The Covert Narcissist is monitoring your spirit (psychological head games)

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terryjoeljunior

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Күн бұрын

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@cannacannoli
@cannacannoli 2 күн бұрын
Once you’ve actually experienced these exact sentiments, these videos will really resonate with you
@B-ch8wl
@B-ch8wl 2 күн бұрын
This kid Joel is way ahead of his times
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 2 күн бұрын
Went through the same exact thing. She idolized me and was telling me things like I was the best thing to ever happen to her, healthiest guy she's ever met, never had someone treat her so well and make her laugh so much. Then the disrespect came and she made sly comments about me, criticized everything I did, and flirted with another guy at the gym right in front of me. The moment I checked her for disrespect she ghosted me and blocked me everywhere. She also hopped on dating apps the same week she ghosted. Female narcissists are some of the most cruel and evil human beings walking the planet.
@chez0788
@chez0788 2 күн бұрын
Happened to me over the summer. Started dating a gal back in June and she thought I was the best thing since sliced bread. Told me all kinds of shit, rushed to meet my family and vice versa. Said I was so special she never introduces anyone to her family. She'd look at me with the most googly eyes and called me handsome 24/7. Then a few months later the disrespect came, sly sarcastic comments, and when I call her out on it, she has the nerve to tell me she feels like she walks on eggshells with me. Tried turning it all around on me. First week of December she broke it off with me after a few weeks of distancing. I already knew it was happening, and I didn't do much to stop it. Glad I didn't and when she dumped me, I just walked off. Haven't talked to her since and don't even want to. Fuck all that shit. I feel less stress, fuck it.
@jimscott-w1v
@jimscott-w1v 2 күн бұрын
happened to me this summer sick twisted get you arrested take everything that I can restraining orders play the victim you name it they do it move onto somebody else straight away bump into her new supply which I know but also took my son for him to message me telling me I love her you may think it’s fast. I will look after her and your son what the **** is wrong with these people they were burning hell
@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988
@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988 Күн бұрын
You got off cheap, bro. Be thankful for that part.
@RyanBelden
@RyanBelden 11 сағат бұрын
@@chez0788 you did the right thing dude I wish I new
@chez0788
@chez0788 11 сағат бұрын
@@RyanBelden I can't lie that it didn't hurt or upset me. I had to walk away before making myself look weak. It's just a fucked up thing to do people. It almost seemed intentional. Hang in there with whatever you're going through bud. You'll be alright 🙏
@joeyfigueroa4748
@joeyfigueroa4748 3 күн бұрын
So I’ve learned. Just got out of a relationship with a covert narcissist in October. The relationship was a year and nine months. But everything described in this video, from the three stages, to the more detailed information, were all accurate. I didn’t realize it at the time but, I’m glad I shut down my social media accounts and deleted them after I left. Best choice I could’ve made.
@marktaylor4906
@marktaylor4906 2 күн бұрын
Love the channel even the refrigerator noise in the background hahaha
@Néerlandais-p1q
@Néerlandais-p1q 2 күн бұрын
AC, noise
@JackNance22
@JackNance22 2 күн бұрын
If you don't get a positive and authentic vibe off someone, stay away. The majority of people in this toxic world are toxic.
@Lezgooo-b9u
@Lezgooo-b9u 2 күн бұрын
@@JackNance22 Feels so too.
@soloharmonix
@soloharmonix Күн бұрын
Yes, it's true, there are very few genuine people left. Most people will just lower your self-esteem and acting like your presence means nothing.
@MarianMurphy-rz8ej
@MarianMurphy-rz8ej Күн бұрын
I wish it was over. I wish Jesus would come back and end my suffering. I don’t want to be in such a world as this.
@lyrastar999
@lyrastar999 2 күн бұрын
try swimming, it clears your energy and renews the spirit!
@Rahul_Lata_
@Rahul_Lata_ 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advice, I was thinking about trying swimming for the past couple days
@Lezgooo-b9u
@Lezgooo-b9u 2 күн бұрын
Thank you Lyra❤
@Osean_Man
@Osean_Man 2 күн бұрын
I asked them why they ghosted me and they said “I am not” Like WTF you’re not even human anymore
@sammy3712
@sammy3712 3 күн бұрын
I totally agree, at first when I didn’t understand what was going on I was like wtf is going on? Once I did my research and really looked into it I understood what these Narcs are trying to do and I said to myself, not a chance in hell!! They’re gonna watch me live my best life!
