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[@matthewW97]

I feel like i shouldn't be watching this

[@trevorwilliams6362]

I felt like I was watching couples therapy without a real therapist and everything just got worse

[@CallosZthenos]

Suuuuuper Informative if you can watch with a disconnected lens !!! The domestic animals in their natural habitat 😈

[@bee2DaRad]

This reminds me so much of my past relationship felt exactly the same like I shouldn’t be watching it but at the same time it’s something people need to see to know that it’s normal to have disagreements. Specially, when your old ladies Prego, it was the same thing for me when my daughters mother was pregnant and it was even worse right when we got home with the baby, but after a month or two everything was back to normal and we still had our regular arguments and disagreementscontinue to figure out how to make things work for the baby and I just for the baby but for us as well

[@matthewW97]

@@bee2DaRad glad you guys worked it out I guess I still have a lot to learn

[@megacatsupreme466]

Veronica, protect your peace and the babies well being... Run! Please, put Wolf and yourself first, you need to get out of this abuse.

[@ojdidit327]

Its not abuse its two people that have loved each other for almost 20 years trying to navigate life

[@smokymountainangoras]

Lol like Jennifer Lopez “Enough”, huh? Ha Pat is obviously not that bad… he’s a man child emotional succubus who sucks the air out of a room, but not an abuser… Like I’ve said before Veronica is in this relationship to have a house to live in, the baby is her cash out refinance. Her worst fear is being broke homeless, no money. That’s why she fights with Pat over paying his employees, did you hear her say “I don’t see why he would be getting 3x more than I’m allotted…” She needs her paychecks… and why she’ll brown-nose Pats dad and will tell his mom to eat shit…

[@smokymountainangoras]

Lol like Jennifer Lopez’s “Enough”, huh? It’s obviously not that bad. Pat’s a man child emotional succubus that will use up all the air in a room, but he’s not an abu$er. Like I’ve said a long time ago, Veronica has been in this relationship for a house to live in, and the baby is her cash out refinance. Her worst fear is being broke homeless, no money. That’s why she fights with Pat over paying his employees, did you hear her say “I just don’t know why he would be getting paid 3x what I was allotted…” And why she will brown-nose Pat’s dad $$$ but tell his mom to eat sh!t. Veronica needs her paychecks and financing. You can see a money-thread in most of her motivations and problem causing.

[@user-jk939]

She’s right pat always gets to be the baby and now she’s pregnant n him having to actually watch how he acts and not being a baby is killing him wait tell that baby gets here n then the real baby has to get all the attention wonder how he’s gonna be then

[@ojdidit327]

@@user-jk939 you guys are so miserable to be hating on two complete strangers having a baby for the first time. Crazy. I feel bad for you guys i really do.

[@VerticalGastricSleeveSuccess]

Married 20 years. Love this convo. Super Normal. My only suggestion is working with a therapist to help navigate these conversations and expectations and true feelings on all sides. Once the pregnancy is over it’s JUST starting. Having a mediator is SUPER helpful. New strategies and a safe place to talk is amazing. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@michelebergman4336]

THERAPIST !!!!!!!!!! SOS

[@JesusChristSaves.]

Dude Pat's gonna SNAP soon - i used to stick up for him telling him to leave Veronica, but now the more i see his unhinged, raging, selfish and unforgiving personality really coming out, im more on Veronica's side of understanding now. She seems to be a lot more real now than when she was high or w.e - but Pat really is so selfish, and OBSESSED with trying to be in control of everything, and everyone. He needs to fall back and reflect on who he is, how he treats people, and let go of his EGO and PRIDE. Its sad honestly. Dude is a control freak, and is also obsessed with himself, and doesn't care about who it effects. Yet wants people to UNDERSTAND HIM, yet doesn't genuinely try to understand and truly empathize with other people. Especially his "wife" - Its sad, shes pregnant and he cares more about his ridiculous childish emotions more than the care of the mother of his kid right now. And allllllll he wants to do is post every little thing, and post every video of everything cause he wants to not only have this internet fame, and likes, and a good reputation for his future clients of Graceland, but also to cover his butt for all the shady stuff that happens, so he can say I VIDEO EVERYTHING SO THERES NO GUILT AND NOTHING TO HIDE. But regardless, i really am just observing how full of rage this dude is. Ive always seen how miserable he is, but man, hes soooo in denial and full of himself. Its like a literal kid on Call of Duty who spazzes out over the smallest things. Dude has the empathy of a Rock.

