Never Get Mad at Him & Use your Femininity instead : Feminine Communication during Conflicts

[@stephmoo1359]

Please remember women, this only works for masculine men. Not toxic men, not narcissists, not abusive men - only kind, healthy, masculine men.

[@NetSunJin]

Facts

[@myyoutubechannel2503]

Thank you for clarifying 🙏

[@rosemilton1837]

Never will work with a insecure grown child...Boy Bye !!!

[@KittCat5]

True, or with our modern clowns

[@AstroBaby91]

That's like 1% of men 😂

[@sandiipants21]

ladies also dont be with a guy that make you so mad. Being mad all the time is going to age you and kill your happiness and inner glow. Pick a good man but make sure you're good woman.

[@Emma_Beme]

Yes, i agree. I've been with this man who gets mad over many little things and it's incredibly unhappy in the house and I regret moving him into the house and living with me and my kids

[@sandiipants21]

@@Emma_Beme hopefully things get better for you and your family 💛

[@ladymarichushow]

​@@Emma_Bemeyou can still move him out.. He don't need to be there if he's making all of you unhappy

[@YolandaGesling]

I married a man that terrorizes.my life daily...he is constantly accusing me of cheating...he's horrible. I regret marrying him hoping he would change...but no...men will never change so don't waste your time thinking they will. If your man shows he is incapable of loving you with respect....believe him!!!

[@new-ancient]

A lot of negativity here… attractive masculine men will make women angry… feminine men don’t… you don’t need to run away from a masculine man to become feminine… over time you will resent him too for being the nice guy… you want a man, not a mouse in your hand

[@deboraporto7040]

When youa actually date a men that truly cares for you, you enter on this feminine mode naturally, you trust him to listen and care for you so you don't need to outrage yourself

[@arnelabih1845]

Yess Ameen well said I agree 👍

[@MovieMich]

Agree🎉

[@J78685]

I came here to say same thing 😅

[@TheGratefulHypnotist]

That's right

[@monsourreina]

It’s all in how your are raised

[@LadyJani]

Sometimes when they lie into your face and don’t care for you at all, you cannot do anything feminine to change their mind. We are no idiots. Sometimes we have to leave

[@anamarie2721]

It’s apart of feminity to leave with grace . Not stay with aggressive chaos .

[@LadyJani]

@@anamarie2721 I agree. In some cases I think it’s necessary that men feel the consequences but then another man should hold them accountable

[@ladytiger921]

Yup, should have done so years ago.

[@frangeewong6215]

Wow,these are all correct. I have tried everything. I was raised by an Irish ,angry feminist mother.holy moly.I am going to have to go over this.she was a narcissist and my person of 21 yrs is a chess playing narcissist and a twin soul 😂help!

[@momog5615]

Exactly right. 1. Men will start fights when they lose interest 2. Noticing things he wants to keep hidden from you starts fights. Knew a girl who was always agreeable. Guy kept her around to pay rent while he cheated on her. Hey she made it easy. Then left her when he had a new girl lined up anyway. Good luck with that.

[@aanggora7607]

Lol I think there should be a disclaimer stating that this works only when your man is someone that is a calm listener, a good communicator, and is highly emotionally intelligent. I never raised my voice first and always approached my man with a calm and collected demeanor and stated exactly how something made me feel or if I needed something to change and no matter how polite and gentle I was with him, he made the entire thing a living hell of an experience. No matter how small the matter was, we went to absolute war every time because he wasn’t a good listener or a good communicator.

[@Qaldar]

How did you go to absolute war if you were calm?

[@passionaterawvegan]

I agree with aanggora. Some men create war no matter what we say or even if we are completely silent. Sometimes it doesn't matter if we are like an angel if he is like the ...

[@lillienwaligora6082]

She mentioned that this video is if you're with a masculine man, not a man-child... I'm really sorry about your experience 💖💖💖

[@JoifulFamily]

Facts everytime I said something no matter how nice calm he would just yell at me or blow it up and threaten to breakup with me.

[@JustMeandGod_]

@@Qaldar she said approach him calm not continue it if he’s being aggressive

[@DeityOfBeautiy444]

Definitely only works for masculine men

[@samaaabujaffar1033]

How come

[@themagicalcupcakeunicorn5755]

@@samaaabujaffar1033Men who are insecure and run off their fragile ego will fight you tooth and nail no matter how calm your demeanor is. You will be very drained

[@gamergirlmars]

did this today and it works lol. tell him what you need and how to love you the way you need. he should get it without yelling, without screaming, he’ll immediately turn it around. the people saying don’t be with a man that makes you mad… right. that’s kind of comical. have you ever heard of a married couple who never fights? no. hugely unrealistic expectation. couples fight and it’s normal to a point. you’ll be alone forever if you break up with someone every time you argue lol.