@AmmarB-s1b
@AmmarB-s1b 3 күн бұрын
Brother watching your videos helped me get threw the toughest times thank you Joel 💯❤️
@bobgreenfield9158
@bobgreenfield9158 2 күн бұрын
through Not threw
@AmmarB-s1b
@AmmarB-s1b 2 күн бұрын
@@bobgreenfield9158 thanks
@AmmarB-s1b
@AmmarB-s1b 2 күн бұрын
@@bobgreenfield9158thanks
@BrianKarmo
@BrianKarmo 3 күн бұрын
That's crazy she was 16, that young and so manipulative to be that cunning...
@BrianKarmo
@BrianKarmo 3 күн бұрын
Then again you said y'all was together till she was 19
@Brent-z2s
@Brent-z2s 2 күн бұрын
They give each tips and tactics to use against you.
@soloharmonix
@soloharmonix Күн бұрын
Females start learning these games from a very young age because they get to practice a lot with so many men. I study psychology and even I get shocked just how many tactics they used without even thinking.
@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7 3 күн бұрын
The right person loves you for real & don't play any of these dumb foolish games. They want you & you only, they don't go out and look for others, they are Happy with what they have. Real Love is not perfect, and there is nothing shallow about real love. You two never give up on eachother no matter what. There is no abuse at all in a good relationship, you both are on the same wave length. Someone who really loves you keeps it straight with you & would never ever think about hurting you. They are loyal behind your back. They want the best for you, they encourage you, support you, won't play head games. They love you enough to be vulnerable they don't hold back, there is no confusion because you both know it's real and want it. There is nothing fake about it. You can be you and they can be them. You know deep in your heart you can trust them and they trust you. The Relationship just feels right in your gut and heart. Theres no doubts. You both feel light, free & happy.❤ It literally feels like they were custom made for you, they were born for you, and you were born for them.
@AwakenedEmptiness
@AwakenedEmptiness 2 күн бұрын
As nice as this sounds it sounds like a Disney Fairytale and not real life. When something sounds too good to be true it's because it usually is sadly.
@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7 2 күн бұрын
It's not I've had it before lol
@jimscott-w1v
@jimscott-w1v 2 күн бұрын
This is exactly how I feel if we were together for 10 years didn’t see the red flags didn’t know about narcissism to get me arrested and stuff. Take my son and monkey brunch to somebody else in two weeks moving with him three months and forget about me completely after 10 years it’s horrible.
@phillipsmith7759
@phillipsmith7759 2 күн бұрын
Amazingly true. It's time to take things for what it is..games. Games ape😢 fun..play to win.
@MichaelAura777
@MichaelAura777 3 күн бұрын
So glad i found your videos bro smfh i needed this tonight
@Ben-y3n
@Ben-y3n 2 күн бұрын
The best thing a narcissist can give you is an illusion
@TheXsandman
@TheXsandman 2 күн бұрын
Idk about yall but i like the backround sound lol
@terenceboris851
@terenceboris851 2 күн бұрын
bro you’re on here spilling the beans every day. doesn’t that make you vulnerable and accessible to enemies?
@kumarayush4967
@kumarayush4967 2 күн бұрын
They want to keep you, but just as a slave...
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq 2 күн бұрын
As a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, I think where this video was trying to go is the subject of stalking. Where after the end of the relationship they will try to stalk you because they are looking for ways to destroy you unfortunately. This is an important video though and something people need to be made aware of, we need more people out there spreading this message to everybody.
@tnt01
@tnt01 Күн бұрын
do you ever feel remorse for the women you hurt? Or, do you justify it and move on and think they will be ok?
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq
@NarcissistHex-nf9eq Күн бұрын
@@tnt01 to be honest it was something I never thought about much, say two and a half years ago when I was unaware of what I was doing, I just assumed everyone moved on past the hurt in a matter of an hour or two or whatever. The reason why is because we have a funny way of doing that as well, we could traumatize our partners and in a couple days just move on like nothing ever happened.
@NothingCompares2U
@NothingCompares2U 3 күн бұрын
There is so much that goes without even saying dealing with the narc so long, it is just like take a look around and there is no one left alive in my world, we both have the feeling the narcs are all going to hell in a handbasket, just such of a thorough ruination of other people who are just helpful's lives. It is nothing but sad, still vying for forgiveness but things are getting stark. Everything they come up with is the same and just will fail.