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

sadly,,, i dont wish it... i rlly do hope for the best,,, but after this.... idkw hy they posted this. she needs to get outta there, get her own place... but then he would go even vraizer. shes not safe with him, and hes the rudest lil b- ever!!!!!! spoiled lil brat soy boy! it makes me SICK how he treats her! I would treat that beautiful ray of sunlight like the QUEEN SHE IS he is just so used to everything and her, he isnt even serious about the baby or how she feels..!!! hes all creepy and gross fetishizing her pregnancy,,, these kinda guys are gonezo. she needs to be smart and get out quietly. IDK how she does it. like SOOOOO many other amazing men out there she coud choose from. shes a ray of sunshine and patt is never ok with that,,, even when ppl like johnny or other hous e memebers seem happy hes miserable for them. this is all for publicity, he would shrivel up n die without a camera in his face 24-7 i fel rlly bad for her i dont like judgung, but ive been here since the begining of this and them.. shoulda been done a loooong time ago, i sadly dont see it lasting after the b is here. god be wwith them... lead patt to good, hopeful;y he can be fixd. this is just sad, and every vif with thme is either sad or cringe or abusive. its jus too much veronica,,,,, id get out id get a therapist and just be smart.. be safe plz

[@suziq900]

Whoa, pat you are the aggressor. I have first hand experience. Me! You guys may not agree but while trying to have a convo, lighten up a little. I personally have rage also and this was a good lesson to see what I’m doing, or behaving. She is very rational

[@aimeemercer2117]

He IS the aggressor! I was TRIGGERED when he was banging on the table to make his point and she was saying "aggressive! aggressive!!"

[@CallosZthenos]

Bruh ! I felt like I was naked staring into my neighbours headlights at times when relating to his Manic impulses. Many ppl, say this exact same thing to me at times. Like, “Woah,calm down your trippin” and I never understood. I thought my aggressive behaviour was just how men were but naaaaaaw …. I feel like a naked mole rat after this podcast ahahaha

[@DanielleFoster.]

You should change the title to 'couple therapy, gone wrong' Pat, to harsh on her. You hear her, but you're not listening or caring about her viewpoints. You are not being understanding enough about what is like to be pregnant. 💚💚VERONICA💚💚

[@shaychaney5630]

You are a normal couple with normal issues. I love that you show the audience your actual relationship, good and bad. It seems like you are both using excuses to be assholes to one another. I understand that pregnancy is difficult and being a recovering alcoholic is difficult. You are both cutting each other off when talking, nobody is listening and you are both only concerned about your own feelings instead of the feelings of your partner. That’s what I’m seeing and this is about as blunt as I can put it. You need therapy and there nothing wrong with that. Therapy has changed my life, sometimes you need a person that doesn’t know either of you to help you see the errors of your ways and a more respectful way to talk things out.

[@sabrinasimmons741]

I like Pat but he definitely has some narcissistic traits. Question why does he always cute Veronica off? that so rude! MIL are very difficult to navigate when you’re pregnant. Every emotion is intensified. I just don’t get how he don’t understand…I honestly feel bad for Veronica. I can’t imagine when the baby gets here.

[@megacatsupreme466]

He absolutely spazzes out of he even thinks someone is cutting him off, but he does it all the time. He projects all his problems onto other ppl. Fuck that guy, she needs to protect herself and her baby and get the fuck away from this piece of shit.

[@jennahall8650]

Thanks for being honest and showing us the real stuff.Dont let the haters get u down.God bless

[@shaychaney5630]

Pat, you are gaslighting Veronica and Veronica is not validating your feelings. You are aggressive and Veronica is dismissive. I don’t know you so I’m only basing my opinion on this small portion. Pat, you need to express to your mother that your wife comes first and she needs to give Veronica the same respect she gives you. Veronica should care about your feelings and you should care about hers. You are not listening, being reactive instead of listening isn’t helpful. That’s all I have based on this small portion you’ve shared with us. I go to therapy, it helps and I believe that therapy would help you both so much.

