Never Fight For Someone's Attention (Do This Instead...)

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

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[@user-vj8mm4rz8e]

I saw this one, ... its way way too verbose and repetitive!! Cut down on the no of words and make another audio/video pls ...

[@candymoore9167]

Show my boyfriend that

[@chrisrobin128]

I subscribed

[@merrickcampbell4303]

But they are the ones that make you happy so what do i do when in the meantime she is draining my finances

[@thcyazzie9844]

I'm in love with someone who is broken and damaged. She has three kids.

[@munshiiqra]

1.Understand the problem.Dont be afraid for rejection.STOP CHASING.give them space 2.Take responsibility of your emotions 3.Live according to your values 4.Show you are interested but not needy 5.Become best version of yourself 6.Be patient with them.Give them time 7.Never take things personally 8.Show them that you are wanted by others 9.Be willing to walk away

[@amandalidey329]

Ty!🤗

[@adilashiq6507]

malayali aanow :)

[@howboutdis3908]

But what if you're not wanted by others lol

[@Flyer_1]

All fax

[@MetalSStar196]

@@howboutdis3908 Then, just keep doing you and being yourself. After all, there are many people out there just asking to be manipulated to meet your professional ends. That's how you become a powerful banker in the commerce sector: deceit. Everyone loves a good story.

[@wanderboiR]

Detachment makes you free but Attachment makes you suffer..

[@howboutdis3908]

Detachment, free it makes you. But attachment, only suffering it brings. Sounds like something Yoda should've told Anakin before he went nuts.

[@MetalSStar196]

I don't understand people who get attached very easily.

[@ananddeshmukh9503]

Both are our own mental status... suffering or happiness is our own choice. You can detach and still suffer and vice versa.

[@xonigga6684]

@@ananddeshmukh9503 exactly ive been attached to someone that i loved and was very happy in my life at the time!

[@My3Sunzs]

Facts

[@mehrabmazumdar6901]

Cautioun : If both of the couple watch this and apply the same technique there is a huge possibility of starting to hate each other

[@ihabibakhan7]

Right😂😂😂

[@matszznelszz3162]

Just like two magnets same sides facing against each other

[@khenparas3427]

just like i expected xDDDD

[@Yuma-l4x]

Most likely one would give in

[@sofiya889]

😂😂

[@jamesradan]

I tried to distance myself from this girl that I like because she stopped me from courting her. One day we met at a park and as we're walking, she's so close to me like we rub skins. And I 100% feel she wanna hold me cause she keeps on getting close to me. Showing less attention is effective.

[@marloubaja5772]

Wow that's nice bro

[@jamesradan]

@@marloubaja5772 yea bro. I'm sitting next to her cold af. I don't even talk. Now it bothers her.

[@marloubaja5772]

@@jamesradan I will try this in the nearest future . Its hard to appreciate my efforts to her it because she is a introvert person . kudos to the channel by the way .

[@jamesradan]

@@marloubaja5772 it's ok to entertain a woman bro, just don't make her your world. Don't put all you effort, attention and time to her. Most probably they'll lost interest. Instead, make them earn your attention or atleast show attention but not too much. It's also for your peace of mind. Try that and comeback here to tell me what happened. Keep safe!

[@marloubaja5772]

@@jamesradan you have a point on that bro I will try this .

[@adamlevy8971]

I think that last point, be willing to walk away, is very important. Sometimes we like someone who doesn't reciprocate that interest, and we should be willing to respect that and move on to someone else. If we don't, we put our happiness in the hands of someone else. Ultimately, the goal isn't to get that specific person, but to be the type of person that attracts others; it's never about winning over a specific friend, but to be the type of person who others want to be friends with.

[@saivillaq]

This is well said. I shouldnt let someone else dictate my happiness

[@My3Sunzs]

Facts

[@giovani4482]

Agree

[@porkodivellurswamy]

@adamlevy8971 💯correct

[@dennisdonaghue1174]

Totally agree !

[@dr.js77]

Being rude is easy. It does not take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great self-discipline and strong self-esteem. Being kind is not always easy when dealing with rude people. Kindness is a sign of a person who has done a lot of personal work and has come to a great self-understanding and wisdom. Choose to be kind over being right, and you'll be right every time because kindness is a sign of strength.

[@EspritArkitekt]

when i do this ppl around me (not necessarily the rude ones in question) just accuse me of being a doormat & making excuses for rude people

[@amandalidey329]

Ty. I definitely do my best, however don't allow yourself to be walked on either. Everyone has limits. But yes, I feel being "kind" is better than "bitter " regardless. Kill them with kindness. 🤗

[@MetalSStar196]

I started off kind, then ended up rude because of how I was treated over time. You expect me to be kind from the outset? How naive. You'd have to prove to me you're worth me being kind first, then we can talk philosophy on kindness.

