NEVER REACT when WOMEN TEST YOU (the masculine frame you need)

[@Tarie023]

“If my absence doesn’t affect your life, my presence has no meaning in it”

[@clivegiven7798]

This is precisely a most wonderful and thoughtful insight.

[@marcuswilliams1540]

Wow

[@bvhia]

Female logic

[@db252]

It's not THAT profound. It's very broad and could be argued with any situationship.

[@antamantium3238]

Just pull back. EVERYTIME she does this, pull back. Soon, she’ll be single. 😂😂😂😂💯🤙🏿

[@samh803]

Actually not caring is the hardest part.

[@thetest8777]

I fail that back when I was 21 in 2016 it was extremely embarrassing and I felt like shit never did that again and I quit 2 weeks after because I was never going to allow myself To be put in that position 😑

[@adons4423]

They want 💰

[@robear_]

💯

[@Drunkmonk2122]

@@thetest8777I’m same age did same thing “they only care if you cheated or best them” those are only two things that make woman wait to date gain anything else they “monkey branch to”

[@SomeCanine]

It's hard because men are the ones who do most of the work in the relationships. As men, we have to do better about demanding 50/50 relationships. If we're going to x, they need to do y.

[@jonathanhalverson9536]

if someone is testing you and playing games its disrespectful also its extremely manipulative.

[@firedragon_ck4509]

Exactly! Thank you bro. You want me to believe ya care about me but yet you are playing all of these games? Make it make sense? Plus, I’m about to be 30 next year in 2025. So we are supposed to be looking at chics in their late 20’s/early 30’s and they are still doing that? Lol at that point it becomes childish/unattractive to me

[@tyronevonchadley]

If you are 30 you should be dating girls who are 20-23. Period. Otherwise you are going to be a mark for a girl approaching the wall and looking for security while all the men before you got her for free.​@@firedragon_ck4509

[@moonwvlf6919]

Disrespectful ... Manipulative ... You just described 99% of women

[@soloharmonix]

Yeah, women really trying to normalize this bs.

[@ronloyd601]

facts

[@LeeEverett1]

Women come and go, never expect things to last. Enjoy your turn for however long it lasts and never give her your heart. Guard your heart fellas and don't ever put in more than what she is.

[@Married2DaMoneyyy]

Facts.

[@FightForOurMessiah]

Focus on our father, my brother

[@Peacewalker1993]

Amen🙏❤️

[@shanep8934]

Wishing you Terry and this community all the best for the New Year "2025". Stay safe, stay wise and look out for those people in the same boat as us.

[@brianbachmeier34]

We're all gonna make it brahs 👍

[@jdleeder6494]

Whats up Terry, I appreciate you and what you teach us! You're spot on bro! Women are testing us daily and it's so hard; they want us manly but they bresk us down to the point we feel like boys! We need God to help shield us and stay close with a small cir cle! They will turn the kids and everyone against us if we react and it gets so much worse! Happy New Year Brother Terry!

[@lndingalle9605]

Where is your father? Why do so many adult men need advice from men who are in their peer age group?

[@k1ndr3dspirits]

@@lndingalle9605 My father is a baby boomer… He has a rose tinted view of the world and isn’t privy to what is going on now. Many men like myself had to learn this on our own.

[@cs.8821]

because fathers dont know whats going on with these modern women entitlements. Botox,face lifts , ass implants etc. These women know how to master the painted face of makeup on there face makes them look pretty. All of think they at 10's out here ​@lndingalle9605

[@Seanus32]

This takes a lot of self discipline. Time after time, you can be calm/non-reactive and that one time, they get to you. Keep distancing yourself then.

[@unchained20000000]

I was born in 1968, there was no internet, the grade middle and high school does not teach what terryjoe teaches. This generation is blessed to have a teacher like him. You all need his class. For real. It will elevate your life!

[@mptavar]

I cracked open and ate pistachios aggressively throughout the entire video.

[@Nsimpson]

lol

[@tyronevonchadley]

💪

[@91722854]

channeling the hatred into productive crunching

[@dinok.3809]

Trail mix here

[@kobep.9910]

TJJ your channel blowup is on the way bro, love the content brother. You’ve been a significant inspiration to me. Thank you. Happy New Year!!