[@megacatsupreme466]

You can't rationalize with Pat... He spazzes out and throws temper tantrums constantly. Who talks to ppl like that??? Yelling at everyone around him, just shouting and dominating every situation. The best thing for them is to get a divorce and co-parent in peace. I couldn't stand his constant outbursts and immediately demanding to have a full blown therapy session because he's butthurt. He's not mentally prepared for a child, he's going to despise his son because he will get all the attention and Pat can't deal with not being the center of attention. He's an aggressive abuser. She's afraid to tell him the truth.

[@ojdidit327]

​@@megacatsupreme466you must know them pretty well since you know so much about their lives

[@megacatsupreme466]

​@@ojdidit327he happens to air much of his life on social media. Usually ppl tend to present themselves better when they're being recorded. Veronica even said he blows up on her when not recording... This is him trying to behave. You can also see how everyone else behaves around him and how they speak about him when they're not too afraid to speak a tiny fraction of the truth. This is going to be so toxic for the baby. What's the point of being married if you've been fighting for nearly 2 decades. What if they got divorced, Veronica met a new guy with average emotional maturity, and found out she's 50X happier without Pat! Life is too short to go thru it like this. Most marriages fail. Why subject yourself, your partner, your child, your family and your friends to this constant shit show?!? This affects everyone around them. The good is often the enemy of the best. Ppl stay in a shitty situation because they think it's "good" when they are literally robbing themselves or a super happy life with a supportive partner. This ain't it chief.

[@jennelizabethmiller9736]

Try to understand her more. She is doing her best. dont speak at her, listen. Your missing what shes saying because your telling her what YOU THINK shes saying. Shes entitled to her own opinions and thoughts. She could maybe be more compassionate towards you but not when your treatinf her like that.

[@sarahdenson3334]

I love what youre doing with Graceland but he is a classic narcissist. Its like arguing with a drunk person. Its never going to go anywhere or change. You are going to be an amazing mom Veronica. Im sorry but you need to end this before your child is born and becomes in the middle of the toxicity and then misses dad because hes not always there. Get into therapy ASAP is my only advice. You are turning into a mom and transforming and Pat isnt changing at all so it will be near impossible to see eye to eye

[@lynsmarie3192]

"AMEN, 🙌🏼 its my turn to be the baby now" ❤️ love it ! Pat maybe try not to condemn yourself by saying you already know it's going to happen, try being MORE positive in your thoughts about not being that way, because it shows in your eyes that you don't like that your this way. ❤

[@smokymountainangoras]

Pat has to say “ I failed” to get his words of affirmation that he needs from Veronica, before she can get the soft empathetic kindness and acts of service that she needs from Pat. Pat is so reactive, emotionally vulnerable/immature, even in body language/tone, not just his reasoning. But I see in the past month or so he is really growing, he’s got the potential to be level-headed and leading his family…. Veronica should drop the resentment in her tone, and accept the positives, let Pat’s maturity happen with the pregnancy process, it’s out of her control and relax, Gods plan. 🤰💕👨‍🍼 PS and please give Pat a stuffed animal to take care of 24/7, it will change his brain pattern-recognition to be ready for the baby and I think it will comfort him emotionally until the baby is here, he needs something to hold on to cause he’s going through a lot of changes, subconsciously it is very scary for him.

[@caitypoo.]

More podcasts like this! It shows how REAL marriage is. It shows the WORK you have to put in to stay together. It’s not always rainbows and butterflies, I feel like people can learn from this! Keep it up! ❤

[@valentinoparks1041]

Big hugs to you Veronica.

[@ashleyjones697]

I'm 25 weeks pregnant and couldn't handle watching the first 6 minutes of this video. I was feeling the tension. Too much on momma. Stress on the baby is worse than anything. Pat it will be a big adjustment, but the baby can start hearing outside of mamas belly at 26 weeks..just pay attention the "I's and Me's" Veronica's pregnancy is not going to last forever so set ur feelings aside and think about the baby and things will start to get better. I will be praying for u guys

[@megacatsupreme466]

All that shouting has the baby in constant fear full of cortisol. He's a maniac, I'm scared for her.

[@ashleyjones697]

​@@megacatsupreme466absolutely

[@paigechandler614]

Pat just looks like a huge know it all

[@lucabrazi3213]

Pat telling someone they need to see a psychologist is fuckin hilarious.

