Nightcore- A song about coming out by Jake Edwards (Lyrics)

[@sadboynightcore2084]

Stay safe guys 💙

[@linntheres7091]

SadboyNightcore tanks 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@tenbillionfliescantbewrong9238]

sounds like a song from the Disney movie alladin

[@sei4009]

Lol i read "Stay safe gays" instead of "Stay safe guys" :/

[@zzarze]

SadboyNightcore thank u you stay safe too

[@milesthemothman7650]

I wanna like but it's at 666

[@emilyhill6971]

"I found a new family that doesn't wanna tear me apart." The community is the family I never will have again. They accept me for who I am.

[@themarvelbunch8604]

❤️

[@echoheavenfellfrisk6038]

I felt that, and I support you, I live your profile pic, im also pansexual

[@ashthefirepheonix3787]

Im pan and non-binary but my dad is homophobic and my mom just wouldnt care and my brother......i dont know what he would thing but my sister would support me shes the only one that knows

[@deranged_dragon9471]

@Ann Macharia this may be one of the wisest things I've ever heard come from a 12 year old, hold in there you'll make it 💕

[@thisotakugirl1017]

I just feel so blessed that after being kicked out by my mother and having my sexuality rejected by my dad, my gay trans bff and his family was just like "hello! you are our child now!!!!"

[@genzpotato4762]

Me coming out as pansexual Friends: that’s so f*cking cool! Mum: I support you Dad: that’s cool Older brother: *keeps making pan and lesbian jokes* Younger brother: what the hell does that mean? Sister: I thought you were lesbian? That one Christian dude in my class: *SINNER!*

[@cupidsdeath3258]

when ur in a catholic school everyone is gay I swear to god

[@salt_in_the_mailbox]

"I thought you where american" sorry your sisters remark reminded me of that lmao.

[@i_dont_know_who_i_am_93]

"I thought you were american"

[@lisathompson9252]

Im pan too and I always have to explain to people im not attracted to pots and pans 😔

[@flame1949]

@@salt_in_the_mailbox ME TOO 💀💀💀💀

[@salt_in_the_mailbox]

Me: *sees this song* Also me: HEADPHONES ACTIVATE

[@ahassett37]

Same tho-

[@savannahfox4160]

Me too. Don’t be afraid to be you. You are amazing whether you are straight, gay, pan sexual, bisexual, anything. We all love you for you. ❤️

[@salt_in_the_mailbox]

@@savannahfox4160 aw thanks its just because I was at my dads and I have no idea what his view on this stuff is. lol

[@juloris2]

@@salt_in_the_mailbox plz be safe and find out first

[@salt_in_the_mailbox]

@@juloris2 yes i know I've tried to bring that stuff up but I don't think he understood it so I haven't brought it up since and I know I'm safe but thanks!

[@rabeswashere]

Can we all take a moment to appreciate how supportive this whole comments section is? I honestly love all of you and come read the comments whenever I’ve had a bad day.

[@JKing666]

yes this community is awesome

[@youtubeaddicted1221]

I do the same thing. It always helps to know I'm not alone!

[@choco-late3899]

Yeeesss it’s awesome

[@bunny4257]

Same here 😊

[@august4083]

Omg your soooo sweet :))))

[@llyne_ainthere]

Sometimes you trust strangers more than your family and friends

[@JKing666]

so true... freaking messed up but true

[@picklepounder74]

Exactly

[@amakate8789]

True bcoz the strangers understand u more than ur family

[@shdwfxgamerz7667]

Because your not trying to get their approval that's why it's so much harder

[@redblackninja202]

Ya

[@sleepy_crypt]

Came out to my whole family... Sister - Okay with it. Brother - Okay with it. Father - Happy for me. Mother - ...It's a faze... ...Three out of four is better then nothing...^>^

[@seakepp]

Very sad that your mom thinks its a phase

[@kirierjiro6436]

10 yrs later and its still "just a phase" 20 yrs later and its still "just a phase 30 yrs 40 yrs 50 yrs Dann this is a long phase

[@sleepy_crypt]

@@kirierjiro6436 ikr

[@partygirl3212]

Fenris Reapers how old r u?

[@sleepy_crypt]

@@partygirl3212 oh, I am recently fourteen!

[@jizellabrooks562]

I'm bi and this touches my heart

[@nellija9343]

Jizella Brooks same here and I’m crying because I’m too weak to come out to my parents and I just don’t know what to do anymore

[@aretmis1000]

I'm ace lol

[@rayleeayer7234]

It's ok you will get there I did

[@dorottyamezosi3434]

@@nellija9343 same But people say that if you tell your parents,it'll be better I think my father is homophobic or transphobic,so i can relate,but it gets better I'm here,you can talk to me

[@wifeira51]

@@dorottyamezosi3434 can i talk to you?

[@average_moron7177]

I came out as lesbian to my mom and she said "You're not lesbian. You're still young. You still have a lot to learn about yourself. When you get older you can decide that. And my final answer to that is you're not lesbian"

[@kittycake1294]

You’re moms logic is flawed. If you’re too young to know you’re lesbian, then you’re also too young to know you’re straight.

[@madisonfarrow9435]

@Kitty Cake facts

[@editsbyken8736]

my dad did the same , like .. how you gonna tell me what i like ?

[@kirpax]

You're awesome, and brave, for that you weren't to scared to tell her, i don't want to talk bad about anyone, but your mom is stupid, don't belive her, and live your life how you want to!

[@thekpopweeb]

My grandma and uncle found out that I was bisexual today because of my Instagram and when they confronted me about it, my uncle said that I am just a child so I don't know what I'm talking about and that I 'shouldn't tell the whole world' because it would ruin our family reputation or something.

[@serenitypadgett5171]

I'm a lesbian....but I told them I was straight......I'm writing an essay for school...I'm going to base it on that

[@addie3147]

😌how did it go??

[@Mari-qo3oe]

How did it go

[@serenitypadgett5171]

@@Mari-qo3oe not well honestly

[@Mari-qo3oe]

@@serenitypadgett5171 Jeesh sorry to hear that. Keep your head up tho🙂

[@moonsdaydreams8089]

GURL YOU CAN DO IT I KNOW YOU CAN

[@theprocurefamily3496]

To the one person who disliked the video "who hurt you?!?1??"

[@wifeira51]

They are probably homophobic people

[@PinkertonTinkerton]

@@wifeira51 or transphobic

[@wifeira51]

@@PinkertonTinkerton yea

[@linntheres7091]

So many people😔ps I’m not homophobic. I’m actually transgender, my mom just hurt me 😔

[@wifeira51]

@@linntheres7091 then why did you dislike. That makes no sense. I'm transgender too, and i have went through alot. But i love this song! It cheers me up, but makes me sad at the same time.

[@elysian3730]

i started crying like 20 seconds in.

[@gintaregrumslyte243]

Same.

[@nellija9343]

Maddy Rose same here

[@PinkertonTinkerton]

0:20

[@rubired00910]

Same here tho x'd

[@pleasestop1549]

I did but ✨on the inside✨ but I really really wanted to actually shed a tear idk what’s wrong with me I’m weird

[@somebody_ate_alaska]

Love when my parents are like, "we just need time" BITCH WE'RE RUNNING UP ON THREE YEARS AND YOU WON'T EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE IT. Luckily I have awesome friends and other family who love and accept me

[@youtubeaddicted1221]

My first emotional family hates me now 😅

[@mickymaynard3306]

My dad is exactly like that and has been since I was 10 years old

[@00RaveRat]

My parents have almost gotten a year to think and switch to he/they and my name. No progress Only pain and suffering, and I think I should really tell them they've had enough time 🙃

[@QuinnLovino]

it's been 2 1/2 since i knew i was lesbian

[@Friday_The_Thirteenth]

OMG THATS EXACTLY MY PARENTS EXCEPT ITS ALMOST TWO YEARS GODDAMN

[@stanm4769]

I was low key hoping that at the end they would randomly shout “IM GAY” or “IM TRANS” or something

[@kermitthefrog625]

I'd do that if I wasn't such a wussy

[@bread_2gether365]

SaMe

[@thats_totes_yeet_yo5281]

Thats how I came out to my mom. This was our conversation: Mom: Just tell me whats on your mind? I'm your mom you can tell me anything. You're my daughter. Me: I'M A BOY! Silence Mom: I don't think you are

[@Hinona.]

