Basically a psychopath? Men were psychos back then.
@Numb3rOn3_ Жыл бұрын
@Coldfront : Clown.
@kenviegas5903 Жыл бұрын
1000%
@voltear Жыл бұрын
Yaaa
@LeCarla Жыл бұрын
Never hit ANYONE on their weakness. Not a woman, not a man, not a child….
@magmminaj6320 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! This shit got nothing to do with gender!!! And do onto others as you would have them do onto you👍👍👍
@Indigobaby1111 Жыл бұрын
Ikr men do this to is ALL the time but women cent fight back cuz then they won't love us? Sorry but where was the love in the first place??????
@cottoncandy710 Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Danish-ww2jl Жыл бұрын
no it's different with women
@Shaolin91z Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lord for your salvation. Thanks Lord for your peace Thanks Lord single no kids
@bluefury10510 ай бұрын
"They NEVER. FORGET IT." Probably the most real quote ever
@friendlytank5 ай бұрын
she's right. It happened to me and it's a fact. I think about it everyday
@vinito194 ай бұрын
@@friendlytank It's time to heal, bro. It's ok to forgive, as far as you don't forget.
@friendlytank4 ай бұрын
@zabuzalescelerat7254 @vinito19 yeah you're both right I have been healing. I understand the struggles of the female condition in face of the male condition.. buuutt they could be a little friendlier....
@Efe096953 ай бұрын
@@vinito19I agree that time heals, but if something like this happens what you will never forget, i think of it like a scar. Time makes it less painful, but the scar will stay. (Idk how true it is what i say tho, i dont have direct experience and i am still quite young.)
@vinito193 ай бұрын
@@Efe09695 I said forgive and DON'T forget. Forgive, so you can move on, and don't forget, so you don't repeat the same mistake. Stay strong, life is but what you make of it.
@darrellbetts837 Жыл бұрын
My wife said the same thing, bae I know what your weaknesses are. I said you do and she had a whole list. I said why you never told me that you knew that. She said because you tell me In so many was all the time. And then she said, your my partner, my homie, lover, and friend. Why would I hurt you!!!! I hurried up and throw a ring on that beautiful finger. 7 years together 2 years married and many more to come.
@aramisy.cajigas7444 ай бұрын
My fiancé asked me to tell her my story about my ex wife and my daughter, my dreams of raising children under my moral values, my highs and my lows. She behaved amazed at how much I suffered and how amazing I was as a father by all the things I had to endure to travel to see my daughter and visit her. She was good to me, so good to me, man, really good to me, man. Seven months and a half later, I put a ring on her finger and gave her marriage, commitment, a relationship, and we loved each other deeply. She was my wife and I was her man. A year and a half later, she got tired of me being poor and having to support me financially, and of my constant complaints about her bad behavior, about not having any time for us without any interruptions, and about prioritizing her dogs over her marriage. She threw on my face all my past mistakes about my ex wife, daughter, family and other people that I grew close to, made fun of my past, mocked my manhood, and pierced my heart with her rejection and twisting of reality. She was the one who told me "I don't wanna hurt you. I don't wanna make you feel bad. You're the love of my life, my best friend, my husband". I do wish you the best in your marriage. Love does exist, and there are good women out there who really value the heart of a man. Jah bless!
@ruben121804 ай бұрын
Bro reading that gave me so much happines. Tell your lady she a real one
@04foreverinvincible694 ай бұрын
@@ruben12180fa real
@spacenightmares77674 ай бұрын
I'm glad you put a ring on your partner, brother! If she was like that as your girlfriend, I bet she is even better as your wife. Congratulations, brother! Guard and protect this treasure very well! I hope you're both doing well!
@GABRIELADAWSON3 ай бұрын
CAP lol.
@outsideview9052 Жыл бұрын
If a man trusts you with his weakness and you later use that against him, that kind of betrayal can never be overcome. He will never forget that.
@LostEquation21 Жыл бұрын
Not only that. He'll never open up to you again. He'll shut u out no matter how much he loves you. I lived it.
@dylan112588 Жыл бұрын
This. 💯
@AnimalLover-xe2cd Жыл бұрын
True of woman also
@thefiretrainer1921 Жыл бұрын
My ex did that.. i have found a person i can be vulnerable there are great women out there keep the hope up
@jaheimre9730 Жыл бұрын
Uhhh yeah. That's exactly what she said.
@Nakamurayoru Жыл бұрын
This is called respecting your partner.
@dimv2140 Жыл бұрын
Nah it’s good advise and it works 100% of the time I’ve used it on my make friends my boyfriend and family but no it’s not respect it’s manipulative.
@EllieMoonHaven Жыл бұрын
@@dimv2140 so stabing your partner in the back and using thier weakness against them isn't manipulative. But respecting someone's boundaries and not attacking them when they reveal themselves to you is?
@dimv2140 Жыл бұрын
@@EllieMoonHaven both are manipulative in my book
@EllieMoonHaven Жыл бұрын
@@dimv2140 your delusional if you think that way. I'm sorry life has been this way for you and hope you get help and find true happiness where you don't seek out evil in others kind actions.
@amala4963 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, mutual respect 🙏.
@moefun1910 ай бұрын
I'm a 45 years old I'm on my knees trying to tell you and your mother thank you.❤
@kennethmoragne58703 ай бұрын
Her mom was a VERY wise woman. I approve this message...she ain't never lied! 💯%
@MonochromaticBlues17 күн бұрын
Not really
@World365995 күн бұрын
It's common sense ffs
@queenjesse1000 Жыл бұрын
If a person hits you where you are weak, they are trying to break you, break your confidence and take your power.
@leahv.2537 Жыл бұрын
Nobody can do that without our permission. People willingly give away their power because they don't know any better. But folks better learn fast to become strong, stay strong, build one's self up and direct one's own life and not outsource that to a partner. EVER. I learned that the hard way in my 20s and needed to take a long time to heal from a relationship that almost destroyed me. I wish I learned this from an early age.
@pankajsaraf82 Жыл бұрын
Usually, dominating people have such a mentality to mentally hit you hard...