[@rahmanshakib1506]

This is the coolest thing I’ve heard this month

[@boboiboy9350]

theres this one time, i was in relationship. shes pretty abusive towards me and lied about many things. she didnt cheat but its like kind of pathological lies she made that really irritates me in the long run. I rarely got angry. I remain who I am until the last time we met, I killed her with kindness havent replied or talked to her for years until she tried to make the move again but I simply ignore. Think, i hv never been feeling more stronger since then

[@florianpierredumont4775]

*If they really like/love you, as friends or lovers, don't worry, they will eventually come back to you* . They need time for them, or to think about themselves before making a move. They can also be passing through difficult times in their own lives, and it consumes a lot of their energy and time (and maybe they don't want you to see them in that state). It's hard for us, because we want them, and without answers, our mind is going crazy, thinking about the worst and disgusting things, but it's how it is. You and them must pass through that period of silence. As an exemple : it took four months to one of my closest girlfriend (12 years of friendship, we met in hightschool), after an argument, to call me back. I didn't tried to win her back during this period, I just sent her a message for her birthday, or an important date, or just something simple like "take care of you, I hope you are happy and doing fine, and look out for your back pains at work", and stuff like that. Which means 1-2 messages per month at best, but shown her I was still caring for her, even with the distance. When she felt better and had put some order in her life, she was ready to call me back, and did so. The first thing she said was to thank me for all my messages, it helped her during that bad period.

[@vinayrawat9676]

Right bro

[@ledavid3333]

❤

[@jeffphillips7921]

Thank you for that great advice, it helped.

[@saivillaq]

Man, thank you for this advice! Truly appreciate it

[@LetsRelaxourPlanet]

Best advice on internet. I know that. It's hard but there is no better way than that.

[@merlinjohn7381]

“You are responsible for your happiness “- dang it hit hard

[@sayantanmukherjee8074]

I've been single and now I'm happily in a relationship so I've seen both ends of the spectrum. I think I owe some insight because relationships from the outside are often misleading and have an illusion about them which makes them seem something out of a fairy tale. It's never as easy as it looks. Staying in a relationship is a job that you do 24*7, 365 days. Your actual job isn't half as challenging as staying in a relationship. I would suggest before getting into a relationship work on yourself, get a job or start a business, and put yourself in different situations and difficult situations. Know yourself better. Become a well-put-together person. If you can't keep yourself happy no one can. You need all that to understand the depth of your character because without that you can't possibly understand anothers'. Because love doesn't last. After a few years, you'll be left with sheer mutual understanding and respect. People who extemporaneously rush into a relationship eventually find the rope slipping through their fingers in a game of tug of war.

[@Smiler2724]

Love is a fake , the true love is the mother love her children. There is no love between husband and wife is only respect is each other and have tolerance take care each other and patience.

[@cs-pw9xv]

Wow! I couldn't agree more!

[@magidimitrova1784]

These rules are not bad, but people are very different. What will cause one to pursue another will in another case cause him to retreat. Playing with people's feelings is a double-edged sword - be careful not to cut yourself! That's why I would say - just be yourself, because that's how (and not through any rules) you will attract the right person for you.

[@alexng4]

true..playing games will back fire. Just be yourself..and whatever happens , happens.

[@idolcarol5264]

Exactly!

[@falconheavy595]

In the end, if she likes you she likes you. No effort needed. We can’t force or create emotions.

[@kboid5919]

that's not true. I once gave a chance to a really ugly girl, with a big nose, small eyes, and glasses, because it felt really nice talking to her, and some girl saw that I was happy so he told me, why don't you ask her out? I did to see what will happen and she was the sweetest girl and I fell in love with her completely. My friends were confused, they thought that she must have a really good body or something. I didn't care. She started using makeup, dressing better, look better. And then she went to the party while I was out of town and met some guy, had sex with him... So that was the end. Later I met that better guy than me. It turns out he was really ugly... It was years ago, but the girl is writing to me from time to time. Well, she did, until I stopped writing back. But yeah at the beginning of the story, my feelings were changed from completely not interested to she is the one.

[@idolcarol5264]

@@falconheavy595 Exactly!

[@boxingman8297]

The worst part is that it might be too late since you’ve already chased them a lot and they don’t give a shit what you do. (But this video did help, thanks)

[@mariatheresabregente7926]

This is very effective I do this since day 1 of our relationship before watching this video. And I can say it is all true.. Being a strong independent woman that's the man really want for them you are rare precious jewel

[@magidimitrova1784]

Depends on the man. Many men are afraid of strong women because they know they cannot meet their criteria.

