How One Polygamous Family Changed the Law | Counter-Narratives | The New Yorker

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@mrmavic9716
@mrmavic9716 2 жыл бұрын
Considering almost 80% of our ancient cultures practiced polygamy in one fashion or another, I find it to be very backwards that you can have one man that knocks up three separate women but not married and that's not illegal, but here you have one man that's married to three separate women with a loving family and somehow there's something wrong with that , very backwards
@vice2versa
@vice2versa Жыл бұрын
Polygamous societies historically are much more violent than monogamous relationships. Most psychologist and intelectuals know and understand this fact. This is not a good thing.
@osmanrayyan
@osmanrayyan Жыл бұрын
In Islam a man can marry up to 4 wives and have children as long as everyone is on the same page and okay with it
@johncaze757
@johncaze757 Жыл бұрын
​@@vice2versaany source for this?
@Hiyjjbro
@Hiyjjbro 11 ай бұрын
Indeed
@Hiyjjbro
@Hiyjjbro 11 ай бұрын
@@vice2versa How does it lead to a more violent psychology? Sounds like BS
@oliviapersson8302
@oliviapersson8302 3 жыл бұрын
man is no one talking about how the wives are twins.....
@avag8242
@avag8242 3 жыл бұрын
I know it’s not technically incest but like...
@sarah-janegalipo3995
@sarah-janegalipo3995 3 жыл бұрын
Oh.... I’m talking
@Jahannam...Hellfire.
@Jahannam...Hellfire. 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist
@annsertrue8782
@annsertrue8782 3 жыл бұрын
And the twins are cousins to the third wife. So what does that make all their children to each other? So messed up.
@JW-gl4yp
@JW-gl4yp 3 жыл бұрын
@Mia Li how are they sick? They seem like perfectly healthy people to me
@justamom863
@justamom863 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a huge fan of polygamy BUT these are consenting adults. None of these women are wearing prairie dresses or got married at 14.
@fadlya.rahman4113
@fadlya.rahman4113 3 жыл бұрын
The World Government narrative is population reduction. So anything that can lead to that goal will be heavily promoted, like LGBTQ+, pro-abortions, feminism, career woman etc. Anything on the contrary to that goal, like polygamy, younger marriagable age, traditional family value etc will be suppressed.
@AverageTurrk
@AverageTurrk 3 жыл бұрын
@@fadlya.rahman4113 wallahi I have never thought about that. JazakAllah khayr.
@davidarvingumazon5024
@davidarvingumazon5024 3 жыл бұрын
@@fadlya.rahman4113 Minecraft Villager: Hrmm...
@A_name_is_a_name
@A_name_is_a_name 3 жыл бұрын
@@fadlya.rahman4113 Ya if one guy was able to marry a bunch of L’s it would kind of hurt that objective.
@raynemichelle2996
@raynemichelle2996 3 жыл бұрын
@@fadlya.rahman4113 Except those of us who support all of those things also support polyamory. Polygyny is just typically sexist and nonconsensual
@justing1810
@justing1810 2 жыл бұрын
Look at all the amazing children they have together it's beautiful
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@proapocalypse1448
@proapocalypse1448 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see any diversity though. Racist.
@ms.understood365
@ms.understood365 2 жыл бұрын
🤢🤢🤢🤮
@lovelyt8022
@lovelyt8022 Жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!
@gamerwhiz6847
@gamerwhiz6847 Жыл бұрын
They are never alone and the women have more options for marriage.
@PleasantRevolt
@PleasantRevolt 2 жыл бұрын
What a nice perspective. Thank y’all for sharing best of luck to your family ❤️
@cookingwithmissi5938
@cookingwithmissi5938 3 жыл бұрын
I've never lived a polygamous lifestyle but I love what they did. They fought for their freedom and they won. Rock on y'all
@iwillnotcomplyistandformyf6642
@iwillnotcomplyistandformyf6642 2 жыл бұрын
Well, their freedom is gonna get them banned and illegalized in 2023/2024.
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 2 жыл бұрын
It's at our expense. Destroying marriage that way leads to societal collapse. Our societal collapse has already begun, still no reason to throw everything to the wind.
@iwillnotcomplyistandformyf6642
@iwillnotcomplyistandformyf6642 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariemunzar6474 Facts
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 2 жыл бұрын
@I Cri Some Times the dissolution of the family, on which society stands
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 2 жыл бұрын
@I Cri Some Times humans aren't animals, you see if everyone turned polygamous it would be a disaster, some people would be marrying anyone and everyone while others would be left without a spouse, it would not end well. As it is people still struggle to find a spouse today, it would be worse under polygamy. Most people believe in being faithful to one person, that concept would no longer exist. People would really be very miserable. Why "adapt" when traditional marriage works so much better?
@hyrulejoe7825
@hyrulejoe7825 2 жыл бұрын
if all the wives/or husbands are happy in a polygamy marriage, then it's fine
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
It's not fine, sane people don't want to live next to a brothel.
@gibberish517
@gibberish517 2 жыл бұрын
Uh, did this guy really suggest that the idea of "normality" was invented by mathematicians in the 1950s? 🤦🏻‍♂️ Every culture in history has had norms...
