"NICE GUYS"

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@ryanputrantwo 10 ай бұрын

The narrative shouldn't be so much, "don't be a nice guy" but rather be yourself and I truly believe that if you're fostered with care by your community/society around you, you'd genuinely look for ways to fill other people's cups as well as your own. In other words, once your needs are met (mostly following Maslow's hierarchy), being yourself usually means you'll naturally be quite friendly to others as well (this I genuinely believe-to a certain extent) The narrative should be more along the lines of sticking to your values and having a backbone. And just having these things, sometimes makes you incompatible with other people... but in general I don't think you'd be labeled as a "mean guy" and more often than not if you have your values, have your needs met, you fully have the capacity and more than likely will be a "nice" person.

@jorgefleitao 10 ай бұрын

Great comment bro! Totally agree

@actusnobilis1041 8 ай бұрын

@jorgefernando! Tu és um português de Portugal a morar na América do Norte talvez, que não és nada indulgente e nem simpático. Pois respondes a quem tu queres e deixas outras pessoas sem respostas. És de facto um gajo altivo e um bocadinho asqueroso talvez no tocante à essa minha concepção pessoal brasileira. Foda-se quem não gostar desta minha crítica subjectiva. Tenho origem Latina mas de ascendência francesa e italiana. Sou poliglota também graças a Deus. Por cá, e, é óbvio, ao pé de mim, eu desejo-lhes minhas saudações calorosas para todos vós

@faqihsan4668 10 ай бұрын

Don't stop being nice person, no matter girl or guy. Don't be a bad person only for attracting people that we like. Don't be a STUPID. we have personal value. Don't let the standar driving us! Be smart and nice. Not being bad and stupid.

@JonTalbain777 10 ай бұрын

Good advice. I’m not great looking and not relatively well off; surprisingly I’ve had a few women, some really pretty ones, really interested in me. However it’s always been ones I never really pursued and to whom I was just being myself. Though I’m hardly an expert, I feel like it’s best to focus on yourself, be open to genuinely knowing other people, and (the hard part) be aware of signals and like yourself enough to know that someone might send them to you. That said, having Jorge around might make me insecure enough to forget that. Poor Adrian!

@Mayo-bl2mv 9 ай бұрын

I can relate with your story. Great perspective

@An_inquisitive_thinker 9 ай бұрын

Coach Corey Wayne explains this tendency of guys being a gay male girlfriend to girls, how it backfires and what to do about it.

@_Kaal_108 9 ай бұрын

After this video this big bro earned my respect . 👍

@HANASANAChannel 6 ай бұрын

The “nice guy” seems desperate and doesn’t have a back bone so he bends character and puts people on a pedestal to gain interest which is the wrong way to do it

@acchieverk6108 7 ай бұрын

At the end it's "BE AUTHENTIC" if you are nice be nice if you are not you are not..

@tmifb9926 10 ай бұрын

This is solid advice

@anirudhsai2115 10 ай бұрын

Understandable and agreed 👍

@actusnobilis1041 10 ай бұрын

I love this guy of the big beard

@ShawnMFields 3 ай бұрын

He was such a nice guy is crazy 🤣

@mohammadzeeshan2112 10 ай бұрын

Jorge iam following you since you have 1k subscriber Jorje I just wanted know by you How to thicken my eyelashes and brows?

@MakZakk 10 ай бұрын

castor oil, apply a bit every day. gently microneedle every 2 weeks for eyebrows

@AA-vd8et 10 ай бұрын

drop ur workout routine 😁

@xxwallzxx4509 10 ай бұрын

You can be nice. But his approach was more friend and fan than anything. Not the actual way to go about it tbh. There is nothing wrong about being respectful and being nice. Some girls like that too. But yeah.. approach is bad.

@jorgefleitao 10 ай бұрын

absolutely be respectful and a gentleman, just not "nice" which is typically all a facade. Women love guys who are both gentlemen yet still have a level of disagreeableness. Without it the dudes are pushovers.

@HANASANAChannel 6 ай бұрын

Message of the story is be nice because it’s part of your character. By being a gentleman with manners. But the other type of “nice” is being a pushover with no spine to sneak your way into some pity pussy 😂

@yasseralsheri8271 5 ай бұрын

@@jorgefleitao 👌🏻👌🏻💯💯

@Joryd-uf4nt 7 ай бұрын

For the people that want more of this, read the book: no mr nice guy. And no you won't become an asshole

@enriqueleft1785 10 ай бұрын

listen to big brother Jorge guy's

@hasanyesilyurt5640 10 ай бұрын

Please replay ‘ what this beard lenght on video ? With guard mm say please ?

@basantkumarminj3697 10 ай бұрын

I love you ❤ Jorge ❤

@basantkumarminj3697 10 ай бұрын

I love you ♥ dear ♥

@basantkumarminj3697 8 ай бұрын

I love you ❤ Jo ❤

@zeethree 3 ай бұрын

People tell me I'm the nicest guy they've ever met. 💀 I tell them that's an insult to a man. Of course they say it's not, but I know. Basically it's just a polite way of saying you are a non-threatening accommodating push-over. At the heart of it when you are unable to lose your insecurity you try to please people so they will like you. It seems like you are suggesting the fix may be to just be one of the guys, but many guys are isolated today.