shots for Shantanu 😂

[@TheAnchalnigam]

Well the girl Pallavi Bishnoi and her boyfriend spend their own money in the wedding.

[@anushakulkarni2062]

@@Notsodamsel you won't believe, but my comment (pinned one) on Kanyadana got deleted somehow, all I did was post a healthy comment about it's meaning and significance in Mahabharata :)

[@anushakulkarni2062]

Shantanu and his tough love for Four more shots! Lol :)

[@anushakulkarni2062]

@Mayuresh Dhat I didn't! In fact I had edited the comment having added another piece of information about Kanyadana mentioned in Sanatan Dharma. But the next thing I know is it was not there anymore. 🤷‍♀️

[@trailsofmusic6549]

KanyaDaan has been misunderstood over the years. The people who were poor back then they treated their daughters as bojh. Even they misconceptualised it. As per the old texts, KanyaDaan actually doesn't mean Kanya ka daan, it's Gotr Daan, i.e, Kanya kE GOTR KA DAAN. This Daan is considered as the purest form of Daan, because Kanya is called the Laxmi of the house and and is most lovable and precious to her father. The Groom is considered as Narayan. That's why giving away the hand of most precious person(Laxmi) of Ur life to another man is a true Daan. Here DAAN doesn't mean charity. The sanskrit word Daan doesn't have any exact English translation. Daan has been derived from the word BALIDAAN, where Raja Bali gave his most precious thing, i.e his life as DAAN. And ofcourse life can't be given as charity. Sanskrit is a complex language and many of its words have been highly misunderstood. AND this sO cAllED WoKe pEOplE..make anything out of it. Because itni knowledge Hoti toh iss show mein thode hi jaate. Simple!

[@kaavyaganesh6441]

great explanation. the reason is still very fucking sexist tho. and apparently casteist too.

[@kindofanmol]

THIS.

[@Niyanta4]

How does this explanation make it better? Your explanation also shows that women has no identity of her own. Why is her identity treated like an object which gets transferred frm father to that of husband. This is the basic idea due to which we have practices where she is not the decision maker of her life, also she could not inherit property in those times because her gotra is donated at the time of marriage. If she was raised by the family she should remain part of the family forever. And still if divine reasons se kanya ke gotra ka daan krna hai then make it even and also donate gotra of groom and let the couple start their new gotra. Please stop glorifying patriarchy

[@NM-we1hz]

@@Niyanta4 The man explained the ritual of kanyadaan in the best way possible and still you managed to manipulate it. Good skills......

[@Niyanta4]

@@NM-we1hz How is donating gotra of kanya better than donating kanya?

[@tarungohil10]

Netflix is really trying hard to defaming our culture 😅

[@mananagrawal6155]

Seriously tarun..... I don't know what these guys have problems with our culture.... Man defaming it again n again.. Do.it with other culture.. riot ho jayenge...

[@ItsAnk4]

Lol, Netflix is showing both the sides, they have shown the couples who have done, who have not done, and who found middle path. It is the lesson you take and perspective you make, which forms your opinion.

[@jatin08unadkat]

@@ItsAnk4 The point is this is Leftist Propoganda so they showed both sides as they don't want to be caught with their pants down and hence have an Alibi ready stating that they have shown both sides & u defending Netflix is exactly what they wanted, show me one show or series on wedding where Muslim couples don't want Nikaah or want to move away from Kubul hai tradition or where Christian weddings don't have kiss d bride, I do etc. Open ur eyes and minds to see how they are using OTT & cinema to demean ur culture and tradition right in front of ur eyes and we have Hindus defending this. No invasion succeeded to change Bharat from their Sanatan Dharma / Hinduism bcz they forced conversion and targeted religion rather than culture and tradition. When Hindus become secular it means they have to move away from their religion and traditions and accept Muslim & other minorities culture open heartedly to appear progressive, cool and woke

[@jatin08unadkat]

@@ItsAnk4 If now they can stop this demand by making even 2 successive generations off them, not doing Pooja in Diwali, No Kanyadaan or mandap in Shaadi then they will kill the demand & need for Brahmins who in turn will dwindle as there is no economic benefit now to learn Vedas, shastras and rituals etc. The only class which preserved our oral tradition would be extinct in 50 to 75 years or so & hence these targeted attempts by leftist propoganda to subvert & demean our culture, traditions, beliefs and practices with Focus on festivals etc

[@abhishekraj4635]

@@mananagrawal6155 logo ko pseudo liberal feminism bna kr brainwash krna r communist government form krna...