[@megacatsupreme466]

Projection 101

[@j33harbison]

Actions speak louder than im sorry and will change

[@michellelucero6654]

I really enjoyed watching this episode thank you for sharing your life and being so vulnerable. Im sure its not easy and I give you credit for always being real with your subs.

[@COEXIST-ny4db]

I really love that you two are able and willing to not only talk things out, but to also put it out for everyone to hear and see. I just have one point for BOTH of you. This has been my thought as long as I can remember (because of the way my father treated me) Both of you imagine this.... Can you even begin to imagine if BOTH of you treated and talked to each other the same way or as good as you treat complete strangers? Why is it that we can be in the grocery store and bump into a Stanger. We apologize all over the place to them. We're truly sorry. But yet we bump into each other at home and just go off on each other. "WTF ARE YOU DOING? WHY ARE YOU IN MY WAY? ETC". We're NEVER going to see that stranger again. They mean SHIT TO US in the long run. They literally mean ZERO! Yet the people that mean everything to us... The people we love and care about to the end of the earth, we treat like absolute shit? It just doesn't make sense. I truly believe if we treated those closest to us.... the ones we love the most the way we treat complete strangers, the world's would be a pretty amazing place! Our home life and relationships would be so amazing! I think we all need to work on this so much more!! And on a side note... Family should be off limits! HOWEVER..... that being said.... our spouses need to put each other above that. We need to acknowledge accept ans Honor our spouses feelings about said family members that we have issues with. Ie: When the baby comes, Pat's mom is more than likely want to be a part of babies life. Want to spend time with the baby, etc. BUT Veronica is not going to want spend time around her. So Veronica needs to accept that Pat wants her to be a certain part of babies life.YET acknowledge Veronica's feelings and he needs allow her to spend time around yet limit the amount of time of her being around so it doesn't overwhelm Her. ESPECIALLY IN THE BEGINNING WHEN HER HORMONES ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE! There's truly no controlling those! I've personally been there. And Pat... I'm on Ronnie's side about the fear thing.... the way it's explained..... it is making fun. You shouldn't even bring those things up to others. Just realize it's worrisome to her. Maybe not with you. But validate her. LET HER TALK? Please go back and watch this video and see how often you let her finish her talking. (And Pat... for the record....I side with Pat on a lot too! Just not this time!) But tomorrow, please sit down ALONE and watch this entire video and see what you think. Please put each other in the other person's place. OK you two...I love you both! You have a beautiful baby boy on the way that's FOREVER going to change your lives in the most amazing way ever. So... let's just love each other. And realize in the realm of things.... this is NOTHING! RIGHT?

[@JesusChristSaves.]

"I MAKE US VIRAL!" 😂 THATS ALL YOUVE EVER CARED ABOUT

[@jessicaosborne1842]

EVERY ONE GOES THROUGH SHIT YOU DON'T HAVE TO TALK ABOUT EVERY SINGLE THING.BUT SERIOUSLY VERONICA NEEDS TO STOP STOP MOCKING HIM IN THAT LITTLE VOICE WHERE YOU COPY what he has just sad😢

[@laurasaura4944]

Wow your showing narcissistic behaviour lol always what you feel just admit defeat agree to be more supportive towards her feelings

[@familyfirst526]

Chill out a little Pat. This is her time in life right now. I’m the same way. I have two little girls and went through this wife my wife while she was pregnant. And you gotta learn to find the middle. Stop going 0 to sixty. Stop reading into everything looking to be pissed man. She will remember this time in her life. And how you wherewith her.

[@laurasaura4944]

Shes so spot on tho you cut her off soon as she speaks then want her to explain but she probably forgetting her point coz u interupted her thats what narcissists do

[@moderator7169]

make u viral has nothing to do with ur marriage she' married to YOU not your businesss or your viral video you signed up for that not her

[@theonlystoner2645]

She fine

[@mariacperez-fondon543]

Pat you need and seek validation every second of the day...for a partner, that's emotionally impossible and mentally exhausting. Please learn to listen...you are very lucky to have Veronica..you must look afer her, especially at the moment..This is real ..😊and i know you loved each other terribly. I wish you the very best. ❤

[@MacP2990]

