#newickunlocked

[@adamc8409]

New ick discovered for me any woman who says ick like a 5 year old.

[@JZan-ug3ey]

It's an epidemic of 40 year old women acting like high school seniors it's called the Taylor Swift effect

[@Mattznick]

facts though, if you say the work "ick" unironically you are not mature

[@thumperjdm]

"I want a partner, not a project." Says the lady who is obviously a mental "project."

[@emiliaescobar7652]

LOL

[@1TightMinute]

She is a project. You got kids. I don’t care how independent you claim to be then you are going to need things from me.

[@ronbrewer2721]

I don't want a project either another reason I'm single & enjoying it. An ick for you is an ick for me!

[@pullcarsmelly8051]

She's a fixer upper.

[@oldman6365]

@@pullcarsmelly8051 She's a shanty!

[@tonydecker1263]

I love these woman who think being a single mom is a flex 😂😂😂😂

[@iceonthesun8880]

They are proud of their fuck trophies(fatherless kids)

[@Kraken_Mybutt]

Single mothers used to be shamed and shunned as selfish, garbage people and it's FINALLY coming back

[@themarlboromandalorian]

Well... Somebody has...

[@gfxmaniac]

@@themarlboromandalorian not anymore :)

[@paulmolloy7206]

Being a single mom is a death sentence in my opinion! What man goes looking for a girlfriend and ends up with an instant family? I don’t have children for personal reasons and I’m definitely not going to show up after the party and clean up the mess!

[@tomtommyl805]

Most men: "Single mom? Nope, not interested. Esp with that sense of entitlement."

[@ryimscaith1593]

I can understand why she's a single mom. No matter how much child support he's paying, still cheaper than the price if living with that.

[@ronj9448]

Yeah but he should have figured out before dropping his seed

[@deepzone31]

@@ronj9448 Jesus forgives us for our sins, provide we repent. I'm sure he's forgiven Chadwick the seed sower.

[@ryhol5417]

Why are divorces so expensive? It’s fucking worth it in most cases

[@jonlately2668]

I wonder how many male lives that social media has saved. For all of its downsides, social media gives men better chances by letting these women tell you about themselves.

[@user-rp9ur9ob3x]

they always tell on them sellves... they cant help it😂

[@goldeneagle525]

You know......never thought about social media in that light. Nice.

[@npenick66]

Heaven forbid a man admire competence.

[@Patrik6920]

Apparentl admireing and acknowleding a woman she has actuall competence and skill is an ick... tyvm for informing us so we can hire someone else ...

[@morrisyarnell6083]

Single forever, what a kindness to the male population.

[@Not_Sure-2020]

Groucho Marx: "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member." Same thing she's saying. If you find me attractive then I find you "icky". Ick...love the 3 year old vocabulary words too.

[@freedomforever6718]

Demanding is her primary quality.

[@jddonaldson931]

With the nose ring, I'd call her tackle box!

[@deepzone31]

That box is wide open too. Unless you give her compliments. She wants to be thrown around in the back of a pickup, not treated with respect.

[@samusaran7317]

​@@deepzone31Probably right. Something's not right in their brain😂

[@chrisjohnston3405]

Guy’s do not want someone else’s ready-made family! Especially an engagement ring collector! I see cats in her future! Many, many cats!

[@davidelliott2485]

Nah her fatherless kids will be suckered into changing her depends.

[@101scetch]

I like that. If you don’t mind, I’m going to use that from now on. An engagement ring collector. That is brilliant.

[@diamondbuyers]

Dont forget the amount of box wine, the perfect companion to cats

[@spindelnett6315]

Anyone else find Lady J's intelligence really hot? So refreshing against the banality of all the others ❤

[@manuelkatsos5104]

its not ONLY REALLY HOTS ......ITS SMOKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@manuelkatsos5104]

sorry i meant HOT not HOTS

[@jacemiller2593]

Love Lady J.

[@fenderman931]

Yezzir

[@gillplbgandhtg1]

The fact that a guy found a quality about her attractive, that has nothing to do with her looks, and she dumps on him for it, stuns the heck out of my old school brain.

[@patrickriarchy6054]

It shouldn't women win gold medals in mental gymnastics now.

[@SirHeadly84]

​@@patrickriarchy6054 platinum medals.

[@patrickriarchy6054]

@@SirHeadly84 They've improved

[@jacemiller2593]

I can take care of myself too. Welcome to the real world.

[@veegee5823]

Biggest RED FLAG on a FEMALE, NOSE RING. Double RED FLAG, Nose Ring and a Single Mother..

