Never Emotionally Invest in Your Job

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AaronClarey

6 ай бұрын

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@fatcatontario 6 ай бұрын

This definitely hit home. I was raised with a belief that your LOYALTY will be valued and reciprocated yet keep getting it shoved where the sun does not shine by employers, family, significant others, friends... no one taught me how to select people who deserve your loyalty and, from there I stand, 99% do not.

@trptguy23 6 ай бұрын

This has happened in every place I've worked at, but one keeps thinking: "this time will be different"

@Exalted_Example 6 ай бұрын

That's one of many great lies that boomers told everyone. I don't think it was a malicious lie - in their time it was true. Work for the same company for 40 years, at the end you'll get a huge retirement party in the reception of a 5 star hotel and a gold rolex. And they also could by a brand new Mustang from the part time job they had over the summer in high school. Must have been nice. But that was before the workforce doubled and they exported all our manufacturing jobs to Asia and Mexico.

@fatcatontario 6 ай бұрын

@@Exalted_Example agreed. If there is no loyalty from either side, how can one stay motivated to work for a company for longer than a year? Will job hopping become the new norm?

@tubalcain6874 6 ай бұрын

@@fatcatontarioI'm 66, and still having to work well into my 70s. Frequent job hopping is the way of the future near as I can tell. I've been at my job for 11 years. Dipped my toe in the water to see if I could land a better gig. Prospective employers told me I'd been on the job too long.

@fatcatontario 6 ай бұрын

@@tubalcain6874 sorry to hear that. I am about to dip my toes into finding another job after 16 years with an organization. We shall see what I am told...thought employers valued experience lol

@bradmiller6507 6 ай бұрын

It’s very important to do what you can to help the poor. The best way to do that is not to be poor.

@Hoffmanpack 6 ай бұрын

Right the poor don't need us normals hanging around takin all their sidewalk and camper space

@savioblanc 6 ай бұрын

If you ever hear the words, "We're like a family here... infact we are family" uttered by anyone in management at your workplace, I have only this advice for you - GET TF OUT OF THAT PLACE!

@baker8674 6 ай бұрын

"But...we're like family here!!"😭😭😭😭 Karen in HR reaction

@07wrxtr1 6 ай бұрын

Yup - all of these corporations love to take advantage of unresolved childhood familial issues. Many use similar techniques as cults

@TheY2AProblem 6 ай бұрын

I'm just gonna head out and get some milk. I'll be right back.

@cizzymac 6 ай бұрын

Unless you're white and male.

@ericdoheny9108 6 ай бұрын

I had orientation with an oilfield services company for a trucking gig a month ago. The HR lady literally said this AND started crying. Mind you- this is the person at the company who is THE FURTHEST REMOVED from company operations 🤣

@patrickmoran687 6 ай бұрын

After 40+ years in HR as one of the few white males to go the distance to retirement in that sorry “profession”, I learned that a job is not “yours”. It’s “their’s” in that they can take it back at any time. As such it is imperative to withhold being fully “engaged” in the job lest you set-up yourself for damage to your self value when the job is gone. Find another pursuit separate from the job to find self fulfillment.

@johnc339 6 ай бұрын

It is not even a job, it is a position a person occupies which has some responsibilities. Responsibilities from a job description which too often resembles a Ouija board. I learned this long ago such that an updated resume an eye on the exit is necessary.

@davids_d3246 5 ай бұрын

thanks man. in retrospective, which corporate position could have sense to work /apply?

@patrickglaser1560 6 ай бұрын

What really sucks cappy... we grew up in the 90s then the false flag happened in 2001... we had a taste of America at its peak

@RustyShackleford-vh2ys 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely agree. I’m 39, and feel like I tasted the last drop of the good part before it all went to total shit.

@steveg2277 5 ай бұрын

As a 30 year old. This shit right here is the most depressing to me when I think about it.

@drumyogi9281 Ай бұрын

@@steveg2277I am 37 and I remember how it used to be. It was much better.

