When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! Eye-Opening Analysis! | John Gray

[@RandomPerson-js3rc]

I have this saying on a wall in my house that says, "A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other."

[@Joseph-XRP]

Absolutely phenomenal.

[@cindybriden372]

Love this!!

[@Rebecca-GLaines]

I have a sign with that saying to, my mother in law got it for us, she said as soon as she seen it, she had to get it because it reminded her of us❤

[@Mranstedsf]

That was us❤

[@fionacornish3409]

Beautiful ❤

[@michelleray4516]

When a man truly loves you, your happiness is his priority.

[@jennifersolga6172]

Is that how a man really shows he loves you? When a man truly loves you, how do you know? What does he do?

[@michelleray4516]

@@jennifersolga6172 I spent over 30 years with a man who put me and my happiness, my well being, before his own. He made me laugh every day, and said I love you at least once a day. He died almost 7 years ago and I miss him every moment of every day. I'll never have that kind of love, ever again, and so I'm not searching for it. I've already had an angel here on earth. Look for kindness. Look for a guy who loves and respects his mother. Look for someone who lifts you up, brings out the best in you, and raises your self esteem. Look for the guy who makes you laugh, wants you to be happy. That's what love really is, wanting to make the person you love, happy.

[@Archanakarthikeyan]

@@michelleray4516 thank you so much for sharing this, Michelle. Means a lot!

[@theresamcgallicher]

@@michelleray4516 You have described my husband of 30 years. I was wondering why you would believe this story, though: "I'll never have that kind of love, ever again." ?

[@GinaLoveAguilar]

I have never had that kind of love. Not in 63 years. Not until I met Jesus anyway.

[@lauriecook3015]

I can’t picture his years humbly meditating in quiet, he certainly stored up a lot of ego and energy that is bubbling out now! 😊 Good job with the interview, Alex.

[@catherineclaire7429]

1:03:22-1:04:08 is so powerful. "Everything is okay. People are learning all the lessons they need to learn."

[@kendrawhite2011]

Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is one of the best books ever written. I so enjoyed learning more about John Gray and learned a lot from this interview, as well. ❤ Thank you.

[@sarahgodwin-xd1wr]

Well , the book has a lot of good points but it isn't true that women don't value looks as much as men do!! They certainly do.

[@robynbaxter7374]

WOW! 😲 I had nooooo idea that John Gray was a Master yogi! And such a plethora of information on so many topics; very interesting interview! I haven't engaged with his content since his time on Oprah but I'm really grateful that I clicked on this video, thank you Alex for interviewing him. And thank you for all of your interviews and dedication to bringing more awareness to NDE's and thinking outside the box, YOU ARE FAB! 😇Happy New Year ! 🤩🥳🤩

[@lilaccilla]

100 per cent agree

[@reflectingqueen]

I had the exact same experience Robyn! Isn't it wonderful?

[@lindarussell4216]

Absolutely I agree❤

[@sally5256]

Me neither! I absolutely love it!!!

[@ms.sherlock]

John Gray is so interesting!

[@suzanneglenn6172]

Alex I am addicted to your channel. I've come to that stage in my enlightenment where I'm questioning everything and so I'm gobbling up your videos. This one by John Gray was absolutely amazing. My son who is 52 is staying with me now due to some setbacks he has had and I believe what John has talked about really helps me to understand him in a better way. I also understand myself better now. I think I will take the 3-month cult membership of John's and avoid total negativity for 3 months. I pretty much have been doing it but once in awhile I fall into the trap with my son and get into heated discussions. Thanks for all you're doing I wish you all the success you can possibly have in this venture. I do believe that you are fulfilling your destiny and you seem like a very happy soul.

