New York Men Are OPTING OUT of $1,000 Dates

[@DeeDeesReactions]

Should men spend a lot of money on dates?

[@chrischreative2245]

Not $1,000. That’s insane. Talk on the phone a couple times after you get her number and if that’s goes well you know after a couple dates. $160 at most

[@househeadspeakz]

How about NO!!!

[@kennethclemons3415]

Nope!

[@terrydow9442]

@@DeeDeesReactions No 🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫. It’s not worth it and I won’t GO down that route

[@AlexTheLi0n]

lol 😂you already know the answer to this question.

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

Only a fool leads with his pockets. Never give a woman something she has not earned. If you do, she'll only view you as a trick or a simp.

[@dannybaldwin7343]

😎playa 101 😎

[@AlexTheLi0n]

☝🏾

[@southernbellefiguresTN]

Literally!!!!

[@samboo18fuksdogs1]

All they want is tricks anyway sooooo

[@bigslim5700]

facts

[@triniborn76]

The shaming tactics are starting to run dry! I rather be called broke than to spend $1k for a date! 😂 Crazy and ridiculous!

[@mattyrock2467]

never did and never will

[@alexguity20]

As a native New Yorker I been opt out of dating cause these days it’s just a waste of time and money to go out on dates with someone that wasn’t interested in you in the first place.

[@coachc125]

I am single man living in NYC and I would never spend a thousand dollars on a date or for dating. I could use that money to save, invest, pay bills or go on an overseas trip. All of these things would have a better impact on my life than to spend it on a random woman.

[@Universe7883]

Who the hell is dumb enough to spend $1,000.00 on a date. LMAO Hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DreadBoi504]

You’d be surprised….which is very unfortunate. Waaaay too many simps out here.

[@haddingtoniangcp2464]

Overtime. 4 dates should get you hitting the $1000 mark

[@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997]

$1000 ???? Gotta be the new city of simps

[@Seven_Aint_Nine]

I don't it's one date. Maybe 3 -4 dates

[@LanierHale-oq3dr]

If a woman cares 2 "go Dutch" I am all ears unless she is hideous with hygiene issues & multiple baby daddies (out of wedlock) -------- [first date]

[@cedricmiller4370]

Wow what's going on up there in New York city 😂

[@Reglaized]

@@Seven_Aint_NineThat’s too much, even for 3-4 dates. One drink, that’s it. First of all, this doesn’t work to get laid. It can even have the opposite effect because you can come off as desperate. If you are looking for something long term, it is a terrible idea to start these habits early because she is developing those expectations. Comfortable people stay wealthy by not splurging like this.

[@Seven_Aint_Nine]

@@Reglaized I think it depends on what the woman is used to, on addition to how confident the man is. A lot of times men try to overcompensate with money to show that they are not like other men c

[@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht]

Chile… my husband of 28 years didn’t really have $25 to go out in the early 90s. BUT HE DO NOW!!! I was right there in the struggle and we had a wonderful wonderful time dating!! We had a ball!!

[@tracer073]

That’s awesome congrats

[@matthew81p]

ny guy here - we grabbing passports over here

[@bl1429]

A friend of mine introduced me to my West African born, and breed wife, over thirty years ago. She lived ten miles away from me at the time.

[@jamesharper3140]

Bruh 🎯 716 ✈️

[@MorpheusReign1133_Flybrofly]

Facts left in October 2024 Now Living near the Beach 🏖️ In Colombia 🇨🇴 Gym Beach ,Travel, Shop Read ,Save money Repeat ,.. living the abundant life an Abundance of women that give zero f**ks about a Brothers height .. @ 59 I’m done I’m Retired tried to set Black Women up on the good life but to them I came up short now it’s $8.00 for coffee dates and can actually smash anytime I want .. and these chicks here on the todays show are trying to be Escorts without smashing I respect the escort more then these other chicks because she knows the assignment and moves accordingly and she’s got the whole day with you or the whole weekend.these other buss downs need to keep it moving ..brothers get your passports and tourist visa’s and your Retirement Visas

[@EvanzHeaven]

Im going to Asia for the first time soon....gonna be hard to come back lol

[@jamesharper3140]

@ 👍🏾😆👍🏾✈️

[@quincywright2821]

1k for a FIRST date?🤨She BETTER be HAPPY wit a coffee date and a hot dog and keep it PUSHIN!😅💯

[@Brealfrank25]

For a $1,000 we better have enough groceries for the next 2 months at least...

