Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin

[@prettybrowneyes313]

There is so much to unpack. Where do I being: 1. They are listening to each other (actively). 2. They affirm each others opinions/thoughts. 3. They are not yelling/speaking aggressively. 4. They see each other. 5. They compromise.

[@malcdogg412]

this list is what strength and love look like. thanks for breaking it down

[@camillewatts5395]

Yes yes yes!!!!! It was refreshing to see! 😊

[@Hybrid_vigour]

They are both homosexuals pretending to be straight.

[@TruthfullySpeaking500]

These are two educated adults. Then internet is overwhelmed by children and that's the kind of content we consume daily.

[@taufeeqfakir7270]

The best thing a man and woman can do. Sit down across from each other and be civilised in their disagreement, in order to grasp the reality of the situation.

[@adedoyin3336]

Taufeeq Fakir provided the woman respect the husband and the husband love the wife . once that’s out of the way, everything else is possible and Most importantly, Understand each other’s love languages .

[@joi12345678]

Well reality surely isn’t lying about your happiness.

[@artosbear]

@@adedoyin3336 love languages is a thing made by a misogynistic white supremacist preacher purposefully to enforce nuclear family BS and also to make a ton of money.

[@omarley6584]

Best comment 👌

[@davidpouncy8471]

@@joi12345678 Now that was my POWERFUL !! WHO WANTS SOMEONE TO BE FAKE AND PHONY WITH THEM !! What this woman is doing which I dont respect is equivalent to a man asking a woman to fake a orgasm !! Who does it BENEFIT your both still EMPTY living a LIE !!

[@jcanthony16]

“Because i love you i get least of you, I get the very minimum “ that hit me

[@shawnmichael1083]

It hit me too

[@jarrelljohnson1313]

It hurts to hear that..I see things I can do better as a husband ..wow powerful

[@mark1658]

It's also a lie. She doesn't want more, she wants all.

[@jpford8506]

❤

[@kiecutielove2923]

Hit me in gut and heart

[@bluesbulletin]

She is so beautiful.

[@sebastianbolt7886]

In and out, ♥️✊🏿

[@cliftonhicks9736]

Lol, she said "of course he doesn't know your unhappy with him you grin at him all day"

[@terrencegriffin6812]

My God Yes

[@markiseking1969]

She said “The rent has to get paid” omg she is soooo strong!!

[@gilltuiyot]

“Ofc u can lie to me” damn

[@lottietucker3082]

The Queen has spoken. This is the first time I ever saw Baldwin at a lost for words. He's usually the one dominating a debate. Nikki said I love my brother but I'm going to have the floor today. Watch me go off. Lol. I'm in love with these type of black minds.

[@frederickwilliams955]

I don't think it was a loss for words it was a logical response and she didn't understand it because she was in her feelings about it. This was an awesome convo of Feelings and logic at it's best.

[@aoifghfbrbeaubidjksn3533]

@@frederickwilliams955 whatever makes you feel better about being the most conquered men on Earth

[@albundy8192]

that is because she has hope and wants things to improve as they have done. he still has hate and anger and a chip and wants thing not to change for all. he wants the white people of 1971 to go through what black people did up until then.

[@lottietucker3082]

@@albundy8192 Yea, I don't think that's the case. If that's what he wanted, he sure as hell didn't want it for the white men that he exclusively dated. I am not sure what country you live in, but things in America have not changed much at all for race relations. It was just hidden. 2016 showed every one how much animosity was still there, and will always be there. You cannot be upset with the traumatized, especially if it is not your trauma. It sounds like you have a chip on your should about people who have chips on their shoulders. Its a never ending thing I guess.

[@WorldTravelandExcursions]

She was living in a dream world.

[@cierralewis3650]

I love how she affirms him. “You are smart enough and you are sensitive enough “ this conversation was 🔥

[@sqwale7]

This means nothing it's her method of disarming her opponent.

[@Amen0507]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@emekaokonkwo626]

That is what affirmation looks. like?

[@youWrightbxh]

@@sqwale7why can it not be both?