[@Ihopeitsshittyattheblackdog]

Facts☝️

[@chandrimabandyopadhyay1509]

Omg! Finally a sane wise comment lol❤

[@bunnytime8235]

there’s a difference between being mad and arguing or being upset. if someone regularly makes you genuinely mad and angry, that’s probably a sign of incompatibility

[@bridony225]

@@bunnytime8235That may be a sign that you have an issue with patience as well

[@blueshoes5145]

What’s comical is you thinking all men will come around. Say that to the many men in prison who clearly do not give a crap about laws let alone your feminine energy. In fact, they’ll use that submissiveness to act out worse. They’ll treat you like a doormat. Sure couples have fights but does your man always want to win ? If yes, then there is the problem.

[@TemplePriestess]

I get tired of voicing my needs. Even in a feminine way. It’s like I’m not seen or heard no matter what method is used. Soft or loud. Doesn’t matter. I’ve gotten to a point where I rather just say nothing at all. It’s painful and heartbreaking.

[@ChristianOne]

That is the sign I would use to pack my bags and leave in silence without another word. If you said at some point "I do not tolerate_____" and then he broke that boundary... then leaving is the only way to prove that you do NOT actually tolerate that thing. Men act to demonstrate what they actually believe and they watch your actions. Words have little meaning. If behavior was a language...what is he telling you by ignoring everything you say or need?

[@annann2256]

Get a new man 🙂

[@Chio-p4o]

Don't overexplain and communicate. If someone wants to get you, they will get you. Protect yourself by being silent and taking distance. If he cares about you, he would notice that something is off. If he doesn't do anything different and ask what happens, then you know what you need to do.

[@elisabeth9934]

You need to distance yourself everytime he breaks a boundary. Also don't forget that you can't change people that much. I try to say something once or twice and when it happens again I distance myself and I'm not available. You need to also realise that people are not stupid and they know exactly what they are doing so if he disrespects you or continues with behavior that bothers you he does it on purpose. The best way to react is to make some space, even in your own apartment. Go into a different room and ask to not be bothered because you're working on things. Go to the gym. Work on art projects. Do online courses. Go to networking events alone. Go have coffee on your own or go for a walk. Show him that you are happy doing things without him. There's a chance that he's too confortable with you so he thinks you'll stay anyways or you are too available for him. Watch how his dad treats his mom. He might recreates patterns from his childhood. Maybe his mom normalized that behavior. Also at one point accept him how he is and focus on yourself. The more you work on yourself the more they usually step up. If not then good bye. Also realise that there are men out there who can't take women seriously. It usually comes from their dad or dad figure in his life. Some men also use it as a form to gain the upper hand in the relationship. Not doing what you want gives them some form of control and authority. Sadly some men only take other men seriously. So if you have to you can talk about other men's qualities in a favorable way. When he f.e. never puts his shoes away, you can start bringing up your male coworker and how you admire how clean and organised his desk is. Or you walk by a nice car and see the male driver and you say you admire when a man can keep his car so clean, even on the inside. Stuff like that. If all these things don't work then consider your future and other options.

[@danicaharley6273]

Why are you begging a lazy dude who doesn't care to be a decent guy and make you happy. I'd tell him, this is not working for you anymore amd you need to move on. . . Then go quietly without any debate or more words. Be classy and let him see that

[@rainbowsnsunshineverywhereigo]

I think the green dress complements your olive skin so beautifully 💚

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you ❤❤

[@mayalabeille7447]

she reminds me of "the princess and the frog" in this dress🙂

[@MENOSPEAKTAC0]

Fr, thats why people been saying about color theory as some clothes are more suitable for certain skin color

[@Klove514]

Right! She’s beautiful! 💚💚💚

[@AMVYV]

@@Lisaglamourdo you think you can make a video about color theory if you know about this? ❤️ lots of love

[@ableephraim5344]

You're right @ Lisa glamour. When I'm in my feminine energy and I'm calm with my man during an argument, he calms down too but, when I'm aggressive it becomes worse

[@danilaroche1156]

Yes. I learned the hard way. I got so mad at my man over the stupidest thing. He retreated. Evaporated. Hopefully we reconcile. The Bible says harsh words stir up anger but a soft answer turns away wrath.

[@dianekoenig9819]

So true💯

[@dianekoenig9819]

Using your feminine self. Your feminine words and actions are good most of the time. Really good keeps the peace However, sometimes you need to stick up for yourself and let your masculine side Come out so nobody runs you over no women is a Robot💯🫶🩷

[@madelineasmr926]

This advice is spot on!! I use it with my husband and he is obsessed with me 😍

[@sandiipants21]

remember it's not what you say but how you say it 🌼

[@kiaraeijo]

Sometimes I find that when I communicate calmly and with poise especially with men, they’re more willing to listen to me. When a man is disrespectful towards me, I use to fire back at them (I still do sometimes) but I walk away.