@neilmcdougall4927 6 ай бұрын

You can't even logically invest in one either it seems

@titolovely8237 6 ай бұрын

when i was in my 20s i did what everyone told me to do. i got good grades in school, pursued a degree, avoided hard work and voted to help others. i was poor and mostly miserable. when i was knocking on the door of 30 i did everything the opposite. i stopped caring about degreed professions and went into a trade. i started telling others to fk off and that theyre stupid while working hard and doing excellent work. im now fairly wealthy for my age with several hundred grand net worth in my early 30s with a solid ~$95k/year income. im mostly happy. it wasnt until i stopped listening to what others told me and just started doing what seemed innately and obviously correct (go work hard and produce something) that i started achieving what id been told was achievable. as a millennial, i was DEFINATELY lied to.

@Exalted_Example 6 ай бұрын

If your net is several hundred grand in your 30s you're not 'fairly wealthy', you're in the 1% - if not you're EXTREMELY close. Most Americans literally don't have $400 in the bank.

@steveg2277 5 ай бұрын

I’m a millennial as well. Scary how similar our stories are. Glad we both turned shit around.

@mojoman327 6 ай бұрын

Clarey just isn't a team player.😅

@steveg2277 5 ай бұрын

A lot of doom and gloom over here forsure haha

@Evil-Rod-Farva 6 ай бұрын

Paulie Cicero had the best four words for this concept: “F*** you, pay me.” You have a job to make money and allow you to actually do the things you love. We are all hookers, our tricks just look different.

@tubalcain6874 6 ай бұрын

I'm 66, a metallurgist by trade, and I work in industrial sales. Going to have to keep pushing my boulder into my 70s. Been at my current job with a toxic little mom & pop shop for 11 years. Work with a lot of drama ridden and entitled young single mommies (an epidemic where I live) enabled by soft male management. Having been out in God's own trenches for a long time, and having died on the at will employment hill a few times, I've learned how to become adept at faking an engaged "rah-rah" persona, and also deflecting foolishness with having "senior moments", or just volunteering to do the donut dunkers duties they shirk. I've become the old go to guy now (job security🤷🏻‍♂️). I give a good faith effort and integrity, but I could give a rip about my employer, and emotionally investing in a place most likely spinning around the drain.

@slchance8839 6 ай бұрын

well played, sir.

@savioblanc 6 ай бұрын

Couldn't*

@basedmanlett 6 ай бұрын

Short Men get all the work done but promotions will go to tall guys, wahmen and minorities.

@onemanturret1641 6 ай бұрын

Hardest working men I know are short lol

@drumyogi9281 4 сағат бұрын

Idk about that. My team lead is shorter than me, so he must be 5’5”.

@basedmanlett 3 сағат бұрын

@@drumyogi9281 That's good. We need more like him.

@boskey10 6 ай бұрын

Peak America was 98-99. All down hill from there.

@vinnyvette6028 6 ай бұрын

Peak American was 1987. But of course you wouldn’t know, you were in diapers.

@boskey10 6 ай бұрын

@@vinnyvette6028 An you were old enough to think it would never end. How ignorant.

@user-rn2ug1dd3s 6 ай бұрын

cappy reinvents confession

@user-yv4mm6bx3c 6 ай бұрын

I can tell you the value of the one sport I watch. It is a time to relax and invest emotion and some time in a story for a few hours a week with my Brother and Dad. It's like watching a movie, or reading a book, or playing a video game. When the game is over, I go back to my life.

@trptguy23 6 ай бұрын

I was the dumbass who became a teacher

@BiffJohnsonIII 6 ай бұрын

Its ok, man. Even though students can access all learning materials on the internet these days.... none of them are motivated enough to learn on their own. Thats what school is theoretically for.

@Exalted_Example 6 ай бұрын

If it makes you feel better AI will be doing all the teaching within 20 years. If there even is teaching. There won't be white collar jobs not directly related to administering, training, or maintaining AI in some capacity.

@drumyogi9281 Ай бұрын

@@BiffJohnsonIIII was when it came to history, philosophy, finance and IT. Everything else school had to force me to learn.

@mightyzane5400 6 ай бұрын

Clarey we are one big happy family though in the work environment

@captainabez7086 6 ай бұрын

100% facts great video

@captainabez7086 6 ай бұрын

I wish my dad directed me like you because I went into the skilled trades because I am in social work and its bad as a male I think

@claytonbouldin9381 6 ай бұрын

My Sister is in social work. Her along with the people she works with are a hot mess.

