Nicole C: Healing Deep Wounds | FULL EPISODE | Better Together TV

[@steps2spiritualsolutions]

Four things I learned from betrayal. 1. God loves us, never leaves us during our brokenness. 2. To pray more and to pray honest prayers. God, I am not feeling my best today. I am angry because their life has moved forward like they did nothing. Help me to forgive because I am a sinner saved by grace and You forgive me. Amen. 3. When your Life Restarts focus on discovering your creative talents and spiritual gifts. I started writing Devotionals 3 years ago submitted them to a publishing company while in the middle of a divorce. My book published this Febuary. 4. Healing is a journey. Stop rushing through it because God's time is slow and will not stop until it reaches completion. Mine took 22 months. I learned my value as God sees me. God has great plans for us...Behold I am about to do something new...Isaiah 43:19

[@chetina912]

Thank you. For speaking about your pain, it is helping me as I grow through uncertainty pertaining to my marriage and what God wants me to do now.

[@metropcs7560]

Took me 40 yrs, instead of seven days to realize, the finger I pointed at my husband, started with me. Women and Men, when the Lord tells you someone is Not your partner, don't do it. It will spin you 50 years backward. Run with the grace of God!!!

[@alishapirihi538]

❤

[@Honeysuckle33]

I'm really trying to see my value from God after being regularly cheated on for the past 4 years. Thanks for your comment.

[@Winniemac_]

sometimes He permits Warfare so He can release a warrior Spirit in us

[@enishaadams9156]

@Winnie Faith Ouku....that was an awakening statement. Thanks for sharing love!

[@celebratelifetodaywithcele8428]

So so so TRUE! Thank you.

[@denisel780]

Yes! The takeaway message from this broadcast!!!

[@maribelsanders8342]

This is beautiful. It brought me to tears. Thanks for sharing.

[@kgaugelosibuyi4415]

❤️❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@charliebayles8589]

Just what I needed. Will be watching again. Pray for my bitterness to dissolve and I will find love and joy again.

[@selinaonyang0895]

Me too

[@kaseyforestine4692]

Me too

[@nevillepitout1374]

When you feel bitter look in the mirror. You don't want that look. Forgive. Praise God he will take the hurt.

[@suhummel7226]

This message blessed me, as many others of Better Together have. I too have and am walking thru deep betrayal... and wrote the following: Betrayal - A total - never saw it coming, Everyone was blind-sided - Betrayal. It's not just walls and ceiling Crumbling all around you As the news hits you - The horror of it all Knocks you to your knees. But it's the betryal news That the world you thought Totally disappears - Gone in an instant - No ceiling to have cover, No walls to lean and hold on, And no floor to fall on to. Yes you're knocked to your knees Only to find You are free-falling - Nothing to catch your knees, Nothing to grab a hold of - The world you once knew And lived your life in, Gone in an instant As the full betrayal hit. Bearings? There are none! Mind is swirling to fast As you're free-falling, Nothing to catch you, To allow you to catch a breath... All hope is gone in that instant - H o p e .... And you remember The Name that brings hope In the midst of any storm. So with every ounce of strength You can muster up You barely whisper J e s u s. In that instant His hand catches you Ever so lovingly and gently. The sobs come in waves Now that you are still In the palm of His hand. Jesus - He was already there, Tho my eyes didn't see, Ears didn't hear Him He was always right there. Jesus is always right there To comfort the broken hearted, Be Peace in the midst of the storm, Listener to what's on your heart, Shoulder when you just need to cry, Dance Partner when joy overflows, Still when you need to sit in quiet, Hold you when you need a Friend - Whatever you need at the moment Jesus is more than enough. JESUS, period.

[@shanter4933]

This is beautiful!

[@lynette4412]

Amen🙏😇🙌

[@motheowalerato701]

Woooow!!!

[@sandyakins8374]

❤ wonderful said! Amen

[@1212lJp]

Thank ladies I needed to hear this today ,I'm walking with the Holy spirit

[@godislove3840]

God bless you

[@sherleyjackson1880]

Speak on blood sisters holding angry

[@sophia4christ]

This discussion is so transparent and anointed! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@amandakate1247]

Christ can forgive betrayal! 🎯💯

[@Winniemac_]

I love this Show big time I pray to one day begin the same in Kenya

[@scooterlovya]

There have to be Christian women in Kenya too 🤔🤩

[@shanazhu2673]

You will 💙💙💙

[@avisienitcuevas]

Many blessings to everyone woman of God thank you for sharing your stories thank you for being such a blessing may God continue to keep everyone.

[@berlindarogers1033]

I thank God, for blessing me to listen to this podcast. The word from each lady is a blessing to me.