@@thats_totes_yeet_yo5281 aargh sorry man tho if something like tht happens to me I'm definitely taking the chance xd

[@Person-bv2xd]

Yeah

[@RXQexe]

In a lesbian but I haven't told anyone cause I'm to scared to Edit: thank you all for the support on here! And honestly I never thought that this would be seen😅. But I came out to my parents after coming out to my friends and later came out as non-binary! They all accepted me luckily. and again thank all of you for the support ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@specter_7_reporting_in506]

Its okay....youve just told all of use so thats progress

[@elysian3730]

Same

[@mha-stan-owo6660]

I'm also a lesbian and I only told a veryyyy close friend

[@HughJass-fr9nd]

It will get better. Trust me. You just need to find a way to come out and the courage to. You will be okay! ^^

[@brennacharlton5205]

I’m a lesbian currently and it’s bad when no one accepts you, but I have a girl friend so I’m happy, try and find someone to make you feel happy

[@asiap13]

When my mum kicked me out for being queer I had no idea what to do I tried hiding that I "wasn't normal" my dad later took me in and he didn't know I was queer then I listened to this song it has helped me realise I can't hide who I really am from people 1 year later I have a loving girlfriend and a father who supports me unconditionally

[@baluan8142]

I'm happy for you!!

[@lotusdoodles3161]

That’s the saddest yet sweetest thing I’ve seen on the internet today

[@Daniellepire]

Your mum doesn't deserve you hope your doing well

[@cyndercosmosTTV]

Parents don’t need kids, but kids need both parents. It’s hard when you lose one because they are ignorant and misunderstand you. Be at peace with who you are and the right people will be with you.

[@genderqueerishere]

Proud of you, and happy for you, be who you are and if anyone tells you otherwise, then they are not your family, they not your friends, they are the aliens.

[@Stoic_Ethos658]

I'm so scared to tell my mom...

[@bengiaampi9751]

Savet Tz dont b

[@rhob5730]

You have friends and support, everywhere. Be who you are, be honest with yourself, have courage. It may seem dark now, but the future is what you make it and it is a bright one. Don't waste away your life, as I did. Love and strength, Rhobet.

[@villainshoto7187]

Alex VP same

[@padenbennett9253]

Alex VP; same....same.

[@awesomeboy23]

Yo My Bro 😢

[@natalie20052]

I needed to hear this, my mom found out I was daiting a girl and started swearing and screaming at me...nothing is gonna ever be the same but I'm ok with that cause I love myself and who I am

[@natalie20052]

@Senpai Waffles Gacha Thanks, I'm done being sad about it though it could of gone a LOT worse and as long as I still get to talk to my girlfriend I'm happy

[@Andromeda_galaxy]

Just stay safe. Talk to someone if you ever don't feel safe in your home/school. Love from a pansexual💖💛💙🏳️‍🌈

[@natalie20052]

@@Andromeda_galaxy Aww thank you! I've talked to my best friend about it and if anything would ever go really wrong and I wouldnt be safe at home her home is always there and her family is really accepting

[@kirierjiro6436]

A)I am so sorry that your not accepted,hang in there B)noice profile pic hamilham

[@natalie20052]

@@kirierjiro6436 Thank you and yasss Hamilfam

[@rainbowdragon2282]

It says "wishing you weren't as blue", but I'm wishing I was more blue (blue as in male) cuz I'm ftm lmfao

[@wifeira51]

I'm mtf

[@Cammgirl699]

Samr

[@losercouture]

Same

[@cookiegacharoblox3853]

same ;-;

[@roksanaorzechowska5135]

Same

[@elliottlupin]

My mom told me "the internet made you trans" and "you can't be trans because you never had boy interests" Me: has intense gender dysphoria, was always scared of expressing myself how I want, finally found community and people that understand me because of the internet

[@baluan8142]

Hey there. I hope you feel better. It's the same for me. When I came out to my family, they gave me same shit. they said "it's all because of this damn phone". "You were always interested in women's things!" "If you didn't read about this thing in the room, you wouldn't have been able to know that you are one." It's just a confusion." "You're just mesmerized". Like what? Seriously? It's true that without internet I wouldn't have been able to know who I am. But, now I know who I am. And who I want to be. Please treat me well. But hey, I really hope it gets better for you and hope you'll someday meet someone who you love and who you're loved the most by. Take care~ Ohh and that's my uncle in pro pic btw.. By the way.. my name's Keith~

[@DragonMaster-hp3kl]

It's the same with me. I came out to my mom as mtf, and she thinks it's because of someone who's "successfully influenced me to say everything." No, I've been this way for a long time, I'm just now having the courage to speak about it, but she nor the people she's outed me to listen to me. A lot of the ones she's outed me to are supportive, but a lot of them aren't either

[@nyandoesthings]

parents: *disallow their child from differing from gender norms for their AGAB child: hi im trans parents: bUt yOU NeVEr liKed tHoSE ThIngS

[@jax45]

I have felt trans for 6 years.

[@DragonMaster-hp3kl]

@@jax45 Well, be free in exploring who you are. I've been the same way for about 7 years. I'm mtf

[@Leafyb0i]

Questioning transgender but proud pansexual

[@iamuwufloof9226]

Aayyee

[@jolynekujo9894]

lol I'm questioning my gender too and I'm really scared :))

[@jackoout]

im trans too and pan but im really sacred too tell anyone

[@Coleslaw-wj1qw]

How did it go @CrimsonRose

[@ava_1594]

@@jolynekujo9894 keep your head up! It will get better. I'm questioning my gender and it is very confusing

[@sadazell]

My sister outed me to my mom when I wasn’t ready to come out. She says “You’re not really bisexual.” Which my sister denies ever happening because she wasn’t there in the room. I came out to my dad during the pandemic, he started crying because he couldn’t believe me. Like in a good way. I had been told by my mom to hate him, but when I came out he still loved me. He didn’t care as long as the person I dated loved me and I loved them. I’ve been out as bisexual at my dad’s house for 4 months and I recently got a pride flag for Christmas. Edit: They/It btw, I prefer masculine titles (king, prince, sir, etc.) :]

[@internetacorn7584]

king/queen/royal nonbinary THIS IS SO AUUUUUHHHHH THIS- THIS- this oml- THIS IS SO FREAKINGFANTABOLOUSLYAWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this made me smile SO BIG UAUHOHFOHF IM SO HAPPY FOR UUUUU *virtual hugs*

[@ahassett37]

Frickdoodles Stan your dad Also YOU HAVE A FLAG ALREADY?! HDGAKHDKS I want a flaggg But I ain’t out lmao But I end up drawing my pride flags on everything so if I don’t accidentally out myself in the next few months I’ll be shocked lmao (I have a plan to come out on June 1st if I don’t trip and fall out of the closet by then lol though I might be a coward and not-)

[@DrarryShipperBilldip]

Ofc 😁

[@villainennard6]

I'm glad your dad accepted you 💜🖤💛

[@thisisauniquename]

Your sister and mom are awful, I'm glad that you have a supportive dad though. As a person who uses he/they pronouns, good luck figuring out your identity! If you end up liking they/them pronouns, then I'd like to be the first to welcome you to the nonbinary community! You're valid, loved, and definitely not alone ❤️❤️❤️

[@elysian3730]

i didn't plan on crying this much on freaking new years eve. i plan on coming out to my mom as bi today.