@armandobonkes88018 ай бұрын
@@leahv.2537Jesús Christ is our strength and He is the only one to lean upon
@user-pp4vy5ll7c8 ай бұрын
Yes this is very true in my own opinion much like a pimp does to a prostitute sad to say I was raised that you don't put somebody down or treat them like crap to make your own self confidence, feel, public persona & or Big Guy rep or whatever on the streets I believe each and every man and woman in a relationship deserves equal amount of respect like if you don't want to be with a person tell them that in the nicest way possible but don't play with somebody's head just because you can while shredding their heart soul and feelings to a pile of Brokenness for somebody else to deal with it's not right....,....🤷♂️
@2b2487 ай бұрын
FAX
@mariaglass2968 Жыл бұрын
It's called compassion and respect. No mariage can survive without it
@silvestre7 Жыл бұрын
Stop with the compassion bullcrap lol
@RowanWarren78 Жыл бұрын
Yes, agreed. My husband is my best friend. Otherwise, our marriage wouldn't thrive.
@venktesh6600 Жыл бұрын
what does it mean that "You can get him to do what you need him to do." ? ?
@staciegarcia7021 Жыл бұрын
That's a very crucial thing to understand
@ibnebatuta4868 Жыл бұрын
Women too have an alpha'e ego many times and many many women have it İt's in their nature At the core humans are same, man or women
@maduro1697 ай бұрын
My ex wife and got into an argument that started over me not wanting to go to church with her . She got so mad she yelled that our son was not my baby . She later calmed down an said she just wanted to hurt me and that she didn't mean it .I never forgot that .
@Greenyt12345 күн бұрын
Did you get the kid tested?
@beastmode4617Күн бұрын
@@Greenyt1234 That would be a no. I bet the abuse got worse.
@user-fp8cm9ro7o2 ай бұрын
My ex of 4 years said the most dark things to me that made me feel so broken as a man that I could never love again. To this day at 28 all I ever wanted was a family and kids and she mentally took that from me. I could never open my heart again after the evil things she said and she knows I have nobody or nothing. I was a door mat to someone I gave my all too and I stayed in that toxic relationship because I always felt like nobody else will love me.
@overit16Ай бұрын
You are giving your ex to much power over your life and happiness. You need to seek counseling. To give up on love because of one evil person is too much. You can't continue to blame someone for your happiness because they won. You have to love yourself 28 is still young. Don't give up. ❤
@trems8815Ай бұрын
He bro, many have been there. 28 is way to young, way to young to allow someone so cruel to determine your future. Believe me. One day you will thank her and she will envy you. Two songs that helped me. One was Boys 2 Men “I’m doing just fine” .The other was a song by The Natural Four “Try Love Again” kzbin.info/www/bejne/l52bh5yifdZ0m7csi=EFMcZnH8Ftrrw3QY both painful but inspiring. All the best
@funscapeuganda8433Ай бұрын
Heyy bro we as men we understand what you are trying to say here but look. You are giving that person too much power over your life man. You need to let them go and make peace, the world has just to much good to offer you as well, pick your lessons and move on with your life man. Otherwise I pray you get out of that place brother. 💪
@Globalhavenism21 күн бұрын
Yeah man! I'm two years deep after 20 year relationship, 3 kids! I was working away in Germany for 2 weeks. She was with someone I grew up with - on my daughters 17th birthday and I found out by calling my daughters wish them a happy birthday, I returned to no home, no life, didn't see my kids for 1.5 years cuz she knew that was the only way she could hurt me, it devastated me, lost everything, gave them my all in life! She still taking £400 a month off me thru CSA and I have my son all weekend, every weekend and as many extra days as I can get, don't even have a bed for him but she doesn't care earns a good wage like me, she took me to court and got an injunction to prevent me going on the street, school, any where she resides, it was completely fabricated lies and I never got to say a word, absolutely disgusting! The man has no support and the woman has everything in her favour to be as unfaithful as they want because they have no responsibilities as WE have to still uphold the woman, REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION.
@genesis129godprovides46 күн бұрын
God only created one “Her”. Now go get your Mrs ❤
@sharonshookup Жыл бұрын
It's also very important to not make someone "lose face" in public. Some things need to be dealt with privately.
@awho33 Жыл бұрын
VERY TRUE
@iliaselbourji1865 Жыл бұрын
Pride for men is increased by testosterone... women don't feel the same but sometimes empathy of a woman arrive... Women dont want a broken man cz they dont know how to treat a broken men... A woman who know can raise a god...
@NMSUNSETGOURMET Жыл бұрын
@@iliaselbourji1865 A Woman who knows can raise a GOD. Mary, measuring. Me as u ring in G. Kneel to trace picture children. G is an incomplete whole with one square angle drawn in Earth. O is a Whole measure. D is a split whole with two square angles drawn in Earth. Sacrificed, Holy measured. Me as u red. G's us, drawn towards a whole measure with one angle draw in. Those who don't see are split from argument, being two angles drawn to measure.
@SerterSerter Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear that earlier.
@hellocolor101llo5 Жыл бұрын
Silence and secrecy only benefit abusers.
@0KRJ0 Жыл бұрын
You have a true super power if you understand this woman
@YoungMoneyfast7Boss Жыл бұрын
Truly
@vivianbraxton4941 Жыл бұрын
For real. This point right here is going to far if you ask me. He should t cause you to hit him where it hurts.
@Gazzza416 Жыл бұрын
But if you are able to not hit home where he is weak he will grow to love you with all his heary
@j1thegod Жыл бұрын
@@vivianbraxton4941 nah. Many of y’all come from this complex of being physically weaker and insecure to where it makes you overcompensate in arguments. Idk if it’s power lust sometimes because you don’t truly know what it means to wield physically threatening power over others, which means you don’t know how to regulate power. I know a lot of men will relate
@j1thegod Жыл бұрын
Coz I’ll add this, in most cases a man consciously withholds low blows in an argument in preventing the argument escalating unnecessarily. Y’all just be saying anything to feel right even if it means stooping.
@therealkflo..2 ай бұрын
I will never forget the things my narc ex used to say to me No woman will ever catch me that vulnerable again thats for sure
@Z-gg3fc4 ай бұрын
Yea she is right. Goes for everyone . I know when I’m upset at someone I stick to the situation and talk about it , I never take their weakness and use it against them because I want to hurt them. Once this is done there is no turning back. Sadly I had this done to me and it really hurt. Because it came from someone I loved. Think before you speak people please.
