Nigerian Man In The USA Kicked Out Of His Home By Nigerian Wife; Slept In His Car For 3 Days.

Nigerian Man In The USA Kicked Out Of His Home By Nigerian Wife; Slept In His Car For 3 Days.

[@Akakatang]

I am a living example, your children will come to look for you. They may come to you wanting answers and angry because of the things they were told, but they will look for you. It's something in children that yearns for the other parents no matter how brainwashed they are. The only thing is that they will come to you with misinformation ready to pounce on you not knowing your side. Sadly, my mother tried to do that with our father, but my father was not going for that. Every day he would meet us at the school bus stop and give us money for school that day. On birthdays and all holidays, he had something extra for us at the bus stop or sent to the school or sent to my grandmother's house. God bless my grandmother who was open to him seeing us at her house. No matter what my Mom did my Dad pressed to see us and be part of our lives. As my Dad got older and needed to live with someone to care for him, he came with me. my Mom was upset with me and stopped talking to my husband and me for a long time because we took him in to care for him. She has since passed away and my Dad is still living with me about to turn 100 years old this August.

[@dipo2142]

Wow, a beautiful story.. God bless you

[@peteregharevba8500]

God bless you

[@michaelwhite8768]

Sister Kay I shared exactly same experience with you but all i can say is God bless you.

[@SonsofGodNetwork]

This is beautiful

[@olusegunfadeyi8137]

Wow!

[@lindaone6305]

Not all women am a gambian my husband is a gambian as well and he brings me here uk 1999 till today he never cheats on me and I never dream of cheating on him we really have our ups and downs but that's makes us stronger and love each other more I have health issues which change my appearance but still it's change notting on his side he love's me more but you know why I respect my husband from day one and am content with what he earns and am really happy to help him on any level .we been married since November 1994 .

[@blessingnwoyah3363]

When a man knows how to love you and respect his marriage like God's wish for marriage, you won't have choice but to submit your all I mean all to him because he deserves it not like some African men that want to eat their cake and have it.

[@rhymzyoronni3660]

@@blessingnwoyah3363 my dear it's not always like that.. only men can say what they go through.. you as a woman can never know.. even if you know, being a woman that you are, you can't acknowledge it

[@winnerone1817]

@@blessingnwoyah3363 lies, lies. A good nr of you don't.

[@albertnyorkor9248]

Thank Father God for your beautiful family 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@nikkione9901]

Congratulations 🎈

[@albertnyorkor9248]

May God richly bless this lady.

[@Carameldamour]

The problem with African people abroad is that we are pour immitators. We often copy the wrong thing. The way American men and women treat each other is rooted on a history that African people know nothing about. Most African come here and want to emulate it without understanding the root cause. On the other hand you have people who come here with such rigid traditional values that is not accommodated by the western system. African should take the good of each cultures and create one that is unique to and fitting to their diaspora lives. The system here requires 2 partners to work and support each other... You can't ask for 50/50 cost and not 50/50 work... Things have to be balanced. Back at home people marry for the wrong reasons to start with. So the moment people immigrate elsewhere away from the family eyes and pressures, then true feelings arise.

[@womenstriving8960]

Thank you so much, another factor is Help is cheap in africa. Over there the stress is too much on the women if you want to continue same life here. And you must split bills unless the man will die of work. It’s a different orientation

[@womenstriving8960]

You said it all 😊

[@nikkione9901]

I don’t get why they just don’t go live in the village and marry a village wife if they love traditional values so much ? Wtf are they doing in the west , stay in Africa and build your city or country. Stop going to countries that are against your values.

[@Lighted_Path]

That last statement Daddy Freeze said is fact. Your mum can be the best mum,but she might not have been the best wife. It takes a man to grow and be objective enough to see and say this. The man is seen as evil and wicked as the indoctrination of the mum takes over. But when the male child grows and face things he will understand. Kanya west and comedian Blackson said the same. It took them to grow up and seek the narrative on their own after going through the same things their dad was put through. They saw the man was the victim and not the villain. There are messed up men as there are women. That just need to be on their own.

[@stevenwandell7718]

Don't bring your wife abroad to avoid been kicked out of your house . These women can't be trusted

[@emmsonbrown2249]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@womenstriving8960]

Treat your wife how you’ll treat foreigners and as a human being and you will see peace. Yes some women can be evil but there are deeper issues to this. An african man with a white wife treats her better than his own Nigerian woman. Go and check. It’s painful

[@illrizzocgg1009]

@@womenstriving8960 Your comment is b.s because by nature a women is never satisfied regardless what a man does for her. Especially in the west were women are empowered to the point they have no respect for men. Most women only behave by force not when they have a choice , why divorce rates are sky high in the west, in Nigeria their own families woul condemn their behavior.

