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[@HappilyCommitted]

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[@johnpeden2039]

As someone who cheated on the love of my life.. I can honestly say we as men can change. But we have to want to make that change. As far as me, I spoke to a therapist and was serious about making efforts to change and be better, and that's what I did.. Stopped putting words together, and started putting them into action.. I was very fortunate and lucky that my girlfriend took me back, and it made our love stronger then ever.. Karma really got me for what I had done.. What we as men need to realize, is that our choices not only impact us, but it damages the women we love.. the women we are supposed to love, support and protect..

[@spencerallcock3463]

Hey man, this has been my situation as of recent. Would I be able to ask for some advice?

[@tiggerligger4943]

dude i was about to ask you the same thing

[@franklin2141]

If she takes you back she’s going to cheat on you

[@johnpeden2039]

@@spencerallcock3463 Absolutely

[@johnpeden2039]

@@franklin2141 Then I look at it is this, Karma comes for us all, if you take someone back, and that person has shown they've changed and has gotten better.. And you take them back, so you can get revenge and do it to them.. Then that means that person is going to receive there Karma, and it's going to be twice as worse.. All you can do is put it in God's hands, and let it him deal with it

[@mungulenimarlon7573]

The problem is once you are cheated upon,trust is gone and just gone, even if the cheater changes,u will not trust what they do

[@4629dt]

so true. I am going through this right now, and it's the 2nd time she has done this to me.

[@claudia3539]

@@4629dt third time is the charm. A third will happen

[@NnajichiomaCythia.-qf5du]

@@mungulenimarlon7573 you are very right

[@Vlogbobb]

@@4629dt dump n move on literally 8 billion people. At least 4 billion women in this world!

[@kentepiz6343]

And now I dont know what to do, she cheated on me many times. And rn im depressed and stressed and I dont have somebody to talk, Im just stuck in this life with her, like I dont have the right to leave her

[@nickcortese990]

I cheated on Every GF I ever had including my fiance who I have been with for 7 years. My heart was pulled out of my chest when I found out she was having an emotional affair. Getting a taste of your own medicine is probably the best thing that has happened to me... "Forget the circumstances and REMEMBER the lesson"

[@HappilyCommitted]

We're so sorry to hear about this!

[@LisaCulton]

Fiance for 7 years...

[@georgevue8175]

17 years ago the wife cheated with a coworker. Hindsight I so wish that when I found out I said nothing and simply disappeared, with me out of the way the other man could have moved in and permanently taken her off my hands and today I would be a million times happier and so would she.

[@jadegreen1554]

You still can.

[@AviDoug]

My girlfriend of a year cheated on me. She was my first relationship ever in 22 years (i waited to find someone I felt connected to) and I was devastated. Getting cheated on is awful, and for a first relationship, the way it happened unfortunately ruined my optimisim on the potential partners around me and ever getting back with a cheater if it they were to pursue it. I never believed in "the one", but i know cheating is awful and shows a lack of spine for those you are commited too. I can't imagine those who have had partners longer can re-attach broken love strings as they once were.

[@TomikaKelly]

You NEVER reattach broken love strings as they once were because you'll never get the old relationship back. You focus on building a new relationship with the person.

[@Adiscretefirm]

Let them work on themselves and try monogamy with the next person they find. Why would anyone fight to be with someone that doesn't respect you or care if they hurt you?

[@SuperGremlin-kt2yt]

Neverrr go back ladies. Take it from me it gets worse. Dont do it!!! Save yourself.

[@bslangable]

like these ladies you're talking about don't cheat..c'mon.

[@tavishfinnegandegroot3513]

Ppl change

[@kingcalliv2646]

6yrs of relationship and she get attached easily to her workmate. Sht broke my heart into pieces. I don't know where to put my anger on, everyday i thought of killing myself. i dont know what to do.