[@sibanipanigrahy5509]

The definition you gave about kanyadan is actually the definition in our ancient texts. A women who can unite two families and two clans, is respected as the uniter of two cultures and kanyadan is done to give the girl blessings to start her new life

[@VivekSingh06]

lol, still you cannot deny from the fact that Kanyadaan is made up by two words: Kanya + Daan. That means, "donating a girl". Your definition has no reference in ancient text.

[@sibanipanigrahy5509]

@@VivekSingh06 yes it does mean donation of daughter for merging two families. When brahma created a girl and the concept of Marriage he called the girl dwija, the ine who unites two clans. Thats why kanya daan is considered greatest daan. Its also done as a symbol as the changing of a girl's gotra. And these kind of rituals is not unique to india. Its also in church weddings where a father walks his daughter down the aile and give her away. Its all just symbolic

[@VivekSingh06]

@@sibanipanigrahy5509 Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Do you think in today's era of equality, leaving homes by girls after wedding makes sense? How about donating boys for merging two families? How about boys' parents should do "Vardaan"? i.e. donating var (boy) for merging two families?

[@pranaypurohit7855]

@@VivekSingh06 love day tera nam bhi vivek+singh he to love day tu sher ho gya kya? Chutiya hi hain na?

[@justhere7813]

@@VivekSingh06 kanyadaan = kanya + aadan. But morons being morons can't read real scriptures, don't really know sanskrit but have an opinion on everything 😂😂🙏🏼

[@dr.s.choudhury8089]

Why only these rich north Indian weddings (that too Delhi, Punjabi, Rajasthani) only shown as the only representation of Indian weddings??? There are many other communities who have simple, elegant but not over the top ceremonies. They should be shown too.

[@sb37154]

Punjabio ko dikhawe ka zyda shauk h isiliye plus baap ke peso c krte h dikhawa...

[@kanikakanika8377]

Rajasthani weddings kahan hai bhai sirf Rajasthan main palace main shaadi krne se Rajasthani nhi hoti wedding

[@kanikakanika8377]

Aur na hi yeh punjabi wedding hue koi bhi naam ke punjabi hain bss

[@kanikakanika8377]

And rest are ignored

[@onceajordan]

It’s not a show about that. Simple.

[@ruparanganathan5014]

Beauty lies in simplicity. You can have a simple wedding also you can also distribute the wasted food to the needy people.but Netflix ne kuch aur samaj liya aur hag diya. Because it is simple to be difficult but very difficult to be simple

[@osadeiny6712]

Right

[@orchids3735]

Well said

[@loveyourself-n6y]

Women love luxury lifw

[@ankushnagpure7947]

People always concern about atmosphere sitting in AC rooms... That's so hypocrisy

[@thetransformation5643]

Four more shots' writers must be conspiring to kill shantanu 😂😂😂

[@user-je7zz6iq1b]

Probably by releasing a new season 😆

[@thetransformation5643]

@@user-je7zz6iq1b That'll be their last fault....shatanu is desperately waiting to roast them again😂😂

[@lonewarrior8245]

@@thetransformation5643 season 3 coming

[@bleh0933]

I thought before ki rich people are so open minded and classy... But then I saw Indian matchmaking and this show... Hum middle class hi theek hai

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

Sacchhhiiii yaar! Unka alag hi bawaseer hai

[@Sanjay_Singh_Bisht]

Village >>>>>> City >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> NRI or Woke ke chode (Madarchod)

[@ps272]

Wen netflix n bullywood thought that youth is "woke" but this time..........youth has really waken up n rejecting trash on culture , of any sort !!