Perfectly said! ❤❤

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

BE NICER TO YOUR WOMAN PATT! TF IS WRONG W U??>???????///

[@alexissulley7803]

This was painful to watch. I feel like it’s because it’s relatable. We’ve all been there. But Pat, you gotta let her speak you don’t let her finish a sentence. And you’re both very defensive which is from TRAUMA. I also don’t agree with Veronica saying it would mean she’s a baby if something Pat said, had triggered her. You both have triggers. We all do. You both are valid for all your feelings. I think therapy separately, AND together, would be a great idea. ESPECIALLY AFTER YOU GUYS HAVE A BABY. It’s beautiful but it’ll get harder. Esp the first year. Therapy doesn’t mean you’re fucked up or have a fucked up relationship; it means you’re saving it and healing yourselves. I appreciate this video. It shows so much rawness and vulnerability.

[@smokymountainangoras]

Main issue: Veronica: “You’re not doormat enough.” Pat: “Stop resenting me!” Solution: Once the baby comes, neither of you getting be ‘the baby’ anymore !!!!! I think both your hearts are opening up for this immense outpouring of eternal love, and in the meantime you both need love poured into each other to occupy the space. Give each other more, more love. And also it’s time to get gentle and sentimental. Set up the baby room together, buy a stuffed animal 🧸 for the baby and hug the stuffed animal and think about your new baby being at home in your arms. 👨‍🍼

[@psychedelicvoyager9331]

Shut up dude...

[@Speach593]

Pat get your head right!

[@debbipacker4215]

I think she would be gone if she had her own money.

[@Jackklassen]

Bro shit like this should be private

[@lwalker1963]

Veronica shouldn't try to take Pat's mother out of his life!!!

[@filgil8150]

It’s gonna happen again 😂😂😂

[@HTX346]

Veronica said “Pat is being a baby” and Pat turned it on her by saying “I feel like a failure”. You’re trying to make her feel bad for being honest with you by telling you that you could do better.

[@CODCritic101]

Lol he is a baby 😅

[@megacatsupreme466]

He never hears the truth. He refuses to take criticism, but he can criticize everyone else.

[@HTX346]

I like what Pat is doing with his sober living. But damn it’s like apologizing is great, but actually changing the behavior is what it’s really about.

[@megacatsupreme466]

@@HTX346 he's so nasty, aggressive and unhinged. He needs rehab, he's a terrible representation of a sober guy. He's what they call a "dry drunk"... Maybe he's not drinking/drugging, but like he said alcoholism is a brain disease, and he's done nothing to treat it. He's arrogant, selfish, manipulative... Everything an addict is... Just not taking substances. He's got his 8 month pregnant girl hyperventilating, he's screaming at her, slapping her belly. The baby feels ALL OF THIS ENERGY. The baby is traumatized by his constant yelling. He's a self centered excuse machine. Do they plan on doing this for the rest of their lives? They aren't meant to be together. Maybe she won't have the nice home, but she'll be way more happy without him.

[@TEFFTPATTERN]

The open relationship put all the nails in the coffin of this dead marriage. You can never go back from that and you’re in denial of all your own natural feelings that you described in the video where you said she was sleeping with a guy in your own house and moaning so loud you could hear it and went to your room to curl up in the fetal position. You are right that you are being treated like a doormat. So much so that she thought she could sleep around right in your face and you’d just take it. She was right. Time to stand up for yourself and find a woman who respects you.

[@CODCritic101]

The roast of pat !

[@SharonCollier-qe5kn]

I think every mother understands what she is going through she preparing for motherhood . If he could just understand that and put her feelings first , she growing your son or daughter give her a break .

[@megacatsupreme466]

No way, Pat comes first in Pat's world.. Always.

[@BIGBrand815]

Pat & V love the content. Congrats on the baby. 🤙

[@Gapedtoothedbitch]

I sense knit picking. Y’all gotta pick your battles. I hear the stubbornness on both ends lol. ❤ you’ve been together a long time, so I know this is normal. It reminds me of me and my partner, and I tend to be a Veronica and dig and be so expectant of my partner. I’ve ALWAYS respected you two and how RAW you show your relationship. This is not for everyone and I appreciate and thank you both for doing this. ❤ I wish you both an amazing journey for your child.