[@EileenKesewaa]

Deep lessons l learnt from betrayal. Through it all and for every second God was with me and God helps always. His love is ever present!

[@Nicolelovesbeauty]

I needed this message. I feel so broken so I needed to hear this. Thank you all so much.

[@Honeysuckle33]

I hope you are doing better.❤😊

[@dreas657]

When it comes to FORGIVENESS I picture myself SCRUBBING that person SLATE like a DIRTY DISH sometimes I have to hit it all day until that slate is clean, others multiple times a day if more than one thing comes up, BUT I ALWAYS am able to SEE a white clean slate which HELPS MY HEART and HEALING! I hope this will help someone CHOOSE to be Grateful! ❤️🐿🙌🙏

[@pershae88]

Great talk!! God definitely wants us to trust Him more & free us in order to move into what He has called us to.

[@StandinginFaith03]

My Lord. This was Soooooooooooooooooooooo For ME!!! Thank you!!

[@shenquejames7598]

I love this show because you ladies are so transparent. It really helps me especially as I grow in Christ and pursue the things of the Lord.

[@ambermccutchen8451]

Hallelujah sister Nicole I am learning finally to forgiveness to others I am get to the point of learning myself . l know that betrayed and be betray will happen no matter who are or how we belong to for me I belong to Jesus sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen

[@adongosheila9215]

I always watch your shows here in Uganda.Thanks TBN

[@2bethankful48]

Oh my Goodness ladies this was a blessing for me to see! God is a faithful father 🙏and he helps us through the storms that we all go through . healing and forgiveness in the mist of the storm he calms our hearts with his loves and comfort through all of that betrayal! I love you all guys !!🙏🔥🤗🙌❤️😍God bless you ladies this was beautiful! And our God is so Good he is more than enough! He never leaves nor for sakes us . Actually I’m loving others through all I have been through because I focus on what God has done for me and continue to do in me for other live laugh and love!🙏🙏🔥🙌🤗😍Forgiveness is the key to Gods heart!🙏🙌🔥

[@adrianejackson3077]

Hello beautiful women in the Faith. Thank you for this conversation, very informative. God bless you beautiful ladies. ❤️

[@oneof7billion627]

Please pray for me right now!!! I am here to release the boulders. I am super tired.

[@HiimShailyn]

This was so timely in my life right now. Thank you so much

[@dewuknowHIM]

Love love this...... Much much easier to hold onto u forgiveness..... BUT....... That is not good...... After 10 years at a church I was persecuted .. lied about..... slandered .... gossipped about..... literally destroyed.... And consequently blamed for all the above when I would NEVER DO or SAY !!!! MY SMALL town is about owned by this group... All because I BROUGHT ALL TO THE MAN who says he is in charge...then the persecution accelerated even more..... I finally left..... 💔😪🤦😫

[@LadyK09]

I love that.... There's a wind behind the waves and storms.. and just a word from Jesus Christ who is the word made flesh.. will calm the waters of our lives and drive every territorial spirit away🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@celebratelifetodaywithcele8428]

Hallelujah Giving it to God was and is always the best. The hard part is forgiving myself and releasing the pain of... for a lesser time to recovery. Letting go and letting God take care of it. For me also was/is how to rebuild trust during my period of healing Yet! Learning to trust myself with my own choices. And also not taking on the other person's responsibility as if it was mine own. Praise God for new growth an awareness and maturity. Growing with and in the presence of my Lord and Savior. "Jesus The Christ." Which requires a lot of toughness. Amen. Thank you Sister's. Awesomeness!

[@metropcs7560]

My hope is built on nothing less, than Jesus blood and righteousness, I dare not trust the sweetest frain, but wholly lean on Jesus name. This is my testimony, thank you for healing me.

[@classesfantastiques389]

Thank you ladies💜💜💜 I think the process of letting go of hurt and betrayal is also such a humbling experience because it takes away the pride of holding on to anger we think we have a right to.

[@ingenesiapopiitjiurutue9891]

Thank you for being vulnerable.

[@tammyculp7274]

The timing of this message was sent by God for me today!

[@coraneal4710]

Amen!!! God has made me prosperous in many ways in the mist of my betrayal. Thank you betrayers.

[@rocministriesnewjerusalem4713]

It was a very inspiring and invigorating impactful discussion. I overcame domestic violence and I can't say that it was the Lord will you be abused, but the flesh and being out of the will of God was the reason. I'm using this now as one of the purposes to build women who came out or are currently experiencing this horror. I have been blessed with songs in the night too. Sister Nicole has a gentle sweet countenance after all she experienced what an Awesome God!!!!