[@adrianaevseev7655]

🙏❤

[@thankyou---]

Hello ma'am. I'm seeing that you are choosing a new connection with your son, and I remembered something that I've reviewed recently. It's about a lady who had a painful, kind of estranged, cold, perhaps dead or dying relationship with her adult son. It was hard and painful for her, until she decided to take a seriously different approach about it, and she learned and applied techniques that helped her heal inside of her what was standing in the way of the highest potential for her relationship with her son, and I believe she may have learned new skills, too. I loved seeing her photos with her son, she was beaming with joy. She has a loving, respectful, reciprocal relationship with hee son now and she used her professional background and successful journey to coach and guide other mothers to have this loving, joyful, respectful, reciprocal connection with their sons or daughters. I'm going to look for her name now and share with you this loving, joyful relationship 😊 Wishing you the best with your son.

[@thankyou---]

Her name is Wendy Vineyard. I hope you find it inspiring and useful. And I wish you a deeper, more loving, and more harmonious connection with yourself, the men you care for in your life, your children, grandchildren, and loved ones.🌼

[@angalmeida29]

Wow every human being must hear this conversation ‘ beyond brilliant and so helpful ! Gratitude gentlemen

[@theresamcgallicher]

"Anything that bothers you is misinterpreting reality." - stealing that! ❤

[@kathrynb4683]

That struck me and stood out in my mind too

[@nicky2926]

Its comforting on such a deep level.

[@alaalfa8839]

If men think women are so different…….then imagine what father may think about his 7 years old daughter. Actually they dont think bad stuff about little daughter, so why they think that about someone else ‘ s daughter, that she must be soooo different. Maybe only the perception at the beginning seem too different. As Dr. Joe Dispenza says We dont see things as they are, we see things as we are. When it comes to a right values such as love, humility, and gratitude men and women are actually not so different. They may be only different in skills or percentions of various jobs.

[@annbolton5626]

Thank you Alex for having John! I have always cherish him, wealth of a person! I was bless to attend his lecture, afterwards he offer to meet him in person, sign his book. He hugged me and it meant so much, energy exchange 😇. He handed me a fresh red rose 🌹. It lasted for six weeks ( miracle) and preserved for years. Very inspiring. Blessings! 🕯️ 🌺 🌞 All of his books are rich material, highly recommended.

[@bunnytail1370]

Thats sweet!

[@dianespencer8057]

Alex, you are a wonderful, patient and respectful interviewer. It was so interesting to hear John Gray again - I read several of his books years ago and the first couple really did help me relate to and communicate better with my husband and the men in my life. I appreciated being reminded of the hormonal science behind it!

[@lindarussell4216]

Thank you for this great interview! I wished I had heard this when my husband was still Alive. We could have learned so much I think we could have understood each other better. We were married 55 yrs but felt separate from each other.

[@janetp181]

I laughed so much listening to John....more than any other video I have watched in a long time. What a joyful session. He is so funny and aware! I loved him.

[@kimothyjoy]

Alex, I love that you just let him go without interruption. Golden listening. He is a wellspring of historical and esoteric knowledge. Loved tuning in. Mind blown!😮❤

[@carolgarrett1786]

YES! I appreciate that, too.🙂

[@Mariana-ud7dw]

For a seventy year old, he looks amazing. It must be all that meditation.

[@luanmcgowan9716]

Two Hole Foods in His Town. Helps.

[@jossfangirl]

😂

[@inner-healingwbrendabhopkins]

I did gain some positive things from this interview of John Gray. I also strongly agree with what he said regarding the book, The Secret, about all being focused on the positive which he thought should also include the importance of doing the process and releasing work of negative beliefs. I dislike that book for that reason. What I don't particularly like is him so focused on women's needs from emotional release. I do agree that it is important for women to do the emotional release through tears and expressing her feelings because feelings are powerful energies and therefore valuable. And with him saying more than once that 90% of people who go to therapies are women ... well, I think more men should go to therapy - because they also really need to for their own growth and learning of themselves. Men need to learn to release their pent up energies too in a healthy way. The problems in society where shootings and killings and beatings occur are done by 90% men because those suppressed judged against emotion energies has to be released and be spent in one way or another ... so then if not through tears they will be unconsciously released through physically intense high impact actions.

[@SanctifiedLady]

Well said.

[@inner-healingwbrendabhopkins]

@@SanctifiedLady I appreciate you saying that - thank you.