@carlaboutte8164
@carlaboutte8164 Күн бұрын
Spirit or flesh,cause we all witnessed that go wrong,never been their Ex,they trying that! 😤
@belavera994
@belavera994 3 күн бұрын
the guy I dealt with was a covert narcissist, I couldn't block him right away, because I still had feelings for him despite all the mind games he played with me, when he finally discarded me, he did this by ghosting me and changing his profile picture into one that showed him kissing another woman, then into a similar one that showed him holding their baby. I found her IG profile, she was suicidal, because there were pictures on there from pretty deep cuts on her arms. it's actually terrifying knowing how much damage these narcissists can do and how good some of them are at being charming, the guy I'm talking about, we met at work and he was pretty popular there.
@BrianKarmo
@BrianKarmo 2 күн бұрын
Yes but are you implying that she was suicidal because of him and his abuse or I'm not getting that part maybe she was just crazy you know narcissists sometimes they get with other sociopaths or other narcissist as well
@belavera994
@belavera994 2 күн бұрын
​@@BrianKarmo I'm just saying that she was suicidal, that's just a fact and judging by the way he treated me he likely wasn't the best influence on someone with suicidal thoughts, if she was like that before already, I can't tell, I just saw these pictures and other ones in which she talked about him being absent when she gave birth and ignoring her for months, so I doubt he treated her any better than me.
@adventuresofkatekat
@adventuresofkatekat 2 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you, that man sounds evil ♥️ I wish you happiness and healing and may you find a good partner ♥️ it’s so sad how narcissists push people to become suicidal. Many of my ex’s exes had to be put on antidepressants which says a lot. I’m so glad people are waking up to this toxic traumatizing behaviour, because no one deserves it 🙏🏼 Have a wonderful weekend
@belavera994
@belavera994 2 күн бұрын
​@@adventuresofkatekat thank you❣️ and I wish all the same for you as well🤍🙏🏻
@Normie-c7s
@Normie-c7s 2 күн бұрын
My ex used to counter me in ways that were diabolical. I finally came to understand what was happening. She was definitely monitoring me. This video is on point.
@LadiiiTresses
@LadiiiTresses 3 күн бұрын
That’s wild … I dreamed about a Hoover after he discarded me
@brianbachmeier34
@brianbachmeier34 3 күн бұрын
Masculine brotherhood we meet again.
@nathanarthur6335
@nathanarthur6335 3 күн бұрын
My Man
@markcameroon6613
@markcameroon6613 3 күн бұрын
very true i felt bad for her thinking oh the bipolar on the anxiety depression once i started finding channels like this i go ya fuk it and them they big narcs not worth a minute
@ricardogalban9638RG
@ricardogalban9638RG 2 күн бұрын
I want to tell you something , be grateful for this information , many people don’t make , 10 years ago and plus , no internet , many good people lost their lives because they couldn’t find out , thanks and take care .
@TrevorHamberger
@TrevorHamberger 2 күн бұрын
All I know is I won the great battle with the narcissist in my life. The narcissist I needed to defeat the most was my own father and I won that fight because I didn't join the wrestling team like he wanted me to. According to him wrestling was everything that matters and I quit. Oh and he was coaching for 25 years so that was a big part of it. I got the narcissistic discard from him and I ultimately won because of it. The best thing you could ever do is get the narcissistic discard
@johnjennings9693
@johnjennings9693 2 күн бұрын
Exactly,been there and done that, really wakes you up,
@Brent-z2s
@Brent-z2s 2 күн бұрын
They also have other people monitor you. I had a girlfriend i broke up with and she knew i left a bar 🍺 with a woman and described her to me even though she wasn't there.
@dtharlem5801
@dtharlem5801 3 күн бұрын
This describes the mf that financially abuses me and manipulate and exploits me that shit should be illegal begging for money from someone that they block when they don’t get what they want smh
@ANYTHINGISPOSSIBLEBELIEVE
@ANYTHINGISPOSSIBLEBELIEVE 2 күн бұрын
Love your 🍷 cabinetry with led lights, super cool. On another note, i hope you find peace and joy this year. I constantly read positive self help books and continue to be a positive person. Negative thoughts and words can deteriorate you little by little. Stay positive love ❤ sorry had to mentioned this. Those women were crappy but we're not all are like that. When people show you who they are, immediately accept it. Do not get mad, it's who they are. Alot of people do not work on themselves and end up hurting others.
@billthebutcher6873
@billthebutcher6873 2 күн бұрын
Why are you here? This is content for men, not for women to come in and start trying to manipulate. Go away.