[@MrDhruv96]

My family's wedding albums are more entertaining than these pseudo types marriages 🤣

[@vaishalin716]

U r right abt Kanyadaan. I'm a woman and I support it. Modernization doesn't mean that people insult and ignore our traditions... Ye sab showbaazi karte karte bolte hai ki showbaazi nahi chahiye...

[@aggressive9999]

True and thnx

[@mojo-fw9jo]

@@anupamaMall to ye kaha bola hai inhone comment me ki sab ko karna hi chahiye

[@vaishalin716]

@@anupamaMall kanyadaan na kare, mehendi na kare, sangeet na kare... Kuch na kare... Humko kya... Showbaazi karni hi nahi thi toh show main aaye hi kyu? Shaadi khud k liye kar rahe hai ya apne angrez doston ko, impress karne k liye..

[@aayushiamin718]

​@@anupamaMall uski shaadi happens to be a public affair and a show as well and it is being sold as 'indian weddings'whereas it is actually bashing indian rituals and preaching something which should completely be a choice. its not a problem if she does it her way the problem is that she is rubbing her choice in people's faces as a preaching and not merely a choice

[@vaishalin716]

@@aayushiamin718 exactly.

[@ashakhadka9747]

These reviews are wayy entertaining and fun than the shows! PS: have not watched any of these shows related to wedding or anything else. I just enjoy these reviews.

[@shefali0517]

Agree with u , now these days people are busy in destroying our rituals and traditions, if they personally have issues with some marriage rituals , they should go for register marriage, not break any pure rituals to show their fake vough and sudofaminism

[@mumbaikalla2247]

Make applause for shantanu's Biology knowledge 😄

[@jaeneung7058]

Exactly....

[@escapingthematrix888]

Please review “Jaani Dushman - Ek Anokhi Kahaani” 😅🤪

[@UttamKumar-ee]

Radioactive 😂😂

[@samash7302]

The show screams: “Rich people problems”

[@Hope-zr8uh]

Common people do gaali wali roast but shantnu doing biological roast is so goood. Banda knowledge flex kar raha hai

[@samikshyar1841]

your laptop has a different fan base 😂

[@shauryajain675]

Rich people and their pretentiousness

[@aiswaryabersan7983]

All grooms in this show must give a standing ovations for tolerating this woke feminist.

[@javaproject-jp7th]

That dehydrated B-Praak was a toxic woke individual

[@MayankMyOnlyLove]

They should keep making more seasons of four more shots so that Shan can keep reviewing them. 😂

[@lonewarrior8245]

Season 3 coming

[@khushboo6717]

Currently I don't know why people are busy stopping tradition which are fun and celebratory with some good meaning behind.. they want to just see negative..

[@ineedpowers5151]

SHTF wala scean ek baar hona chahiye dunia mai !! Saab apni aukaat mai aa jayanga

[@vish27singh]

Bro this is not just a review but I like how valuable your perspective has been and it’s really nice to hear it. Thanks man and wish you all the success.

[@Notsodamsel]

Tell us honestly, aren't you a low key fan of 4 more shots? 😂😂😂

[@purusingh3166]

Some say, India's most powerful weapon is nuclear power. In reality, if we make a DVD with Four More shots, Indian matchmaking, Fabulous life of B'wood wives and The Big Day combined, am sure we could even invade Jupiter.😇

[@gorillaisdork8319]

lol we can destroy Jupiter with that power xD

[@aadityanikam8830]

LOL I'm happy That Thanos wasn't Indian And didn't knew About these powers🤣

[@dhanrajshetty5161]

Damn, that combination will create supernova exploding entire solar system 💣🔥💥💥💥💥

[@pritech8302]

Well said

[@diveytaluja59]

I'm very happy that everytime he recommends 5 shows or movies there is one or more than one anime in that although I'm waiting for Naruto in his recommendation list 😂😂😂

[@siddheshsaraf5013]

One thing that I like the most about @ShanPrasher is that he has not picked up any bullshit fake accent inspite of living abroad for quite some time now. He is a real authentic Indian and speaks the same way. 🙏🏻

[@srisingh1709]

Kanya daan is now termed as "Hast milap" and it has very nice significance in marriage.