@tpwk3321 Жыл бұрын
When your partner tells you their weakness they trust you not to use it against them
@kreativeforce532 Жыл бұрын
Husband
@najjssxd7357 Жыл бұрын
@@kreativeforce532 Wife
@mg_manishgautam Жыл бұрын
But I don’t have a partner 😂
@TheGreedDemon Жыл бұрын
And they destroy them with it. Cause people aren't to be trusted. If I ever date again, as far as they know, I don't have any weaknesses.
@gulamahmed4773 Жыл бұрын
You can tell him but not hit him where he is weak , there is a difference
@tigre9271 Жыл бұрын
This is sooo true. My husband got stopped for a DUI. He had a drink but wasn't drunk. The cops let him call me to pick up his car. And I said I'll be right there. He refused a breathalyzer. The cops explained everything to me and my husband said something that wasn't true that I can't remember. I just remember not contradicting him. They took him to the station and he took the breathalyzer there, and he tested NOT drunk. They let him go but he was still freaked out. He came home and apologized and also thanked me for not getting mad or yelling or scolding him (I never yell at him anyway, but I guess he felt it would be justified in this case). He just appreciated how I was calm and supported him and was there for him. Before the cops put him in the car, I asked the cops if I could hug him, which they let me do.
@FirstLast-pl3uv Жыл бұрын
You're a great person. Everyone needs someone like that.
@tigre9271 Жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-pl3uv Thank you.
@KingPhill87 Жыл бұрын
You asked the police to give you permission to hug him when he expected you to yell at him? Wow. Amazing.
@tigre9271 Жыл бұрын
@Phill Munyaradzi Yes. He was freaked out. He didn't need someone yelling at him (although I never yell at him anyway). But I also didn't want to come across as mad either. I just stayed calm and assured him I love him and it would be OK. And I would see him soon. I believe times of intense stress show who you really are and a test of a relationship. It was a scary incident, but we came out stronger for it.
@voltear Жыл бұрын
Woooow, thats cool
@TherealgordongekkoАй бұрын
As a man, I will say she is 100% right. Will never forget it and we already know when we fucked up. The last thing we need is a reminder
@1SeekTruth10127 күн бұрын
Yes, we are aware. Problem is they aren't aware of their own sh!t.
@applebite9715Күн бұрын
I'm a man and i approve this message. Being a 'real' man is pretty tough on nerves. But men's frustration are " good to go " when just one or two things rn't ignored by society.
@almadixon-cider31 Жыл бұрын
She Doesnt Use Her Love To Make Him Weak, She Uses Love To Keep Him Strong. -Stevie Wonder
@blahblah705011 ай бұрын
Never hit anyone where they're weak period
@cantinandaba4419 Жыл бұрын
Never hit a man where he’s weak And never neglect a woman when she needs you
@dave3987 Жыл бұрын
Men have been told we’re not needed anymore because women are strong and independent. Chivalry is dead
@cantinandaba4419 Жыл бұрын
@@dave3987 chivalry is only dead when you stop doing it.
@putrik6498 Жыл бұрын
@@dave3987 we are strong and independent because we are neglected
@futureteacher7986 Жыл бұрын
@@dave3987Why can't men get this fact straight that women need men who respects them and emotionally support them.......money is not always the factor
@itchfinger Жыл бұрын
Chivalry is died long ago, but good manners are dying too.
@MrDavorinho Жыл бұрын
Out of thousands of available psychologists, couples "expert" videos and "charismatic" reunion folks, something honest and down to earth, good old simple plain respect.
@poojakumari-ci8cx25 күн бұрын
He hit me where I was weak, where I was struggling, I was dealing with my own mental demons, n he said to me that I was good for nothing.
@stephenmurray9923 Жыл бұрын
ALLLLL MY LIFE, I never heard a Real WOMAN speak wisdom that touched my heart like she did. Love the soul! Bless You and Yours
@marskeelove4166 Жыл бұрын
And it's rare to speak up for men
@Jah_AP Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Jah_AP Жыл бұрын
@@marskeelove4166 facts smh
@HoMidontplaythat Жыл бұрын
Girl it was the piano and the suspenseful music
@valentinered3657 Жыл бұрын
@@HoMidontplaythat 😂😂😂😂 Im dead asf and they really added the dark filter 😭
@brandonalex5593 Жыл бұрын
A person should never hit someone in an open wound physically or figuratively
@edmondsaunders7165 Жыл бұрын
This is obvious, but she's talking about how she's kept her marriage intact for all of these decades. If you're married, you should understand how easy it is for most to go there in an argument.
@sampsonlittle7368 Жыл бұрын
That goes both ways.
@autumnskai6383 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely goes both ways... A mutual respect is necessary for any relationship, especially marriage. You don't go there and bring up something the person is insecure or struggling with.
@Wise114 Жыл бұрын
@@sampsonlittle7368 but we talking about man’s right now for this episode, listen to what her mom said for now
@cocochocookiedough Жыл бұрын
A lot of people do that. I was punched and gang raped by all the members pf my family recently and some "friends". Only figuratively of course.
@EthanBurrito15Ай бұрын
And if you complement us it will also live with us forever😢
@CharlesMacro Жыл бұрын
I had a woman I really loved who would say evil things when she got mad. I told her no matter how mad I got I would never say hurtful things to a person I claim I love. I stick to the argument but never personally attack. You can't unsay things.
@tonysmith4091 Жыл бұрын
There in lies the difference between men and women brother. Men will stick to the argument and if we're wrong, we're wrong. Women will take something that has absolutely nothing to do with the argument and that is personal and that occured 3 years ago and will use it as an ad hominem attack on you when they know they have lost the argument just to get you angry and keep you off track logically.
@jamespulliam3672 Жыл бұрын
All facts
@silentecho8315 Жыл бұрын
I concure
@hnn8759 Жыл бұрын
Same brother
@danield1051 Жыл бұрын
So true you can apologize but you can never take back what you say because you already said it
@yomomshouse100 Жыл бұрын
Whenever i was hit at my weakest it always made me realize how little that person actually cares about me.
@eldorshodiyev8335 Жыл бұрын
true words
@xenaburg2362 Жыл бұрын
My friend hit me when I was weak by involving my sick mother into our argument 😢
@sweetmeadowmedia Жыл бұрын
I agree!