[@websurfer5772]

🎶Boys will be boys, you better let them have their toys 🎶 🎶And if the boys wanna fight, you better let 'em 🎶

[@inner-healingwbrendabhopkins]

@@websurfer5772 The world is going downhill even as technology keeps inventing more powerful toys and more speed with things because of juvenile men with unhealed heart and emotional-body. The little boy's ego strutting about pretending/believing to be grown up sounding seemingly and trying to be intelligent from its limited intellect while his closed heart is aching and cannot care.

[@websurfer5772]

@@inner-healingwbrendabhopkins Yeah, I hear ya.

[@karlyelizabeth485]

"He really tries" - I love that. Effort is so important. I don't need someone who is perfect, just someone who cares and tries. I once heard someone say about their partner "he's a pain in the ass, but he's my pain in the arse" and it was said with warmth and affection, and I really liked it.

[@dianewetherill185]

I have been practicing TM since 1972 and LOVE it! You have choices of knowledge to supplement this technique that Maharishi offered such as Maharishi Ayurveda, MMY ‘s commentary on the Bhagavad Gita, Vedic music, architecture and so much more!!! So happy to hear John talk about his experiences with TM and Maharishi. I was able to follow my passion which is art and have had much luck in teaching children.👩‍🎨👩‍🎨👩‍🎨🥰🥰❤️🥳

[@NextLevelSoul]

Thanks for sharing!

[@deborahchapman222]

I also do TM as taught by TM center. Wonderful 😊

[@lisawehler7052]

Thanks for sharing that expressing one’s vulnerability is key for happiness.

[@LindaCasey]

Women are from Venus: Nurtures child, ferociously watches over it and protects it from every possibility of harm. Men are from Mars: Gives 3 year old an army switchblade to play with. Woman's aphrodisiac: Him taking out the trash without being reminded. Man's aphrodisiac: The remote control.🌹

[@soniabonadio9909]

A lot people seemed to get a lot from and enjoyed this interview. However, a lot of what John said really didn’t work for me. Gender can be complex and sexuality is not the same as gender. I would have hoped we have moved on from the “hysterical”women trope and working women or equality being perceived as women “becoming men”, and likewise some of the views on what it is to be a “man”. By no means am I an expert but the testosterone/oestrogen argument while it probably is one aspect, surely is part of a more complex biological and cultural landscape. He also presents a very simplistic view on why some women can not conceive. I felt like was was listening to something from the last century. Really doesn’t offer any insight or reflect the world we live in now, ( for me anyway) Always good to hear different perspectives and see it has an opportunity to reflect and examine my own reactions to them. Great job as always Alex Ps Also I agree with the icky and ego comments other people have already made.

[@shelleydavis5231]

Naah I disagree, I think he was spot on with research on the biological differences between men and women

[@shanghaitatoo]

I agree with you 100%. It's a very simplistic view and I'm glad I finally found someone who feels the same in the comment section.

[@donikatod460]

"You live in the world, but you bring the divine into the world."

[@katjamachcinski2381]

What does

[@donikatod460]

@@katjamachcinski2381 it's a heart. Sideways sort of. Some apps will transform into a heart if you type this. Also kinda looks like a person's behind but it's meant as a heart :)

[@katjamachcinski2381]

Thanks!! Got it

[@dzovigounjian6372]

Amazing conversation! Thanks for sharing 👏

[@alexkatsanos8475]

Dr. Milton Trager’s wife was also the Yogi’s secretary. So happy I practice his work. Been following Dr. Gray for some time. So knowledgable. What Ram Dass used to call the “Yoga of Relationship”

[@susane3593]

I feel like I want to get this book for my babies daddy. Because I love him and them. And we both haven't had very good relationships since never or since we had each other and our family.

[@west3381]

This is one of my favorite interviews you've done, so delightful, humorous and insightful 🙏

[@sunmoonstars0369]

My man after many years started complimenting me again just as JG recommends and its so nice to feel beautiful to him like I did in the beginning of our relationship, we;ve been falling in love all over again. Im in my 40s but we;ve been together a long time and its so nice to keep the romance alive, I think he;s been reading Gray's books because our relationship has gotten much, much better and he's been doing all these things all over again. Gray really seems to understand women. I know alot of the masculine women he's talking about but they end up with feminine men usually and it can work for them. Anyways, I think Gray is such a great role model and he really understands things deeply.