[@meganbroad6981]

Hang in there ❤

[@chrisfolmar4052]

Bro I’m going through the same slowly mahbe getting back together it is the worse pain ever 2 hours of. Sleep for week but it gets better you’ll live and learn

[@Tate-nj5jo]

Hey I have one for you, Married for 45 years, I knew her for 50 years total. She kept her affairs secret. She was an expert. WOW never even thought she could be so deceiving. I trusted her, she would say she was at Church decorating for a wedding. Church was used for a cover. Who would think a Woman would be a Cheater at Church. The Church Staff had her back, they offered a place for My Wife to hide and possibly were part of the Club. Calvary Chapel Burbank Ca was our Church for over 20 years. Both my wife and I served doing different things useing our talents to Bless our Church. I was an Electrician and handy person, my Wife being great at everything we were a great team. I feel total betrayal from everyone involved.

[@debbiethomas9991]

Wow.sorry that happened to you The people at the church should be a shame too they she have been talking her out of it instead they helped herWith her infidelity that sad when you can’t count on Christians steer you the right way again I hope you moved on for the better of your life sorry that had to happen to you

[@greenonblack2790]

i hope you heal brother p.s find another church

[@blueciv]

Hey i feel for you i'm 45 and was married for 22 years when my situation happen. She left and then came back and left again. The second time it didn't hurt but the kicker is she came back again and wants to work it out. Every time she left it was only for a week or so but it still stung. I took her back because of my vow. Till death do us part(WHAT GOD HAS JOINED LET NO MAN TEAR APART) even though I took her back it does not mean that I took her back like a wife there is no trust Faith or believe that she won't do it again I will not be the one that separates a marriage that God has put together if she wants to leave she has to leave I will not leave her.

[@Whatyousayin24]

⁠@@bluecivHe said you can leave for adultery.

[@sharonvass8700]

No never take back a cheater they obviously don't care they are hurting you they don't care about you they have lied

[@TheJBeck1]

I love what you said that you have to finally love yourself. You Must feel safe secure and whole with the other person. and you have they’re constantly ready around my dear back every chance I get I’m secretly talking outside to the person and on their laptop. I finally went to Scottsdale Arizona to doscoveri there were so many guys that are truly loyal and trustworthy that want one beautiful woman to share their life with and now that I know that I feel stronger. I’m going to get my divorce after 32 years. Thank you for telling everyone out there that you must put yourself first you can’t keep trying to protect a long-term marriage that was ridden with Betrayal. When the betrayer continues to talk to that person and communicate with them and meet them it won’t end and there really is nothing you can do it that point.

[@coldinfusion]

I made the mistake of kissing another girl while in a relationship and I can definitely say that mistake helped me become better because I would never do anything to even remotely hurt another woman again.

[@MikeThaPhilosopher]

This video should be titled “Never Take A Cheater Back” that is the ultimate level of disrespect. If they cheat on you it’s something that they want that you don’t have. If they’re cheating it means they are either in denial that they don’t want the relationship to end or they’re to scared to

[@cafelatte1124]

Exactly. Also, the thought of "taking them back" automatically comes packaged with distrust and all the BS drama you don't want to deal with.

[@matinaki1644]

​@@cafelatte1124exactly. I believe it is only the ones who don't actually care for their partners (but care/like being in a relationship) who manage to not have trust issues. They are like "who cares as long as I get to live in the house, have my children etc".

[@cgerdowsky]

That's not all true. Women f up just like men do

[@janettorres1492]

I honestly feel yes they can stop, fall in Love with yourself first

[@momadewoodsigns1579]

I'm having a hard time focusing on myself, all my attention is on my husband. I'm so afraid he'll cheat again if I don't give him all my attention

[@ZarriawithaJ]

@@momadewoodsigns1579 that's not healthy. Might need to seek professional advice.

[@Whatyousayin24]

@@momadewoodsigns1579 hon, that won’t keep him from cheating. If you’re going to stay and try to work it out, seek professional help if he’s willing. Learn to love yourself just as much.

[@bystandersarah]

People get so hung up on whether something they do can be called “cheating” or not. It’s really just a linguistic lack in our language I think…you must ask yourself, “does this action break the trust or betray the trust the other has in me?” If it does, or you think it might, don’t do it. People will call it cheating only for lack of a better word. The emotional effect it has on your person is the same. It’s betrayal.

[@mljrotag6343]

If you have to hide it, it's cheating.