[@cayleighmusic]

Maddy Rose i hope it went okay! If it didnt happen thats okay, whatever happens i hope the best gor you!

[@nrmlleracing9346]

@@cayleighmusic me too..

[@ellamayreaper5085]

How did It go are you okay

[@Gabriel-yd4bq]

Please, we need to know how it went.

[@vrhases]

How did it go?

[@cadeeee9105]

-covers self with five blankets- -grabs tissue box- -hides in room- *time to cry.* -click-

[@JKing666]

it'll get better

[@kalon2278]

It'll get better, youre valid 💚

[@Indyslilbro]

i wish i could get five blankets its winter where i live and i am currently wearing pants and a short sleeved short and its night so im hella cold and all the blankets that i do have my dog is sleeping on them and i dont want to wake her up so here i am listening to this song lonely as ever and typing this out...im pretty sure i wanted to say something else but i forgot uhhhh STAY HYDRATED AND REMEMBER THAT YOULL ALWAYS BE AMAZING HAVE A GOOD NIGHT/DAY

[@JKing666]

@@Indyslilbro it's sweater weather

[@zenjaz8954]

C-click what does that mean???

[@spicyquesadilla8900]

I came out to my mom as being bi... then I came out to my friends and they support me... I also started having feelings for my friend- I asked her out and she said yes... Then a while later she came out as transgender. We're still dating Edit: so um sorry guys he actually broke up with me a while ago and I forgot about this comment. He broke up with me in 2019. Anyway, no I am not pan. I am bisexual, thank you very much Edit: FTM, thank you

[@specter_7_reporting_in506]

Awwww

[@noahenby4812]

This.. is.. the.. best.. story.. EVER!!!! 🤩💜😜🏳️‍🌈 (Happy for ya guys 💜)

[@psychoalyssa4285]

you go girl!♡ always be yourself ^^

[@krishtophor]

That is cutest thing ever!!!☺️🏳️‍🌈💕

[@milesworld426]

:D

[@addie3147]

i’m balling my eyes out right now😭😭 having a homophobic family sucks

[@christophermanns1743]

Felt

[@chaotictrenchcoatsys]

it gets better. I know you won't believe me but in a few years when you're looking back on this, you'll feel nostalgic. I hope you have a good life friend.

[@eri5318]

I don't have a homophobic family but some of the people who are in my family are like my grandma when a female tells her somthing she doesn't like she calls them a "Dy*e*...and my aunt and uncle have said that they don't support the Lgbtq+ and my christian uncle...he told my cousin if he was gay he couldn't be his son...he ended up being bi..! And my step dad doesn't support the WHOLE Trans community...but I'm just gonna sum the LGBTQ+ that is in my family (that I know of) Me: Pansexual Cousin (Aka bff): pansexual Mom: bisexual Cousin #1:bisexual Cousin#2: bisexual (there both men) Uncle(on dad's side):Gay That's all I really know if but I support all of them with my heart! ❤️

[@weedtexting7323]

Yep

[@insertname3244]

I know s nonbinary person named addy :0

[@onionkitty_6678]

Came out to my close family and friends. Friends: ya do whatever. Just dont fall for me Best friend: im so happy for you Sister:two girls together is gross Mom: meh. Its a phase. Dad: dont date a girl ever. You dont want to sin Kinda hard when you only have your best friend...

[@Al_-cf1dj]

That really sucks, I hope it gets better for you!

[@an_autistic_pot_of_stew]

so I have a nuke ready, tell me if it's needed :) for legal reasons, this is a joke

[@emersonkinnally8211]

It is. But it shows they love you. I also only have my best friend.

[@llukai3017]

I don’t even have them

[@onionkitty_6678]

Uhmm I posted this a year ago so idk why its only just now getting people commenting lmao. Its better now. My dad is the most accepting, my mom is still iffy, my best friend is still my best friend, my sister actually came out to me as genderfluid and pan, and i dropped the toxic friends. I also was dealing with my parents divorce at the time when i listened to this at 3am every day so it was a lot of pain back then.

[@Tadpole_Plyrr2]

No one: Straight people: COMING OUT PRANKKKK ✨🤩💞💞💞

[@juloris2]

They will never understand how much it can hurt and how traumatic it can be to have to come out they will never understand that even if your family is accepting that you might still feel totally alone and know that this is not something you just do once but you have to keep coming out your entire life and if you dress or express your sexuality in public (if you can even safely do that) you will always be looked at as different or extra

[@juloris2]

I wish real life was more like my for you page on tik tok just asking each others pronouns seeing only the human race not assuming anyone's sexuality or making them feel weird if they are not interested in sex normalising wearing whatever you want no matter gender pronouns or identity and everyone just sees trans and intersex people for who they are instead of their genitally normalising not knowing or wanting to label yourself so basically just basic human decency

[@juloris2]

Sorry for venting btw

[@deathbyshigaraki2718]

@@juloris2 it's ok, we all need to vent.

[@singedro6136]

Hey you know what let me just grab this song and put it in the gay bunker I - we don't need straights finding this song yeah

[@jennifergreen6156]

My parent's are so homophobic, i don't think them hearing the words "mom, dad I'm lesbian" are going to be a good idea And it hurts that I can't be myself around then

[@maxx8814]

I know just how u feel my whole family is Christian but here i am lesbian and pagan witch who does not believe in God at all 😐i really dont fit in and i only can be me around my one friend

[@x_adie_x1995]

Yesterday my family was joking about my future husband I wanted to stand up and say " you mean wife" but I don't have the self confidence or courage

[@maxx8814]

@@x_adie_x1995 yeah my family is always askin me when im gonna get a bf and I always just freeze and can't ever say what I want to say

[@x_adie_x1995]

@@maxx8814 I can't ever be myself around them!! I have so many funny lesbian jokes!!! It kills meee!!!

[@maxx8814]

@@x_adie_x1995 same tho TvT evan when I simp over anime girls or acter's in a movie 😭 it so hard!!

[@khaas7550]

Came out as panromantic ace Dad- ok Sister- I really don’t care Mom- it’s a phase you don’t know what you are talking about. Moms still mad. Oh well

[@rainboworb8969]

I hope it has gotten better! Stay strong and stay safe!!

[@an_autistic_pot_of_stew]

that's kind of how it is with me, but it's my dad saying something bad. he thinks I'm "too young" to know who I'm attracted to, if I want to have sex, or if my gender is different than the one assigned to me at birth. at least my mom actually uses my pronouns :')

[@rainboworb8969]

@@an_autistic_pot_of_stew hope that you can stay safe and I hope it gets better in time!

[@juloris2]

@@an_autistic_pot_of_stew but when people are hetero parents never say that stuff

[@sally675]

@@an_autistic_pot_of_stew we're too young to know our sexuality but everyone says we're straight which IS a sexuality,so I dunno man, humans are weird , you should become a potato like me😊😊

[@Madame_Penty]

I'm proud and lucky to say my mom is bi (she's been dating a Trans guy since I was one) and she would support me no matter what. In her words "I don't care if you wanna be a purple dino. I would still love you" And I'm so glad for that. I hope all you beautiful people have someone like that in your life. Even if you feel like you don't you do! You love who you love! You be who you want to be! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It's not thier choice to make! It's not effecting them with who you f*ck or who you wanna be! It effects YOU! You are bravest people I know. I know it takes a lot so you KEEP trucking though! So keep smiling, laughing and living your lifes the way you wanna. LGBTQ+ Pride I love you beautfuil people!