[@dedhsourupiyadega97]

That Rajkummar Rao joke was spot on 😂😂😂

[@simplyonbeautifuljourney8325]

We paid for our own wedding, (me and my husband) and believe me it wasn't as close as they've shown in the show , spending parents money for showoff, isn't a big deal, I didn't understand such woke logic 🤔, I only liked Daniel Bauer's and Tyrone Braganza's wedding, only they showed the real struggle

[@ShyamBheda]

Kanya daan wala point was so true... Thank you for bringing out this point and explaining the actual truth

[@vs_3080]

Nope, actually meaning of kanyadan is different in shastras, wikipedia and his explanation is shit.

[@reshmajamal9578]

One side we have people in this pandemic who have lost their lives , jobs, and much more... and seeing this absurdity is soo much frustrating....

[@anujayakashshukla4479]

Jokes aside I'm really happy that people like you respect Hindu traditions and culture 😭👍👍👍👍👍 God bless you brother

[@chaitalirathore8348]

12:18 in the beginning kanyadan was not about regarding daughter as a liability, but this practice was regarded as a favour done by the girl's family to the boy's family. And dowry was given to the daughter for her personal financial security. These logical practices were maligned by the people over time. Old is not always bad.

[@amanxojha]

Kanyadaan is in no way what you mentioned. It has a pretty simple meaning and it's mentioned in the name itself. Where I live, Kanyadaan is considered as one of the highest honour which grants you the Punya which directly translates to thr fact that every couple should have a girl child. (Kanyadaan is usually done by a couple, but if only single parent is available then it's also permitted.)

[@vivantae]

@Anian anian the roots of kanyadaan lie in considering woman as an object to be given away, since ANCIENT times. Woman have been considered and called "parai" for a reason. The reason being, them having no self knowledge of who they are but are seen as properties of others. Look at the roots,, it's considered the highest donation because a girl is being given away, as written in ancient texts, woman have no self value but are treated and grown up to and taught to be properties of others. THAT'S why. Stop justifying such disgusting ritual, specially when you are a man.

[@amanxojha]

@@vivantae How many ancient texts have you read?

[@শ্রেয়াচক্রবর্তী-ছ৬জ]

Kanyadaan is done only by Father... If not then any male member... Females aren't involved in that

[@amitsingh-yk3ps]

@@amanxojha she learnt it from bollywood puran🤡

[@shinchannohara5621]

@@vivantae source??

[@sukritidang]

"Mehengi Shaadi krna koi achievement nahi hai" THIS QUOTE NEEDS TO BE PUBLISHED EVERYWHERE!!!!!!!

[@chefneelmazumder]

21 dislikes are the family members of those couples😂😂😂

[@shaukatali386]

We are not interested in that show... We are interested in the way you talk.. Huge love and respect... 💯

[@Thatclassyexplorer]

Just like all of US, Shan is also still traumatized after Four more shots season 2. We feel same Shan!!!

[@Abhicoco]

When I watched this show.. I was like our country has actually gone to the dogs! Money spent on the education~ money wasted! 🤦‍♀️

[@yashashkapoor5210]

Shan , if you ever consider leaving doing reviews (not something which i would want you to do) try joining politics. The way you make logical arguments and explain it to the audience is so fascinating to watch. I really like the way you call out pseudo feminism , woke ka chodaism , hypocrisy in shows like this. ;)

[@VivekSingh06]

Its opposite. Logics are never appreciated in politics. You should be miles away from logics if you want to enter in politics.

[@vikramadityaguha6946]

86k views and 8.7k upvotes. I may be wrong but this is one of the highest upvotes to views ratios ever. Shows the engagement the content creator has with his target audience

[@parulrajwanshi3282]

Equality and hiring a full female crew is related Shan. Equality steps in in this because is never been considered normal for women to work, they didn’t get their due opportunities, so by hiring a full female crew u try to remove that historical disadvantage and today bring women up to the level of men. Same about the female pandit thing. Yes the comfort point I agree with. Idk how her husband really meant comfort it was vague.