[@lwcreaper6501]

Don’t forget excessive tattoos

[@paullucas3]

Also throw in zebra colts and bright pink hair

[@generalzod7959]

Good grief, the hroad is nothing but whining and drama. She thinks she's some grand prize when she's a nightmare in the flesh! 😱

[@jabba0975]

"Hi Sweetie. I've got a leash at home that would go great with that nose ring."

[@andrewkuoppala3925]

and using trendy words like "the ick"

[@billcoupe4468]

The fatal 'ick' for me... any grown woman who uses the word 'ick'... I'm out!!

[@stanbarnes7284]

She’s the project and as soon as it starts to work down the road you go and all that investment in said project is toast.

[@madrabbit64]

Nose ring, single mother……Yeap, she’s a runner.

[@tristankiddie1710]

"I want you to just take something off my plate... but I don't want to do anything for you"

[@leatherguru8904]

She's a strong independent woman and will be forever "independent."

[@ZeroDayPlus1]

Single mothers are either sleepers or sweepers, but not keepers. Hoe math

[@Morbutt]

They should all be sweepers, in my opinion, unless one is a single father.

[@ronj9448]

HM is never wrong

[@al6347]

304's = streets

[@gregwatruba4541]

Pump and Dump.

[@NeuraliX]

Boys an academic scholar!

[@Troyster94806]

Yes, I'm pretty sure she'll be single forever, too.

[@MrLachlan09]

I have just discovered Lady J. Two things have struck me immediately. Firstly, how much common sense she talks. And secondly, my god, that voice. I could listen to her speak all day.

[@swangelok]

This one is a bit confusing... she wants someone that doesn't like her independence, meaning she wants to be taken care of without reciprocating, but at the same time be free to do what she wants? So basically she wants someone to pay the bills, shut the f*ck off, leave her alone and be happy with whatever crumbs she throws his way, right?

[@hipreference]

She is free to do whatever she wants, just not as your girlfriend. Simple as that. Every normal person agrees healthy relationships require boundaries. If a chick wants to “do whatever”, it’s just a matter of saying “No one’s stopping you, you just wouldn’t be my girlfriend in that case.”

[@tylerlittleton6583]

Basically, she wants to be a child. Someone who is congratulated for their accomplishments without any obligations or expectations. Someone to take care of her and make her feel safe and secure, but without the need to reciprocate.

[@CARefugee544]

Lady J I really love your presentation style!

[@cahg3871]

Any person who goes on social media to explain their ideology towards dating is not the person for me.

[@mizofan]

So many attention-seeking deluded entitled narcissists

[@flashbackfrank]

I'm starting to wonder where sitting in the car making cellphone videos ranks?

[@mbrady2329]

It's either a deal-killer, or it ought to be!

[@imnoone492]

It amazes me that a lot of modern women talk about doing absolutely nothing for a man. And then they’re dumbfounded and say where are all the good men?

[@samusaran7317]

If there's no drama they'll sure create it and share that online...😂

[@onerider808]

That’s some serious crazy…run, boys. This is a future cat woman, cackling crazily to her hundred cats

[@lonwestover]

"Adjust ones "ick settings." Oh my you're awesome!

[@upsurgeagency3593]

She literally started and ended a relationship in the span of like 2 seconds (without even getting out of the car). That's just..wow

[@chikitabowow]

She says "I don't like that he treats me like a strong independent woman", i hear "Please treat me like a literal child"

[@iggs67]

"I don't nee a man, I can do it on my own. But I need a man to take care of me, take everything off my plate, pay for my stuff. But I will not take care of him, I'm not his mom." - what a catch guys, I'm sure there is a huge lineup of potential suiters.

[@rjakob8073]

Hello, Lady J, you are awesome. Thanks for the laughs...🌷🌷

[@oldhag8139]

I am so glad that a beautiful lady makes sense...in this day and age..this is rare...thank you...Lady j...

[@matrixphijr]

"I am a mom but what I really want in a man is a mom."

[@samusaran7317]

Daddy*

[@brucemorrison3563]

She didnt mention how many gallons of coffee she drinks daily.

[@johnmckown1267]

Like the character "Twitchy"

[@mbrady2329]

Maybe she fuels all that 'self-reliance' with amphetamines! 😉

[@dmeric6813]

Single mothers: Recreational use only.

[@al6347]

Pump and dump.

[@NoSQLKnowHow]

I married one. We've been married for 18 years and went on to have two kids together. Not all single moms are bad. You're doing yourself a disservice by removing them from your options.

[@Aerothick]

Single mothers are not looking for a partner. They are just looking for someone who will help them bear the consequences of their bad decisions.

[@sherwinwood5430]

I enjoy your short videos interspersed with witty sarcasm. Very entertaining.