[@justsomeguywithamustache4664]

ARE you a purple dino?

[@aidenswisher6564]

@@justsomeguywithamustache4664 ya i wanna know XD

[@aidenswisher6564]

and thats so sweet of your mom. preach

[@Madame_Penty]

@@justsomeguywithamustache4664 Lmao! No. I wish sometimes though XD

[@lovesickghost-]

I'm sad to have ruined the 69 likes😔

[@yamirosewood7529]

Me: asks parents if they wanna hear a something funny Parents:Sure Me:ok let’s just say if I was I boy I would be straight Parents: start laughing and said we kinda already knew. Me: runs up to them and cry’s saying they’re the best!

[@nyandoesthings]

I love the 'I already knew' reaction if it's done in a nice way (sometimes its in a dismissive way which hurts because coming out is hard).

[@den_cho7077]

I wish I could also say it to my mom

[@youtubeaddicted1221]

AWESOME!!! THIS IS SO WHOLESOME!!!!

[@liviaerelans4520]

Wish I would get that reaction 🤣

[@justadumbkid8116]

Man that's so sweet

[@rdexming]

My family: finds out I’m non binary* My parents: iT dOnT exIsT My older sister: says she supports be but always dead names me and use the wrong pronouns* My younger sister: they only one uses the right pronouns and the right name even if she’s 8 and don’t fully understand

[@JKing666]

that's disgusting that your 8 year old sister is the only one It'll get better

[@tami7992]

It's disgusting... how an 8 years old can understand it but the older ones don't... I hope things are going better for you.

[@mykophobic]

1 of my older sisters are the exact same but my other is like your 8 yr old sibling even though my sister understands and my parents told me they wont accept me until im 18 (legal age to kick your child out in the uk) and my brothers havent been told because "how would it effect them and how would they react?" even though they are 6&7. We enbys got this and will get through the pain we have to deal of being deadnamed and the wrong pronouns being used

[@staydetermined6717]

Goes to show kids are better then adults Half the time-

[@deathinsanity666]

I feel like I have no idea what I feel like anymore, I'm neither a guy nor a girl I'm just trying to combine both into my body and it starts to hurt because one doesn't like what the other one does at times

[@lidderbox]

stop playing these games with my heart

[@raven5358]

I'm pan and non-binary. This song really speaks to me. I found it really hard to tell my brother as he is homophobic. It took me a while. My friends were the first ones to know as they are all apart of LGBTQ+ family, even my straight friends accepted me. I did tell my brother. It's taking him a while but he is understanding. He actually slapped one of his mates for me because they were making fun of me. It just proves that everyone can change. Also who are the two people that dislikes this?

[@niles6937]

Pie Productions TV What’s your problem?

[@niles6937]

@@pieproductionstv4886 Why did you say it?

[@ClosetDemon]

wow, your story is a lot like mine. I'm not out, but I'm FTM and pan. I know my family wont understand, but will be accepting, except my brother. I know he wont accept me, and might hurt me if I come out.

[@lankyfellow7944]

I'm FTM, queer and asexual

[@nostalgiadreamscape4804]

Hey, I'm Non Binary and Pansexual too!

[@solazeditz]

"washing my hands again" has a whole nother meaning in 2020

[@chef1917]

Wait what does it mean? I think Ik tho is it to do with sh?

[@lordcain5928]

What dose it mean though-

[@lordcain5928]

@Anousha Mukherjee ohhh makes sense! Thank you 🙏

[@justadumbkid8116]

The answer is gone TnT what does it mean

[@solazeditz]

Corona virus ya'll

[@Dani-jq2fz]

I was so depressed before I came out as bi but now im pretty sure im depressed again for not knowing my gender I told my mum I was transgender and I think she was trying to deny it why is life so hard AND I have to deal with having a HUGE crush on a girl in my class

[@specter_7_reporting_in506]

Thats freking cute...and i feel you or im questioning my gender but currently identify as trans so i feel you

[@JoshandCoco]

OMG SAMEEEE

[@ashtond7602]

I wish you the best of luck I hope it all ends well for the both of us

[@loreymarce2322]

I understand i didn't knew what i was after getting a crush and identified myself as pansexual and i really like a girl in my class that i know she will never correspond to my feellings and it's sad but i have a beaitiful friend who is always there for me

[@vrhases]

I had a huge crush on my best friend for five years. She knew. She rejected me three years in. But that was two years ago now. We're still best friends.

[@levithecleanfreak1264]

I've came our to my parents about being ftm but it's like they don't care. I feel terrible and I need to get a therapist so I can be diagnosed with gender dysphoria so I can get on t and I need a binder but they haven't even tried to use the correct pronouns

[@tylerhagen2586]

I’m in the situation as you

[@pitterswaggamer8019]

I know how you feel a week ago I came out to my mom and dad my mom keeps dead naming me but I might see my dad today (my dad left my mom before I was born

[@notmyphoneigotanewphone3718]

I hope its better now! you are you and god made you the way you are any hate you get is wrong!I hope it gets better if it hasent happend yet.

[@cupid3078]

My life in one post

[@vrhases]

Im trans, but I have so much support. If I could, I'd swap all the support I get for what you get just to try and make you feel happier. You'll get there eventually. It's your life. Your parents can't control you. I hope you get what you need.

[@weeb6390]

I’m trans and told that my parents a few months ago and they still see me as a girl and call me by my dead name :| And they just ignore me when I tell them to call me by my new name. They even told me „it’s just a phase“ and laughed at me, like how would they know how it feels like to be born in the wrong body.

[@Theratsaretakingover]

I am so sorry what are your pronouns and you name ?

[@notfnotinterested4532]

@@Theratsaretakingover if he says he wants to be a male probably he/them i dunno tho because I'm non binary so I'm they/them

[@Theratsaretakingover]

@@notfnotinterested4532 yea I think so . I also use they/them but I know ppl who use he/ they so I was just asking

[@womenrule7869]

your parents should respect your new name and not shout you r dead name. you should always be yourself and no one else.

[@ghostlypawz802]

I can understand, I came out to my mam and since then she's decided that I like "___" (always a dude .-.) Also my friend is in the EXACT same situation, their parents refuse to call them by their name and still use their dead-name, along with screaming at them when they ask POLITELY to use they/them pronouns and their name

[@fallenwaterthefallen4670]

Mother had a breakdown when I accidentally outed myself. Cried about how I can’t be Black and gay at the same time, it would be a “curse.” Father started screaming at me when I did it again (we were alone in a car), but this time I feared for my life and thought he was going to kick me in the middle of no where to find myself a way home. Equally ‘fun’ experiences that I will never forget. I love myself more than others expect. My parents may not accept but I have learned that I am most important in my life, and they can’t ever change the soul that is “Me.”

[@lordcain5928]

Hang in there hun! You got this!

[@justadumbkid8116]

Same, I love myself more than anyone else and that's fine, we're fine

[@Daniellepire]

When parents behave like this when their child comes out as LGBTQ it just shows how they never deserved that child because being gay is a blessing not a curse

[@zer0seven173]

My parents knew I was gay before I did. Everyone did actually XD

[@jay-kun4020]

I'm trans-massiculine and non-binary and love girls my parents think I'm a lesbian they tell me you're a pretty girl and I hide in the bathroom and silently cry to myself cause I'm a boy

[@shadowmare9620]

I'm sorry you have to deal with this bro, stay strong.

[@rainboworb8969]

I’m so sorry! Stay strong! I know this comment is a year old but I hope it has gotten a little better! You have a whole community behind you supporting you! You got this!!!