[@edercortes1960]

Exactly I know my bachelor ass can use it for a Costco run and it would last me 2 months tops

[@stayflyking]

New gen is wildin' out here in nyc. These chicks are just angry birds anyhow 😂

[@darriusjordan6229]

$1,000!?!? Boy, ya'll cats have gone crazy.😅😅😅

[@ianditwin7443]

1,000!!! How about opting out of 100 dates

[@Michael-z1u]

Leave the women from new York, Atlanta, and LA alone!!!

[@tracer073]

You forgot Miami, that’s sugar daddy city

[@OL_Skool_Swole]

And Chicago! 😂

[@former-paconstablewiggs354]

And Philadelphia!😂

[@Michael-z1u]

@OL_Skool_Swole damn the women in chi-town like that too? I would think they would be more down to earth with all the killings and everything going on.

[@Michael-z1u]

@former-paconstablewiggs354 at this point men in the United States might have to find decent in places like Montana, Vermont, and other small stay, and towns.

[@Andre_The_Millennial]

In my country, 1 USD is worth around $7 of mine. So 1000 USD is around $7000. Average rent is around $4000. Imagine having to spend more than some people's rent on a date? MADNESS.

[@gh00stbeard]

I don't care if it IS New York where average cop salary is $455K/yr. Who is paying $1,000 for a PROSPECT?!?!🤣🤣🤣

[@Mental_Alchemist]

NYPD cops do not make close to that much 😂

[@MJreacts2K]

@@Mental_Alchemisthopefully he meant $45.5K because $455K is what neurosurgeons make 😂

[@easytiger3302]

Average cops make about $50K

[@AT-ts1se]

He must talking about that OT that chick put in disguise as sexual favors 😂😂

[@dave3987]

Cops make incentive bonuses from tickets, arrests, drug, property confiscation from police auctions

[@Rock-d1k]

There are plenty of activities that are free in NYC. Central Park is free. The purpose of the date is to get to know the person. Grown women can pay their own bills. I dated a woman in NYC and she took me to Central Park. On another date we walked across the Brooklyn Bridge. We rode the Staten Island Ferry ⛴️, all free. A great view of the Statue of Liberty.

[@SMSSweeneyPodcast]

Even if you decide to spend money. New York is very cost friendly when it comes to going out. You can have a damn good time for $200.

[@tracer073]

@@SMSSweeneyPodcastyou could have a good time for $0

[@bl1429]

A fool and his money are soon parted. 💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸

[@JBoomer-pi6ml]

The Man Protects and Provides for his Wife, the MRS. Many "Modern Women" are clueless when it comes to relationships.

[@CherubimFire]

If a woman expects $1k spent on the first date...what would she expect on the 2nd or 3rd = $2K and then $3K.. Will the price tag level out? That means she will never be satisfied..always digging for more..and more

[@lilmobop]

no MAN is spending that much on a date because most people don't have a $1000 saved let alone spend on a date AND where the funk are they taking them that cost a G??!!!! I'm calling BS!

[@lgee9027]

Exactly!!!😂😂😂😂

[@user-io6hj6lf1w]

I've lived in NY for many years... never ever spent anywhere near that.

[@j.baldwin3012]

I will never understand the appeal of living in New York. It seems like you're getting charged top dollar for everything. It's like taking an Uber black everywhere you go, even if you're just going to the store for a bag of chips or skittles.

[@MisterMKelly]

Preach!!

[@hezekiahWilliams-j1t]

Wow this is crazy

[@dave3987]

Waste of time, effort, money and energy.

[@rhammond1963]

SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

[@mr.dennis5503]

Yes, I can afford to... NO, I'm not going to!!

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

If you're a simp, it cost that much.

[@colinscrypto3307]

Inflation killed dating. Especially, when there are apps for *that* and you can set your own price,

[@lilmobop]

what man spends a G on ANY DATE GDFOH... !!!

[@DLCOrganization]

Welcome back, DeeDee!

[@carlcwms]

I’m not even purchasing her a drink if seems uninterested. If the conversation is going well, I’ll order me one and ask if you want one. If I suggest a date and she won’t go because it’s not a fancy location, I’ll invite a different woman.

[@llend07]

Plus, they’re not asking Pookie to do anything while he’s getting the cookies

[@tracer073]

I must be pookie cause there’s no way in hell, earth or heaven I’m spending that much on a date and I still get the cookie for free

[@alishaameen1955]

if you’re not ready for real change, skip the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s too much for most people.

