New Swiftie Experiences loml - Taylor Swift Reaction

[@lmowle]

5:46 poor guy when he says if it gets sadder he’s not gonna make it…

[@randystalnaker6700]

A con man sells a fool a get love quick scheme....just brutal😢

[@IanHillan]

Unpopular opinion: paternity testing these songs detracts from their universal power and emotion. Taylor has said dozens of times that her hope is that when people hear her songs, it becomes about their relationships, not hers. Which is why, as a 62 year old man, her songs can bring me to tears and joy and take me on the journey with her.

[@mallika5859]

And it's like people don't understand the concept of a composite sketch. Smh

[@valerienewton908]

I heard Taylor say this and I absolutely feel it! I am 64 and her songs move me to tears regularly! This song was totally written about me getting back with my high school boyfriend 5 years ago and it did not work out at all! He was the love of my life!

[@rebeccabee4718]

"I don't wanna process this" I absolutely felt this! Great reaction!

[@dethrowegamer1715]

Thanks for the comment! Im glad you enjoyed my reaction. I really liked this song and I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

[@betty848]

It's most likely about both Matty and Joe. There are obvious references to both. The first part screams Matty, towards the end it's more Joe coded. Imo it can be understand as if she was in such a bad place after the break up that she was the "perfect victim" for Matty. He promised her everything she always wanted from and with Joe. As she immediately got with Matty she never could process her relationship ending. So after the desaster with Matty she had to mourn and deal with 2 break ups at once and is realising at the end that after all Joe was the loss of her life. The prologue gives great insight and basically explains the same.

[@josefinasoderholm6488]

I think this is about Matty. Al through her relationship with Joe Matty was love bombing Taylor (told her she was the love of his life, shit talked her under the table) he promised her everything she’s ever wanted. But when she left Joe and went to Matty, none of the promises was true. When she says something counter fit was dead she’s realizing that none of it was reel.

[@Laura-rm6us]

This is about Matty and he doesn’t deserve this song. It’s gorgeous

[@louismarquis4220]

The part of rekindled flames gives it away about Matty.. pretty sure they had a fling or knew each other before Joe briefly right?

[@jillianstamatelos9459]

@@louismarquis42202014! So mentioning decades and stuff like that in other songs are Matty too

[@darrenbatten4658]

I think it is Joe he wore suits also and he is a coward.

[@annietrahan7322]

I think some parts are Joe and other parts are Matty

[@PandoraStolen]

​@louismarquis4220 and the "should of let it stayed buried" that makes no sense in regards to Joe but perfect sense for Matty.

[@DanielleInTheWild]

Definitely about Matty (many clues, one of which is the suit and tie, but also the 'childhood' connection). And honestly... the passion. The Joe songs are sad in a very... sane way. Sometimes a little anger coming through. But the Matty songs are like... it was short, you lied, we were going to get married, you're a low life, and you BROKE me. That said, I believe there could be a little of the same sentiments shared between the two. And just like everything she offered us, there's a little of everything in every 'corner' of it all.

[@jillianstamatelos9459]

I also fully believe this is about Matty . Rekindled flames , should have let it stay buried . VALIANT ROAR , and also I feel like Joe avoided marriage but Matty promised her everything and then couldn’t give it to her …

[@ashton9757]

This is about Matty. There are so many pics of him in a suit and a tie and how the relationship was momentary and it was quick like the kind of relationships where you get so caught up in it and you talk about marriage and babies and she knew it was dying because his words weren’t matching his actions and he has the somber eyes. He got her by telling her she was the love of his life and in that legendary moment, she was.