@uzibitch1 Жыл бұрын
@@xenaburg2362 they would no longer be a friend, and they'd also have a beatdown on the way
@mahatiggy Жыл бұрын
@@xenaburg2362that's fucked. good luck with your mom.
@GREGHIGGS13 күн бұрын
This is SO TRUE! Because, if you do that; you tell him there is a ruthlessness about you that can ultimately do him harm some day. When a woman crosses that line, ... from that day forward, he will ALWAYS be armored around you. He cannot allow himself to be vulnerable around you ever again! The whole point of a man having a companion is so he can take *OFF* his armor, put *DOWN* his sword and be himself with his most trusted companion. If that woman *EVER* strikes at him when he's vulnerable ... He won't ever make that mistake again. Because she has just shown him *SHE* is an *ADVERSARY* ... *NOT* an *ALLY!* He will ALWAYS be guarded from that point on. He will NEVER be the same man you once knew!
@CuriositySavedTheCat Жыл бұрын
She had a good mother 💯
@osasenagadominion7668 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the words of wisdom, never hit a woman where her weakness is too. If a man breaks easily let alone a woman. I wish we treat one another with love and care.
@livingwithbipolar2 Жыл бұрын
Men intentionally & unintentionally hit women in their weaknesses all the time. Neither are right.
@bippitybopitybooty1127 Жыл бұрын
I really truly believe this comes down to respect, and it's still a huge value of the southeast where I come from. You respect your parents and authority figures. You respect your spouse. You even respect your children.
@jov2172 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@christelwilk6166 Жыл бұрын
@@bippitybopitybooty1127 Agreed, but your children have to respect you first, that is more important.
@noname54eeee Жыл бұрын
This is conversation about men not women...
@Alphadogg27 Жыл бұрын
Bruh. Shorties be acting like enemies when they get upset with us. I actually had to tell a girl in a previous relationship, “when you’re mad, you act and say things like you’re my enemy.” I said this after we made up from a 3/4 day argument session. I know it sunk in with her cus after I made her aware, she looked shocked and got really quiet and then said “you’re not my enemy.” Simple yall, either y’all fit or you don’t. But don’t fight it. And focus on yourself. The right one will come along and find you. Shorties will turn into a whole opp when they get mad… know when it’s time to go. this goes for women and men.
@sebk4980 Жыл бұрын
Real
@lostrhodes8244 Жыл бұрын
💯
@NorFam Жыл бұрын
❤
@MrKingVulture Жыл бұрын
Only wit tha sisters bro
@rahsunallah2825 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true homie!
@ithinkthonkthunk533319 күн бұрын
a mother with pearls of wisdom & truth
@Unknown13thorder3 күн бұрын
Your mother is a very VERY great woman, I wouldn’t respond without a yes mama and no mama. Your mother knew what she was talking about and it’s sad we don’t see this now!
@cwillboxer3413 Жыл бұрын
Facts, I still remember EVERYTHING that my ex said to me when I was struggling to make ends meet 😔
@alexanderrichie7968 Жыл бұрын
That shit don't leave you
@xedasxedas Жыл бұрын
I'm just going to sit right here for a while.
@88trapordie Жыл бұрын
@@alexanderrichie7968facts
@wordtothewise711 Жыл бұрын
Wife said some foul shit while we were in the car. It cut deeper than anything. Damn near lost focus. Had to pull over and just punch the steering wheel I was so pissed off. It doesn't go away. It just sits in a dark corner. And I know those words exist. If I say something I keep it on topic no matter what. But some women will pull out anything if it helps them take the spotlight off them. It's upsetting
@tray2885 Жыл бұрын
@@wordtothewise711keep your head up Brodie I be praying for you🙏🏾🙏🏾
@CWMalako91 Жыл бұрын
It all starts with love. If they don't love you they will attack your weaknesses and sleep like a baby right after.
@jvillain9946 Жыл бұрын
So a typical woman
@user-up4zi1do6p Жыл бұрын
That's scary to even think that. Then you are sleeping with someone who doesn't have your back and eventually will turn on you.
@jamesdawson1171 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my ex
@lisakaye3919 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@katcraig7525 Жыл бұрын
Yep. They will exploit them, then cheat on you.
@crazytracy718 ай бұрын
The best advice for EVERY WOMAN! I'm a woman, n I've hit a man at his weakest point. I also learned, to NEVER do it again bc it's true. They never forget it, let alone, forgive it.
@lemonhashberry5799 Жыл бұрын
Nope... it's truly sad so many men and women abuse their partners verbally. Same goes for parents to kids, family, etc...
@Pauwwhh Жыл бұрын
Yes and then they act like everything is okay it’s disgusting
@captainrob9044 Жыл бұрын
Verbal abuse is barely touched on, if ever. Your word (choices) matter!
@kingdomofblk Жыл бұрын
Especially the kids. This is why society has produced soft and abused adults because the parents were weak and abused themselves. The cycle of inflicting pain and despair on others while being in pain and despair, is real and will take God to bring deliverance. Heal the men, the women and the children Father in Jesus name.
@captainrob9044 Жыл бұрын
@@kingdomofblk I'm verbally self-abusive which is insane.
@Rae_Naeee Жыл бұрын
Facts
@fearthisgamerneed4gs-skysu485 Жыл бұрын
An ex got me a job. I don't work there anymore but she filled out the application on indeed and I got the job. Every time we fought she'd bring it up and threaten to call my boss and tell him I was stealing and tell me I was a loser and couldn't even find my own job. That moment plays over in my head from time to time when I'm feeling crappy about something or having a bad day and I tell myself I'm strong and capable and I will never let anyone feel like they have/had control over my life ever again.
@4LLT0G3TH3R7 ай бұрын
That wasn't even a weakness of yours, that was just manipulation and abuse on your ex's part. I'm sorry you didn't deserve that friend, glad things are better now.
@Amanda-hp4nd4 ай бұрын
Sorry to be ‘crappy’ or blunt but don’t let anybody contribute too much to reaching certain goals or getting somewhere.. because then this stuff can happen.. unless ofcourse there are certain circumstances or sudden extreme setbacks where you temporarily have no choice but you could have already looked for your own job found by yourself in stead of staying in the one she ‘gave’ you. People are shit sometimes and when they appear to be shit make sure there’s not too much they can oppress you with… I am sorry you had to go through this manipulation and abuse. It will help you reflect and make different choices though. It is truly a lesson. 💚 Life is about balance and if she gave you a job she thought she was powerful over you and that took your power away. You were treated poorly but still, it hurt you unnecessarily to a certain extent because you just deserve better. Create better by learning from these experiences. I bet you have. I hope you are in a very good place right now after that.