[@iamwagnercmw]

I have loved John Gray since I first saw him on Oprah which seems like a hundred years ago now. I have every one of his physical books but enjoyed this video so much that I have just bought 3 of his books on audible too as I love listening to books while I do art. This would have to be the best video I have ever seen on KZbin. Thank you both for bringing it to us. Will watch many times over as there is so much teaching in this. I too would love it if John wrote a book about meditation. I remember seeing a show he did many years ago on Oprah but didn't realize he was such a master at it. What an amazing man.

[@ExploreXplore394]

Really appreciate what you are saying.

[@smokinmirrors9329]

Very interesting. I've been meditating myself for the last 8 years, 30 hours a week and can truly relate! Truly a beautiful life and as a woman it keeps my emotions in check. Thank you for sharing!

[@maltezos30]

When I became a woman and went off to college my stepmother gave me your book It was a huge influence on my life and relationships Thank you so much! Amazing!

[@michellebucci3748]

A joe Dispenza conference and workshop is a great place to start. He taught me soooo much about how the brain releases chemicals and makes you feel exactly the way you were thinking . And then the chemicals are so addictive your body starts to receive them much easier . Living in stress is living in survival and the chemicals are so toxic it’s mind boggling. But meditation works for me I have been meditating for years and I still have so much to learn . I have had some really great meditations where I have floated and also felt a presence it can get a bit weird. Letting go of your identity is the key. We are spirit creatures having a human experience gift.

[@GreatAwakening-s7r]

I appreciate what John said. I'm not into TM, I was introduced to vipassana meditation by my therapist. I tend to veer more towards Neem Karoli Baba and Ram Dass as part of my spiritual lineage. But I'm not closed off to TM. I can't say it's not effective because I've never tried it. But alot of what John said resonates with me. However, I do not see us as imperfect beings that need to grow or be perfected. I see our purpose here as merely experiential, there is nothing about our true nature that needs to be improved upon, only expanded by experience. The soul in its integrity is flawless. I appreciate you Alex. Wonderful interview.

[@michellemorris-jensen7668]

Totally agree. Sorry, but I found him to be too ego based in his views

[@arobersonable]

I don't think Yogananda would agree with this. Many people are perfectly happy and complete without sex. Sex can be transcended happily, willingly, without difficulty for many. I totally get what he's saying, and I get the biology of it. But I still think sex is irrelevant in higher-level consciousness. Completeness and balance are achievable without sex. But I'm sure this gentleman would disagree.

[@Smiling560]

Mr.Gray I’m so sorry your daughter had to hear her professor badmouth You 😢 I am a woman and read your book soon after it came out. Never did I think that you were against women. I appreciated reading about our differences. I hope that you only used that as an example for the show, and it no longer bothers You or your daughter today. Great stuff!! 😍😍😃😃 Alex great questions as usual. Great show 😃

[@SpiritStarTarot]

Love this guy. I only eat once a day, have for many years.

[@valerieluft9986]

I just want to say is this ,John You look fantastic! Your skin is spot on! Thank you for talking with Alex! Thank you, Alex and John.

[@Jane-px8gw]

A waterfall of speech ! One might meditate for 16 hours because one really needs it…to stop talking.

[@Higherlovehealing]

He is Brilliant! What an amazing conversation!!! Thankyou!!! Always learning from this channel!!!!

[@iaf4454]

I agree with you

[@sadieizadian4917]

Dearest Alex, I thank you for this incredible interview with you two remarkable men.

[@Drpriyaparmar]

Dr Gray is on fire! What an inspiring person. Brilliant beautiful loving talk. Thank you

[@rafika816]

Every time I watch one of your videos, I think it is the best one ever. This is the same. It was informative, useful, healing, and fascinating.