[@GemAnointed]

No lies detected! I grew up with hostile over reactive women who get rude and disrespectful at the first trigger of insecurity and blow up! Mom is now old and manless so I never had the right example on how to handle men. But I didnt want to be like that so its taken ALOT of work and deprogramming and over 10yrs ago came across Rori Raye who has different techniques that has stuck with me and I always revert back to them. You Explained everything perfectly! I love your aura you are the embodiment of what you speak about and its refreshing! Thank you ❤ for the reminder of this!

[@YesItsFoxxyy]

I’ve never met a man that likes the words “I feel”. Even the nicest of men say they can’t do anything with it.

[@ThePinkPantha21]

They don't care anything about feelings at all. My husband looks so dumbfounded when I say I feel 😂😂😂😂😂

[@chandrimabandyopadhyay1509]

No, my boyfriend reacts in a good way when I say "I would feel better if you do this.." he does value my state of mind so it works atleast in my relationship.

[@linnyroro3177]

Whenever I tried to voice my feelings to my ex husband, if he heard the words “I feel” before I could even finish speaking right away, his first reaction was always “no” right away trying to tell me he knew what I was feeling more than what I was and would legit stand there and argue with me that I didn’t know what I was talking about and there was no way I could feel the way I do. Even when I left the marriage and told him I was leaving because after 20 years, he still did this and never listened to anything I really said. Til this day, he doesn’t know my favorite color, food or anything. He still knows nothing about me. It’s mind blowing

[@HealingwithRashi]

Oh! He used to say “i can’t do anything about your feelings” whenever i said “i feel”. I gave up after making him understand politely and respectfully 1000 times and that too over the same issue.I started arguing then, he took a break and this is what he got but for the rest of his life😂. Free from all the toxicity now.

[@ThePinkPantha21]

​@@chandrimabandyopadhyay1509 that's great, he is a keeper! Cause most men are not like that at all.

[@morganhebert8462]

My man has been so patient with me these last few years. We are growing together and I’m patient with him too. Me not being mad right away has helped a lot with him not walking away

[@farzanehw4760]

I wish men would solve their conflicts in the same respectful manner. Sadly lots of them don't.

[@jaxell4832]

I absolutely agree with you! Most men are wounded and need mental healing. They take their anger and frustrations on their woman because it seems easier than to take accountability. Wounded minds never take accountability.

[@RellDesire]

A man that is a gaslighter narcissist this goes out the window! 😂 but I just walk away when I feel myself about to go off the edge. In the midst of a misunderstanding I looked at his hands and said how I love them. Naturally I was diffusing the tension but he didn’t take the opportunity to turn the conversation around. I was very much in control in my feminine and still had to remove myself it was so heartbreaking.

[@lunalove3742]

A gas lighter narcissist doesn’t know how to please a woman. It would never work ever.

[@arcturianoracle784]

Ahhh, I just realized. I’m naturally not a nagging woman. I’m actually rather feminine when it comes to those everyday things. I get extremely masculine only when attacked lol. I’m learning from you how I could actually stay in my feminine energy and with my dignity intact ☺️ lol. Love that 🫶!

[@arcturianoracle784]

By attacked I mean like criticized or that type of thing. Someone trying to instigate an argument with ME lol.

[@ام_معاذ25]

Same haha

[@foxysoundsinmyhead]

watching this a second time because i needed a reminder after a conflict last night lol

[@VirginiaC33]

Hahahaha!!! 😂😂😂😂 This is me right here. Instructions unclear: turned into a man

[@spacemermaid1111]

Lmao my bf and I got in a fight last night and this pops up today 😂

[@gingerschnaps]

This video is relationship GOLD! The women around me growing up had a lot of masculine energy, especially my mother. Now that I have found an amazing love with my boyfriend, I am working on balancing my feminine energy so that I can be the best partner for my masculine man. It’s a give and take. It’s about being strategic. Being the best version of yourself. As women, we should embrace our femininity ❤

[@blueshoes5145]

I hope you don’t resent your mother. Do understand that she made her personality more masculine because the world was harsh on her and that was her way of protecting herself. Maybe her husband or her father were strong personalities.

[@creolespanish8322]

Physical touch always work 😅 with my man he can be so pissed , one hug & a kiss 💋 he melts 😊

[@missxmarvel]

I don't get mad, I just leave. Disrespect means goodbye.

[@MississippiSoulchic]

Yes indeed!

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

Same here

[@missxmarvel]

@@EverythingxBeautiful I don't have time for males and their behavior. And neither should other women. Even the slightest disrespect or a joke that I don't find funny means bye.

[@subhangisubudhi8303]

Same here

[@user-rx7uh9mg4f]

If it’s a dealbreaker, yes.

[@nattygamer4755]

The fact that you know about the sandwich method makes me respect your work even more lol

[@jennypapachristos1609]

Every time you go to war with him, he will defeat you... if you wish to defeat him, then love him ❤ that is our feminine power

[@yuno555gasai5]

🤮🤢

[@basicviolet]

and if he is the one going to war with you? abusive.