[@RatnikCarrick]

There is this woman I like, we became friends over the last couple of years. Recently, I showed that I am interested in her more than what we are right now, friends. I can feel that she likes me, she shares with me the most personal details about her life, but she rejected me the couple of times I asked her for a drink, a meal, or cofee. I didn't force it, I backed down, because I felt she is not there yet in sense whether she is ready to actually become more than friends. I am giving her space, I'm showing that I am not desperate, or needy. There are times when our conversations don't end on a happy note, but I used to took that personally until I realized that it wasn't about me. She has her life, her issues, and I'm not the most important person in the room on every occasion. That is absolutely fine. I love this video, it brings out many important points that people forget when trying to form a relationship with someone. Sometimes, people need time to develop feelings for you. Patient has always been a virtue.

[@adamlevy8971]

Hi there, Ratnik. I know it may be hard to hear this, and I hate to say it because you seem like a great guy. But dating is not about getting one specific person. There is a saying - "honesty is the best policy". From what I've gathered, you've already communicated you're interested in her, but it seems as if she is not interested in you, and I think it is best for you not to put your happiness in the hope that she will one day change her mind. While this video seems to be geared towards getting that specific person to become attracted to you, you can also use it to become the type of person that you want to be - the kind that attracts others, and does not waste his time on those who aren't interested in him (unless the mutual understand is friendship and nothing more!) I think that is a much healthier mindset, and will put you at ease with yourself. Best wishes.

[@RatnikCarrick]

@@adamlevy8971 Hi Adam, thanks for responding. I agree with you. I probably should have ended my interest some time ago, but somehow I am stuck in that hopeful feeling that something will change when I know deep in my heart that it will not. That's the problem I have, and something I need to deal with. Letting go is sometimes the hardest thing to do, but it has to be done.

[@channykim4104]

Hello Ratnik! Your experiences sound similar to what I am facing right now. I wish you good luck with handing the situations you are facing. I would love to take yours as a lesson for me. Would you mind letting me do it?

[@aemjay7225]

Simply put. Do all you can in your capacity. If it's meant to be, it will be. And if it doesn't work out, well one door closes for another one to open.

[@majaserratoorozco7450]

I would like to stop chasing people , but the more I stop giving them atention and focusing on myself the less they care about me. I don’t need them but I would like them to show a little interest in our friendship or relationship .

[@shayperry1631]

Working on yourself cannot be overstated enough 💯

[@andrewescondido38]

We often overestimate people as well. You may value loyalty and friendship and presume everyone else does as well. The reality is that many people were spoiled as children and grow up with an immature and narcissistic mindset.

[@transitlady58]

I got pushed away because they were scared of their own feelings and emotions. Fear was their e enemy.

[@dannyhughes4177]

I'm in that exact situation. And trying to wait and be patient is pure torture.

[@williamfoster4883]

No 10: have an open talk about your feelings with the person you desire and see the reaction. In case of denial you can move on without questioning yourself if there would have been a chance… and, yes, with no 10 I‘m addressing men AND women!

[@yugopal]

Step 1 Understanding the problem: Stop chasing the partner when he / she ignoring you. Be strong and give space Step 2 Take control of your emotions and be happy without the ignoring partner Step 3 Live according to values. True to yourself. Be non compromising. Step 4 Show that your are interested but not needy of that particular partner. Step 5 Become the best version of yourself. Strive to be the best. Set goal and strive Step 6 Being patient with the partner. Step 7 Never take things personally. There may be plenty of other reasons for ignoring you. Give space to them Step 8 Show them you are wanted by others as well. Step 9 Be willing to walk away.

[@amandalidey329]

Don't fall in love with someone whose not available, it can be very difficult & complicated. I'm not needy, desperate or thriving for attention. Yes, I want to be loved, but I can walk away if needed & I like my space as well. I don't chase anyone. Lol. Usually im the one being chased. Make sure u fall in love with someone u can give all this too & can be loved back. For future reference. I definitely value myself & won't be minipulated. U can love someone from a distance, but still move on to someone who can love u & vs versa. It may be hard, but I've walked away multiple times in relationships that I knew I deserved better in.

[@bhanuprakashhc4176]

@@amandalidey329 I don't know what you are talking 🤭🤭🤭😛.

[@Hareesh_Haridas]

Step 9 😂

[@umersaif1615]

she will move on also after seeing myself happy

[@irlandaise5631]

yes I showed interest but he was taken and I walked away when he let me go. It sucks as he has no wedding ring and he d never know my legs and home are closed until marriage. He is good though.

[@abhijitc251083]

Reality: They might never chase 😆😆😆😆 Do this for yourself and forget the other. Otherwise, we will still be focusing on a potential response from them. Just dont think about it. You will be surprised if things do happen.

[@Biaksang841]

Reality is often dissapointing😂

[@pepper4109]

Do this for yourself yall is someone wants you they will do better by you it hurts but Leave!

[@sussybabie527]

This is very important to me at this point right now, I really need to learn it

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Happy to help! 🌟

[@JasmonTP]

I've always been there for them, but I never hear from them till they want something, mainly money. My motto in life is,... ALWAYS take advantage of a good thing, but NEVER, take a good thing for granted. No more, will I do all the calling or texting to get them to acknowledge me. No more, will I "instantly" answer my phone when they call out of the blue, not hearing from them in months. No more, will I let their absence in my life control my emotions. Silence IS golden. Thank you for this video..subbed.