[@lindascarborough5551]

This is the most Powerful, Synchronistic, Energetic, Love Sharing & Productive Possitvely Re-Energetic Conversation so much needed now. Thank you 🌞

[@Consciouslightwarriors]

Best John Gray interview I’ve heard 👏 Nice to see a deeper side to him

[@jenniline6]

Loved his book back in the day but the conversation veered off a bit for me, I get it that hormones do effect many aspects of our lives but felt almost like there is no acceptance for variables in individuals who don't fall into the "acceptable range of hormone levels without being labeled as out of balance". The part of the problem is not all women feel the need to be dependent all the time and some men have trouble being alone, I don't see a defect in either case. A little hard to get past that part of the conversation. To each his or her own, no defect or lack of balance in my view. Had to stop watching at a point because the conversation lingered for too long in that subject. Love watching you Alex, always with an open mind.

[@astralspice5]

This man is a bomb of energy OMG, really enjoy many of the points he talked about. Thank you for this conversation :)

[@KatTavolacci]

Another interesting, informative and eye-opening interview! I had no idea about John’s background! I don’t know if you had lots of questions lined up, but holy-moly John was like an energizer bunny doing a brain dump!!! Just amazing. Thanks and Happy New Year 🎆

[@NextLevelSoul]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@ExploreXplore394]

Yep he is an energiser!

[@TheJoaneD]

Very diplomaticly put. John is unstoppable ... one question and he is good for the long run!

[@RonArca]

As I listened to John Gray, I just gotta say, I like this guy, he speaks to me.

[@consciouseatingconsulting3135]

Wow! Great interview! So many things about John Gray that I never knew! Some ancient Daoist principles include the practices he mentioned regarding the value of internal orgasms for men in a loving relationship with a woman. It can take their relationship to much higher levels. We humans are capable of so much when we include spiritual and emotional growth in our physical relationships. Thank you for bringing John on your show.

[@escribanosystemic]

Wow, what he says about fathers, spot on. All the advice is just pricesless.

[@dbk3336]

Great talk! Seems to me, more people, parents especially need to listen to this.

[@babybijou969]

“Once I am THAT, which is ALL, then there is no me… who am I?” ✨ 22:18

[@dodieangeltarot5972]

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[@caterina_music]

I loved John's talk. He adds humour to his talk. Very interesting and fun.

[@amethystfeathers7324]

Wow. John Grey's books helped me to understand that I was married to a narcicist who was never going to want me to be happy.

[@branislaverdeljan4914]

Extraordinary clarity, thank you!

[@farrenrohana]

I'm 60 and finally fully at peace. I went through so much insanity I'm no longer looking for someone and I'm perfectly ok with being alone but I am open to meeting him if he does come along. I was born in 62 and I cannot for the life of me figure out why I didn't come in a few years earlier. I would have loved to be at Woodstock and go through all that!

[@cherylpoland9286]

However maybe this means you have something amazing ahead of you, because you will be alive longer 😊

[@farrenrohana]

@@cherylpoland9286 it would take far too long to tell you how much your comment means today, 2 weeks after I wrote my comment. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@陳雅柔-d5c]

No wonder he looks so familiar, one of my favorite author 😍

[@lisabuckner243]

So glad that John put Connie Chung in her place!

[@Paradoxicalawarness]

So just want to put it out there , that men aren't wearing skirts or dresses in Scotland because they are unaware of what they are.

[@debbiesianturi2505]

I a fans of John Gray since 1996. One thing that I remember from John Gray advice that if you want to get marry, dont change your partner. If you dont like with his/her behaviour, tell him/her with proper way.

[@jcjohnsong8570]

Great Interview ! I've watched several recent interviews with John Gray ... I love that this one explores topics far off his core message ... Very interesting !!!

[@JMJ4444-f2n]

A relationship…”growing into each other” ❤

[@amandawarcimaga6738]

Wow, things I already knew....but wasn't sure if these 'thoughts' of mine were valid...but now have all been validated through this video. Lol. The universe has been telling me to start trusting myself instead of waiting and needed to be validated from something outside of me.....and this video was like 'ok, msg loud and clear universe, thank you ❤️🙏' lol

[@bethbartlett5692]

Alex: *"Your Tigger Comment put me on the Floor!"* You are so quick witted and I love that trait! Never withhold thise! However, few seem to be "Conscious in the Now" ... Beth Tennessee, USA

[@southofthesticks]

I could of listened to him for hours !