@willman9567
@willman9567 2 жыл бұрын
Right. That made no scene. Western culture had a long history of one spouse at a time. Eastern culture allowed these type of marriages. They always want to lie when they are trying to make a point.
@user-cw4zj6kc8u
@user-cw4zj6kc8u 3 ай бұрын
Yeah Monogamy goes all the way back to Ancient Greece and Rome.
@NathanAmiel-f6b
@NathanAmiel-f6b 5 күн бұрын
@@user-cw4zj6kc8u Yuck. Those cultures are garbage. Ancient Parthia rocks!
@stephaniejohnson8409
@stephaniejohnson8409 3 жыл бұрын
Living with my sister for the rest of my life would be a deal breaker for me 🙅🏽‍♀️😅
@naysaynetwork5271
@naysaynetwork5271 3 жыл бұрын
Some people actually get along
@Luigi13
@Luigi13 3 жыл бұрын
I see a woman name with a man's image. Are you transgender? Inquiring mind would like clarity.
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 3 жыл бұрын
I know two twin sisters that are inseparable. It depends on your bond with siblings, i love my siblings.
@amaranthearimathea3061
@amaranthearimathea3061 2 жыл бұрын
Biblical.
@freereinartstudio1463
@freereinartstudio1463 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@BlackbettyBamdalam
@BlackbettyBamdalam 2 жыл бұрын
If two men can get married and that is now legal this should be legal to people should be able to love who they want and being a family with who they want but they're not hurting anybody
@proapocalypse1448
@proapocalypse1448 2 жыл бұрын
Yes and you should be able to marry a pig or a horse too.
@BlackbettyBamdalam
@BlackbettyBamdalam 2 жыл бұрын
@@proapocalypse1448 they are grown AF ....leave em be...not our business
@BlackbettyBamdalam
@BlackbettyBamdalam 2 жыл бұрын
@@proapocalypse1448 and you molesting animals is unacceptable sir
@proapocalypse1448
@proapocalypse1448 2 жыл бұрын
@@BlackbettyBamdalam Nice to see you have a line you won't cross mind you it had to be drawn at animals.
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
It's hurting society for sane people.
@brooklynparkse
@brooklynparkse 3 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure Leave It To Beaver didn’t inspire the nuclear family.
@jamiejokersin354
@jamiejokersin354 3 жыл бұрын
I know, I didn't like the way they presented that either. I think what they were trying to say was those shows and that era only showed one kind of family. When in reality, there's lots of different kinds of styles throughout history. That's what I think they meant to convey. Although, I agree that the most common and normal is the nuclear family. And it's been around since forever lol
@deborahmac1997
@deborahmac1997 3 жыл бұрын
I want to see a story where there are three husbands and one wife. Just a thought.
@jamie615
@jamie615 3 жыл бұрын
@Anna Gonzalez yes its also deeper than that, its very anti women...highly satanic.
@mamonshree
@mamonshree 3 жыл бұрын
@@DeathByToob can u show me other examples in Hindu scriptures of a woman having multiple husbands. Even in Mahabharata, draupadi was shown as an exception. She was married to one brother only first - but had to marry others because of Kunti's mistaken instructions that all brothers should share whatever they have got. Kunti had said it without realising that Arjun had brought a wife. Even in the epic, it is always specified that Draupadi's situation was unique and unique by definition means that it is not the norm. So instead of talking of "liberal overlords", please don't misrepresent what it was and assume that no one has read the original epic. There is no other major examples in indian scriptures besides that. In real life, there are anthropological reports of some remote communities in himalayas having polyandric marriages, but that's it. This youtube video is documenting a contemporary reality. Is it a contemporary reality in India? is there any newspaper report of an Indian woman married to three men? So what may have happened 1000s of years ago in India has nothing to do with it
@nelysolana
@nelysolana 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Because is economic more efficient for population one wife tree husband, the children's will be less and with more economic support, and love for their fathers
@thecrippledpancake9455
@thecrippledpancake9455 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes there are situations like this, but he’s also married to other men as well.
@crazymike1706
@crazymike1706 3 жыл бұрын
There's plenty of that
@qathi
@qathi 3 жыл бұрын
Polygamy is totally not my jam, but I really appreciate the angle they're taking to change marriage laws. Who we are married to and making families with shouldn't have anything to do with the state - that has never made sense to me. Family up with whomever you are compelled to, if y'all are committed to support each other and the family you create together, have at it.
@asgloki
@asgloki 2 жыл бұрын
I just searched for this as I'm currently watching Big love
@valeenoi2284
@valeenoi2284 3 жыл бұрын
Who cares... if multiple partners make you happy, everyone respecting each other, and you grow as a family, then so be it. We are still stuck in this 12th century mentality.
@21getback
@21getback 2 жыл бұрын
They are relatives
@valeenoi2284
@valeenoi2284 2 жыл бұрын
@@21getback Ok. And?
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
Nobody is respecting those women. They look like retards.
@iluvradiantscholar9758
@iluvradiantscholar9758 3 жыл бұрын
Polygamy should definitely be legal. This is a healthy happy family. It would be criminal to break this family up. You know what should be illegal and abolished? Child marriages.
