Once you’ve actually experienced these exact sentiments, these videos will really resonate with you
@B-ch8wl2 күн бұрын
This kid Joel is way ahead of his times
@LeeEverett12 күн бұрын
Went through the same exact thing. She idolized me and was telling me things like I was the best thing to ever happen to her, healthiest guy she's ever met, never had someone treat her so well and make her laugh so much. Then the disrespect came and she made sly comments about me, criticized everything I did, and flirted with another guy at the gym right in front of me. The moment I checked her for disrespect she ghosted me and blocked me everywhere. She also hopped on dating apps the same week she ghosted. Female narcissists are some of the most cruel and evil human beings walking the planet.
@chez07882 күн бұрын
Happened to me over the summer. Started dating a gal back in June and she thought I was the best thing since sliced bread. Told me all kinds of shit, rushed to meet my family and vice versa. Said I was so special she never introduces anyone to her family. She'd look at me with the most googly eyes and called me handsome 24/7. Then a few months later the disrespect came, sly sarcastic comments, and when I call her out on it, she has the nerve to tell me she feels like she walks on eggshells with me. Tried turning it all around on me. First week of December she broke it off with me after a few weeks of distancing. I already knew it was happening, and I didn't do much to stop it. Glad I didn't and when she dumped me, I just walked off. Haven't talked to her since and don't even want to. Fuck all that shit. I feel less stress, fuck it.
@jimscott-w1v2 күн бұрын
happened to me this summer sick twisted get you arrested take everything that I can restraining orders play the victim you name it they do it move onto somebody else straight away bump into her new supply which I know but also took my son for him to message me telling me I love her you may think it’s fast. I will look after her and your son what the **** is wrong with these people they were burning hell
@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988Күн бұрын
You got off cheap, bro. Be thankful for that part.
@RyanBelden11 сағат бұрын
@@chez0788 you did the right thing dude I wish I new
@chez078811 сағат бұрын
@@RyanBelden I can't lie that it didn't hurt or upset me. I had to walk away before making myself look weak. It's just a fucked up thing to do people. It almost seemed intentional. Hang in there with whatever you're going through bud. You'll be alright 🙏
@joeyfigueroa47483 күн бұрын
So I’ve learned. Just got out of a relationship with a covert narcissist in October. The relationship was a year and nine months. But everything described in this video, from the three stages, to the more detailed information, were all accurate. I didn’t realize it at the time but, I’m glad I shut down my social media accounts and deleted them after I left. Best choice I could’ve made.
@marktaylor49062 күн бұрын
Love the channel even the refrigerator noise in the background hahaha
@Néerlandais-p1q2 күн бұрын
AC, noise
@JackNance222 күн бұрын
If you don't get a positive and authentic vibe off someone, stay away. The majority of people in this toxic world are toxic.
@Lezgooo-b9u2 күн бұрын
@@JackNance22 Feels so too.
@soloharmonixКүн бұрын
Yes, it's true, there are very few genuine people left. Most people will just lower your self-esteem and acting like your presence means nothing.
@MarianMurphy-rz8ejКүн бұрын
I wish it was over. I wish Jesus would come back and end my suffering. I don’t want to be in such a world as this.
@lyrastar9992 күн бұрын
try swimming, it clears your energy and renews the spirit!
@Rahul_Lata_2 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advice, I was thinking about trying swimming for the past couple days
@Lezgooo-b9u2 күн бұрын
Thank you Lyra❤
@Osean_Man2 күн бұрын
I asked them why they ghosted me and they said “I am not” Like WTF you’re not even human anymore
@sammy37123 күн бұрын
I totally agree, at first when I didn’t understand what was going on I was like wtf is going on? Once I did my research and really looked into it I understood what these Narcs are trying to do and I said to myself, not a chance in hell!! They’re gonna watch me live my best life!