[@soundscapes4619]

Reminds me of that song, Burn the Witch. " Loose talk around tables, Abandon all reason, Avoid all eye contact, Do not react, Shoot the messenger, This is a low flying panic attack "

[@jackspreadbury1724]

Radiohead 👌🏻 choon

[@chemerejohnson668]

You speaking volumes now✨❤️

[@TrevorHamberger]

If I was ever dating a woman I wouldn't even think to check her followers to see if she's newly following other guys anyway. I don't even have time for that. Hell I don't even have time for social media that's why I don't even have it anymore

[@truthskr7127]

Getting off social media is what more people need to do.

[@Married2DaMoneyyy]

​@@truthskr7127I'm staying cus I gotta communicate with family.

[@JustAGuyWithHisThoughts]

Hey Terry, love your channel and your videos. I’ve definitely noticed this myself personally where even if I don’t get too involved with a woman and don’t show her much attention they still test me and try to play games, and act all nice and friendly to your face but as soon as you turn your back to them they’ll try to stab it with the sharpest knife they can find. You’re right, men have to keep doing them and not care too much about these modern women. 👍

[@dinok.3809]

The tests will auto-correct themselves when you have options. If she doesn't auto-correct that typically means she has options and is testing because she is exercising those options. So in any event, the short answer is to always have options.

[@CryptoTaurusMoon]

Nah, testing and disrespectful behavior needs to be addressed in the moment without emotion, and it needs to be made aware that it's unacceptable, but ask a woman multiple questions as to why she is acting up

[@unchained20000000]

If she wants to exit because you didn't fall into her games, then let her. This is childish, she is a child. I want a woman not some little girl.

[@unchained20000000]

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[@ci2763]

My success is a walking miracle I opened my eyes and acknowledged I was discarded, all I can say is 80% of men in jail, have been framed by women, and cry about there false allegations, I got out leveled up and smashing my goals thanks to God and Terry for guidance ❤

[@emanuelswingler]

Love the title, very true

[@GhoulReviews]

Appreciate all the advice dude. Been watching your vids almost a year now. Happy new year dude.

[@twilightcountry]

The testing begins very early on, sometimes in minutes of meeting you. They'll test before dating, and if you hold your frame, she'll then reject. They won't date a guy whose frame they can't destroy. Same, if they see you don't care, they'll also not date you.

[@thothheartmaat2833]

be a simp... dont be a simp... got it...

[@twilightcountry]

@@thothheartmaat2833 Essentially, rhey only date simps, or rather men who they work out they can control, use, or emasculate either there and then or she has the potential to do so. Or the guy manipulates her into beliving that she'll succeed to do so, which is what a lot of players do.

[@confiance1492]

@@thothheartmaat2833 ridiculous right?

[@k1ndr3dspirits]

Joel is the big brother I wish I had… 😭🙏

[@twilightcountry]

13:45 Oh yes, women come in very strong then realise they overcooked it and lose all interest

[@The.Rockyy007]

I highly recommend everyone to read Your Life Your Game by Keezano...It beautifully shows how connecting with God and building meaningful relationships can lead to spiritual growth and success in both your personal and professional life. This book truly changed my life, a must-read. Happy New Year🙏🏼❤️

[@riccky707]

l totally agree sir

[@mattmdbeatzjeusavesjohnzoh2812]

I LOVE YOU NOEL THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM WITH EVERYONE ALL THESE YEARS I WAS FOLLOWING YOU WHEN YOU ONLY HAD 2000 FOLLOWERS YOU ARE WISE WAY BEYOND YOUR YEARS AND I HAVE ALWAYS AGREED WITH EVERY WORD THAT YOU EVER SAID THANK YOU BROTHER JESUS IS COMING SOON❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@unchained20000000]

TerryJoe you need to go to college to be a therapist, you are freakin great at this. BRO LET'S GO!

[@jessicap5010]

*needs to SEE a therapist 😂😢

[@marcuswilliams1540]

The last 4 women that i slept with all had a man or was married. But they didnt tell me they had a man , i found out later that they all did. My ex wife even admitted that she slept with another man. I guess its called THE GAME

[@johnblackrose]

This. When I got divorced (she cheated go figure) I hit up some old prospects from HS. 100% either had a bf or were engaged. And 100% were down to bang.