@therealkflo..2 ай бұрын
Same, mine got me a job thru family connections & swore I wouldn't be anywhere in life without her lol
@bslayedbellydanceАй бұрын
I’m so sorry that happens to you I pray for your strength
@SeanEnginetechnologyАй бұрын
Amen to all the replies, I too know that abuse and controlling attempts by my ex-wife - I am blessed with 2 of the absolute most beautiful children with her, and some HARD ass lessons of what not to let happen to me because of her evil, cruel ways -- but my babies made all of the suffering worth it, wouldn't change a thing just because of those amazing little girls that call me their father now 💯🙏♥️ God bless you all, and God bless OUR great Country!!
@eugene7101 Жыл бұрын
I opened up about my weaknesses to my husband and I trusted him. But later I found out he had shared even small things between us to his mother. And she started attacking me with those . I found out she was a narcissistic lady and he was fully in control of her. They literally blamed me for small reasons. And I felt sick and stressed. I was going in depression. But luckily my parents saved me from there. It was 2 years ago. But those incidents never leaves from my mind. Because I believed he was loyal and faithful in our marriage but turned out like this. If someone came to my life again , I don't think I can fully trust and show my weaknesses to that person.
@Zen_Viniti5 күн бұрын
Momma protecting you in more ways than one. Amen. Much love. Humble . Kind Always. ❤ stay strong. 1
@godisgood117 Жыл бұрын
As a single father of 4 and 2 failed relationships..u never let a women disrespect u..and as a man u never stoop to a scorned woman's level..this woman is a QUEEN
@brikskwadmafia6526 Жыл бұрын
absolutely bro. my ex and i had children and always would bash me in front of them and abuse me in so many ways around them and told me ill never be a good father. we broke up. she got evicted with the kids caught a felony charge for assaulting a police officer now shes on the run to a different state and now the kids are traveling the country with her on the run meeting random men on the way. dhs got involved and now im more than likely getting my kids. the kids are everything to her but she doesnt deserve them. this quote couldnt be more true!
@Alice45894 Жыл бұрын
True, toxic femininity is as real as toxic masculinity
@YeshuaKingMessiah Жыл бұрын
Ofc u let them As they let u It’s called marriage And u learn to get thru things Not run away And u DO forgive, not hold grudges That’s called Grown Up
@godisgood117 Жыл бұрын
@@brikskwadmafia6526 I'm sooo sorry u and ur babies gotta go through that brother..got a knot in my throat just readin..i prayed for the best for ur children which is #1..God bless u
@godisgood117 Жыл бұрын
@@YeshuaKingMessiah ur right to an extent..i couldn't handle it
@positivelygrowing12321 Жыл бұрын
Two people a man never forgets. The one who crossed him. And the one who never left his side.
@s.w.3476 Жыл бұрын
FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!STAND ON IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Hadeshands Жыл бұрын
💯
@cashmoney6935 Жыл бұрын
This goes for everyone not just men
@marigoldbeam5475 Жыл бұрын
Not true. People take kindness and loyalty for granted all the time.
@BabalonNuit Жыл бұрын
Plenty of men have dumped "the one who never left his side". Plenty of women have "stood by their man"- and got this particular kick in the teeth from him. Let's not paint men as these "wronged saints" shall we? After all we have 2000 YEARS of men shitting on women...they are just getting the treatment they doled out to women back in THEIR teeth.
@bethnorris136117 күн бұрын
NO ONE EVER FORGETS...KINDNESS IS THE KEY ..LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANSWER
@pousalikonar50304 ай бұрын
I hit him with a truth....because the truth was hurting me....now he left me but i wasn't wrong
@RichieBagoDonuts Жыл бұрын
Your mother is a sage. I hear the same in You. Well Said!
@natsiejewelry654 Жыл бұрын
Love and support out black men ♥️💚🖤🇭🇹🔥👍🏽
@angelsbackgroundsounds Жыл бұрын
my grandma from my dad and mom side was the same lol thats why 1 got chop in her head with a matchette and the other run out the house by her husband with a shotgun lmao yaa these women sage af not me though lmao
@mysryuza2 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. Someone I used to look up to hurt me in various ways when I called him out in times where I was vulnerable. I never forgot.
@PoojaG_PG21 күн бұрын
It's true for any human! Relationships are about being able to talk about things and get real because u both respect and trust each other mutually ......
@FirstLast-pl3uv Жыл бұрын
She should do more podcasts. She's one of the realest people i've heard speak in a really, really, really long time.
@isaiahthomas4444 Жыл бұрын
Who is she?
@amariantiquity8543 Жыл бұрын
@@isaiahthomas4444 Judge Lynn Toler. She had her own TV show in early 00's
@miamiflutist Жыл бұрын
I'm hoping when she decides on what to do, Judge does these here to connect with people and spread healing everywhere
@oerprd5529 Жыл бұрын
I think she just recently lost her husband too
@moeeshangpate6320 Жыл бұрын
@@isaiahthomas4444A REAL WOMAN
@zaygfazinetto Жыл бұрын
Her momma was a wise woman 💯
@poeticnation6251 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!
@itzmezelio54338 ай бұрын
I recently made a comment to an ex-friend of mine. Told him it’s hard for me to be friends with people who are unfaithful (he always cheats on his gf) at the time I didn’t realize the impact of what I said was but it must have sent him into a rage. Shortly after he devised a plan to start a situation where he knew I would react to him. After that he drug my name threw the mud at my workplace. Some people are evil, but be careful to point those things out to them. They would rather be evil than make a positive change for themselves or even worse. They’ll change after they destroyed you for reminding them that they have things to work on.
@ii_MnBCT3 күн бұрын
As a someone who is gonna be a man soon, I approve this message
@bazimyan Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true. And I wouldn't attack my lady where she's weakest either in an argument, never. If you love someone you shouldn't want to intentionally inflict upon them pain. And I could never be with someone who would attack me where I'm lost vulnerable just cause we're in an argument. I'd end the relationship right there because the trust and respect is gone.