[@campfiresnlasguns]

Before you love someone else, you gotta learn to love yourself. Before you share your life with someone else, you gotta love your life as it already is. Before you get stuck fantasizing abt them too much, you should stop and stare at yourself in the mirror, just to reflect upon yourself and smile genuinely for who you already are.

[@c1re]

Exactly!!! Time is precious... Once gone can't get it back... Never waste time on people's attention.... It can only lead to disappointment and frustration... Utilise the time with the people who are close to you and try to keep them happy... That will definitely give u peace of mind and true happiness... I appreciate your advice... Thank you🌹

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed the video 😊

[@c1re]

@@SocialPsychologyMasters 😊

[@afridaislam5345]

Self improvement is the key

[@AndroEmu_Clips]

The question is why i have to do all this to win my love ... while most average people get their love without giving this much effort

[@anuragbhattacharyya1874]

Yeah whatever is told in the video is actually right.Ignorance is the key to make someone chase you.This is the ultimate case where reverse psychology works.So, yes maintaining a distance from someone is directly proportional to the person coming more closer in your life.

[@gaddaitherage8204]

Thanks for the video. I wish when I was young man I know this content. But luckily I am doing much better now in my older years and still find lots of success. Below are some good mindset tidbit I’ve collected and they help me a lot. Since I cannot share with my “younger self” I want to share these with others: - There is no such thing as a singular soulmate. The world is populated with many great people, so if someone doesn’t reciprocate, it’s ok. Be gracious but move on. - We don’t need others to complete us. We build a lifestyle for ourselves that is productive and fun. Invite others to join us on our adventure. - We should not beg others for the chance to be an extra in their movie. Be the main character in our own story. - We should always give clear signal of interest. That does not mean we give up our mystery, but being bold is much better than creeping in as a “friend.” If we don’t feel the vibe from the other, accept it with grace and move on. They might be attracted to us later-or not, but our fulfillment doesn’t hinge on someone else’s validation. - Be genuinely interested in other people. Speak less, listen more- REALLY listen. How many times have we caught ourselves only listening because we panic about what to say next, and then the other person said something and we’re like “aha! Now I know what to say next,” and then mentally shut down what they are saying until it’s our turn to speak. But then I realize if I listen, there are so many cool things I learn about the other person, because behind every person is a story. When our conversation is about the other person, we can truly build a strong connection even with strangers. - “Looks maxing” is very important and not hard to do. Get in the best shape, get more stylish. Some people are born with godly good looks, but fortunately for men we can easily up ourselves 2-3points on a 1 to 10 scale just by taking care of ourselves. I would also like to hear what others find useful!

[@Lucila3101]

I thought i was being cool and Nice and he made me a fool. I left with a broken heart and shame. Love IS when two people make It happen and put effort together. I wish one Day someone believe I worth the time and effort 🥰💔🥀

[@educandsclassroom9115]

I believe there shouldn't be ego and superiority issues in a relationship. At times both need to value and care for each other, call it attention or pamper. Without equal bow-down from both counterparts relationship won't last even if there is love. This video is really beneficial in respect to valuing the other person's need more than bragging about oneself.

[@danicruz226]

Women are attracted to men with ego

[@JJShalashaska]

Don't look for other's attention. Most people will want to use you for their needs and remember you only when they're alone. Whatever good you may do to these kind of people will never be enough. Stop being immediately available to them, especially if they make you feel like they're doing you a favour when they're with you. Better being alone than being in their "company"

[@EsHaQ2024]

Thats true It's better to live alone it's better to be divorced it's better to be single, but it's not better to live with someone who doesn't value you. As humans we all have our flaws. And most people try to rectify themselves inorder to protect themselves and their loved ones from being divorced or separated. However, I tried so hard to gain her back, she's stone hearted and nothing has positively affected her.

[@JJShalashaska]

@@EsHaQ2024 then she doesn't deserve to be with you :) And you deserve a better person

[@Musicrainc]

I'm saving this video for everytime I need to increase my self esteem and not feel worthless

[@MikkiMae1994]

I walked away from a guy last year that pursed me first then didn’t make any effort what so ever back after I put interest in.. Didn’t hear from him in five months and also found out he already had a girlfriend at the time we we’re talking. I really never understand these people that lead others on just for an ego boost or a hook up, it’s sooo wrong and I’m about over it.

[@jackbettridge957]

Become the best version of yourself. Ooooh, what a devious trick.