[@Astrolovescrypto]

Yes, I cheated on every girlfriend I ever had, until it was done to me which made me feel how disrespectful it was. I briefly lost my mind in a violent rage, but a few days later something in me clicked. “How dare you be so pissed at her when you’ve been doing it to her the entire time”? I have felt a love for that woman and appreciation ever since. If it was t for her I might have messed up what I have now!!!

[@mittag983]

I hope she leaves you forever you don't deserve her

[@reallife_daria4816]

I have a question I was cheated on by my boyfriend. He treated me like absolute shit the entire time he brainwash me into thinking that the things he was doing was love. So to add this man was cheated on. It widely affected him and he even mentioned it whenever we got together saying I’m not the best right now because I was cheated on in the past and I understand how messed up that is and I wouldn’t wanna do it to anybody. But he did it to me, and in the way that I found out it almost felt like because I let him walk all over me for so long and get away with it. He just did it on the open. Not thinking that repercussions would come to him I guess. Why would he cheat? I know you’re not him and I know he’s not you, but to read this comment and see that it is possible for somebody to reform. It’s mind boggling.

[@IntegraDIY]

Simp

[@sydneymanning9735]

@@reallife_daria4816 hey

[@TomikaKelly]

Cheating on someone is an act of hatred. Prayerfully, she recognizes her worth and finds her husband who will truly love and respect her.

[@KingKing-s6i]

My cheater is faithful when I'm around it's when he alone with women he has the issues but he claims he has control BS😂😂

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

Rule of thumb my dad taught me: never take back a cheater. They may genuinely be sorry in the moment, but it subconsciously tells them you will let them get away with that behavior. Can they change? Maybe, but odds are they won’t. Find someone better or keep her as fwb full stop

[@mrtwister9002]

Why would you keep them around?

[@TomikaKelly]

You don't keep anyone as an "fwb". It's either you're going to work it out with them or you're going to release them and yourself with love to go heal and find the person you deserve to be with.

[@Jay-vv5uw]

To cheat they never truly loved you to begin with. Taking them back is just leaving room for more pain and disappointment. Everybody knows this but will readily deny it

[@7one11]

this is such a close minded comment. people cheat for so many reasons.

[@FlyGuyDrec]

False , someone could love you and still cheat tbh

[@nathanielflar4941]

I don't know why people say that.. of course you can love somebody I've Loved women and cheated on them but I came back the difference is is when women love you and cheat on you they tend to leave you and go with the person they cheated on

[@aarondoesnteat1694]

gahahahahahahaha

[@tatianadaniel3569]

​@@nathanielflar4941Treat others the way you want to be treated.

[@Fingamyaz]

some times the pain is just too much even if the other is doing what is needed.

[@jenniferflores6125]

My boyfriend cheated on me and continues to cheat on me & to go behind my back. I still stayed because I love him and because I have so much hope that he can change but it just seems like nothing is changing and I’m so tired. I can’t do this anymore. It’s painful.

[@TomikaKelly]

I was getting ready to call you all types of birds and yamheads, but then my compassion set in. Go no contact and leave. Staying makes the cheating acceptable. When someone knows your love and loyalty is unconditional, they no longer have to respect you for it. It's human nature to take advantage of people and that's what's happening here.

[@pist251]

Dump him. You're young and pretty. Good people exists. Cheaters are scums of this world

[@femalehobbitwithhairyfeet]

I feel the same way. I have shown empathy and compassion, I have extended forgiveness and love... To someone who won't stop betraying me and hurting me. I really hope that you find courage to do what is best for you whatever that may be, and that things have gotten better for you ❤

[@tigermagda]

Leave, you're already broken and it takes a long time to heal.