@AmmarB-s1b3 күн бұрын
Brother watching your videos helped me get threw the toughest times thank you Joel 💯❤️
@bobgreenfield91582 күн бұрын
through Not threw
@AmmarB-s1b2 күн бұрын
@@bobgreenfield9158 thanks
@AmmarB-s1b2 күн бұрын
@@bobgreenfield9158thanks
@BrianKarmo3 күн бұрын
That's crazy she was 16, that young and so manipulative to be that cunning...
@BrianKarmo3 күн бұрын
Then again you said y'all was together till she was 19
@Brent-z2s2 күн бұрын
They give each tips and tactics to use against you.
@soloharmonixКүн бұрын
Females start learning these games from a very young age because they get to practice a lot with so many men. I study psychology and even I get shocked just how many tactics they used without even thinking.
@Aquamarine73 күн бұрын
The right person loves you for real & don't play any of these dumb foolish games. They want you & you only, they don't go out and look for others, they are Happy with what they have. Real Love is not perfect, and there is nothing shallow about real love. You two never give up on eachother no matter what. There is no abuse at all in a good relationship, you both are on the same wave length. Someone who really loves you keeps it straight with you & would never ever think about hurting you. They are loyal behind your back. They want the best for you, they encourage you, support you, won't play head games. They love you enough to be vulnerable they don't hold back, there is no confusion because you both know it's real and want it. There is nothing fake about it. You can be you and they can be them. You know deep in your heart you can trust them and they trust you. The Relationship just feels right in your gut and heart. Theres no doubts. You both feel light, free & happy.❤ It literally feels like they were custom made for you, they were born for you, and you were born for them.
@AwakenedEmptiness2 күн бұрын
As nice as this sounds it sounds like a Disney Fairytale and not real life. When something sounds too good to be true it's because it usually is sadly.
@Aquamarine72 күн бұрын
It's not I've had it before lol
@jimscott-w1v2 күн бұрын
This is exactly how I feel if we were together for 10 years didn’t see the red flags didn’t know about narcissism to get me arrested and stuff. Take my son and monkey brunch to somebody else in two weeks moving with him three months and forget about me completely after 10 years it’s horrible.
@phillipsmith77592 күн бұрын
Amazingly true. It's time to take things for what it is..games. Games ape😢 fun..play to win.
@MichaelAura7773 күн бұрын
So glad i found your videos bro smfh i needed this tonight
@Ben-y3n2 күн бұрын
The best thing a narcissist can give you is an illusion
@TheXsandman2 күн бұрын
Idk about yall but i like the backround sound lol
@terenceboris8512 күн бұрын
bro you’re on here spilling the beans every day. doesn’t that make you vulnerable and accessible to enemies?
@kumarayush49672 күн бұрын
They want to keep you, but just as a slave...
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq2 күн бұрын
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I think where this video was trying to go is the subject of stalking. Where after the end of the relationship they will try to stalk you because they are looking for ways to destroy you unfortunately. This is an important video though and something people need to be made aware of, we need more people out there spreading this message to everybody.
@tnt01Күн бұрын
do you ever feel remorse for the women you hurt? Or, do you justify it and move on and think they will be ok?
@NarcissistHex-nf9eqКүн бұрын
@@tnt01 to be honest it was something I never thought about much, say two and a half years ago when I was unaware of what I was doing, I just assumed everyone moved on past the hurt in a matter of an hour or two or whatever. The reason why is because we have a funny way of doing that as well, we could traumatize our partners and in a couple days just move on like nothing ever happened.
@NothingCompares2U3 күн бұрын
There is so much that goes without even saying dealing with the narc so long, it is just like take a look around and there is no one left alive in my world, we both have the feeling the narcs are all going to hell in a handbasket, just such of a thorough ruination of other people who are just helpful's lives. It is nothing but sad, still vying for forgiveness but things are getting stark. Everything they come up with is the same and just will fail.