[@iKuuuurija]

I know what it feels like i got you my brother im a trans too

[@Al_-cf1dj]

Oh that sucks, I know there's probably nothing I can say but you are absolutely valid and I hope they understand some day or that you at least find other people to support you for you!

[@will_beatle166]

Know that you are valid in you’re sexuality and gender no matter what and I hope it gets better bro

[@dekuchan2006]

im transgender too. Im just nervous of telling my parents but ill tell thme soon enough

[@bengiaampi9751]

Deku Chan be brave

[@idkwhattoputhere5578]

How are things?

[@aren1887]

Same here mate. I'm thinking of coming out today to get it out and over with, yet at the same time I don't. I'm still kinda scared to do so

[@dontask6765]

@@aren1887 how are you doing now?

[@Lyric10105]

"I found a new family that doesnt want to tear me apart" yep.. that hit hard.. the community is home..

[@xplr_hell1943]

My Mind in 2017:I am pan and non binary and gender fluid but mom and dad hates me My mind in 2019: mom and dad loves me like I am and I’m proud

[@crowsandlemons]

Jungkook-senpai BTS_ I’m pan and trans masculine!

[@alyxcarson5318]

2017:my mom loves me 2019:"hey mom im trans and pan.." She no longer loves me....i could see it on her face and still can

[@Sharkmann]

Stfu u women

[@Sharkmann]

How does that work then

[@amaniqiy]

How can you be genderfluid and non binary?? non binary is no gender and genderfluid is both genders

[@mtndewslayersxt413]

I came out as pansexual and non-binary and this song made me cry idk why 💕🏳️‍🌈😭

[@oceanman295]

Binx Transboi I kinda relate but instead I'm ftm and gay😅

[@mic8327]

I relate but I'm cis and pan

[@wifeira51]

@@oceanman295 i'm bi and mtf

[@trashyweeb6868]

Same, nb and pan 🌈🤗

[@Layla-tg2qe]

Of course you are

[@rorotakesthecake]

I’m transgender and I have yet to come out so I vibe to this song on bus.

[@chey2051]

Same I'm also trans FtM

[@ramen7462]

Yeah me too and I'm terrified to come out

[@ramen7462]

@@chey2051 I'm ftm too

[@chey2051]

@@ramen7462yeah same

[@chey2051]

@@ramen7462 yayyy twins

[@t1tangardea312]

I'm bi and this community is the best I could've asked for

[@insignificantrat8992]

My coming out was like: "Me: I like boobs and I want to be called they/them and i'm a furry My parents: Ye we always knew, you are still the family disappointment" But i'm here-

[@christinamiller4145]

Man, dude this really hit me hard 😭 😭 Im trapped in a girls...body my parents made me go to a counselor instead of excepting me 😭 ( I didn’t realize how many people liked and responded to this)

[@aretmis1000]

Dont worry I except you I'll be there for you if you need someone to talk to

[@oceanman295]

Awe I'm sorry 😔

[@jakobvermillion6186]

Same...

[@wifeira51]

I know how you feel.

[@wifeira51]

I'm trapped in a boys body... I know how you feel

[@As.alexia_]

I totally understand, I just came out to my adoptive parent. I came out being genderqueer and pansexual. Also great song!

[@seans.silly.little.life.]

I'm trans and pan

[@historyjunkie3144]

ANOTHER GENDERQUEER, PANSEXUAL! HELLO!!!!!!!!!

[@vrhases]

How'd it go?

[@vrhases]

I'm trans and I think I'm bi, if not bi, I'm straight. I definitely like girls, but I don't know about boys.

[@As.alexia_]

Jake Oldale sorry I’m so late! 😭 It went amazing.

[@drag0nstar887]

Hello, I made a little story that would go along with the lyrics to the song (I'm not very good at interpreting lyrics, so it may not be super good, but I wrote it for fun): Warning; it is very long "Front door, porch light," the main character, let call him Jake, is sitting on leaning on the railing to his porch. The sun is setting, and he looks like he's waiting for someone. He was planning on having his boyfriend come over, to help him come out to his parents. As he waits, he checks his texts. "Alone again blissfully" A text says that his boyfriend found out he's actually straight, and that he's sorry. He says that he would still come over if he wanted. Jake texts back that it's fine, that he could do it on his own. At he looks out into the now night sky, a single tear falls down his cheek. "Pacing, bedroom" Jake is pacing his bedroom holding a paper trying to review the best way to tell his parents. "Nothing but worn out dreams" He crumbles up the paper knowing its not good enough. He wanted to come to them, and he knew they loved him, he just had no idea if they were homophobic. "Told yourself it would be tonight - this time" He goes up to both his mom and dad. The TV is playing in the background. He tells them that he needed to tell them something. He was sweating. They don't look at all worried for him, the father glances at the TV behind Jake. It was showing the pride parade, and how happy everyone was to be in it. He hears his father mutter how they were all a bunch of hooligans. Jake stutters as he says "nevermind", then hides his face that begins to tear up as he walks up the stairs to his room. "look up, sky line, wishing you weren't as blue" Jake is now outside laying on the grass. he stares up into the sky, filled only with a few clouds. He squeezes his hand into a fist, tension building up inside him. "Falling, freedom - words that you've already said" Jake tried multiple times to muster up the courage to tell his parents. He only keeps backing down again. He tries to think of another way, but he can't. "I'm desperate, I'm lonely, I'm dying when I go to bed" He goes through severe depression. He lays on his bed, not knowing what to do with his life. He hates it, but he's too stubborn to end it. Jake recalls being bullied at school for simply being gay as he lays in his bed. He didn't under stand why everyone seemed to hate him. He even recalls his old boyfriend being one of the bullies. It's weird, the second you're "normal" everyone seems to like you better. Jake didn't hold it against his friend though, Jake new that his friend would be bullied too if he didn't suck up the other guys. Still, it tore Jake apart. "Waiting, breathless - trying to break out of this cage" Jake stands nervous, as he washes his hands after dinner. He forces himself to say it. Before he can say the key word. His father says "You're gay aren't you?" Then scolds him and tells him to stop being gay. With everything built up inside of him, Jake starts screaming at his parents, telling them that this was who he was, no matter what they did. His father gets even more angry, and for the first time, hits his own son. His mother only glares at her only son, with the most disapproving look. "Nothing's gonna be the same" After the incident, Jake never speaks to his parents again. He avoids eyes contact, but when he does look at them, he glares. He begins to make his own food, study on his own, and go out when he wants. Though they live together, they act as if each other don't exist. He hates his parents. Even now, his parents still hit him when they're angry about anything. "Whisper, quiet - nothings gonna be the same" Jake finally decides that he can't stand living there. In the middle of the night he packs all of the things he needs. He had met someone online, a boy named, Gabe. He had met him countless times in person, falling in love with each other. After explaining his situation, Gabe had offered for Jake to live with him and his parents. Jake jumps out his window, walking to the gas station near his own house, where Gabe said he would meet him, as Gabe lived far away. As he steps into the car, Jake knows that nothing will ever be the same in his life, but he was glad that he was finally going to be happy. Gabe's parents turn out to be very friendly people, and very supportive of their son. It was only a few weeks until Jake became 18, when he would legally be allowed to get his own house, so they didn't bother with adoption papers. The only reason he was going now, was because he knew his stubbornness wasn't going to last him two more days in that house, or in that town for that matter. He eventually does leave, and lives with Gabe. They both end up getting married, and loving each other their entire lives. Holy crap, this took forever to write.

[@lunae.1000]

Nice story

[@moonthewolf4070]

I love the story

[@Levithegreat-gq8sl]

I’m sry but I’m not even gonna try to read that. My brain likes to jumble up the letters a bit when I’m reading things.

