NEVER DATE NIGERIAN MEN IN NIGERIA 😫🤮😭!! The TRUTH + A DISCOVERY! | EfikZara

[@medline5140]

This is so accurate and I see these same characteristics with Caribbean men, especially with Haitian men! I was at a gym minding my business and this Haitian guy tells me if I have a boyfriend (which he then tells me his English isn't good but yet you can ask if I have a bf. smh) and I told him I'm sure your wife wouldn't be pleased with your behavior towards me. He then tells me he has a wife and a child who are back in Haiti!!! smh So sickening to hear this grown man tell me he left his wife and child back home in Haiti. Girl, he is still married and had the audacity to ask me for my number twice after I told him no and walked away and he yelled out "I'm sure your boyfriend would be okay with me talking to him. smh Where are the quality men at??!!! lol

[@APTTMHYforever]

That reminds me of a movie… can’t remember the name but he omitted to tell her about his family BUT then when she found out, she decided to stay in a relationship and even flew back to Haiti with him and the wife made it clear that she could care less and was NEVER divorcing her husband… a mess chile🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Tomi_janet15]

So sad!!!

[@MollyJOfficial]

@@APTTMHYforever I remember that movie!!! It was a whole mess 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@48mavemiss2]

I’m a first gen American, my parents are Jamaican. I will tell you point blank period when it comes to West Indian and Latin men never ever date them when they are FOBs. They either have a family, married, girlfriend, looking for a green card or some combination. It’s sad, but all my first gen friends say they have had the same experiences. It’s very rare to find a partner who upholds monogamy if that is what you seek. Even some of the first gen men are the same way.

[@Abmarp]

I give up.

[@Victoriathewriter]

I just love how you carry yourself. Like gold yet if toyed with will react but not stressing yourself.

[@Tabetha.]

👍

[@MollyJOfficial]

“I could help you find a husband, we’ll control him and doing our thing on the side”… I’m just praying and fasting caaauuse Jesus take the wheel!!! 😨😭🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@mcm3301]

did you actually see what you wrote? If you're into Jesus, why would you want to control a man?

[@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518]

​@mcm3301 The QUOTATION MARKS USED IN ENGLISH LANGUAGE are used at the beginning and end of that statement shows this commenter you are attacking wrongly is only QUOTING WHAT EFIK ZARA SAID about the billionaire who wanted her as a side chic as her FIRST EXAMPLE of the group of Nigerian men who cheat! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@chisomo8088]

@@mcm3301reading is obviously not one of your strengths

[@ellakraneuche5382]

Your hair’s gorgeous ❤️

[@EfikZara]

Thank you so much 😀

[@olaines9154]

My Nigerian husband is nothing like the Nigerian men born and raised in Nigeria. He was born and raised in Los ANGELES and raised by wonderful parents. Thank God. Edit: you said billionaire lol. Not yet but soon 🤣🤣🤣

[@ngreat4390]

Happy for you but Nigerian born and raised men are mostly the best lovers world over. They're in high demand across Africa. Efikzara might come off as intimidating and out of reach for a lot guys because of her background. That means her selection pool is narrowed to men who think they can "afford" her, men who want arm candy and flings because there's also a prejudice on this side of the divide that American born girls are disrespectful, too independent to appreciate traditional values which is mostly what Nigerian men prioritize in relationships and marriage.

[@MissTracyyy223]

@@ngreat4390 Nigerian men born and raised here are the best lovers in the world? Biggest lie ha 😅

[@missfefeloves]

@@ngreat4390 what a lie! Lmao

[@Jennifer-uh8th]

@@ngreat4390 stop lying lol 😂

[@uchenna127]

@@MissTracyyy223 99% of Nigerian men are born in Nigeria. So this might as well be a piece are not dating Nigerian men period.

[@moreni2nd405]

"Help you find a husband and control him"....😂🤣😂🤣😂Omg! the audacity!!!!

[@wyntersteele1a]

I laughed so hard at that and pictured it in my head.

[@Spirit-Survival365]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 we want all the details on each billionaire, spill the tea....we want to hear more

[@amandamanime1846]

Oh my God this is weird but most men share those characteristics oh and am from Gabon 🇬🇦 but I had a long-term relationship with a nigerian guy... The kindest guy I dated till date. Thank God there are exceptions oooo. Good share sis😍

[@cocobronze7587]

That lip stick is on fire what brand and shade is that

[@EfikZara]

It’s three lipsticks in one! I used Jaxx Cosmetics Seky and Amal to line, then I used their VuVu gloss on top. You can find them on Instagram.