[@klscriviner]

Think I've learnt that the more you chase the more they run. We will always wonder why did we get blocked? Why did the communication stopped? And it hurts. It does psychology hurt you emotionally and the victim hasn't done anything. It's unsettling and selfish , the silent treatment hurts so I sympathise anyone going through this. Not only is it hurtful but it's confusing for anyone when someone you’ve been talking to suddenly stops. It can often leave us feeling like we did something wrong or that something is wrong with us. The truth is, communication is a two-way street. We never will know what happened from their end that led them to make that decision and remember that communication is a two-way street. If this happens to you, don't blame yourself. If they want to get back to you they will. The more you go on pushing it will back fire and there's no point. Just believe me it's not your fault and be grateful for the times you've had together if they miss you they will in time reach out. There are people out there that will use you, they will use that to sabotage anything and destroy relationships and they will turn people against you and I believe that's what's happening with me. I know who I am, my conscious is clear, I'd never hurt anyone, just be careful some will hold it against you and make you out as the bad guy and your not! Stay strong, be yourself, and let them chase you. You've done what you can and that's effort right there.

[@MrAflac_1]

How long does it usually take for them to get back to you bc they miss you

[@klscriviner]

It's like saying how long is a piece of string really 😕. Im afraid I cant answer that, thats up to them really and how long they can keep up the protense for because its just hurting the other person involved its probably unintentional but it does hurt. They cant hide away forever if they miss you they will find a way of reaching out somehow or another hope this helps. Im in same position as you. Your not on your own. They need to think about your feelings aswell as themselves really. Its called being a mature responsible individual! Mature men wont keep you waiting forever I promise you. Hope this helps. They dont realise how lucky they are really. They needs to listen to our needs aswell as their own. Just dont let them control you and manipulate you. Its 50/50 always.

[@myraflorvaldez9790]

Yes during the first few months of our relationship,I was so clingy that he made a lot of excuses,so I distance myself and showed him I had other things to keep my attention,much better!!!I now notice he was the one chasing...

[@bernicekotey5417]

I feel so much relieved and I'm enjoying a peaceful life. I'm really okay

[@dinshibabk5802]

Well.. You have an exception.. My husband.. If I try to ignore him and stay away for a while to get his attention, what he would do is go away from me and enjoy hanging around with friends, going for tours, (and some other personal hobbies) . He just don't mind whether I'm there or not. Always want me to say sorry and begg him even if it is his mistake. He says I'm the one who's supposed to do that😟

[@priyapiya6868]

Well said, same happened in my life too

[@LucidCooldude]

"Once they notice that you're happy without them, they will start to chase you." Nah, they would just leave me if I were happy with or without them, they just don't care.😢

[@Biaksang841]

Just move on bro, Think about it. Will u really want to spend ur whole life with a girl that doesnt really care for u?

[@Sachin1671]

As a guy in his early 20s, I’ve always been the one that’s been pushing towards a relationship. My first ended horribly because I got into my head too soon and too quickly. The second back fired before I even got started. Now I’m stuck in a 3rd one where I feel like she’s just replying to my messages but not actually chatting to me. We have went back and forth for 5 months now from once a day messages to like 5-6 times a day. But with this one, I know my shortcomings and know she won’t accept me the way I am. But at the same time, I don’t know if it’s worth pursuing her either. I’m at the stage now, where I’m focusing on my priorities and am willing to just cut it off if she gets bored and stops talking for whatever reason. I’ll try the ones like you’ve said, hopefully it leads to some results. If not then I guess I wasn’t lucky.

[@pippi456]

To me the most important is learning to submit to the Universe's will. And let other people not love you. Because attraction is such a delicate thing. It cannot be forced absolutely. It's okay for other people to not love me.. Lately I repeat to myself these two sayings like a mantra: 1) When the Universe wants two hearts to meet, It moves both of them, not just one. 2) I don't want anything in this life that doesn't want me back. I am not willing to take anything that is not mine. That is not given to me specifically by the Universe. Because wanting something that doesn't belong to me feels like being a thief. Thiefs also at first want something that doesn't belong to them and then they steal it. So, wanting someone who doesn't belong to me is like being a 50% thief..

[@muthuvijay20]

Iam writing this comment after i got rejected by a girl whom I loved and proposed today. I got this video at a right time. I got a hope and it is sense to me after watching this video and Iam gonna follow this and share the comments for sure. Thank you!

[@kboid5919]

good luck, and let us know if you succeed.

[@retrogorilla6523]

But when you walk away, don't expect them to chase you. That's called being selfish. You left them. They have all the right to do so too.

[@kyliachappell1523]

Space Control ur emotions Live to ur values Show interest but not to much Be a better u Patient Have a life Be wanted Walk away No chaseing

[@magidimitrova1784]

This is what happened to me - we both pretended not to be interested in each other. Our eyes, however, said otherwise. I was angry that a man (in my opinion) should know how to show a woman that he wants her, and not act like a clown. His behavior was not mature in my opinion, so I've completely lost interest.