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 жыл бұрын
🙂
@ke6944
@ke6944 3 жыл бұрын
But the practice of polygamy leads to child marriage. The reason the romans ban the practice was the huge marriage asymmetry it creates - a small percent of affluent men accumulate multiple wives leaving a pool of unmarried men. To reduce the pool of unmarried people ancient government decrease the age of marriage for female, which lead to child marriage.
@crow2989
@crow2989 2 жыл бұрын
@@ke6944 That makes sense because children marrying back then was seen as ok. Nowadays, a 18 yo with a 17 can lead to the 18 yo in prison. So polygamy wouldn’t lead to chile marriage.
@jeihka1
@jeihka1 2 жыл бұрын
But we have to limit births in all marriages. Overpopulation is a problem
@mnt7526
@mnt7526 2 жыл бұрын
A big nooooo!
@CourtLee333
@CourtLee333 2 жыл бұрын
Their are people that are suffering in ALLLLLLL types of relationships
@qwertyTRiG
@qwertyTRiG 3 жыл бұрын
As much as the social conservative framework creeps me out, I think that these people are doing a good thing in their campaigning.
@colbalt95
@colbalt95 2 жыл бұрын
Males are naturally polygamous...what you see is socially enforced monogamy and wallet reach the highest benefits and is highly unstable
@jaybanks2709
@jaybanks2709 2 жыл бұрын
@@colbalt95 right on we are suffering because feminism and enforced societal rules and obligations
@NegiTaiMetal011
@NegiTaiMetal011 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that polygamy or polygyny has got to be recognized and there's nothing wrong with it. In fact, even science has shown there are benefits to be in a polygynous relationship. All these stereotypes and stigmatization of polygamy/polygyny has got to end. If there's a man willing to be responsible and capable to have multiple wives, why not. As long as anyone understands this and know how to properly live this life with no harm done, then it's good.
@prothomghosh873
@prothomghosh873 3 жыл бұрын
Well are women allowed to take more than 1 husbands??
@A_name_is_a_name
@A_name_is_a_name 3 жыл бұрын
@@prothomghosh873 ya actually they are
@kereniofiel3729
@kereniofiel3729 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with polygyny. There is nothing wrong about it.
@prothomghosh873
@prothomghosh873 3 жыл бұрын
@@kereniofiel3729 Okay, then why most polygamist form a cult? why there are always young girls at risk who r heavily brain washed involved?? Why there is an unspoken tension between wives?? why the kids grow in an environment where they are neglected?? why does the government end up paying for most childcare?? why do the men involved have some toxic sense of masculinity?? And for gods sake why is it more a religion than a relationship??
@patrickburns4821
@patrickburns4821 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder what the God they pray to says about it....hmmmmm
@loveeveryone114
@loveeveryone114 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for having the courage to speak up and affect change and increase freedoms for polygamous and polyamorous families
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
Polygamy increases freedoms for pigs, not for sane men or women. Western civilization sorted that out more than 2000 years ago.
@User40919
@User40919 2 ай бұрын
What are the benefits of polygamy for society?
@beccaspragg1380
@beccaspragg1380 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Everyone gets to own their truth polygamous relationships should too
@User40919
@User40919 2 ай бұрын
Who is, and who isn't allowed to live their truth and why should yhey they live their truth?
@TheBoar6767
@TheBoar6767 3 жыл бұрын
We need to fight to make this fully legal. It is not right that polygamy is not legal
@DorkyDogBoy
@DorkyDogBoy 3 жыл бұрын
polygamy isnt a good thing.
@fly89
@fly89 3 жыл бұрын
do you support polyandry as vigorously?
@DorkyDogBoy
@DorkyDogBoy 3 жыл бұрын
@@stevewalker6240 nature doesn't mean its a good thing. its like depression. its nature but it aint a good thing
@DorkyDogBoy
@DorkyDogBoy 3 жыл бұрын
@Skgn 978 no its not.
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
@@DorkyDogBoy Last time I checked the ant colonies and gorilla tribes fare better than government imposed ignorance. How's that Biden check working out for you? Being a civilian means that Biden is your daddy.
@jerseygirl6261
@jerseygirl6261 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to see this family do a reality show I would definitely be a supporter and watcher🥰🥰 they were on the Browns family episodes and they seem to flow much better the wife’s are more on the same page 🥰🥰
@alexandrapepsi2302
@alexandrapepsi2302 Жыл бұрын
They have no desire to do such due to the way they would want to dramatize their family
@beverlynewer4681
@beverlynewer4681 Жыл бұрын
Not only that but he seems like a very I don’t know how to put it basically Cody Brown’s total opposite I would love to see a show on them on Joe
@JR-lw3ms
@JR-lw3ms 9 ай бұрын
@@beverlynewer4681 SEEMS!!!!
@spellbreaker6609
@spellbreaker6609 2 жыл бұрын
Its about money systems you see a family like that can easy make a corporation ,army, buy more land, start a new people and end up with millions of them. No welfare needed no help as you have family members that are doctors, lawers,cooks, farmers its is endless and tons of money putting it together as one. They do not wish you to see that you are one and the more of you there are the more freedom and love of each other there will be.
