New ick discovered for me any woman who says ick like a 5 year old.
@JZan-ug3ey3 ай бұрын
It's an epidemic of 40 year old women acting like high school seniors it's called the Taylor Swift effect
@MattznickАй бұрын
facts though, if you say the work "ick" unironically you are not mature
@thumperjdm3 ай бұрын
"I want a partner, not a project." Says the lady who is obviously a mental "project."
@emiliaescobar76523 ай бұрын
LOL
@1TightMinute2 ай бұрын
She is a project. You got kids. I don’t care how independent you claim to be then you are going to need things from me.
@ronbrewer27212 ай бұрын
I don't want a project either another reason I'm single & enjoying it. An ick for you is an ick for me!
@pullcarsmelly80512 ай бұрын
She's a fixer upper.
@oldman6365Ай бұрын
@@pullcarsmelly8051 She's a shanty!
@tonydecker12633 ай бұрын
I love these woman who think being a single mom is a flex 😂😂😂😂
@iceonthesun88803 ай бұрын
They are proud of their fuck trophies(fatherless kids)
@Kraken_Mybutt2 ай бұрын
Single mothers used to be shamed and shunned as selfish, garbage people and it's FINALLY coming back
@themarlboromandalorian2 ай бұрын
Well... Somebody has...
@gfxmaniac2 ай бұрын
@@themarlboromandalorian not anymore :)
@paulmolloy72062 ай бұрын
Being a single mom is a death sentence in my opinion! What man goes looking for a girlfriend and ends up with an instant family? I don’t have children for personal reasons and I’m definitely not going to show up after the party and clean up the mess!
@tomtommyl8053 ай бұрын
Most men: "Single mom? Nope, not interested. Esp with that sense of entitlement."
@ryimscaith15933 ай бұрын
I can understand why she's a single mom. No matter how much child support he's paying, still cheaper than the price if living with that.
@ronj94483 ай бұрын
Yeah but he should have figured out before dropping his seed
@deepzone313 ай бұрын
@@ronj9448 Jesus forgives us for our sins, provide we repent. I'm sure he's forgiven Chadwick the seed sower.
@ryhol54177 күн бұрын
Why are divorces so expensive? It’s fucking worth it in most cases
@jonlately26683 ай бұрын
I wonder how many male lives that social media has saved. For all of its downsides, social media gives men better chances by letting these women tell you about themselves.
@user-rp9ur9ob3x2 ай бұрын
they always tell on them sellves... they cant help it😂
@goldeneagle525Ай бұрын
You know......never thought about social media in that light. Nice.
@npenick663 ай бұрын
Heaven forbid a man admire competence.
@Patrik69203 ай бұрын
Apparentl admireing and acknowleding a woman she has actuall competence and skill is an ick... tyvm for informing us so we can hire someone else ...
@morrisyarnell60833 ай бұрын
Single forever, what a kindness to the male population.
@Not_Sure-20203 ай бұрын
Groucho Marx: "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member." Same thing she's saying. If you find me attractive then I find you "icky". Ick...love the 3 year old vocabulary words too.
@freedomforever67183 ай бұрын
Demanding is her primary quality.
@jddonaldson9313 ай бұрын
With the nose ring, I'd call her tackle box!
@deepzone313 ай бұрын
That box is wide open too. Unless you give her compliments. She wants to be thrown around in the back of a pickup, not treated with respect.
@samusaran7317Ай бұрын
@@deepzone31Probably right. Something's not right in their brain😂
@chrisjohnston34053 ай бұрын
Guy’s do not want someone else’s ready-made family! Especially an engagement ring collector! I see cats in her future! Many, many cats!
@davidelliott24853 ай бұрын
Nah her fatherless kids will be suckered into changing her depends.
@101scetch3 ай бұрын
I like that. If you don’t mind, I’m going to use that from now on. An engagement ring collector. That is brilliant.
@diamondbuyers7 күн бұрын
Dont forget the amount of box wine, the perfect companion to cats
@spindelnett63153 ай бұрын
Anyone else find Lady J's intelligence really hot? So refreshing against the banality of all the others ❤
@manuelkatsos51042 ай бұрын
its not ONLY REALLY HOTS ......ITS SMOKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@manuelkatsos51042 ай бұрын
sorry i meant HOT not HOTS
@jacemiller25932 ай бұрын
Love Lady J.