[@tanyagiacchina492]

Most intelligent man. People need to listen to this.

[@kittykat57]

This was fantastic and very timely. Many golden nuggets here, something for everyone, regardless of gender. Thank you, Alex and John. Please have John on again.

[@swetalahiri9491]

So nice to hear these two beautiful human beings taking 😊

[@judiburnett6527]

This has been outstanding for me. I didn’t know thatMr. Grey had such a profound history. It makes sense. I wish him great success with his new book. The world needs it.

[@tracy3364]

My goodness he's 70 years old he had a very young face full of happyness and joy

[@siquijorholidays4750]

Love this guy..he's got IT!

[@kylawyatt1071]

Much respect to the work you are doing. ❤

[@kalistrong3437]

I don’t like hearing any man act like he knows woman, better than they know,but on the other hand, we’ve all been male, and we’ve all been female in past lives that we can tap into that experience and beyond being female or male we are pure consciousness, hi

[@peanut9863]

I really appreciated this conversation. I do wonder on the topic of masculine and feminine; women today....unfortunately; it is so difficult to find a man.....so we must work if we want to live a comfortable life. It isn't a choice to be more masculine. It makes me wonder what women should do in that regard? Yes; this is a crisis. 😔

[@tulacelinastonebridge4956]

Thanks for the great interview, they also talked about enlightenment, more of that please. ☺

[@sidilicious11]

Hey, big thanks to all the TM mediators who shifted our collective trajectory for the better!! What an interesting guy!

[@cjpatterson4711]

I do wish we had better family support as we grow up. And the encouragement to get to know ourself. Self Realization. We have things in common and things that are opposite. I love how john brings for the emotional maturity we all need. Now, I myself have a huge backpack filled with rocks. Its heavy. Lets learn to "Love" each other..........

[@felipeasensio1932]

Another amazing podcast gracias Alex 😊

[@normamahns7184]

At this point, my failed relationship has left me closed. But, I realized I want to stay closed because I love to write poetry. This closed heart of mine comes out in my writing. I need this emotion I have in my heart to generate powerful poetry that I know is moving.

[@Sheloren444]

What an amazing interview. John Gray made everything make sense. I never knew he meditated with Yogananda! No wonder he’s so wise!

[@user-wu5ib4bw3x]

Excellent-so happy to have come across the interview

[@adventuresofasinner1557]

When I'm channeling or meditating it's better when I'm in constant movement. I use to pace for hours when I was a child. Alone in a room now it happens when I'm gardening or coloring sitting still I'll fall asleep. Or just think nothing at all

[@alexiaoks7023]

I love this interview! Amazing.... John Gray is a beautiful soul and so knowledgeable. Thank you Alex for your fantastic show! ❤

[@_gypsysoul]

For clarification our beautiful Scots men don't wear dresses, they wear kilts and are incredibly sexy!

[@lilaccilla]

1:01:33 I like what he says and moves here into about the meditating and his purpose . Really great ! ty

[@lotus1695]

Absolutely GREAT!! Love John...❤

[@lanishortsunshine5773]

Yes find self. In others.....yes!!!

[@JustCallMeLiberty]

Well I guess AI/KZbin chose this for me and I'm glad I listened, great interview. I will subscribe too!

[@websurfer5772]

Good move. This is one of the best channels on YT, IMHO.

[@lilaccilla]

I love this one ! He is in a constant flow , and sharing with the world his deepest knowing . Beautiful

[@ThatGenXvirgo]

Almost like he was channeling 🙂

[@lilaccilla]

@@ThatGenXvirgo YES! 🫶🏼

[@doraev2055]

I am embarking on my journey info being just myself and unpacking my baggage as I prepare to pursue a masters in consciousness and human potential to complete my educational path at MIU. This conversation makes sense. Thank you for this interview.