[@Tomi_janet15]

😍😍😍

[@missfefeloves]

The "I can help you find a husband and we could control him" also happened to me

[@Beebeetaylor15]

🤢💕💕💕💕💚💚🤢🤢🤢✅✅ girl I just want all the tea😭😂 I’m Ghanaian and I live in the states but my experience with Nigerian men haven’t been terrible but the way they operate…. Nawa ooo

[@LetThereBeLight1111]

This video was entertaining Ooo😭😭. Please do more dating storytimes 🔥 🔥🔥

[@uchmania2234]

You're gorgeous and your beauty will make way for you.

[@EfikZara]

Amen and thank you so much!

[@cirur.3934]

Vibes! Love your stories. Love from Kenya.

[@chebetanita]

Yaaasss, lots of love 💕 from Kenya

[@Tabetha.]

👍

[@namseru]

Hi, Can you share a YT video showing how to achieve your nice crisp clean filming effects, also what tools and products do you use to edit your videos, and add special effects. TIA

[@classysis6264]

The billionaire that’s not lunatic 🤣. Pretty hard to find hun

[@shardeymartis9414]

💙💚💛🧡❤️💜💙💛🧡❤️ I want to hear every story 🤩🤩🤩

[@rachaelo5410]

Girl, imma need alll the storiesss🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@theresamusonda9938]

💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 need some story times for sure

[@EfikZara]

Check em out SOON on my new channel!!

[@delphinehalle7166]

after watching this video ive come to the conclusion that the way everyone else talks about nigerian men doesnt even compare lollll aunty just gave a PhD course on nigerian men

[@Rita-kq6ki]

But y Nigerian have got bad records 🤔😕😳even in their entire country they're behaving badly 😢😳Jesus Christ, am from Uganda 🇺🇬but I used to admire Nigerian men, but after finding them in Dubai and they just to hit and run away, i lost interest and they have bad records in uae

[@fikayoadeniran2592]

Sometimes I feel sorry for our Nigerian men. Unlike their counterparts in the developed world, they struggle to see the woman as human. You will be surprised how most of them believe a woman is a commodity and should not have a say in what matters to her. They hate women who are financially dependent, but are threatened by the woman who is financially independent. Most of them will mostly likely expect you to act a certain way because you dress in a way they assume it's for male attention. But then Nigerian women commoditize themselves so they are always wondering when a woman comes along and is not following the manual. This is the monster created by the Nigerian women, we all will live to deal with it.

[@Spokentruths725]

Black American men see us the same way.

[@gloriaaguh5885]

@@Spokentruths725 Wow!

[@user-qk2th5gr3d]

when u realise that men in general don't see women as humans in the same way they see men lol

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

I think this is global actually.

[@animalworld3440]

Speak for only your father

[@africachannel7773]

"I could help you find a husband"🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MegaLadylove2012]

For wat?

[@Liyahw2326]

All men are universally the same at the core! The only difference is some are more “intelligent” in how they move than other groups. Some groups are reckless and sloppy, some are secretive and smart but they are pretty much all the same. Looks, money, status will bring out those undesirable qualities. Even beta makes and simps will bring out those traits when they obtain money or status.

[@mcm3301]

so true

[@hoodlutalo3708]

Sis spilled 🍵. Thank you 😊

[@megand8022]

This video is on time. My dude is Nigerian.

[@justdoit.86yearsago]

Are there that many billionaires in Nigeria or is this in naira?

[@EfikZara]

Lol there are actually quite a few billionaires but many of them are unreported… for some interesting reasons… if you know what I mean 🤐

[@makgatoobakeng1068]

hey 👋 👋 👋 I love your videos 💖💖💖💖 new subbie 😁 I just wanted to ask WHERE did you get your top or dress 👗 ??????😍🤩 I am just soooo in love with it 😍

[@mya4947]

🦚🦚🦚 story timee plss

[@nmesomaihunna801]

🧡🧡💚💚💓💓we need those story time girl💃🏿💃🏿

[@Ehib_realty]

Love your confidence...its really contagious...and yes I love You ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@chocolatesugar4434]

🌿🌿🌿 we need story times!! lol 💚

[@jiejoudom5521]

In as much as some of these things are surprising I’m not shocked 😹😹😹

[@Lily-uo6hp]

Why the vomit emoji in your caption though?