[@RaffineDebauche]

It’s manipulation. She’s saying that so she can get her way. She wants her imaginary world, in which her man that fakes it with her and gets fired for being real at work, magically finds a way to pay the rent. It’s manipulative and childish because women like her are the same ones that complain when the bills aren’t getting paid. Then it’s BE A MAN AND GET A JOB!

[@Malibukenn]

“The price of the rent is my smile.” It’s still that real out here today.

[@shanielswaby3591]

can you explain to me what this line meant?

[@damondavis8142]

She's saying that he fakes a smile all day with his white boss at work, so why can't she get that same smile instead of the anger and frustration. He pretends to be meek and agreeable around white people. He says that fake meekness is how he manages to keep the job and provide for them. That fake smile pays their rent.

[@phillipmoore2577]

@@shanielswaby3591Baldwin was talking about needing to work to provide for his wife and kids (e.g., get paid so he can pay rent). he needs to smile at work - essentially appease his employers - in order to do this. but it’s a performance, a taxing one. but also, in his view, a necessary one so that he can continue being employed and provide for his family. hence why his smile is the price for the rent.

[@rongibbs76]

@@shanielswaby3591 if you don't "play the game" you don't eat

[@SonOvNone]

They call it code switching now, which is in decline post pandemic….thankfully

[@AmberShockley]

The joy of watching two supremely intelligent people in conversation is so edifying.

[@kcdash8274]

Because I Love You, I get the least of You! Powerful!! Just shifted my whole relationship.

[@dondrejohnson1124]

Powerful yet sits in our ignoring parts of are eyes yet present in our energy

[@rhazesdark]

She broke my heart when she said that. Changed my whole perspective for the rest of my life the first time i heard this.

[@dondrejohnson1124]

@@rhazesdark but that's what women go through 🤷

[@denellwest]

I said that to my mother when I was 7 years old. She didn't think what I told her was so profound. She just didn't care 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@kcdash8274]

@@denellwest that's crazy my brother! She was probably going through her own personal growth! I wish you well! Stay strong and positive!!

[@lifeofalady]

"You are capable and intelligent enough to create a new system..." Queen Giovanni is awesome

[@MsMyRush]

This.

[@RaffineDebauche]

But how long is she going to stick around, after he got fired, while he creates this new system? It sounds good but how realistic is it?

[@CaptSlim]

This entire conversation can be applied today. Such a beautiful conversation between adults

[@marcohghar]

I couldn’t agree more!

[@DedsecEric]

You are obviously correct. But, this leads me to wonder, as I see similar types of comments all the time... Why would one expect it couldn't be applied today? Or, somehow be surprised at how it can be applied today? Why do so many people find the sustained relevance even notable? Is it just that society's sense of progress is skewed by the world we see around us? Yes, we are surrounded by technological advances. Yes, everything has a different coating of paint and humans wear a different coating of clothes. Yes, the broken systems of past generations have grown into further broken systems. But, humanity does not evolve at this pace, many aspects don't change at all (or, at least they haven't yet). Perhaps people are so hopeful of leaving society's past behind, they don't realize we are merely continuing it... extending it.

[@kiecutielove2923]

Facts!

[@UrbanGoldStar]

Conversation like this is my aphrodisiac. Most men can’t put the ego aside long enough to hear her but she speaks what most are afraid to speak. You can’t even satisfy my body if these kind of chats ain’t happening. I love this!❤🖤💚

[@leslieevans3259]

I checked my ego so long ago. Powerful message from Ms. Giovanni! ❤

[@RaffineDebauche]

What did you hear her saying? Because it sounded very childlike and naive to me. Do you believe she’d be happy with her man getting fired because he stopped smiling at work so he could put on a performance for her? And her saying, he’s smart enough to figure something out sounds like she couldn’t put HER ego aside and understand the unrealistic nature of what she was asking for. Imagine a man that doesn’t make much money telling his woman that he wants her to stay at home and take care of the kids…and he’ll figure something out when it comes to the bills. Does that fly without him having a CONCRETE plan that she can understand? I doubt it. So her saying it without a similar plan shouldn’t fly either.