[@kyraalenaaguilar4363]

thats beautiful aaaa-

[@hanako4300]

super good deserves more likes

[@kaireese2518]

My significant other came out to me as trans. I still love her just the same as when she was he. We are together happily regardless of what gender she identifies with. ❤️

[@skylarzaretho7506]

I'm transgender and pansexual. I just told my mother I'm who I am and she can't change me even if she tried. I told her to give it her hardest shot but she seems quite fed up. Guys, if your parents say you have to change yourself or that you can't be this or that, just be your damn self. You are unique and beautiful any way you are. Beautifully made, different from the rest. Be you. Don't try to be someone you aren't. If you're gay, you're gay. If you're trans, you're trans!! BE WHO YOU ARE FAMMM

[@HughJass-fr9nd]

💖 The feelss 😅

[@inactivecringepileleavemea5764]

I came out before I was ready I had this sudden urge to get it off my chest at ten o’clock at night and texted two of my aunts and my grandmother and told them I was pansexual, I literally started regretting it immediately but it was to late to back down because they had read the message I had made gay jokes and dropped hints before but they all seemed a bit surprised and were supportive and I’m very thankful for that But word of advice, Don’t come out before your ready I almost had a panic attack

[@touyatodoroki3620]

I came out to my family as nonbinary and pansexual, my dad doesn't really mind, my mum is obsessive over "not wanting a lesbian in the house" but my brother's first reaction was "iS *sHe* hAvInG a GiGgLe!?" He's 16...

[@youtubeaddicted1221]

It was fine until the last part, I started laughing 😆

[@Chronicallyginger]

I’m questioning non binary how do Ik if I’m NB

[@touyatodoroki3620]

@@Chronicallyginger if you don't feel like you identify as fully male or female, you're in the nonbinary spectrum, you could look through a few genders inside the spectrum to see what fits best. Eg: Genderfluid: your gender moves around on the spectrum and you may often change presentation to match the gender you feel at one specific time. Demi-boy/Demi-girl: you are closer to one gender but you are not an extreme like girl/boy. You're kinda half way between being neutral and a boy/girl. Agender: you don't seem to fit on the spectrum at all, you're more off to the side, you present however you feel. Also, you could just identify as genderqueer, a lot of people who aren't sure about labels or feel it suits them better use this and pronouns can be anything you'd like.

[@youtubeaddicted1221]

@Maddie Sewell, ask people to use they/them pronouns in the comments. I did that with he/him and I found out I was a trans male. Here, I'll start: EVERYONE! Please refer to @@Chronicallyginger as Non-binary until they say otherwise. They are questioning their pronouns, so if everyone could use kind words to them, I'm sure they would appreciate it.

[@Chronicallyginger]

@@youtubeaddicted1221 ok and thank u

[@artzetali3095]

I came out as non binary to my parents in early February,, they said two things that day; No” and “You’re depressed”. They booked me an apartment to get therapy the same day, although they did also buy me a £2 binder online. After a few weeks I confronted them about my situation and my mum shouted at me saying, “haven’t we done enough for you?” (Letting me cut my hair and buying me a cheap ass binder when talking about my pronouns) I had never felt so invalidated so I ran upstairs full breakdown in session,, until I made the biggest mistake of my life,, I haven’t brought anything up with them again and I probably never will,, no matter how much I want to purely because I don’t want to be hurt like that again,,

[@ahassett37]

@Ari UwU don’t come out until you can live on your own That’s the best advice I have Your safety takes precedent over your coming out, as painful as that is I hope you can get out soon tho Then when you’re able to sustain yourself independently you can come out to her

[@ahassett37]

Noooo I’m sorry ;-; I wish I could do something but I can’t... Hang in there ;-;

[@Varol0292]

Aight beaches we gon kill their parents everybody. GET IN THE VAN WE GON TORTURE THEM

[@brainandheart612]

I came out to my best friend and her only reaction was “Well duh.” Then she turned to our other friend who was sitting there and said “you owe me five bucks” I love them so much 😂

[@Coleslaw-wj1qw]

That is honestly the perfect reaction😂

[@doguhhwoof3059]

Similar thing happened to me lol So me and my bff were sitting on the bleachers and outtah nowhere I say I'm pan. Then my bff turned around to my crush ( now girlfriend also was one of my friends) and goes where's my twenty

[@seth4164]

Omg hahaaaa my bff's reaction was ' duh, i knew that' guys our besties know everything

[@dreamknight1776]

I confessed my love to the girl I had a crush on who was also my best friend she was bi too and returned the feelings and we were kinda awkward but it was cute then we went back to being friends and she started daiting my other friend who is lesbian they broke up but our friend group is still tight

[@Old_SDC]

Omg lmfao

[@togaishere3823]

my mom: people in 5th or 6th grade cant say they are gay because they are just to young me being bi lesbian gay then pan and then confused all from 5th to 6th grade: nvm I dont have anything to tell you

[@an_autistic_pot_of_stew]

that's how my dad is. I used to classify under biromantic back in 4th grade, and I told my dad- he didn't even say anything. once I got into 6th I told him I was panromantic, and he said "how can you know? you're too young, you can't even do algebra." he also said something similar when I said I was asexual, and I know he'd say the same thing if I came out as non-binary to him

[@MaidenLion717]

I knew that I liked girls when I was in grade 5, i am not sure if I am Lesbian, Bi, Ace, or pan.

[@insertname3244]

I'm only in middle school but I feel more comfortable as a boy

[@an_autistic_pot_of_stew]

@@insertname3244 same here

[@insertname3244]

@@an_autistic_pot_of_stew wanna be friends? Ik its random but... ye idk

[@luxaintsmart1946]

I’m sitting here while my whole house is asleep listening to sad songs and this popped up and I released I haven’t watched this for a bit and that I love this song

[@destinycarter9425]

This song has touched my heart. I love it so much😍💕

[@_tension_phobia_4398]

I came out as Pan soon Agender Mom: Supportive Friends: Supportive Grandpa: Supportive Dad: ‘ITS A FAZE YOU ARE NOT BI’ those are his exact words for when I identified as Bi

[@an_autistic_pot_of_stew]

"you're too young to know who you like" - my dad's exact words

[@finnemerson5891]

"You're just doing this for attention." - My dad's words

[@kirpax]

You are who you are! And live your life how you want to live your life, don't let his words ruin you! 💖

[@ytho1482]

Holy shit hope he changes and learns to except you sending love and hope

[@wu_h.m]

Came out to my family and friends as agender, poly and bi: Young sis: okay with it Friends: okay with it Dad: Its a phase! Ur trying to change ! Stop changing urself Mum: Ur not being resonable be who u were born as and stop thinking differently! My parents are to controlling and they think they know meh when they dont and i tried to explain but they wont support meh..........

[@ahassett37]

Damn I’m sorry :/ No matter what they say you’re valid, remember that 😤

[@wu_h.m]

Áine Hassett omg thx bub🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@eri5318]

I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope it gets better...I still haven't came out as a demi girl..I came out as pans though 😅 the only ppl who don't think I'm joking or "ItS A FaSe" or "StAy OoF oF GoOgLe" are my bff my bio dad and my aunt on my dad's side...☺️( My mom told me to stay off google cuz I came out as pansexual 😃) Edit:I'm acually gender fluid. Edit 2:I'm a Demi girl.