[@rjroy8143]

If men don't like women strong and independent - ick If men do like women strong and independent - ick I'll see myself out....

[@jamesrearden1979]

I love Lady J, Ma'am, Thank you. You're doing gods work, really.

[@alexanderscott1466]

You are a beautiful women and I’m sure you are proud in doing what you do in showing these wrong women……stand tall, we men appreciate your honesty.

[@stephenfoster1257]

Being irritated by small things is what small minds do.

[@WilliamHoush]

Standards Standards Standards she said. I laughed as I walked away smiling and joylful that I escaped another trap. LOL

[@HansBezemer]

Good conclusion. Single mother - not quite wifey material. So if she wants to find one, she simply can't afford many "icks".

[@kirbyallan6651]

Lady j.. wish I could meet a woman like you that can see threw the BS.. keep doing what you are doing

[@TheGweedMan]

Lady J; I really like your look when your hair is down. You have one great looking healthy head of hair. I love your comments they’re great!

[@kerryroberts9455]

Wow! You hit the nail on the head!!

[@lancefurcinite6518]

Lady J. Right on as usual.

[@paddyoak1]

THANK YOU Lady J!❤

[@Bolt_theG35]

Yes.. she NEEDS to stay single forever. Run dude run!

[@raymyers700]

0:03 this line made me spit out my coffee....hahaha...you are awesome! :D

[@raymyers700]

I just had this discussion with my daughter yesterday to NOT put up these conflicting barriers to your own happiness. She is doing so good to being straightforward, knowing what she wants and accepting no less. I don't know why people don't analyze how they are and ask "Can *I* improve something with myself and/or my expectations?"

[@thedarkestowl4224]

" Sometimes I think i'm going to be single forever." I think you will too. 😂

[@stranger8449]

Beautiful its like logic makes sense here.

[@andrewbennett7756]

You rock I love your thoughts great show ❤❤❤❤❤

[@KLRCAT]

You should do audio books! your voice is so soothing and calming.

[@HistoricallySpeakingSports]

The_Lady_J I must say every video you post makes me more appreciative of the woman I married. I could not in a million years be single today. And another thing, you are obviously very intelligent and seem very sweet but please remind me to never piss you off... lol. Keep doing what you are doing......peace!

[@kikufutaba524]

I love your analysis and delivery. Thank you for your channel

[@charlessedlacek5754]

Lady j...your beauty, intellegence, your soothing voice, i am a subscriber and enjoy your videos.

[@Crippledsasquash]

As a single dad that raised twins on my own as a disabled guy working full time nights id tell her to concentrate on her kid not trying to find a partner. And the fact that you think someone should come in and want to take care of your bad decisions is insane im now 42 and my twins are 21 ive waited till now. I'm tall but cant walk all the time so when i tell them im 6'5 and i turn up in a wheelchair apparently that doesnt make me 6'5 anymore even had the last date say "i didnt think you would be using your wheelchair tonight i asked you to leave it at home" and that was 6 months ago so thats the end of dating for me.

[@srmrlr]

I seriously LOVE that my 55 year old, never married, no kids girlfriend is FIERCLY INDEPENDENT!!! I don't have to have a project, we adapt to what we know how to do for each other and MOVE FORWARD!!!!

[@johnRed-de3bl]

Absolutely hilarious !

[@blackox400]

I could listen to you talk all day.

[@GregAero]

I make sure my ladies are past menopause, I ast wife I was 44. She was 57, very loving and awsome relationship, no drama, treated her like a Queen.

[@CK04170]

I ❤❤❤ your smirk. It's warranted.

[@michaelmedley6965]

To the_lady_j_, I just wanted to tell you that i love your content and you have on of the most soothing and calming voices iit has ever been my privilege to listen to.

[@patrickkelley3655]

I don't think even the simps would wife this one up .

[@kushkingla7385]

I want YOU to take things off my plate but I’m not helping you. I, I, I, I, me, me, me,

[@danwalter2175]

Lady J- she doesn't want an equal partner. She doesn't want to be indepedent all the time, but she would see any need for assistance from him as a 'project.'

[@trevornelmes9331]

I WISH social media had been around when I was dating. It would have made avoiding women like this so much easier. I am actually stunned that, out of the (what) 4 billion females on the planet, I found one who wanted to date me, then marry me, then have kids with me, and stay married to me ... Based on the videos you comment on, there are some serious car wrecks waiting to happen out there. Mind you, there are some seriously nuts guys out there too.

[@dieterhoos8476]

Madam... I find your videos refreshing. Thank you. They are short and to the point.

