TOP 10 List of Why Black Women Are STILL THE LEAST MARRIED

[@b14m23]

Bottom line.. Mothers and grandmothers have failed our women. AND they remain silent to this day.

[@KtotheG]

Been saying that... they don't want to hear it. .Their fight is with their female elders who failed them, not with BM.

[@matthewgaines10]

How you start isn’t how you have to finish. You can blame your parents of how you’re raised but you don’t have to stay that way. They don’t want to grow into becoming the type of woman the man they claim they want actually wants.

[@TysonJackson-sw3oj]

Very true!

[@davidowens1424]

facts. Put the blame where it belongs.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Well it depends. If you were raised in the hood most likely yes

[@bobfisher-zd2lt]

Obesity should definitely be number one. Most of them it would take a forklift to pick them up.

[@KtotheG]

@@bobfisher-zd2lt Obesity is definitely #1, because it causes many of these women to be overlooked. The rest of the list are traits you discover AFTER you've engaged with them. Obesity prevents the engagement altogether.

[@bobfisher-zd2lt]

@@KtotheG spot on guy. I couldn’t have said it better 👍🏿.

[@christiankalala840]

❤

[@rogerbennett9598]

@@KtotheG😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@GodBlessTheChild1]

The women that need to hear this, don’t listen to it. I’m thoroughly convinced. “Thank You!” for sharing ❤️🖤💚

[@bwdubb9898]

Waste of time. They don’t care and would rather just argue and play victim

[@jamesdicker2962]

🫳 🎤

[@elx2482]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@KtotheG]

@@bwdubb9898 They blame BM for everything on that list.

[@genovasquez8361]

They waiit til their OLD to get married They wait til they already had a baby to get married They not submissive enoujgh They ONLY want marriage for Help "financially".

[@KtotheG]

They're not wives... they're hoars.

[@elx2482]

🎯🎯🎯

[@Erniepotts]

11. Doesn't support Families - Husband, Wife, and Children.

[@mannysfitnessfortress989]

I love your coffee mug Dee Dee. Very thorough analysis

[@MonteaZBeatSss]

Thank you for your content.

[@beetee5414]

Thx sis keep up the truth telling

[@lebronzewalker3214]

Simply on point!!!

[@pcwc1]

Number 3 also bw call you brah or bro n nijjga. I mean dang talk like a lady.

[@mannysfitnessfortress989]

Facts...90% of them

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

Yeah I’ve noticed black women under 30 talk like that. They call each other bro it’s wild

[@batzgameguru]

This is 90% of women

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

Back when I was a young scamp, the local -eishas would call me "lil boy" ignoring the fact that I was the same age or older than them. Like ma'am... you still suck your thumb. The disrespect is taught EARLY.

[@caipirinha_king1632]

@@johnserosanguineous1886 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 A combination of sad and funny was seeing a grown woman driving a car and sucking her thumb at the same time!! 😅

[@quitalllester3367]

American Black women

[@demetriusevans4139]

Nah, the toxicity has spread. Especially to Kenya. Trust me, I know firsthand

[@ImGerald]

@@demetriusevans4139 I haven't been, but I've heard that its gotten bad in Ghana, on how they picked up on the toxic western ways. Sad times we're living in.

[@ogi197]

​@ImGerald, it's definitely spread to the UK ..and it's not just the Un-united States but the entire Americas.

[@KtotheG]

@@demetriusevans4139 Media spread it... the music, movies, TV shows, books, magazines, the internet, etc

[@demetriusevans4139]

@@KtotheG Yep. And they're soaking it up.

[@holmeshuddle985]

All those reasons is why they will die alone unless they repent and change .

[@KtotheG]

They're lambs being led to the slaughter of spinsterhood and baby mama-ism. It's deeply ingrained in their culture at this point.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

change? nope. never gonna happen.