[@wu_h.m]

Himika Toga that’s good to hear and thx for the support luv❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@eri5318]

@@wu_h.m ofc! I support everyone! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@Deluluaudios]

Everyone else saying what they are Me having absolutely no idea: I’m a person :)

[@dragonsncake9787]

Fucking same

[@toxicjay8562]

And that’s completely valid🤗

[@tiktokcompsforthelonely]

And that’s okay human

[@Levithegreat-gq8sl]

lol same! I haven’t been questioning for that long yet. Like 6 months or so. But I get the feeling I’m still gonna be questioning for a long time into the future.

[@grimm013]

Same, trying to figure out for years if I’m non-binary, trans or if I just have gender dysphoria, it’s so CONFUSING!!

[@panpotatochip4063]

Nothing here ,Just a pan in a cupboard------....

[@ahassett37]

That pun omg- Beautiful 😌✨

[@yeehawwww3546]

My mother when I came out as bi “are you bisexual because it’s popular?”I was hurt when she said that,but I don’t really express my feelings so she couldn’t tell I don’t think she’d care either if she hurt me.

[@clone4182]

"I'm dying when I go to bed." *that hit home*

[@terios1826]

I came out as trans around almost 2 years ago and I wish I heard this song before but I’m glad I did because this song makes me feel safe and makes my dysphoria quieter. So thank you for this amazing song! And to all those no matter who you are, you are loved just the way you are! Never change even if someone is forcing you to…you matter!

[@this_user_is_nonhumann]

I'm trans too! :D (transmasc)

[@genderqueerishere]

@@this_user_is_nonhumann me too, trans, more like demiboy or genderfluid for me

[@beckywillis9636]

I’m questioning transmasc genderfluid :D

[@n1ghtw0lf57]

To whoever disliked this video: Do you need a hug?

[@justkhaled]

I do 🥺💔

[@Laura-pq4gl]

I didn’t dislike but I need a hug

[@flower9052]

Copied

[@thatonejellyloser4260]

No, did not dislike ether, i need a girl/boy/non-binary ( omnisexual, so i lean to girls, but like a-lot of boys and quite a few trans and non binary crush’s but always been single)

[@theempire5274]

Yea whoever did that has ✨ internalized homophobia ✨

[@alhanalem_]

I came out to my parents as transgender,and they screamed on my face that i Will always be a girl,and my dad,like he did when i came out as a pansexual,said "it's just phase" Hopefully i also came out to my friends and they supported me.

[@kirpax]

Hi, i hope you are doing better now! And i hope that you stayed strong! 💖

[@weirdelf3186]

This is to the people that disliked this ... You don't know what it is like to feel like this to be stuck in your own head and you can't escape and feel like your not good enough. But we don't matter to you we are just monsters in your eyes and that's all we are to you.

[@weirdelf3186]

Lol sorry I can’t

[@weirdelf3186]

Also what are u I am pansexual and non binary

[@Julia33066]

Tysm, that comment made me finally feel valid

[@weirdelf3186]

@@Julia33066 Yw

[@chipsandbot9444]

Gee I'm actually crying now. I really can't believe some people think stuff like, bad stuff about gays or trans etc. I never some people hated stuff like that before but now I'm learning all about it. I wasn't afraid of it before but now I'm afraid of them honestly. Even though it's not like they could do anything it's just the words that hurt, you know? I came out to two people in my family and that's it. No one else knows about meh. (No one in my family is homophobic or transphobic as far as I know of they are all very supportive I'm just a scardey cat). I wonder if there are people who dislike nonbinarys. Man. Seriously. People really can think some messed up things. ;-; Sorry for saying all this random stuff. I just wanted to get stuff outta my head. Have a nice day whoever's reading this! Stay safe. 💛

[@earthlyezra3791]

Can we talk about how traumatizing coming out is? Being in the closet can be scary and icolating but even when you know they will be supportive it’s like your hearts getting ripped out

[@memesareitcheif5524]

The 4 people who disliked this beautiful song didn’t mean to they just had to many tears in their eyes to see clearly

[@addie3147]

😂😭i love this comment

[@cherrybleh]

I told my mom, that I like girls, and she said, she don't mind that.. She said "Who cares, who you have by your side, if there's a soul, who makes you happy, than why is so important that it's a girl? You are my daughter and I love you, and all I want, is you to be happy, and I don't really care, if that one, who makes you is a girl or a boy" I have the best mom, I love her ❤❤

[@fltchr7]

Can I have your mum? Just kidding, but I’m glad she supports you! 💕 Mine is extremely homophobic unfortunately, but I will hopefully be moving overseas to live with my girlfriend her accepting father. :)

[@kaimoons1914]

@@fltchr7 is your mom adopting?

[@sev]

I am happy for you I wish every parent was like yours sadly mine aren't in fact the whole fam tree isn't

[@rainboworb8969]

@Ari UwU stay quiet until you can move away and support yourself!!! It will be hard but please stay safe!!! You got this!!!

[@Al_-cf1dj]

THAT'S AWESOME, SO HAPPY FOR YOU :D

[@fearlesssfish]

1st, I'm bi, and I came out to my mom. She doesn't believe me, just because I'm 13, and its "just a phase" 2nd, that looks like nico di angelo from percy Jackson, who is actually gay, so ya

[@lyci_s]

Well now you are 14 :)

[@fearlesssfish]

@@lyci_s HAFGJAFSJ I WISH! im turning 14 in 16 days hehehe

[@lyci_s]

@@fearlesssfish oh lmaoo well happy early bday I was close enough 🤣🎉🎂

[@fearlesssfish]

@@lyci_s XD i was such a loser when i typed this doe 😳😳

[@lyci_s]

@@fearlesssfish love that lmaoo

[@2ndaabn]

I think I listened to this 5 or 6 tines on repeat the day I finally came out to my family. "Nothing's gonna be the same." That chorus pretty much nails the way I felt. Scariest thing I ever had to do in my life, but the family I've found since then truly cares about me in ways my own family never did.

[@lilymae5662]

I'm asexual bi romantic so a confusing sexuality for all 😂

[@ryanheightenburg8999]

hey, sorry to bother you, but could you please tell me how you knew you were asexual? im guestioning myself and really need help.

[@gitoalcantara9359]

@@ryanheightenburg8999 asexual is pretty much where you're not attracted to anything in general, and you just love them for who they are

[@notenoughcoffee1998]

@@gitoalcantara9359 okay one of us is wrong here, I thought that pan is loving somone for who they are not their gender and ace is a lack of sexual attraction

[@jasminewells3101]

Yea another bi-romantic asexual.😁 and yes it is a confusing sexuality.😶

[@sillyface6950]

@@ryanheightenburg8999 have you figured out who you are yet? are you ace or aro or both or something else entirely.

[@animelord1717]

I came out as trans a year ago (ftm) Family: no, need help, therapy, she/her Friends: hell yes! He/him, preferred name I’m glad I have friends to keep me up when I cry and feel like everything means nothing anymore

[@JKing666]

it'll get better!

[@ghost_ren4122]

I am Pansexual, Nonbinary/trans, and Demiromantic. I knew I was different since I was in elementary school. I came out first when I was 13 believing I was bi...but I was wrong. I came out to my mom as bi and she accepted me.( I could never and will never come out to my dad unless I am moved out)... anyway...I was really happy but in denial...about a couple months later I figured out truly who I was for the most part, and i was so scared to come out again but i was like..maybe she'll accept me again. Boy was I wrong....I did it late one Sunday night (14 now) and I explained.... she and I quote "it's disheartening to know when I die that may be the last time I see you" and many other rude, disrespectful, and hurtful things....I really wanted to be accepted for who I was but all I could do was try not to cry bc I was scared. I went into my room and cried for a while. About a week goes past and I know she doesn't like me and makes very much sure I know. At the dinner table... she outed me to my brother, grandma, pa-paw, and neices....It hurt....but I figured out my grandma was probably the most I guess accepted of the matter. Few months pass everything just got worse with my mom.... arguements... screaming....it got to the point i relapsed...heh...3 years down the drain.... sucked I gotta admit....we still aren't the best....we still argue...I still get snide comments from my mom and bro knowing it will piss me off and cause a scene....but I'm about 2 months clean I think....I got friends supporting me, people I can talk to...and a family that's better than blood family....I'm 15 now.... that was all over the place but its true....It will get better for you even if you don't think it will. It may take years. But it will get better. And if you need someone to talk to I'm here. I will help as much as I can. Stay strong.