[@ahsfr]

Absolutely ❤❤❤

[@viwenyati3529]

The wisdom of her intelligent reasoning is aspirational.

[@suzyque1279]

The fact that he is gay makes this conversation a little insincere to me, pointless even. He can do nothing for her as "his woman" and he's not speaking for all man and he cannot speak to her in that way. It doesn't fall right. Sorry to offend but I'm not being small minded or judgemental I just thought it was a wasted conversation, generally.

[@mjohnson00333]

This interview make me wanna be a better man. I have listen 5+ times and bottom line is we can keep letting our women down. They have caught the frowna and rhe anger. Enough with that!!

[@aalayacooper2948]

mjohnson00333 such a great statement she made there. I wouldn’t say “lie to me.” I’d say, “love me enough to not give me your worst and last.”

[@mjg6233]

Stop to many women think like they never the problem

[@mjohnson00333]

@@mjg6233 tru, but we (men) must focus on self. When we are better, ,,, they will follow.

[@neicypickens3264]

You have it in you to be a better man

[@mjohnson00333]

@@neicypickens3264 queen!!! ✊🏾✊🏾❤️

[@gracesawyer2568]

Why are you going to be truthful with me , when you lie to everyone else?! Those words are everything in a marriage, that really got me.

[@dondrejohnson1124]

🗣️🗣️Hello!!!

[@ronniebrent]

Don't give your boss and your job all the fake smiles and come home with a frown on your face leave some smiles and lies for her too!! She doesn't care if you're lying just be pleasant and jovial

[@denellwest]

Real men work to take care of themselves not date and copulate. Procreation is for the emotionally weak and fragile. You are your own soulmate. Not any female. There is no paradise without sacrifice. ☮

[@temurtopuria6808]

I don't know if it's my love for poetry or soft spoken folk, but watching and listening to these two has brought joy to my heart-knowing that everything can be fixed and resolved if we only listen to one another.

[@keshagreer6835]

I listen to this all the time I think this should be placed in every social studies class lol

[@silenceofharmony]

It is the warmest conversation i have ever heard. Both of them are a gift for humanity!🙏

[@bacongrits4155]

This is what healthy conflict looks like in a relationship💯

[@MoorenaEl]

Nikki is THE TRUTH. Paycheck voice. Have a filter with me. Treat me like if you lose me, you'll lose everything. That's how you feel about your job. Everything is done backwards. Love your WOMAN. it's called... RESPECT

[@micaelacollins934]

I love how you phrased the conversation!!❤

[@marvinwright7656]

Probably the deepest & most emotional conversation between a black woman & black man I’ve ever watched.. breath taking.

[@montgomerymccastle4155]

This was a genuine all or nothing woman that is willing to pull the best out of her man. The Rent Will Get Paid. That's deep. Holla back.

[@user-Ados-amerika]

What a golden archive of knowledge I miss my real black when she had real hair down and brown not that Nicki Minaj Lil Kim bullshiter wearning a weave down today ask

[@christolwilson]

Dad smiled at Mom❤ that was beautiful

[@denellwest]

Real men work to take care of themselves not date and copulate. Procreation is for the emotionally weak and fragile. You are your own soulmate. Not any female. There is no paradise without sacrifice. ☮

[@juneelle370]

Hope you get some help.

[@jasonstevens3071]

I absolutely LOVE how open Baldwin is to this new idea she introduced to him. Generally, people immediately reject foreign ideas that challenge what they’ve always believed to be true. But here, he seems intrigued at the this new thing that he has never before considered. He was such a genuine soul, listening to understand. And Nikki is gentle and kind, but at the same time bold and brilliant. This was such an exhilarating exchange! I have to watch the whole thing now! ❤💯

[@RaffineDebauche]

I don’t think it was a new idea to him. I think he understood what she was saying as a gay man and what he sometimes wants from other men. But I think he was balancing that with the reality of getting through life. It’s the difference between the head and the heart. Nikki was speaking from the heart, which he understood, but he was more committed to thinking with his head.

[@lindacosta5688]

Nikki is so talented and beautiful At 80 years old she’s still amazing

[@amberl5046]

She's so right and this conversation is still a current worry within the black community.