[@billiemeadus9529]

It doesn’t matter who love him and not think about it every time he cheats on you he’s putting your health at risk loving someone is not good enough to stay just saying get out now I love my ex with all my heart. He was also my best friend since I was six when he cheated on me I did not tolerate it, and I found a man who treats me right if a man cheats on you he has no respect for you. It’s better to be alone with me with a cheater think we are head, not your heart

[@carminefederico-rv7fg]

Thank you. You save lives ❤️

[@HappilyCommitted]

It is my pleasure, thank you for your kind words! Sincerely, Adrian

[@michaelscott2929]

my wife cheated and I left her and now she use my kids to try and find out what I'm doing which is sad

[@elmahdi5]

I wouldn't know.because I would NEVER give a broad that opportunity. They can change, grow, and evolve with some other man. #freeagentlifestyle

[@rattybee9831]

I cheated on my wife with some one and over a year and half she find out and I regret doing that,I was not able to open up due to what went through due to my past relationships so she suffered for it and I promised my self never to do that in life…and the love I have her has developed more than words can say and any one who is trying to cheat on their partners should stop because both partners will be happy when you stay together peace…and I am sorry for this and will not happen as we grow together and die together,any time I look at you I say how beautiful you are and I will love you forever

[@TomikaKelly]

Prayerfully, your wife recognizes her worth and heals and finds the husband she deserves to be with.

[@pist251]

I hope she cheats back on you as you only deserve sadness

[@standground7956]

*Cheating is never a mistake. Cheating is a series of planned conscious decisions, the cheater justifies it, they determine that it’s worth risking their current relationship to do so, then after further consideration- they move forward with the act of infidelity.* When you forgive a cheater and remain with them, they interpret that as a slap on the wrist. A man or a woman with no self control is a liability. *I can’t think of anything more degrading, humiliating and pathetic than getting emotional over or fighting to remain in a relationship with a known cheater.* Whether you trust them or not, it’s best practice to leave the relationship as they’ve clearly demonstrated that they prefer the other person. Hopefully one day your wife will recognize that and act accordingly.

[@1stBarbieAssassin]

Got to stop reading these comments, yall depressing or maybe i am a fool.

[@lilli-.-]

Thank you for this video. It was very informative and felt genuine

[@Rossberg0924]

I was with a man who was everything to me. Was ALL the things I wanted, spiritual and deep. Fun and also very into self control and being a better human. Told me I was his soulmate. So even though I kept many walls up, over the months they began to come down. I trusted him, felt safe, I hadn’t been able to those deep conversations with anyone in a very long time. And then… after months…. Suddenly a woman followed us to my home and I found out he was living with someone and had a girlfriend for 8 years. I am beyond devastated. My heart is shattered. He wants to see me, tells me things haven’t been going well for a long time with them. But that he also is selfish and he is a liar. I am just looking for someone to help me be angry instead of heartbroken. Because believing that everything he said and behaved like was a lie, is a bit too much to handle. Was there any truth? Am I that naive?? I am a 43 year old woman who has been divorced and know my worth. It’s just so confusing and incredibly heartbreaking. The ridiculous thing is that I want him still. Which I know I should not.

[@HappilyCommitted]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Truly sorry to hear about what you are going through. You are not naive, and this unfortunately happens a lot more often than you would think. It is important for you to take time to process your emotions. It is also quite normal for you to "still want him" as despite the betrayal the love and attraction often remains. Love the fact that you still value yourself and that you know your worth!!! I would love to support you and help you make sense of it all, so please don't hesitate to reach out to me if you feel like you need support.

[@PettyLabelle]

They never change . 😂 just walk away

[@jvogler_art4708]

I disagree that they can never change, but i think its more so that even if they do change, do you even want them? The trust has already been broken and feelings for the other may have been shattered. That's something that can never change. Your opinion of them is damaged beyond repair. I firmly believe SOME people can change if they really want to, but you have to ask yourself do you have the capacity within yourself to accept them if they do? Most don't and most cheat again, so there is a huge risk in taking them back. If they aren't taking accountability for what they did and they aren't facing consequences and you just blindly take them back that's the mistake. Ultimatley the best thing you can ever do in this scenario is to just break it off in this scenario. Someone wronged you and showed they don't care about your trust, they don't deserve your trust anymore, but maybe someday, years down the line after some maturing that will change. Being content with the breakup and being alone is the best thing you can do. Personal growth. It's the grief and the hole in one's life created by a breakup that makes people stay most of the time, which i feel is the wrong reason.

[@RoseSantos-qj4yf]

Everything you said was right on-point but don't forget about GOD when needed! 4+30+2024.

[@azeesibal]

Thanks for this video.