[@KingDanny9]

What's the book about?

[@SupremeNerd]

Someone is always advertising this book. If it was that good it'll sell itself. It's been advertised heavily since before Thanksgiving 2024. It's an ebook for starters

[@robertox123]

It’s a stupid ass bot. Every single video on youtube have a bot recommending random books

[@blackjellybean2956]

In the tri state some women look for a simp so they can hit all the "popping " spots... they cant afford 🙄

[@GodBlessTheChild1]

That part! 😆😆😆 “Thank You!” for sharing ❤️🖤💚

[@rhammond1963]

It's more like a provider than a protector 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

more like a simp

[@steve-o3169]

I never spent 1,000 bucks on a date and i never ever will.

[@1ffilctar]

The unfortunate part of all of this is the women who don't try to take advantage of men suffer with the ones who do. Once a man feels taken advantage of, he switches up the way he moves with all women. It's going to take the good women out there speaking out against the bad ones.

[@godisgreat418]

I find this hard to believe. Who the Freak Spends even 500 dollars on a date? I’m a young black man from The Bronx New York and I have a great job, I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I have a savings and I don’t even think of doing something stupid like that Dawg…

[@rubychew6535]

A thousand dollar is ridiculous because these women are 304.

[@Solomonsochill]

Who spends a grand on the first few dates? It sounds like the ny brothers have been simping.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

keep up the good work Dee Dee facts

[@AoF86]

$1000 dates are unheard of 😂😂😂

[@TonySmooth678]

What ? $1000 for dates lol 😂 🤣🤣🤣

[@tracer073]

Simps are to be blame for all of this

[@JCE10NYC]

A Passport is cheaper, couldn’t be me spending $1,000 on a date in New York City lol 🤣🤣🛩️🌎🇨🇴🇩🇴

[@Matthew-v9n]

I DON'T BLAME THEM GOOD FOR THEM👍💯

[@depthgod7672]

Yea I'm from NYC me and my guys ain't ever spending no 1000$ on no date these stories Krazy

[@melvinlovejones]

$1,000 dollars? 🐂💩!

[@ronniescales188]

Real Talk... They would be better served by taking that money down to Wall Street. 1 date/wk × $1,000× 52 =$52,000.

[@dave3987]

Women aren’t thing about investing in stocks they waste money on depreciated cosmetics.

[@GodBlessTheChild1]

A thousand dollars? Really? No way! Most of the women you’ll meet in NYC, if they’re not professionals they’re bums. A verifiable way to find out is ALWAYS ask to visit where they live “BEFORE” spending money you’ll regret having spent. You’ll be glad you read this once you put this in play. You won’t have to spend any more than for a bite at Popeyes. That’s how low the standard is, a lot of them live in. The Popeyes is because they might try to offer you something to eat and you won’t want to do that. So the first meal with them will be the Popeyes. “Thank You!” for sharing 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@danielsantiago8146]

Sweet Jesus! Do you know how many comic books I can buy with a $1000!

[@dieudonnemcful]

1000 bucks will not be spent on dating foolishness!

[@RussellRichardson-o3v]

That’s a good look Dee Dee. Your face looks really fresh.

[@bonorton5870]

He could of kept that $1,000 Dollars on the Down Low Like the R.Kelly Song i know sometimes he gets Lonely yeah Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh oooo lol

[@ShawnC.T.]

Yawl ninjas crazy asf...😅

[@jeffreybarwegen9567]

If you have to spend $200 on a first date you are NOT compatible !

[@Omega86641]

You want a date? STFU and drink that 6 dollar coffee!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jpswerve182]

Been with my girl for 5 years. She knows she's never done anything special for a $1000 date.

[@GratitudeGalaxie]

$1,000 dollars for a date wow damn.

[@123pb]

I thinks she means over the course of time-say 10 dates @$100 per date

[@Reignsupreme76]

$1000 dates? A woman better consider herself lucky if she gets a $100 date.

[@margostephenson8214]

A coffee date is great! With a dessert of course

[@mrjasonsamuel23]

$100 is too much

[@margostephenson8214]

My hubby's friend was dating all the wrong women wanting expensive dinners and gifts. I told my hubby's friend to take women where you like. He loves local pizza pubs. The woman he took on the pizza date is now his wife :)

[@louispeters4643]

Opting out of 1,000 as they should🤷

[@coreywilliams4312]

$125 thats the limit

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

to get to know someone? smh

[@diIbert]

Dates at this price range are important when you are married. These are investments in your continued happiness. But $1K first dates with a stranger? Nope.