[@niggaflies]

@Amber L, So true but every community does this! You have to smile for your wife and also at work too! I’ve seen people in other races be nasty at work but be nice to their wives. You have be an emotional rock for your family!

[@RaffineDebauche]

@@niggafliesAnd how does that play out? A lot of times, it ends with that man cheating with a woman that he can just relax around. She won’t even be as pretty as his wife, but he can take the cape off around her. EVERYONE needs space to decompress. If women don’t give their man that space because they want to live in a fairytale, he’ll find it somewhere else.

[@ricocargill2216]

She has a very complex, beautiful, energetic, worm, deep, honest, and thoughtful soul. She is a gracious image of God.

[@ggthanks]

I love this dialogue. This hits home.

[@chileshe5294]

I always find myself coming back to this.

[@oluwoleolusola8925]

Two very intelligent people. I can listen to them all day.

[@justesmond]

Can we just marvel at the cinematography/camera work? They turned 2 (maybe 3) cameras into absolute gold with all the various angles and shots they were getting. Masterful.

[@terrellmaryland12345]

The price of the rent is my smile!!!!

[@3v3ryBaddi3sGotAStory]

I love this conversation and how they articulated themselves; artistic expression. It was dope hearing their vintage lingo lol; jiving, groovy cat, he's a "gas" 😏. But I also felt the pain in her expression and his; she wants him to pour into her even if he must fake it, and he wants her to understand why it's difficult. I understood both side's, what I will say is, if he can fake it at work for a paycheck it should be easy to smile and be loving at home - 'cause that's where the heart is...or should be. Giovanni expressed to Baldwin, how black women take on their spouse's frustrations and anger from work, when it should be love and happiness. Black men's rage from discrimination on the job transfers over into a beating up of the black woman, and sometimes in front of the kid's. It seems many men and women haven't been taught how to positively project their energy, due to childhood wounds, and social conditioning amongst other factors.

[@TheCityDweller1]

Well said 🩷

[@Waytooruf]

I have watched this video 100x and everytime I watch Nikki G beg for just the slightest hint of love from her black king it brings tears to my eyes b/c I can understand both sides... ✊🏿⚡

[@scarlethottie3955]

Black men hate black women today.

[@danadennis3772]

Exactly this was such a profound interview because I’m seeing where both sides makes sense

[@user-ff7fg5hu1x]

@@scarlethottie3955 that's such a lie

[@Mr.Oct___]

She's not asking for love...She's asking for unwavering commitment...To his woman, to his family. Even if it tears pieces of life from him. She wants all of him. Hips resiliance & creativity...his deepest brilliance....thru the commitment of his presence. What She's asking for, is his soul...His Whole soul.. . As a matter of survival.

[@Waytooruf]

@@Mr.Oct___ I don't disagree with your statement either.. But how do you get unwavering comment without love? So we are both correct! #Hotep

[@jasonrayhumphries8196]

I just discovered Soul! At 44 and Ms. Giovanni in the same year. In the past year I've made more discoveries that lead me to corner myself and make new assumptions about everything I ever was taught or thought I knew. Leading me to understand the older I get the less I know and in doing so I loose a false sense of education and grasp a real understanding of spiritual enlightenment. Thank you Mr. baldwen.. Ms. Giovanni and Mr.Haizlip for pushing black arts to what it is today and for what it will mean to the youth of future generations. In a time when mental health in the black community was non-existent or talked about I wonder if the viewers of this them knew that this was exactly what they were hearing in a honest, civil and unapologetic insightful conversation of the pivotal moment when feminism pointed out that Masculism not toxic masculinity was the issue as it was then and still is now. I never graduated highschool but I was blessed to grow up with the disruptor called the Internet and the free will inherit in all human beings that are not born into or a direct product of slavery to be able to seek out and learn how powerful this is.