[@teamruby42]

Oh what a valiant roar your bland good bye the coward said he was a lion Is all of us silently crying in our cars while pounding the steering wheel................dammit she writes EPIC lyrics

[@NYandAZ]

Definitely about Matty 100%. She said it in the beginning of this song “your suit and tie” (same as TSMWEL: Jehovah’s Witness suit). He completely love bombed her from 2014-2023. She and Joe broke up, she ran to Matty. (“fresh out the slammer”). Matty is the tattooed man in the songs, he was an alcoholic, took pills, they wrote letters to each other for many years. She basically gave him the key to her heart and exactly what to say to her to make her fall in love with him because she confided in him about the troubles she and Joe had. Matty truly did talk extremely poorly/disrespectfully about Taylor during an interview he gave that was highly inappropriate (while they were dating!) but totally denying that he said any of it. Its literally still in print. 🙈 It’s such a beautiful song for a really awful person who doesn’t deserve this beautiful sounding song. He was absolutely her plan B after Joe. They talked about marriage, kids, everything. She was extremely excited. So she went through 2 huge breakups at the beginning of her Era’s Tour. No one really knows when she and Joe broke up (we think during Covid 2020-2021 due to the songs on Folklore that were supposed to be fictional). “You’re Losing Me” is a tie to her line in another song on this album that she says that she stopped CPR, a callback to that. Most of this album is about Matty. All but 3 are for Joe, 2 for Kim/Kanye and 3+/- about Travis. 2 definitely about him, and he’s indirectly mentioned at the ending of a few, too. I’m shocked that this album was basically for Matty. No one was privy to the fact that they stayed in touch after their rumored relationship in 2014. She sings that she wove him into many poems over the years. Knowing that “The 1975” has a hit song “Robbers”, a lot of songs from Reputation (and Evermore and Folklore) immediately came rushing into my mind. Ready for its bridge, the opening lines. Ugh. 🙈😫

[@shelleynull6532]

This song completely jacked me up

[@Suprachiasmatic]

“Who’s gonna stop us from waltzing back into rekindled flames when we know the steps anyway?” That isn’t about Joe. You can’t call a 6 year relationship “counterfeit”.

[@LittleMissEnchanted]

Yes you can. I had one.

[@fevienkayfloreta5410]

you know.. many times before, Taylor has been mixing in ideas/situations from different relationships into ONE SONG. Like what she did for Stay, stay, stay or I Did something bad or Getaway Car...where she will talk about an ex for the 1st half and then ANOTHER EX for the next half of the song.

[@shilohivy4590]

It’s incredible how she paints the picture with words so clearly. After this devastation she was able to actually sing these words with out cracking the fk up. She’s a genius. A poet. Matty really hurt her.

[@whiterabbittarotvideo]

Magic 8 Ball, will I ever stop crying at this song? "Shyuh. As IF." -- Thank you again for featuring a Swiftie in your Taylor Swift reactions, having someone to answer your questions right there saves a lot of "I don't know, tell me if I'm wrong in the comments;" because really, who wants a comment section full of "You're Wrong"? Thank you also for even being willing to dive into the more emotional stuff. We maybe want to give you a breather before we introduce you to Track 5s though. Well done, and as always, "more, please!"

[@dethrowegamer1715]

Yea I really liked this one and I will def react to more TS.

[@RhondaBush-fu3we]

This is straight up Matty Healey! She would never call Joe a coward He did not leave her Holy Ghost-Matty ghosted her after a month of dating and talking about marriage and babies

[@brandon.c85]

I cry. I cry every single time. Great reaction!!!

[@paulafelipe1694]

This song makes me cry

[@dethrowegamer1715]

It is an amazing song. I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

[@gaylenwoof]

I became a swiftie about a year ago. My fave prior to Taylor was Metallica. I've subscribed and am curious to see your reactions of more of this album. I love all 31 songs on TTPD, but some of my faves are Down Bad, The Bolter, How Did It End, and Who's Afraid of Little Old Me. (BTW: pay attention to the lyric video word presentation on that last one. It's like another layer of meaning if you pay attention to fond boldness and timing.)

[@dethrowegamer1715]

Thanks so much for the comment! I really liked this song and I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

[@mimimatters]

🫶 appreciate your reaction. I’ll look for more videos with your Swifty friend. I’ve watched a lot of reactions and I’m really liking yours. Having a Swifty with knowledge and a newbie learning is 🔥. I’ll definitely be following for more reactions. If you’re a metal head you’ll probably like her Reputation Tour Live videos. She’s such a versatile artist and she touches several genres. 🫶

[@jessicaburns6108]

Definitely about matty

[@bailliewilliams9335]

"show me the a" hahahah

[@mistyparsons3606]

I'd love to see more Rep Stadium Tour reactions - intro with ready for it, don't blame me, king of my heart; 1989 World Tour - we are never ever getting back together, you are in love, out of the woods... grammy museum versions of wildest dreams and blank space are really good; long pond studio versions - exile, my tears ricochet, this is me trying, invisible string.... so yeah... any of em really... i personally still love all her earlier songs too but i'm a country fan too, so... but i'd do the other ones first...