@carlaboutte8164Күн бұрын
Spirit or flesh,cause we all witnessed that go wrong,never been their Ex,they trying that! 😤
@belavera9943 күн бұрын
the guy I dealt with was a covert narcissist, I couldn't block him right away, because I still had feelings for him despite all the mind games he played with me, when he finally discarded me, he did this by ghosting me and changing his profile picture into one that showed him kissing another woman, then into a similar one that showed him holding their baby. I found her IG profile, she was suicidal, because there were pictures on there from pretty deep cuts on her arms. it's actually terrifying knowing how much damage these narcissists can do and how good some of them are at being charming, the guy I'm talking about, we met at work and he was pretty popular there.
@BrianKarmo2 күн бұрын
Yes but are you implying that she was suicidal because of him and his abuse or I'm not getting that part maybe she was just crazy you know narcissists sometimes they get with other sociopaths or other narcissist as well
@belavera9942 күн бұрын
@@BrianKarmo I'm just saying that she was suicidal, that's just a fact and judging by the way he treated me he likely wasn't the best influence on someone with suicidal thoughts, if she was like that before already, I can't tell, I just saw these pictures and other ones in which she talked about him being absent when she gave birth and ignoring her for months, so I doubt he treated her any better than me.
@adventuresofkatekat2 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you, that man sounds evil ♥️ I wish you happiness and healing and may you find a good partner ♥️ it’s so sad how narcissists push people to become suicidal. Many of my ex’s exes had to be put on antidepressants which says a lot. I’m so glad people are waking up to this toxic traumatizing behaviour, because no one deserves it 🙏🏼 Have a wonderful weekend
@belavera9942 күн бұрын
@@adventuresofkatekat thank you❣️ and I wish all the same for you as well🤍🙏🏻
@Normie-c7s2 күн бұрын
My ex used to counter me in ways that were diabolical. I finally came to understand what was happening. She was definitely monitoring me. This video is on point.
@LadiiiTresses3 күн бұрын
That’s wild … I dreamed about a Hoover after he discarded me
@brianbachmeier343 күн бұрын
Masculine brotherhood we meet again.
@nathanarthur63353 күн бұрын
My Man
@markcameroon66133 күн бұрын
very true i felt bad for her thinking oh the bipolar on the anxiety depression once i started finding channels like this i go ya fuk it and them they big narcs not worth a minute
@ricardogalban9638RG2 күн бұрын
I want to tell you something , be grateful for this information , many people don’t make , 10 years ago and plus , no internet , many good people lost their lives because they couldn’t find out , thanks and take care .
@TrevorHamberger2 күн бұрын
All I know is I won the great battle with the narcissist in my life. The narcissist I needed to defeat the most was my own father and I won that fight because I didn't join the wrestling team like he wanted me to. According to him wrestling was everything that matters and I quit. Oh and he was coaching for 25 years so that was a big part of it. I got the narcissistic discard from him and I ultimately won because of it. The best thing you could ever do is get the narcissistic discard
@johnjennings96932 күн бұрын
Exactly,been there and done that, really wakes you up,
@Brent-z2s2 күн бұрын
They also have other people monitor you. I had a girlfriend i broke up with and she knew i left a bar 🍺 with a woman and described her to me even though she wasn't there.
@dtharlem58013 күн бұрын
This describes the mf that financially abuses me and manipulate and exploits me that shit should be illegal begging for money from someone that they block when they don’t get what they want smh
@ANYTHINGISPOSSIBLEBELIEVE2 күн бұрын
Love your 🍷 cabinetry with led lights, super cool. On another note, i hope you find peace and joy this year. I constantly read positive self help books and continue to be a positive person. Negative thoughts and words can deteriorate you little by little. Stay positive love ❤ sorry had to mentioned this. Those women were crappy but we're not all are like that. When people show you who they are, immediately accept it. Do not get mad, it's who they are. Alot of people do not work on themselves and end up hurting others.