[@camillewatts5395]

This was such a beautiful STRONG intelligent OPEN conversation!!! I wish in 2024 people were more open to having these types of discussions! This fed my soul! Grateful for this being recorded!🙏🏾‼️🤍

[@sassygreen5024]

Go out in the world and be treated like crap and smile through it all day.. Get home and frown when being treated with love.... See what she saying dont come home to me mad when i treat yiu better when i love you i as a black woman HAVE THE POWER TO HEAL YOU EVERY NIGHT SO U CAN FIGHT ANOTHER DAY. YET U HAVE TO NURRISH ME SO I CAN HAVE THAT POWER TO HEAL YOU EVERYNIGHT.

[@TheForkOnTheLeftist]

Sounds like you want the man to do all the work. If I have to work and keep up a facade even when I get home, how is my woman my peace? Literally no escape. Sounds like slave labor to keep a woman who's doing next to nothing for you happy. Sounds like the type of request a modern black woman would make tbh

[@gwenbrown8679]

Does he not understand the same fake smile he has to perform to, is the same smile that she has to perform to also!!!

[@wokewooxia7688]

Back then many of the women were housewives.

[@felixicon]

Trickle down

[@JD-ny3vz]

He does he says so several times in the same interview. He's trying to say while it's terrible those black men back then felt they had no release for their anger besides their families.

[@love70730]

Woke Wooxia many white women were housewives. Not black women, many black women were never afforded the privilege to be housewives. That is a myth made up by black people who romanticize , and revise the past. The black household in America has never been stable financially speaking to survive on a singular income. Maybe in small pockets but not overall.

[@Epic4Evr1990]

Sunny95 Love Hello🙌🏾 one of my great grandmothers was a nurse in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s and my other great grandmother was a cook for a white doctor who’s wife was a housewife. Black women worked

[@ka.morgan7376]

Her smile. Her words. Lie to me. That resonated with me.

[@denellwest]

Real men work to take care of themselves not date and copulate. Procreation is for the emotionally weak and fragile. You are your own soulmate. Not any female. There is no paradise without sacrifice. ☮

[@paulm1178]

@@denellwest You lost me at real men...The saying "No man is an island" exists for a reason. Otherwise, be a hermit or a monk up in the mountain.

[@denellwest]

@@paulm1178 🤔😱🤨😂👌🏾👍🏽💯💪🏽✌🏽

[@Zuentax]

​​​​​@@denellwestthis applies to yourself also, love yourself, dont judge yourself.. she won the argument and thats rare for females these days but she won.. and I am attracted😂 she's genius..

[@RAPierce]

I.👏🏾 LOVE.👏🏾 THIS!!!👏🏾 This is such a powerful conversation and we need to have more civil discourses like this and bring the Black family back together!🖤✊🏾 We must!!

[@denellwest]

Real men work to take care of themselves not date and copulate. Procreation is for the emotionally weak and fragile. You are your own soulmate. Not any female. There is no paradise without sacrifice. ☮

[@empress4965]

🙄🙄🙄

[@empress4965]

I really feel sorry for black women like you

[@RAPierce]

@@empress4965 Good thing I could care less.😉 Why do you think you or your feelings matter - much less, to me? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@justtrust426]

Oh how we need more conversations like this family We still must wear the smile.

[@suzyque1279]

That's by choice. Be genial, be friendly. No need for the watermelon grin but I guess some of us are so used to it. That's on us. I've seen too many of us, especially the men become meek and docile around white folk in particular. Not a good look.

[@shevrianobillet7981]

She made him listen, without telling him to shut up. Beautiful ❤️

[@Autumn-zd9nq]

Most of us do but you don’t respect us when we are soft on you.

[@Sene_-wf2py]

@@Autumn-zd9nq that’s not true

[@rdkirk3834]

She was speaking emotionally, but rationally.

[@RagingButtafly23]

I so love what she said... it rings so true... i never thought I would be in a situation wanting someone to fake love me.

[@HerLavender]

This 🙏🏾

[@sedricjones5987]

This is realist idea about any relationship. Both their rebuttals were on point. You want me to lie but I can’t perform twice.

[@dazinghaze]

You dont hurt those that you love bottom line. No matter how bad the day your mate or your child should not be the victim. Those are the ones you should turn to with open arms and LOVE. Not the enemies on the outer world that hate and despise your breath of existence.