[@holmeshuddle985]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp You might be right , Oh well I guess they can all become Nuns.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

I guess the unattractive ones feel this way

[@KtotheG]

@@loveusyendi.7621 Gaslighting is a poor coping mechanism

[@brosteven959]

Absolutely correct

[@colinscrypto3307]

11. Will steal your kids and call you a deadbeat.

[@zaketirenaudbarca615]

Facts

[@zaketirenaudbarca615]

12. Openly and blatantly lie

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

Facts, use the full force of the law to fight you. Make you pay for them fighting you about basic things like seeing your kids and then tell everyone who will listen that you aren’t involved

[@ebakindeji5941]

Put you in jail for not paying child support even though the child has been PROVEN by DNA not to be yours and lets the real baby daddy gets away with it.

[@Blackgrimreaper2024]

Women do unforgivable things when it comes to kids sometimes

[@blongshanks77]

Another overall excellent video, DeeDee. I wish you success, and hope these videos you are making start to go viral. It could real benefit our community.

[@sdb1218]

DeeDee with the header has me trippin' out. Real women will understand that this list has validity, while the rest will get mad and shadow ban or down talk you DeeDee.

[@reggiereg1785]

You could have stopped after #1 . Their bad attitudes is their biggest issue and it ties in with 2 though 10 .

[@KtotheG]

Weight should've been top 3. Too many BM are afraid to touch that topic, but it's a problem. Their weight keeps them from being approached or taken seriously at all.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Bad attitude is a thing that's cultivated in the hood. That's not a black woman thing😂

[@KtotheG]

@@loveusyendi.7621 Michelle Obama has a nasty attitude and she's not from the hood.

[@ericp.7550]

​@@loveusyendi.7621You seem to have an excuse for Everything, which is the biggest PROBLEM!!

[@allenbarrow4904]

DeeDee, you needs to show a complete list of those bad traits, please!!!

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Yeah that's exactly what the community needs😂

[@broinsocali]

#5 is called body positivity. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KJThePublicist]

This is why they praise Lizzo

[@mannysfitnessfortress989]

Hey Dee Dee youre amazing...small typo in the title [Leadt instead Least] love your ENERGY GIRL!

[@piplyf]

Sometimes, you have to do that to stay off of the algos radar.They have trigger words you must stay away from.

[@_---__]

Energy not Enery

[@mannysfitnessfortress989]

@@_---__ obviously it was a typo, smh.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

I wish she loved herself more

[@eric_a_]

About 60% of black women get married but they don't stay married and so at any given time 25-30% are still married

[@ShawnC.T.]

60%, WTF?! That number is way too generous, it's actually roughly around 25%...🤨

[@ebakindeji5941]

More like 63% of bw are having kids out of wedlock.

[@06alwilliams]

Nah bro try 25%😅

[@KtotheG]

Are you going back 60 years or staying within the last 10?

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

@@06alwilliams exactly. more like 25%-30%

[@kennethyoung4892]

Shout out to Kevin Samuels RIP women need to be fit friendly feminine

[@loveusyendi.7621]

I wish that moron would have looked in the mirror... Literally😂

[@brianbachmeier34]

Masculinity

[@loveusyendi.7621]

What about the ones with natural pretty privilege who aren't combative? They don't seem to have these problems

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

I would only add as a bonus #11. Don't prioritize marriage. Number 11 is actually why the other 10 is so prevalent, only women who don't value marriage would have those other characteristics in such high numbers.

[@damonvincent2339]

I’m so glad I found a this woman’s channel, she gets it, she totally gets it

[@andrewpouncil8411]

keep up the good work Dee Dee facts 😂

[@killingsley]

Whether she was married first or not, the idea of marrying a woman who has reproduced for another man is just intolerable to me.

[@SolitudeofaTiger]

Yup. I take a lion’s approach to that. There are no stepfathers in a lion pride. Idc how attractive she is I don’t want another man’s cubs in my house.

[@rdot8869]

Because men are territorial men don't want to be with a woman another man seed came out of her birth canal. That's a used woman.

[@KtotheG]

She will have that man's DNA in her bloodstream for life. It even regulates a neurotransmitter in her brain that controls ovulation.