[@israelking975]

WOW. I learned SO MUCH while listening to these Women of GOD. My GOD, my GOD, these women suffered. Yet, they kept the Faith. Kept going as nothing happened. They will go to their concerts and encourage us, show us the Gospel while themselves was crying inside. I take off my hat to these women and all women going through betrayal. Though I strongly believe (most) women are Jezebels, yet I also admit that (most) men are DOGS. Only GOD can help us conquer these agents of evil. Power to YOU Ladies. You are HEROES.

[@shanazhu2673]

Love you ladies stay blessed and highly favored 💙💙💙💙

[@Winniemac_]

love you all. you doing great for the kingdom 🤍🤍

[@EileenKesewaa]

I really needed this. There's betrayal which is so deep, you know you'll never ever experience such again in your life. Also when you've given your heart and all your resources to such a person and you believed that this person was with you for life. When this person uses deceit in the relationship. When you've cried and now practically you've no more 'water (tears) to shed because the water has dried up. Also because this person uses God more so because you love God and the person uses this soft spot you have for God to betray you. I continue to trust God for mercy, help and sustenance. God alone is my anchor! Thank You Lord! Thank You Jesus. Thumbs up for this message! God bless you all.🙏

[@sharriettefinley467]

Wow, thanks for the boulder analogies! In the moment, the Lord is blessing me, indeed, to lay down things I thought I let go of a long time ago.

[@sandracampbell8377]

Thank you ladies, I really really needed to hear this message. God continue to bless y'all and your families 🙏🏾❤️. I love y'all 💝

[@drewmiller8825]

This was so necessary, I really enjoyed this and the things I've learned though it, God bless you all and the things you've gone through for the glory of God! 👑 In Jesus name amen

[@Familybond_5]

Wow I needed this word and they closed off with prayer.

[@bettylozano512]

I totally related to this. So Powerful, so true. God never leaves our side and gets us through it in ways we could have never imagined. HE is our constant! Praise the Lord!

[@bridgetmoonga4012]

I wanted to hear this , have been going through hard times but I thank GOD that am not alone my GOD is with me .

[@yvonnemonde1307]

Nicole you blessed me with the word of forgiveness 🥰

[@allisoncomrie1330]

Much needed discussion! !!!

[@crystalfunderburk3504]

This is good teaching. Thanks for sharing ladies.❤

[@GodsFaithfulnessMatters2Me]

So gooood!….AGAIN!

[@hutenpeshumhring4834]

I really needed this, thank you🥺💝

[@samanthaforbes6526]

Thank you

[@scooterlovya]

Woo good message

[@loreenewilliams2924]

Sometimes I think you're so much better staying by yourself

[@nevillepitout1374]

I left for ten years moved to the granny flat. He didn't show he missed me. After 58 years I have learnt my 3 children are not the mistake. Nevs mom. At 75 have to forgive and focus on God in Jesus name.

[@loreenewilliams2924]

Love love you Nicole please stay strong your such a beautiful soul so vibrant and beautiful

[@fredajohnson506]

This very strong topic speaking on because it's take holy Spirit heal in our heart when we been betrayed because can't go forward spiritually emotionally if we haven't been totally heal and definitely can't be able in realationship with anyone

[@sherlytindoilo5442]

Thank you so much Ladies.. God bless you all🥰

[@user-jz6mu]

I am in tears because I just called my ex who is doing really well without me. He broke up with me because of my mental issues and has been so mean to me. I'm sobbing and it's so painful

[@choolwemudenda2080]

You are loved. Praying for your healing.

[@thatswhatsup712]

Sorry

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so sorry to hear this. We will be praying for you and for the power of the Holy Spirit to bring healing to you, in Jesus' name!💜

[@seruwaiasorovi7500]

So good! Really needed to hear this. Bless you ladies!

[@jacquettabarnhill4550]

one Of The Greatest Videos I Have Seen!! God Bless!

[@alidastamps2797]

This here hits home my Lord

[@jalissalabria8576]

02/19/2023 Warrior of Spirit and Discerning of spirits ! 🕊

[@joanwright4062]

AWESOME! AWESOME! THANK YOU SO SO MUCH FOR SHARING. 🙏🙏 MORE BLESSINGS BEYOND BOUNDRIES🙏🙏🇯🇲🙋‍♀️

[@steflondon88]

The timing…. My goodness

[@crystalgrose]

I am so inspired by all of these wonderful Sisters ♥️

[@mariahpowell]

Amen

[@JESUS10148]

Very beautiful talk yet I disagree with one of the sisters that addresses the Holy Spirit as a wind. HE IS NOT A WIND. He is a person. I understand what she was trying to say yet wanted to point out that wind isn't the adequate word to describe Him. Beside that, the topic of betrayal is so relevant to me. Good is honestly so working in me. I'm learning to walk in spirit and in truth. In truth ultimately means forgiveness and love. 💕 Blessings to everyone!