[@taufeeqfakir7270]

I think, on the contrary, the ones you love are the ones you do hurt. Not by intention, of course.

[@texassunflower]

Exactly.

[@erjohnjohn]

So true, 💯 points

[@feionamaxwell2337]

If you believe that, you will find yourself hurt. They will hurt you the most bcuz you are deeply invested. People we don’t care abt can say things and it won’t hurt us, but a love on says it and it hurts the most. I look at it biblically...the people Jesus loved crucified him. We hurt God daily, so is He suppose to stop loving us. Love is knowing forgiveness and you might as well give it because you will need it.

[@gl6996]

I saw this on SOUL! This is SOUL FOOD ✊🏾 I love how they subtly went into role play. HOT DAMN!!! 🔥🔥🔥❤️

[@meltweezie]

This is the realest, most accurate piece of African American struggle of the post civil rights era.

[@blueeyes8245]

2:17 "if you're on welfare, he won't eat if I am there; that's the law"...let that sink in

[@micaelacollins934]

I think I get it, but so you mind explaining?!

[@anaihilator]

Yeah nawl. Stop with the bs. Most black women on welfare in the 60s were married women whose men abandoned them Laws agaisnt men in the house were there to prevent derelict men who had already had a family or 2 or 3 they had abandoned from laying up in a woman's home that thr govt subsidized

[@roxie2824]

I am so in love with this dialogue

[@iamdrizz58]

I remember either listening or watching them converse when I was younger and at 43 I’m just fully understanding their dialogue. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@leslieevans3259]

This conversation is much needed & powerful.

[@soulscience8969]

This woman opened my eyes. Thank you, lady 🙏

[@jamarrennals198]

I have been watching this for years.. I love it still today and forever.

[@erickenglish1799]

Next level conversations that we as blk ppl need to have in order to elevate!!!

[@terri4249]

" As long as the assumuptions are the same, nothing will change. We must corner ourselves to make new assumptions." POWERFUL!!!

[@sai-codes]

what an amazing genuine conversation

[@user-Ados-amerika]

Hot diggity dog what a golden archive a black man in a black woman real black woman having a conversation either one of them putting each other funeral home

[@MrTwonetwone]

I agree with everything she said except “the rent will get paid” who tf gonna pay it? 😂

[@anaihilator]

You. Get yo ass out and a get a job

[@Suited-immer]

damn I love these kind of conversation. real talk of facts in a respectful way.

[@MyMentorGreyfox]

My favorite part was when James stepped out of character and said "I DONT WANT YOU TO PROSTITUTE..." I felt that one

[@user-Ados-amerika]

That's what I'm talkin about back-in-the-day a real black look at that hair that's why I was at natural the way God intended it not that Nicki Minaj bulshit wearing fake Vietnamese hair weaves that's how I wanted my when I was growing up and I have no helmet enough I was hoping that one day I would have my first black girlfriend and that she well it didn't

[@shakeliadunk]

I watch this whole hour long conversation years ago and it’s still one of my favorite between a man and woman and my favorite authors

[@lweendomoonojr.1889]

How did even get here, its addictive 😂😂

[@ricocargill2216]

Two of my most favorite people in the intellectual space.

[@Donnell-i8n]

She was very beautiful and spoke the truth!!!!

[@JAZZLlFE]

I could listen to these two people talk all day If I could.

[@kingsupreme25]

Damn she's beautiful...her face and voice just makes me smile

[@rubaa.2732]

Not sure why I feel this conversation in my soul 😔

[@jomene1125]

The "you must, you must" that she said was very powerful it's as though her voice was breaking as she was saying it

[@realra1111]

I love this interview, I watch it plenty time just for the heaven of it

[@tonier.3872]

"Amazing WHAT A Fantastic Speech SUCH A Delicious Magnificent Treat MR. J. Baldwin AND MS. N. Giovanni, Poetic... LOVE THIS, Classic PEACE,😯😍😁📸📺📻🎙️🍰📖😯😍😁📸📺📻🎙️🍰📖

[@romaerb4161]

Thank you for sharing a Conversation!!!!