@HIGH_noon Жыл бұрын
yeah but most men dont or wont do that to women unless pushed and pushed to breaking point... alot of women feel like one little slight toward them is freedom to go all out on how he this or that, the weak shit... cuz they know we cant resort to violence against them even tho they know its right there and at any time could just come out. patrice oneal had the best story explaining this... a woman and him got into some road rage shit and he was like she knows she can get away with all this reckless behavior as female but what would happen if i just rage mode on her ass pulled her out the car i bet that tone would change immediatly but the fact she knows that i cant lets her walk around like she a man.
@ItsMoya15 Жыл бұрын
Frl bro
@brianbloomfield4384 Жыл бұрын
Y would parents do that ?
@theosaka69 Жыл бұрын
Great advice.
@justinberg3616 Жыл бұрын
She’s specifically talking about being with a man tho. You just weakened what she said.
@darwinhughey3861 Жыл бұрын
Works both ways!! Great advice in marriage!!
@Riva2025 Жыл бұрын
I think the point is that everyone knows that women can be vulnerable or sensitive and will express that, but many don’t realize men can have insecurities too, and being disrespected by the one they love can destroy them inside, even if they don’t cry or show it outwardly. Because a man may not show it, women say all kinds of hurtful things to get a reaction. They have then ruined their own relationship unknowingly, just to win an argument. Mentally, he’s moved on. You are the enemy.
@juneelle370 Жыл бұрын
@@Riva2025 uhhh both sexes know how to give low blows… when you’re a couple, you get to know what hurts people. If you’re decent, you don’t hit where it hurts with the intention TO hurt-ever--even in a fight! Many people save up arrows and then just sling all the have in a battle-figuring whoever does the most damage “wins”. But that is all destructive ego and you can NEVER have a loving relationship with that type of behavior. And no, women aren’t better equipped to handle low blows. It’s destructive to both sexes. Most importantly, GET OUT of a relationship like that. Even someone who “teases” with the intention to hurt… you know they have the intention to hurt if you’ve TOLD them it hurts and they continue.
@youtubecensoringcomments7427 Жыл бұрын
Women do this all the time
@evanweeks8620 Жыл бұрын
Not now days. Women are men😂 dam sad. Shemen cops are a dam joke. America sucks. Old days was the best
@mikelugo8983 Жыл бұрын
I'll never hit my baby when she weak I love and respect her to much.
@Billionairemindset_777 Жыл бұрын
It's a powerful reminder that empathy and respect should guide our actions. Choosing kindness over cruelty leaves a lasting positive impact that's impossible to forget. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.
@healthrenovationstation23 күн бұрын
The best advise coming from one of the best people.
@scotoftheanarchic.7903 Жыл бұрын
That's so true, you can forgive but you can never forget. It's a low blow to hit anyone so hard nevermind someone who's "supposed" to love and care about you. Respect is the most important thing in a relationship it can endure anything but if there's no respect forget it.🏴
@andreneal282009 Жыл бұрын
respect is the most important thing to a man. it's more important than love or sex. A man will never truly feel like a man without respect. Respect is needed by your woman as well but to her the number one thing she needs is that you are the provider. it's not the only thing needed but that is number one. ijs
@jackboyholla4002 Жыл бұрын
Facts respect and trust if you ain’t got those you got nothing
@number1fan262 Жыл бұрын
@@andreneal282009 not sure what country you live in, but, as a woman, I speak for the majority of us who don't usually need a man to be a "provider". We need & would rather he be PRESENT and a PROTECTOR - both and especially emotionally.
@rayajayce2034 Жыл бұрын
@@number1fan262 than you're lucky you haven't been broken yet in the hospital while having his kids. USA: number one out of all developed nations for neonatal, infant and maternal injury and death (and lack of patient rights is the main contributor of this). Once you're that broken and traumatized, you have no choice but to need a "provider." And there i was just thinking I needed someone present.
@rayajayce2034 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, whomever reported the pedophile before I did.
@heniwirihana6322 Жыл бұрын
"Love does not dishonor others"
@corwinroberts4756 Жыл бұрын
Then he will remain weak if you don't say anything.
@erhiueQWEF Жыл бұрын
@@corwinroberts4756well it's ok to talk about him but the woman in the clip is saying not to use his weakness to hurt him.
@fmarobase5343 Жыл бұрын
@@corwinroberts4756 "You can get him to do what you need him to do"... Meaning there are other ways to rise his awareness of the weakness and work on it, WITHOUT HITTING HIM where he's weak.
@erichughes8723 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏 to that..
@ARandomPerson-- Жыл бұрын
I like that energy. Keep it. Scream it from the roof tops so everybody knows what you are.
@G36Jeff16 күн бұрын
Thank you. He appreciates it.
@JammesZant21 күн бұрын
Good advice... Respect to her Mama and her...
@chrisgreen1989 Жыл бұрын
Sheeesh I feel that. My ex called me unreliable and weak because I wasn't paying 100% of her bills while trying to fix her broke ass house using all my money to pay everything I could. I had ZERO money for me or myself. I put all my enjoyment on hold to save money to fix her shit. I stood up to her one day when she said I was unreliable and she couldn't believe I didn't pay for everything. She told me I had to quit working out because I was trying to impress other women, I had to quit running, I quit fishing, I dedicated all my time and money to fixing her life. And not mine. She decided to kick me out and I looked at her and said "okay I'll see ya later " now I make 64k a year, I workout, I got a better car, better house, enrolled back in school for another bachelor's, and I still walk into that grocery store she works at and don't say shit to her. But I make sure she notices me. Whose unreliable now. All she had to do was go 50/50 when I begged for help. But nooooo she had other plans. I shoulda known shit was gone when the kisses changed.
@KonohazFinest Жыл бұрын
Bro we're situation twins lol but also I'm truly glad it worked out for you in the end.
@troysimmons2742 Жыл бұрын
God got a real one for you bro pray and stay solid God got you!!
@chrisgreen1989 Жыл бұрын
@@KonohazFinest what about you? How are you doing. Things looking up for you friend?
@chrisgreen1989 Жыл бұрын
@@troysimmons2742 hey friend I really appreciate it. I keep my head up so I can pay attention to the greatness I will create :) no looking behind, no looking down. I will be the success and greatness I achieve.