[@akumar24324]

Okay so I'll hire a full female crew for cleaning of my toilet for whole of my life nice na?? Let's promote equality....yu hooo

[@shouryagoyal3373]

Best lines of the video - " Lalu yadav ke chare ghotale jesa ye show " and " Lakad bage ke sambhog jesa ye show "

[@Abhijeetkumar-bg7yj]

Also I thought that Netflix is full of tatty show who only want to defame the india and indian culture please I think we don't have to tolerate these kind of show please don't visit Netflix ever for these kind of show

[@Abhijeetkumar-bg7yj]

And I also think that shan should also don't watch these types of tatti's

[@San-oi1ms]

Bilkul sahi bhai, aur real life me bhi koi hindu culture ke bare me gyaan bate to uski wahi utaro jaam ke.. I do the same. Iska imapct padta hai society me

[@subhojyotyshome5603]

I would have loved if they made series on normal indian familes who sacrifice so much for a Indian wedding.. there are people who even sell their land and properties (which is not good but that what it is ) for a wedding.. 99 percent of Indians do not even relate with this show .

[@geetanegi2246]

People selling land for weddings is even worse than this show. Here people are spending money they have. People who sell their land to get children married are being insane . What is so great about such wedding? Why not make shows about simple weddings where people only spend what they can without causing hardships to themselves and their family in future.

[@chanchalika]

You said my mind , exactly these thoughts were coming to me while watching show

[@siddhusharma750]

The meaning of kanyadan means is not just take it away our girl actually the main concept is with gotr shifting if you gotr is parashar and the girl you are marrying is upadhyaye that time the parents of girl will allow the priest to do ceremony of changing the girls gotr that's it .

[@muskantrivedi6521]

Seems like you're never getting over the trauma of 4 more shots 😭😭

[@nikitamadan9825]

6.52 when he said," No Nikita" I got scared 😨😂😂

[@unitedstatesofindia1460]

When u can’t afford bawasir for your eyes but shantanuu is dope as hell and watches these shows and compile better summary for you 👏🏼👏🏼✌🏻

[@baateinaurcharcha]

📌📌📌Pardon, but Kanyadaan 1000ron saal pehle kabhi galat concept nahi tha, bojh wagerah wala. In fact it was in 18th and 19th century when this became bad to some extent. Because in my society it is considered as blessing, where people fight to do it. It's a way to express the love of girl child to someone who's marry her. It's a way where parents feel proud if they want to attaint the biggest " Punya " they can only attain through Girl child not through boy.

[@barnalidas8808]

Shantanu's dialogue at 1:00 was an inspiration for Selmon bhai's dialogue in Radhe🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rforr3779]

Achi khasi pawri chal Rahi thi tabhi Shweta ka mic on reh gaya

[@dhar2003]

Underrated.

[@kalpanaverma203]

You are soo sensible. The kandyadaan point is soo true..

[@AyushiPaliwal15]

Kanyadana is an emotion. People just create a fuss about everything. Those who have studied and understand the concept will know that it is NOT a Daan (charity) and I am sure Nobody would want to give away their daughters in the right state of mind. Those who have witnessed the ritual know the emotion connected to it.

[@themagicmind7613]

Kanyadaan and Go daan mantra is the same.

[@jagriti5163]

Kanya daan is giving away your daughter.

[@vivantae]

Kanyadaan literally means giving away your daughter. Are you fcking stupid?? That treats women like objects for them to be "given away" thank god in my family nowadays every marriage EXCLUDES kanyadan

[@animeshgautam6197]

And kanya daan don't means a girl is burden on him it's the feeling of mentally sick people not a illiterate people. It's simply means I am donating my responsibilities to bride now it's your responsibility to keep her happy.Its no where means that a girl is burden and I am giving you my burden.from starting to till now it doesn't represents a girl as a burden. That's why kanyadaan dunya ka sabse bada daan mana jata hai. It's my thinking and I am not here for starting an useless debate

[@animeshgautam6197]

@Amandeep Wahi mtlb kuch bhi😂😂

[@deepikavaghela3296]

I agree with you. This show is way too much tati. I was so much expecting from this show and kya hi mila. Sabse bekar chiz ye hai ki not following traditions is cool! Kbse bhai?? I agree with every word you said!