[@womenstriving8960]

@@illrizzocgg1009 “where women are empowered” don’t women deserve empowerment? Or you want them to slave for men so they don’t have options? Tell your sisters and daughters not to be empowered because of men. Clown 🤡

[@tombimashri8149]

Respect empathy nd Love are key to every marriage.

[@Gigi-wi9sr]

Communication plays a big role also.

[@BeckEddie]

Not just communication but effective communication.

[@mayowaogunbolude2389]

Separation and divorce could be so messy and draining. I was a victim of this

[@abdulkhalifa9679]

The social corporations built a industry to separate families and reduce them into other types of people

[@my3mids386]

May God blessed this beautiful lady! Madam I owe u.(We both need our men)

[@PM-gp3oy]

The woman speaking is a complete embarrassment. Why is she worrying about the fact that there's no protection for men?. Women are the ones that need to be protected and these laws are in place because in the past women were abused and victimised by men, women in the West had to fight to change the system and that's why men can not get away with abusing women like they do in Nigeria. Most Nigerian men want a doormat for a wife, someone they can control, abuse and exploit, if you treat a woman like that in the West you will end up in the divorce court (that is if the woman has any iota of self-respect). The majority of Nigerian women I know here in the UK are divorced as a result of being married to abusive Nigerian men who in addition to being emotionally and even physically abusive do not want to pay bills or take care of their responsibilities etc but still expect to be respected, thank God the laws in the UK protect women from this kind of bull shit.

[@victoriathompson8992]

Men treat your wives the same way you want them to treat you because you two have the same blood and water following in your body

[@womenstriving8960]

Thanks, they treat their african women as rags and see foreign women as gods to be worshipped, who won’t be angry?

[@myztroogeegibson3568]

What else do you want from men again, nothing we do gets to your satisfaction. Y'all are killing us with your toxicity we too have feelings but we choose not to nag about it. Everyone is expectant of us, our bosses, parents, families, society etc...

[@sundaykalu6289]

Daddy freeze please try to add Nigeria leaving in Asia and here our side of story thanks.

[@engielove2302]

Good morning Daddy Freeze

[@kingsleyafamefuna8442]

Solomon Buchi has said it just the way it is. Kevin Samuels said it all. Th God Father remains undefeated.

[@Benchmark243]

If a man picked a woman from the gutter and he is paying all the bills you hardly hear any complain but the day a woman is the one paying bills you will see monumental disrespect and divorce.

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

May be you are right 😂

[@smpciticentre9739]

We should not be watching to criticize participants online. This is a zoom conversation not a talking head interview. It is not formal. We must learn to tolerate the diverse orientation of other people. We are watching to understand and reason out the topic individually to pick up the lessons in the story. And probably share our own views if possible. Thanks Daddy Freeze and team.

[@iam_chocpapi]

Beautiful people ❤️❤️❤️

[@Concertto]

DF, where did all this happen? I can't believe it was in Nigeria.

[@josephsylvester8810]

You're very correct Mr Solomon, any man that wanna marry a woman should "should marry a woman that have family value" And yes "women are good at playing the victim in most cases"

[@gbemisolaolokodana1116]

Happy weekend 😁😁

[@heatherbooth4217]

A programme for men needs to start with the men themselves. Perhaps Pride is the stumbling block. We can't keep losing good men to depression and suicide.

[@JoeBooks]

Why I still mourn the death of Kevin Samuels

[@user-pu5eo3uw1d]

I still don't think, cheating is enough for a woman to send his husband packing. There more to people getting married having children in between them. Than to just do away with each other just because of trivial reason of cheating.

[@emmaabumere2870]

Protect yourself at all times.

[@foodmistrexxvivian114]

All these men complaining of how they were dealt with by their wives, what do you do to them? Most women are very kind unless you bring out the worst in them.

[@selasi809]

Not so true, our black African women once they start outearning thier husbands fill they no longer need them.

[@aao449]

When black African men out earn women they do the same thing.

[@kayholn7522]

What did Adam do to EVE before she followed the serpent?

[@jacobd3776]

In many marriages expecially in Western world if they dont have things their ways they don't mind to pull everything down.

[@bantimusic5406]

At least pay the rent if u want him out

[@MariamGambaro]

I am here for the first time and its so strange that the first person I see is my cousin Sandy!!!! .. Aburo, carry go o.

[@beverlyfrancis8433]

This wife could kill! Wow.