@tinkerinjones6604
@tinkerinjones6604 2 жыл бұрын
What happens if 3 of them divorce him...who gets the house? How much child support can he pay and still support other kids? Is he really paying for college for 20 kids? Or health insurance for 20 kids?...lets get real
@tinkerinjones6604
@tinkerinjones6604 2 жыл бұрын
face it...he isn't buying 20 kids a daily lolly pop so its completely irresponsible
@avag8242
@avag8242 3 жыл бұрын
Wait...all the wives are related? Two of them are sisters??
@sunnyschramm9650
@sunnyschramm9650 3 жыл бұрын
twins
@WallyTony
@WallyTony 3 жыл бұрын
Even more gross.....twins.
@Jahannam...Hellfire.
@Jahannam...Hellfire. 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist
@Luigi13
@Luigi13 3 жыл бұрын
@@WallyTony Why it is gross? What leads you to think of it?
@Artemisdianaxxx
@Artemisdianaxxx 3 жыл бұрын
As long as everyone is a consenting adult that’s all cool.
@alexanderaz8
@alexanderaz8 3 жыл бұрын
lol that's how low the bar is now, never mind that in numerous parts of the world, 13-16-year-olds are adults.
@Artemisdianaxxx
@Artemisdianaxxx 3 жыл бұрын
alexm ok obviously I don’t support pedophilia and while those people may be legally adults I wouldn’t consider them as such. When I say adults I mean people over 18 and also obviously the large power imbalance between a thirteen year old and an adult would mean that the 13 year old couldn’t consent anyway
@fordhouse8b
@fordhouse8b 3 жыл бұрын
Yes but what about when a couple of those wives, or maybe all three, independently of each other, meet more husbands? What if each of those three women married two more men each? And those additional men would each only be married to one of these women? And then those additional husbands meet more wives? Who takes who’s name?
@Artemisdianaxxx
@Artemisdianaxxx 3 жыл бұрын
fordhouse8b ok so firstly that isn’t happening here and I haven’t heard of it happening anywhere so it’s a made up problem but also why would that be bad if everyone was fine with it? Yeah it seems weird but it’s not harming anyone.
@fordhouse8b
@fordhouse8b 3 жыл бұрын
@@Artemisdianaxxx If it were legal, sooner or later it would happen, if nothing else, then out of sheer laziness. If marrying multiple partners was legal, how long before some people jus stop bothering to get a divorce before remarrying? The problem would be that marriage would no longer be a family unit at all, since I could be legally married to a person who is legally married to another person who is legally married to another person, and so on and so on... If you are one of three wives, and simultaneously married to three other men, where do you live? Your two other husbands have no legal or familial bonds with each other or your firs husband, and certainly not with your first husbands other two wives. You yourself would have no legal affiliation with your sister wives, because you are not married to them. I’m not saying it is wrong, only that it has the potential to become very messy and complicated. Custody and allimony issues would be a nightmare. A possible partial solution for some issues might be for everyone involved to be considered the legal spouse of everyone else. In the case of this family, that would mean that each new wife married not just the man, but each other as well. Of course in this particular family two of the wives are sisters, so maybe not... Also, parental and custody issues would be even more tangled in thorny in some ways.
@susanmoran692
@susanmoran692 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad it’s decimalized I feel it’s their choice. Wonder how the state/country can even give them a ticket?? So strange like if they are out shopping, eating at a restaurant or the movies is that how they could get a ticket??
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
The police find out and give an investigation. Or, if people see them, they report it.
@Astitto-yv6vn
@Astitto-yv6vn 7 ай бұрын
They are contributing very much in the American society. They should be respected.
@thoughts4872
@thoughts4872 6 ай бұрын
Contributing what???
@reneesantiago6496
@reneesantiago6496 3 жыл бұрын
If adults want to have a polygamy family that's their business......but WHY are they always closely related and/or young teenage girls???
@Luigi13
@Luigi13 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe, because they share the same mindset?
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
Girls reach maturity faster than boys of the same age, so that is why most men are older than their wives, It's biology because females go through menopause averaging around 45 for most. Child molesters should be castrated though.
@JR-lw3ms
@JR-lw3ms 9 ай бұрын
Brainwashing and religious manipulation!
@WildOutdoorLiving
@WildOutdoorLiving 3 жыл бұрын
You do know that polygamy was illegal in the US long before the 1950s right?
@redarbz6545
@redarbz6545 3 жыл бұрын
An maybe that should change.. who says what u should do as a free adult
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was thinking as I was watching this, hasn't the so-called nuclear family been around for a very very long time? like, WAAAAAAY before the 1950s??
@amado4249
@amado4249 3 жыл бұрын
@@redarbz6545 Yeah, like choosing not to get vaccinated under the threat of losing your livelihood? We are free adults, didn't you say that?
@anitakrijgsman5778
@anitakrijgsman5778 6 ай бұрын
So he married 1 of the twin sisters and their niece first. After 10 years the other twin sister joined the family. The kids would normally have been all cousins, but now they are brothers and sisters.. 🤔
@ohmyblindman
@ohmyblindman 3 жыл бұрын
Under what mechanism are four people supporting twenty five kids and thirty grandchildren? My suspicion is that the state is, and that is the states (unspoken) objection.