[@theunfilterededit]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥the tea please!

[@ellakraneuche5382]

We want detailsssssss🥰🥰

[@applebomb8924]

🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 💚💚💚💚 ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Listen!! I've encountered some crazies my doggone self.

[@Helennnn_o]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Please the teaaaa

[@clarajupiter5675]

I want all the story 🔥🔥🔥💘💘💘💘💘💚💚💚💚

[@Crystal.Adamma]

We need allll of the story timessss

[@itsnotmeitsyou717]

Please i want allllll the storytimes lol

[@poopah4480]

Hmm Village Hero with village mentality...hmm... Explains a situation that couldn't be explained before. Thank you 😘

[@Just1Independent1]

I'm looking forward to more videos like this! 💞🖤

[@dazzlingdwhitney3782]

I would drop all emojis but my current keyboard does not prohibit me too do that.

[@alexiaoluwa9899]

Happy New Year 🎉🎉. I want it all 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️💚💚💚🖤🖤🖤

[@ricosabo1002]

Ur beauty is on another level

[@rachelmartin5102]

🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 I would like to know the story too🤣

[@helendave1982]

Why is it that Nigeria women, don’t like dating other African men?

[@daliaa5294]

Because it reminds us of our father 😛

[@EfikZara]

Lol… I am pretty sure this person is asking why Nigerian women don’t date African men from other countries.

[@fikayoadeniran2592]

I think other African men don't approach Nigerian women. Nigerian men are very vocal about their love interests

[@97VIRTUESHEART]

@@fikayoadeniran2592 Are you sure, cause every Nigeria women I see don't like to marry other Africans men,the popular ones you see are married to whites or other few WA country.

[@joyuyoke4999]

@@fikayoadeniran2592 wrong most Nigerian women are attracted to only Nigerian men in Africa,but they can date other men outside Africa

[@beachlover9705]

SOOO how does one get into this circle outside the US?

[@rachelmartin5102]

💙💙💙💙 love the video.

[@EfikZara]

GANG GANG!!! Thanks for watching to the end, Rachel!!! 💙🅿🔵

[@mcm3301]

you made me laugh especially with those accents... that was fun to hear. If you watch Nigerian movies, you will get what is said here...

[@rachelmartin5102]

🧡🧡🧡🧡 I would love to know.

[@nyikomabaso6181]

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍Love you Gorgeous ❤️ your hair is lovely as usual …

[@Keithjordan1234]

Efikzara your so on point

[@Tomi_janet15]

1 wife and 1 girlfriend!!!!! Wow😱😳😦😮 I am speechless

[@kimmiepain3086]

Hello is your hair book only online and/or do you have paper back as well? Thanks...

[@EfikZara]

Hi! I’m working on releasing a paperback and hardback edition but it’s not ready yet.

[@kimmiepain3086]

@@EfikZara thank you...

[@EfikZara]

@@kimmiepain3086the paperback and hardcover are out!! amzn.to/3iA8H6I

[@kimmiepain3086]

@@EfikZara thank you, I will be purchasing

[@mya4947]

Story timeeee🍑🍊🦁🐅🚚🚼🥻🥭🦺

[@baruchabyahuah316]

Hey there, new sub. You look so beautiful and love the content♥♥♥sorry couldn't find the blue hearts lol

[@EfikZara]

Awwwww!! Thank yoooou and thanks for watching to the end! 🥹

[@princesswilliamsmommyof5]

how often do you post?

[@christineoti6460]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I'm nosey, I want to know lol 😂😂😂

[@StephaniaDesir]

🦚🦚🦚🍁🍁🍁🌺🌺🌺 storytime please

[@beachlover9705]

Are those her natural eye clor?

[@marlymercury1693]

💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚story time please.

[@Becky-kl1iv]

So true! Don't do it, ladies.