[@tylercade4140]

This is why I don't want kids lol

[@dellahicks7231]

Been married 38 years now. When my husband and I are asked what we have learned, the biggest thing, learn how to argue. A few basics; no name calling. Words can be weaponized, and never be removed from the soul. No comparisons, as in "You're just like your mom". It is hurtful on two prongs and serves no purpose. And lastly, finish an argument with no holdover. Meaning, two weeks from now we don't bring up this argument. This argument is done once we paet ways. Period. There are more, however those are our highlights!

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

I REALLLYYY hope you guys STOP ths fully by the time bb is born..... seriously.. this is BEYOND UNHEALTHY PATT TAKE A FKN CHILL PILL TONE ER DOWN OTS OT ABOUT U ANYMORE AND ITS NOT GNA BE TIME TO STEP DOWN FOR UR PREGO! WIFE! AND NEW CHILD! this doesnt look good or sound good like we all get ot patt, YOU HAVE VEERYHTING BUT STILL SO SO MISERABLE>>> its time to start being gtreatful and nicer,,, rllly DONT look good]]\ with LOVE TOUGH LOVE

[@dadalovesshannon4103]

May I Suggest Praying Together With An Open Heart...I'm Not Talking About Religion, Just Asking God To Help You 2 Understand Eachothers Needs And To Help You Guide Your Family As One...The Child Is Coming And That's Gonna Make Or Break You 2...I Wish All 3 Of You The Best And It's Gonna Be Hard But Putting God First Can Really Make A Difference...They Praying Together As You Wake And As You Goto Bed Together...Just Advice Guys, ❤ U Both

[@BeccaHasThoughts]

Serious question..... Has either one of you done Alanon? Or CODA? I've been in recovery a long time and, while it taught me how to live life without substances, it didn't teach me how to handle relationships (especially with other alcoholics). Just a thought. You guys are beautiful together and have created a beautiful child. Give him the blessing of happy, healthy parents. 💖

[@michelebergman4336]

That mother in law thing sounds awful! Get family therapy to make BOUNDARIESfor the mother in law situation

[@bee2DaRad]

Why is it only the females thats picking someone’s side??? Their several comments telling her to run and telling Pat he’s the aggressor and it’s only from females. I just don’t understand why people are on here picking sides. These videos are only being posted for positive advice. So if you’re picking sides then think of your own well-being as well as others like you should have before watching this video

[@damionpauliano1]

Christmas 🎄 is over you can take down the tree now ya knocks

[@megacatsupreme466]

Gotta make a Graceland resident get on that

[@cindyd.554]

You both should each go a walk alone, and have a talk with God. Tell him everything, yell and get it out until you cry, you will get it out, then come back and talk. Don't come back angry or ticked off, that is someone who hasn't spoken to God, and give each other grace ... and dude you haven't, he can't fix you either. She can't speak, you snarl in with your cry about you stuff, get a grip and try what I have suggested. You can't bring a child into that, at all, so you have to buck up like now, I am sorry, and you can't run either. If you open yourself to God and talk/yell in the forest, he will have your back whatever it ends up to be. She is doing everything to help you, I hope you realize that she is loving you, you need to be loving her back. 🙂❤🙏 7:35 ✌️🇨🇦

[@kelly95003]

Recommended reading: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Awesome book on understanding how to communicate with your partner in an effective and healthy way.

[@debbipacker4215]

Just because a baby arrives, he does matter. You dont just kick the dad around because óf a new baby. He is just as important as the mother and the baby.

[@CODCritic101]

Bro she is so sick of you dawg

[@megacatsupreme466]

He's tired of this even though she's the pregnant one. He can't handle the truth. He tries to guilt trip her. I can't understand why ppl kiss his ass on here. He's a dickhead.... And a baby.

[@JesusChristSaves.]

Bro, I'm sick of him and his BS and I'm not married to him 😅

[@laurasaura4944]

I feel like this is a therapy session but its good lol shows ppl that is good to talk things out glad yous are speaking on things and hopefully u come to a understanding of eachothers feelings and move on and do better all marrages go through this and its definitely harder when pregnant and being in such surroundings makes things more stressful but yous can get past it somthing kept you together for 20 yr

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

pattt.......... what ya drinkin> why did ya need to drink outta the can,,, then the water bottle.. not judgdin, jus wtf up w that eh

[@arieldean4272]

I watch all of your guys videos and I am a fan but this is out of control and in no way a healthy safe relationship Veronica deserves way better the gaslighting the anger and aggression issues pat has are just not okay I really hope now that the baby is here Veronica starts to see that pat will never do the real work on himself that he need to in order to have actual healthy relationships

[@JesusChristSaves.]