[@nitiksha1990]

Pancreas ke jagah eosophagus hai... That's some imaginatively weird anatomy

[@shamakrai3310]

Shantanu roasting Amazon Prime and suddenly it's ad shows up 😂😂

[@vaibhavsingh6032]

how u survive after watchng this show😂😂😂😂

[@anshumanmishra5073]

I'm 100% sure Shantanu was a Biology student.

[@dancerchick]

i think he is a CA.

[@alankritamishra7204]

@@dancerchick his wife is a C.A not sure about him . but the amount of knowledge he have implies he is someone belonging to biology field or have great interest in it .

[@dancerchick]

@@alankritamishra7204 under the scam 1992 review..someone wrote "shantanu knows all this(commerce related stuff) because of his wife who is a CA.. to which shantanu replied "main kaunsa kam CA hu" ...and i know he has a commerce background...

[@alankritamishra7204]

@@dancerchick may be he is

[@prankurbishnoi1014]

kanyadaan me aajkal ladki daan nahi ki jaati, but its a transfer of responsibility of making sure that the girl is happy from her dad to her husband

[@tanmayjhala9]

I think, aaj Kal hi Nahi, the true sense of kanyadaan was always transferring the responsibilities, never as an objectification of woman.

[@mehakgoyal2563]

@@tanmayjhala9 are toh vhi bt h na aurat kyu responsiblity h admi kyu nhi aurat bhi toh le rhi h husband ki toh ladka daan kyu nhi h

[@sargammalik5249]

why can't she take her own responsibility, why do she have to be dependent on a man her whole life.And if marriage is about transfer of responsibilities then why the groom is not donated or sacrificed(daan)

[@prankurbishnoi1014]

@@mehakgoyal2563 in a relationship people are responsibility of each other, n why groom isnt donated, u must be the type of people who ask why bride has to go to groom's house n not the other way around, its just how its been done n u wanna change it u can

[@tanmayjhala9]

@@mehakgoyal2563 see, now I don't have answer for why girl has to leave her house and go to her husband's home. But what I know is since SHE is leaving her house with someone that's why it is or was called kanyadaan. It's not about complete dependency on husband. Even during vedik era, where women were equally knowledgeable, equally took part in battlefields, but then also somehow financial dependency might have been there. Nowadays, women are financially independent. That's brilliant. I was not talking that transferring of responsibilities is true for even today, but was just opining that kanyadaan never translated to objectification of women. People took it in wrong way, that's a whole different story.

[@01harshit]

It's not far from reality. It's the reality of the excessively rich.

[@akramlogan6370]

The Money they spent or I say wasted on these Weddings. It would have helped hundreds of poor parents to get their children married without any issues.

[@sainaresh6830]

Shan bhai is a true woke critic...he criticises every pseudowoke ideology that he encounters..😎😎#muthlandforever

[@advaitmore970]

Zodiac is very underrated David Fincher film. Thank you for recommending it to others. Also One Punch Man ❤️

[@piratequeen7431]

I've seen a lot of reviews of this show and your one is the only detailed one..wish I could give a hundred likes to this video

[@sidroy2995]

KZbin is so much boring nowadays ....ur shows r the spice of uthub

[@gururaaaajsl2010]

My wife earns more than me. I definitely don't have a problem and I am quiet by this fact too, but now I have a problem because she is not happy with this fact that she earns more than me so I am not a match to her anymore and she is stuck with me. She is thinking over her next step now. P.S. before marriage I used to earn double than her😭

[@ankitaroy2740]

You said the truth. Hats off. Playing with our marriage traditions is something that hurt me

[@fatymah2391]

I love how he roasts four more shots in almost every video😂😂

[@rupal_hs]

What makers are trying to convey by making these types of shows?