@derekazyan9942
@derekazyan9942 3 күн бұрын
I’m going through this right now…. I’m a strong person, but this is a huge test…
@Allen-x5i
@Allen-x5i 2 күн бұрын
I used to think this whole monitoring stuff with hocus pocus. But dealing with my ex wife knowing stuff i never told her was absolutely crazy. It is demonic to constantly keep tabs on people you are clearly not with. She totally ruined my new relationship after her by reaching out and smearing. To this day i don't know how she got her number because my ex never had access to my phone
@NotoriousRichie
@NotoriousRichie 2 күн бұрын
Exact same thing happened to me. And I swear on my life I was thinking yesterday, yeah it sucks how it ended, but my god it taught me so much about women. I have to meet this man. If me and Terry ever had a talk it would be like when Trump met Rogan.
@arturom628
@arturom628 2 күн бұрын
Very good summary for those who understand what real narcissism is. And be even more careful with integrated psychopaths. They EAT narcissists for breakfast, ironically.
@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988
@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988 Күн бұрын
Good stuff. Thank you.
@LaBelleJouJou
@LaBelleJouJou Күн бұрын
Narcissists can be very busy people. Many are in prominent positions in society Many will do everything in their power to be successful and brag about that success Use people to reach the top and then look down on the very ones who helped them get there and stay there Narcissists do not solely crave praise They crave attention and don’t care if that attention is negative so long as they are the director of the energy frequency they want positive or negative works For example they can blow up on their loved one in public and embarrass that person for attention or they can brag loudly about their achievements so everyone can hear This is especially done when they feel their accomplishments exceed everyone present Narcissists aren’t all low level leeches They in the political arena, educational system, medical system, etc. All walks of life Rich, poor and in between Their game is about control and power because deep down inside they feel powerless beyond words.
@Lobsterboy300
@Lobsterboy300 3 күн бұрын
TJ, you should go on the Jesse Lee Peterson show and talk about this stuff
@invader.indigo8435
@invader.indigo8435 2 күн бұрын
Jessie will just say it’s all in your head & that it’s just your thoughts. He won’t get it tbh
@gabrielkepiro474
@gabrielkepiro474 3 күн бұрын
The covert is always working hard
@Smartbeautifulawesome
@Smartbeautifulawesome 2 күн бұрын
I don’t know what these people are doing what a mess
@Bizkitlove
@Bizkitlove 2 күн бұрын
the narcs are weak,ignore them,they have no real power,there pathetic mind games make me laugh.be strong n wise ya;ll,peace.
@andrewnolan181
@andrewnolan181 2 күн бұрын
Bull crap...ignorance
@Bizkitlove
@Bizkitlove 2 күн бұрын
you know nothing,you just think you do,good luck with your agitation,i'm wiser than you.
@JesusnShag
@JesusnShag 3 күн бұрын
Bro u need a new fridge. That frequency bothers me
@David-nu6kw
@David-nu6kw 3 күн бұрын
Better than no fridge son
@Rimrock300
@Rimrock300 3 күн бұрын
Bro needs a new hobby and a new focus in life. I suggest model railroad. The world already knows he is perfect marriage material, while all women are bad not seeing it.
@LadiiiTresses
@LadiiiTresses 3 күн бұрын
I don’t even see the fridge 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ShinobiShaw
@ShinobiShaw 3 күн бұрын
@@Rimrock300I want him to be my husband and get me PREGNANT, I want to hold his seed in me❤❤❤❤❤
@bobgreenfield9158
@bobgreenfield9158 2 күн бұрын
Hear the buzz? ​@@LadiiiTresses
@mr.cateye1328
@mr.cateye1328 2 күн бұрын
I pray to my god for help against the narcissist of course i combat that circumstance too in my way...
@ashleynoelle7429
@ashleynoelle7429 2 күн бұрын
When you start living separately, they tell your family you’ve been living a double life lying to everyone about some hidden secret apartment.
@user-hx3kd1zn7f
@user-hx3kd1zn7f 3 күн бұрын
100% true once again. But this time around, my vulnerable narc went into hiding. She is paranoid of me knowing anything about her or her life even though we have to co-parent. I think it’s because of my newfound quiet confidence and ability to see straight through her. It seems like as I appear stronger, she is more defensive and seemingly emotionally destroyed. She did it to herself.
@user-hx3kd1zn7f
@user-hx3kd1zn7f 2 күн бұрын
I don’t think she is even trying to monitor me this time either. Complete retreat after she humiliated herself in court.