[@dethrowegamer1715]

Thanks so much for the comment and suggestions! I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

[@mimimatters]

That’s hilarious 💀 show me the “a” 😂

[@dethrowegamer1715]

She lets me have it when I mess up reading stuff 😑 lol

[@susannahdollar8069]

Matty song definitely

[@P4-Swift-Watch]

Beautifully sad lyrics. Loml is one of my favorite Taylor Swift songs. I think it's not about Joe, but about a guy she first met over 10 years before and they were off and on in between. Taylor says they were just kids, back then, in her lyrics. I think that this guy may have had issues that kept them apart. 10+years later, she believed he had grown up, and was ready to try again. Unfortunately noone told Taylor there were still issues. This guy wasn't strong enough to fight for their love, or put up with negative media, so he pannicked, ghosted her, and denied their love. 😢 A few parts may reflect Taylors disappointment in the 6 year relationship with Joe ending, thinking they too could have had it all, love, marriage, children. I think most of the lyrics point to the other guy. Happily, Taylor found Travis Kelce.❤ I don't want to say who I think the "guy" is, except it's not Joe, as they were not kids when they met. 😢

[@StarBuck-v8k]

Most likely about Matty. Get love quick scheme isn’t someone you’ve been with nearly 7 yrs. “Mr Steal your girl” also is not a song about long term relationship, it is about leaving the one you are with to be with the guy who is love-bombing you. Going from one kiss to getting married isn’t a long term relationship that never got married, that’s a real quick let’s get married relationship.

[@StarBuck-v8k]

So long London and how did it end. Track 5’s.

[@vanilla6888]

it's abou matty healy

[@christinagranados503]

❤️

[@daisybinotto3027]

I feel its totally about joe

[@yettykitty4893]

Taylor chooses to use the word “waltzing” right in the beginning. The song “Peter” is about Matty and has the timing of a waltz. loml is about Matty. Too many other reasons to list.

[@karmaficionado1163]

I thought this was about Matt Healey? This girl doing this Swiftie is saying it's about Joe? I'm confused.

[@kimharrelson5490]

It's not about Joe...it's Matty

[@katiname123]

If you want it even more sad, try Ronan 😢

[@emmavink]

No no, this is definitely not about Joe. It's about Matty Healy. Joe didn't love bomb her then drop her like a hot potato when he got what he wanted. Matty wears the suit and tie in so many music videos and performances. He's know for it. Taylor has never referred to Joe as a boy in any of the songs she's written about him. Joe didn't promise marriage and babies and then never followed through with it. Joe wasn't a coward and Taylor hasn't said anywhere else that she was ever embarrassed being with him. I think she calls Healy the loss of her life because he made hints and promises to her over 10 years in his music and Taylor thought he was it. Then Healy refused to give up his drug addiction, used Taylor as a trophy, cheated on her and then ghosted her once he had taken what he wanted. Taylor thought Healy was endgame and she probably threw away her relationship with Joe because she kept writing songs about Healy the entire time she and Joe were dating.

[@ashryvern6485]

I mean London Boy is referencing Joe so she definitely has referred to Joe as a boy. I don’t care about who the songs about, just wanted to clarify

[@mirthyRicardo]

I also think this is about Matty

[@emmavink]

@@ashryvern6485 that is a good point. I do believe it's the only song she does this in though, and it was fairly early on in their relationship. Also, I can't recall her ever calling Joe a boy in a derogatory way...whereas she rips Matty to shreds with the word across this album 😂😂😂

[@emmavink]

@@ashryvern6485 yeah, I tend not to care too much about who songs are about either. But I do care when the reactor guesses incorrectly and the comparatively innocent Joe gets accusations attached to him that he didn't earn. I was also quite miffed with Taylor when she said in All Too Well (10 minute version) that Jake Gyllenhaal only kept dating much younger women after Taylor... Because it just wasn't true 🤷 There has to be some accountability between lyrics and reality if any reactor is going to start making judgements as if they know.