@Christina-71
@Christina-71 2 жыл бұрын
@Mia L LSD Church? 😂🤣
@callmeangelic6525
@callmeangelic6525 2 жыл бұрын
😂 looking at that house no the state is not supporting them
@tinkerinjones6604
@tinkerinjones6604 2 жыл бұрын
@@callmeangelic6525 You don't know that. Most polygamist families...the legally wed couple own the house...all the other woman are single baby momma's that get welfare
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
It's called making good practical use of your family, not waiting around for another one of Biden's peanut handouts. How do you think farmers do it?
@alrent2992
@alrent2992 Жыл бұрын
Never live in fear!
@kalsaumesatungiamata9066
@kalsaumesatungiamata9066 3 жыл бұрын
Stay blessed. Thats the future. Polygamy legalized
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@jaybanks2709
@jaybanks2709 2 жыл бұрын
indeed
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
Actually for Western civilization is a very distant past. More than 2500 years. You belong in a third world country with pimps like you.
@User40919
@User40919 2 ай бұрын
Please explain why this should be legalised?
@juanczayas-santiago1710
@juanczayas-santiago1710 Жыл бұрын
They are a beautiful family, they deserve to be happy and accepted regardless They're practicing the polygamy.
@roseypeach8363
@roseypeach8363 3 жыл бұрын
No way will I ever share my husband. And sisters sharing a husband is just sick!
@PapaLove09
@PapaLove09 11 ай бұрын
Lovely family, it's so sad taht they were treated so horribly when their baby passed, it breaks my heart. I'm glad they spoke up and fought hard to have their voices heard. I wish them happiness and many blessings.
@红丝绒精
@红丝绒精 3 жыл бұрын
If they are happy, then why not.
@louie3567
@louie3567 3 жыл бұрын
Several prominent men in the Old Testament were polygamists. Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon, and others all had multiple wives. Moses had 2 wives
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 жыл бұрын
Yes , and not one of them was rebuked by God for it. Solomon got in to trouble only cause he and his wives were unequally yoked
@reneesantiago6496
@reneesantiago6496 3 жыл бұрын
Those are all OT examples. Once Jesus was born and grew he taught one wife and one man shall be married.
@davidarvingumazon5024
@davidarvingumazon5024 3 жыл бұрын
@@reneesantiago6496 hi
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 3 жыл бұрын
That was back then. And in general it caused problems for them. Just because some people in the Bible did it doesn't mean we should be doing it. Also Old Testament prophets aren't Jesus and so they aren't the primary example we should be following. They were imperfect people, while Jesus was perfect in every way. Jesus taught one man, one woman.
@jklg4
@jklg4 3 жыл бұрын
@@reneesantiago6496 book, chapter, verse ...
@thecrippledpancake9455
@thecrippledpancake9455 3 жыл бұрын
We really do need to legalize this.
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 жыл бұрын
True
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449 2 жыл бұрын
Yes we do
@jaybanks2709
@jaybanks2709 2 жыл бұрын
Yes we do more wife's need more money but they make money more profit better healthier lifestyle
@vice2versa
@vice2versa Жыл бұрын
If this was widespread then the incel problem would get even worse and you will far more violent crimes being committed. Polygamous societies historically have all been far more violent than monogamous ones.
@USA50_
@USA50_ 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure this is a good way to go forward but because it is happening in Utah does not surprise me.
@cpaulpsy
@cpaulpsy 2 жыл бұрын
Why?
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing to do with Utah for the sake of argument, polygamous Muslims can get EBT foodstamp benefits because they recognize that household under amnesty and refugees, others who are financially sound just now better.
@RynoZ
@RynoZ 2 жыл бұрын
It always seems religion is the unifier in polygamy but I'd love to see a secular representation in the western world. Just interested in what ideologies they hold that bind them together through the jealousy and second-guesses--the only other unifier I can see are the children. One of them represented their familial situation as "the lifestyle" which typically references structure around extracurricular adult activities. Are any of the wives bisexual? Just so many questions.
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449 2 жыл бұрын
No doubt religion does play a huge role. If we want secular examples, I guess it will need to become part of the culture
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
No, most women in these families are not bisexual. They're usually heterosexual, in fact, most of the families would shut them down and outcast them.
@rtperrett
@rtperrett 3 жыл бұрын
on 3:27, in the background, who knew, they have a drinking fountain in the background. That is so odd in see in a house.
@melissaharris3890
@melissaharris3890 Жыл бұрын
If all parties are consenting and no one is hurt, I don't care what your relationship is
@jeffreyromero9613
@jeffreyromero9613 2 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of women that want a family but were either career driven or divorced or had children young and the so called good men are already taken and all that are left are mostly men that want a woman with no kids, a young woman or are the same type men that put the women in that situation in the first place. Polygamy is not always religious based there are other reasons for it too. If people are well off financially and happy. Then they should be allowed to do it if everyone is consenting.