[@BenefitExploits]

How do I talk to my crush and ask her out? I see her almost every week so it’d be awkward whenever we see each other if things didn’t go well. We’re not friends right now. I’ve talked to her in a group setting and made sure to only focus on her and ask only her questions in the group and I did feel a connection on her end but i’m always asking myself, what if she’s just being nice??

[@Elithewalkingwardrobe]

@@BenefitExploits Be confident and be yourself, build the friendship first. If you wanna confess at some point do it face to face and be cool even if she rejects you, if she rejects you... Don't bring up the topic to her again, but be cool with her and do not avoid her.

[@Naushaaba2023]

Must be a covert narc

[@joetshipamba]

@@Elithewalkingwardrobe i feel like this video is for crushes. We are all different. Going through a couple heartbreaks, it’s not healthy to dream. If a girl likes you , you’ll know. But once you know it’s games.

[@kboid5919]

sure, the guy should do that, while you are giving him signs that he will fail. Great deduction. How about you make some effort too? "your eyes said otherwise" That's great, but guys are not mind readers, and you acted not interested... with your women's logic I guess if you were not interested you will be smiling and showing him how special he is? you girls are crazy.

[@SonuBen-b6c]

just make them feel guilty in someway and pull back remember pull back and take the power dynamic back and just stay put and let the chips fall where they may. Key is to realize they are never yours.

[@jaybee4288]

As an avoidant person I would just add something. Be careful about who you pursue. If you are super needy and anxious and need constant reassurance, there’s girls that will absolutely love that. Coming to the quiet independent girl that finds you funny but doesn’t want to be suffocated just isn’t the best option for you. I often feel like guys see me as a ‘safe’ option to talk to and see me as ‘fixable’. No, I just don’t need so much affection and to be talking about love all the time and if you do, then find someone who likes that.

[@seleneisdaname0417]

I also learned that I need to stop chasing and let them come to me

[@jeffreygarcia5353]

I think it’s also important to read into attachment theory. It has made me realize a lot that some people are not right for you and behaviorism shows for different attachments.

[@jhonydepp8451]

Other words...Relationships are Completly Useless Thing...better being Single, Bitter and Stupid so that I am Myself then Feel Free to Love me or hate me...

[@sampeter27]

True words man

[@NiñaDavila-k1x]

Self improvement is the key ❤

[@amad23222]

That is where true love ❤️ come from

[@r4vi69]

I’m not even going to lie but this video has just refreshed my mind and given me proper confidence. I’m going to start these rules as of right now. Thank you

[@suchismitasahu1512]

I'm not in a relationship. But i like a guy so much... We've met once because of our match making.. My family approved him... it's strange for me because for the first after such a long time i fell for someone so deep... I felt like having a connection with him... We talked thrice may be on social media... But after that he watches my stories and I wait for him to reply like a stupid... And he never replies.. I feel sad and i cry like i miss him so much...sometimes i want to confess him but other minute i think it'll give a wrong impression to him of me.. And everyday i wait for his messages like a nerd. Everyday i saw his photos and i really really miss him...i badly want to talk to him but I don't know what I'm doing with myself and i dont know what should i do.

[@yahyamohamed9093]

Be strong

[@nachosilva3777]

Well next time you talking or texting invite him for a ice scream or cofee. That way you know him better! But dont fall for anyone who doesnt returns the feelings. Just focus on bein the best version of yourself. And dont be sad cuz he doest really know you have feelings for him. Just messege him to start a conversation to see where it goes.

[@JamesPicco-n6l]

I used your advice and I’m engaged now we are getting married next month

[@mellowjello6638]

This is a very good video for self improvement! It's a really good confidence boost, and a good reminder to live my own life and to make myself the best version of myself that I can be :)

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Glad you enjoyed the video

[@RapidHealthYT]

Yes it helped so much.

[@tamasapatra397]

You're right

[@bigboywil7887]

this randomly appeared in my recommendations and i do not regret watching. keep up the videos. there are alot of people that i hope get to see this.

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Glad you found the video helpful

[@codebreaker91]

As a man you always have to chase her. Be like a zombie “come back! I just want to talk to you, why are you walking away from me? come back!” 🧟‍♂️ 😂🤣😅

[@rossbrumby1957]

I was friendzoned by a woman I wanted for a long time. This new year's eve i got a new year's handshake from her which put me over the edge, telling her how I've felt about her and how i cant handle the way she humiliates me in certain situations like the handshake for instance and how i can't be around her anymore if I want to regain my mental health and have any self worth at all. Boy, did she start backpedalling when she thought she was losing a friendzone sucker, chauffer, shoulder to cry on etc. She acted like she never knew i had feelings for her, while all along would feel the need to remind me "we're just friends". Women friendzone men because although we're good enough to use, we're not all good enough to choose.

[@tarots270]

😢

[@kyfa4966]

thats so correct, playing care and not care next day would make the girl curious and ended up craving for our attention lol. we were texting all night and the next day i tried not to make eye contact with her in the class and focused on other things but i aware she lookin at me, eventho when she called me i pretend not to hear it until she called my name for the second time lol. well its so effective

[@petefrancisco3267]

I dont want them to chase me! Im glad there is Leon edits! Im not gonna complain anymore!