[@wallacegarrett3537]

My ex cheated on me three (3x) before I kicked her out and sent her back home to her parents. The second time she cheated, we went to the marriage counciling. (I got her to attend). We worked it out and tried for another go at our marriage. I forgive her. The third time was the most painful. I watched my wife walk out of a bar that I caught her meeting her lover at, and they left together after I had an argument with her. I had caught them together. They walked to his car, and he drove off with her. I could only watch them drive off. She comes back home three days later. By then, I had packed her bags and changed the locks on the door.

[@Vlogbobb]

😢 unbelievable, should have not given her a chance

[@HappilyCommitted]

I am truly sorry to hear about what you've been through. Thank you for sharing your story with us and for expressing such resiliency in setting boundaries.

[@kayodudu5190]

Thank you I have pulled away

[@devonta28thKY]

Everyone has either cheated or been cheated on. So now where do we go?

[@HappilyCommitted]

people works this out in their own ways ❤️

[@FaizaaKhan528]

He started liking a girl when we were on a break from our relationship.when we got back together ,he couldn't stop talking about her. Although they didn't have a full fledged relationship,he admitted he admired her and was attracted. What should I do?? P.s. he says he still wants me😂

[@SalmaMymoona]

How to find wether they cheat u again

[@aurelia555]

technically I had on him because I made an idiotic assumption about him fooling around on me. But he never was. I had talked abt it on my behalf because I had entertained and added some random. Who started sending unsolicited pics the same day. I didn’t know and my boyfriend seen it and happened to leave me. I don’t think it’s fair. I had anger when we talked in the car that same afternoon a week ago. I had him yell at me… we were so good we were just right. We were talking about moving we talked about kids. We talked about a lifestyle together. I don’t want anyone but him and I I don’t know why I had done it. Because of hurt and guilt for seeing his following. Not even on his phone but mine. Fast forward to today since this was only last week. And now he’s following some old chick he used to sleep with and it kinda really fkn sucks. I think he’s texting with her but there’s nothing I can do and I really ruined it for myself and him. If I think his heart is at where I think it is. We will be able to talk when he’s ready. I know things don’t come easy but he unblocked and followed her so quickly

[@Jr1ce]

I’ve cheated very early on in a beautiful relationship I had. The person i cheated with was very good at knowing how to get what they want out of me she is a very good manipulator on top of that she is the mother to my only child this isn’t to excuse my action of cheating because ultimately I made that terrible choice i didn’t even finish my girlfriend pops in my head as I was in the actual act I stopped and then owned up to it because she deserved to know. NEVER cheat ever it does so much damage to both people involved we tried working through it but she couldn’t get over it I mean how could you get over something like that but I promised her i would become a better man from that and that’s what I’ll do and continue to do if I get the chance to try again with her I’ll never make her feel that suffering again if not then as my punishment I will not take another woman because I don’t deserve it

[@claudia3539]

They do in my experience

[@pist251]

Never take a cheater back. FULL STOP

[@Daytonaman675]

Yes, but they have to own it AND change.

[@TomikaKelly]

Would you hire an accountant who has admitted to bankrupting every company he's ever worked for in the past? 🤨

[@joellindqvist6203]

@@TomikaKelly I'm sorry you are single

[@kevinhigginbotham6467]

My wife of twenty years told me she loves me but doesn't love me. Might be in love with someone else I am lost

[@HappilyCommitted]

Hello Kevin, this is really tough and I empathize. You have to be strong and put a plan in place to not let your emotions get the best of you. Based on my experience it is possible to turn things around and she is making a mistake. Here for you if need be. Sincerely, Coach Adrian

[@KhanyisileBecky]

I wish we can get more comments from men...i beg.

[@samuelmiles6807]

Hahaha.. no. They will just get better at hiding it..

[@mittag983]

Facts 100%

[@Raiderz801]

😔

[@basedggallin4556]

Absolutely seen it a hundred times even experienced it myself cheaters will cheat again if you take them back

[@bhynniewta8393]

💯

[@momadewoodsigns1579]

That's what I'm so worried about. He hid his affair for 2 YEARS!!