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
Correct, consent is agreement, which is how contracts with the wives is the lawful way to it. Nobody needs a marriage license with the state, by erring that way -- we set ourselves up under a secular triad with the state, then that allows the state to come in as third party because most people who get married that way are 'in-the-heat-of-the-moment', they haven't read where it stipulates a business partnership on the state's terms. Draft your own contracts and stipulate with each wife what the terms are that are agreeable, then put clauses about separation of assets in the event of any breach. The dummies in Hollywood try getting prenuptial agreements but those are one sided which is why most women reject those. Bill Gates is a computer genius but he is incompetent towards his private life, he wanted pool parties but he got shamed in the end. If he was honest in the beginning he could have had his cake and eat it too, but no -- he had to be a self absorbed.
@princearthur4946
@princearthur4946 4 ай бұрын
Plural marriage is absolutely one Godly blessing and beautiful life style!
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
Some women enjoy being prostitutes? It wouldn't even matter, sane people don't like having prostitutes around.
@User40919
@User40919 2 ай бұрын
Why is that so?
@dp2404
@dp2404 10 күн бұрын
Also 1 wife and multiple husbands?
@princearthur4946
@princearthur4946 10 күн бұрын
@@dp2404 Polyandry! To each its own!
@dp2404
@dp2404 6 күн бұрын
@princearthur4946 ok, just checking if yours is a religious/patriarcal stance or just call to individual freedom. I don't think polygamy (in any of its forms) works for the majority of people. However I am for freedom as well
@majidtaha7268
@majidtaha7268 3 жыл бұрын
Polygamy is allowed in islam but completely forbidden for man to marry two sisters at the same time
@Iahusha777Iahuah
@Iahusha777Iahuah 3 жыл бұрын
Because they have inbreeding problems
@whispersofveracity63
@whispersofveracity63 3 жыл бұрын
@@Iahusha777Iahuah Inbreeding? Those sisters are not breeding with each other.
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 3 жыл бұрын
that doesn't make polygamy moral. just because you make a rule not to marry two sisters at one time.
@whispersofveracity63
@whispersofveracity63 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariemunzar6474 Whatbis moral? Two women marrying each other?
@mariemunzar6474
@mariemunzar6474 3 жыл бұрын
@@whispersofveracity63 that's not moral either. That is even worse than polygamy.
@lompocus
@lompocus 3 жыл бұрын
I had such a nice and funny comment that that just vanished... well basically I don't think a 66.67% non-marriage rate among men versus a 90% marriage rate among women is a very good idea.
@HienTruong-hj3qf
@HienTruong-hj3qf 11 ай бұрын
However, one’s cousins shouldn’t become your siblings nor marry another cousin further one shouldn’t have to check one’s bloodline before having children together!
@jamescabuyadao5097
@jamescabuyadao5097 2 жыл бұрын
Wait…so if his wives are cousins, wouldn’t that mean their children are cousins/siblings?
@ilovemydoggos5981
@ilovemydoggos5981 2 жыл бұрын
Well yeah
@ml-mw7ms
@ml-mw7ms 2 жыл бұрын
Pretty disgusting.
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
No because the husband is not biologically related to them. How incompetent could you be?
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
@@ml-mw7ms The husband is not biologically related.
@MuhammadHamza-fi1lb
@MuhammadHamza-fi1lb Жыл бұрын
The kids will be related two each other dude they have same dad it doesn't make a difference if their mums are cousins it like saying you divorce your wife and marry her cousin totally normal. Kids
@jlynnd1616
@jlynnd1616 Жыл бұрын
The journalist in this video said that he was going to be writing a book about different kinds of families. Who is the author and what is that book I'm interested in Reading it.
@BD-eu1id
@BD-eu1id 10 ай бұрын
Andrew Solomon
@justing1810
@justing1810 2 жыл бұрын
I think that maybe it's natural for a man to be able to have multiple wives
@vice2versa
@vice2versa Жыл бұрын
Its also natural for men that get left out to grow angry and become dangerous in polygamous societies. Polygamous societies are historically far more violent than monogamous societies. It wouldnt be wise to encourage such societies.
@shimmer4771
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
It is. Men are instinctively going to want to implant the seed in as many women as possible.
@FateOfTheElephant
@FateOfTheElephant 3 жыл бұрын
I think some women fail to see how this is beneficial to them. It literally takes a community to raise children, you need community. When a man dies you're left alone, when a mother dies children are left alone. This way everyone wins, your children will always be taken care of and you will never be lonely. Look at a lion pride.
@gabriellerush
@gabriellerush 3 жыл бұрын
you must be a man
@FateOfTheElephant
@FateOfTheElephant 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabriellerush I'm not
@fly89
@fly89 3 жыл бұрын
yeah we aren’t lion though, 😂😂😋😂😂
@amaranthearimathea3061
@amaranthearimathea3061 2 жыл бұрын
@@gabriellerush and you simple.
@youngatnaruto5842
@youngatnaruto5842 2 жыл бұрын
You believe this and you are not a man? Would you be open to being in a plural marriage in the future?