[@faiththomas6014]

Another wonderful interview, taught me a multitude of things to take on board emotionally and spiritually.

[@stephaniefortney22]

Alex, appreciate you sharing this wonderful interview with John. His incredible knowledge is endless, as he’s filled fabulous insight and wisdom…He makes so much sense to me…a Gift to all of Us , we are never done learning…I’m grateful-thank you again.

[@pains1956]

I had nothing to complaint abt my wonderful loving husband i was married for 30yrs and then he passed away

[@MC-tg1xk]

This interview is great!😊

[@Risingmoonranch8]

I would love to go to therapy with John! I bet he is expensive!!! Great interview!!!

[@vkat4167]

I was in his seminars 3 times, different themes. The best spent money! I enjoyed each minute of 3 days event. I was lucky I lived in less than an hour of driving to the event so I saved on hotels. If he does such events, go for it 😊

[@deloreshickman4184]

There’s very little this man said, that we don’t already know. And some of what he says, does not make sense. Example: “Let’s not talk about this now”, and walk away. Instead, saying, “I understand you’re upset. I love you. What can I do right now to help relieve your distress? Shall we talk about this later and just focus on our blessings, happy things? Or do you want to continue to vent while I just listen? I care about your happiness.” (And DONT take it personally, even if it’s about a behavior of yours that really bothers her.!!!!! It’s her issue. If it bothers her, it’s valid. Be willing to change a behavior, or, to negotiate a compromise!!!) when a man loves a woman, and vice versa, they remain civilized and respectful of each other’s feelings and needs, wants and desires, within the context of both desiring to work it out. No escalation. Just resolution.

[@caddycallaghan]

I’ve been thinking about this interview. I have some real questions about the integrity of flippantly talking about the women’s crying in counselling sessions like they were just a mass of hysterical hormones being assessed and used as statistics. I have followed this work and findings years ago but somehow now with the shift in our world I find it quite outdated and bordering on spiritual ego let loose under the guise of enlightened experience and wisdom. Hrmmm Many things said especially the constant referral to sexual stuff felt icky and I consider myself open and not easily “Icked” Good information about meditation but something is a bit off in delivery. ✌🏼

[@ExploreXplore394]

Yes I am also starting to question John. I find he puts politics of the world in to what he is saying which I find is a biased view to suite his narrative. For instance he does seem to have contempt for gender change, gays, lesbians, and African American black people having no fathers in the home.

[@caddycallaghan]

@@ExploreXplore394 did you mean does seem or does not? There should be no contempt for these things. Confused by your reply.

[@ExploreXplore394]

@@caddycallaghan Oh sorry I meant "does seem". In other words he does not seem to tolerate gender change, gays lesbians and other issues in politics. He just thinks I think that there is no need for there to be so many gays lesbians....transvestites. I think he feels men should be men and women should be women. I just get that feeling. Which is confusing to me that a high profile person believes these things. Which he has talked about or commented on.

[@sallyluck6896]

Not everything is about gayness/homosexuallity... He's clearly heterosexual and that's his expertise. There is a lot of great info, and the majority of info is for men and women. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with his opinion and views.

[@KayentaMoenkopi]

I too found his view that women just want to complain all the time to be archaic. Sounds like medical malpractice to be giving therapy to a group of people while holding the bias that they all just come so they can complain about stuff. Might be time for some of that 'reimagining the scenario' that he recommends. This is a very old stereo type and more than a little bit derogatory toward women. Then he just completely dismissed the Trans portion of society. I find that to be equally offensive. One would have hoped that after this many decades since publishing Men are from Mars he might have evolved his prejudice.

[@lisahenke5027]

Your talk reminds me of The Surrender Experiment by Micheal Singer. Thank you for enlightening us

[@SevillaILove]

I had no clue Dr Gray is a yogi too! Ive been learning from him for years and this just opened a whole new person to learn from!

[@Here_Today_]

Amazing how perspective changes our openness!!

[@lisawehler7052]

Don’t speak when you’re angry is good advice for men and women.

[@irmang4790]

Very informative interview. Loved learning from this thank you for this💕