[@sixstringerati]

Addendum: I view on a large screen with nice sound system. So the noise may not be heard on a "smart"phone with small speakers.

[@BoduOnThebeat1996]

Happy New year Terry Greetings from the Philippines..

[@Lumi-tv5cc]

Happy new year TJ🎉

[@anaxa4883]

My ex would persistently make up baseless lies about me trying to cheat, wanting a hotter girl, and DMing girls even though I blocked all other females for her right to her face. Were these tests? If so, what type are they? I yelled at her telling her she was nuts and should shut tf up. This lead to very nasty arguments thar killed the vibes between us. How tf was I supposed to react to this? Sit there and say nothing while she goes hysterical spewing hateful lies about me?

[@johnblackrose]

Yeah pretty much. That and probably just ghost her ass. Act like you don't care. Because odds are she was actually cheating and was projecting on you. She was seeking for a reason to dump you is my guess.

[@anaxa4883]

@ Well she lived with me while she was doing this and I worked from home - so we were around each other 24/7. She started doing this like 3 months in and it lasted a year. The arguments about the dumb things she would make up built resentment between us. She would do this all at the same time being super affectionate, wanting sex all the time, and talking about our future family. She was the best and worst girl ever. Now she is a Snapchat prostitute and general 403. I wanted to let her go for the disrespect but she didn’t have legal guardianship over herself even as a 20yo and there was a constant fear that she would get locked up in a mental hospital for running away to me. It was a fkd up and sad situation. I’m 31 and see her as probably the last chance I ever had with a more pure younger girl. Imo women over 25ish are disgusting ran through 403s that are gamey skilled daters that are impossible to please. Huge turnoff

[@DivineDemiurge]

Well said. Little shit tests are actually healthy and men do them also. Its those constant soup opera type tests what are insanity. Where you already settled down and life is good but she comes up with some bs drama. Seen marriages broken with this type of behavior. God bless bro

[@gmansk53]

I was with a women just to find out she was married still. 💀 I wish i knew womentality 5 years ago while in fire/ems. Well i know now

[@eliasharding3376]

I truly don't care. The reason is been there but they don't know it. Then they think why can't I get this guy pissed of. I just smiled 😂

[@IsaiahGraham2007]

Hey Terry, are you going to return back to live stream, i will love to see you back in stream to return.

[@saullopez3073]

Try the shogun method

[@BAHDK]

Terry, let me know you have read this. In the book of Isaiah; of which many prophecies of Christ and other events have already taken place, which means it can be trusted; in the millenial kingdom, the next age for those who believed in Jesus; this is what it says. Tell me this doesn't mean something? Reproach. ISAIAH 4 4 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach. 2 In that day shall the branch of the Lord be beautiful and glorious, and the fruit of the earth shall be excellent and comely for them that are escaped of Israel. 3 And it shall come to pass, that he that is left in Zion, and he that remaineth in Jerusalem, shall be called holy, even every one that is written among the living in Jerusalem: 4 When the Lord shall have washed away the filth of the daughters of Zion, and shall have purged the blood of Jerusalem from the midst thereof by the spirit of judgment, and by the spirit of burning. 5 And the Lord will create upon every dwelling place of mount Zion, and upon her assemblies, a cloud and smoke by day, and the shining of a flaming fire by night: for upon all the glory shall be a defence. 6 And there shall be a tabernacle for a shadow in the day time from the heat, and for a place of refuge, and for a covert from storm and from rain. King James Version (KJV)

[@AdamWilliams-mc9li]

Lets goooooo

[@shirlebryant9427]

Good night

[@Digital666Devil]

Yeah but how should you react to those Tests ? Dont react? Call bs Out ?

[@twilightcountry]

You don't give them any emotional reaction, or just tell them calmly they're wasting their time doing it and you don't tolerate it

[@stickboy8219]

I'm dating this new girl so I'm waiting for all the signs because yes I've been there quite a few times women are weird lol

[@johnblackrose]

Just act like you don't care. The sad fact is the more she feels like she's losing you the more she will chase. When she starts playing games just blow it off. Zero tolerance for 304 behavior

[@Married2DaMoneyyy]

​@@johnblackroseYou already lost if you gotta act.