[@Mr801guy]

I’d love to access the 5 steps but can’t find it linked below…. Help

[@chrisfolmar4052]

I am dealing this right now ,I’m struggling to make the decision to take her back she seems very sorry and regret it that she took me for granted my thing is she hurt me the worse pain ever and she was hiding it I’m having hard time believing she is realy sorry or just because she got caught.

[@HappilyCommitted]

Thank you for sharing. I know that it is not easy, but know that you are fighting the good fight. We are here to support you both moving forward. Sincerely, Coach Adrian

[@ChristineRasmussen-u1q]

As far as I know he has cheated 1 but even though he says he feels bad and quilty about it yet he doesn't have the same interest in me and is less attracted to me

[@Matt-nf9my]

Took her back 2 times only for her to do it again I don’t believe

[@НазХайрлыкызы]

My boyfriend had cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and we had stopped dating after 10 days he came again and asks to date again.. What should I do?

[@cmockingjay7265]

Ex lied about money, wasn’t honest about other situations. Forgave those things and five years in had an affair with a coworker. I left once I found out and never looked back. Sorry look at the whole person but I believe if someone cheats they will reoffend in the future..

[@nicolasnolan1405]

Me and my girlfriend were in a happily committed relationship. She has a bit of a history of cheating, but she was in a really bad relationship and me and her we went through a lot. She broke up with me because she said she wasn’t mentally in it anymore that night, I remember bringing her flowers, but I told her that I didn’t want to get back with her and that night she went and hung out with another man and she told me that all they did was kiss and she promised on her grandmothers life that’s all they did and she’s begging for me back, saying that she can’t live without me and she says that she just made a big mistake and then she realize nobody could ever replace me. Should I forgive her?

[@standground7956]

Yes, forgive her and then tell her you’d never enter a relationship with her ever again. Grow some balls and find a different woman who wants and respects you, let the other guy have her. You’re no longer with her, right?

[@srinathsatya]

We cannot accept the one who cheated.

[@MegaFinalRound]

If the wife makes the same mistake twice with their husband (they were caught cheating with other men at two different times in the marriage), does the wife deserve a third chance? The husband knows that the wife has a history of cheating in prior relationships.

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

Why that guy marry someone who has a history of cheating? The reality is there are people who are relationship material and people who aren’t. She isn’t. He made a mistake. Plain and simple

[@SacramentoNativ3]

@@Patrickstarrrrr69 love

[@tatianadaniel3569]

​@@Patrickstarrrrr69you feel the same way if it was a woman? Would she have just "made a mistake"?

[@trentwright9570]

I think one time can be worked through but if they do it twice, they need to become fertiliser so they don't hurt anyone else.

[@TomikaKelly]

Would you hire an accountant who has admitted to bankrupting every company he's ever worked for in the past? 🤨

[@sophiexoxo1811]

He constantly visited prostitutes from the start of the relationship. Even grew close to one and ended up having her personal Facebook as a friend and saw her outside of "business". Think it was doomed from the start....

[@mohcinebachri7084]

i found my girl cheat on me with and other guy but she said that she love me and she can prove to me but i don't feel good when im arround her how can i do to fix that or forget her

[@edilis784]

Once a cheater, always a cheater

[@MuniuSam]

Hey ,,,,so I found out that my girlfriend cheated on me on several occasions while we are dating,,,after confronting her she told me that non of those guys mattered to her and that she only loved me ,,,she justified herself that it was when she was weak and drunk ,,,I forgave her on terms that if this happens again am gone ,,,but since then I haven't been feeling okay I don't know if I should continue or just break up with her

[@SetApart7Generation]

What about if your spouse that kept cheating?

[@princesharmin8790]

Me and my girlfriend got in argument,,i stop answering her calls that night- and was with my children*with proof*the next day she tells me she went on date with new guy she met on social media but didn’t have sex -I trusted her on social media talking to guys and the risks of them pursuing her as a often factor in social media-what are some regulations I can make to carefully try to trust her again?