[@amandaparon5687]

The key is to use these arguments & disagreements to learn more about each other & what both of your needs & desires are, therefore deepening your bond in the process ❤

[@doochow9962]

I am working on this it's one of my biggest problema I have. Especially after we had a baby. Between exhaustion and hormones I get so impatient when he doesn't help me more. I have blown up a lot. I am trying to hard to be calmer because I know it's best for all of us.

[@Lisaglamour]

I completely understand! A man has to also be patient with you during that time. You have created life itself your body need time to rest, don’t hesitate to ask for help and prioritize your needs darling ❤️

[@DeadlyKiss000]

I hope the situation improves for you sweetheart

[@missxmarvel]

You have a right to be angry if your husband is acting like a baby. He's the father and needs to act like a man.

[@doochow9962]

I appreciate your support ladies. He is a great man but not perfect of course. He is learning to navigate parenthood as well. I do think he should help more without me asking but I absolutely think it's best if I stay calm and ask nicely which is what I need to work on. Our little one is a year and a half old now and it's getting a little easier but we still have a lot of work to do to find our flow of our home. I am a stay at home mom as well so I feel guilty asking for help with dishes, one of the hardest tasks with a toddler for me atm. But I know I cannot do it all and it's okay to expect him to help.

[@gertrudelisehahn2996]

@@Lisaglamour she already stated that she has asked for help.

[@deeianira2628]

I believe this is a very important subject. I found myself many times complaining about small things and since I 'let it go', I feel more relaxed and him too.

[@laurawestenra]

I think it's always a good thing for a person not to yell at others and have self control....just makes sure he treats you with the same measure of self control and kindness. Women shouldn't have to walk on eggshells and sugarcoat everything if their men don't make the same effort.

[@GemAnointed]

Absolutely and she said to always voice your boundaries and what you aren't willing to tolerate. If we don't enforce boundaries we will get crumbs every time

[@poppy-bc4vf]

This is needed because unknowingly men can still make you mad whether they real care for you or not because they don’t know our triggers ! So this information is much needed for every woman because nothing is perfect ! Thankyou ❤

[@dbedazzling1]

Shes right...wait until the other is calm... don't bring stuff up in front of ppl.

[@InnerGoddessAffirmations]

I like that you use clips of Lynette in your videos. She’s definitely a perfect example of a woman in her masculine energy!

[@mirandakogucki]

Yes! I always thought that watching the show

[@lean-angelygazzingan5893]

What movie is it?

[@Dolce-Vita1111]

Because her "man" is feminine. She had to change to create balance. He is weak and childish.

[@Dolce-Vita1111]

​@@lean-angelygazzingan5893 desperate housewives

[@unamed2516]

@@lean-angelygazzingan5893It’s a show called Desperate Housewives.

[@aydaray9970]

I think less is more ! When we try to look sexy all the time and ignore our true feelings because of the man, it's going to make us a doll only to please them ! Address your feelings and live the way that it makes you happy 😊

[@lucid_747]

Every human being has the ability to feel ALL emotions-- it's what we do with them that creates our lives. If I am mad at someone, man or woman, I can say how I feel and what I'm needing, eg, "I am frustrated and could really use some help with this." How that person responds tells a lot about them and how they consider you, whether they help you or not and why. Don't listen to their words much, watch their actions a lot. The foundation: What motivates them the most? Sex? Money? Doing for others? Accomplishing their work? Receiving from others? Being with people? I know various people who fit one of these. Figure out their greatest motivation and decide if that's the kind of person you want to spend time with because they're very unlikely to change it over their lifetime. Do you want to live with that forever?

[@kater2k]

I completely agree with what you're saying. My man is very masculine, alpha. This describes us. I just need to learn how to solve conflict better.

[@najiya002]

Omg the way she talk and her voice you can feel that she is embodying the feminine energy

[@evaphillips2102]

I think of Down to Earth with Rita Hayworth alllll the time when it comes to the topic of feminine persuasion and charm. Old movies are simply filled with game, thank you for interpreting 🫶🏾 and Rita Hayworth was stunning!

[@ChicanaJayy]

This is all good, but sometimes you just have to show them the hood side of you.

[@GemAnointed]

And you only repeating the cycle of abuse and distinction. Its a waste of time to even get hostile with ppl unless they do something blatantly horrible. Ppl can actually voice their gansta in a calm intelligent way without being unhinge

[@DesiLu4Life]

I wholeheartedly agree 😂❤

[@LM.312]

@@GemAnointedOh get off your high horse, the title of this video is problematic enough. Women should be allowed to be angry, especially if someone is disrespecting her. I’m so tired of this narrative that being angry is taboo for women bc it’s not “feminine” enough. Men have shamed women for years when they speak up for themselves, defend themselves or show anger. Videos like this might mean well but it’s taking a step backwards.