[@avothfis]

Forget them. There are many other worthwhile pursuits.

[@yoshinotakigawa4146]

She's literally a natural master of these things😐, no doubt that I am being too attached to her❤. Gotta work out myself as well

[@thokchomsanathoi7538]

Personally I don't think I can put that much effort in someone who doesn't like me at the first place.

[@sigiah]

No company is sometimes better than bad company.

[@mohdabrar82]

This all points relate to person who only wants to active and busy in their personal life and business but if you want someone come and loving you it's not easy for that you have to give time , pay attention and make them realize that I'm the only who care you .but but but we have to check other person loving me same or not

[@kona887]

Someone at work fell for me hard! Little did I know that she was the one playing me emotionally and I later felt hard for her…she was 22 and let everyone our business…now she’s moved on to the next person and I want her still but now after seeing this I’m keeping true to myself now!

[@sauravdey1855]

when someone is found to be intentionaly disinterested despite all your eforts sincerely ,then does any of these theories work......isnt then walk away remains the only viable option...😀

[@Imboredtoday]

I like this girl and I think I have been really annoying lately I’m gonna try this and Hope maybe she will start to like me more

[@fiqwenz2393]

I don’t chase them, well not anymore. Cus i think its enough as a normal friends. Im not really into that circle cus im not good as them. So i just run away.It’s not worth to follow/chase them if they didn’t do anything to be friends with you. But it’s kinda different when you try to make your crush notice you and ofc u had to chase them. Honestly, i don’t really care if people say that im ignorant type of person, cus i think i give too much attention to people back then when im a good person but I didn’t get what i wanted and i never feel enough. But right now i think i just feel a lot better. Cus I don’t have to think about them... Sometimes you are too kind and forget your own value Having lots of friends doesn’t matter, 1,2 is enough, Higher number does not increase “value” of something. :D It just my experience and opinion. :D

[@aalishas8438]

What if you are blocked after a year of beautiful friendship? Suddenly the other person starts ignoring, and things become so bad that the person blocks!! Any suggestions!? It's been taking a toll on me... I genuinely cared for this person!

[@taftkuykendall1887]

I have given me a chance to realize my value and given her space and we grew more during our distance from each other and now we are doing well 🙂😊

[@taftkuykendall1887]

What do you mean?

[@ghazaltaseer2814]

I not only enjoyed it but it energized me as well as prevent me from taking the wrong steps forward.

[@antaryamijena6657]

That's what I tried with my study.... and my study is now chasing me 😂😂😂😂

[@wtfyaar5773]

Haha

[@unknown-hn7ib]

Ngl so true , I did this most of the time last year when I fr didn't give a shit about anything cus depression n stuff , I went to help others because I didn't want them to feel bad like me , I speak the truth so people know I'm being honest and I'm not he type of people who would tell a beautiful lie and somehow I made a girl fell for me . After she fell for me and we hung out (at this point I still didn't know she liked me so yeah I didn't really chase her or anything ) I noticed when I hung out with her and her sis , other girls would keep coming up and confessing they like me and well because I didn't know them , ofc I rejected them and then my friend who's the girl would get jealous and try to get me more and this goes on for quite some time , maybe a month or something before I brought up the topic and she confessed she liked me and yeah things started to go downhill , I wanted to be extremely nice to her since she liked me so yeah that's what I did and u know what? That's how she left me , honestly still hurt but yeah , it is what it is

[@mafiakingz07]

Thanks for giving me that level of confidence 🙂❤️

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Happy to help! 😊

[@rdxx4130]

I never had any romantic relationship earlier in my life where I had intimate physical contact. So now that I have found a girl with whom I like to snuggle, hold hands, hug, I don't know whether I am doing it for love Or just for the physical touch. I do like her though. She makes me feel comfortable and challenges me in a healthy manner.

[@devxnshii]

So true!! Needed this so much ❤

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Happy to help

[@jubanlangsyiemlieh2398]

All need someone to talk to , to build a strong relationship

[@bokulporibarkatha3728]

Nothing rule, silence is abusive. There is no solution if someone ignore you.

[@HeartCeee]

Life is so strange some people come in our life. they make us so much happy, they make us laugh ,they teach us love and then someday they go away somewhere unexpectedly . neither you can find them .nor you can forget them. Just the memories you have with you remember each and everything those beautiful moments,Smile and sighs ...HITS SO HARD and LIFE GOES ON !☺️sidkc

[@Randomstuff-hw8ld]

Thanks! This is very helpful!!! Now I know what I have to do and change

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Glad it was helpful 😊

[@bp-pubgmobile5437]

My friend really needs this video. He's in chasing his girl now.