[@makkedahwells93]

💙💙💙💙 watched until the end. I noticed you've been mentioning non-binary etc. types in your monologues lately and I am wondering why? I am tired of this absurdity multiplying in our communities here in the US and was hoping for it not to spread to our motherland. However I know it is a spirit and only will it be broken by the Spirit. Nevertheless I just wonder why you included this language in your latest few vids.🙄🤔

[@EfikZara]

Because regardless of my beliefs, God is love. I’m an imperfect being but the least I can do is acknowledge people with different lifestyles because it’s one of the easiest ways to demonstrate love. I don’t want any of my viewers to feel alienated or isolated. I cannot share my faith with someone who feels I don’t value/love them. I’m still very much an American so my lens is colored by the openness of American society. It cannot change the way I express myself in my personal life, but again I’m a firm believer in demonstrating love.

[@ngreat4390]

@@EfikZara hmmm! Are you still wondering why you attract those kinds of men? The kind of men who can't take you home to mama... Anyway, I'm sure you don't want to marry a Nigerian man anyway... Cos no "good" Nigerian man wants to take that kinda talk to mama because they're very dedicated to raising right-thinking, emotionally balanced kids. All the best!

[@EfikZara]

Lol, you sound uneducated. I’ve met the parents of every guy I’ve seriously dated because I’m the prize, not the other way around. I drop niggas, they don’t drop me. But anyway, please address women in your class. You can’t afford me.

[@missfefeloves]

@@EfikZara 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@paggychou9460]

I'm going to NG in sept hope i get to see you. Will sure dm you

[@cvzdez]

I prefer honesty he will find a women who accepts it. Not me

[@miss_sennie]

🔥🔥🔥

[@patriciaflemming200]

Which one was Dino M.

[@amablogreactions]

But one of your parent is Nigerian

[@joyuyoke4999]

Both not one

[@WeMustAllStandAsOne]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Helennnn_o]

💘💘💘💘💘 please the teaaaa again 😂

[@judithnnabuihe6764]

The color of your eyes🥺 beautiful Are they natural?

[@villyv444]

Contacts

[@Helennnn_o]

😉😉😉😉 the teaaaaa

[@OneYesAwayTv]

Do Nigerian women scam guys from America to as well? I need some asking please.

[@moyoowoyeye7751]

🔥

[@canesugar911]

Story story. Please.

[@---re9jc]

All the stories are not new. Same story, different faces, same game. You just have to find the demon you're willing to settle down with as there are a tiny percent of decent responsible men.

[@blackdiamond7956]

@@proph-od1bj jealous B

[@fikayoadeniran2592]

She doesn't have to settle. She will enjoy her time as a single girl and her right person will come. Nobody wants demons

[@dududale62]

🥷🏿🥷🏿 do the video on the politicians

[@Jasyoucan]

💚💚💚💚

[@lashelleshauver6903]

💚💚💚💚💚

[@ekamanda84]

Hahahahaha Sis Wahalerrr 🤣...subscribed! if not for anything but that!

[@jacqal9922]

The DL millionaire?

[@EfikZara]

That’s a good one! There are a LOT of DL men in Nigeria 🤐🤫

[@jacqal9922]

@@EfikZara yes girl!!

[@missfefeloves]

@@EfikZara I agree

[@adrianeshannon5318]

💚💚💚💚🧡🧡🧡🧡💖💗💗💗💓💓💞 Please and thank you! 😊

[@moyoowoyeye7751]

💘

[@gerripearson9647]

💙💙

[@Helennnn_o]

⚪⚪⚪⚪⚪ please a video about to level up and attract high value men

[@jenniferdonaldson3010]

💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@yoginikawi9515]

💙

[@EbeleEby]

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[@sugrusweeney9420]

🟡⚫

[@jdebrew8463]

I like your topic. Why are you dressed in tat fashion. I want to respect young ladies.

[@emfatikkchic]

🧡💗

[@ngreat4390]

Nigerian born and raised men are mostly the best lovers world over. They're in high demand across Africa. Efikzara might come off as intimidating and out of reach for a lot guys because of her background. That means her selection pool is narrowed to men who think they can "afford" her, men who want arm candy and flings because there's also a prejudice on this side of the divide that American born girls are disrespectful, too independent to appreciate traditional values which is mostly what Nigerian men prioritize in relationships and marriage.

[@kind2423]

Nonsense, we don’t endure like our Nigerian raised counterparts.

[@kimmyrine]

💕💕💕💕💕

[@moyoowoyeye7751]

🦋

[@dorrisldn9651]

🧡🧡🧡

[@kkd3973]

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[@LeratoRobyn]

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[@EbeleEby]

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