[@williamsevern1067]

Why are my ears still ringing and hurting?????

[@matchhunter7012]

New year new strategy: only rent !!

[@4literv6]

If flies floats or fks? Rent or lease only never EVER buy it!

[@K1ZZy__]

🙌🏾🔥🔥🙌🏾

[@k1ndr3dspirits]

🙌

[@insight9354]

you are very wise❤hope you come across the woman that will only be a blessing to you ❤

[@jessicap5010]

He only likee men or blow up dolls

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Redacted!

[@yvonnegonzalez5616]

❤🎉!

[@adibe3902]

You started copying Zander as well😅He's onto something though, can't blame you.

[@k1ndr3dspirits]

I don’t even know who Zander is… 😅I don’t look at it like that though. He’s helping out young men by spreading the word.

[@adibe3902]

@@k1ndr3dspirits Terry's a good guy but a black piller. Zander's the only one i agree with and i see more and more people copying him.

[@LeeEverett1]

​@@adibe3902 How is he copying? Different thumbnails and different styles of getting their points across. Zander uses drawing boards and illustrations. Most red pill and black pill content are very similar anyway I don't think anyone can claim they're original at this point. Black pillers claim that it's all about height and looks to get and keep women and if you don't have those then you're cooked. As far as I know Terry has never mentioned that I'd say he's red pill

[@adibe3902]

@LeeEverett1 Black pills and red pills have nothing in common. Terry started copying Zander lately though. I'm sure you don't get nuances though, no biggie.

[@Married2DaMoneyyy]

Free topic bruhh.

[@PrimeChosenOne]

💯💯💯💯

[@jaysoreal5202]

First

[@petea1918]

It’s new year and you’re young enough to be partying instead of uploading your hate for women

[@jetsam12]

Partying is for losers

[@truthskr7127]

Guys like this date the exact women they complain about, hence the content. They don't know where or how to even meet a proper woman that wants to start a family.

[@Married2DaMoneyyy]

Yea it's 2025, you should leave and stop assuming he hate women.

[@petea1918]

@ he clearly does

[@oscargonza2748]

He doesn't hate women, he only hates the games you women play

[@stantheman4964]

Why you so angry at women ?

[@El_izabethheart]

Jesabels

[@teancumwilliam2929]

They're very manipulative bro, have you been under a rock this whole time

[@LawrenceMorgan-u5y]

That's not anger bud that's just what it is you need to protect yourself

[@LeeEverett1]

He recently had a woman he was dating for awhile wrong him so it's understandable he's in a sort of rage right now. Women really do be on some BS these days

[@SimonHetu-e5k]

He actually seems very calm and logical.

[@JD-yq6xz]

Terry who hurt you so bad tho😢 we are all not like this.. thats facts.. try to turn your mindset around... what you are talking about happen to me has a women..😢 by a men...

[@miguelrobb5719]

Wow are you serious? He is spitting facts and here you are jumping on here with the whole “who hurt you” tactic. You are proving some of his points about women on his other videos.

[@jessicap5010]

He can’t cope with rejection lol so he tries to change the narrative to a false one to feel better. He needs therapy lol

[@miguelrobb5719]

@ actually a lot of women needs therapy and can’t handle rejection. Women lol to insult men just for showing interest in them. It is mostly likely due to ego, being a narcissist or having some sort of past trauma with men. Not long ago i showed a woman that I was interested in her. She wasn’t all that pretty in the face, but she had a good physique and I can tell she hits the gym a lot. You know what she said to me? “Go work out fatty. And how about lose those glasses on your face”. I told her “I use to weigh well over 300lbs. I’m down to 275lbs and I’m still currently losing the weight. As for my glasses… I’m wearing them because I need them you idiot. I will admit you are in fantastic shape, but your personality is still sloppy and totally unattractive and repulsive. No amount of dieting and exercising will ever fix that”. She couldn’t handle my response so she just simply blocked me. Women love to insult and throw stones but they can’t handle it when they are the receiving end of being criticized. They are the ones that are mentally ill and need therapy lol

[@miguelrobb5719]

@@jessicap5010 only barking dogs are the ones that got hit. I’m talking about you btw lol

[@Married2DaMoneyyy]

​@@jessicap5010You can't cope with being exposed, reported and blocked.