[@jeffreymassey5541]

It's over out here when it comes to dating. Everything is a transaction. And we all know what that is called. 🤔🤔

[@RajeshPraja-td2uh]

seriously, don’t pick up the book Magnetic Aura unless you’re ready to see things differently, no joke.

[@mohammedislam3883]

NYC $1 slice is all these 304s are worth!

[@kennethwells2465]

(Pick your favorite expletive) no! I tell my sons that they shouldn’t spend that type of money on a first date. I was reminded of what you said about getting to know a woman. A few phone calls did the trick. Those phone calls led to a first date. It was understood that a lot of money wasn’t going to be spent on that date and the man was going to pay for the date. If the first date went well, it led to a second date.

[@boston312]

The ultimate simp is the guy who spends thousands on a wedding

[@JasonAdams-m6i]

Save your money for rainy days.😅

[@Kdkyrie12]

😂😂😂😂 I been saying this dating & relationships are dead all 2025

[@KennethWannamaker-oy3ui]

I just couldn't blame them for this hook, line, sinker, signed, sealed, delivered, point, blank, and period!! THE GOOD LORD GOD GIVES ALL OF US HUMAN BEINGS WISDOM AND COMMON SENSE.

[@bonorton5870]

She told him she have a Boyfriend and she paid rent with that money because her and her Boyfriend was behind in rent.

[@ayushgurung47]

Magnetic Aura book by Takeshi Mizuki ain’t for everyone, it’s for people who actually want to get ahead.

[@rhammond1963]

Chris brown was charging 1000 for a flick 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@elvinrichard5882]

If you are paying for “her” they got a word for that…

[@transitengineer]

I grew-up in the 1960's and 1970's, back then this was the behavior of only some single ladies that lived in government "housing projects" or "subsidized apartments" but, not for Middle Class, Upper Class, or Wealthy women. You hit the "nail on the head", these young ladies now want marriage privileges starting on the very first date. Sorry, but ... heck no that is never going to happen!! I am an African American male a person of Faith who, has been married to the same women for 40-years. Back when we were dating, I would take her out for dinner at a local dinner or a Bob's "Big Boy" restaurant. However, today if my wife wants $5,000, $10,000, $100,000, $200,000, or more all she has to do is ask. We are now both retired and, my current Net Worth is $1.2 million and my wife's is $600,000. (smile ... smile).

[@ratedr4057]

I don't mind 1000 dollar date as long as,she's paying 😂

[@humphrycollins]

It's crazy what ever happened to cony island hot dogs and a ride on the ferry boat

[@magnacarta711]

Going out cost money & outings ain’t cheap. You gotta vet women before you take them out on a date. & there still ain’t no guarantee. It’s about enjoying the process

[@printerganginvestments]

I wouldn’t even pay 1k for the 🐱 1k for a date is crazy 😂😂😂

[@Don380s]

So this is what the passport bros was saying when it's cheaper to date outside the US.

[@princemontgomery6759]

Same in Chicago 5 to 700

[@tjsmoothrock]

Sad part is these women just want these extravagant dates just so they can brag to others. NYC just got more expensive too with congestion tolls

[@thaiboxing67]

Bare minimum dates in NY is $300. Minimum dinner at a decent restaurant for 2 is $150 the movies is $100 (tickets plus snacks) then flowers. Then multiply that by 3 or 4 dates only for a woman to friend zone you in the end I can understand why guys opt out.

[@bisquit48]

Im 46 here in new york i focus on working saving money i honestly dont even speak to females unless i work with them and i sread as well. I noticed alot of the 30 plus men are traveling

[@Namekiankingpi]

Its literally cheaper to date in foreign countries

[@mibny69]

But but how about the CHEESECAKE FACTORY ????🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thecrazyjet7547]

It’s cheaper to go overseas nowadays than to deal with women in the west.

[@oddlypositive3602]

A woman that has an interest in you will make it easy for you, the rest will just roll out endless demands.

[@izellkinney2720]

Men should just decide that dinner is out as the first date. There's other possible first dates that are cheaper.

[@Jonathan01233]

it would take me 1 hour to realize i dont like here.

[@valterrenatodeandradeponte4099]

To risky and to expensive and costly

[@kirkgardner8772]

Foolishness