[@IMSIDBOSE]

Take a shot everytime Shan says *"Woke"* . Haha! Great reaction 👏🏻

[@Abhijeetkumar-bg7yj]

Is there I'm only one who came here to enjoy the show not for suggestions or review for a movie or show

[@Seriouslyayushman]

Kanyadaan means extending rights of that girl who is getting married from her father and mother to husband and it is one the greatest ritual in the hindu religion which opens the gate of heaven for her father and mother it was never negative and by the passage time the term 'KANYA ADAN' became KANYADAAN. And in the whole process kanyadan is not even mentioned one time when the ritual performer perform the whole process and for your help even lord krishna was not even favour of this word.

[@Seriouslyayushman]

@BHAGWAN atheist it is what it is. You don't want to accept you are free not to.

[@vishakhahudekar9235]

Now it’s time for you to make a video on second season too.. 😬 loved this video Shan..

[@goyalnishugoyal007]

I have been married since 1.5 years and we never even registered the salary difference. This is the first time I even thought about it listening to you. So I think it is all about ur partner.

[@the_euphoric_bud4454]

Thanks Shantanu for reviewing this Tattey shot series for us 😂 After your review, I think it's safe to directly watch episode 3 👍👍👍

[@nishtha9180]

See , there is one thing about kanyadan that I want to point out. During the procedure of kanyadan, many don't know, the pandit performs "pinddan" of the bride as if she is not anymore alive for her family. I feel this part of it is completely wrong .

[@thecapatalistpropagator_9470]

It’s just a ritual which doesn’t signify anything nowadays Today empowered married woman even take care of her parents

[@amanprasad1345]

Are you serious as I know nothing like pinddan is done

[@San-oi1ms]

@@amanprasad1345 shes gone mad bruhh😂😂

[@prashantsharma8978]

I'm glad I found this channel. P.s. please keep giving these recommendations at the end👍

[@sulaganabiswas]

I differed with the views of the vlogger on many aspects but I really liked his forthright witty style of speaking

[@durga351]

Hi Shan , I really enjoy watching all of your videos and you are very very funny . I don't know if you will read this but I hope you do just to see the same situation from a different perspective . I agree with a lot of points you made in this video except for one . In my opinion equality is not to draw a same basic starting point for everybody and measuring them from there . Equality is when you empower the weaker and give strength the the weaker to be able to match with the competition . We still have cast related quota's in India became of how badly people of upper cast mistreated people of lower cast . So the government decided to give them extra benifit to encourage and bring them to the same level . Same goes with women, I find it hurtful when you called some girls in this video pseudo feminist just because she would prefer to work with a women then a man with the same qualifications or prefer to have a female pandit . A male pandit or a man with qualifications will find opportunities regardless . But it's not as easy or as simple for a woman , atleast was not for many many many years . So if as a woman who can understand the true pain of being oppressed or rejected has the power now to empower another women and make opportunities for her ,it's not wrong . It's not fake feminism . We as women have a very strong relatability factor when it comes to inequality . I agree it can be tough for men to understand it like we do or be in our shoes . All I am trying to say is if I want to hier a female pandit for my wedding it's because I want to encourage her and empower her not to show any inequality towards the male pandit .

[@aspirant9845]

But it is inequality towards male pandit

[@durga351]

@@aspirant9845 I cannot argue with someone who has difficulty understanding different perspectives or basic logic. If in your opinion it's inequality so be it. buhbye

[@aspirant9845]

@@durga351 that's what I expect from a feminist

[@durga351]

@@aspirant9845 I know right, its a good thing. Finally misogynists like you are getting agitated and uncomfortable after years of getting your way.