@billthebutcher68732 күн бұрын
Why are you here? This is content for men, not for women to come in and start trying to manipulate. Go away.
@derekazyan99423 күн бұрын
I’m going through this right now…. I’m a strong person, but this is a huge test…
@Allen-x5i2 күн бұрын
I used to think this whole monitoring stuff with hocus pocus. But dealing with my ex wife knowing stuff i never told her was absolutely crazy. It is demonic to constantly keep tabs on people you are clearly not with. She totally ruined my new relationship after her by reaching out and smearing. To this day i don't know how she got her number because my ex never had access to my phone
@NotoriousRichie2 күн бұрын
Exact same thing happened to me. And I swear on my life I was thinking yesterday, yeah it sucks how it ended, but my god it taught me so much about women. I have to meet this man. If me and Terry ever had a talk it would be like when Trump met Rogan.
@arturom6282 күн бұрын
Very good summary for those who understand what real narcissism is. And be even more careful with integrated psychopaths. They EAT narcissists for breakfast, ironically.
@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988Күн бұрын
Good stuff. Thank you.
@LaBelleJouJouКүн бұрын
Narcissists can be very busy people. Many are in prominent positions in society Many will do everything in their power to be successful and brag about that success Use people to reach the top and then look down on the very ones who helped them get there and stay there Narcissists do not solely crave praise They crave attention and don’t care if that attention is negative so long as they are the director of the energy frequency they want positive or negative works For example they can blow up on their loved one in public and embarrass that person for attention or they can brag loudly about their achievements so everyone can hear This is especially done when they feel their accomplishments exceed everyone present Narcissists aren’t all low level leeches They in the political arena, educational system, medical system, etc. All walks of life Rich, poor and in between Their game is about control and power because deep down inside they feel powerless beyond words.
@Lobsterboy3003 күн бұрын
TJ, you should go on the Jesse Lee Peterson show and talk about this stuff
@invader.indigo84352 күн бұрын
Jessie will just say it’s all in your head & that it’s just your thoughts. He won’t get it tbh
@gabrielkepiro4743 күн бұрын
The covert is always working hard
@Smartbeautifulawesome2 күн бұрын
I don’t know what these people are doing what a mess
@Bizkitlove2 күн бұрын
the narcs are weak,ignore them,they have no real power,there pathetic mind games make me laugh.be strong n wise ya;ll,peace.
@andrewnolan1812 күн бұрын
Bull crap...ignorance
@Bizkitlove2 күн бұрын
you know nothing,you just think you do,good luck with your agitation,i'm wiser than you.
@JesusnShag3 күн бұрын
Bro u need a new fridge. That frequency bothers me
@David-nu6kw3 күн бұрын
Better than no fridge son
@Rimrock3003 күн бұрын
Bro needs a new hobby and a new focus in life. I suggest model railroad. The world already knows he is perfect marriage material, while all women are bad not seeing it.
@LadiiiTresses3 күн бұрын
I don’t even see the fridge 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ShinobiShaw3 күн бұрын
@@Rimrock300I want him to be my husband and get me PREGNANT, I want to hold his seed in me❤❤❤❤❤
@bobgreenfield91582 күн бұрын
Hear the buzz? @@LadiiiTresses
@mr.cateye13282 күн бұрын
I pray to my god for help against the narcissist of course i combat that circumstance too in my way...
@ashleynoelle74292 күн бұрын
When you start living separately, they tell your family you’ve been living a double life lying to everyone about some hidden secret apartment.
@user-hx3kd1zn7f3 күн бұрын
100% true once again. But this time around, my vulnerable narc went into hiding. She is paranoid of me knowing anything about her or her life even though we have to co-parent. I think it’s because of my newfound quiet confidence and ability to see straight through her. It seems like as I appear stronger, she is more defensive and seemingly emotionally destroyed. She did it to herself.