[@TG-mu5ix]

⁠@@emmavinkBut, All Too Well was originally on Red, which came out in 2012. She apparently wrote the longer version back then also. So, at that time, Jake Gyllenhaal had gone on to date another young woman Taylor’s age. Since then, his girlfriends have not been as young.

[@alinawallauer9699]

❤❤

[@kateisgreat85]

Is the A in the room with us? 🤣

[@dethrowegamer1715]

She had me there... XD

[@chloexelyse]

This is notttt about Joe, it's about Matty.

[@Einarx0613]

Hello 👋🏻 can you please react to RM’s new album “Right Place, Wrong Person” out on Friday May 24th. RM is a rapper and member of BTS. The Tracklist of has been dropped : 01. Right Place, Wrong Person 02. Nuts 03. out of love 04. Domodachi (feat. Little Simz) 05.? (Interlude) 06. Groin 07. Heaven 08. LOST! (MAIN TRACK) 09. Around the world in a day (feat. Moses Sumney) 10. ㅠㅠ (Credit Roll) 11. Come back to me

[@lesliemalloy6310]

I think it is about Joe…. He was safe….

[@emmavink]

It's really bizarre to me that everyone keeps on saying that Taylor put on 6 years. As if Joe didn't. What the actual fk? From Reputation, Lover. Folklore, Evermore and Midnights, Taylor has hidden context referring to Matty Healy. Which was her entire relationship with Joe. Can anyone really blame Joe for being depressed or pulling away or resenting her sometimes or never feeling secure in his relationship either the entire time? She was basically emotionally cheating on Joe most of the time they were together. And it's tough for me to say, because there are do many things I love about Taylor. But she did Joe super dirty and the only relief or redemption she has is that she only wrote maybe 3 or 4 songs about him of the entire 31 tracks and she wishes him love in the future.

[@erikahutchcraft1742]

Because women have biological issues that men don’t!!!!! Men can have babies and families forever, 6 years doesn’t mean anything for them. 35 + is considered a “geriatric pregnancy” and you are considered high risk and often fave fertility issues Understand now? Unfortunately women have biology to deal with it’s just a fact that sucks!!

[@Suprachiasmatic]

I don’t think Joe is innocent in it but neither is Taylor, she certainly was emotionally cheating on him and she wrote about it often.

[@emmavink]

@@Suprachiasmatic for sure I agree. Any relationship is a two way street. What annoys me though is that people act like Taylor was just responding to Joe making her feel insecure. I call BS and argue that this is what holding on to Matty did to Joe. And of course you emotionally pull away if you don't feel fully emotionally safe with someone. Sadly, the worst thing I think Joe did was letting the relationship go on so long when he knew he couldn't fully commit because he didn't feel secure. Obviously I don't mean that he was perfect in every other way. No one is 😢

[@Suprachiasmatic]

@@emmavink I think Taylor is guilty of letting the relationship go on too long too because she didn’t want to face the media’s and her haters’ jokes about her when it ended. Her relationship’s are always fodder and she didn’t want to give them even more fuel. Plus her fans were SO into what they thought that relationship was that I think she let shame keep her there way too long.

[@emmavink]

@@Suprachiasmatic I totally get that and it's a very natural thing to do. We've all stayed in relationships, friendships, platonic relationships with toxic family members, etc., out of shame and embarrassment. I just think it needs to be acknowledged that this came from both sides. I've been listening to Lover a bit more recently during my TTPD journey because Lover was the first full TS I really let myself get into (in 37 now and honestly, before 2019 I was still super busy with my MA and working and just stuck to my favourite artists at that point). Anywho, my point is that we need to look at a song like Afterglow to get a hint that Taylor really hurt Joe badly less than 2 years into their relationship. I suspect this was partly because she was still writing about Matty and partly because she kept accusing Joe of stuff he wasn't doing because of her serious trust issues after John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal. Of course Joe played a part in the relationship ending too. But to pretend it was a one way street is so deeply unfair 😢