[@GemAnointed]

@@LM.312 not reading all that. You sounds triggered and in able to comprehend the topic. And that's cool too you stay bitter hun

[@Bbyluvusa]

⁠@@GemAnointedshe wrote one paragraph haha. And it was just clearly stated not bitter.

[@nachaelaflores4307]

I used an “I feel” by saying “I feel like im holding onto emotional crumbs”once and he said “you saying that hurt my feelings”

[@mariahbolyer4948]

i love when there’s a new lisa glamour video ♥️

[@trakalosabby]

I appreciate the solutions on how to solve conflict with your partner in a feminine manner. The is gold ✨Thank you Lisa🌹❤️

[@virginiaATX]

i started this video thinking oh here we go again with this feminine stuff yeah yeah... but I'm so glad I calmed down and listened because you were nuanced and very helpful... thank you, from a slightly more masculine and combative (but still feminine) woman 🥰

[@freedomandease]

What about when you are being disrespected, and you feel anger. I feel like this at times could lead to supressed energy. I think knowing how to healthily express anger with your partner is important. Not everyday or for every thing but sometimes i think it is valid and necessary to our health.

[@user-pq5qk2vm3t]

This is very much The Thruth of Real Femenine Power! Now keep it together when you are angry AF 😣

[@carmencatalina9086]

I been sharing your videos to my grandma and I feel so much joy praying with my grandma and sharing about manifestation law of assumption and femininity. My grandma does this to her sp she wants to get married. Her biggest flaws are not managing money and arguing about everything and him and me scared to say truth because we have to walk on eggshells but I’m committed and subliminals and affirmations mostly and of course your content. I’m working towards better weight loss habits. Staying by myself and stay committed and not feeling I need to rush. You inspire me to vlog my femininity weight loss journey. ❤❤❤

[@vintagesubliminals123]

Hey law of assumption gurlie here!!!

[@Feeyys]

As someone who has been in her masculine energy in a relationship, it so much more efficient to withdraw when displeased and it sends a more clear message than words do. The right man will enhance your femininity naturally ❤

[@Isabelle.B]

Most issues can be resolved remaining calm on both sides. If we need to raise the voice, it is already a red flag. In that case, there is no need to reflect on strategies and on how talking to him next time. If you can’t express yourself without him getting angry or not listening or not giving any care to what you complain and if you have to walk on eggs, why would you want to stay and build a future with that person.

[@stephbrennan2630]

I wish I'd watched this video 2 years ago. I have learnt most of these things through mistakes. Can't stress enough how important this advice is. Now, where's my video for him? 😂

[@ShaniTheBurningTree]

Men who care for their women will not disrespect them, however there are times where they will withdraw in order to process situations. I think we take it to heart and understandably so! I find that it’s better to be sweeter and ask politely for what I need instead of get too upset, even if I am. I make it a challenge for me to get what I want and therefore letting my feminine energy guide me. It’s really hard especially with a shy man. Just stay balanced and keep being who you are. Either way, it sets you apart. ❤

[@pearpo]

💯 % Yesterday saw an older couple holding hands after going out to dinner, the woman carrying leftovers in a Togo box. They seemed like it was a rare date night, like they had not done so in a while. The guy seemed especially happy. She then asked him a question about did he do an errand and he said No. she suddenly went from warm to frigid she got so angry, dropped his hand and started berating him and he dropped back. It may have been important but it was just an errand. They were healthy happy just had a nice dinner. It seemed like she wasn’t in control of her emotions. And damaged her relationship.

[@claydinwilliams974]

U Just Made me cry. Because a lot of relationships will be saved by your advices. Usually it's the women who really cause conflicts in a relationship. They really expect every man to read them and be aware of their emotions.

[@vaiduskab]

Thank you so much for spreading delicate femininity and being an example. I feel Im learning just by watching your moves🤗. I truly believe a world needs real humble yet very strong women who inspire and build the strongest men and as a result families❤️❤️❤️

[@floralfaun]

WE NEEDED THIS LISA!! ❤️❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻✨ You're a diamond 🥹

[@Doesch]

I think this type of video is very important and should definitely been taught more, once when i was younger it was easy for me to sort of not respond to men and keep my anger inside when a man would do something terrible, i would just keep quiet, feel angry and focus on my life with friends and activities. Then usually the apology would come from the man himself without doing anything. Then after a couple of times men doing the same things, something snapped and i was like, i am not going to let this stuff go unpunished anymore. And then i started to blow up when something bad would occur. However i guess it became too much of a defense mechanism/habit. I always wondered how to get back to my unbothered self, so this video has really helped to get some tips on how to do better in the future.