[@araoyatomo985]

African men issues abroad infidelity, violence they think nothing wrong with a little slap here and there, verbal abusive, disrespect, ego, miserable, lazy when it comes to taking care of the home, selfishness. Then they expect their wife to just be happy they have a man because of the seemingly ease men have to move on to another woman. They expect women to be bowing down to them regardless of what they are bringing to the table. They need to let go of their ego and learn to love their wife and not buy into this idea that they are God gift to women and their women should just take any rubbish. Just remember pride comes before a fall.

[@E.M.Favour]

This not true at least I have in 3 different countries in Europe and being around the world, change your environment the world is not as evil as we make it to be and it's not as good we make it to be either. Seen too many foreigners still going crazy for Nigerian guys especially in Europe they even have a saying that Nigerian men always take of their women, but I don't know how the U.S is but my sister who lives there also say this too, many Nigerian men have good marriages there

[@abdulhannan3881]

The moment you listen to everything your wife or partner tells you in the name of love, you might not even give your parents who gave birth to you $10. I love my wife so much have really made so many stupid and that is why it seems African men or Nigeria men are stubborn. And this is the reason why American marriage is nonsense and it has helped so many hopeless African youth to enrich their families. You understand how it goes. I never said man to maltreat his wife No, but do your best to keep her happy but never listen to everything she tells you cuz a man remains the head period.

[@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767]

Ara Oyatomo, God bless u iya. U spoke my mind.

[@BeckEddie]

@@E.M.Favour Fact is, Nigerian men respect white women more than black women.

[@E.M.Favour]

@@BeckEddie yes ,if am being honest many of the nonsense we do that Nigerian women take European girl wouldn't take it, but another issue many Nigerian women don't want to be treated the way the Europeans are they would think your a push over have seen that one first hand,, if Nigerian women change their midsts and raise their standards many Nigerian men would change how they treat them

[@sonofafrica514]

This is correct in the societal structure of America and other western countries. 1. White man 2. White woman 3. Dogs and cats 4. Asians 5.black women 6. Indians 7. Hispanics 9. Black men This is common knowledge here that black men are at the absolute bottom smh. It’s to a point now where we as black men who just leave this place because literally society is against you. If a woman calls the police on you and makes something up, God help your soul.

[@julielove8932]

🔅Dude In Green T PERFECT WAY TO END THE VIDEO YOU Sir are A Great Example 👍🏾👌🏾 *standing ovation* 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 🔅Lady in blue T said, "..Ladies be patient..." 👍🏾👌🏾 *standing ovation* 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 🔅Samaria said, "Marry Your Type"👍🏾👌🏾 btw you're getting really good at co-hosting 'The Dr Daddy Freeze Show' Samaria. *standing ovation* 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@koumbeboube1312]

Dady Freeze don't we go to the court to determine how much child support is due? Do we just give the x what they ask for?

[@iam_chocpapi]

Omg! 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@joyolowe3880]

It's depends on the state, in my state they also have social services programs for men, shelters and other resources in terms of difficulties. For the woman to kick the man out of the house, he could be helped with domestic violence resources.

[@yvonnee4085]

Long story short, if a man does right by his wife and respects himself and her, bearing in mind that she is as human as he is and has feelings too,he should not be scared or worried about living with her anywhere on the planet because he is going to get the same good treatment he gives her. Men who are scared to live with or marry women abroad is those who know they abuse their women in one way or the other and are afraid that the hammer of justice will fall heavily on them,period.

[@winnerone1817]

Hmmmmmm. Keep justifying their actions. Nigerian women at home will be the loser in this game. Trust n9ja men. There is no point looking for a wife, they should just get baby mamas. One can make 10 baby mamas.

[@macongeorgia]

You're toxic

[@kingmelanin7468]

Idiotic comment...

[@charlesoyibo9536]

Why does all these issues not there back home?

[@Lighted_Path]

That is not true. What you are trying to say is that a man can be abusive or be unjust,but a woman is only abusive cz the man is or treated her so. So there aren't women who are toxic and will take advantage of a man's good nature cz that's who they are. Abuse, toxicity or taking advantage of another, doesn't have gender

[@israelsamuel7764]

This is a woman talking sense. One half baked man was licking his lips and talking trash because it hasn't happened to him yet

[@simonibegbulem]

You dey mind the MANGINA?

[@Unique2023-]

This lady Daddy Freeze is hosting doesn't understand the rules of communication 🙄 she kept interrupting the whole conversation 🙄 😒 😑

[@victoriaharry1048]

This woman na her type dey kick men out forget all this bla bla bla. I guess she is scared her sons will marry one crazy chick

[@Benchmark243]

She is not doing anything wrong. Those of you talking about this woman are exposing yourself. You are the type she is talking about and you don't seem to like it.