[@davesuttonart8473]

This comment needs an award. Someone give it to them! Oh wait... Actually I have something for you 👑 wear it and be proud! You're always welcome in the LGBTQ+ community. You've done so mutch to keep living so I hope you will do more to live even longer

[@ahassett37]

Fuck I’m sorry 🥺 But yes it will get better You said you’re fifteen... just hold on out for another three years and maybe try to get a job or something to make money to save for then and then you can try to get out and after you leave you can be yourself This goes for anyone in a crappy family situation And if you’re not out and you know you won’t be accepted if you come out then don’t come out until you can support yourself Y’all’s safety matters the most

[@kirpax]

I have never had something like this happen in my life but, just by reading you story i started crying. I hope you are in the best way you can be, and you live the life that you deserve! 💖

[@crystalmayor9712]

I was confused for 2 to 3 years that I was Bisexual when I actually was a Pansexual Not much is changed in life. It's just that no taught me but guess what I never judged anyone. And the homophones only knows to JUDGE

[@crazyhusbandos3229]

you are so cool and valid, i’m skittles and i use they/them pronouns

[@ThatlilrayofSunshine]

Can't this song be any more relatable? Hi, my name is Gabriela, and I'm a closeted lesbian, my family is super religious, me included, I'm not ashamed of myself but I don't fully accept myself... but I accept any other people who's from the LGBTQ •-•

[@JKing666]

you should accept yourself, you are amazing the way you are!

[@ThatlilrayofSunshine]

@@JKing666 Aww... thanks a lot!!! 😭😭😭😭💜💜💜💜

[@JKing666]

@@ThatlilrayofSunshine

[@princessmandyalquisola2862]

Same.Am bi though=)

[@julian1991_]

Hey my names Julianna and we have the same story- Listening to my grandma being homophobic and racist even though were hispanic and she tries to act white: *evil smile* *mind* Keep acting innocent so you aren't a suspect...

[@b.jamescarbajal5975]

WHAT AN AMAZING SONG! It touches every emotion for anyone that had to deal with coming out or any type of major life experience that can be traumatic!

[@7ada487]

One of the best Songs I've ever heard, great

[@aslan.c0m]

Me this morning- I think I’m questioning my sexuality again Me tonight- I’M LESBIAN AND IM PROUD AS FRICK… but I can’t manage to come out c:

[@idkwhattoputhere5578]

How are things now

[@GraceAnimation]

:)

[@aslan.c0m]

@@idkwhattoputhere5578 um update- I’m actually trans nb and out!

[@idkwhattoputhere5578]

@@aslan.c0m congrats!!!!!

[@jasper654]

@@aslan.c0m Great for you! Glad you where able to find yourself. Remember, you'll always be Valid af💯💯💯

[@rebma8829]

I'm pretty lucky because I always knew my family would accept me. Still, coming out was extremely scary, and this song catches this feeling so well. Thank you for that!

[@orion8091]

I-i..I have no words for how hard this hit the feels

[@UngodlyAmountsOfFruitSnacks]

I'm openly pansexual and supported by friends and some family. To all of those yet to come out: there's no rush, everything will happen in time, take time to love yourself and don't care what others think I love you all xoxo

[@respectalgebra]

i can tell by the flag x

[@UngodlyAmountsOfFruitSnacks]

@@pieproductionstv4886 ok xoxo

[@UngodlyAmountsOfFruitSnacks]

@@pieproductionstv4886 lol, did you come on here just to spread hate

[@someone1527]

I come out to both of my parents, but my mom says that I’m too young to know it that well. I’m a big lesbian

[@UngodlyAmountsOfFruitSnacks]

@@someone1527 well I think everyone is too young to label themselves, labels shouldn't matter, all that matters is that you feel happy If you'd like to label yourself then good for you If I'm being honest, I'm still trying to figure out my sexuality a bit Anyway love ya xoxo

[@muskaanrajpal3203]

Do you by any chance happen to know the chords of this song?

[@muskaanrajpal3203]

Your cover is amazing by the way!

[@IGameYouName]

Muskaan Rajpal The original creator, Jake Edwards, tells the chords I think. Just search on KZbin, “Jake Edwards a song about coming out” it should pop up Sorry for commenting late

[@nicoflanagan8780]

"softer footsteps, pretending i don't feel a thing" that hit hard.

[@littlelillies3656]

“Nothing’s gonna be the same” The crushing fear that the world around you will fall apart if you come out, because some numb, realistic part of you knows they will hate you

[@randomperson2777]

*In case anyone needs this daily reminder: Remember to breathe. You may not be or feel ok at the moment, but you will be. Remember that. So, for the time being, just take a minute to take a step back, relax and breathe. Please & thank you.* 😌💕

[@Sag3dd]

This song made me feel so comfortable and understand, I told myself I was gonna do it and chickened out almost every time.

[@Seth-lq3uw]

Yep that’s me everytime

[@Racoon777]

This video/ song means a lot to me. It holds so many memories and feelings. I keep finding it every few months

[@emme5686]

This is so cute!!!!! i love how people aren't afraid to show who they really want to be

[@Happywaffle1010]

Emily Kocher most people watching this are scared to come out heck I’m scared to come out but yes this is awesome

[@Happywaffle1010]

Finally someone says how I feel word for word

[@spencerr9412]

ive listened to this for years and it needs to be on spotify

[@FinnickJason]

REAL

[@pbmakesmusicandstuff]

I’ve been listening to this for over a year now and I agree we need it on Spotify

[@yesno2189]

I listen to this every night before I go to sleep, and I’m just preparing for the worst and hoping for the best when I come out eventually

[@kiraa9201]

I just came out to my mom like 10 mins ago (it went really good) and now this is on my recommended. KZbin KNOWS

[@Gyverno_le_artist]

If the nightcore version is this slow then the original must be very slow tempo! I love it, thank you

[@carlaoria7319]

I came out to my parents some days ago as a pansexual. My mom and dad told me that it's up to me but I can tell that they didn't took it seriously. Sometimes I just want to be a plant.

[@JKing666]

a plant? hmm what kind of plant?

[@youtubeaddicted1221]

Ooooo~ I will take care of you and water you and make sure you have plenty of sunlight!

[@juloris2]

The simplicity is appealing

[@giraffespecial2030]

What plant I need to know

[@kingexplosionmurder984]

"its a phase!" "This is because of the people you hang out" "Your to young!" "You can't be gay if you've never dated a girl before" "I refuse for my son to be gay"

[@tylerbrink9571]

Eventually you will break through this wall of unacceptance and be able to be whatever you want to be and find someone who truly cares for you and loves you for who you are. So here's a message, Be who you want to be and if people don't like it, its because they're the ones who aren't normal like you. Live your life to the fullest and keep being yourself, no matter what others think.

[@mickymaynard3306]

That is the words of a unsupportive parent and most parents just don't get it my dad was exactly like that when I came out as gay when I was 10 years old

[@kaylah9521]

I've been told all of those things....

[@Daniellepire]

@@kaylah9521 I think who ever told you those was trying to say "your are amazing and I support you" and if not I'm telling you this now!

[@weee2861]

this