Yikes...

[@graciebester6886]

No she’s holding your baby and just wants you to support her ur just mean she said .. listen to her

[@jennygarcia7153]

You realize a lot when ur pregnant about how people treat u and how it’s so hard for them to be nice

[@StacyNew]

I think V needs to rewatch this so she can see things from a different POV

[@laurasaura4944]

Very much doubt u have only had 4 situations in 7 months hahah

[@moderator7169]

37:00 i don't matter anymore so they abandon their family? never heard that bs in my life

[@j33harbison]

My husband sounds like Pat and then get loud. Smh

[@ekb3277]

This is real life shit! Thank you for sharing!

[@laurasaura4944]

You saying at 38 mins is what shes trying to say lol

[@amys76]

I wish I could communicate with my man like fhis….you guys have something special & Wolfe is lucky to have you two as his Mom & Dad! Hang in there! Peace & Love, Patience & Tolerance!! ❤️✌🏻

[@megacatsupreme466]

There's nothing special about constant arguing for 18 years. Some ppl just shouldn't be together. She doesn't want to live this way. Nobody does. You have to walk on eggshells around Pat... Make sure he always gets to talk first and talk the most. God forbid he even perceives you're going to speak over him.

[@angelaberumen5726]

Is far along she is the baby can hear everything they learn the Mama's voice and the people around a lot

[@megacatsupreme466]

That baby is terrified of him constantly shouting and banging on her stomach.

[@aimeemercer2117]

​@megacatsupreme466 I'm terrified of him...God, he's SO FUCKING LAME! It's The Pat Show😂😅 100%, ALL of the time. I can not believe this shit is real. Like, I go between HATING him and feeling bad for her dumbass, to thinking this is all for views and shit like a shitty reality show. Pat WISHES he was Mark Laita! He's like Tiger King/Carole Fucking Baskin with that man! He stole his garbage "learning to lose" ideas from Mark. The off-camera guy "interviewing" them, the font of his "logo", etc. I fucking hate Pat. What a fucking🤡 And don't get me started on Johnny😂...

[@laurasaura4944]

What why should she tell u to say merry xmas to ur mam lol

[@JesusChristSaves.]

You're nuts bro 😲

[@matthewthomas161]

Pat is the king of gaslighting

[@CODCritic101]

The most important emotion is love pat !

[@LoriWolfeRealtor]

It’s not all about you Pat… stop being so passive & aggressive, rude, selfish & mean. Are you narcissistic? ( I don’t think so but I hope not) I hope you will change after you meet your baby. Marriage is hard it IS ALOT! But if you’re trying to do better and be better for your family then you will. You need to control your emotions more and try to lead by example. ❤❤❤❤ Think of her feelings more than your own. Your feelings don’t matter this much Pat. She is carrying your baby…. Be Nice. Veronica try to have some quiet time I understand wanting to have peace. Especially last trimester! ❤

[@IvanVikktor715]

this is normal pregnancy stuff... its tough man.. we lost an infant and immediately got pregnant again and had 2 years of this... keep up the dialogue

[@eviep7134]

I said something before I'll say it again a little differently this time!. VERONICA you have your HANDS FULL!!!!🙏💯♥️😉😎🌞

[@carlyq3488]

A baby isnt going to make this relationship better yikes i see bigger troubles ahead! Hard to believe he is the lead of this Rehab smh...

[@carlyq3488]

My comment was based on the first 5 minutes of the podcast that you have taken out now for some reason. But having watched this whole podcast your lives are very stressful...tough work doing rehab...lots of people around all the time....always putting out fires it makes having a healthy relationship hard because your spouse is your safe place but when life is too stressful they are also the person you can unload on. I wish you the best im old as dirt but watching your videos feels like a train wreck alot....

[@andrearoman7968]

Every single time they air their shit out Pat will say how he feels and how hes not allowed to have feelings. Then veronica will basically rattle off the traumas he uses as excuses in a super mocking way and condensing way, totally validating what Pat just said about her not holding space. It's always the same shit. Yall should really consider a therapist .