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

I felt the same, long before social media made it okay for men to say this. Unfortunately finding an untouched woman is like finding a lebrechan's pot of gold in today's society. However, at the very least a required a never previously occupied womb as a bare minimum. Once you've brought another man's DNA into the world, it was a no go for me.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

me too and a lot of men

[@kalon511]

DeeDee..... it seems like you pretty much hit the nail on the head with this list. This is why I still like some of the old TV shows. Good Times will ALWAYS be one of my most favorite shows. So much so that it didn't even seem worth watching once James Evans was killed off. The Cosby Show will ALSO be one of my favorite shows due to how the mother and father ran their household. On Good Times, they touched on issues such as single motherhood, among other subjects.

[@Yobachi2007]

DeeDee, love your mug! You and your feminine are winning.

[@KtotheG]

I was just thinking. I bet that mug triggers a lot of Keishas.

[@blongshanks77]

I agree with your entire video. Number 3 unfortunately runs rampant in the black community with black females. I hate when I’m out and about, and I hear young black woman saying things like “Bruh”, and “TF”. I’m older now at 46, and I feel like those types of phrases were predominantly used by men when I was growing up. Now I see females using it, and it just doesn’t feel right to me.

[@lDanangandChi-town]

That list s pretty accurate that is why I have moved on passed them. (Embracing my Passport Bro Status) along with my 6 figures (before you call me broke )

[@randyharris-sj5jb]

Sister u told the real truth..

[@Yishai377]

Proverbs 7:10-12,25-27 [10]And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart. [11](She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house: [12]Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.) [25]Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. [26]For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. [27]Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.

[@SwanRonsonDonnyJepp]

DeeDee, why do KZbin keep unsubscribing me from your channel. Twice now, ive been subscribed, then suddenly im not. They do it with other channels im subscribed too as well. Love from the UK 🇬🇧❤️

[@jebediahrage8273]

KZbin is unfortunately like that, and channels they want to sabotage, they force unsubcribing.

[@andrewpouncil8411]

That list is definitely accurate 😂

[@melviningram5867]

SOME BLACK WOMEN FEEL THAT THE BLACK IS SO IRRESPONSIBLE THAT SHE HAS TO LEAD AND TAKE CHARGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND RESENT YOU FOR IT.

[@bjbg6838]

#1 is my #1 for sure. Watch your mouth.

[@gordonredpillshumwayisback7086]

Thailand people, Thailand...

[@sulaimaanahmad]

as they say in my cultural background; "the cow yielding the least milk, demands the most hay." 🤔

[@pcwc1]

304 culture

[@RepentantDrContra]

#1-8 are just retelling of #1. They deserve to be alone. I hope they vote for Kuwala so we can defeat them both at the same time.

[@simonjarvis2523]

Sad but true. 💯

[@65May2]

#1 Fake Hair #2 Fake Hair # 3 Fake Hair

[@jebediahrage8273]

Come on, the fake nails and spider leg fake eyelashes (all they demand YOU pay for) are part of it too.

[@noid9798]

#5 can be fixed 🎉 but the rest is true. These days most aren’t going to stick it out & run at the sign of hard times. The attitude is they’re not taking care of no grown man but want a grown man to take care of them.

[@KtotheG]

And yet they'd rather say "partner" instead of husband. Partners have each other's backs. Partners pay 50/50 and share 50% of the risks.

[@brandonsmith302]

Number five cannot be fixed either speaking from experience 🤦‍♂

[@ogi197]

​@brandonsmith302 # 5 can absolutely fixed.

[@kenmayweather8237]

Attempting to fix #5 you will be met with #2…she has to want it too - don’t waste your time 💯

[@jebediahrage8273]

​@kenmayweather8237 you absolutely get it. They have to be WILLING to fix it, to fix it, and they clearly aren't willing to even acknowledge it.

[@nubianlove9843]

FACTS ,FACTS, FACTS

[@Raider352]

They are on their own. Let them go

[@permafrost2893]

"Independent Boss Chicks are Traditionally Lost Chicks!"

[@takwwnwilson7628]

I agree

[@All2True4life]

Reminder There is a difference in dating black American women Vs African women. African women are amazing.

[@CushanManson]

True facts 💯

[@raycornelious7817]

How about hidden student loan debt and bad credit?