[@ilovemeforwhoiam]

Growing up in a highly disfunctional family, with a narc father, i never knew how to behave healthy. It was all about gaslighting, drama creating , and finally forcing me to react ...and reactive abuse , back at home... Countineusly atracted sumilar narc men.. finally healed and started looking for healthy man .. but the problem is , i never knew how to behave healthy, i never saw it, and it never worked anywhere either.. with a toxic narc man, act like a borderline person .. that is the only thing that works... .. thanks for the video... hope i will find a healthy man someday, and can finally live healthy life ❤️

[@thepinkkbarbie]

Hey Lisa , so much love from South Africa .❤😍😍

[@sarahgirlsoaps]

Great video. Thank you. It had me calm and ready to address a small problem and not make it a big one.

[@jessicamote2101]

How about they take this much effort to not fuck up 🤷🏽‍♀️😂. Most confident women don’t do conflict but I’m not judging my sistas that have the urge to speak up for themselves in a society that tries to humble women vs. respect and protect them. This is a cute video though. I have definitely learned the art of not giving conflict my energy. It’s calmed my anxiety a lot and honestly I’m a lot happier so there’s truth to adapting what she is saying in this video for your personal mental health and not for a man alone.

[@colevandais]

I find it best to not ask my partner to do anything in the house and just focus on his career and when he comes home then it's a place he can relax as he works long hours. My work schedule is more flexible so if I'm away singing, I will ask him to do certain things and also leave a note next to his bed with what I want him to do, and thank him for taking care of me

[@shahanas__shah8993]

You are such a life saviour girl❤ this video popped at the right time.thankyou!

[@leila9353]

Ay, Lisa! Te ves maravillosamente deslumbrante con ese color. Es uno de los mejores que has usado. ❤

[@monaoshea1055]

So helpful I should listen to this every day😊

[@adellinatijerina9481]

This video came to me at the perfect time. My boyfriend who is now the father of our beautiful son, and I have been finding ourselves getting into little arguments here and there. I personally feel like I have handled our disagreements both good and not so good at times but this video has given me so much reassurance and encouragement to handle conflicts better in the future in order for us to both be happy. Thank you for these useful pointers ☺️

[@annann2256]

It’s soooooooooooo hard to stay calm when You’re an Aries ♈️!!!😁😁😁 when you want to break his head instead of staying quiet.😂

[@rosetta9463]

Hi, Lisa! Love your content and I've been following you for quite a while now❤ Could you make a video specifically for the eldest daughter who are starting on their feminine journey? We are known to be more anxious in letting another person take the lead, more self suffucient and the one who takes care of others but still wanting to attract a healthy masculine man. I know it would help a lot of ladies who struggles with the same issue, if you do. Thanks and lots of lovee❤❤

[@hawanajwaabdullah6134]

Yes!! Need a video specifically for us eldest girliez with shit real life problems and no masculine men around huhuhu

[@westprideproductions]

Hmm I don’t know about this , I won’t ever let men talk to me down and call me names and disrespect me so I can get something like get married or to be with him. Specially if they make a big deal because they are feeding you when u can feed yourself

[@Lisaglamour]

You should not be with a man that is calling you names or being disrespectful, absolutely never

[@AlexandraAttics222]

I‘ve been doing a lot of character research on men and women and I have to say this video brings it all down to a T! Great advice, trust this woman! 👏♥️ Good luck, now go have fun with your gorgeous femininity and happy man

[@sandunianuththara-lm7ei]

Thank you for creating this video. This green dress makes you so beautiful.

[@HaliaBarbosa]

This advice only works for masculine men. unfortunately we’re living in a time where extremely feminine men pretend to be masculine and don’t respect you when you say things calmly so yes, I agree with what she saying but sometimes you gotta turn up to get your respect

[@SophieDuarte-jj4jc]

These are teachings my therapist says for HEALTHY communication, any of y’all worrying if it’s manipulation IT IS NOT ITS LITERALLY THE OPPOSITE.

[@GemAnointed]

Exactly most ppl are uses to accepting disrespect or letting it slide that they assume she is saying tolerate abuse when she is saying how to communicate during conflict and how u need boundaries with not only others but yourself and the way you treat your own communication ppl just are perpetual victims and never wants to look inward

[@analorenajurilj9762]

Thank you Lisa for this video so so much! I am very untrustworthy towards people and I tend to hold grudges even towards men and I was doing that towards my current parent. He is a calm and collected man , more of action than words but as you all know, we woman appreciate actions but we also want to hear words and to talk. He grounded my emotions but I am still working on my approach as much he is working on opening himself. This is the right video in the right time, big THANK YOU❤ Also, I love that dress on you😍

[@LowBMIVoice]

I found this just yesterday and have watched this through 3 times already! 🥰 Resolving conflict has always been our relationship's "Achilles' Heel". And I can only work on myself to try and resolve these issues. I'm absolutely guilty of doing some less than helpful things when fighting, so I really hope this will be helpful! I suspect it will! Thank you!!! 🥰🥰😍😭

[@yunilee6927]

You are right sweetheart, i was very faminine trust me but married over 29years to rock, i turn into captain.

[@biancae1059]

If you try this while dating, and he still don’t respect your basic/reasonable needs, it should end after trying over and over.