@troysimmons2742 Жыл бұрын
Yes sir all is well my bro God is good 👍 🙏
@mylegacytransformed Жыл бұрын
I’ve often said it in these words: “do not ever bruise a man’s ego; not even a young boy’s ego-it sets the stage for his current & future personal & professional success”
@aybojackson Жыл бұрын
THIS that “ yAlL duDEs hOlD oNtO gETtIn hEaRTbRokEN iN 4/5th gRaDE & tuRN sAVagE, nEVa trUsT a bItCh AgaIN iN yO liFE. 4L “🗣😭🗣🤣 Deadass though. It’s the 1st examples & memorabilia of what/here OUR version of that warm, pure, unconditional, vulnerable, starter-kit typa love, got us🤞🏾
@raheemcamal998 Жыл бұрын
@@aybojackson facts
@kaylacarter8766 Жыл бұрын
Yikes
@mylegacytransformed Жыл бұрын
@@aybojackson people do need to learn to walk in their healing to effectively move forward in personal and professional relationships
@aybojackson Жыл бұрын
@@mylegacytransformed SAME-TEAM
@JasonW.-sh8ol19 күн бұрын
Very intelligent lady 💯 percent agreed
@SeanEnginetechnologyАй бұрын
What a freaking BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, my Lord you can tell she is True 🙏♥️
@ladylightvybe4138 Жыл бұрын
That is absolute truth & allows him to maintain his dignity. When you love someone, you support them, not pull them down.
@daianaxi1295 Жыл бұрын
Shut up
@markmessi9020 Жыл бұрын
Narcissists have entered the chat
@Shaolin91z Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lord for your peace Thanks Lord for your salvation Thanks Lord single no kids
@jeffreynapisa122 Жыл бұрын
That's called respect, that's what else man call respect... You never hit anyone where you know their weakness is no matter who they are
@sed8181 Жыл бұрын
This is why men don’t hit below the belt or claw at eyes even when we get into fights with our enemies. Every time I’ve seen a woman fight, they go for weaknesses. You cannot do things like that if you want the relationship to succeed. Man or woman it doesn’t matter, respect needs to be reciprocated.
@_Hollie_ Жыл бұрын
@@sed8181yep if you dont want someone to do the same to you then dont do it to them. Im a big believer in karma, not in the sense that you get it back but that your actions will always come back to you. If your feeding out negativity, eventually thats all the university will give you back.
@JadeTokier Жыл бұрын
@sed8181 you've got to be kidding me. You've met every man? I've mer plenty of men who do just that.
@wetshart5860 Жыл бұрын
@@JadeTokiermen don’t pull hair and claw faces like women do in fights, don’t make things up just because you’re offended, why don’t you make like a man and grow a pair😂😂😂
@jackmurphy8696 Жыл бұрын
It's tougher for women to learn the basics of human decency but they can learn. Usually takes their life having some amount of struggle for them to get it.
@rasmusnilsson12324 күн бұрын
Real shit. Smart mother
@user-wp9oz9oi1fАй бұрын
You have a very smart mother. She is spot on...A man
@washthehateoff7233 Жыл бұрын
Your mother was truly something magical.
@tremell7559 Жыл бұрын
She wasn't magical for not being a piece of 💩
@koreypaul6698 Жыл бұрын
🤩🤩
@SeanEnginetechnologyАй бұрын
**absolutely LOVE this woman and her message 💯🙏♥️🇺🇲
@IanShatss29 күн бұрын
There is nothing more defeating to a man than being rejected by the woman he loves!
@belle305527 күн бұрын
By they reject a lot of women that love them
@IanShatss20 күн бұрын
@@belle3055 Yea that’s a different conversation.
@7learthur Жыл бұрын
That’s a real woman right there 💯
@rachellelingad969811 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message. The Lord has answered my question thru this wise lady. Thank you🙏🏾 💯 Us women are their rib we are supposed to support them no matter what because our men already has to deal with this world the stress that comes in this world.
@tb432621 күн бұрын
100% True! My wife hit me over my head with my weakness and I do not forget it. It changed my relationship with her and while we are still together today. I do not see her in the same light.
@jccuban111 күн бұрын
It’s true. The mother of my kids did that to me and it actually hurt me to the point I just couldn’t stay in the relationship. She doesn’t know, but that day she broke the family. A man will walk away from anyone and anything if constantly disrespected.
@couldntcareless2602 Жыл бұрын
We need more Queens like this to be influencing this generation
@FrankWolenczak Жыл бұрын
Judge Lynne Toller, she used to do Divorce Court
@SethKash Жыл бұрын
Your momma was very insightful. I like this thank you.
@shawngordon6626 Жыл бұрын
YOU WRIGHT EBONY ❤❤❤
@PiotrKundu27 күн бұрын
We will forget, do to a whole bunch of stuff, and forget the stuff we say, but hit that soft spot we have carried in secret from childhood and we will never forget it. Forgive, maybe, forget never.
@voxintra3 ай бұрын
This is a great woman. ❤️
@teelee468 Жыл бұрын
I really miss these type of black women. Queen 👸 Bless 🙌🏾 🙏🏾
@missvegan1967 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places.
@victorcain9311 Жыл бұрын
Square biz
@elenavega579 Жыл бұрын
haha no yes queen but not cuz what's she's saying
@buttonz2160 Жыл бұрын
We are still around. We are quietly building ourselves and patiently waiting for our old school gentlemen to find us. 🤗
@elizabethirvin9954 Жыл бұрын
Amen. All these Keishas running around
@twill5077 Жыл бұрын
No one should he hitting where another is weak. It's totally unnecessary and neither party forgets it.
@kennyhardy1884 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! The objective is to build not destroy
@sylviaj270 Жыл бұрын
Right. That is like kicking someone when they are down.
@konkoor881 Жыл бұрын
well it’s for different reasons for females you can’t do that because one she will lose respect for you, second you want her to rely on you, and u want her to admire and respect you and you don’t want her to feel bad it’s mens job to make sure women feels safe and peace and for women it’s their job to make mens lives easier and nurture
@linkueicatastrophe9727 Жыл бұрын
That's literally a warfare tactic. It has no place in a relationship lol
@konkoor881 Жыл бұрын
@@BrockGarrett-fm9he well that's what YOU think there's only one truth and men protect, women support and nurture that's how it goes. simple.