[@raharmonnelson7537]

They want to be leaders without responsibility 2:58

[@randy4216]

I talk to several young black women a few weeks ago they all told me but one said they want to get married but not right now;the one young lady said she wants to get married now but want to have kids later I said this before majority of modern black Women want to get married in their late 30's to 40's.

[@ShawnC.T.]

@randy4216 That's just it, they feel as if they control fate/time, they gon' find out, the hard way...🤨

[@KtotheG]

They were told to move like men...Waiting till 35-40 to get married is what men should do, not women.

[@buckwheat1401]

My list is short and sweet...The WIGS AND WEAVES epidemic now they're confident in themselves that's when the bad attitude comes into play for man of my taste in women that's immediately disqualifies you

[@Villagegrandma3174]

I’m sick of y’all saying, don’t nobody care about a degree. Statistics show that 74% of BW will never marry. Since the odds are against them, they must be encouraged to get a good education and skills or degrees of value! Stats show 70% of them will become single parents! Education will keep them out of poverty! For the women who do marry (26%) their education, hence, better paying job, will take them to Black Middle Class and beyond!! Education is of value whether married or single! What separates the pharmacy technician (40K) from the pharmacist (100+), education!

[@Drizzle.drizzle]

I love u for this

[@MrNinout]

It's gonna take at least 10 years before they change their ways 😂

[@rodmoore_]

Interested list 🤔

[@polishedbrother]

Don’t forget they Simply DON’T care about breaking The Covenant they made to GOD about the Marriage.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

That takes two sophisticated black parents... A lot can be avoided 💯

[@househeadspeakz]

The list tells a serious tale and it doesn't bold well for Black women in the States!!!

[@cal5000]

We tried to tell em. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Well let's find a new race to mate with then. Oh well

[@richardcurchar7756]

Expand and exercise your options!!!!

[@TheDudeAbides1998]

You forgot a big one- I got a mouth.

[@kennethyoung4892]

Sadly but true

[@BOBBOB-tx7ox]

Accurate, send the list out to all black women

[@LOTUG98]

This is accurate

[@ericbritton8146]

As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, all of this is true. I was telling my wife, I can not teach the word of God, then live contrary to the word of God. That would make me a hypocrite. That is not a good title to have. Eph 5:22-33, 6:1-4

[@herm5619]

The List is accurate all of it is true

[@Zulu-Lemon]

Materialism The worship of Europeans (mainly wm)

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Yeah...We Americans can lose our way at times

[@delmontegreenbeans]

Ya don't LISTEN!

[@seso3454]

100% on point again! But the Blind Deaf & Dumb can't acknowledge it!

[@logicaltoafault6310]

A leader is in charge and has final say. They're not a dictator, they're not a tyrant and they will listen to those they lead, but they make the final decision. If you can't deal with that then you don't want a leader. And truthfully I don't think women want a leader. They want a man who will organise and execute HER orders. They want to be in charge when things are calm and easy but the man needs to deal with it when things go wrong or accountability needs to be taken.

[@arialv4943]

Failed since slavery always helping and watching other be happy and have better life I was obese from a young age and told should not have to lose weight I am big bonded most men hate all fat women it’s there worst nightmare Herd it from a man Most men love lighter skin With mixed features I never grew up around feminine woman very masculine Being feminine is not only about serving a man It’s just balance of being a woman We don’t get the best out life or selves if we stay in masculine energy I always made my own money I got a man I paid most of everything 1 apt and 2 houses He does not want to marry or have kids And he does not work Blk women deserve better I see what every other culture does to prep their women for better life I never been taught weight management Skin beauty and anti aging care I never even saw it I never been taught to dress feminine and respectfully I never been taught how to speak feminine but strong and a leader Or saw it growing up Now I see all of this with my boyfriends mom and how she treats her daughter they are not black Her dad taught her to drive change oil tires Her mom taught to cook how to speak lead care and nurture and clean Dress be beauty with out being fake They Latin and her mom encourages her to dress up everyday look nice for herself She got such a head start That’s not even half She will have no problem getting married Black girls deserve so much but we need to give back to ourselves heal and grow and our best to be better teach the next generation Who give more then a blk and how much is given back

[@vanvarner7679]

Dee Dee saying this publicly as a black woman yourself ? Wow, just wow !