[@sharris1232]

This was Golden✨️ Thank you for this! 'Saved to Favorites'..❤

[@AMMCFSES]

All in all, excellent material. Especially the importance of maintaining composure, picking the moment (and the battle), and NEVER nagging. The only two things that I would object to (as a woman who was raised by an older, masculine man), would be: 1) saying "I feel". My father hated hearing this from women and taught me from an early age to never say "I feel" in an argument (or really, in general). Most masculine men I've known tend to agree about this, and it was one of the first things that my husband noticed about me and still compliments me on to this day when we have disagreements (been married for 15 years, so we've had a fair few). Bottom line: when arguing with a men, express thoughts, not feelings, and stick to the issue, rather than how it affects your feelings. 2) the "sandwich" effect of softening a rebuke by surounding it with compliments/encouragement. In my experience, a lot of man find that to be manipulative and emasculating --- 'matronizing', if you will. My husband in particular is triggered by manipulative 'coddling' and really appreciates me being direct and up-front with both compliments and criticisms, never mixing the two for a 'softening' effect.

[@lovelace8702]

Nope! If youre mad alot you one gotta walk and heal. 2 hes not treating you right and youre trying to be heard. Also wslk. You can become powerful alone then try with someone else or him

[@customasmrbyx]

the sandwich is a great tip and it made me see how i can bring up things that bother me in a better way. he even suggested this method himself (more or less without ending with the compliment) but i love the idea and i pictured myself using this. it’s just better communication

[@a.d.b535]

He lets his ex gf store things at his place, he knows how I feel, and soft stepping the convo doesnt work. He tells me, he's "not worried about it".

[@kl5881]

Maybe you have already solved this problem but I have a suggestion and you may not use it but I would guarantee it will work if he cares about you more than her… find a time when you will be together and he can’t run from the conversation… dress to kill and be ready to ACTUALLY walk away from the relationship. Tell him this is a boundary for you and you would never disrespect him by keeping things from your ex and you were hoping he would solve this problem for you because you know he can. Tell him it’s about respect and that you are really attracted to a man that can respect you and you want to be that kind of partner for your man as well. Tell him you need to some time away from him. If he mentions anything about insecurity, remind him that you walking away from him is the opposite of insecurity and that you are just looking for respect and you know you will find it. I know this seems hard but if you don’t resolve the issue now it may be harder down the road. Best of luck.

[@a.d.b535]

@@kl5881 Thank you for your thoughtful suggestion. It's good advice and it will take some courage to take action.

[@lironben-tora5979]

My last ex treated me the same way. He has 5 female friendships, one of them which I heard about a lot did not even remembered my name and got all drunk and over my boyfriend at a party we have been together. Ask yourself cause maybe it is true to your situation as well, is he a narcissist? Learn the term by the true side of the internet, and if the answer you get is yes, you need to end it although it may feel like one day you are going to marry him. Cause his way of acting to your observations may be disrespectful and childish, and as someone who thinks he always right he will never! Fix his bad behaviors cause why would he? You are the “pathetic jealous girlfriend” and believe me when I say, I was very sensitive to my last one. Way more than I should have been.

[@lironben-tora5979]

If he does not respect your worries and give them space he would never keep your soul at ease. If you feel highs and lows in a wide spectrum, it may be because he leaves you alone to deal with your worries until you calm down. And I’m sorry to say, if that is the case (which I hope not), I got to experience it, he will try to blame you for “being dramatic” and he will try to put it like you are the pathetic one, when actually he is insecure and thinks he deserves better cause he can not deal with you like a true respectful man, and calm you down. If it sounds like your relationship, think of walking away. It will never satisfy you, you will never feel enough and appreciated in his eyes. I hope you are dealing with it well🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@a.d.b535]

@@lironben-tora5979 Thanks for your feedback. I've been turning my attention back to activities and friends I used to engage with and as a result, spending much less time with him. Interesting, he is asking for reassurance that I'm not going anywhere, and he's stepping up to the plate a lot more and he's asked me to work time for him into my schedule. Soon, I'll see if his attitude changes toward the ex's stuff, and if my feelings about that come to matter more than before.

[@0KaitoShion0]

But aside from that: Thank you for your insightful thoughts and tips! There's power in the magnetic, dark power of feminine energy. ✨

[@vivianapiga8108]

Perfect timing. Thank you 😍😍

[@LIVNNACPT]

Your voice is perfect Lisaaa, thank you 🤍

[@sandiipants21]

ughh all this seems so exhausting...i just don't say anything

[@ichiban6004]

Lol

[@ThefutureselfLah]

This definitely doesnt work for every guy lol sadly

[@themalawiandiner180]

​@@ThefutureselfLah She specified that this works for masculine men and will work for the majority, always exceptions to the rule.