[@michiii3466]

This is the pure true. Amazing video with big facts in only 8 minutes. I agree to all points!

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Happy to help 🌟

[@ballificgiant4470]

Oh my god you have no idea how much I needed this video!!!!! Thank you so much this is gonna change my life!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Ayatjamal05]

Everything this guy said is 💯 true! Witnessing from personal experience 😊

[@kboid5919]

You did all those things and you won the person after that?

[@Ayatjamal05]

It’s not about winning or losing, it’s about winning your value. Not only that works with a partner but also with everyone around you, Even your close friends. Never show a person that you need them all the time because they will leave you.

[@kboid5919]

@@Ayatjamal05 thanks, it looks like I learned that too late.

[@Ayatjamal05]

@@kboid5919 same here! But I also learned that it’s it’s not too late and everything happens for a reason:)

[@Demon_bheabie]

My case is hard and worst but this video really worked

[@oliviarclaire]

i definitely notice that the less attention i give to someone i like, the more they come after me. but the more i chase them, the less they want to see me

[@AsAra-mv8hz]

The first thing is so real. When I was younger I was really an attention whore (I still am but not that huge) because rejection/loosing someone was one of my biggest fears. I'm still so fuckin afraid of being alone and forgotten but in past I tended to overwhelm people around me which partially caused that I lost them. Now I'm older and I can understand the other perspective of being overwhelmed by someone's constant need of attention (the way like everyday for X hours constant calls being not able to accept rejecton not being able to spend time alone etc) since I also started to feel need to be alone for a while and I guess I accepted my own company from time to time and I have some friendships for now. I don't know how long it will last but I try to not think about it and use it with still respecting my boundaries...

[@melvinsamson5684]

Been trynna distance myself from chicks I'm attracted to since college and now they forgot I even exist lmao

[@ninjasrose1653]

I have seen loads of these and this one is the only good one with genuine points!

[@PuzzlePopTV]

It’s proven here that by using THE LAW OF ATTRACTION you have to be ok without the attention of him/her chasing you. The more you think of them and want attention will only cause delay.

[@cleangoblin2021]

If you feel like it wont work, just run. I hated myself for ignoring the red flags when i like someone. Im just looking for someone whos on the same channel as me. Im too easily impressed by things

[@Thiagolekao]

Please guys, if you're watching this be careful with the "show them you are wanted by others" tip. In my experience most of the girls I dated are really insecure and jealous (the more attractive the more insecure). If you're already the best version of yourself it will happen naturally. Like girls will notice you and your partner you notice that. Don't push it to make your partners jealous not because it won't work just because it will affect the security you pass to the other person and this is very important for healthy relationships.

[@Thiagolekao]

Examples:1. You're in a bar and girls are looking at you. You don't want to express to your partner " Oh look how hot I am". This is dumb. Just be cool and pretend you didin't see it and don't flirt back.If she notice she notice if she donesn't no need to make it explicit. 2. A girls message you on instagram whatever mate, ignore it. If she grabs you phone and see it then she saw. But don't text back or try to brag about it. Just dumb.

[@portcitypersona]

May I ask you, what would you do if you were me? I am not my best self, not even close, however, I am slowly but surely working on myself and I would enjoy a date, or someone to just watch a movie with, or something together as I feel alone. Should I wait until I am who I used to be? Or just remain alone until I am better?

[@Thiagolekao]

@@portcitypersona Depends on what "not my best self" means. If you're going through emotional/psicologic problems I wouldn't date witouth being completely honest with your partner. If you just don't feel as atractive whatever mate, your not the best on your look but everyday we age we get more experienced and mature afterall personality matters more than looks for girls.

[@portcitypersona]

@@Thiagolekao i was excited that someone I thought was vibing and accepting but she came over to stay and have fun movies music walks dinner drinks..but she was not the person I got to know and talked with hours before bed each night. I don't simp. I just had to say goodbye. The old me would've been the crack or meth user she had hoped. She stole at a place I was getting our things fir the eve..let me buy her n i a nice vodka..then i knew she was wanting that dope and I can't compete with meth and i think those drugs are vile. Sad. I just list a dear friend the week before to an OD and she still hints how she can do it "in moderation-. Thief, liar, and a ho. I wished her the best and left kind words of encouragement but then had to let go.thanks for the advice

[@cs-pw9xv]

Example#2...uhm...if he/she is grabbing and checking your phone...not a good sign in my opinion. Even if I desire this person, that is red flag for me to keep an eye on.

[@shashikaudara8278]

Even i usually do not watch like kinds of videos in my mother language, this explanation is amazing and clear to hear and can be understood

[@harrisdy8498]

I needed exactly this video at this moment, it helps me to move on a lot. Thank you for creating this video! And this is probably the first time I would like to thank the KZbin algorithm haha

[@SocialPsychologyMasters]

Glad it was helpful!

[@insane_pewd9421]

That's what I'm following since my Teenage