[@I_amthomasmiles]

The most Beautiful convo I’ve seen on Today.

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

A sexy grown conversation..this is so epic #classic 🔥🔥

[@leighatl3277]

Beautiful conversation. I wish I was there in the room ❤

[@iamdrizz58]

That was a beautiful dialogue between 2 intelligent people.

[@ScavengersReign920]

"Hush now don't explain"🥺

[@teebofreestyles1000]

Love her passion and attitude towards the world and how it was and maybe how it still is

[@nuztyme675]

I love the way they hear each other and try to understand… no loud talking, no shaming, no antics. The podcasters today that focus on relationships need to take notes. There style makes my head hurt. here’s a better way to dialogue for greater unity and understanding between AA men and women.

[@adedoyin3336]

Matthew 6:25-33 New International Version (NIV) Do Not Worry 25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life[a]?

[@denellwest]

Real men work to take care of themselves not date and copulate. Procreation is for the emotionally weak and fragile. You are your own soulmate. Not any female. There is no paradise without sacrifice. ☮

[@ojuice54]

Who’s here from Night Cap?

[@justesmond]

🤚🤚🤚

[@TheOriginalScorpioBelle]

It’s so heartbreaking to hear a man say he can’t smile to the person who loves him the most. Because he’s been knowingly fake smiling for people who don’t love him. How don’t you understand the difference between the fake and the real. Feeding what feeds you.

[@suzyque1279]

Black Folk need to learn to be genially pleasant and not bring out the big watermelon smile everybody's come to expect. Who's asking him to grin all day at work? Just be pleasant and genial.

[@Smubanga]

Came here after Vince Staples used this part as an interlude 'Lies.'

[@adayinthelight7575]

This is a beautiful convo.

[@Nyanchama_]

a beautiful conversation

[@dawavy3593]

This changed my perspective 100%

[@Onkarr]

So profound and the same struggles exist(ed) for the South Asians in Britain (England)

[@MalachiJustice-x1e]

These are the conversations that we must have today

[@jerellwatkins230]

2021 baby she still going strong❤💚💛🌹

[@rongibbs76]

We need more of this TODAY!!!

[@mmartin5579]

"That lie to me" hit hard.

[@kiecutielove2923]

I felt every word she spoke. The sad part is that this still is needed. A woman, especially a black woman, is suppose to be a soft place for her man and family to land but she never has a soft place for herself to land..ijs

[@Rickelsonnih]

TAKE HEART- there are many loving, and endearing relationships - just as we have witness in this vid with Niki and Jimmy - between fathers and daughters (respectively). Between mentor and the one mentored. Between partners in love, and in business. Seek it, find it. It makes everything in your respective lives lives - sustainably BETTER.

[@BrothaEnock]

When it was black man and woman and not black man VS black woman. Love this convo

[@geeva99]

One of the best chat of all times, and after that Nikki was appearing more regularly on soul!

[@ceoselfthemogul]

Amazing. Absolutely Amazing.

[@kck2303]

I love that I’m able to converse with brothas like this, it’s an amazing thing❤.

[@huiashadrock]

She is amazing, how enlightening!!

[@adedoyin3336]

Damn, that man accent sound like west African mixed with a taint of british accent.

[@miraclegirl14]

Probably close to the transatlantic accent

[@purpleness64]

Love these two so deep

[@Max3000ism]

I love this! Very eye opening

[@asandakhathi]

She looks EXACTLY like Beyonce when she tilts her head and smiles. It's crazy

[@adamsyacouba2608]

Excuse me !!! Beyonce looks like her when she tilts her head… Never the other way around.

[@candy4087]

​@@adamsyacouba2608😂😂

[@thevictoriam]

Nikki Giovanni Oh my God, I'm in love with her thoughts, her computing and her decernment!

[@timdella92]

His accent though. He really is an orator. He managed to hone that transatlantic accent.

[@pc8679]

Too bad she didn't meet a guy like me. I give hell at work but I'm all smiles at home. I totally get what she's saying. Be a man don't be a coward.