@fenderman93117 күн бұрын
Yezzir
@gillplbgandhtg13 ай бұрын
The fact that a guy found a quality about her attractive, that has nothing to do with her looks, and she dumps on him for it, stuns the heck out of my old school brain.
@patrickriarchy60543 ай бұрын
It shouldn't women win gold medals in mental gymnastics now.
@SirHeadly84Ай бұрын
@@patrickriarchy6054 platinum medals.
@patrickriarchy6054Ай бұрын
@@SirHeadly84 They've improved
@jacemiller25933 ай бұрын
I can take care of myself too. Welcome to the real world.
@veegee58233 ай бұрын
Biggest RED FLAG on a FEMALE, NOSE RING. Double RED FLAG, Nose Ring and a Single Mother..
@lwcreaper65013 ай бұрын
Don’t forget excessive tattoos
@paullucas33 ай бұрын
Also throw in zebra colts and bright pink hair
@generalzod79593 ай бұрын
Good grief, the hroad is nothing but whining and drama. She thinks she's some grand prize when she's a nightmare in the flesh! 😱
@jabba09752 ай бұрын
"Hi Sweetie. I've got a leash at home that would go great with that nose ring."
@andrewkuoppala39252 ай бұрын
and using trendy words like "the ick"
@billcoupe44683 ай бұрын
The fatal 'ick' for me... any grown woman who uses the word 'ick'... I'm out!!
@stanbarnes72843 ай бұрын
She’s the project and as soon as it starts to work down the road you go and all that investment in said project is toast.
@madrabbit643 ай бұрын
Nose ring, single mother……Yeap, she’s a runner.
@tristankiddie17102 ай бұрын
"I want you to just take something off my plate... but I don't want to do anything for you"
@leatherguru89043 ай бұрын
She's a strong independent woman and will be forever "independent."
@ZeroDayPlus13 ай бұрын
Single mothers are either sleepers or sweepers, but not keepers. Hoe math
@Morbutt3 ай бұрын
They should all be sweepers, in my opinion, unless one is a single father.
@ronj94483 ай бұрын
HM is never wrong
@al63473 ай бұрын
304's = streets
@gregwatruba45413 ай бұрын
Pump and Dump.
@NeuraliX2 ай бұрын
Boys an academic scholar!
@Troyster948063 ай бұрын
Yes, I'm pretty sure she'll be single forever, too.
@MrLachlan092 ай бұрын
I have just discovered Lady J. Two things have struck me immediately. Firstly, how much common sense she talks. And secondly, my god, that voice. I could listen to her speak all day.
@swangelok3 ай бұрын
This one is a bit confusing... she wants someone that doesn't like her independence, meaning she wants to be taken care of without reciprocating, but at the same time be free to do what she wants? So basically she wants someone to pay the bills, shut the f*ck off, leave her alone and be happy with whatever crumbs she throws his way, right?
@hipreference2 ай бұрын
She is free to do whatever she wants, just not as your girlfriend. Simple as that. Every normal person agrees healthy relationships require boundaries. If a chick wants to “do whatever”, it’s just a matter of saying “No one’s stopping you, you just wouldn’t be my girlfriend in that case.”
@tylerlittleton65832 күн бұрын
Basically, she wants to be a child. Someone who is congratulated for their accomplishments without any obligations or expectations. Someone to take care of her and make her feel safe and secure, but without the need to reciprocate.
@CARefugee5443 ай бұрын
Lady J I really love your presentation style!
@cahg38713 ай бұрын
Any person who goes on social media to explain their ideology towards dating is not the person for me.
@mizofan23 күн бұрын
So many attention-seeking deluded entitled narcissists
@flashbackfrank3 ай бұрын
I'm starting to wonder where sitting in the car making cellphone videos ranks?
@mbrady23292 ай бұрын
It's either a deal-killer, or it ought to be!