[@abhijitjayade]

You are too good. But daan means giving a pracious thing. Kanya was supposed Lakshmi in ancient society also. A daan is to be preserved carefully

[@bha2686]

One of those days when I am watching all your videos again and making sure I have liked them. Love you bro👍

[@nisargmehta9347]

Shantanu you always rock🎉

[@simranwilasra2196]

About kanyadan, the original ritual symbolized how a marriage would extend the rights of a woman. A woman doesn’t need marriage to exercise her rights now (in theory) so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with women not wanting to perform that ritual. It’s not a choice they should be derided for. Of course you can still criticize people for not understanding the full context of the ritual.

[@Ritush21]

Kanya ka daan is kanya daan, so similar yo how you give daan of food and clothes Indian parents give daan of there daughters. Of course it is a part of hindu culture but also comes along the fact that a daughter is being given away and that is her new house. Hence the daughters in many cases have lost there lives due to dowry, violence by in laws or husbands etc and parents and “society” says that try and make it work cause that’s your new house. Therefore either kanyadaan should be stopped or the boy should be given in daan as well. Just because a culture has been followed by hundreds of years doesn’t mean it’s right. Desperate times need desperate measures. But off-course it’s not going anywhere coz patriarchy rocks.

[@zuzuuzuz3]

@@Ritush21 I have to disagree with you kanyadaan is not not donating the bride . It is a simple ritual in which the father trusts the groom to care of his daughter and hands over the responsibilities of taking care and protecting his daughter to the groom .

[@zuzuuzuz3]

@@Ritush21 same way in western tradition a father walks down the aisle to give his daughter's hand to the groom

[@Ritush21]

@@zuzuuzuz3 you can disagree if yu know the realities. Do u know what” daan “means in kanyadaan? I know what I’m talking about, it’s a reality based information nit movie based.

[@Ritush21]

@@zuzuuzuz3 this custom isn’t western, it’s catholic and they are a part of India as well.

[@ambidextrousseamer7101]

Shantanu YOU MUST READ THIS MAN. Bhai kafi accha sum up kiya Shantanu tumne. Bahut achha. Ek baat mai tumko bolna chahunga ki Kanyadaan ke baare me jo tumne bola ki hazaaro saal pahle jo soch thi ki ye Kanya ko ek bojh ke roop me dekhte the etc....I think ye galat dhaarna hai tumahri. Let me explain. Kanya + Daan = Kamyadaan. Yaha par Kanya ka Daan kiya jaa raha hai na Dulhe ke haath me!? Ab socho jo kuchh bhi hum daan karte hai dhan/vastu, kya vo sab valuable nahi hoti. Us dhan/vastu ko hum bahut dular-pyaar se apne paas rakhte hain, na ki bojh samajh kar. Daan ki jaane wali koi bhi vastu badi khaas hoti hai. Tumhe shayad pata ho ki Stree ko bhi dhan mana gaya hai. To bojh kaise ho sakti thi vah. Haa recent past me (last 1000 years maan lo) Dharmik agyanta ke kaaran logo ke stree ko matr ek product ke jaisa dekhne ke kaaran aisa smbhav hua hai. I am not denying ki kuchh log vaastav me bojh nahi maante the, beshak maante the but that's not the original thought.

[@SA-qr2ze]

Ur POV on pseudo feminism is so perfect 👍 Hope ppl learn from u

[@neelt4975]

There is 'nothing' wrong with Kanyadaan!!!!It was never supposed to be bojh based.

[@ankurmandal847]

Stumbled upon this channel first time, nice content !! Completely WORTH !!

[@AmitSingh-xb5qt]

One of the finest poetess of today's urdu Ghazal Mrs. Shabeena Adib's famour she'r : "जो खानदानी रईस हैं वो मिज़ाज रखते हैं नर्म अपना, तुम्हारा लहजा बता रहा है, तुम्हारी दौलत नई-नई है।" Neither I watched this show nor gonna be. I want to keep my "Tatte" safe. Afterall they carry a generation 😂🤣

[@rudys3649]

Very nicely done. It is a very subtle attempt to break our society and families.

[@vaibhavlohiaiitr5849]

SHANTANU WAS SURELY A NEET ASPIRANT 😂❤️