@user-hx3kd1zn7f2 күн бұрын
I don’t think she is even trying to monitor me this time either. Complete retreat after she humiliated herself in court.
@jimscott-w1v2 күн бұрын
Believe me, they did to themselves they didn’t help but they’ll blame you for it. I can’t believe how much you hurt me. Got me arrested. Monkey branched took my son moved on. Fix my fault. She’s a victim. Not even spoke to her cause they’re restraining order is not off yet worried about my little boy being brainwashed don’t get to see him enoughand she just talks some crazy **** acting like her new guy is amazing and he’s messaged me to tell me how much he loves her together with her for 10 years and things have happened like what kind of sick person is this?
@buggy25252 күн бұрын
The whole country (I'm talking people in high positions, enemies, old friends, family etc team up against me) has tried to get into my head but they never succeeded. Well, you might think to yourself why do all those people want you down in the dirt so bad? Its because I am who I am supposed to be 100% and they can sense that and it makes them feel less because they have things holding them back...
@mathewvanostin71183 күн бұрын
Nice neck muscles bro 💪🗿
@DeeEm142 күн бұрын
Let him cook!
@westlifesstar2 күн бұрын
Great video More videos on narcissist's.please make more videos on gang stalking .gang stalkers help keep outing theses people Help out it Terry Gang stalking needs to be banned
@treefiddy46632 күн бұрын
Bro im 44 she is 27..
@marissarissa54952 күн бұрын
They monitor you even if you still around them
@shawnsloan22652 күн бұрын
The moment I just realized I was the "New Supply". 😪😪
@ChosenbyGod2472 күн бұрын
Don't give narc any information.
@athenajoy14553 күн бұрын
Yeah I know many are watching my fb all it takes is for some coworker to have your phone number and they watch and watch and I send them on a rabbit ride then I realize I’m playing they game so just block and stop go ghost
@Brenda-t5r2 күн бұрын
So, did you make the "Smoking Bishop" Christmas drink from the recipe that I offered in the Com- ment section of one of your previous videos? You deleted it, but you could have written it down before deleting it. By the way, I have a recipe for making the "Blooming Onion" served at Out- back Steakhouse....if you want it.
@DuBmonkey43 күн бұрын
Bro what’s that noise in the background? Great vid also
@johnpichla95573 күн бұрын
Probably some type of utility running in the background?
@quinnolinno1362 күн бұрын
are ur txt consultants free?
@NadiaYau-n1x2 күн бұрын
Someone else is aware always looking over me to niche whatever I’m going to do about to do or tryna profit from my life with no mutual exchange?
@Smartbeautifulawesome2 күн бұрын
Why was Bentley a chihuahua in the cruella movie makes Ray/horrace look even worse now with Arianna Aguilar. I don’t get any of these people.
@ArtMonkey51502 күн бұрын
How do women react to your KZbin videos. Does it affect your dating life?
@TheGloryofGod-Au3 күн бұрын
Old Western God has a round halo. Old Eastern God has a Straight-Up Halo. New God over all humans has a spiral Halo.
@quet76503 күн бұрын
❤
@hnavkumar22683 күн бұрын
Just focus on a real thing for a day, u will notice all the fakers getting blurred from vision.. do u agree.. now the question is where the real thing at? Energy flows where attention goes
@billthebutcher68732 күн бұрын
My guy, there is a stupid amount of feedback coming from your PC. Its a loud constant noise. Your PC is loud as shit.
@kennethsellar54852 күн бұрын
Covert spiritual narcissists pitching up again Pharisees holier than thou swallowing inn scriptures and bibles pouncing and energising themselves through empaths
@guitawrizt2 күн бұрын
Hoss- you be slurping those smoothies agin. It's rude & annoying.
@nolaparker95742 күн бұрын
yah I am not into the slurping.
@r.h.54202 күн бұрын
Great video! Please stop slurping your drink 😫. Talk about annoying