[@bethelspark7403]

My gf whom i lives together with. What should i do. Should i ask her to leave my house first! Because waking up seeing her hurts me so much.. i love her but I don't know why she cheated on me with a so called friend

[@bethelspark7403]

She cheated

[@N4divers]

Never take a cheater back. PERIOD

[@HappilyCommitted]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us

[@ChristineRasmussen-u1q]

I have gut feeling he is still cheating on me

[@Phil-j7t]

Cheating and Monkey Branching are different things. Monkey Branching is the worst. No relationship is perfect but something had to be off in order for a person to cheat or start a whole new relationship while still in their current one. It’s just a form of being a coward who can’t handle the pain of being alone

[@jbouse64]

Cheaters are trash and they will continue to do what they do. Actually believe you this planet not worth dog manure.

[@ivankulola5847]

You either the cheater or the cheated..no middle ground....stay hard

[@MarkSummers-g2n]

Once a cheater always a cheater

[@inokebaleimoala]

I cheated on my wife but she is always faithful

[@HappilyCommitted]

Do everything you can to make things right, to learn from this and to grow

[@mudknj3271]

Hi,im a cheater. I cheated on my girl to have an intimate relationship with someone else. I really dont have any kind of feeling towards that person who i had an intimate relationship with. It was purely based on the sexual tension that we had. I really have true feelings for the girl i love. Yet i thought I'd lie and keep things hidden. Now that im caught. I regret that i shldve said everything.but the problem is i was too afraid to tell her everything,coz i didnt want our relationship to brk..so i chose to lie.. but i realllyy realllyyy understand that what i did was wrong and i reallyy want to redeem myself.. i really want a second chance, do i deserve it tho ?

[@HappilyCommitted]

Hi there! We are so sorry to hear about this and I know our coaches would love to help guide you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with one of our coaches so we can help you through this and give you the guidance you need! happilycommitted.com/coaching/

[@chloenewton7257]

No. U dont deserve another chance. U clearly don't love her that much if u felt the need to be intimate with someone else.

[@shaaabhai282]

I cheated on her.I sexted with other girls and got caught.I don't wanna loose her.What can I do to fix this?

[@hayleysterling3598]

Control your sexual urges. My husband did the same thing but also met women and prostitutes. I don’t even feel attracted to him anymore because I’m so disgusted that he couldn’t control his sexuality, he let it control him. The effort that he put into finding women to catch that hit of dopamine from finding something new in those meaningless connections drove him further and further away from me when he made excuses for himself that he was “just getting a man”. If you can’t get her back, at least control your sexual impulses for the future and invest your energy in high quality women instead of women that are probably sexting many different men including you. If you want one woman to focus all her energy to you, you need to do the same for her.

[@bslangable]

nothing, she's better of without you.

[@linovargas462]

@shaaabhai282 too late. Don’t do it with the next woman

[@frawldog]

🎉

[@Netrak16]

I cheated on my bf once of 4 and half years but it was just a mistake and the time people manipulated me against him and my only mistake was I got manipulated and I started hating my bf and I wanted to leave him and the time I did this mistake but I got to know that I got manipulated and I realised it and now I love him like a crazy I cannot live without him but he found out I cheated and now he don't want me but i was a complimently different phase I never let anyone touch me before that neither after everyone has different story every couple is different I love him so much I want him back I want his forgiveness I'm ready for any punishment he gives me I'll put all my efforts and I'll never break his trust I'll listen to him all the time I want him back please someone help me😭😭🙏🏼

[@hshaha1]

Hopefully he finds someone better

[@vivianbandak8191]

I sexted another guy and then felt very guilty and wrong so i confessed to my my boyfriend and he broke up with me... I just don't know what to do Im sorry enough to never ever do it again Its so hard and i just don't know what to do He thinks i don't love him but i it was that i was selfish and liked what the guy was saying to me and i didn't think of how much he will be hurt I just don't know what to

[@HappilyCommitted]

Thank you for sharing your story, and I empathize with what you are going through. Well done being honest and transparent. Please sign up for my next Free Live Training this Sunday so that I can provide you with support, perspective and guidance: www.withmyexagain.com/events/

[@tristinstorm5858]

Hi, I clicked on your link for the 5 steps to recovery and it to me to a site called "click funnel every time I tried, just thought you should know. You video was very insightful and I helpful. Thanks