Never loved my daughter! PARENTS WHO REGRET HAVING KIDS..

[@L3t1t8e]

BORED and STRESSED? I've had a woman tell me that im gonna be bored if i dont have a child. I can only imagine how she feels (not that i feel sorry); i can't imagine a life of boredom because of a child. Ugh mothers and their projections

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

I’d rather be bored and without having kids, than to be stressed 24/7 with having kids.

[@joylastname3035]

I'm a mom, and i can tell you she's lying to you. How much does her life suck that she needs kids for companionship? Have kids because you genuinely want them. Pls, don't have kids out of boredom, fear of loneliness, or as a retirement plan. Misery loves company. It's like marriage. I'm married, but I tell ppl not to get married cos they need to prove something or fear being alone. There are married women out there who are lonely af. Make these decisions wisely and with a clear head ✌🏿

[@scorpionqueen66]

@@joylastname3035 Amen and FACTS!!! I made a clear decision not to have children or get married because I know that I'm a selfish person and I don't want to change my life, who I am or how I choose to live my life to be a mother or a wife!!! I knew that I would be totally miserable and unhappy if I had kids and got married, so I decided to go a different path for myself and I'm glad that I did!!!

[@L3t1t8e]

@@anonnnymousthegreat that's always the better option

[@alisonb5921]

I'm a single, childfree, middle-aged woman. I work, I'm never bored. I have lots of hobbies. I don't regret not having kids. I have pets.😊

[@fieryblaze1737]

I love seeing these types of stories unfold. It’s like my guilty pleasure.🤣

[@ChildfreeLT]

😂🤣

[@deebee8825]

Me too!

[@JanikaBates]

I’m glad you spoke my mind 😂

[@QilinRider21]

Same here

[@whyaminotoriginal]

That last one hurt. I can only imagine how that child feels. The kid ALWAYS knows. Honestly she sounds awful just give up custody you selfish cow. I say this as a childfree person.

[@scorpionqueen66]

I have to agree!!!

[@indigoGoddess7]

Agree!

[@FabulousSquidward]

Kids don't choose to be born. We choose to give birth to them. And if you choose that it's your responsibility.

[@sandranorum6125]

Yes! That person seem to take zero responsibility for her own actions! Plus, the child didn’t choose to be born. I’m all for people choosing the childfree life, but she seems awful. 😢

[@FabulousSquidward]

@@sandranorum6125 right you can't choose after the fact. I mean you can but you're kind of a monster.

[@tanyadelaney8455]

My son stole $8,000 from me. I wasted 20 years of my life for him. And I did it all while undergoing my own cancer surgeries, and taking care of my mother who is dying of congestive heart failure. And his father didn't do a damn thing! Yes my son was my biggest mistake in my whole life. He's the example of why abortions are necessary!!!

[@ChildfreeLT]

Wow!! 😱🤯

[@autumxxleaves4186]

Damn!

[@FollowingJesus17]

I know how you feel I don't relate to motherhood

[@19katsandcounting]

You should’ve pressed charges.

[@SkyeID]

make abortion legal again!

[@ARS-fn6px]

Too many people use children as accessoires for a certain status, lifestyle, for emotional punching bags, for loneliness, for slavery, for pension, for caretaking. But they feel the need to call childfree people selfish. 🥱

[@jrmetmoi]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@scorpionqueen66]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You're speaking pure FACTS!!!

[@indigoGoddess7]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@HighPriestessK]

🤟 And that peeps s the ultimate truth...

[@kaylabean3693]

HEAVY on emotional punching, I had to stop talking to my sister a bit because I had to check her every 5 seconds for how she talks to my niece

[@tanisha7789]

I’m 41 and child free I can’t imagine if i would’ve had kids it seems like all my freinds who have kids are miserable no thanks

[@ChildfreeLT]

They probably are miserable. They sometimes come to us for their entertainment too to get away from their lives at home

[@liamodonovan6610]

Love your videos why these people have children when they don't want kids glad i found this community love your channel awesome video

[@frankiereid469]

Society pressures ..Many people have kids they didn't want to have .I am 67 years young.Never married by choice and hallelujah no kids..No regrets and pretty much a stress free life..Often people and doctors are amazed of how old I am ..Men in our society has made women into mulls. To much work and stress makes you old and ugly way before your time .