@imnoone492Ай бұрын
It amazes me that a lot of modern women talk about doing absolutely nothing for a man. And then they’re dumbfounded and say where are all the good men?
@samusaran7317Ай бұрын
If there's no drama they'll sure create it and share that online...😂
@onerider8083 ай бұрын
That’s some serious crazy…run, boys. This is a future cat woman, cackling crazily to her hundred cats
@lonwestover3 ай бұрын
"Adjust ones "ick settings." Oh my you're awesome!
@upsurgeagency35933 ай бұрын
She literally started and ended a relationship in the span of like 2 seconds (without even getting out of the car). That's just..wow
@chikitabowowАй бұрын
She says "I don't like that he treats me like a strong independent woman", i hear "Please treat me like a literal child"
@iggs6712 күн бұрын
"I don't nee a man, I can do it on my own. But I need a man to take care of me, take everything off my plate, pay for my stuff. But I will not take care of him, I'm not his mom." - what a catch guys, I'm sure there is a huge lineup of potential suiters.
@rjakob80733 ай бұрын
Hello, Lady J, you are awesome. Thanks for the laughs...🌷🌷
@oldhag8139Ай бұрын
I am so glad that a beautiful lady makes sense...in this day and age..this is rare...thank you...Lady j...
@matrixphijr3 ай бұрын
"I am a mom but what I really want in a man is a mom."
@samusaran7317Ай бұрын
Daddy*
@brucemorrison35633 ай бұрын
She didnt mention how many gallons of coffee she drinks daily.
@johnmckown12673 ай бұрын
Like the character "Twitchy"
@mbrady23292 ай бұрын
Maybe she fuels all that 'self-reliance' with amphetamines! 😉
@dmeric68133 ай бұрын
Single mothers: Recreational use only.
@al63473 ай бұрын
Pump and dump.
@NoSQLKnowHow14 күн бұрын
I married one. We've been married for 18 years and went on to have two kids together. Not all single moms are bad. You're doing yourself a disservice by removing them from your options.
@AerothickАй бұрын
Single mothers are not looking for a partner. They are just looking for someone who will help them bear the consequences of their bad decisions.
@sherwinwood5430Ай бұрын
I enjoy your short videos interspersed with witty sarcasm. Very entertaining.
@rjroy81432 ай бұрын
If men don't like women strong and independent - ick If men do like women strong and independent - ick I'll see myself out....
@jamesrearden197927 күн бұрын
I love Lady J, Ma'am, Thank you. You're doing gods work, really.
@alexanderscott146611 күн бұрын
You are a beautiful women and I’m sure you are proud in doing what you do in showing these wrong women……stand tall, we men appreciate your honesty.
@stephenfoster12572 ай бұрын
Being irritated by small things is what small minds do.
@WilliamHoushАй бұрын
Standards Standards Standards she said. I laughed as I walked away smiling and joylful that I escaped another trap. LOL
@HansBezemer3 ай бұрын
Good conclusion. Single mother - not quite wifey material. So if she wants to find one, she simply can't afford many "icks".
@kirbyallan66514 күн бұрын
Lady j.. wish I could meet a woman like you that can see threw the BS.. keep doing what you are doing
@TheGweedMan2 ай бұрын
Lady J; I really like your look when your hair is down. You have one great looking healthy head of hair. I love your comments they’re great!
@kerryroberts94553 ай бұрын
Wow! You hit the nail on the head!!
@lancefurcinite65183 ай бұрын
Lady J. Right on as usual.
@paddyoak12 ай бұрын
THANK YOU Lady J!❤
@Bolt_theG3524 күн бұрын
Yes.. she NEEDS to stay single forever. Run dude run!
@raymyers7002 ай бұрын
0:03 this line made me spit out my coffee....hahaha...you are awesome! :D
@raymyers7002 ай бұрын
I just had this discussion with my daughter yesterday to NOT put up these conflicting barriers to your own happiness. She is doing so good to being straightforward, knowing what she wants and accepting no less. I don't know why people don't analyze how they are and ask "Can *I* improve something with myself and/or my expectations?"
@thedarkestowl42244 күн бұрын
" Sometimes I think i'm going to be single forever." I think you will too. 😂
@stranger84493 ай бұрын
Beautiful its like logic makes sense here.