@jimscott-w1v
@jimscott-w1v 2 күн бұрын
Believe me, they did to themselves they didn’t help but they’ll blame you for it. I can’t believe how much you hurt me. Got me arrested. Monkey branched took my son moved on. Fix my fault. She’s a victim. Not even spoke to her cause they’re restraining order is not off yet worried about my little boy being brainwashed don’t get to see him enoughand she just talks some crazy **** acting like her new guy is amazing and he’s messaged me to tell me how much he loves her together with her for 10 years and things have happened like what kind of sick person is this?
@buggy2525
@buggy2525 2 күн бұрын
The whole country (I'm talking people in high positions, enemies, old friends, family etc team up against me) has tried to get into my head but they never succeeded. Well, you might think to yourself why do all those people want you down in the dirt so bad? Its because I am who I am supposed to be 100% and they can sense that and it makes them feel less because they have things holding them back...
@mathewvanostin7118
@mathewvanostin7118 3 күн бұрын
Nice neck muscles bro 💪🗿
@DeeEm14
@DeeEm14 2 күн бұрын
Let him cook!
@westlifesstar
@westlifesstar 2 күн бұрын
Great video More videos on narcissist's.please make more videos on gang stalking .gang stalkers help keep outing theses people Help out it Terry Gang stalking needs to be banned
@treefiddy4663
@treefiddy4663 2 күн бұрын
Bro im 44 she is 27..
@marissarissa5495
@marissarissa5495 2 күн бұрын
They monitor you even if you still around them
@shawnsloan2265
@shawnsloan2265 2 күн бұрын
The moment I just realized I was the "New Supply". 😪😪
@ChosenbyGod247
@ChosenbyGod247 2 күн бұрын
Don't give narc any information.
@athenajoy1455
@athenajoy1455 3 күн бұрын
Yeah I know many are watching my fb all it takes is for some coworker to have your phone number and they watch and watch and I send them on a rabbit ride then I realize I’m playing they game so just block and stop go ghost
@Brenda-t5r
@Brenda-t5r 2 күн бұрын
So, did you make the "Smoking Bishop" Christmas drink from the recipe that I offered in the Com- ment section of one of your previous videos? You deleted it, but you could have written it down before deleting it. By the way, I have a recipe for making the "Blooming Onion" served at Out- back Steakhouse....if you want it.
@DuBmonkey4
@DuBmonkey4 3 күн бұрын
Bro what’s that noise in the background? Great vid also
@johnpichla9557
@johnpichla9557 3 күн бұрын
Probably some type of utility running in the background?
@quinnolinno136
@quinnolinno136 2 күн бұрын
are ur txt consultants free?
@NadiaYau-n1x
@NadiaYau-n1x 2 күн бұрын
Someone else is aware always looking over me to niche whatever I’m going to do about to do or tryna profit from my life with no mutual exchange?
@Smartbeautifulawesome
@Smartbeautifulawesome 2 күн бұрын
Why was Bentley a chihuahua in the cruella movie makes Ray/horrace look even worse now with Arianna Aguilar. I don’t get any of these people.
@ArtMonkey5150
@ArtMonkey5150 2 күн бұрын
How do women react to your KZbin videos. Does it affect your dating life?
@TheGloryofGod-Au
@TheGloryofGod-Au 3 күн бұрын
Old Western God has a round halo. Old Eastern God has a Straight-Up Halo. New God over all humans has a spiral Halo.
@quet7650
@quet7650 3 күн бұрын
@hnavkumar2268
@hnavkumar2268 3 күн бұрын
Just focus on a real thing for a day, u will notice all the fakers getting blurred from vision.. do u agree.. now the question is where the real thing at? Energy flows where attention goes
@billthebutcher6873
@billthebutcher6873 2 күн бұрын
My guy, there is a stupid amount of feedback coming from your PC. Its a loud constant noise. Your PC is loud as shit.
@kennethsellar5485
@kennethsellar5485 2 күн бұрын
Covert spiritual narcissists pitching up again Pharisees holier than thou swallowing inn scriptures and bibles pouncing and energising themselves through empaths
@guitawrizt
@guitawrizt 2 күн бұрын
Hoss- you be slurping those smoothies agin. It's rude & annoying.
@nolaparker9574
@nolaparker9574 2 күн бұрын
yah I am not into the slurping.
@r.h.5420
@r.h.5420 2 күн бұрын
Great video! Please stop slurping your drink 😫. Talk about annoying
@ScrewySnare
@ScrewySnare 2 күн бұрын
Bro…. SPOT.ON
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