[@Scylithen]

So, not too independant. But also not too interdependant. She will find someone to make batcrap crazy for sure, then blame him for being _insecure_ when he leaves her, not for someone else, but for his own sanity and peace and quiet 😞😔

[@sourisvoleur4854]

She wants to be independent and self-reliant right up until she has a boyfriend, then she wants to be his project. God forbid they should support each other. Oh noes. She doesn't want a husband she wants a sugar daddy.

[@bovax6259]

That's always the case. One never, in this day and age of social media, takes personal responsibility for someone else leaving when it is they who should do the personal reflecting for why THEY left.

[@brianhammer5107]

"adjusting one's ick-settings" 😆

[@kilohjonson]

Man here. It’s these ridiculous expectations that are driving men away from women.

[@samusaran7317]

Crabs in a bucket

[@JR-ht2vy]

You can peel the onion, you understand these self promoters and you do it with a great voice!❤

[@manuelkatsos5104]

adjust your ick settings ---- CLASSIC keep up the great content

[@thefenian32]

When you have so many parameters to establishing a relationship, you are the project!

[@LordShockwave9]

You let him hit it raw, you didn't have second thoughts, and now you're a single mom, you're a single mom... 🎶 drizzle drizzle guys. Stay away from this one. Lady J, keep up the good sarcastic comments! 😂

[@squidnerful]

OMG 😱. RUN!

[@user-pe1zs2pn4n]

Some of these are single moms, but not many. Most of these are divorced moms. Perhaps that tells you something. No guys going to want to settle for someone else’s family of children. They want their own children. Usually when they marry a woman with children already they are settling. If that woman would’ve been so great and made such an awesome mom and wife, she would not have been divorced 99 times out of 100!

[@samking6583]

If only women of this era understood Lady J's message, the world would balance itself out again. The message, the delivery, the piercing blue eyes, hey science, can we get that cloning technology figured out please ?

[@jacemiller2593]

Love Lady J.

[@walrus2796]

Cats, lots of cats in her future!

[@sinjint13]

Why do you hate cats that much😂😂

[@IGotTriggered]

Eternally single,,now thats a great name for a channel

[@lsporter88]

The only thing I got from her tirade that even made any sense was that a Man shouldn't expect her to cook or clean. So what does she do now? I guess she and her kids live in filth, and they only eat fast food, or take out, or delivery. The rest of her babel I chose to ignore, it simply made no sense and made my head hurt. I've actually seen that type of dysfunction up close. No sane and healthy Woman lives like that, or calls that empowerment. I now don't try to change them or even argue with em when I see that behavior. Any Woman that expects to attract and retain a Quality Man when she lives like that is completely delusional. When I even hear talk like that from ANY Woman, I immediately label her insane and move on. It's simply the safest thing to do. Great video.

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

I will point this out lady J, they say they want a protector to protect them from other people and a provider who can basically be everything they want and give them the lifestyle of leisure but basically what they are saying they want is a superior. I've come to learn all of our fairer halves want a superior.

[@michaelhendershott8604]

Exactly. Good Luck. . .

[@1776revwar]

Everything that first woman said just advertises that she's a problem.

[@user-dw4wo6vm2m]

The fact that she's telling the world that she has an "ick" says all I need to know about her.

[@markplautz6842]

Thanks for the warning…

[@michaeljohnston73]

I'm so glad I've been with the same woman since 2001. I think I'd become a monk if I had to date now.

[@1stCAVFirebase6Nam]

Been around the world more than once in my line of work. I know first class when I see it and you are a refreshing addition to the YOUTube channel. I see military insignias on the wall behind your presentations, looks like 1st, 2nd or 3rd Armor Divisions.

[@user-xb9wg8er4c]

"Uugh, why are the pretty ones always dumb?" Brian Griffin 😂

[@BeADad2447]

This lady is so funny! Beautiful!

[@johnnycooper657]

Fair lady, if you are for real, and that spiel is genuine, you got millions of Men, not shemen, tuning in. But you must be aware that your girlfriends will be thinning out rather quickly. But I am loving it so far. Godspeed sister.

[@dro1888]

Lady Spock, half Vulcan - half human, I luv her wittiness.

[@JohnSaylock-ec4cd]

Dang.....shes got the cat scratch fever too.

[@TacShooter]

Lady J has this intimidating Elvira, Mistress of the Dark quality about her. :D

[@way2tehdawn]

I love this new “I’m not your mom” rhetoric. “What you think I’m going to do anything productive that benefits you, I’m not your mom. So we’re gonna have two washing machines, two bathrooms, two stoves, two refrigerators and two basins.” “Wait so how are we a couple? Aren’t we just room mates?” “I’M NOT! YOUR MOM!”