@andrewbennett775610 күн бұрын
You rock I love your thoughts great show ❤❤❤❤❤
@KLRCATАй бұрын
You should do audio books! your voice is so soothing and calming.
@HistoricallySpeakingSports3 ай бұрын
The_Lady_J I must say every video you post makes me more appreciative of the woman I married. I could not in a million years be single today. And another thing, you are obviously very intelligent and seem very sweet but please remind me to never piss you off... lol. Keep doing what you are doing......peace!
@kikufutaba5242 ай бұрын
I love your analysis and delivery. Thank you for your channel
@charlessedlacek57543 ай бұрын
Lady j...your beauty, intellegence, your soothing voice, i am a subscriber and enjoy your videos.
@Crippledsasquash2 ай бұрын
As a single dad that raised twins on my own as a disabled guy working full time nights id tell her to concentrate on her kid not trying to find a partner. And the fact that you think someone should come in and want to take care of your bad decisions is insane im now 42 and my twins are 21 ive waited till now. I'm tall but cant walk all the time so when i tell them im 6'5 and i turn up in a wheelchair apparently that doesnt make me 6'5 anymore even had the last date say "i didnt think you would be using your wheelchair tonight i asked you to leave it at home" and that was 6 months ago so thats the end of dating for me.
@srmrlrАй бұрын
I seriously LOVE that my 55 year old, never married, no kids girlfriend is FIERCLY INDEPENDENT!!! I don't have to have a project, we adapt to what we know how to do for each other and MOVE FORWARD!!!!
@johnRed-de3blАй бұрын
Absolutely hilarious !
@blackox4002 ай бұрын
I could listen to you talk all day.
@GregAero19 күн бұрын
I make sure my ladies are past menopause, I ast wife I was 44. She was 57, very loving and awsome relationship, no drama, treated her like a Queen.
@CK041702 ай бұрын
I ❤❤❤ your smirk. It's warranted.
@michaelmedley6965Ай бұрын
To the_lady_j_, I just wanted to tell you that i love your content and you have on of the most soothing and calming voices iit has ever been my privilege to listen to.
@patrickkelley36553 ай бұрын
I don't think even the simps would wife this one up .
@kushkingla73853 ай бұрын
I want YOU to take things off my plate but I’m not helping you. I, I, I, I, me, me, me,
@danwalter21753 ай бұрын
Lady J- she doesn't want an equal partner. She doesn't want to be indepedent all the time, but she would see any need for assistance from him as a 'project.'
@trevornelmes93313 ай бұрын
I WISH social media had been around when I was dating. It would have made avoiding women like this so much easier. I am actually stunned that, out of the (what) 4 billion females on the planet, I found one who wanted to date me, then marry me, then have kids with me, and stay married to me ... Based on the videos you comment on, there are some serious car wrecks waiting to happen out there. Mind you, there are some seriously nuts guys out there too.
@dieterhoos847629 күн бұрын
Madam... I find your videos refreshing. Thank you. They are short and to the point.
@Scylithen3 ай бұрын
So, not too independant. But also not too interdependant. She will find someone to make batcrap crazy for sure, then blame him for being _insecure_ when he leaves her, not for someone else, but for his own sanity and peace and quiet 😞😔
@sourisvoleur48543 ай бұрын
She wants to be independent and self-reliant right up until she has a boyfriend, then she wants to be his project. God forbid they should support each other. Oh noes. She doesn't want a husband she wants a sugar daddy.
@bovax62593 ай бұрын
That's always the case. One never, in this day and age of social media, takes personal responsibility for someone else leaving when it is they who should do the personal reflecting for why THEY left.
@brianhammer5107Ай бұрын
"adjusting one's ick-settings" 😆
@kilohjonsonАй бұрын
Man here. It’s these ridiculous expectations that are driving men away from women.
@samusaran7317Ай бұрын
Crabs in a bucket
@JR-ht2vyАй бұрын
You can peel the onion, you understand these self promoters and you do it with a great voice!❤
@manuelkatsos51042 ай бұрын
adjust your ick settings ---- CLASSIC keep up the great content
@thefenian322 ай бұрын
When you have so many parameters to establishing a relationship, you are the project!