@НектоИнкогнито-д4й
@НектоИнкогнито-д4й 3 жыл бұрын
I need a full with them
@caseymichel1113
@caseymichel1113 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t care less what other people do as long as it isn’t hurting innocent people. With that being said I have a very hard time believing no innocent people are being hurt here
@infinity8636
@infinity8636 9 ай бұрын
I still wouldnt care even if it was hurting people. Its none of my business
@Violet.sChannel
@Violet.sChannel 4 ай бұрын
I actually know these people irl!! They live in my neighborhood lol. One of their kids is actually one of my best friends
@shresthadinesh4369
@shresthadinesh4369 3 жыл бұрын
It they are happy.let them be.
@aliahawaii6791
@aliahawaii6791 2 ай бұрын
Monogamy didn't originate in the 50s, you can trace them back to Christianity 2000 years ago and even to Romans.
@SusanSilvis-vn2bd
@SusanSilvis-vn2bd 25 күн бұрын
This is who Kody Brown wanted to be. I still think polygamy should be illegal.
@leahtv7778
@leahtv7778 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely repulsive he married cousins and they went along with it. At least they're not legally married
@Redbreezese
@Redbreezese 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful family
@GaliSinatra
@GaliSinatra 2 жыл бұрын
Why don't they talk about the fact that these guys think they're going to be gods in the next world and they can only do that if they have three wives or more. It's all bull.
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
Did you even pay attention to the video, when did he claim that, and if he did what business of yours is it? Can you hold any of your past relationships as long as he did let alone more than one at the same time? This video shows healthy relationships, I think your scoffing comes of as jealousy.
@RyRyVids
@RyRyVids 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more!!
@obamalastname34
@obamalastname34 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing new human for most of past is polygamy.
@baronandbaronessvonwolf4618
@baronandbaronessvonwolf4618 2 жыл бұрын
How can i get married to My Wives in USA ??
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
Search for this man on youtube, he has a book, Tazadah Shah (DeprogrammedEnlightener) called: A Spokes Man 4 Men Real Swagger. It has towards the end of it a part about the legal contract and laws regarding this prosperous life security. Good luck!
@julzpogi17
@julzpogi17 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@samlichtensteinthemovie
@samlichtensteinthemovie 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing 😂
@sunshine3914
@sunshine3914 3 жыл бұрын
As long as he’s able to support his spawn. But that’s another story.
@Rezzmari
@Rezzmari 3 жыл бұрын
Their house looks really nice though, and spacious.
@tiffanybuie2263
@tiffanybuie2263 2 жыл бұрын
He must be rich.my husband has a hard time with all my amazon orders and im just one woman.lol
@patrickmcfly3264
@patrickmcfly3264 Жыл бұрын
This is the only honest none virtual signaling comment here everything else really doesn't matter as there are dozens of social, religious, political, emotional, behavioral solutions, sincere respects
@humanityrecordz4857
@humanityrecordz4857 2 жыл бұрын
god bless yall, im so jealous lol
@YonnY_HardHead
@YonnY_HardHead 2 жыл бұрын
I support them 🙏🏾
@Fitnesswjah
@Fitnesswjah 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely 😊 family man
@karinagomez9831
@karinagomez9831 4 ай бұрын
There should be 0 issue with consenting adults to practice polygamy,
@sistersylvee
@sistersylvee 3 жыл бұрын
You guys look great!!!!
@Strawberry143x
@Strawberry143x 3 жыл бұрын
When you quit polygamy and choose monogamy YOU ARE HAPPIEST YOUVE EVER BEEN✨✨✨✨✨ You connect deeper, deeer specialer bond, happy, at peace😊💖👍✨
@amaranthearimathea3061
@amaranthearimathea3061 2 жыл бұрын
Hannah
@was1
@was1 2 жыл бұрын
@Hanna not 4 every1 though.
@lashawnshipp8271
@lashawnshipp8271 2 жыл бұрын
@@was1 Would you be in a polygamy relationship? I know people that was in a polygamy relationship and deep down wasn't happy. Everybody isn't into sharing their man. Somebody in the group will get jealous of one another. Trust me.
@was1
@was1 2 жыл бұрын
@@lashawnshipp8271 Not sure; I'm married 2 A non-human 4 now and its pretty good & bad 4 me. I wouldn't mind being in a polygamy relations . It's not E Z making a human/jinn happy due 2 reason(s); polygamy or monogamy...
@tiffanybuie2263
@tiffanybuie2263 2 жыл бұрын
Every mans dream until all their menstrual cycles sync up 😂
@markonunezalcocer1924
@markonunezalcocer1924 3 жыл бұрын
How happy that man is! 😅
@jimgrill
@jimgrill 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously? One wife is almost too much!
@markonunezalcocer1924
@markonunezalcocer1924 3 жыл бұрын
@@jimgrill yeah I agree but they could fight with each other and let you chill
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 жыл бұрын
🥰
@alrent2992
@alrent2992 Жыл бұрын
If the LGBT and woke get to have a voice? Where's the equality? Leave them alone.
@a.b.8606
@a.b.8606 3 жыл бұрын
Its legal where i live, and every man is entitled to 3 wives. Its a cultural practice and some people love it while others do not understand it. Unfortunately that uncertainty brings in hate too...
@avag8242
@avag8242 3 жыл бұрын
Where do you live that polygamy is legal?