[@steramwanakira7183]

I am married to a Nigerian man and our marriage is fine. I am from Tanzania 🇹🇿. All this there discussing is true and happening here in Ireland and it happens to Nigerian ti Nigerian.

[@victoriaharry1048]

This guy without picture is hypocrite. I know his type. Who cared about a 50 yr old man marrying 20 yrs. As if it so rosy for them. No one envy them. I was in such situation but it is crap. I regretted it. My man now is few yrs old than me and we click and dance and happy. Talk real shot

[@PM-gp3oy]

Victoria Harry that guy is what AAs call a dusty negro, most divorced women are not interested in putting themselves through another miserable marriage with yet another dusty negro who will bring nothing to the table except stress, abuse and trauma, those young girls are welcome to have those 50 year old men but 9/10 times as soon as the young girl finds out how useless the man is she abandons him and moves on to something else, also the young girl is expecting the 50 year old to pay bills and take care of her which is something most of these dustys do not want to do.

[@Lighted_Path]

He is no hypocrite and he knows what he is saying. It didn't work for you,it does work for some. When women get older,the truth is the value of men(higher earning) they will get won't be same as when they are younger. Though is what they desire, so breaking up their marriage, thinking they will get this men,which they don't to them is frustrating. This is cz these men want youth hence younger women.

[@gbemisolaolokodana1116]

Talking sense wow

[@MariamGambaro]

Your children need to have a roof over their heads. Child support is calculated to include accommodation.

[@militarybishop6053]

We are gradually getting there. According to Abraham Lincoln and I quote; He said we can predict the future by the society we create today. This statement says it all. That Nigeria is suffering today is simply because of the leaders it chose yesterday. This applies to what we have in our hands too concerning marital institution. These same people responsible for this destruction shouldn't come crying when their kids start receiving it few years from now. Marriage doesn't start and end with U.

[@nelsonmayo8856]

If this is a general problem plucking the American society, then it should be addressed by the govt in order to avoid the broken society as a result of broken marriages.

[@jenniferluna1568]

You know 1000 times loooool.

[@BeckEddie]

😂😂😂😂

[@iam_chocpapi]

💯💯💯

[@folakefadare9890]

This woman interrupting

[@Lynnmots]

Daddy freeze please cut people off who don’t make sense

[@giovannabrown396]

DF whether you were seeing your children or not, it shouldn't stop you from paying their school fees . That's your parental responsibility towards your children .they are innocent of the animosity between you and your ex. When your children grow up and are uneducated how would that make you feel being their father? . You are not punishing your ex by withdrawing child support or school fees but your children . The lady saying it's like a movie , you haven't heard the other side of the story so don't judge . DF was young and immature during the marriage and with his traumatic background , his marriage wasn't going to be easy on his wife . Childhood trauma can play out in future relationships. DF is good with his current wife because he is more matured and he has learnt from his previous marriage .

[@martinsdavis01]

Leave your naija wife for naija! Go back home to her twice a year!! They are messing up big time over here!!

[@winnerone1817]

That's better than a woman who throws her husband out and collect his property.

[@omnipotentwiz5101]

Thank you very much. Please give me the contact of your favourite charity so I can make a little donation.

[@aao449]

You can “leave her” in Naija and you can believe she will “leave him” abroad and move on. She has a brain too.

[@kayodebanjo]

@@aao449 that’s better let her move on, we are a people with a deep seated inferiority complex that believe everything European , culture and all is superior. Leave them at home talk to them on phone visit them or invite them here for holidays . However if you are both doctors, nurses, teachers it’s worth the risk of bringing them to Nigeria. A cab driver marrying a nurse or a doctor will fail in an European country. Or a 60yr old man bringing a 36yr old Doctor to America is doomed it won’t work. You need to do situation and economic analyses. Cos attitudes and cultures are different

[@teeooh691]

@@kayodebanjo and have second phone too..

[@evablessp23]

Sorry but i cant feel sorry for Nigerian men.

[@steramwanakira7183]

Always my husband tell me his happy to marry Tanzanian because he couldn't stand Nigerian women eventhough he is a Nigerian

[@mayowaogunbolude2389]

You anger is well deserved. It's a proof of your love for them.

[@florence7417]

The lady talking is absolutely correct. When my situation was a little tough due to health conditions, my husband told me I was "milking him." Is that not ridiculous. Today we make about the same salary

[@myztroogeegibson3568]

Yet he pays the more. Sometimes men have to sacrifice a lot of comfort to satisfy their women and children and and have nothing to show of. But to drive out your man out of the house cos he's not able to provide is disheartening, a lot of men are going through mental crises that some don't have the courage to seek for help like women do cos who will beleive them?