[@liamodonovan6610]

@@frankiereid469 you did the right thing i am never going to bother marry or bother with kids knew at 14 society puts way to much pressure on anyone but especially women to marry and have kids

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

Thank god i’m childfree. Just hearing these stories just sounds exhausting.

[@ChildfreeLT]

Reading them is exhausting too sometimes. Its kinda heartbreaking.

[@tyheildes6210]

I don’t see the point of having kids. All the reasons to have them are selfish and to me people that have them are the crazy ones.

[@scorpionqueen66]

Yep Yep!!! I absolutely agree!!!

[@tenderness3237]

You're antinatalist like me

[@sarahlo4661]

I love my baby. She is so cute and funny sometimes. She also requires so much energy, money, and time that some days it just feels like I am surviving. 100 percent do not have kids if you have a feeling it won’t be a good fit for you.

[@jenniferholmes6644]

Thanks for addressing this touchy subject and matters. It’s interesting

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

Gurrrrl, your lip color is so cute!!!

[@ChildfreeLT]

Thank you! Its a combo of Mented cosmetics Nude Lala and Fenty beauty Fenty glow gloss 👍🏾

[@scorpionqueen66]

When I saw this video, I realized that I dodged a HUGE bullet by choosing not to have children or get married, because I know that I'm a selfish person and I'm not willing to change my life, who I am or how I choose to live my life in order to be somebody's wife and mother!!! I enjoy my solitude, my freedom and my peace of mind over having to take care of somebody else and be bothered with a man for the rest of my life!!! I know for a fact that I would be totally unhappy and miserable if I did have children and got married, so I chose to go a different way in my life, and I'm glad that I did!!! Not missing out on anything that I never wanted to do, and I'm enjoying my peaceful, quiet and drama free life without children and a husband to get on my damn nerves!!! Sorry for the long rant. Have a good day or night!!!

[@skyfalldeadpool1633]

I had one child. With my husband after being married for 12 years and enjoyed them without them. We married I was 19 and he was 21. And he is the only guy I told I wanted only one child but later in life and he was onboard . Two guys I dumped one was 29 and I was 18 when we met. I was young and he thought it is a good idea to pressure me into having his children because he was ready but I was in my first year of college. I dumped him a week later because he wanted to baby trap me that young. I dated 2 other guys before I dated my husband. My husband that time was just a close friend but we were not together. All those dudes wanted to knock me up asap. And now I am in thirties. I see how creepy that was for grown ass men want to knock a barely legal girl is wild and creepy. When I went to vegas with my now husband I was 19 and he was 21 and we was starting to see each other more than friends. We got wild and got married there while trashed. And we never been apart ever since. We had our first child after 12 years of marriage and I am going to close my shops surgically this month. He wants to get vasectomy himself but I told him weather he has one or not I am not having more children. After we had our child after years we got harrassed to have a child in our early marriage to the point when all our parents gave up to ask. Now they are asking us when we gonna give our toddler a sibling. We won't. We don't want more children but that won't stop us from getting harrassed lol. Don't have children to please people because if you even have one they will ask for more. We don't give in peer pressure and never cared but it is bothersome for people who don't have confidence to stand their ground about their lives.

[@FloridaDumpling]

Why doesn’t she just sign her rights over to the father and let him put up with the kid. She may have to give him money but at least she’d be free.

[@FollowingJesus17]

I should have did that 15 years ago

[@sheilagorney5909]

I wish I had more info on the 19 year old. Why was she forced? I feel badly that she was failed by people who supposedly love her.

[@indigoGoddess7]

Yellow and your melanin = ✅✅✅ ✨✨✨❤❤❤❤ These stories are rewarding to hear. It just confirms my decision about kids even more. I hope those two women can get some counselling to really unpack. You can’t ever stop being a parent. For the last one, I think it’s best if she gives full custody and pays the child support (it’s based off of your income). The child most likely knows that they’re unwanted. Why put the kid through that? You can’t have it both ways - child support would be much cheaper than what she’s experiencing now. Health is wealth.

[@ChildfreeLT]

Thank you 🥰 Read your email when you have a second.

[@indigoGoddess7]

@@ChildfreeLT No problem 🥰🥰. Will do.

[@hayaq9991]

I love being a Mom but i will say.. if you dont want children.. dont do it.. you will hurt yourself and them

[@zeesays726]

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