@JeniBlakey51515
@JeniBlakey51515 3 жыл бұрын
And u live where??
@marques10010
@marques10010 3 жыл бұрын
@@avag8242 🇰🇪 Uganda 🇺🇬 and other countries if you're Muslim
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 жыл бұрын
👍
@fly89
@fly89 3 жыл бұрын
great, is polyandry legal too where you live? or just a place for misogynistic religion?
@Kinghippi3
@Kinghippi3 2 жыл бұрын
This what me and wifey want & will have ❤️
@Nick-kq8pg
@Nick-kq8pg 2 жыл бұрын
How did you get her on board with it?
@Kinghippi3
@Kinghippi3 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nick-kq8pg be honest
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kinghippi3 exactly my sentiments, tell them right upfront and many men will be surprised how willing their women will be towards it. All of mine agreed and found it to be highly beneficial.
@thegeekclub8810
@thegeekclub8810 3 жыл бұрын
This video is really bringing the creeps out of the woodwork, huh. Like, there’s a lot of misogyny and a surprising amount of anti-Semitism? Just let people live their lives.
@alexanderposas4696
@alexanderposas4696 2 жыл бұрын
This man have 3 wives
@USA50_
@USA50_ 2 жыл бұрын
Who is this guy that is writing the book? Has he never heard of the history about The Mormons and the state of Utah? Utah wasn't even admitted into the Union until they made Polygamy illegal. Why is he talking so smugly? 🤔
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker
@Day.Of.The.GroundBreaker 2 жыл бұрын
It's a land dispute war with Washington DC, that's called coercion.
@chou818
@chou818 2 жыл бұрын
Yessss! Make polygamy legal… so that polyandry can be a norm someday 🤣….. it will greatly help in overpopulation that exist in the world😂….
@diana-leabaranovich5080
@diana-leabaranovich5080 10 ай бұрын
Everyone is on the same page. Very functional - Go for it !!!!
@mohamedali5197
@mohamedali5197 3 жыл бұрын
ما شاء الله
@alrent2992
@alrent2992 Жыл бұрын
Why emulate others? Do your thing.
@LVThN_von_Ach
@LVThN_von_Ach 2 жыл бұрын
03:09 kids really don't happy here
@JM-vj7we
@JM-vj7we 3 жыл бұрын
Let the wives get a husband!
@OnkelTomAngelriper
@OnkelTomAngelriper 3 жыл бұрын
Why?
@fordhouse8b
@fordhouse8b 3 жыл бұрын
@@OnkelTomAngelriper Why not. Maybe some day one of his wives will meet a divorced man with 5 kids, and decide, wow, I never planned on it, but I want to marry this guy too.
@thecrippledpancake9455
@thecrippledpancake9455 3 жыл бұрын
@@fordhouse8b And that should be perfectly fine!
@Jahannam...Hellfire.
@Jahannam...Hellfire. 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist
@veli1495
@veli1495 3 жыл бұрын
@@fordhouse8b if the husband disagrees?
@nathanielmarks4872
@nathanielmarks4872 2 жыл бұрын
Lucky Basturd I wish I can have many wife's the only thing he's not lucky about Is the children
@Sammmehenry
@Sammmehenry 11 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with this I wish I was confident enough to live this i feel it could be very beneficial in many ways but im to jealous
@carinawoodmansee2884
@carinawoodmansee2884 10 ай бұрын
You can. It's called only fans which is what this is
@kenadams894
@kenadams894 2 ай бұрын
@@carinawoodmansee2884how so?
@luigicarneiromusic
@luigicarneiromusic 9 ай бұрын
Oh Utah…
@williamwong4040
@williamwong4040 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful and lively family this seems. He must plan to be Abraham and start a new country of people
@carinawoodmansee2884
@carinawoodmansee2884 10 ай бұрын
Only fans dude... get a life
@AidanTheLoverBoyOhDwyer
@AidanTheLoverBoyOhDwyer 2 жыл бұрын
who is that fabulous moustachioed man
@GeorgeChipo
@GeorgeChipo 3 жыл бұрын
It's sliiiiightly disturbing, can't really put my finger on any particular part, but makes me feel a bit weird.
@waywardmind
@waywardmind 3 жыл бұрын
One of the women is a cousin to the other two who are twins, mebe?
@GeorgeChipo
@GeorgeChipo 3 жыл бұрын
@@waywardmind Maybe, but I have a weird feeling that there's something else about it..
@GeorgeChipo
@GeorgeChipo 3 жыл бұрын
Proooobably.
@choozihengwayne7976
@choozihengwayne7976 3 жыл бұрын
How did they get married in the us with us laws sayin that it is illegal
@cpaulpsy
@cpaulpsy 2 жыл бұрын
It's only illegal to have more than one marriage license .where in the Bible does it require you to have a state marriage license?
@Hiyjjbro
@Hiyjjbro 11 ай бұрын
Great
@coolus08
@coolus08 Жыл бұрын
Why that guy is bold, what happened to your hair brother.
@chineduokafor9695
@chineduokafor9695 2 жыл бұрын
Madness
@thealphanoid6160
@thealphanoid6160 2 жыл бұрын
My man doing his job
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