@sylwesterirla9246 6 ай бұрын

thank you

@WendyOryen 6 ай бұрын

How is there supposed to be a good company culture if people snitch on you for being on KZbin? 😂

@rodricksage5963 6 ай бұрын

yes work three jobs to keep sending donation to cappy. and Cappy, woman can get saved by marriage, screw them. and if you keep going to this route, remember who put you in this position. the only reason your not working is cuz donation form guys.

@jayclouse8095 6 ай бұрын

Ok, so the world used to be, that you inherit a job, like black smith, farmer, carpenter and that is your life, that is who you are, that is what makes you important and relied upon by the whole community. People did their job, not to get rich, not as a tool to an ends, but because they were so ordained by God to fulfill a necessary niche and assure the world runs and progresses smoothly. so you are saying that everyone has become shallow, lazy, assholes who are just trying to screw everyone else over to get as much money for the least time and effort as possible, with no emotional investment. But don't you see that is the problem, and your advice is to play into that, to perpetuate that same mentality. do you not have any useful advice on how to restore the meaningful life, with class and caste and niche, where who you are and what you do in the greater plan of the community and the world combine. I mean you say you get the money from work, then go live your life, well what do you do when not working? watch movies, waste time on the internet, waste money as bars, eating out, shopping video games. Just wasting time away hoping to find a moment when you can be relevant and do something that matters, (aka like the fireman and the black smith used to do as their lives). You leave your house, and its just more grumpy anti-social people who are just wasting time, trying to avoid people and get back home to their netflix. So if there is no sense of community and purpose in your job, and outside of work is just wasting time, and other people have no sense of social interaction. All we become is irritable, listless, opportunistic workers, with no real purpose other than to exploit pointless jobs that we hate, working for people we hate, that are liars, the jobs are fake and do nothing good for anyone, and spend our lives being miserable. Your advice doesn't solve the problem. Ted Kaczynski offered better solutions, impractical and immoral at they may have been, they are at least potentially able to restore the meaning lost to industrialization.

@vikker8274 6 ай бұрын

Hobbies.

@OGTkayshakur 6 ай бұрын

Just was furloughed. Left after my landlord also sold her home(good for her). I move/Went west coast then three weeks later sous chef two weeks the place...💩

@systemicsystems703 6 ай бұрын

Damn!!!! Sorry, I haven't drunk in 7 years due to my choices. It hasn't gotten any better, but I have more money in my pocket and I keep a job. Life is hard and suffering with moments of joy, freedom, and clarity.

@OGTkayshakur 6 ай бұрын

@@systemicsystems703 Not drinking helps a lot but then drinking helps too...not as much though. Stay the course!!

@steveg2277 5 ай бұрын

Listening to Cappy while I’m annoyed at work has really helped me manage my anger hahahaha

@b-rainwash410 6 ай бұрын

💯

@Douglas_Gillette 29 күн бұрын

People who have a desire to behave a certain way, I would not call lazy. The smoker who wants to quit but can not put down the cancer sticks is not lazy. Anyone who is interested in this further, research the Fogg Behavior Model.

@dedeborya9015 6 ай бұрын

I am a 'teacher' - I have neither the formal education nor issued certification for it. I charge 40/hr per student - I sell in blocks of ten - and if you ain't in class - there is no refund. I don't f*cking care. if you want to pass the useless and banal required teasting for IELTS / TOEFL / SAT - you will pay me and I will not put up with any shiate. My sweetest gig is 10/ hr to 10 Brazilian students that is matched by their university at 20 / hr ..... Cappy - the girls come to class in bikinis - and ain't a Lizzo among them. Damn it's good to be a gangsta

@Stanthemilkman 6 ай бұрын

I invest in a good ebike. Got it cheap rrp $5500 got it for $3700 plus $100 lock. Cause they sitting on it for a year. So now ride to work when not wfh. Save fuel n parking. $18 parking, $6 fuel. If I go in 3 times a week, take 2 weeks off. That saving $3600 a year. Not including reduced maintenance on the car. Drive a 23 year old car I got for free.

@eulogyfx75 6 ай бұрын

I would argue for the institute for justice as being one of the few non profits we need, they seem to be the only ones fighting civil asset forfeiture cases .