@LordShockwave93 ай бұрын
You let him hit it raw, you didn't have second thoughts, and now you're a single mom, you're a single mom... 🎶 drizzle drizzle guys. Stay away from this one. Lady J, keep up the good sarcastic comments! 😂
@squidnerful2 ай бұрын
OMG 😱. RUN!
@user-pe1zs2pn4n3 ай бұрын
Some of these are single moms, but not many. Most of these are divorced moms. Perhaps that tells you something. No guys going to want to settle for someone else’s family of children. They want their own children. Usually when they marry a woman with children already they are settling. If that woman would’ve been so great and made such an awesome mom and wife, she would not have been divorced 99 times out of 100!
@samking65833 ай бұрын
If only women of this era understood Lady J's message, the world would balance itself out again. The message, the delivery, the piercing blue eyes, hey science, can we get that cloning technology figured out please ?
@jacemiller25932 ай бұрын
Love Lady J.
@walrus27963 ай бұрын
Cats, lots of cats in her future!
@sinjint133 ай бұрын
Why do you hate cats that much😂😂
@IGotTriggeredАй бұрын
Eternally single,,now thats a great name for a channel
@lsporter8816 күн бұрын
The only thing I got from her tirade that even made any sense was that a Man shouldn't expect her to cook or clean. So what does she do now? I guess she and her kids live in filth, and they only eat fast food, or take out, or delivery. The rest of her babel I chose to ignore, it simply made no sense and made my head hurt. I've actually seen that type of dysfunction up close. No sane and healthy Woman lives like that, or calls that empowerment. I now don't try to change them or even argue with em when I see that behavior. Any Woman that expects to attract and retain a Quality Man when she lives like that is completely delusional. When I even hear talk like that from ANY Woman, I immediately label her insane and move on. It's simply the safest thing to do. Great video.
@godleveleldritchblast52572 ай бұрын
I will point this out lady J, they say they want a protector to protect them from other people and a provider who can basically be everything they want and give them the lifestyle of leisure but basically what they are saying they want is a superior. I've come to learn all of our fairer halves want a superior.
@michaelhendershott86042 ай бұрын
Exactly. Good Luck. . .
@1776revwar2 ай бұрын
Everything that first woman said just advertises that she's a problem.
@user-dw4wo6vm2m2 ай бұрын
The fact that she's telling the world that she has an "ick" says all I need to know about her.
@markplautz6842Күн бұрын
Thanks for the warning…
@michaeljohnston7313 күн бұрын
I'm so glad I've been with the same woman since 2001. I think I'd become a monk if I had to date now.
@1stCAVFirebase6Nam3 ай бұрын
Been around the world more than once in my line of work. I know first class when I see it and you are a refreshing addition to the YOUTube channel. I see military insignias on the wall behind your presentations, looks like 1st, 2nd or 3rd Armor Divisions.
@user-xb9wg8er4c3 ай бұрын
"Uugh, why are the pretty ones always dumb?" Brian Griffin 😂
@BeADad24473 ай бұрын
This lady is so funny! Beautiful!
@johnnycooper6572 ай бұрын
Fair lady, if you are for real, and that spiel is genuine, you got millions of Men, not shemen, tuning in. But you must be aware that your girlfriends will be thinning out rather quickly. But I am loving it so far. Godspeed sister.
@dro18883 ай бұрын
Lady Spock, half Vulcan - half human, I luv her wittiness.
@JohnSaylock-ec4cd24 күн бұрын
Dang.....shes got the cat scratch fever too.
@TacShooter2 ай бұрын
Lady J has this intimidating Elvira, Mistress of the Dark quality about her. :D
@way2tehdawnАй бұрын
I love this new “I’m not your mom” rhetoric. “What you think I’m going to do anything productive that benefits you, I’m not your mom. So we’re gonna have two washing machines, two bathrooms, two stoves, two refrigerators and two basins.” “Wait so how are we a couple? Aren’t we just room mates?” “I’M NOT! YOUR MOM!”