[@MacP2990]

Praying for your little family guys! Stay strong and I know you guys love each other relationships are tough sometimes, but yall got this! P.S. can’t wait to see wolf omg ❤💜

[@jamiezych8310]

I love that you guys are so real and legit 💕🙌🏼🙌🏼 it’d be so cool to link up with you guys and talk about grace land ❤️🙌🏼 love what you do pat!!

[@Anangelfromabove]

Everyone does the best with the knowledge they have. But Pat, give V her time to be emotional or whatever to be honest because she’s going through a lot right now being pregnant. Have the most grace for her you possibly can.

[@JamieHaskins-nj3ph]

Yeah, thank you guys so much I mean God you remind me of me and my husband unfortunately I gotta say I gotta take her outside a little bit because he kept jumping over her and interrupting her a lot and then he said it’s not him at her but both

[@kerryfischer9879]

It’s like performance art but, you know, real.

[@lwalker1963]

Veronica can't put her g d phone down, that's so f'ing rude!!!!

[@cortneyfouts4150]

Dude. Pat is a trip.

[@MikesWorldyQue]

How bout this chick tho..this pat dudes pouring his heart out shes rolling her eyes,smurkn..txtn or doing sum shiit on her phone,playing wit her hair...super dis-respectful...her complete lack of facial expression and attention shows she could careless about pat💯💯💯

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

HE NEEDS TO GET A FKN GRIp

[@jerryduford3254]

WASNT NOTIFIED OF THIS AND I PUT A NOTIFICATION ON IT IM SOOO MAD I MISSED THIS THANKS KZbin 😡

[@DcDc-h9y]

Pat, I got you brah. Nice headphones

[@kjfgkgfkfkjhgjkgkj]

Lmao its like couples therapy

[@MikesWorldyQue]

23:59 awwwwwkward......

[@ojdidit327]

Veronica is so much like me its ridiculous lol

[@CODCritic101]

Delete this lol

[@JesusChristSaves.]

Pat needs EVERYTHING to be on video - cause even "bad press is good press" - or should I say, he's obsessed with himself and this channel. He's a narcissist

[@dsplz7274]

❤

[@Barela_]

I wish I could have watched this whole podcast listening to her toxic shit sounds like what I live with everyday Pat can't have his own emotions or go through his own shit because when he does he's the bad guy I go through this same toxic shit everyday day it's such BULLSHIT

[@zacharybaker9605]

I really hope pats not drinking again..

[@JesusChristSaves.]

Oh he's not, but damn is he on the edge...

[@MacP2990]

He is just naturally like this! He is very hardcore 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@zacharybaker9605]

You can tell with the baby coming he's on another planet just trying to prepare himself, he's got this just sincerely worried.@@MacP2990

[@jennygarcia7153]

He’s right you married him. And the hurt you feel is a clear indicator of the mistake your made. Marriage without Gods principals doesn’t grow. My mom made that mistake and I Followed her example to love someone who can’t love Atleast not yet They can’t love because they’ve never had true love. They treat others how their parents treated them. And we sign up for it daily. I hope the baby helps heal his inner child wounds. May Jesus heal your relationship. 🙏🏼

[@NLEGawka]

Hey is that baby yours Patrick? She sleeps with other men

[@DanielleFoster.]

You sound like an incel.

[@CODCritic101]

lol it ain’t his and she’s got a free house and a job 😂

[@megacatsupreme466]

​@@DanielleFoster.No they had an open relationship. She was fucking other men, admittedly. Incel? You 12 or something.

[@SuckerFreeGear]

@@megacatsupreme466 Calling men "Incels" is the preemptive insult women throw before they get slut shamed. He's in an open relationship and someone questions the letigitamcy of the pregnancy of course only a promiscuous woman would see a problem with that question.

[@MikesWorldyQue]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯😂😂

[@toned___foo4440]

U need to to replace Veronica wit n other female cast member cause she just kills tha vibes n stays on phone 🤳📱 this iz bad podcasting

[@filgil8150]

This is scripted

[@heathbush8530]

PAT DANIELLE IS PREGNANT WITH YOUR BABY WTF YOU GONNA DO ABOUT THAT