@samanthashannon2212 ай бұрын
You had a wise mother. Not all of us are blessed with that kind of mother. I pray by the grace of God I can pass this type of wisdom on to my daughter's
@TabithaBenjamin8 ай бұрын
He will hit you where you're weak tho.....for sure. Treat them how they treat you. Period. Show them themselves.
@protoman1214 Жыл бұрын
Nothing hurts more than someone you admire, love and respect exploiting a weakness to get back at you. Edit: my comment’s take away is to be mindful of your loved ones feeling, yet it started a war between Misandrists and Misogynist. Stop pointing the finger at each other and take a long hard look at yourselves….
@emmanuelwilliams2959 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@r.m.90 Жыл бұрын
Males have feelings? That's new.
@tristanblackmon7161 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@yeahman2312 Жыл бұрын
@@r.m.90 people have feelings. Whether its male or female you don’t say things to taunt people’s weaknesses. This woman proactively lifts her man up. And men cherish that in a world that breaks us down
@r.m.90 Жыл бұрын
@YeahMan23 Yes, because males are always victims. Life is peaches and cream for women 🙄
@karac.5294 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 my mom has definitely demonstrated the complete opposite … but I see how it has affected my dad. I love him so much I can’t imagine making him feel any less of a man because he’s an amazing one. I’ll definitely be doing differently ❤ live n learn
@haniyaali8835 Жыл бұрын
Exactly same experience had here. I've learnt what not to do to my partner, from my mum.
@neugyenculmer2597 Жыл бұрын
You guys are wise women because i actually learned from my dad not to make his mistakes then i realize i had to learn from mummy to.. so I can adjust because its mutual none of them was perfect. Damb... serious world.. cause they to had to learn!
@mariafrondoso1542 Жыл бұрын
@@neugyenculmer2597 o
@jakebaldwin7172 Жыл бұрын
@Not only a member But the president you've never had sex
@marcusjones5287 Жыл бұрын
@ not only, that woman was not trying to fill a void. She is a controlling person and found and married the one man who would allow her to control the relationship..
@nomercy4186Ай бұрын
Her mother was a wise soul
@jujubee29032 ай бұрын
And men need to apply this ideal when it comes to women aswell. It goes both ways.
@devrajyadav1111 Жыл бұрын
She was indeed raised by a queen 🌹
@the145kinga Жыл бұрын
More than a queen
@nobodythenobody9779 Жыл бұрын
These comments are so disappointing Video - “Don’t be mean to your husband” Women - “that’s sexist 😡”
@futureteacher7986 Жыл бұрын
@@nobodythenobody9779why is it don't be mean to your husband? Why not don't be mean to your partner?
@WordPressThemes9000 Жыл бұрын
Yeah but what price did the queen pay to gain that wisdom?
@Nap317-rw7re Жыл бұрын
Nah Just a woman.
@Last1toBlast Жыл бұрын
I love it. This goes for males & females. Try your best to be a true team mate to one another 👍🏾 ☝🏾
@LightBeing369 Жыл бұрын
✌🏼
@nsasupporter7557 Жыл бұрын
It’s the same with hitting. I hear all the time “never hit a woman,” you’re not supposed to hit men either! Hello!
@Last1toBlast Жыл бұрын
@@nsasupporter7557 I hit women all the time....when they're naked in my bed.☝🏾
@Katrn30 Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@losty_worldАй бұрын
I really can feel you :) It really messes up our mental health which affects our studies alot. What hurts me the most is I don't have any friend to share what goes in my house. Even if I leave this house and city tomorrow for college, it will always have a scar on my heart that all people around came from a healthy family and I don't. The only reason I will not believe in good men will be my Father. I feel like it would be soo difficult to find Love. I never even had a male friend. I always break down with this fact that will I ever find someone sooo loving that he will give me all the love I lacked as a child. (You know when you grow without love, you try to search it in the outer world)
@22soldier22Ай бұрын
The worst part is how do you open up ever again to a woman who might have good intentions. When all you see is yourself opening up and being hurt or betrayed again.. So nothing but truth in this message
@WalterD4 Жыл бұрын
As a married man, i like my woman to keep it a stack w me. If im lacking somewhere I want my woman to tell me. Im not saying to throw shots or to dig into a mans weakness, but if you’re my wife help me over come my weakness dont laugh at it
@trishmalone5639 Жыл бұрын
She is talking about in a throwing shots fashion.
@Genesisonetwentyseven Жыл бұрын
True growth right here
@MG-fn9xw Жыл бұрын
“Keep it a stack with me” Does she ever inform you that you type like an uneducated negro from the hood ? And if she does, does it hurt your feelings ?
@calebmoore1861 Жыл бұрын
Exactly it’s apart her job as a partner as E with a husband to his wife it’s very needed
@jayclearmen411 Жыл бұрын
bruh don’t be obtuse she talking about low blows and petty shots stop being willfully ignorant.
@HigherSelfCompanion Жыл бұрын
Love your spouses. Love them the way they need to be loved. 🙏🏾
@frankspikes7858 Жыл бұрын
Love, encourage, motivate.
@HigherSelfCompanion Жыл бұрын
@Free Spirit 💯
@marymeeks6680 Жыл бұрын
@higher self...love them the way they deserve
@ORUMAITO177 ай бұрын
Im in tears by what she said. Being compared all my life, I was a sheltered and confident boy growing up, it led to some undesireable attitude and immature thinking. This led to me being ridiculed and outcasted for my whole 5 years in boarding school, I only started trying to self-reflect and change in the last 2 years. I am to this day shy and can only act on things I truly care or whats left of it. But I am thankful that I'm still trying each day because for all those criticism there are still a few that believes I can Improve and I will never forsaken them.
@NoraDean-bt3swАй бұрын
We can say that about every human being. Not just man. ❤
@victoro1373 Жыл бұрын
Could recall when I said loud to this girl “I am not your enemy” cos it literally felt like it. Folks need to learn there are certain attitudes you don’t throw off with your partner, no matter how mad you are, it hurts cos they consider you to be a safe space.
@indiradeja4218 Жыл бұрын
Both ways
@MrMAGisG Жыл бұрын
Goddamn i felt that. I want a partner not a combatant 🥊
@Rae_Naeee Жыл бұрын
This!!!! That’s how I felt with my ex husband! Felt like I was in a land mine when he would come home! I felt like a unnecessary enemy!