[@lynette4412]

12:23. Wow! I did not even catch that! Thank You! I think she was making a comparison and forgot to use "like." In John 3:8, Jesus compares the gait of those born of The Holy Spirit to that of the wind. Amen.🙏😇🙌

[@jacquelinehudnell5501]

Thank You for this encouragement!

[@teodorasilaphet5497]

God experience betrayals & all sufferings.We look up our Creator for He make us overcomer & strength us.

[@dermanydelgado9043]

yes yes greater discernment

[@stephaniebryant5037]

You've to trust God with your deepest pain and allow him to take the sting out of the pain and heal the wound and fill the void with his love, let him for he has called us to be made whole.

[@patriciacarter9825]

Awesome Truth Nicole!

[@naamaraolivia4477]

i needed this surely.

[@crystalgrose]

This was a very good conversation.

[@simplydee4522]

The Believers gets dumped on, forgive, and yet offenses continues even in the midst of forgiving and letting go. Why is that's not enough?

[@lynette4412]

🙏🙏🙏

[@thatswhatsup712]

LORD fix my picker

[@TYannaVenice]

Something I needed to hear❤️

[@faithfrazier5485]

Having been betrayed over and over in a relationship by my partner (not married) and I’m still in it. Thinking I’m doing the right thing because I’m trying to forgive and forget and allow him to rebuild the trust. Is it possible to get past this by staying in it with the one that betrayed me? God, I want to be whole, healed and well. Lord help. I want to be who you want me to be and do what you want me to do.

[@chetina912]

I would say to you, to just give the entire relationship to God, because I'm married and going through the constant disappointment yet, somewhere deep down in me still want him to be the man God has called for him to be and husband. So don't worry about your relationship nor worry about where it's going and what he's doing. if he breaks up with you then let it be and praise God. If God gives you the peace to break up with him, still praise God. Because God doesn't allow confusion nor does he allow any type of abuse. I just remember as I'm writing this to you. 1 Corithians 13. God's Fruit of the Spirit. If their is no genuine love, peace, joy in the relationship nor reciprocated than it's time to move forward with one day at a time. I hope you are okay, and we will both get through this. I pray that God works everything out in your favor as he will do for me and in my marriage God willing.

[@dermanydelgado9043]

yes he will fix you again

[@anaymousjohn5227]

its been 5 years so much i experience heart break broken abandoned confused gas lighted trick bamboozled still i rise false prophets in church too

[@oneof7billion627]

Psalm 55:12 is the scripture she is talking about.

[@meekmeek8198]

I love this

[@loreenewilliams2924]

Amen and Amen

[@riimak4575]

Amen🤧🙏

[@lilmamasofly9111]

🙌🏾

[@mariahpowell]

I love this so much ❤️

[@crystalgrose]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@choolwemudenda2080]

🙏🏾🧡

[@tomarraesposito7749]

How do we move through this when the betrayer is your child?

[@lynette4412]

🙏🙏🙏

[@jaz9542]

Umm 54, where??? Lots of great gems in this, but I’m still stuck on how Nicole is 54 lol literally so confused right now

[@mariahpowell]

“Releasing your rights to Christ”

[@sinmiloluwaomole6077]

Something struck me about what Peter did to Jesus and what Judas did to Jesus. They both betrayed Jesus. I think the difference between the two is that Peter repented, Judas did not.

[@angelamrivera7365]

🙏💔🏡😪🙏😪🙏😪💔🙏

[@samsungbackup3619]

I don't think our will can overwrite God's will

[@diamondbolton2944]

If/when I tell the truth about my experience, it might turn a lot of people away from Christ. People are turning a loan into theft, and accusations of adultery with the people around you not informing you of it but hinting it. People in power talking about the situation but denying it to play reverse psychology. The forgiveness can’t be ongoing because these toxic individuals are dragging it out and it’s crossed such a boundary that it’s split my family because the relative can’t come around with my ex/partner.

[@mommie2492]

I really love listening to you women, but when I listen you ladies need to be quiet when each one is speaking. It is distracting when you say yeah, amen etc.. Each one has something really important to teach us.

[@rosalindquinones2791]

AMEN

[@annamenchaca9102]

Amen 🙏

[@denishamoulton882]

Amen

[@user-jo9rv7my8e]

Amen