[@garobayounglord6504]

Are u still together?? In what ways are u helping him ??

[@kayodebanjo]

London is a good place to live

[@palo5959]

You forgot to add die “Live and die”

[@gbemisolaolokodana1116]

Talking my sister

[@fidelisattah5761]

Is Daddy Freeze a guest or a presenter.He was the one doing all the speaking.

[@gbemisolaolokodana1116]

My brother

[@florence7417]

Stop generalizing, there are good women out there please.

[@Akakatang]

I think breaking a man is the goal of a lot of women when they are hurt. God help us all

[@isaacayobamiadebayo2746]

Karma will pay them back

[@vessarush3997]

God really help u guys bcos u never blame the men for hurting the women & children but expect the woman to carry on inspire of the abuse. What a wicked culture!

[@womenstriving8960]

So its ok to hurt women and expect roses and flowers? 😂 a woman scorned!

[@Akakatang]

No one should be intentionally hurting each other. What happened to leaving? Some people overstay their welcome and now they want to burn the house down with people in it.

[@womenstriving8960]

@@Akakatang yeah no one should except the person who hurt the other first 💁‍♀️

[@gbemisolaolokodana1116]

Very bad story 👌👌👌

[@koumbeboube1312]

No matter how weaked yr spouse is, they can't just kick you out of a house as they please if yr name is on the tile of the house or on the lease if it's an apartment .

[@isaacayobamiadebayo2746]

Ignorance

[@vessarush3997]

Most Nigerian women won't disrespect their husband but Nigerian men bring their bad behavior and domineering abusive attitude abroad which doesn't work there because women are respected abroad.

[@charlesoyibo9536]

If that behavior worked/tolerated in Nigeria why is it not working here?

[@vessarush3997]

@@charlesoyibo9536 Because, in Nigeria, there's much impunity and no consequence& the culture encourages disrespect of women but abroad the laws disallow such primordial behaviors & the society doesn't tolerate stupidity!

[@charlesoyibo9536]

@@vessarush3997 there are consequences for both males and females in Nigeria. Stop coping that narrative from modern women. Our culture pretty much keeps us in check. The roles are well defined but in most western world women always want to step out of their role to contest leadership with their men and it's breaking family apart. Beside, I haven't seen any society where what you advocate has worked.

[@charlesoyibo9536]

That's not domineering behavior. It's their culture! Men leads the family. Where in the universe, anytime since creation has what you advocate worked? Take Nigerian culture any where in the world it will work well but what you advocate results in single parent household and it's not fair for the kids which in the first place is the reason for marriage.

[@vessarush3997]

@@charlesoyibo9536 How about they stay back in their own country where they can freely exhibit their primitive culture & be demigods?

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

Most men feelt they can come to obodooyibo with their AFRICAN MENTALITY OR THEY THINK THEY ARE STIL LIVING. 200 years ago. Women. go through a lot. Even their husband killed them because may be the woman is tried of. Control humilieted from the man

[@sunnyemmybikko5142]

Bro Kevin Samuels is the best to have happen to black race here in the U.S

[@barbarafadare9579]

And how has that paned out?, the black community in America hate themselves more than ever.they have all sorts of divestment movements now so to what end?

[@adetutu200572]

Okunrin elejo wewe

[@leonardorjioffor6683]

Daddy Freeze please I can tell you that I totally disagree with that notions of saying that it's about dysfunctional society. It's simply acultural issues bro, if it's not cultural issues then tell me why someone would say it's because of dysfunctional society or family that's is the reason why our men and women are breaking up in abroad, that's wrong. Even the whites folks breaks up in western societies talk less more of Africans

[@truezladye1893]

Yes, cultural ties are actually keeping people stuck in their ways. The same old all the time.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Well, the women are the ones who fought for those rights in the U S A; very few males did, except for the CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENTS!!!

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Don’t make BLANKET statements.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Use the term, ‘some of the women’, not blanket statements! I know many women and men in good relationships, educated, successful who came to the U S A legally! Not looking for ‘papers’immigrants. The minute that man mentioned KEVIN SAMUELS!!! Really? With all his garbage talk, how was he DELETED? Hypocritical! I’m happy I NEVER had the issues or concerns these men are talking about. Depends on the circle one is in it seems. I listen to hear how some people live their lives. Good show, listen, learn about things, minds open! Daddy Freeze had me 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[@theagbaman]

Nigerian society is definitely dysfunctional

[@Guzmies]

Freeze when most grow up they will find out themselves especially the male children