[@OgSleep]

Theres no more hope for black women.

[@eric_a_]

After the relationship starts why dont they stay together.the men have accepted some of these things because the relationship starts.

[@ShawnC.T.]

To most of these modern Black women, this list will go in one🦻🏼, and rush outta' the other...😄

[@jondo3817]

i really hate to say it, but that list is too accurate. having said this, i believe it is the america culture that makes them this way. they bahave in these ways because they are reacting to the fact that they are not the beauty standard in america. it is a subconscious reaction.

[@raycornelious7817]

11. The ability to apply math ONLY to school and work. Facts, data, stats don't apply to Black Women anymore. Dress size, weight, baby Daddys, budgets, timeliness are second thoughts. If everyone is a 10, nobody is 10. Numbers = Accountability = Krytonite

[@brnrecluse2946]

Wow!

[@yuma66612]

Careful you sound like Kevin Samuels😁 They might come for you

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Let him rest in hell😂

[@yeahrightuhhhuh4931]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@dericocooperphotography4783]

Let me first say I love Black Women. However, this list is very accurate. In regards to finding a Black Woman in America, as a Black Man trying to find a Black Woman that does not meet the criteria for at least one or two of these top 10 reasons is very difficult. I'm over 40 and I have only met one Black Woman in America in the last decade that didn't have one of these problems. Why didn't I marry her? Because I was in a situationship with another female that had all but two of these top 10 and I got her pregnant. I love my daughter, but I would rather do another deployment to Iraq 🇮🇶 and Afghanistan 🇦🇫 than to live in the same household with her quarrelsome mother for even a day.

[@LennyHobdy]

Too many 😮 issues!

[@mireederrick1977]

Hmm 🤔🤔🤔

[@Fiyaman79]

💯💯💯

[@richardware2479]

I'm not wasting my time you cnt tell a bw nun n I ain't went to jail for myself I'm not going for some chick I can easily replace hell no go that way

[@cornellhoward3757]

Read THE BOOK OF ISAIAH: Chapters 3 v12 - 26. And Chapters 4-5. Find out why ALMIGHTY GOD snatched the hair off of the heads of the daughters of Zion. And sent her and her husband the sons of Zion into captivity, into a nation on the other side of the earth. From the GARDEN OF EDEN into captivity.

[@yiqwaba3833]

💯

[@sunen7129]

IDK about white women but 1, 8,9,10 applies to asian women too

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

bodies

[@shomarimonroe150]

❤❤

[@richarddean1854]

Not all but like viviac fox the movie star many get in a relationship well after decades on the market and you really don't compete with a charming twenty year old who can easily does mind being a upgrade to replace you and at sixty please sweetheart it's really know contest sure your are educated and make good money, but the same can be said of one still in her twenty something who is cooperating with her man without all the drama, and muscular energy, and I can do anything you can I can do better attitude but, can you be traditional never in a million years how ever she expects that you be able to be that way of course, this explains why the sister hood is the least desired one of races of color you see football stars pick everybody except the sister they go with to sign there contract for millions this isn't on purpose not a accident either , and from what I can see I don't believe things will ever change anytime soon either. to many walk away from i good man I never said perfect one but other races of color keep their men even though I sure they are dealing with similar situations but they won't divorce him either only in the black community you see sister wanting upgrades and never get there I personally know plenty of female just like this and talk to them on a regular basis, PCT Nurse.

[@SigmaLance3375]

Oof.

[@shaunoffrange8122]

Marriage is for the insecure.

[@ebakindeji5941]

Only those who cant get married will say that.

[@KtotheG]

It's for humans. Being alone is unnatural. You perish quicker.

[@matthewgaines10]

You have thousands of years of human history that contradict your claim. You haven’t learned anything from the past. Just what you’ve “feeling” right now. Those who never seen or known stability or order fear it.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

​@@ebakindeji5941Honestly that seems like most people in these comments. There's no way they're getting dates the way they speak

[@TheblackGoddessoflife]

Hate to say it but i agree