[@TuMadreexP]

Same

[@DeadlyKiss000]

You don't have to. That's really the point. Be mysterious, let him do all the wondering and thinking. Be sexy, feminine, magical and let him come to you. That what us ladies do. We don't chase, they do. Move around him with style and class. Give little looks every now and then. Be the WOMAN you are. Use your Feminine wiles! You know you know what to do!

[@acolley2891]

Sadly, Ive been in my masculine for so many years, i default to it. I really desire and struggle to become more feminine. I do think it begins with the mind.❤

[@jennifercarcamo9387]

This was really helpful! Thank you!

[@noshinnanziba2647]

We put so much effort and the men still don't stay committed forever.

[@asiaanioowa4904]

Was not sure about this video if I wld like it. But ways about how to be respectfully for other side..Respectful and understanding.are best and only ways in communication in relationship✌🏻

[@morphicshadow]

i am in a situation where i feel that my emotions are chronically dismissed and that actions are taken to deliberately undermine my wellbeing. The actions of the masculine I am referring to is damaging my reputation and toxic to my wellbeing. My question is: what is the feminine approach to this, and when is the feminine approach appropriate? I do believe right now I desire distance and separation. I truly feel that it is incumbent on them to step up and make amends and follow through on their promises to improve. I don't feel that just simply making less time for them and saying I am spending time with other friends when I am asked to do hang out communicates my desire to not interact at this point in time. That seems like I am just beating around the bush and avoiding expression of my decision (which was made after I had communicated my boundaries and had them repeatedly violated).

[@imagine.explore.evolve]

Not your husband?? Demote his position. Your time, your life, your presence is precious.🌷

[@Marie-xi1yn]

Je ne savais pas à quoi m'attendre avec cette vidéo, mais ce qu'elle dit rejoint les techniques de communication non violente (CNV) et d'écoute active qui sont vraiment enseignées dans des formations ou livres. Très bien et merci de communiquer ces techniques ❤

[@nancyanderson1716]

Love everything you do, Lisa! You’re an inspiration!

[@liqueglosslondon8315]

Lisa, can we talk about recovering and restoring the relationship if we have already done the things you said not to do?

[@ericad8412]

I think walking away is the only answer but it takes a lot of courage and a backup plan

[@lunalovelies]

there is always a way to restore a relationship, but it takes vulnerability, willingness from both parties, trust, and actual change. first, start working on yourself for yourself, but not for the repair of the relationship. your relationship will benefit if you take care of yourself and this will show your partner that you are changing, thus increasing trust and maybe a willingness to try to repair the relationship. setting boundaries is important as well from both parties. change is slow and we sometimes will revert back to our old habits. in times like that, swallow your ego, work on apologizing, and showing your partner how you want to move forward.

[@jjcarr6606]

Yes can you give a talk on what to do if you have already lost your cool and not acted in the proper feminine way? I want to fix what I could have broken this man meets the world to me we are trying to plan a wedding

[@korie.e2696]

Ugh thank you for posting actual examples

[@leislsmith4293]

...thank you so much for sharing this crucial knowledge. Bless your precious heart.

[@ExtreemeIndiaJOlene]

I do believe this because i am a fire breathing dragon when I have had enough. I donot like repeating myself and inpnly wish i could be like glenda the witch of the east at those times the most. I often see this role played with white female,but i grew up seeing a black female be it in real life. So i know better i dodn grow up in a house where the parents yelled. Im not use to that sonif you yell im going off.

[@dolphinligh13]

This is first time coming across a true wonderful helpful video I love it and keep up the valuable advice

[@mariachan-cx2se]

Girls I want to remind u that this tips r used on masculine men who does not repeat the same mistakes I tried to apply those tips on feminine man and he thought iam begging him to treat me right so he said yes but kept on trying to manipulate me and repeat the same mistakes and put the blame on me

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

I need that green dress!!! 🤍

[@lareinethediaryofabeautifu96]

That green dress matches you very well

[@kerr3375]

Thank you for this video. You do a great job organizing and communicating all your points. I’m really grateful for the advice and hope to implement this in my relationship. My partner tends to have a hot temper and I have felt myself slowly being influenced by him more and more. I need to remember this advice and not try and mirror his masculine energy. It never turns out well. You said we need to learn to recognize our triggers. How do we do that?

[@ThePinkPantha21]

My husband and I are both hot heads and our relationship is not very pleasant. He has rubbed off on me too and it makes me blow up and shut down. There are some guys who are good with diffusing conflicts before they get out of hand but most guys come for blood if you bring up a problem. Not all but most.

[@moniquemoore1270]

Ladies if a man makes you mad….get super quiet…no words… until you feel like talking

[@breestone8978]

This is probably the Golden comment of this section. I did this recently with my man and it WORKED like a charm! I now hold a feminine energy towards him and treats me like a delicate flower 🌸

[@xTridentGirlx]

Lisa you look fabulous as always, I love this green colour on you it’s stunning! 💚 Do these techniques work with women too ? A lot of women in the office tend to be a bit catty and underhanded with comments and their actions 🙊